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The Value Of Discovery | Joseph Charm Park | TEDxYouth@HCIS


now I’m pretty sure we all want to live

now I’m pretty sure we all want to live a good life at least you should but the

a good life at least you should but the

a good life at least you should but the thing is the pursuit of a good life is

thing is the pursuit of a good life is

thing is the pursuit of a good life is like baking a cake if you don’t know

like baking a cake if you don’t know

like baking a cake if you don’t know what you’re doing you often have to

what you’re doing you often have to

what you’re doing you often have to refer to a recipe but I believe that by

refer to a recipe but I believe that by

refer to a recipe but I believe that by adhering to a certain set of

adhering to a certain set of

adhering to a certain set of instructions people often lose sight of

instructions people often lose sight of

instructions people often lose sight of the complete picture and miss out on

the complete picture and miss out on

the complete picture and miss out on things like for example when I was in

things like for example when I was in

things like for example when I was in Korea for a week there is this

Korea for a week there is this

Korea for a week there is this marketplace and in this marketplace they

marketplace and in this marketplace they

marketplace and in this marketplace they sold all kinds of things but you see I’m

sold all kinds of things but you see I’m

sold all kinds of things but you see I’m the kind of person who would go to a

the kind of person who would go to a

the kind of person who would go to a restaurant find one kind of food and

restaurant find one kind of food and

restaurant find one kind of food and only get that every time I visited and

only get that every time I visited and

only get that every time I visited and this marketplace was no exception so

this marketplace was no exception so

this marketplace was no exception so once I tried their meat buns that was

once I tried their meat buns that was

once I tried their meat buns that was all I wanted and I was hooked so every

all I wanted and I was hooked so every

all I wanted and I was hooked so every day I would kind of take this particular

day I would kind of take this particular

day I would kind of take this particular winding path down to the stall that sold

winding path down to the stall that sold

winding path down to the stall that sold these meat buns I would never deviate

these meat buns I would never deviate

these meat buns I would never deviate because in my eyes if the system wasn’t

because in my eyes if the system wasn’t

because in my eyes if the system wasn’t broke there was no need to fix it so

broke there was no need to fix it so

broke there was no need to fix it so ultimately I ended up only actually

ultimately I ended up only actually

ultimately I ended up only actually getting meat buns which was something I

getting meat buns which was something I

getting meat buns which was something I came to regret later when I discovered

came to regret later when I discovered

came to regret later when I discovered that they sold headphones for the cheap

that they sold headphones for the cheap

that they sold headphones for the cheap right across the corner but I think this

right across the corner but I think this

right across the corner but I think this experience of mind deeply resembles and

experience of mind deeply resembles and

experience of mind deeply resembles and mirrors the instructions that were given

mirrors the instructions that were given

mirrors the instructions that were given as students on how to succeed now as

as students on how to succeed now as

as students on how to succeed now as students of a highly developed country

students of a highly developed country

students of a highly developed country I’m sure you’ve kind of already been

I’m sure you’ve kind of already been

I’m sure you’ve kind of already been told what you guys need to do in order

told what you guys need to do in order

told what you guys need to do in order to live a good life from my

to live a good life from my

to live a good life from my understanding first you kind of have to

understanding first you kind of have to

understanding first you kind of have to go to a high school get good grades and

go to a high school get good grades and

go to a high school get good grades and then like do at least ten activities so

then like do at least ten activities so

then like do at least ten activities so you can completely fill out your college

you can completely fill out your college

you can completely fill out your college application sheet then you get into a

application sheet then you get into a

application sheet then you get into a college or a post graduate college with

college or a post graduate college with

college or a post graduate college with an acceptance rate of 20% or below you

an acceptance rate of 20% or below you

an acceptance rate of 20% or below you continue to maintain good grades and you

continue to maintain good grades and you

continue to maintain good grades and you do lots of internships and study for the

