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The Pursuit of Success through Meditation and Entrepreneurship | Mike Worden | TEDxMontgomeryBlairHS


so I think my story is about my journey

so I think my story is about my journey and my experience with bringing to

and my experience with bringing to

and my experience with bringing to subject areas together that I think are

subject areas together that I think are

subject areas together that I think are normally not associated with one another

normally not associated with one another

normally not associated with one another and finding a way to kind of combine the

and finding a way to kind of combine the

and finding a way to kind of combine the two in a way that helped me find success

two in a way that helped me find success

two in a way that helped me find success in a way that I don’t think I would have

in a way that I don’t think I would have

in a way that I don’t think I would have found otherwise and these two worlds

found otherwise and these two worlds

found otherwise and these two worlds that I’m talking about our

that I’m talking about our

that I’m talking about our entrepreneurship meditation I think my

entrepreneurship meditation I think my

entrepreneurship meditation I think my story begins as a kid growing up

story begins as a kid growing up

story begins as a kid growing up actually I love playing sports I played

actually I love playing sports I played

actually I love playing sports I played all sorts of sports but my favorite was

all sorts of sports but my favorite was

all sorts of sports but my favorite was soccer and I pursued soccer

soccer and I pursued soccer

soccer and I pursued soccer competitively and one of the great

competitively and one of the great

competitively and one of the great things about being an athlete is that

things about being an athlete is that

things about being an athlete is that you learn this this mental framework

you learn this this mental framework

you learn this this mental framework where you know at the beginning of

where you know at the beginning of

where you know at the beginning of season you come together and you say

season you come together and you say

season you come together and you say okay we have a 10-week season and then

okay we have a 10-week season and then

okay we have a 10-week season and then the season we have our championship game

the season we have our championship game

the season we have our championship game and our collective goal is to win this

and our collective goal is to win this

and our collective goal is to win this championship and we know along the way

championship and we know along the way

championship and we know along the way that we’re going to come across

that we’re going to come across

that we’re going to come across challenges and burdens but if we’re able

challenges and burdens but if we’re able

challenges and burdens but if we’re able to kind of put our noses down and work

to kind of put our noses down and work

to kind of put our noses down and work hard we’ll give our chance a good we’ll

hard we’ll give our chance a good we’ll

hard we’ll give our chance a good we’ll give ourselves a good chance to succeed

give ourselves a good chance to succeed

give ourselves a good chance to succeed and obviously this kind of mentality

and obviously this kind of mentality

and obviously this kind of mentality extends beyond just the playing field

extends beyond just the playing field

extends beyond just the playing field and when I went to college I played

and when I went to college I played

and when I went to college I played Division one soccer and that mentality

Division one soccer and that mentality

Division one soccer and that mentality was programmed and reinforced into me

was programmed and reinforced into me

was programmed and reinforced into me and when I graduated it was 2011 and it

and when I graduated it was 2011 and it

and when I graduated it was 2011 and it was a dismal year to be a college grad

was a dismal year to be a college grad

was a dismal year to be a college grad looking for jobs it was four years after

looking for jobs it was four years after

looking for jobs it was four years after the financial crisis and there just was

the financial crisis and there just was

the financial crisis and there just was nothing available so I decided I tried

nothing available so I decided I tried

nothing available so I decided I tried my hand at starting my own business and

my hand at starting my own business and

my hand at starting my own business and so I called a couple of my buddies

so I called a couple of my buddies

so I called a couple of my buddies together and said okay what are we good

together and said okay what are we good

together and said okay what are we good at and we really only were able to come

at and we really only were able to come

at and we really only were able to come up with one collective answer and that

up with one collective answer and that

up with one collective answer and that was soccer so we decided we try to start

was soccer so we decided we try to start

was soccer so we decided we try to start a business around building soccer

a business around building soccer

