well I have been a huge fan of Dettol for many years and I think if I
for many years and I think if I
for many years and I think if I comfortably say many of them have quite
comfortably say many of them have quite
comfortably say many of them have quite literally changed the way I behave some
literally changed the way I behave some
literally changed the way I behave some of you may have seen a couple in 100
of you may have seen a couple in 100
of you may have seen a couple in 100 days of rejection project what a
days of rejection project what a
days of rejection project what a wonderful project really has motivate
wonderful project really has motivate
wonderful project really has motivate and deeply affected how I behave on a
and deeply affected how I behave on a
and deeply affected how I behave on a day to day basis so of course it’s only
day to day basis so of course it’s only
day to day basis so of course it’s only appropriate that I have very carefully
appropriate that I have very carefully
appropriate that I have very carefully prepared a short motivational speech for
prepared a short motivational speech for
prepared a short motivational speech for the start of my talk really you are not
the start of my talk really you are not
the start of my talk really you are not particularly special
particularly special
particularly special if you seem kind of lazy you a little
if you seem kind of lazy you a little
if you seem kind of lazy you a little bit Reedy you look kind of selfish to me
bit Reedy you look kind of selfish to me
bit Reedy you look kind of selfish to me to be honest kind of forgetful I don’t
to be honest kind of forgetful I don’t
to be honest kind of forgetful I don’t think you’re very brilliant and to be
think you’re very brilliant and to be
think you’re very brilliant and to be honest you don’t strike me as very
honest you don’t strike me as very
honest you don’t strike me as very creative now I can see from some of the
creative now I can see from some of the
creative now I can see from some of the horrified looks and getting around the
horrified looks and getting around the
horrified looks and getting around the room that’s about use of approach is
room that’s about use of approach is
room that’s about use of approach is that not what you were hoping for but I
that not what you were hoping for but I
that not what you were hoping for but I hope that by the end of this hall you’ll
hope that by the end of this hall you’ll
hope that by the end of this hall you’ll have thought not only is it ok that’s
have thought not only is it ok that’s
have thought not only is it ok that’s actually a very deeply motivating speech
actually a very deeply motivating speech
actually a very deeply motivating speech now I’ve just given and we proved that
now I’ve just given and we proved that
now I’ve just given and we proved that hopefully by giving a case study and my
hopefully by giving a case study and my
hopefully by giving a case study and my case study starts at the end at least
case study starts at the end at least
case study starts at the end at least the end according to Disney and
the end according to Disney and
the end according to Disney and Hollywood movies and they lived happily
Hollywood movies and they lived happily
Hollywood movies and they lived happily ever after
ever after
ever after because so much of our effort is spent
because so much of our effort is spent
because so much of our effort is spent on getting into romance getting into
on getting into romance getting into
on getting into romance getting into relationships very little is based on
relationships very little is based on
relationships very little is based on maintaining of romance maintaining
maintaining of romance maintaining
maintaining of romance maintaining keeping that fire going through
keeping that fire going through
keeping that fire going through years but I consider this to be a very
years but I consider this to be a very
years but I consider this to be a very serious problem as a foreign person as a
serious problem as a foreign person as a
serious problem as a foreign person as a doctor as a researcher I of course
doctor as a researcher I of course
doctor as a researcher I of course taking data-driven approach to this so
taking data-driven approach to this so
taking data-driven approach to this so in any type of projects we’re going to
in any type of projects we’re going to
in any type of projects we’re going to look at definitions first so I’m going
look at definitions first so I’m going
look at definitions first so I’m going to feel about romance what exactly is
to feel about romance what exactly is
to feel about romance what exactly is wrong well you go back one piece it’s a
wrong well you go back one piece it’s a
wrong well you go back one piece it’s a feeling of excitement and mystery
feeling of excitement and mystery
feeling of excitement and mystery associated with love okay so this is our
associated with love okay so this is our
associated with love okay so this is our concept of rumors this is what going to
concept of rumors this is what going to
concept of rumors this is what going to build our data-driven plan for having
build our data-driven plan for having
build our data-driven plan for having marriages a data-driven panel a sort of
marriages a data-driven panel a sort of
marriages a data-driven panel a sort of happiness with your partner on but let’s
happiness with your partner on but let’s
