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Active Uncertainty: Trust-Falls into the Unknown | Daria Gonzalez | TEDxOnBoard


hi guys really nice to see in here and

hi guys really nice to see in here and I’m super terrified but I’m just gonna

I’m super terrified but I’m just gonna

I’m super terrified but I’m just gonna jump right in when I was 10 I had a best

jump right in when I was 10 I had a best

jump right in when I was 10 I had a best friend and him and I used to play this

friend and him and I used to play this

friend and him and I used to play this favorite game of ours every day who

favorite game of ours every day who

favorite game of ours every day who would spend several hours just

would spend several hours just

would spend several hours just pretending like we’re someone else

pretending like we’re someone else

pretending like we’re someone else we were firefighters or spent a day as

we were firefighters or spent a day as

we were firefighters or spent a day as the doctors or become famous rock stars

the doctors or become famous rock stars

the doctors or become famous rock stars and we’ll always dreamt that in a matter

and we’ll always dreamt that in a matter

and we’ll always dreamt that in a matter of a lifetime we will be able to achieve

of a lifetime we will be able to achieve

of a lifetime we will be able to achieve all of our dreams and it always felt so

all of our dreams and it always felt so

all of our dreams and it always felt so long that we would have enough time to

long that we would have enough time to

long that we would have enough time to do everything that we always wanted my

do everything that we always wanted my

do everything that we always wanted my friend died when he was 11 he died in a

friend died when he was 11 he died in a

friend died when he was 11 he died in a car crash and he didn’t have much time

car crash and he didn’t have much time

car crash and he didn’t have much time he didn’t have any time to do anything

he didn’t have any time to do anything

he didn’t have any time to do anything that he wanted and I thought how much

that he wanted and I thought how much

that he wanted and I thought how much time will I have losing him at this age

time will I have losing him at this age

time will I have losing him at this age was very very painful and especially

was very very painful and especially

was very very painful and especially because I didn’t have any friends when I

because I didn’t have any friends when I

because I didn’t have any friends when I was a child my family was poor poor to

was a child my family was poor poor to

was a child my family was poor poor to the extent that I had to steal wallets

the extent that I had to steal wallets

the extent that I had to steal wallets from people on the streets and my

from people on the streets and my

from people on the streets and my parents used to switch jobs and

parents used to switch jobs and

parents used to switch jobs and professions who would travel switched

professions who would travel switched

professions who would travel switched geographies and my childhood pretty much

geographies and my childhood pretty much

geographies and my childhood pretty much prepared me for uncertainty with every

prepared me for uncertainty with every

prepared me for uncertainty with every new place I never knew how long I’m

new place I never knew how long I’m

new place I never knew how long I’m going to stay there or what’s going to

going to stay there or what’s going to

going to stay there or what’s going to be the next spot but what I really

be the next spot but what I really

be the next spot but what I really always knew was that I always wanted to

always knew was that I always wanted to

always knew was that I always wanted to become an entrepreneur of my own life I

become an entrepreneur of my own life I

become an entrepreneur of my own life I was given a notion of success that in

was given a notion of success that in

was given a notion of success that in order to succeed you got to pick one

order to succeed you got to pick one

order to succeed you got to pick one profession you get a stick to it be the

profession you get a stick to it be the

profession you get a stick to it be the best at it and that’s how you succeed as

best at it and that’s how you succeed as

best at it and that’s how you succeed as children often times were given

children often times were given

children often times were given frameworks of success by our parents by

frameworks of success by our parents by

frameworks of success by our parents by society by common knowledge but

society by common knowledge but

society by common knowledge but frameworks they put you in the box and I

frameworks they put you in the box and I

frameworks they put you in the box and I didn’t want to be in the box the

didn’t want to be in the box the

didn’t want to be in the box the frameworks give you a path of someone

frameworks give you a path of someone

frameworks give you a path of someone else’s life

else’s life

else’s life and I wanted to create my own path given

and I wanted to create my own path given

and I wanted to create my own path given all the uncertainty that I was

all the uncertainty that I was

all the uncertainty that I was constantly facing and also not knowing

constantly facing and also not knowing

constantly facing and also not knowing what I’m going to do next and how much

what I’m going to do next and how much

what I’m going to do next and how much time do I have to fulfill all of my

time do I have to fulfill all of my

time do I have to fulfill all of my dreams I decided that I have to start

dreams I decided that I have to start

dreams I decided that I have to start doing it as soon as possible so I

doing it as soon as possible so I

doing it as soon as possible so I graduated and worked as architect I was

graduated and worked as architect I was

graduated and worked as architect I was go-go dancer in several nightclubs in

go-go dancer in several nightclubs in

go-go dancer in several nightclubs in Berlin I was a drummer and a psychedelic

Berlin I was a drummer and a psychedelic

Berlin I was a drummer and a psychedelic rock band in Barcelona I build a pirate

rock band in Barcelona I build a pirate

rock band in Barcelona I build a pirate radio station on the ship floating in

radio station on the ship floating in

radio station on the ship floating in Mediterranean Sea I lunch the business

Mediterranean Sea I lunch the business

Mediterranean Sea I lunch the business and music I traveled all over Europe

and music I traveled all over Europe

and music I traveled all over Europe lunching music festivals I was graphic

lunching music festivals I was graphic

lunching music festivals I was graphic designer street artist professional

designer street artist professional

designer street artist professional actress launched a business and travel

actress launched a business and travel

actress launched a business and travel industry became journalist traveled all

industry became journalist traveled all

industry became journalist traveled all over Siberia with a herd of reindeer

over Siberia with a herd of reindeer

over Siberia with a herd of reindeer breeders and then I turned 22

at that year I met this amazing guy it

at that year I met this amazing guy it was a five-minute encounter but it was

was a five-minute encounter but it was

was a five-minute encounter but it was very meaningful he was very young he