a business around building soccer programs for kids and providing coaching

programs for kids and providing coaching

programs for kids and providing coaching services high-end coaching services and

services high-end coaching services and

services high-end coaching services and that was our our business and at the

that was our our business and at the

that was our our business and at the time I was living in a two-bedroom

time I was living in a two-bedroom

time I was living in a two-bedroom apartment with five roommates and my bed

apartment with five roommates and my bed

apartment with five roommates and my bed was nestled nicely in the living room

was nestled nicely in the living room

was nestled nicely in the living room and next to my bed was my computer and

and next to my bed was my computer and

and next to my bed was my computer and that was our office space it’s a true

that was our office space it’s a true

that was our office space it’s a true story and then as the business started

story and then as the business started

story and then as the business started to get going what we found was that the

to get going what we found was that the

to get going what we found was that the framework that we had learned as student

framework that we had learned as student

framework that we had learned as student athletes applied perfectly to this

athletes applied perfectly to this

athletes applied perfectly to this venture of entrepreneurship where we

venture of entrepreneurship where we

venture of entrepreneurship where we came together we said okay here’s where

came together we said okay here’s where

came together we said okay here’s where we are

we are

we are here’s where we’re trying to get to

here’s where we’re trying to get to

here’s where we’re trying to get to here’s our goal and we know along the

here’s our goal and we know along the

here’s our goal and we know along the way we’re going to have challenges but

way we’re going to have challenges but

way we’re going to have challenges but if we can put our heads together and

if we can put our heads together and

if we can put our heads together and continue to fight forward we’ll give

continue to fight forward we’ll give

continue to fight forward we’ll give ourselves a good chance to succeed

ourselves a good chance to succeed

ourselves a good chance to succeed and sure enough it started working and

and sure enough it started working and

and sure enough it started working and within the year I was able to move out

within the year I was able to move out

within the year I was able to move out of my five roommate two bedroom

of my five roommate two bedroom

of my five roommate two bedroom apartment and I got a new apartment with

apartment and I got a new apartment with

apartment and I got a new apartment with my own bedroom and that was an exciting

my own bedroom and that was an exciting

my own bedroom and that was an exciting time for us right as the company started

time for us right as the company started

time for us right as the company started to blossom it was like our lives were

to blossom it was like our lives were

to blossom it was like our lives were blossoming alongside and I think it was

blossoming alongside and I think it was

blossoming alongside and I think it was at that moment that I caught the

at that moment that I caught the

at that moment that I caught the entrepreneurial bug and I think it was I

entrepreneurial bug and I think it was I

entrepreneurial bug and I think it was I started to see and correlate my success

started to see and correlate my success

started to see and correlate my success in business with my personal success and

in business with my personal success and

in business with my personal success and I figured okay well maybe if I start to

I figured okay well maybe if I start to

I figured okay well maybe if I start to invest more of my time and my focus into

invest more of my time and my focus into

invest more of my time and my focus into building my business that as that

building my business that as that

building my business that as that continues to blossom that my life will

continues to blossom that my life will

continues to blossom that my life will blossom alongside and so sure enough

blossom alongside and so sure enough

blossom alongside and so sure enough that’s what I did I dedicated myself to

that’s what I did I dedicated myself to

that’s what I did I dedicated myself to becoming a great leader of my

becoming a great leader of my

becoming a great leader of my organization or at least as good as I

organization or at least as good as I

organization or at least as good as I could be and sure enough the

could be and sure enough the

could be and sure enough the organization continued its upward trend

organization continued its upward trend

organization continued its upward trend of success but an interesting thing

of success but an interesting thing

of success but an interesting thing happened and that is that my personal

happened and that is that my personal

happened and that is that my personal life didn’t seem to follow the same

life didn’t seem to follow the same

life didn’t seem to follow the same correlated trend that I found at first

