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[Applause] when I first heard that this year’s
when I first heard that this year’s
when I first heard that this year’s statics topic is what if I was a little
statics topic is what if I was a little
statics topic is what if I was a little bit confused because in my opinion this
bit confused because in my opinion this
bit confused because in my opinion this question could have an infinite amount
question could have an infinite amount
question could have an infinite amount of answers an infinite amount of
of answers an infinite amount of
of answers an infinite amount of possibilities to end it and it would
possibilities to end it and it would
possibilities to end it and it would still make sense yet I chose the one
still make sense yet I chose the one
still make sense yet I chose the one topic that I think I have a lot of my
topic that I think I have a lot of my
topic that I think I have a lot of my own experience and so I could share it
own experience and so I could share it
own experience and so I could share it all I could share it with all of you and
all I could share it with all of you and
all I could share it with all of you and maybe we you would learn something from
maybe we you would learn something from
maybe we you would learn something from it so my topic today is what if we
it so my topic today is what if we
it so my topic today is what if we became the better versions of ourselves
became the better versions of ourselves
became the better versions of ourselves it might sound you topic this perfect
it might sound you topic this perfect
it might sound you topic this perfect world filled with perfect people who are
world filled with perfect people who are
world filled with perfect people who are always nice to each other but is it
always nice to each other but is it
always nice to each other but is it actually the best we can be in my
actually the best we can be in my
actually the best we can be in my opinion it is not the only thing that we
opinion it is not the only thing that we
opinion it is not the only thing that we need to do in order to become better
need to do in order to become better
need to do in order to become better well there are not one thing there are a
well there are not one thing there are a
well there are not one thing there are a couple of things but they all can be
couple of things but they all can be
couple of things but they all can be concluded into this one let’s say thing
concluded into this one let’s say thing
concluded into this one let’s say thing moving forward and let me tell you three
moving forward and let me tell you three
moving forward and let me tell you three things that go into this sentence so
things that go into this sentence so
things that go into this sentence so firstly we need to change whether it is
firstly we need to change whether it is
firstly we need to change whether it is a small tweak in our personality or is
a small tweak in our personality or is
a small tweak in our personality or is it a drastic change in our appearance it
it a drastic change in our appearance it
it a drastic change in our appearance it doesn’t matter as long as we are moving
doesn’t matter as long as we are moving
doesn’t matter as long as we are moving forward as long as we’re changing that’s
forward as long as we’re changing that’s
forward as long as we’re changing that’s good
good
good people change in many different ways I
people change in many different ways I
people change in many different ways I for example as you can see well I have
for example as you can see well I have
for example as you can see well I have dyed my hair bright red and there is a
dyed my hair bright red and there is a
dyed my hair bright red and there is a very well common reason why I did that
very well common reason why I did that
very well common reason why I did that although my friends are joking that I
although my friends are joking that I
although my friends are joking that I did that because of TEDx so I would fit
did that because of TEDx so I would fit
did that because of TEDx so I would fit into the theme as
into the theme as
into the theme as it is white and red however I did it for
it is white and red however I did it for
it is white and red however I did it for to fight with my seasonal depression in
to fight with my seasonal depression in
to fight with my seasonal depression in well to those who don’t know what that
well to those who don’t know what that
well to those who don’t know what that is it is a well a form of depression
is it is a well a form of depression
is it is a well a form of depression which occurs in some seasons let’s say
which occurs in some seasons let’s say
which occurs in some seasons let’s say for me it was fall and winter and well
for me it was fall and winter and well
for me it was fall and winter and well as you know winter is really hard time
as you know winter is really hard time
as you know winter is really hard time there is not much color and not much
there is not much color and not much
there is not much color and not much life outside so I decided to change that
life outside so I decided to change that
life outside so I decided to change that I decided to bring some color into my
I decided to bring some color into my
I decided to bring some color into my life so I would feel more alive and it
life so I would feel more alive and it
life so I would feel more alive and it worked every time I woke up and saw
worked every time I woke up and saw
worked every time I woke up and saw myself in the mirror I would I would say
myself in the mirror I would I would say
myself in the mirror I would I would say wow there is actually something worth
wow there is actually something worth
wow there is actually something worth going for and well that changed me so I
going for and well that changed me so I
going for and well that changed me so I think that it is good to change another
think that it is good to change another
think that it is good to change another thing that we need to know that we need
thing that we need to know that we need