happiness with your partner on but let’s look now at these details so to get that
look now at these details so to get that
look now at these details so to get that feeling you have to be spontaneous
feeling you have to be spontaneous
feeling you have to be spontaneous thoughtful attentive caring and
thoughtful attentive caring and
thoughtful attentive caring and empathetic as I Rory said many of you to
empathetic as I Rory said many of you to
empathetic as I Rory said many of you to me don’t look very spontaneous and in
me don’t look very spontaneous and in
me don’t look very spontaneous and in fact I’m sure many of you have the
fact I’m sure many of you have the
fact I’m sure many of you have the complaint
complaint
complaint oh my partner’s not spontaneous so
oh my partner’s not spontaneous so
oh my partner’s not spontaneous so boring I can almost predict what he’s
boring I can almost predict what he’s
boring I can almost predict what he’s going to do never surprises me he or she
going to do never surprises me he or she
going to do never surprises me he or she never surprises me and this is sort of a
never surprises me and this is sort of a
never surprises me and this is sort of a terrible thing and I think this is
terrible thing and I think this is
terrible thing and I think this is absolutely true but most of it is a
absolutely true but most of it is a
absolutely true but most of it is a biology we as humans are not built to be
biology we as humans are not built to be
biology we as humans are not built to be spontaneous at all
spontaneous at all
spontaneous at all we are habit forming creatures we live
we are habit forming creatures we live
we are habit forming creatures we live in a very busy world then we cope with
in a very busy world then we cope with
in a very busy world then we cope with this cognitive load by seeking patterns
this cognitive load by seeking patterns
this cognitive load by seeking patterns doing the same thing time and time again
doing the same thing time and time again
doing the same thing time and time again and that is how we code with life so
and that is how we code with life so
and that is how we code with life so when you say you’re not spontaneous it’s
when you say you’re not spontaneous it’s
when you say you’re not spontaneous it’s not just you it’s all of us none of us
not just you it’s all of us none of us
not just you it’s all of us none of us are particularly spontaneous and if we
are particularly spontaneous and if we
are particularly spontaneous and if we look again at thoughtfulness as another
look again at thoughtfulness as another
look again at thoughtfulness as another example thoughtfulness we are all might
example thoughtfulness we are all might
example thoughtfulness we are all might forgetful humans forget things all the
forgetful humans forget things all the
forgetful humans forget things all the time we
time we
time we information-rich world where things are
information-rich world where things are
information-rich world where things are coming in and out we need to save our
coming in and out we need to save our
coming in and out we need to save our competition it’s so difficult to
competition it’s so difficult to
competition it’s so difficult to remember things is it any surprise that
remember things is it any surprise that
remember things is it any surprise that people forget that important anniversary
people forget that important anniversary
people forget that important anniversary date what your favorite food is where
date what your favorite food is where
date what your favorite food is where you like to go for dinner so these are
you like to go for dinner so these are
you like to go for dinner so these are the serious problems that humans face
the serious problems that humans face
the serious problems that humans face when we’re dealing with this kind of
when we’re dealing with this kind of
when we’re dealing with this kind of romance but can we take a data-driven
romance but can we take a data-driven
romance but can we take a data-driven approach to overcome our biological
approach to overcome our biological
approach to overcome our biological limitations but I think we can I’d like
limitations but I think we can I’d like
limitations but I think we can I’d like to observe this vibe or thinking about
to observe this vibe or thinking about
to observe this vibe or thinking about what exactly does let’s take one of them
what exactly does let’s take one of them
what exactly does let’s take one of them spontaneity
spontaneity
spontaneity what does spontaneity look like for some
what does spontaneity look like for some
what does spontaneity look like for some of you it may look like this soul
of you it may look like this soul
of you it may look like this soul capture in a moment but still allowing
capture in a moment but still allowing
capture in a moment but still allowing for sort of romantic approach but to me
for sort of romantic approach but to me
for sort of romantic approach but to me as a scientist that’s not what I think
as a scientist that’s not what I think
as a scientist that’s not what I think of spontaneity this is what spontaneity
of spontaneity this is what spontaneity
of spontaneity this is what spontaneity looks like so this is a mathematical
looks like so this is a mathematical
looks like so this is a mathematical spontaneity on the left hand side we
spontaneity on the left hand side we
spontaneity on the left hand side we have this very predictable linear graph