do lots of internships and study for the

do lots of internships and study for the career of your choosing

career of your choosing

career of your choosing probably something your family can brag

probably something your family can brag

probably something your family can brag about then afterwards once all of that

about then afterwards once all of that

about then afterwards once all of that is done you join the workforce and you

is done you join the workforce and you

is done you join the workforce and you find a stable and steady paying job that

find a stable and steady paying job that

find a stable and steady paying job that lets you slowly climb your way up the

lets you slowly climb your way up the

lets you slowly climb your way up the ladder and start a family where you’ll

ladder and start a family where you’ll

ladder and start a family where you’ll continue to work until you retire

continue to work until you retire

continue to work until you retire now I’m not really sure but I’m pretty

now I’m not really sure but I’m pretty

now I’m not really sure but I’m pretty sure that this is kind of outdated this

sure that this is kind of outdated this

sure that this is kind of outdated this is the master plan forged by the wisdom

is the master plan forged by the wisdom

is the master plan forged by the wisdom and the experience of all those who came

and the experience of all those who came

and the experience of all those who came before you and yet all you have to do is

before you and yet all you have to do is

before you and yet all you have to do is follow it and this good life that you

follow it and this good life that you

follow it and this good life that you wish for can easily be yours you see I’m

wish for can easily be yours you see I’m

wish for can easily be yours you see I’m only 17 so I really can’t say what comes

only 17 so I really can’t say what comes

only 17 so I really can’t say what comes after high school but I think that

after high school but I think that

after high school but I think that there’s a problem that’s something like

there’s a problem that’s something like

there’s a problem that’s something like this exists at all

this exists at all

this exists at all because this kind of intense focus is

because this kind of intense focus is

because this kind of intense focus is like a double-edged sword you can more

like a double-edged sword you can more

like a double-edged sword you can more effectively reach your goals but I also

effectively reach your goals but I also

effectively reach your goals but I also think that you inadvertently close

think that you inadvertently close

think that you inadvertently close yourself off to other paths and

yourself off to other paths and

yourself off to other paths and opportunities now I’m not trying to say

opportunities now I’m not trying to say

opportunities now I’m not trying to say that stuff like this shouldn’t exist but

that stuff like this shouldn’t exist but

that stuff like this shouldn’t exist but I do think that this current

I do think that this current

I do think that this current understanding that we’re given is

understanding that we’re given is

understanding that we’re given is somewhat in need of correction you see

somewhat in need of correction you see

somewhat in need of correction you see in the world of entrepreneurship this is

in the world of entrepreneurship this is

in the world of entrepreneurship this is always something that I believe to be

always something that I believe to be

always something that I believe to be kind of somewhere out of reach somewhat

kind of somewhere out of reach somewhat

kind of somewhere out of reach somewhat inaccessible but kind of something

inaccessible but kind of something

inaccessible but kind of something designated for the prodigies and

designated for the prodigies and

designated for the prodigies and geniuses of my time

geniuses of my time

geniuses of my time and yet I’ve always kind of wanted to be

and yet I’ve always kind of wanted to be

and yet I’ve always kind of wanted to be an entrepreneur and I’ve always wanted

an entrepreneur and I’ve always wanted

an entrepreneur and I’ve always wanted to kind of start my own company but

to kind of start my own company but

to kind of start my own company but there would always be this voice at the

there would always be this voice at the

there would always be this voice at the back of my head telling me you’re not

back of my head telling me you’re not

back of my head telling me you’re not supposed to do this yet or just keep

supposed to do this yet or just keep

supposed to do this yet or just keep studying and it’ll all make sense later

studying and it’ll all make sense later

studying and it’ll all make sense later and that actually stopped me on numerous

and that actually stopped me on numerous

and that actually stopped me on numerous occasions from starting this endeavor

occasions from starting this endeavor

occasions from starting this endeavor because I was afraid of putting myself

because I was afraid of putting myself

because I was afraid of putting myself out there and I was afraid of failure

out there and I was afraid of failure

out there and I was afraid of failure quite simply because I think that this

quite simply because I think that this

quite simply because I think that this system this kind of set path that were

system this kind of set path that were

system this kind of set path that were given kind of predicates this necessity

given kind of predicates this necessity

given kind of predicates this necessity for success that in order to proceed to

for success that in order to proceed to

for success that in order to proceed to the next step we have to succeed and

the next step we have to succeed and

the next step we have to succeed and because of this I feel like there’s this

because of this I feel like there’s this

because of this I feel like there’s this deep deeply ingrained fear of failure to

