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Think like a storyteller | Jared Rypkema | TEDxFSCJ


when I think about story I think about

when I think about story I think about it in a very simple way the expression

it in a very simple way the expression

it in a very simple way the expression of an idea in narrative form I’d like

of an idea in narrative form I’d like

of an idea in narrative form I’d like you to take a moment and think about a

you to take a moment and think about a

you to take a moment and think about a story you can remember maybe because

story you can remember maybe because

story you can remember maybe because it’s one of your favorites that impacted

it’s one of your favorites that impacted

it’s one of your favorites that impacted the way that you saw the world around

the way that you saw the world around

the way that you saw the world around you maybe it’s one from your childhood

you maybe it’s one from your childhood

you maybe it’s one from your childhood or something a little bit more recent

or something a little bit more recent

or something a little bit more recent you read it in a book you saw it in a

you read it in a book you saw it in a

you read it in a book you saw it in a movie where you heard it on the radio

movie where you heard it on the radio

movie where you heard it on the radio just one that changed your perspective

just one that changed your perspective

just one that changed your perspective on something in life now this isn’t the

on something in life now this isn’t the

on something in life now this isn’t the easiest of exercises in fact when I

easiest of exercises in fact when I

easiest of exercises in fact when I stepped into the role as a writer and a

stepped into the role as a writer and a

stepped into the role as a writer and a publisher I found that story was so

publisher I found that story was so

publisher I found that story was so ingrained in the way that we saw

ingrained in the way that we saw

ingrained in the way that we saw ourselves in relation to the world and

ourselves in relation to the world and

ourselves in relation to the world and so prevalent and how we interacted with

so prevalent and how we interacted with

so prevalent and how we interacted with it that it was hard to find a single

it that it was hard to find a single

it that it was hard to find a single story and say that this one defined a

story and say that this one defined a

story and say that this one defined a moment for me in his book the

moment for me in his book the

moment for me in his book the storytelling animal Jonathan got soul

storytelling animal Jonathan got soul

storytelling animal Jonathan got soul speaks to the power of story in this way

speaks to the power of story in this way

speaks to the power of story in this way he says that story whether delivered

he says that story whether delivered

he says that story whether delivered through films books or even video games

through films books or even video games

through films books or even video games teaches us facts about life influences

teaches us facts about life influences

teaches us facts about life influences our moral logic and marks us with hopes

our moral logic and marks us with hopes

our moral logic and marks us with hopes fears and anxieties that alter our

fears and anxieties that alter our

fears and anxieties that alter our behavior and perhaps even our

behavior and perhaps even our

behavior and perhaps even our personalities when I think about a

personalities when I think about a

personalities when I think about a storyteller it’s also in a very simple

storyteller it’s also in a very simple

storyteller it’s also in a very simple way it’s a someone who communicates an

way it’s a someone who communicates an

way it’s a someone who communicates an idea through story and a storyteller can

idea through story and a storyteller can

idea through story and a storyteller can be pretty much anyone right it could be

be pretty much anyone right it could be

be pretty much anyone right it could be a writer a videographer director a

a writer a videographer director a

a writer a videographer director a photographer a businessperson podcaster

photographer a businessperson podcaster

photographer a businessperson podcaster or just anyone who communicates which is

or just anyone who communicates which is

or just anyone who communicates which is all of us and as I’ve started working

all of us and as I’ve started working

all of us and as I’ve started working with storytellers and seeing how they