correlated trend that I found at first

correlated trend that I found at first right and in fact it was almost a

right and in fact it was almost a

right and in fact it was almost a divergence between as my company

divergence between as my company

divergence between as my company more and more successful my level of

more and more successful my level of

more and more successful my level of happiness started to go in the other

happiness started to go in the other

happiness started to go in the other direction

direction

direction and I think that this was a product of

and I think that this was a product of

and I think that this was a product of at first when you’re an entrepreneur and

at first when you’re an entrepreneur and

at first when you’re an entrepreneur and things are just beginning you have

things are just beginning you have

things are just beginning you have nothing to lose and so you don’t really

nothing to lose and so you don’t really

nothing to lose and so you don’t really have any pressure but then as the

have any pressure but then as the

have any pressure but then as the organization grows and all of a sudden

organization grows and all of a sudden

organization grows and all of a sudden it’s not just me my friends but it’s me

it’s not just me my friends but it’s me

it’s not just me my friends but it’s me my best friend all of his friends my

my best friend all of his friends my

my best friend all of his friends my sister my family and we’re all depending

sister my family and we’re all depending

sister my family and we’re all depending upon the success of this organization

upon the success of this organization

upon the success of this organization and I’m supposed to be at the top of

and I’m supposed to be at the top of

and I’m supposed to be at the top of this food chain and all of a sudden the

this food chain and all of a sudden the

this food chain and all of a sudden the decisions that I make carry a lot more

decisions that I make carry a lot more

decisions that I make carry a lot more weight right in and I found was that as

weight right in and I found was that as

weight right in and I found was that as we were achieving these higher

we were achieving these higher

we were achieving these higher milestones I wasn’t really able to

milestones I wasn’t really able to

milestones I wasn’t really able to appreciate what was happening when we

appreciate what was happening when we

appreciate what was happening when we would hit a milestone it was like

would hit a milestone it was like

would hit a milestone it was like instead of relishing what was happening

instead of relishing what was happening

instead of relishing what was happening I was so busy worrying about how am I

I was so busy worrying about how am I

I was so busy worrying about how am I going to hit the next level what do I

going to hit the next level what do I

going to hit the next level what do I have to do next what problem do I have

have to do next what problem do I have

have to do next what problem do I have to solve now and I got to this

to solve now and I got to this

to solve now and I got to this crossroads where I didn’t know if I

crossroads where I didn’t know if I

crossroads where I didn’t know if I wanted to do it any longer and so I went

wanted to do it any longer and so I went

wanted to do it any longer and so I went to a mentor of mine and I started to

to a mentor of mine and I started to

to a mentor of mine and I started to explain these issues to him and to be

explain these issues to him and to be

explain these issues to him and to be honest it was a little bit difficult to

honest it was a little bit difficult to

honest it was a little bit difficult to talk about because as a student athlete

talk about because as a student athlete

talk about because as a student athlete is athlete growing up and then as an

is athlete growing up and then as an

is athlete growing up and then as an entrepreneur you become trained in that

entrepreneur you become trained in that

entrepreneur you become trained in that framework I was referring to earlier

framework I was referring to earlier

framework I was referring to earlier where it’s you work hard you put your

where it’s you work hard you put your

where it’s you work hard you put your head down and you push yourself to

head down and you push yourself to

head down and you push yourself to achieve and that’s the key to life right

achieve and that’s the key to life right

achieve and that’s the key to life right but then it was like that was happening

but then it was like that was happening

but then it was like that was happening I was doing what I was supposed to do

I was doing what I was supposed to do

I was doing what I was supposed to do but I wasn’t really that happy with it

but I wasn’t really that happy with it

but I wasn’t really that happy with it and then if okay if I’m not happy then

and then if okay if I’m not happy then

and then if okay if I’m not happy then what am I doing this for

what am I doing this for

what am I doing this for and so what my mentor suggests is that I

and so what my mentor suggests is that I

and so what my mentor suggests is that I look into meditation and to be honest at