deep deeply ingrained fear of failure to

deep deeply ingrained fear of failure to the point where not only are we afraid

the point where not only are we afraid

the point where not only are we afraid to make mistakes but we’re also afraid

to make mistakes but we’re also afraid

to make mistakes but we’re also afraid and we develop this natural aversion to

and we develop this natural aversion to

and we develop this natural aversion to the unknown and the unconventional

the unknown and the unconventional

the unknown and the unconventional because after all why take risks when

because after all why take risks when

because after all why take risks when all you have to do is follow the steps

all you have to do is follow the steps

all you have to do is follow the steps in order to succeed now over the

in order to succeed now over the

in order to succeed now over the holidays I decided that I was going to

holidays I decided that I was going to

holidays I decided that I was going to push my

push my

push my self I said that by the end of the month

self I said that by the end of the month

self I said that by the end of the month I would at least create my own

I would at least create my own

I would at least create my own e-commerce company regardless of the

e-commerce company regardless of the

e-commerce company regardless of the consequences and surprisingly I

consequences and surprisingly I

consequences and surprisingly I succeeded by the end of the month I had

succeeded by the end of the month I had

succeeded by the end of the month I had established my own LLC and naturally

established my own LLC and naturally

established my own LLC and naturally being the only member of this newly

being the only member of this newly

being the only member of this newly formed company I named myself CEO

formed company I named myself CEO

formed company I named myself CEO president and vice chairman and head

president and vice chairman and head

president and vice chairman and head chairman I have no regrets but now

chairman I have no regrets but now

chairman I have no regrets but now officially because of this I’m now with

officially because of this I’m now with

officially because of this I’m now with the founder of an e-commerce company an

the founder of an e-commerce company an

the founder of an e-commerce company an online retailing company projected to

online retailing company projected to

online retailing company projected to launch by June 2017 the impossible for

launch by June 2017 the impossible for

launch by June 2017 the impossible for me had become possible but it wasn’t

me had become possible but it wasn’t

me had become possible but it wasn’t because I suddenly became really smart

because I suddenly became really smart

because I suddenly became really smart or really capable but rather it was

or really capable but rather it was

or really capable but rather it was because I discovered that without these

because I discovered that without these

because I discovered that without these mental shackles telling me that I

mental shackles telling me that I

mental shackles telling me that I couldn’t do this the whole process was

couldn’t do this the whole process was

couldn’t do this the whole process was actually just simply easy I think it’s

actually just simply easy I think it’s

actually just simply easy I think it’s because today the world is changing and

because today the world is changing and

because today the world is changing and nowadays the impossible is both rapidly

nowadays the impossible is both rapidly

nowadays the impossible is both rapidly becoming possible and accessible for

becoming possible and accessible for

becoming possible and accessible for everyone but by adhering to the

everyone but by adhering to the

everyone but by adhering to the conventional wisdom that we are given I

conventional wisdom that we are given I

conventional wisdom that we are given I feel like students many students many

feel like students many students many

feel like students many students many people have adopted a perspective that

people have adopted a perspective that

people have adopted a perspective that limits what they can truly achieve and

limits what they can truly achieve and

limits what they can truly achieve and leaves them unable to avail themselves

leaves them unable to avail themselves

leaves them unable to avail themselves to the opportunities of today by

to the opportunities of today by

to the opportunities of today by adhering so much and focusing so much on

adhering so much and focusing so much on

adhering so much and focusing so much on the wisdom of yesterday I feel that we

the wisdom of yesterday I feel that we

the wisdom of yesterday I feel that we lose sight of the new and unknown of

lose sight of the new and unknown of

lose sight of the new and unknown of today now I think that a lot of people

today now I think that a lot of people

today now I think that a lot of people have this kind of false idea that a lot

have this kind of false idea that a lot

have this kind of false idea that a lot of things for them are kind of not