with storytellers and seeing how they

with storytellers and seeing how they operate and how they think I’ve found

operate and how they think I’ve found

operate and how they think I’ve found some ways that they think that I feel

some ways that they think that I feel

some ways that they think that I feel can help us as we engage with the world

can help us as we engage with the world

can help us as we engage with the world around us and so here we go there’s

around us and so here we go there’s

around us and so here we go there’s three ways that a writer thinks or

three ways that a writer thinks or

three ways that a writer thinks or storyteller things that can help us

storyteller things that can help us

storyteller things that can help us today the first

today the first

today the first is that a storyteller seeks to respond

is that a storyteller seeks to respond

is that a storyteller seeks to respond to circumstances of life rather than

to circumstances of life rather than

to circumstances of life rather than react I’d like to tell you an example

react I’d like to tell you an example

react I’d like to tell you an example last year in november i was listening to

last year in november i was listening to

last year in november i was listening to the radio it was november 14th I

the radio it was november 14th I

the radio it was november 14th I Saturday it was the day after 120 people

Saturday it was the day after 120 people

Saturday it was the day after 120 people were killed in a series of attacks in

were killed in a series of attacks in

were killed in a series of attacks in Paris France and on this day on this

Paris France and on this day on this

Paris France and on this day on this Saturday a man by the name of David

Saturday a man by the name of David

Saturday a man by the name of David martello from Germany traveled to Paris

martello from Germany traveled to Paris

martello from Germany traveled to Paris and he pulled along a piano behind his

and he pulled along a piano behind his

and he pulled along a piano behind his bicycle up to the steps of the bat lican

bicycle up to the steps of the bat lican

bicycle up to the steps of the bat lican theater where 80 people had been killed

theater where 80 people had been killed

theater where 80 people had been killed the night before and he pulled up the

the night before and he pulled up the

the night before and he pulled up the piano and he set it down and in front of

piano and he set it down and in front of

piano and he set it down and in front of the small crowd assembled there he

the small crowd assembled there he

the small crowd assembled there he started to play a song imagine by john

started to play a song imagine by john

started to play a song imagine by john lennon now he didn’t sing any words but

lennon now he didn’t sing any words but

lennon now he didn’t sing any words but the chorus rang loudly it said you may

the chorus rang loudly it said you may

the chorus rang loudly it said you may say that i’m a dreamer but I’m not the

say that i’m a dreamer but I’m not the

say that i’m a dreamer but I’m not the only one perhaps one day you’ll join me

only one perhaps one day you’ll join me

only one perhaps one day you’ll join me and the world will be as one and as I

and the world will be as one and as I

and the world will be as one and as I listened to the story I was overwhelmed

listened to the story I was overwhelmed

listened to the story I was overwhelmed with his sense that this man this artist

with his sense that this man this artist

with his sense that this man this artist had found a way to respond to such a

had found a way to respond to such a

had found a way to respond to such a tragic situation in such a profoundly

tragic situation in such a profoundly

tragic situation in such a profoundly beautiful way that in the face of evil

beautiful way that in the face of evil

beautiful way that in the face of evil he was able to connect that small group

he was able to connect that small group

he was able to connect that small group of people there and show them they’re a

of people there and show them they’re a

of people there and show them they’re a small but very bright part of humanity

small but very bright part of humanity

small but very bright part of humanity at least for just that that small moment

at least for just that that small moment

at least for just that that small moment I believe a storyteller seeks to respond

I believe a storyteller seeks to respond

I believe a storyteller seeks to respond in a similar way that they look into the