look into meditation and to be honest at

look into meditation and to be honest at first my impressions of meditation were

first my impressions of meditation were

first my impressions of meditation were limited I think I probably had a very

limited I think I probably had a very

limited I think I probably had a very kind of common impression which is the

kind of common impression which is the

kind of common impression which is the stereotype of some Far Eastern person

stereotype of some Far Eastern person

stereotype of some Far Eastern person sitting cross-legged staring at a wall

sitting cross-legged staring at a wall

sitting cross-legged staring at a wall for 20 minutes and not speaking for two

for 20 minutes and not speaking for two

for 20 minutes and not speaking for two weeks and I was thinking okay well wait

weeks and I was thinking okay well wait

weeks and I was thinking okay well wait a second how is that going to help me

a second how is that going to help me

a second how is that going to help me with my problems okay but I’m a

with my problems okay but I’m a

with my problems okay but I’m a millennial right I like to try new

millennial right I like to try new

millennial right I like to try new things so I’ll give it a shot

things so I’ll give it a shot

things so I’ll give it a shot so I started reading books and going to

so I started reading books and going to

so I started reading books and going to group seminars about meditation and one

group seminars about meditation and one

group seminars about meditation and one of the earliest things I discovered was

of the earliest things I discovered was

of the earliest things I discovered was that meditation isn’t really this fixed

that meditation isn’t really this fixed

that meditation isn’t really this fixed practice right if anything is more like

practice right if anything is more like

practice right if anything is more like this open field maybe more akin to

this open field maybe more akin to

this open field maybe more akin to exercise right if I go to the gym to

exercise right if I go to the gym to

exercise right if I go to the gym to exercise and my roommate goes to the gym

exercise and my roommate goes to the gym

exercise and my roommate goes to the gym to exercise we could be doing completely

to exercise we could be doing completely

to exercise we could be doing completely different things and it’s the same thing