of things for them are kind of not

of things for them are kind of not really supposed to be for them but I

really supposed to be for them but I

really supposed to be for them but I think because of this this actually

think because of this this actually

think because of this this actually inhibits what we can really kind of

inhibits what we can really kind of

inhibits what we can really kind of accomplish and it blinds us and clouds

accomplish and it blinds us and clouds

accomplish and it blinds us and clouds our sight because for me

our sight because for me

our sight because for me and with this ecommerce company I

and with this ecommerce company I

and with this ecommerce company I discovered that things weren’t actually

discovered that things weren’t actually

discovered that things weren’t actually impossible but they were always actually

impossible but they were always actually

impossible but they were always actually available and out there

available and out there

available and out there it was astonishingly simple I can

it was astonishingly simple I can

it was astonishingly simple I can actually teach everyone right now how to

actually teach everyone right now how to

actually teach everyone right now how to start their own company the first step

start their own company the first step

start their own company the first step you need to do is just go to a website

you need to do is just go to a website

you need to do is just go to a website your standard government website and

your standard government website and

your standard government website and fill out a 20-minute form you pay a

fill out a 20-minute form you pay a

fill out a 20-minute form you pay a little money and then your company is

little money and then your company is

little money and then your company is formed that’s all you need to do

formed that’s all you need to do

formed that’s all you need to do and to create an online retailing

and to create an online retailing

and to create an online retailing company I just used a website that was

company I just used a website that was

company I just used a website that was designed for building websites so I had

designed for building websites so I had

designed for building websites so I had to do is like drag and drop stuff and

to do is like drag and drop stuff and

to do is like drag and drop stuff and then put things in to make things look

then put things in to make things look

then put things in to make things look fancy it was astonishingly simple so

fancy it was astonishingly simple so

fancy it was astonishingly simple so much so to the point where it shattered

much so to the point where it shattered

much so to the point where it shattered the deeply held convictions that I had

the deeply held convictions that I had

the deeply held convictions that I had that stuff like this wasn’t possible

that stuff like this wasn’t possible

that stuff like this wasn’t possible because today I think it is possible for

because today I think it is possible for

because today I think it is possible for all of us

all of us

all of us I just didn’t realize it I was so busy

I just didn’t realize it I was so busy

I just didn’t realize it I was so busy focusing and being infatuated with what

focusing and being infatuated with what

focusing and being infatuated with what I needed to do for the next step in life

I needed to do for the next step in life

I needed to do for the next step in life that I had failed to realize that the

that I had failed to realize that the

that I had failed to realize that the world around me had changed and was

world around me had changed and was

world around me had changed and was different than yesterday now I think

different than yesterday now I think

different than yesterday now I think it’s good to have a path a good general

it’s good to have a path a good general

it’s good to have a path a good general guideline for success but I think it is

guideline for success but I think it is

guideline for success but I think it is equally important if not more so to make

equally important if not more so to make

equally important if not more so to make sure we understand that this is not an

sure we understand that this is not an

sure we understand that this is not an end-all be-all and rather than follow

end-all be-all and rather than follow

end-all be-all and rather than follow this recipe down to the letter we should

this recipe down to the letter we should

this recipe down to the letter we should be encouraged to branch out and explore

be encouraged to branch out and explore

be encouraged to branch out and explore the new and unknown because if all we

the new and unknown because if all we

the new and unknown because if all we ever did was follow the rules for

ever did was follow the rules for

ever did was follow the rules for success and use the same recipe for

success and use the same recipe for

success and use the same recipe for baking a cake how will we ever

baking a cake how will we ever

baking a cake how will we ever experience the value of discovery

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