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How to Relax | Bryan Russell | TEDxKeene


life is full of things that create

life is full of things that create stress can you think of some things in

stress can you think of some things in

stress can you think of some things in your life that create stress come on

your life that create stress come on

your life that create stress come on raise your hands and this is why I’m

raise your hands and this is why I’m

raise your hands and this is why I’m here to talk to things talk to you about

here to talk to things talk to you about

here to talk to things talk to you about things that create relaxation I’ve been

things that create relaxation I’ve been

things that create relaxation I’ve been teaching people to relax for the past

teaching people to relax for the past

teaching people to relax for the past twelve years through teaching yoga and

twelve years through teaching yoga and

twelve years through teaching yoga and most of my teaching is to people

most of my teaching is to people

most of my teaching is to people becoming studying to become yoga

becoming studying to become yoga

becoming studying to become yoga teachers as you complete our 200 hour

teachers as you complete our 200 hour

teachers as you complete our 200 hour yoga certification course and what I’m

yoga certification course and what I’m

yoga certification course and what I’m going to share with you in the next 200

going to share with you in the next 200

going to share with you in the next 200 breaths is the essence of what I teach

breaths is the essence of what I teach

breaths is the essence of what I teach in the 200 hour course so although it

in the 200 hour course so although it

in the 200 hour course so although it may seem like the path to relaxation is

may seem like the path to relaxation is

may seem like the path to relaxation is by lowering stress I’d like to you to be

by lowering stress I’d like to you to be

by lowering stress I’d like to you to be open to the possibility that the path to