in a similar way that they look into the

in a similar way that they look into the face of something difficult and then

face of something difficult and then

face of something difficult and then find that way to act find that way to

find that way to act find that way to

find that way to act find that way to speak that is informed and measured and

speak that is informed and measured and

speak that is informed and measured and that’s what i mean by responding it’s

that’s what i mean by responding it’s

that’s what i mean by responding it’s stepping back looking at the context of

stepping back looking at the context of

stepping back looking at the context of the situation looking how other people

the situation looking how other people

the situation looking how other people around us are reacting and then finding

around us are reacting and then finding

around us are reacting and then finding that way to respond in that appropriate

that way to respond in that appropriate

that way to respond in that appropriate way that poles people together

way that poles people together

way that poles people together what I love most about this story is

what I love most about this story is

what I love most about this story is that connection that everyone must have

that connection that everyone must have

that connection that everyone must have felt in that moment sitting listening to

felt in that moment sitting listening to

felt in that moment sitting listening to it and that I felt to them thousands of

it and that I felt to them thousands of

it and that I felt to them thousands of miles away hearing the words in my head

miles away hearing the words in my head

miles away hearing the words in my head you may say that I am a dreamer but I’m

you may say that I am a dreamer but I’m

you may say that I am a dreamer but I’m not the only one and whereas before they

not the only one and whereas before they

not the only one and whereas before they were connected through a very tragic

were connected through a very tragic

were connected through a very tragic situation they were now connected

situation they were now connected

situation they were now connected through beauty through this small moment

through beauty through this small moment

through beauty through this small moment the second way has storyteller things

the second way has storyteller things

the second way has storyteller things that I believe can be helpful is that

that I believe can be helpful is that

that I believe can be helpful is that they step into the shoes of their

they step into the shoes of their

they step into the shoes of their characters they immerse themselves into

characters they immerse themselves into

characters they immerse themselves into the people they are writing and they do

the people they are writing and they do

the people they are writing and they do this to create an authentic empathetic

this to create an authentic empathetic

this to create an authentic empathetic connection between the reader the viewer

connection between the reader the viewer

connection between the reader the viewer the listener and their characters and

the listener and their characters and

the listener and their characters and empathy is the line that pulls you

empathy is the line that pulls you

empathy is the line that pulls you through a story and is crucial for

through a story and is crucial for

through a story and is crucial for having the impact or creating the impact

having the impact or creating the impact

having the impact or creating the impact that the storyteller is going for as a

that the storyteller is going for as a

that the storyteller is going for as a writer we do this by writing from

writer we do this by writing from

writer we do this by writing from something called connected experience

something called connected experience

something called connected experience this is the pinnacle of what is commonly

this is the pinnacle of what is commonly

this is the pinnacle of what is commonly known as writing as show don’t tell and

known as writing as show don’t tell and

known as writing as show don’t tell and the best way for me to talk about

the best way for me to talk about

the best way for me to talk about connected experience is to build a scene

connected experience is to build a scene

connected experience is to build a scene for you using some of the tactics that a