have this very predictable linear graph
have this very predictable linear graph you know at any given interval any given
you know at any given interval any given
you know at any given interval any given value you can predict the outcome where
value you can predict the outcome where
value you can predict the outcome where it’s almost like a very beautiful
it’s almost like a very beautiful
it’s almost like a very beautiful looking randomize slide there that
looking randomize slide there that
looking randomize slide there that really is spontaneity to me that is what
really is spontaneity to me that is what
really is spontaneity to me that is what it looks like so this is our model for
it looks like so this is our model for
it looks like so this is our model for romance and no matter how boring you are
romance and no matter how boring you are
romance and no matter how boring you are no matter how on spontaneous you are we
no matter how on spontaneous you are we
no matter how on spontaneous you are we can use this to increase our romance so
can use this to increase our romance so
can use this to increase our romance so let’s treat this in two examples
let’s treat this in two examples
let’s treat this in two examples spontaneity win and spontaneity what
spontaneity win and spontaneity what
spontaneity win and spontaneity what when it comes to dating look at
when it comes to dating look at
when it comes to dating look at spontaneity when first so for you all
spontaneity when first so for you all
spontaneity when first so for you all I’m sure you for those of you longer
I’m sure you for those of you longer
I’m sure you for those of you longer term relationships you may fall into the
term relationships you may fall into the
term relationships you may fall into the trap evil trap by saying Friday date
trap evil trap by saying Friday date
trap evil trap by saying Friday date night right a few smiles around so you
night right a few smiles around so you
night right a few smiles around so you know what I’m talking about Friday date
know what I’m talking about Friday date
know what I’m talking about Friday date night we’re going to go and do dinner
night we’re going to go and do dinner
night we’re going to go and do dinner and a movie
and a movie
and a movie out of 10 we’re going to go to one of
out of 10 we’re going to go to one of
out of 10 we’re going to go to one of four restaurants which our favorite and
four restaurants which our favorite and
four restaurants which our favorite and we’re going to see whatever the film
we’re going to see whatever the film
we’re going to see whatever the film Hollywood wants us to see that evening
Hollywood wants us to see that evening
Hollywood wants us to see that evening so that is going to be our very fixed
so that is going to be our very fixed
so that is going to be our very fixed dating pattern but my simple use of
dating pattern but my simple use of
dating pattern but my simple use of tools to overcome my patterns biology
tools to overcome my patterns biology
tools to overcome my patterns biology what we can see is we can use tools such
what we can see is we can use tools such
what we can see is we can use tools such as a simple calendar and a simple number
as a simple calendar and a simple number
as a simple calendar and a simple number randomizer and what you get is this you
randomizer and what you get is this you
randomizer and what you get is this you turn from date night fixed to random
turn from date night fixed to random
turn from date night fixed to random Dana now this is just one form of
Dana now this is just one form of
Dana now this is just one form of randomization and I think as you can see
randomization and I think as you can see
randomization and I think as you can see it’s very helpful imagine now you’re
it’s very helpful imagine now you’re
it’s very helpful imagine now you’re it’s not me being spontaneous it’s just
it’s not me being spontaneous it’s just
it’s not me being spontaneous it’s just my calendars ok be spontaneous and then
my calendars ok be spontaneous and then
my calendars ok be spontaneous and then you text my wife is hip and you texture
you text my wife is hip and you texture
you text my wife is hip and you texture that say I’ll meet me after work at the
that say I’ll meet me after work at the
that say I’ll meet me after work at the MTR for a surprise is it mysterious sure
MTR for a surprise is it mysterious sure
MTR for a surprise is it mysterious sure a little bit surprising absolutely
a little bit surprising absolutely
a little bit surprising absolutely nothing to do with me absolutely nothing
nothing to do with me absolutely nothing
nothing to do with me absolutely nothing to do with me and if any of you want to
to do with me and if any of you want to
to do with me and if any of you want to come and talk to me afterwards to
come and talk to me afterwards to
come and talk to me afterwards to confirm like how boring I am everything
confirm like how boring I am everything
confirm like how boring I am everything is this is absolutely nothing to do with
is this is absolutely nothing to do with
is this is absolutely nothing to do with me whatsoever that’s just the use of
me whatsoever that’s just the use of
me whatsoever that’s just the use of numbers I can overcome my biology to be
numbers I can overcome my biology to be
numbers I can overcome my biology to be spontaneous but that’s spontaneous what
spontaneous but that’s spontaneous what