open to the possibility that the path to

open to the possibility that the path to relaxation is by doing things that

relaxation is by doing things that

relaxation is by doing things that increase relaxation in a similar way

increase relaxation in a similar way

increase relaxation in a similar way that defining health is the absence of

that defining health is the absence of

that defining health is the absence of illness limits our ability to become

illness limits our ability to become

illness limits our ability to become healthy or defining happiness is the

healthy or defining happiness is the

healthy or defining happiness is the absence of sadness limits our ability to

absence of sadness limits our ability to

absence of sadness limits our ability to find happiness if we define relaxation

find happiness if we define relaxation

find happiness if we define relaxation as the absence of stress we limit our

as the absence of stress we limit our

as the absence of stress we limit our ability to bring relaxation into our

ability to bring relaxation into our

ability to bring relaxation into our lives there’s more to being healthy than

lives there’s more to being healthy than

lives there’s more to being healthy than simply not being sick there’s more to

simply not being sick there’s more to

simply not being sick there’s more to being happy than not being sad and

being happy than not being sad and

being happy than not being sad and there’s more to relaxing and simply

there’s more to relaxing and simply

there’s more to relaxing and simply lowering stress so instead of one system

lowering stress so instead of one system

lowering stress so instead of one system stress system that goes up and down

stress system that goes up and down

stress system that goes up and down there’s actually two systems that go up

there’s actually two systems that go up

there’s actually two systems that go up and down in tandem we know these as a

and down in tandem we know these as a

and down in tandem we know these as a sympathetic nervous system in the

sympathetic nervous system in the

sympathetic nervous system in the parasympathetic nervous system

parasympathetic nervous system

parasympathetic nervous system sympathetic nervous system often

sympathetic nervous system often

sympathetic nervous system often referred to as fight or flight and this

referred to as fight or flight and this

referred to as fight or flight and this is other accuser term energized and this

is other accuser term energized and this

is other accuser term energized and this is stimulated when we find ourselves in

is stimulated when we find ourselves in

is stimulated when we find ourselves in a stressful situation when we’re moving

a stressful situation when we’re moving

a stressful situation when we’re moving towards a energized state our heart rate

towards a energized state our heart rate

towards a energized state our heart rate goes up respiratory rate goes up and

goes up respiratory rate goes up and

goes up respiratory rate goes up and blood pressure goes up to prepare the

blood pressure goes up to prepare the

blood pressure goes up to prepare the body for acts

body for acts

body for acts perhaps what we’re not as familiar with

perhaps what we’re not as familiar with

perhaps what we’re not as familiar with though is that in order to do this the

though is that in order to do this the

though is that in order to do this the body diverts energy away from our

body diverts energy away from our

body diverts energy away from our digestive immune and cognitive functions

digestive immune and cognitive functions

digestive immune and cognitive functions which all decrease the other system the

which all decrease the other system the

which all decrease the other system the parasympathetic nervous system often

parasympathetic nervous system often

parasympathetic nervous system often referred to as rest or digest

referred to as rest or digest

referred to as rest or digest I like these term relaxation and this is

I like these term relaxation and this is

I like these term relaxation and this is stimulated when we feel safe and

stimulated when we feel safe and

stimulated when we feel safe and comfortable when we’re moving towards a

comfortable when we’re moving towards a

comfortable when we’re moving towards a relaxed state the heart rate goes down

relaxed state the heart rate goes down

relaxed state the heart rate goes down and blood pressure goes down while the

and blood pressure goes down while the

and blood pressure goes down while the digestive immune and cognitive functions

digestive immune and cognitive functions

digestive immune and cognitive functions all increase so we can stimulate this

all increase so we can stimulate this

all increase so we can stimulate this relaxed state we can stimulate this

relaxed state we can stimulate this

relaxed state we can stimulate this energized Inked we can stimulate the

energized Inked we can stimulate the

energized Inked we can stimulate the parasympathetic nervous system we can

parasympathetic nervous system we can

parasympathetic nervous system we can stimulate the sympathetic nervous system

stimulate the sympathetic nervous system

stimulate the sympathetic nervous system we’re not taught this in school I know I

we’re not taught this in school I know I

we’re not taught this in school I know I was not taught this I was taught that

was not taught this I was taught that

was not taught this I was taught that the autonomic nervous system was

the autonomic nervous system was

the autonomic nervous system was autonomous that it could not be

autonomous that it could not be

autonomous that it could not be controlled well it may be literally true

controlled well it may be literally true

controlled well it may be literally true we cannot tell our heart rate to go down

we cannot tell our heart rate to go down

we cannot tell our heart rate to go down cannot tell my heartbeat to go faster

cannot tell my heartbeat to go faster

cannot tell my heartbeat to go faster but I can’t influence and direct the

but I can’t influence and direct the

but I can’t influence and direct the autonomic nervous system by choosing

autonomic nervous system by choosing

autonomic nervous system by choosing activities that stimulate this

activities that stimulate this

activities that stimulate this relaxation state or choosing activities

relaxation state or choosing activities

relaxation state or choosing activities that stimulate this energized state we

that stimulate this energized state we

that stimulate this energized state we do it all the time whether we’re aware

do it all the time whether we’re aware

do it all the time whether we’re aware of it or not so let’s do an experiment

of it or not so let’s do an experiment

of it or not so let’s do an experiment and see if we can stimulate this energy

and see if we can stimulate this energy

and see if we can stimulate this energy State

State

State [Music]

can you feel this shift towards an

can you feel this shift towards an energized state right so if I’m able to

energized state right so if I’m able to

energized state right so if I’m able to make a choice and stimulate your

make a choice and stimulate your

make a choice and stimulate your energized response imagine the choices

energized response imagine the choices

energized response imagine the choices you can make to stimulate your energized

you can make to stimulate your energized

you can make to stimulate your energized response what are some other things that

response what are some other things that

response what are some other things that create stress in our life that stimulate

create stress in our life that stimulate

create stress in our life that stimulate this energized response what are some

this energized response what are some

this energized response what are some things that may keep you up at night or

things that may keep you up at night or

things that may keep you up at night or the other things that create stress in

the other things that create stress in

the other things that create stress in your life perhaps it’s small things like

your life perhaps it’s small things like

your life perhaps it’s small things like waking up to an alarm clock or feeling a