different things and it’s the same thing

different things and it’s the same thing with meditation if I’m sitting in my

with meditation if I’m sitting in my

with meditation if I’m sitting in my room and I’m trying to meditate and

room and I’m trying to meditate and

room and I’m trying to meditate and focus on developing a certain skill set

focus on developing a certain skill set

focus on developing a certain skill set that I have and someone else is sit in

that I have and someone else is sit in

that I have and someone else is sit in the same room with their eyes closed

the same room with their eyes closed

the same room with their eyes closed they could be doing something totally

they could be doing something totally

they could be doing something totally different and I think is when I started

different and I think is when I started

different and I think is when I started to adopt this perspective of what

to adopt this perspective of what

to adopt this perspective of what meditation was all about that it was

meditation was all about that it was

meditation was all about that it was adapted that was something you can make

adapted that was something you can make

adapted that was something you can make your own that everything changed for me

your own that everything changed for me

your own that everything changed for me what I found was that what I had

what I found was that what I had

what I found was that what I had originally seen as this is the

originally seen as this is the

originally seen as this is the entrepreneurial world and this is

entrepreneurial world and this is

entrepreneurial world and this is meditation in they’re two separate

meditation in they’re two separate

meditation in they’re two separate things that in fact there were links

things that in fact there were links

things that in fact there were links between the two and Nacho’s links but I

between the two and Nacho’s links but I

between the two and Nacho’s links but I found a symbiotic relationship between

found a symbiotic relationship between

found a symbiotic relationship between the two where one was reinforcing the

the two where one was reinforcing the

the two where one was reinforcing the other and vice versa so I give you guys

other and vice versa so I give you guys

other and vice versa so I give you guys an example as an entrepreneur you

an example as an entrepreneur you

an example as an entrepreneur you develop this skill set of discipline

develop this skill set of discipline

develop this skill set of discipline right put your nose down working hard

right put your nose down working hard

right put your nose down working hard and when you first go to meditate right

and when you first go to meditate right

and when you first go to meditate right the first I went to meditate I sit down

the first I went to meditate I sit down

the first I went to meditate I sit down I do I’m supposed to I close my eyes I

I do I’m supposed to I close my eyes I

I do I’m supposed to I close my eyes I stare at the wall and nothing happens

stare at the wall and nothing happens

stare at the wall and nothing happens and I’m thinking what am i doing

and I’m thinking what am i doing

and I’m thinking what am i doing and what it takes to become good at

and what it takes to become good at

and what it takes to become good at meditation to and to really get the

meditation to and to really get the

meditation to and to really get the fruits of that practices you have to is

fruits of that practices you have to is

fruits of that practices you have to is you have to train yourself and it’s the

you have to train yourself and it’s the

you have to train yourself and it’s the same thing where this is where I want to

same thing where this is where I want to

same thing where this is where I want to get to a meditation this is where I’m

get to a meditation this is where I’m

get to a meditation this is where I’m now I’m not here now but the only I’m

now I’m not here now but the only I’m

now I’m not here now but the only I’m getting there is by working hard and

getting there is by working hard and

getting there is by working hard and pushing myself up and so I started to

pushing myself up and so I started to

pushing myself up and so I started to adopt that approach to my meditation and

adopt that approach to my meditation and

adopt that approach to my meditation and my skills started to evolve and then as

my skills started to evolve and then as

my skills started to evolve and then as I got better at meditating the skills I

I got better at meditating the skills I

I got better at meditating the skills I was working on in this world started to

was working on in this world started to

was working on in this world started to have an effect on my approach to

have an effect on my approach to

have an effect on my approach to entrepreneurship and I want to highlight

entrepreneurship and I want to highlight

entrepreneurship and I want to highlight three ways that I think meditation

three ways that I think meditation

three ways that I think meditation helped me become a more effective

helped me become a more effective

helped me become a more effective entrepreneur the first way is that

entrepreneur the first way is that

entrepreneur the first way is that meditation helps you develop a steady

meditation helps you develop a steady

meditation helps you develop a steady mentality and I like to use the analogy

mentality and I like to use the analogy

mentality and I like to use the analogy of living life like an ocean and at the

of living life like an ocean and at the

of living life like an ocean and at the top of the ocean you have your ways on

top of the ocean you have your ways on

top of the ocean you have your ways on the surface right and then below it’s a

the surface right and then below it’s a

the surface right and then below it’s a bit more calm and then imagine a

bit more calm and then imagine a

bit more calm and then imagine a spectrum that goes from the top of the

spectrum that goes from the top of the

spectrum that goes from the top of the ocean to the bottom and there are no

ocean to the bottom and there are no

ocean to the bottom and there are no there are those that find themselves at

there are those that find themselves at

there are those that find themselves at the top of the surface of the sea and

the top of the surface of the sea and

the top of the surface of the sea and they live their day-to-day lives and

they live their day-to-day lives and

they live their day-to-day lives and volatility going up and down as the

volatility going up and down as the

volatility going up and down as the waves kind of pass by and then there are

waves kind of pass by and then there are

waves kind of pass by and then there are others where we will pull themselves

others where we will pull themselves

others where we will pull themselves kind of towards the bottom of the sea

kind of towards the bottom of the sea

kind of towards the bottom of the sea and they are aware that on top there’s

and they are aware that on top there’s

and they are aware that on top there’s these crashing oceans but they don’t

these crashing oceans but they don’t

these crashing oceans but they don’t necessarily need to get caught up in the

necessarily need to get caught up in the

necessarily need to get caught up in the volatility and they can live in a more

volatility and they can live in a more

volatility and they can live in a more steady environment and I think what

steady environment and I think what

steady environment and I think what happens when you’re an entrepreneur is

happens when you’re an entrepreneur is

happens when you’re an entrepreneur is that it’s like turning the dial of life

that it’s like turning the dial of life

that it’s like turning the dial of life from five to a hundred and then all of a

from five to a hundred and then all of a

from five to a hundred and then all of a sudden every day seems way more dramatic

sudden every day seems way more dramatic

sudden every day seems way more dramatic every day there’s bigger and more urgent