spontaneous but that’s spontaneous what let’s take it a step further spontaneous
let’s take it a step further spontaneous
let’s take it a step further spontaneous spontaneous win we’re thus a spontaneous
spontaneous win we’re thus a spontaneous
spontaneous win we’re thus a spontaneous one now this is a model this is my very
one now this is a model this is my very
one now this is a model this is my very simplified model for the what I call the
simplified model for the what I call the
simplified model for the what I call the wife maintain us relative partner makes
wife maintain us relative partner makes
wife maintain us relative partner makes an interrupter I’m going to take you
an interrupter I’m going to take you
an interrupter I’m going to take you through this rather slowly because this
through this rather slowly because this
through this rather slowly because this is quite important take each of these
is quite important take each of these
is quite important take each of these categories if you want to do something
categories if you want to do something
categories if you want to do something nice for your other half an item that’s
nice for your other half an item that’s
nice for your other half an item that’s needed okay we can it’s certainly nice
needed okay we can it’s certainly nice
needed okay we can it’s certainly nice to get someone something that they need
to get someone something that they need
to get someone something that they need but of course if you do that we’ll this
but of course if you do that we’ll this
but of course if you do that we’ll this might become
might become
might become a bit of a handyman there if you get
a bit of a handyman there if you get
a bit of a handyman there if you get some something that they want something
some something that they want something
some something that they want something glamorous something flashy it’s very
glamorous something flashy it’s very
glamorous something flashy it’s very nice it’s very pleasing if you come
nice it’s very pleasing if you come
nice it’s very pleasing if you come across as a little bit materialistic
across as a little bit materialistic
across as a little bit materialistic than you on the other hand if you go for
than you on the other hand if you go for
than you on the other hand if you go for the homemade every time oh that’s very
the homemade every time oh that’s very
the homemade every time oh that’s very sweet
sweet
sweet and also a little bit cheap sometimes so
and also a little bit cheap sometimes so
and also a little bit cheap sometimes so this is why we have the rotor the rotor
this is why we have the rotor the rotor
this is why we have the rotor the rotor allows you to take advantage a to keep
allows you to take advantage a to keep
allows you to take advantage a to keep that person guessing and it’s not even
that person guessing and it’s not even
that person guessing and it’s not even just romance for them or add them it’s
just romance for them or add them it’s
just romance for them or add them it’s romantic for me too
romantic for me too
romantic for me too because whenever I go I’ve got a next
because whenever I go I’ve got a next
because whenever I go I’ve got a next big event that the rotor system will
big event that the rotor system will
big event that the rotor system will give me an output but then suddenly I
give me an output but then suddenly I
give me an output but then suddenly I think oh I wonder what I should do and
think oh I wonder what I should do and
think oh I wonder what I should do and sticking with this slide I’ll tell you
sticking with this slide I’ll tell you
sticking with this slide I’ll tell you how we collect theater this particular
how we collect theater this particular
how we collect theater this particular method in order to keep going with the
method in order to keep going with the
method in order to keep going with the romance and that is you have to be an
romance and that is you have to be an
romance and that is you have to be an absolute data in need
absolute data in need
absolute data in need I collect data at the most inappropriate
I collect data at the most inappropriate
I collect data at the most inappropriate most often times you never imagined and
most often times you never imagined and
most often times you never imagined and I do this using a tool called texting
I do this using a tool called texting
I do this using a tool called texting Gary you may have have other names for
Gary you may have have other names for
Gary you may have have other names for this essentially I have another friends
this essentially I have another friends
this essentially I have another friends called Gary so wonderful moment my wife
called Gary so wonderful moment my wife
called Gary so wonderful moment my wife says something she likes you see
says something she likes you see
says something she likes you see something this is lovely well that looks
something this is lovely well that looks
something this is lovely well that looks rather nice did you see my friend posted
rather nice did you see my friend posted
rather nice did you see my friend posted here I want to travel here I want to
here I want to travel here I want to
here I want to travel here I want to read this and do that I say I’m going to
read this and do that I say I’m going to
read this and do that I say I’m going to take scary because I’m not texting Gary
take scary because I’m not texting Gary