waking up to an alarm clock or feeling a

waking up to an alarm clock or feeling a sense of rush or urgency as you get

sense of rush or urgency as you get

sense of rush or urgency as you get ready and drive to work perhaps it’s an

ready and drive to work perhaps it’s an

ready and drive to work perhaps it’s an extra project or – or deadline that’s

extra project or – or deadline that’s

extra project or – or deadline that’s coming perhaps it’s some relationship

coming perhaps it’s some relationship

coming perhaps it’s some relationship challenges that you have that are

challenges that you have that are

challenges that you have that are causing some stress in your life it’s

causing some stress in your life it’s

causing some stress in your life it’s great that we can have this energized

great that we can have this energized

great that we can have this energized response in the body because otherwise

response in the body because otherwise

response in the body because otherwise we’d never get anything done but it’s

we’d never get anything done but it’s

we’d never get anything done but it’s not healthy to be stimulated all the

not healthy to be stimulated all the

not healthy to be stimulated all the time with chronic stress in fact it’s

time with chronic stress in fact it’s

time with chronic stress in fact it’s very very unhealthy

very very unhealthy

very very unhealthy statistics show that 75 to 90% of

statistics show that 75 to 90% of

statistics show that 75 to 90% of doctor’s visits are for stress-related

doctor’s visits are for stress-related

doctor’s visits are for stress-related reasons so that’s 90% of the times that

reasons so that’s 90% of the times that

reasons so that’s 90% of the times that we go to the doctor because we’re in a

we go to the doctor because we’re in a

we go to the doctor because we’re in a stress State were stimulated and would

stress State were stimulated and would

stress State were stimulated and would cause these challenges with our health

cause these challenges with our health

cause these challenges with our health so we need some ways to stimulate this

so we need some ways to stimulate this

so we need some ways to stimulate this relaxation response and bring relaxation

relaxation response and bring relaxation

relaxation response and bring relaxation into our body

that’s better right relaxing music will

that’s better right relaxing music will often stimulate this relaxation response

often stimulate this relaxation response

often stimulate this relaxation response there’s many other things that can

there’s many other things that can

there’s many other things that can stimulate this relaxation response in

stimulate this relaxation response in

stimulate this relaxation response in the body taking a warm bath mindfulness

the body taking a warm bath mindfulness

the body taking a warm bath mindfulness meditation journaling guided imagery

meditation journaling guided imagery

meditation journaling guided imagery practicing yoga getting massage taking a

practicing yoga getting massage taking a

practicing yoga getting massage taking a walk breathing the fresh air

walk breathing the fresh air

walk breathing the fresh air drinking herbal tea hopefully well we

drinking herbal tea hopefully well we

drinking herbal tea hopefully well we all have a few things in our life that

all have a few things in our life that

all have a few things in our life that can stimulate this relaxation response

what I’d like to share with you now are

what I’d like to share with you now are two simple breathing techniques that

two simple breathing techniques that

two simple breathing techniques that stimulate this relaxation response

stimulate this relaxation response

stimulate this relaxation response I call them breathing techniques but

I call them breathing techniques but

I call them breathing techniques but really they’re relaxation techniques how

really they’re relaxation techniques how

really they’re relaxation techniques how perhaps we could even call them

perhaps we could even call them

perhaps we could even call them connection techniques because they allow

connection techniques because they allow

connection techniques because they allow us to connect with the deeper part of

us to connect with the deeper part of

us to connect with the deeper part of ourselves in those times when we start

ourselves in those times when we start

ourselves in those times when we start to get pulled away from stress by stress

to get pulled away from stress by stress

to get pulled away from stress by stress so if you will we could all stand up

so if you will we could all stand up

so if you will we could all stand up we’re just going to be up for one or two

we’re just going to be up for one or two

we’re just going to be up for one or two minutes breathing maybe 12 breaths

minutes breathing maybe 12 breaths

minutes breathing maybe 12 breaths together it’s so simple and yet so

together it’s so simple and yet so

together it’s so simple and yet so powerful of of all the things that I

powerful of of all the things that I

powerful of of all the things that I teach in the 200 hour course this these

teach in the 200 hour course this these

teach in the 200 hour course this these two minutes are the most important thing

two minutes are the most important thing

two minutes are the most important thing that I share with people and that’s why

that I share with people and that’s why

that I share with people and that’s why I wanted to share with you with you

I wanted to share with you with you

I wanted to share with you with you today so the first thing we’re going to

today so the first thing we’re going to

today so the first thing we’re going to do is breathe with our belly the idea is