every day there’s bigger and more urgent

every day there’s bigger and more urgent things to deal with

things to deal with

things to deal with and those five feet ways that the

and those five feet ways that the

and those five feet ways that the average person deals with for an

average person deals with for an

average person deals with for an entrepreneur it’s like a hundred foot

entrepreneur it’s like a hundred foot

entrepreneur it’s like a hundred foot wave and then on top of that you

wave and then on top of that you

wave and then on top of that you compound that with the demands of modern

compound that with the demands of modern

compound that with the demands of modern life right before I came out I had to

life right before I came out I had to

life right before I came out I had to leave my phone backstage because

leave my phone backstage because

leave my phone backstage because otherwise over the course of this

otherwise over the course of this

otherwise over the course of this 15-minute talk I probably get 10 to

15-minute talk I probably get 10 to

15-minute talk I probably get 10 to 15-minute 10 to 15 messages or

15-minute 10 to 15 messages or

15-minute 10 to 15 messages or notifications each one of them trying to

notifications each one of them trying to

notifications each one of them trying to grab my attention and build a sense of

grab my attention and build a sense of

grab my attention and build a sense of urgency of things that I should attend

urgency of things that I should attend

urgency of things that I should attend to right and then if you extract like

to right and then if you extract like

to right and then if you extract like that over the course of a day right I

that over the course of a day right I

that over the course of a day right I imagine that over a course of each day I

imagine that over a course of each day I

imagine that over a course of each day I probably get over a thousand messages

probably get over a thousand messages

probably get over a thousand messages just in my little phone and I find my

just in my little phone and I find my

just in my little phone and I find my peers we’re all fighting this this

peers we’re all fighting this this

peers we’re all fighting this this environment where we’re being pulled in

environment where we’re being pulled in

environment where we’re being pulled in every direction learning how to manage

every direction learning how to manage

every direction learning how to manage this is this modern environment and be

this is this modern environment and be

this is this modern environment and be able to pull yourself out to steady your

able to pull yourself out to steady your

able to pull yourself out to steady your life I think is a vital skill set the

life I think is a vital skill set the

life I think is a vital skill set the second way that meditation helped me was

second way that meditation helped me was

second way that meditation helped me was meditation helps you develop

meditation helps you develop

meditation helps you develop perseverance no matter what you’re doing

perseverance no matter what you’re doing

perseverance no matter what you’re doing if you’re an entrepreneur a doctor or

if you’re an entrepreneur a doctor or

if you’re an entrepreneur a doctor or whatever you’re going to face challenges

whatever you’re going to face challenges

whatever you’re going to face challenges right inevitably and if you ask any

right inevitably and if you ask any

right inevitably and if you ask any businessperson or entrepreneur what is

businessperson or entrepreneur what is

businessperson or entrepreneur what is the number one quality that you need to

the number one quality that you need to

the number one quality that you need to be successful most people will tell you

be successful most people will tell you

be successful most people will tell you perseverance and I think the

perseverance and I think the

perseverance and I think the conventional wisdom would say that

conventional wisdom would say that

conventional wisdom would say that perseverance is something that it’s

perseverance is something that it’s

perseverance is something that it’s innate right you either have it or you

innate right you either have it or you

innate right you either have it or you don’t

don’t

don’t but modern-day science is now telling us

but modern-day science is now telling us

but modern-day science is now telling us that perseverance is a trait that can be

that perseverance is a trait that can be

that perseverance is a trait that can be learned that can be developed that can

learned that can be developed that can

learned that can be developed that can be nourished and the way they say that

be nourished and the way they say that

be nourished and the way they say that you can do this is by developing the

you can do this is by developing the

you can do this is by developing the capacity to look inwardly right to be

capacity to look inwardly right to be

capacity to look inwardly right to be able to kind of look at your thoughts

able to kind of look at your thoughts

able to kind of look at your thoughts and figure out okay how am I going to

and figure out okay how am I going to

and figure out okay how am I going to reprogram the way I think so that when

reprogram the way I think so that when

reprogram the way I think so that when I’m in the heat of the moment I’m able

I’m in the heat of the moment I’m able

I’m in the heat of the moment I’m able to persevere through this and ultimately

to persevere through this and ultimately

to persevere through this and ultimately that is what meditation can do for you

that is what meditation can do for you

that is what meditation can do for you the third way that meditation helped me

the third way that meditation helped me

the third way that meditation helped me and for me I think this was the game

and for me I think this was the game

and for me I think this was the game changer this is what helps solve my

changer this is what helps solve my

changer this is what helps solve my problems is that meditation teaches us

problems is that meditation teaches us

problems is that meditation teaches us about self-awareness and it helps us

about self-awareness and it helps us

about self-awareness and it helps us build this capacity to live in the

build this capacity to live in the

build this capacity to live in the moment and I like using the example of

moment and I like using the example of

moment and I like using the example of life is a journey it’s not a destination

life is a journey it’s not a destination

life is a journey it’s not a destination which at this point is so cliche it’s so