for you using some of the tactics that a

for you using some of the tactics that a writer might use to write from the

writer might use to write from the

writer might use to write from the perspective of their character so using

perspective of their character so using

perspective of their character so using the story from Paris I’d like to add to

the story from Paris I’d like to add to

the story from Paris I’d like to add to it and say and tell you that there’s a

it and say and tell you that there’s a

it and say and tell you that there’s a woman in the crowd that day and that

woman in the crowd that day and that

woman in the crowd that day and that she’s holding flowers and she’s crying

she’s holding flowers and she’s crying

she’s holding flowers and she’s crying now what I’ve done is I’ve just given

now what I’ve done is I’ve just given

now what I’ve done is I’ve just given you facts about the situation you can of

you facts about the situation you can of

you facts about the situation you can of course deduct why she’s there and why

course deduct why she’s there and why

course deduct why she’s there and why she’s crying but you’re not there with

she’s crying but you’re not there with

she’s crying but you’re not there with her you are not seeing things through

her you are not seeing things through

her you are not seeing things through her perspective let me go another step

her perspective let me go another step

her perspective let me go another step and say that there are barricades behind

and say that there are barricades behind

and say that there are barricades behind her and that she’s sitting on these

her and that she’s sitting on these

her and that she’s sitting on these steps I’d like you to picture people

steps I’d like you to picture people

steps I’d like you to picture people walking around in front of her a

walking around in front of her a

walking around in front of her a constant movement but she is sitting

constant movement but she is sitting

constant movement but she is sitting completely still staring off into the

completely still staring off into the

completely still staring off into the distance

distance

distance and tears are coming down her unblinking

and tears are coming down her unblinking

and tears are coming down her unblinking eyes now I’ve given you more details

eyes now I’ve given you more details

eyes now I’ve given you more details I’ve painted this picture a little bit

I’ve painted this picture a little bit

I’ve painted this picture a little bit more fully for you but the writer seeks

more fully for you but the writer seeks

more fully for you but the writer seeks to get to the closest point that they

to get to the closest point that they

to get to the closest point that they seek to get closer and gets you closer

seek to get closer and gets you closer

seek to get closer and gets you closer to this situation and so I can do that

to this situation and so I can do that

to this situation and so I can do that by telling you a little bit more why

by telling you a little bit more why

by telling you a little bit more why she’s sitting there she’s sitting there

she’s sitting there she’s sitting there

she’s sitting there she’s sitting there because her eldest son was at the

because her eldest son was at the

because her eldest son was at the concert the night before and that she

concert the night before and that she

concert the night before and that she had gotten a call that morning and that

had gotten a call that morning and that

had gotten a call that morning and that she had come to the theater just to be

she had come to the theater just to be

she had come to the theater just to be as close as she could to be where he was

as close as she could to be where he was

as close as she could to be where he was and when she was turned away by the

and when she was turned away by the

and when she was turned away by the officers and the barricade she turned

officers and the barricade she turned

officers and the barricade she turned and she sat on these steps and she

and she sat on these steps and she

and she sat on these steps and she started weeping but there’s one more

started weeping but there’s one more

started weeping but there’s one more level down that as a storyteller we’re

level down that as a storyteller we’re

level down that as a storyteller we’re seeking to get you right we’re trying to

seeking to get you right we’re trying to

seeking to get you right we’re trying to get the closest that we can connected

get the closest that we can connected

get the closest that we can connected experience is a full immersion into the

experience is a full immersion into the

experience is a full immersion into the scene and it’s accomplished by telling

scene and it’s accomplished by telling

scene and it’s accomplished by telling it from the perspective of someone even

it from the perspective of someone even

it from the perspective of someone even closer to that character someone within

closer to that character someone within

closer to that character someone within so taking it out of my perspective and

so taking it out of my perspective and

so taking it out of my perspective and putting it in a character’s perspective

putting it in a character’s perspective

putting it in a character’s perspective so let me tell you one more time from

so let me tell you one more time from

so let me tell you one more time from her perspective / 15 year old son this

her perspective / 15 year old son this

her perspective / 15 year old son this son had begged his mother to let him go

son had begged his mother to let him go

son had begged his mother to let him go to that concert the night before and

to that concert the night before and

to that concert the night before and begged her and she had said no this is

begged her and she had said no this is

begged her and she had said no this is your eldest brother’s first concert let

your eldest brother’s first concert let

your eldest brother’s first concert let him go with his friends and she had SAT

him go with his friends and she had SAT

him go with his friends and she had SAT up in the light all night long and in

up in the light all night long and in

up in the light all night long and in the morning when the Sun came down she

the morning when the Sun came down she

the morning when the Sun came down she was still sitting there but was here’s

was still sitting there but was here’s

was still sitting there but was here’s an her eyes and a phone still in her

an her eyes and a phone still in her

an her eyes and a phone still in her hand and he was worried for a she put

hand and he was worried for a she put

hand and he was worried for a she put her jacket on and walked out the door

her jacket on and walked out the door

her jacket on and walked out the door and he followed out of short distance

and he followed out of short distance

and he followed out of short distance and she picked up flowers at the corner

and she picked up flowers at the corner

and she picked up flowers at the corner shop and he’s really worried for her

shop and he’s really worried for her

shop and he’s really worried for her because he knows that she had lost her

because he knows that she had lost her

because he knows that she had lost her mother just months before his

mother just months before his

mother just months before his grandmother and that was a really tragic

grandmother and that was a really tragic

grandmother and that was a really tragic situation and she was still dealing with