do is breathe with our belly the idea is

do is breathe with our belly the idea is when we breathe with our belly it

when we breathe with our belly it

when we breathe with our belly it stimulates this relaxation response it

stimulates this relaxation response it

stimulates this relaxation response it stimulates the parasympathetic nervous

stimulates the parasympathetic nervous

stimulates the parasympathetic nervous system when we breathe and we breathe

system when we breathe and we breathe

system when we breathe and we breathe with our and our chest moves it

with our and our chest moves it

with our and our chest moves it stimulates the energized response so we

stimulates the energized response so we

stimulates the energized response so we can bring our hands on our belly one or

can bring our hands on our belly one or

can bring our hands on our belly one or both hands just going to take five

both hands just going to take five

both hands just going to take five breaths we can inhale the belly out and

breaths we can inhale the belly out and

breaths we can inhale the belly out and exhale the billion inhale push the belly

exhale the billion inhale push the belly

exhale the billion inhale push the belly out and exhale the belly in

out and exhale the belly in

out and exhale the belly in a couple more times inhale belly ow and

a couple more times inhale belly ow and

a couple more times inhale belly ow and exhale belly in inhale belly ow exhale

exhale belly in inhale belly ow exhale

exhale belly in inhale belly ow exhale belly in one more time on your own

so again when we breathe in our really

so again when we breathe in our really moves it stimulates relaxation response

moves it stimulates relaxation response

moves it stimulates relaxation response the other way we can stimulate the

the other way we can stimulate the

the other way we can stimulate the relaxation was response with our breath

relaxation was response with our breath

relaxation was response with our breath is by exhaling so every exhale we

is by exhaling so every exhale we

is by exhaling so every exhale we stimulate this parasympathetic nervous

stimulate this parasympathetic nervous

stimulate this parasympathetic nervous system in every inhale we stimulate the

system in every inhale we stimulate the

system in every inhale we stimulate the energized response so we’re going to do

energized response so we’re going to do

energized response so we’re going to do what I call the extended exhale and

what I call the extended exhale and

what I call the extended exhale and exhale for a longer period of time than

exhale for a longer period of time than

exhale for a longer period of time than the inhale the same amount of air is

the inhale the same amount of air is

the inhale the same amount of air is coming in and out otherwise we wouldn’t

coming in and out otherwise we wouldn’t

coming in and out otherwise we wouldn’t be able to do it very long but we’re

be able to do it very long but we’re

be able to do it very long but we’re going to exhale more slowly so we’re

going to exhale more slowly so we’re

going to exhale more slowly so we’re going to exhale for a longer period of

going to exhale for a longer period of

going to exhale for a longer period of time so going to inhale for a count of 3

time so going to inhale for a count of 3

time so going to inhale for a count of 3 and exhale for a count of 6 so standing

and exhale for a count of 6 so standing

and exhale for a count of 6 so standing tall heart open shoulders back you can

tall heart open shoulders back you can

tall heart open shoulders back you can have the hand on your belly or not

have the hand on your belly or not

have the hand on your belly or not either way can close the eyes if you’d

either way can close the eyes if you’d

either way can close the eyes if you’d like I’m just going to inhale 1 2 3 and

like I’m just going to inhale 1 2 3 and

like I’m just going to inhale 1 2 3 and exhale 1 2 3 4 5 6

exhale 1 2 3 4 5 6

exhale 1 2 3 4 5 6 inhale 1 2 3 exhale 1 2 3 4 5 6 inhale 1

inhale 1 2 3 exhale 1 2 3 4 5 6 inhale 1

inhale 1 2 3 exhale 1 2 3 4 5 6 inhale 1 2 3 exhale 1 2 3 4 5 6 inhale 1 2 3

2 3 exhale 1 2 3 4 5 6 inhale 1 2 3

2 3 exhale 1 2 3 4 5 6 inhale 1 2 3 exhale 1 2 3 4 5 6 and one more on your

exhale 1 2 3 4 5 6 and one more on your

exhale 1 2 3 4 5 6 and one more on your own

just take a moment and check in with

just take a moment and check in with your state are we moving towards a

your state are we moving towards a

your state are we moving towards a relaxation state or moving moving

relaxation state or moving moving

relaxation state or moving moving towards an energized state we can all

towards an energized state we can all

towards an energized state we can all sit down thank you so much for taking a

sit down thank you so much for taking a

sit down thank you so much for taking a moment to share the breath with each of

moment to share the breath with each of

moment to share the breath with each of us today

the core teaching of yoga is that when

the core teaching of yoga is that when we quiet the mind we can act from a

we quiet the mind we can act from a

we quiet the mind we can act from a place more connected to our heart not

place more connected to our heart not

place more connected to our heart not only are we more connected to the heart

only are we more connected to the heart

only are we more connected to the heart but the cognitive ability of the brain

but the cognitive ability of the brain

but the cognitive ability of the brain increases when we’re in this quiet state

increases when we’re in this quiet state

increases when we’re in this quiet state it’s like the mind is not concerned with