thing that we need to know that we need to do in order to become a better
to do in order to become a better
to do in order to become a better version of years of ourselves is to
version of years of ourselves is to
version of years of ourselves is to learn to make mistakes but also to learn
learn to make mistakes but also to learn
learn to make mistakes but also to learn from our experiences it doesn’t matter
from our experiences it doesn’t matter
from our experiences it doesn’t matter whether it is our mistakes or something
whether it is our mistakes or something
whether it is our mistakes or something that another person shared with us and
that another person shared with us and
that another person shared with us and we took time to think about it and took
we took time to think about it and took
we took time to think about it and took something from their speech I have an
something from their speech I have an
something from their speech I have an example from my own experience last
example from my own experience last
example from my own experience last summer was a really funny time for me I
summer was a really funny time for me I
summer was a really funny time for me I was fighting with one of my closest
was fighting with one of my closest
was fighting with one of my closest friends and well as I don’t have many of
friends and well as I don’t have many of
friends and well as I don’t have many of them it was really well I felt really
them it was really well I felt really
them it was really well I felt really bad and I have one friend who lives in
bad and I have one friend who lives in
bad and I have one friend who lives in Italy his name is Jay and he helped me
Italy his name is Jay and he helped me
Italy his name is Jay and he helped me with this how well it was really simple
with this how well it was really simple
with this how well it was really simple he shared how he dealt with it how he
he shared how he dealt with it how he
he shared how he dealt with it how he dealt fighting with his friend and he
dealt fighting with his friend and he
dealt fighting with his friend and he told me that I have two options either
told me that I have two options either
told me that I have two options either to move on to cut everything off or to
to move on to cut everything off or to
to move on to cut everything off or to make the make
make the make
make the make up and to talk with her and well make it
up and to talk with her and well make it
up and to talk with her and well make it maybe better and as of now I’m really
maybe better and as of now I’m really
maybe better and as of now I’m really happy I took the second option and I
happy I took the second option and I
happy I took the second option and I talked with that person who I was
talked with that person who I was
talked with that person who I was fighting with and now we’re really good
fighting with and now we’re really good
fighting with and now we’re really good friends and I think that that experience
friends and I think that that experience
friends and I think that that experience it changed me and I learned something
it changed me and I learned something
it changed me and I learned something from it hover to all good things there
from it hover to all good things there
from it hover to all good things there are bad things we cannot talk about only
are bad things we cannot talk about only
are bad things we cannot talk about only positive things because I can assure you
positive things because I can assure you
positive things because I can assure you that even in this hall there are people
that even in this hall there are people
that even in this hall there are people who want to change they want to become
who want to change they want to become
who want to change they want to become better but yet they’re struggling with
better but yet they’re struggling with
better but yet they’re struggling with mental issues let’s say it is depression
mental issues let’s say it is depression
mental issues let’s say it is depression anxiety or any other some similar things
anxiety or any other some similar things
anxiety or any other some similar things it is harder for those people to become
it is harder for those people to become
it is harder for those people to become better because it’s their own head is
better because it’s their own head is
better because it’s their own head is telling them that they cannot do it but
telling them that they cannot do it but
telling them that they cannot do it but to all of you that are sitting here and
to all of you that are sitting here and
to all of you that are sitting here and listening to me right now
listening to me right now
listening to me right now I want to say that you can’t do it you
I want to say that you can’t do it you
I want to say that you can’t do it you just need to make smaller steps baby
just need to make smaller steps baby
just need to make smaller steps baby steps
steps
steps so you still can achieve the goal it
so you still can achieve the goal it
so you still can achieve the goal it just will take more time and I’m saying
just will take more time and I’m saying
just will take more time and I’m saying this not as a person who has not
this not as a person who has not
this not as a person who has not experienced it in fact as I have
experienced it in fact as I have
experienced it in fact as I have mentioned that I also struggle with
mentioned that I also struggle with
mentioned that I also struggle with these seizures too so I hope that all of
these seizures too so I hope that all of
these seizures too so I hope that all of you can take my words into your account
you can take my words into your account
you can take my words into your account to think about them to think about what
to think about them to think about what
to think about them to think about what I said and become better every one of
I said and become better every one of
I said and become better every one of you can do that thank you
you can do that thank you
you can do that thank you [Applause]
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