very meaningful he was very young he

very meaningful he was very young he wore this amazing amazing suit and

wore this amazing amazing suit and

wore this amazing amazing suit and everyone would always listen to him he

everyone would always listen to him he

everyone would always listen to him he would travel all over the world giving

would travel all over the world giving

would travel all over the world giving advice as to all of those businesses and

advice as to all of those businesses and

advice as to all of those businesses and corporations that I was so inspired by

corporations that I was so inspired by

corporations that I was so inspired by and I thought well that’s the next life

and I thought well that’s the next life

and I thought well that’s the next life I want to live so I came up to him and I

I want to live so I came up to him and I

I want to live so I came up to him and I asked him what are you what did you do

asked him what are you what did you do

asked him what are you what did you do to achieve all of this and he told me

to achieve all of this and he told me

to achieve all of this and he told me well I got my MBA degree from London

well I got my MBA degree from London

well I got my MBA degree from London Business School at the time my English

Business School at the time my English

Business School at the time my English was not good and I heard MBA instead of

was not good and I heard MBA instead of

was not good and I heard MBA instead of MBA so I kept telling everyone that I’m

MBA so I kept telling everyone that I’m

MBA so I kept telling everyone that I’m going to go to the United States and

going to go to the United States and

going to go to the United States and that they have amazing NBA programs in

that they have amazing NBA programs in

that they have amazing NBA programs in there until my mom actually told me

there until my mom actually told me

there until my mom actually told me Daria you’re not tall enough to play

Daria you’re not tall enough to play

Daria you’re not tall enough to play basketball so I googled I sent my

basketball so I googled I sent my

basketball so I googled I sent my documents to Stanford just GSB got

documents to Stanford just GSB got

documents to Stanford just GSB got accepted and now I’m an investor in

accepted and now I’m an investor in

accepted and now I’m an investor in Silicon Valley four years ago I didn’t

Silicon Valley four years ago I didn’t

Silicon Valley four years ago I didn’t even know what the word venture capital

even know what the word venture capital

even know what the word venture capital was or what investing was in general but

was or what investing was in general but

was or what investing was in general but all the experiences and professions and

all the experiences and professions and

all the experiences and professions and skills that I got throughout my whole

skills that I got throughout my whole

skills that I got throughout my whole life they helped me in my day-to-day

life they helped me in my day-to-day

life they helped me in my day-to-day work and my personal life too because

work and my personal life too because

work and my personal life too because they created a safety cushion for me

they created a safety cushion for me

they created a safety cushion for me where I can take risks and not be afraid

where I can take risks and not be afraid

where I can take risks and not be afraid of making a mistake or they gave me a

of making a mistake or they gave me a

of making a mistake or they gave me a knowledge of all those industries and

knowledge of all those industries and

knowledge of all those industries and how they work of how businesses work and

how they work of how businesses work and

how they work of how businesses work and as a matter of fact how the whole world

as a matter of fact how the whole world

as a matter of fact how the whole world works but most importantly they

works but most importantly they

works but most importantly they reinforced in me the person who I am

reinforced in me the person who I am

reinforced in me the person who I am right now

right now

right now you don’t embark on a life journey

you don’t embark on a life journey

you don’t embark on a life journey without knowing with knowing how it’s

without knowing with knowing how it’s

without knowing with knowing how it’s going to end life journey is not a

going to end life journey is not a

going to end life journey is not a strategic roadmap that you write down

strategic roadmap that you write down

strategic roadmap that you write down right before starting to live it happens

right before starting to live it happens

right before starting to live it happens every day and I enjoy my life every day

every day and I enjoy my life every day

every day and I enjoy my life every day I don’t know if I’m going to end up

I don’t know if I’m going to end up

I don’t know if I’m going to end up being investor for the rest of my

being investor for the rest of my

being investor for the rest of my or if I’m going to embark on my next big

or if I’m going to embark on my next big

or if I’m going to embark on my next big thing but what I do know is they really

thing but what I do know is they really

thing but what I do know is they really really enjoy it as of now and because

really enjoy it as of now and because

really enjoy it as of now and because life happens every day you have to

life happens every day you have to

life happens every day you have to iterate you have to try it all out and

iterate you have to try it all out and

iterate you have to try it all out and you live to enjoy it and that’s exactly

you live to enjoy it and that’s exactly

you live to enjoy it and that’s exactly what I tell to all my entrepreneurs who

what I tell to all my entrepreneurs who

what I tell to all my entrepreneurs who face uncertainty on a day-to-day basis

face uncertainty on a day-to-day basis

face uncertainty on a day-to-day basis that would every step towards

that would every step towards

that would every step towards uncertainty we don’t become better at

uncertainty we don’t become better at

uncertainty we don’t become better at navigating uncertainty but what we’ve

navigating uncertainty but what we’ve

navigating uncertainty but what we’ve become better at is knowing who we

become better at is knowing who we

become better at is knowing who we really are

really are

really are and with every step towards uncertainty

and with every step towards uncertainty

and with every step towards uncertainty we grow because all the time we discover

we grow because all the time we discover

we grow because all the time we discover something new so if you have a big dream

something new so if you have a big dream

something new so if you have a big dream a life-changing idea that you really

a life-changing idea that you really

a life-changing idea that you really want to fulfill but didn’t try to do it

want to fulfill but didn’t try to do it

want to fulfill but didn’t try to do it yet please do so and maybe one day a

yet please do so and maybe one day a

yet please do so and maybe one day a girl who once stole a wallet from you on

girl who once stole a wallet from you on

girl who once stole a wallet from you on the street will end up investing in your

the street will end up investing in your

the street will end up investing in your next big startup idea

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