which at this point is so cliche it’s so

which at this point is so cliche it’s so overused it’s like a bumper sticker or

overused it’s like a bumper sticker or

overused it’s like a bumper sticker or like an Instagram hashtag everyone loves

like an Instagram hashtag everyone loves

like an Instagram hashtag everyone loves to live life like a journey but the

to live life like a journey but the

to live life like a journey but the reality is it’s different to actually be

reality is it’s different to actually be

reality is it’s different to actually be able to do that versus putting it on

able to do that versus putting it on

able to do that versus putting it on your Facebook account

I’ll leave with one last story a couple

I’ll leave with one last story a couple months ago I was at my alma mater

months ago I was at my alma mater

months ago I was at my alma mater American University speaking with

American University speaking with

American University speaking with students who were juniors and seniors on

students who were juniors and seniors on

students who were juniors and seniors on the verge of graduating and the topic of

the verge of graduating and the topic of

the verge of graduating and the topic of the meeting or the talk was me trying to

the meeting or the talk was me trying to

the meeting or the talk was me trying to provide advice to these students on what

provide advice to these students on what

provide advice to these students on what they could do to prepare for the real

they could do to prepare for the real

they could do to prepare for the real world right and I got all the kind of

world right and I got all the kind of

world right and I got all the kind of conventional questions you might expect

conventional questions you might expect

conventional questions you might expect you know what kinds of things should I

you know what kinds of things should I

you know what kinds of things should I put on my resume what should I say when

put on my resume what should I say when

put on my resume what should I say when I’m at the interview and at the end they

I’m at the interview and at the end they

I’m at the interview and at the end they said Mike if you can leave with one Pat

said Mike if you can leave with one Pat

said Mike if you can leave with one Pat last piece of advice what would you say

last piece of advice what would you say

last piece of advice what would you say and what I told them was if I could do

and what I told them was if I could do

and what I told them was if I could do it over again I would go back and try to

it over again I would go back and try to

it over again I would go back and try to savor the moments I had that college was

savor the moments I had that college was

savor the moments I had that college was such a unique experience for me and it

such a unique experience for me and it

such a unique experience for me and it went by so fast right and the reality is

went by so fast right and the reality is

went by so fast right and the reality is when I said that I felt good about my

when I said that I felt good about my

when I said that I felt good about my advice and I looked through the room and

advice and I looked through the room and

advice and I looked through the room and everyone’s not in their head and I think

everyone’s not in their head and I think

everyone’s not in their head and I think I even saw some in the back putting the

I even saw some in the back putting the

I even saw some in the back putting the Instagram post hashtag life’s a journey

Instagram post hashtag life’s a journey

Instagram post hashtag life’s a journey not a destination right but but now as I

not a destination right but but now as I

not a destination right but but now as I walked out I realized did I change

walked out I realized did I change

walked out I realized did I change anything for anyone the reality is that

anything for anyone the reality is that

anything for anyone the reality is that you have to learn how to do those things

you have to learn how to do those things

you have to learn how to do those things and ultimately no matter what your goals

and ultimately no matter what your goals

and ultimately no matter what your goals are in life no matter what your

are in life no matter what your

are in life no matter what your ambitions are you want to be this you

ambitions are you want to be this you

ambitions are you want to be this you want to become that if you don’t garner

want to become that if you don’t garner

want to become that if you don’t garner the skill to appreciate what you’re

the skill to appreciate what you’re

the skill to appreciate what you’re doing and feel a sense of happiness

doing and feel a sense of happiness

doing and feel a sense of happiness about what you’re doing then nothing is

about what you’re doing then nothing is

about what you’re doing then nothing is going to be worth your time thank you

going to be worth your time thank you

going to be worth your time thank you [Applause]

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