take scary because I’m not texting Gary I’m just entering the relevant data
I’m just entering the relevant data
I’m just entering the relevant data the information database I keep the
the information database I keep the
the information database I keep the electronic database known as the wife
electronic database known as the wife
electronic database known as the wife maintenance file is a little bit things
maintenance file is a little bit things
maintenance file is a little bit things that lives on on the website and it has
that lives on on the website and it has
that lives on on the website and it has all of these categories and items all
all of these categories and items all
all of these categories and items all recommendations you can go for because I
recommendations you can go for because I
recommendations you can go for because I get busy because I’m quite forgetful I
get busy because I’m quite forgetful I
get busy because I’m quite forgetful I don’t know when I’m going to need to
don’t know when I’m going to need to
don’t know when I’m going to need to come up with something on the spot so I
come up with something on the spot so I
come up with something on the spot so I don’t have to I dip into the wife
don’t have to I dip into the wife
don’t have to I dip into the wife maintenance file put off the next time I
maintenance file put off the next time I
maintenance file put off the next time I list the pub’s article they’re nice and
list the pub’s article they’re nice and
list the pub’s article they’re nice and simple in terms of spontaneity so here
simple in terms of spontaneity so here
simple in terms of spontaneity so here we have the basic romantic case cutting
we have the basic romantic case cutting
we have the basic romantic case cutting hopefully already you’re seeing no
hopefully already you’re seeing no
hopefully already you’re seeing no matter how limited you think you are no
matter how limited you think you are no
matter how limited you think you are no matter how on spontaneous and unromantic
matter how on spontaneous and unromantic
matter how on spontaneous and unromantic you are you can rise above it through a
you are you can rise above it through a
you are you can rise above it through a use of data and technology but I want to
use of data and technology but I want to
use of data and technology but I want to take this even one step further and say
take this even one step further and say
take this even one step further and say for those of you who think you’re
for those of you who think you’re
for those of you who think you’re creative all think creativity is a thing
creative all think creativity is a thing
creative all think creativity is a thing that people have I hate people who think
that people have I hate people who think
that people have I hate people who think that I think it’s a total lie because
that I think it’s a total lie because
that I think it’s a total lie because I’ve been creativity it’s quite a
I’ve been creativity it’s quite a
I’ve been creativity it’s quite a delusion we’re going to go on to the
delusion we’re going to go on to the
delusion we’re going to go on to the next slide I’m going to stick with a
next slide I’m going to stick with a
next slide I’m going to stick with a case study of romance and I’m going to
case study of romance and I’m going to
case study of romance and I’m going to demonstrate to you this is the mystic in
demonstrate to you this is the mystic in
demonstrate to you this is the mystic in Romans this is my proposal now it was
Romans this is my proposal now it was
Romans this is my proposal now it was quite a dramatic thing from looking at
quite a dramatic thing from looking at
quite a dramatic thing from looking at this it looks all very dramatic however
this it looks all very dramatic however
this it looks all very dramatic however I’d like to highlight to you one very
I’d like to highlight to you one very
I’d like to highlight to you one very important thing when I say to you at the
important thing when I say to you at the
important thing when I say to you at the beginning you’re not special
beginning you’re not special
beginning you’re not special I mean you are not special in gifts but
I mean you are not special in gifts but
I mean you are not special in gifts but also your problems
also your problems
also your problems not uniquely special lots of people have
not uniquely special lots of people have
not uniquely special lots of people have to propose the people and they want to
to propose the people and they want to
to propose the people and they want to do a good job and therefore I think in
do a good job and therefore I think in
do a good job and therefore I think in creative doesn’t start with me sitting
creative doesn’t start with me sitting
creative doesn’t start with me sitting in my room and thinking oh I’ve got
in my room and thinking oh I’ve got
in my room and thinking oh I’ve got these great ideas and these ideas are
these great ideas and these ideas are
these great ideas and these ideas are going to be wonderful
going to be wonderful
going to be wonderful they’re going to somehow be brilliant
they’re going to somehow be brilliant
they’re going to somehow be brilliant and I’m going to somehow overcome that
and I’m going to somehow overcome that
and I’m going to somehow overcome that point I’m a researcher the first thing
point I’m a researcher the first thing
point I’m a researcher the first thing when I count a problem as I see what’s
when I count a problem as I see what’s