situation and she was still dealing with

situation and she was still dealing with it

it

it you so worried and and as she got up to

you so worried and and as she got up to

you so worried and and as she got up to the steps he watches us as she is turned

the steps he watches us as she is turned

the steps he watches us as she is turned away and just stares out into the

away and just stares out into the

away and just stares out into the distance and sits on those steps and his

distance and sits on those steps and his

distance and sits on those steps and his heart breaks now this is the closest of

heart breaks now this is the closest of

heart breaks now this is the closest of storyteller can come to a scene it is a

storyteller can come to a scene it is a

storyteller can come to a scene it is a full immersion into the thoughts hopes

full immersion into the thoughts hopes

full immersion into the thoughts hopes and fears and emotions of a character

and fears and emotions of a character

and fears and emotions of a character and it’s powerful as a storyteller you

and it’s powerful as a storyteller you

and it’s powerful as a storyteller you are opening yourself up to worlds that

are opening yourself up to worlds that

are opening yourself up to worlds that you would have never imagined two

you would have never imagined two

you would have never imagined two perspectives that you would have never

perspectives that you would have never

perspectives that you would have never thought of that are completely not your

thought of that are completely not your

thought of that are completely not your own and as you’re thinking this way it

own and as you’re thinking this way it

own and as you’re thinking this way it changes the way you interact with other

changes the way you interact with other

changes the way you interact with other people in a profound level I guarantee

people in a profound level I guarantee

people in a profound level I guarantee this if we all started thinking this way

this if we all started thinking this way

this if we all started thinking this way because I can guarantee that there

because I can guarantee that there

because I can guarantee that there people are feeling misunderstood today

people are feeling misunderstood today

people are feeling misunderstood today who feel alone today and if we stepped

who feel alone today and if we stepped

who feel alone today and if we stepped into a different perspective and looked

into a different perspective and looked

into a different perspective and looked at it from theirs it would change a lot

at it from theirs it would change a lot

at it from theirs it would change a lot now we talked about two different ways

now we talked about two different ways

now we talked about two different ways the storyteller things that they respond

the storyteller things that they respond

the storyteller things that they respond rather than react and that they step

rather than react and that they step

rather than react and that they step into the shoes of their character and

into the shoes of their character and

into the shoes of their character and both of these elements combine into the

both of these elements combine into the

both of these elements combine into the primary goal that I believe of every

primary goal that I believe of every

primary goal that I believe of every story teller and that is the third part

story teller and that is the third part

story teller and that is the third part and that is to connect to connect

and that is to connect to connect

and that is to connect to connect themselves with their characters to

themselves with their characters to

themselves with their characters to connect you with their characters

connect you with their characters

connect you with their characters connect you with their ideas that

connect you with their ideas that

connect you with their ideas that they’re trying to communicate and

they’re trying to communicate and

they’re trying to communicate and connect people with similar ideas and

connect people with similar ideas and

connect people with similar ideas and people with different ideas and this

people with different ideas and this

people with different ideas and this connection is the primary goal of every

connection is the primary goal of every

connection is the primary goal of every story teller if you think about that

story teller if you think about that

story teller if you think about that story I just told you we connected to

story I just told you we connected to

story I just told you we connected to that character on a human level it

that character on a human level it

that character on a human level it didn’t matter what race she was what

didn’t matter what race she was what

didn’t matter what race she was what political views she held what religious

political views she held what religious

political views she held what religious beliefs she had we

beliefs she had we

beliefs she had we connected on a deeper level this human

connected on a deeper level this human

connected on a deeper level this human level in the moment of her pain think

level in the moment of her pain think

level in the moment of her pain think about it to connect and be connected is

about it to connect and be connected is

about it to connect and be connected is one of the most important elements of

one of the most important elements of

one of the most important elements of what it means to be human we crave it

what it means to be human we crave it

what it means to be human we crave it and a storyteller taps into that desire

and a storyteller taps into that desire

and a storyteller taps into that desire that we have to connect ourselves with

that we have to connect ourselves with

that we have to connect ourselves with each other and then poles and pushes and

each other and then poles and pushes and

each other and then poles and pushes and needs it together in order to push us

needs it together in order to push us

needs it together in order to push us forward in his essay why I right George

forward in his essay why I right George

forward in his essay why I right George Orwell says that a motivation behind

Orwell says that a motivation behind

Orwell says that a motivation behind every great writer is the desire to push

every great writer is the desire to push

every great writer is the desire to push the world in a certain direction and

the world in a certain direction and

the world in a certain direction and alter people’s ideas of the society that

alter people’s ideas of the society that

alter people’s ideas of the society that they want to strive after this is what i

they want to strive after this is what i

they want to strive after this is what i mean by connecting and moving forward i

mean by connecting and moving forward i

mean by connecting and moving forward i believe that if more people in the world

believe that if more people in the world

believe that if more people in the world thought like this they took the time to

thought like this they took the time to

thought like this they took the time to respond they looked at situations from

respond they looked at situations from

respond they looked at situations from another’s perspective and they thought

another’s perspective and they thought

another’s perspective and they thought to connect that we’d live in a

to connect that we’d live in a

to connect that we’d live in a completely different world one that was

completely different world one that was

completely different world one that was more understanding one that was slower

more understanding one that was slower

more understanding one that was slower out reacting and better at responding a

out reacting and better at responding a

out reacting and better at responding a world that we would want to be a part of

world that we would want to be a part of

world that we would want to be a part of and the best thing about this is it’s

and the best thing about this is it’s

and the best thing about this is it’s very simple changing the way that we

very simple changing the way that we

very simple changing the way that we think doesn’t have to wait we can do it

think doesn’t have to wait we can do it

think doesn’t have to wait we can do it right here we can do it today thank

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