it’s like the mind is not concerned with

it’s like the mind is not concerned with the concern of survival and we can see

the concern of survival and we can see

the concern of survival and we can see connections instead of divisions and

connections instead of divisions and

connections instead of divisions and solutions instead of problems and love

solutions instead of problems and love

solutions instead of problems and love instead of fear doing this simple

instead of fear doing this simple

instead of fear doing this simple relaxation technique can bring us one

relaxation technique can bring us one

relaxation technique can bring us one step closer towards quieting the mind

step closer towards quieting the mind

step closer towards quieting the mind when we find ourselves moving in the

when we find ourselves moving in the

when we find ourselves moving in the other direction moving towards an

other direction moving towards an

other direction moving towards an energized state remember it decreases a

energized state remember it decreases a

energized state remember it decreases a cognitive ability and it increases our

cognitive ability and it increases our

cognitive ability and it increases our primal reactions and in most of our

primal reactions and in most of our

primal reactions and in most of our modern-day stress situations this is

modern-day stress situations this is

modern-day stress situations this is where we get into trouble the part of

where we get into trouble the part of

where we get into trouble the part of the brain responsible for self-control

the brain responsible for self-control

the brain responsible for self-control is compromised our instincts go

is compromised our instincts go

is compromised our instincts go unchecked and the rational thought

unchecked and the rational thought

unchecked and the rational thought process nearly ceases we go into a state

process nearly ceases we go into a state

process nearly ceases we go into a state of total reactivity where the primal

of total reactivity where the primal

of total reactivity where the primal part of the brain will do just about

part of the brain will do just about

part of the brain will do just about anything to change a situation and this

anything to change a situation and this

anything to change a situation and this is where I believe we find ourselves at

is where I believe we find ourselves at

is where I believe we find ourselves at some of the most important tipping

some of the most important tipping

some of the most important tipping points in our lives we find ourselves in

points in our lives we find ourselves in

points in our lives we find ourselves in challenging situations with the least

challenging situations with the least

challenging situations with the least support from our brains when we need the

support from our brains when we need the

support from our brains when we need the most creative and thoughtful solutions

most creative and thoughtful solutions

most creative and thoughtful solutions we actually get the opposite we get our

we actually get the opposite we get our

we actually get the opposite we get our instinctual survival reactions and these

instinctual survival reactions and these

instinctual survival reactions and these reactions will often make the situation

reactions will often make the situation

reactions will often make the situation even worse I’m sure each of you can

even worse I’m sure each of you can

even worse I’m sure each of you can think of some moments in your life when

think of some moments in your life when

think of some moments in your life when you were in this state and said things

you were in this state and said things

you were in this state and said things you did not mean

you did not mean

you did not mean and made choices you later regretted

and made choices you later regretted

and made choices you later regretted it’s in these moments when we need a way

it’s in these moments when we need a way

it’s in these moments when we need a way to change our state from a sympathetic

to change our state from a sympathetic

to change our state from a sympathetic stress state to a parasympathetic

stress state to a parasympathetic

stress state to a parasympathetic relaxed state because when we shift

relaxed state because when we shift

relaxed state because when we shift towards a relaxed state we regain the

towards a relaxed state we regain the

towards a relaxed state we regain the cognitive ability of the brain and we

cognitive ability of the brain and we

cognitive ability of the brain and we regain the connection to our heart and

regain the connection to our heart and

regain the connection to our heart and instead of escalating the situation we

instead of escalating the situation we

instead of escalating the situation we can de-escalate the situation as we find

can de-escalate the situation as we find

can de-escalate the situation as we find solutions from a place of calm from a

solutions from a place of calm from a

solutions from a place of calm from a place of connection thank you

place of connection thank you

place of connection thank you [Applause]

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