when I count a problem as I see what’s in the literature the literature being
in the literature the literature being
in the literature the literature being in this case YouTube and the garbage so
in this case YouTube and the garbage so
in this case YouTube and the garbage so I serve through hundreds hundreds of
I serve through hundreds hundreds of
I serve through hundreds hundreds of other proposals just to see not only the
other proposals just to see not only the
other proposals just to see not only the numerical data but what we call
numerical data but what we call
numerical data but what we call qualitative data those descriptive
qualitative data those descriptive
qualitative data those descriptive underlying facets of what makes a
underlying facets of what makes a
underlying facets of what makes a romantic video actually romantic and
romantic video actually romantic and
romantic video actually romantic and further than that are you okay to get
further than that are you okay to get
further than that are you okay to get help I realized that for myself I’m
help I realized that for myself I’m
help I realized that for myself I’m quite limited in my own way so I had so
quite limited in my own way so I had so
quite limited in my own way so I had so much help preparing this proposal my
much help preparing this proposal my
much help preparing this proposal my best man actually took his day off to
best man actually took his day off to
best man actually took his day off to get set on ideas with every one of my
get set on ideas with every one of my
get set on ideas with every one of my live wife’s colleagues as the date
live wife’s colleagues as the date
live wife’s colleagues as the date should be available and all of these
should be available and all of these
should be available and all of these things at in the end we managed to get
things at in the end we managed to get
things at in the end we managed to get through this surprising proposal lots of
through this surprising proposal lots of
through this surprising proposal lots of in creativity on my part but mostly
in creativity on my part but mostly
in creativity on my part but mostly because of really hardcore research and
because of really hardcore research and
because of really hardcore research and there was a song involved addendum for
there was a song involved addendum for
there was a song involved addendum for some of you who are looking at this bit
some of you who are looking at this bit
some of you who are looking at this bit and does it look for me there from Love
and does it look for me there from Love
and does it look for me there from Love Actually you know that’s not seen
Actually you know that’s not seen
Actually you know that’s not seen – mommy I mean that’s obviously not an
– mommy I mean that’s obviously not an
– mommy I mean that’s obviously not an original idea it’s quite nice so I
original idea it’s quite nice so I
original idea it’s quite nice so I should appeal to either as my own Tomcat
should appeal to either as my own Tomcat
should appeal to either as my own Tomcat it’s very specific
it’s very specific
it’s very specific there’s a giant panda that’s bigger than
there’s a giant panda that’s bigger than
there’s a giant panda that’s bigger than my wife you might wonder why I don’t
my wife you might wonder why I don’t
my wife you might wonder why I don’t have a great memory but I looked through
have a great memory but I looked through
have a great memory but I looked through all of the data regarding all of the
all of the data regarding all of the
all of the data regarding all of the photos we’ve ever done and memories a
photos we’ve ever done and memories a
photos we’ve ever done and memories a lot of our first date was actually
lot of our first date was actually
lot of our first date was actually loading more and he had a terrible
loading more and he had a terrible
loading more and he had a terrible thought of that either that big panda
thought of that either that big panda
thought of that either that big panda and you stand next to no Shabaab these
and you stand next to no Shabaab these
and you stand next to no Shabaab these are all the things that’s research-based
are all the things that’s research-based
are all the things that’s research-based and none of it at all was particularly
and none of it at all was particularly
and none of it at all was particularly creative now my wife is sitting in the
creative now my wife is sitting in the
creative now my wife is sitting in the audience as I mentioned before and you
audience as I mentioned before and you
audience as I mentioned before and you may wonder whether she thinks I’m
may wonder whether she thinks I’m
may wonder whether she thinks I’m terribly terribly unromantic I I think
terribly terribly unromantic I I think
terribly terribly unromantic I I think in it to such an extreme level that I’ve
in it to such an extreme level that I’ve
in it to such an extreme level that I’ve killed the romance at the knife of
killed the romance at the knife of
killed the romance at the knife of science you might but I will say no less
science you might but I will say no less
science you might but I will say no less I know for two reasons
I know for two reasons
I know for two reasons going back to this image I think number
going back to this image I think number
going back to this image I think number one I think this is quite Kiki but I do
one I think this is quite Kiki but I do
one I think this is quite Kiki but I do quite like it we always I always like to
quite like it we always I always like to
quite like it we always I always like to think of it as our dates kind of come
think of it as our dates kind of come
think of it as our dates kind of come from the stars they come from this
from the stars they come from this
from the stars they come from this constellation of randomness the forces
constellation of randomness the forces
constellation of randomness the forces of nature that cannot be compelled from
of nature that cannot be compelled from
of nature that cannot be compelled from anything so it comes from up above and
anything so it comes from up above and
anything so it comes from up above and we are given a date it’s not something
we are given a date it’s not something
we are given a date it’s not something and I come up with it’s sort of a
and I come up with it’s sort of a
and I come up with it’s sort of a destiny I think that’s number one that’s
destiny I think that’s number one that’s
destiny I think that’s number one that’s why kit is still remember even though
why kit is still remember even though
why kit is still remember even though she perfectly well knows this is exactly
she perfectly well knows this is exactly
she perfectly well knows this is exactly what I do
what I do
what I do the second thing and I think this is
the second thing and I think this is
the second thing and I think this is sort of really important too is that
sort of really important too is that
sort of really important too is that actually all the physical things that
actually all the physical things that
actually all the physical things that items are trips they are not the
items are trips they are not the
items are trips they are not the important thing of what I’m giving them
important thing of what I’m giving them
important thing of what I’m giving them because what I’m giving her in fact is
because what I’m giving her in fact is
because what I’m giving her in fact is the gift of time I think that is in fact
the gift of time I think that is in fact
the gift of time I think that is in fact the most romantic thing anyone can give
the most romantic thing anyone can give
the most romantic thing anyone can give to any person
to any person
to any person and I don’t mean that rubbish time where
and I don’t mean that rubbish time where
and I don’t mean that rubbish time where you gradually spend an afternoon with
you gradually spend an afternoon with
you gradually spend an afternoon with that person as they fine we’ll go
that person as they fine we’ll go
that person as they fine we’ll go shopping together and you go with them
shopping together and you go with them
shopping together and you go with them not that time the good time the quality
not that time the good time the quality
not that time the good time the quality time and that doesn’t need to be spent
time and that doesn’t need to be spent
time and that doesn’t need to be spent with them it can be sent sitting on
with them it can be sent sitting on
with them it can be sent sitting on yourself researching and thinking how am
yourself researching and thinking how am
yourself researching and thinking how am I going to make this wasn’t happy what
I going to make this wasn’t happy what
I going to make this wasn’t happy what special thing can I cook happy now I’m
special thing can I cook happy now I’m
special thing can I cook happy now I’m going to give them this time and this is
going to give them this time and this is
going to give them this time and this is not just for romance this is for your
not just for romance this is for your
not just for romance this is for your friends your family your colleagues and
friends your family your colleagues and
friends your family your colleagues and everyone and I think that to me is the
everyone and I think that to me is the
everyone and I think that to me is the most romantic thing so to bring this
most romantic thing so to bring this
most romantic thing so to bring this back to my rather abusive beginning I
back to my rather abusive beginning I
back to my rather abusive beginning I think you are not special and I think
think you are not special and I think
think you are not special and I think you are a bit forgetful a bit lazy a bit
you are a bit forgetful a bit lazy a bit
you are a bit forgetful a bit lazy a bit greedy and not that creative and that is
greedy and not that creative and that is
greedy and not that creative and that is where the magic begins because once you
where the magic begins because once you
where the magic begins because once you start down that road you say I’m not
start down that road you say I’m not
start down that road you say I’m not special I need to come up with solutions
special I need to come up with solutions
special I need to come up with solutions you start if you like me looking for the
you start if you like me looking for the
you start if you like me looking for the data looking for the analyses and
data looking for the analyses and
data looking for the analyses and hopefully driving yourself to make the
hopefully driving yourself to make the
hopefully driving yourself to make the world even more special even though
world even more special even though
world even more special even though you’re Republicans thank you very much
you’re Republicans thank you very much
you’re Republicans thank you very much [Applause]
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