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A Few Simple Tools for Risk Taking | Caitie Whelan | TEDxBowdoinCollege


[Applause]

[Applause] so often we human beings carry unlit

so often we human beings carry unlit

so often we human beings carry unlit fires in us unfulfilled desires

fires in us unfulfilled desires

fires in us unfulfilled desires unrealized ambitions it’s like we’re

unrealized ambitions it’s like we’re

unrealized ambitions it’s like we’re walking around living part of our life

walking around living part of our life

walking around living part of our life but not all of our life my interest is

but not all of our life my interest is

but not all of our life my interest is in lighting those fires in making the

in lighting those fires in making the

in lighting those fires in making the life that we’re living the big hole

life that we’re living the big hole

life that we’re living the big hole radiant life that we aspire to because

radiant life that we aspire to because

radiant life that we aspire to because our time is so brief as my mother and

our time is so brief as my mother and

our time is so brief as my mother and many others have said we only get a few

many others have said we only get a few

many others have said we only get a few trips around the Sun and what better way

trips around the Sun and what better way

trips around the Sun and what better way to spend those trips than in giving them

to spend those trips than in giving them

to spend those trips than in giving them our full hearted all now there are a

our full hearted all now there are a

our full hearted all now there are a million and one ways to do this but the

million and one ways to do this but the

million and one ways to do this but the way that I’m especially interested in is

way that I’m especially interested in is

way that I’m especially interested in is risk-taking because so many of those

risk-taking because so many of those

risk-taking because so many of those things that we aspire to the work the

things that we aspire to the work the

things that we aspire to the work the relationships the opportunities are on

relationships the opportunities are on

relationships the opportunities are on the other side of risk so today I want

the other side of risk so today I want

the other side of risk so today I want to speak with you about the art of

to speak with you about the art of

to speak with you about the art of risk-taking but before we talk about

risk-taking but before we talk about

risk-taking but before we talk about anything I want to be really clear about

anything I want to be really clear about

anything I want to be really clear about one thing I am NOT a natural-born

one thing I am NOT a natural-born

one thing I am NOT a natural-born risk-taker I didn’t come into the world

risk-taker I didn’t come into the world

risk-taker I didn’t come into the world with any extra guts or gumption actually

with any extra guts or gumption actually

with any extra guts or gumption actually my fear nearly killed me a little while

my fear nearly killed me a little while

my fear nearly killed me a little while after college I moved to the great wilds

after college I moved to the great wilds

after college I moved to the great wilds of Washington DC I had two jobs few

of Washington DC I had two jobs few

of Washington DC I had two jobs few friends and no real sense of belonging

friends and no real sense of belonging

friends and no real sense of belonging or mattering in this new town now I like

or mattering in this new town now I like

or mattering in this new town now I like roadmaps and lifetime warranties

roadmaps and lifetime warranties

roadmaps and lifetime warranties routines and formulas but what I was

routines and formulas but what I was

routines and formulas but what I was finding is that when it comes to making

finding is that when it comes to making

finding is that when it comes to making our way in the world there are no

our way in the world there are no

our way in the world there are no certainties we’re not guaranteed

certainties we’re not guaranteed

certainties we’re not guaranteed anything and most of life is out of our

anything and most of life is out of our

anything and most of life is out of our control so in an effort to control

control so in an effort to control

control so in an effort to control something I began to control the food

something I began to control the food

something I began to control the food that I put in my body and I control the

that I put in my body and I control the

that I put in my body and I control the down to two apples some cut vegetables a

down to two apples some cut vegetables a

down to two apples some cut vegetables a few pieces of Turkey and a glass of skim

few pieces of Turkey and a glass of skim

few pieces of Turkey and a glass of skim milk a day

lost the muscle to open doors and the

lost the muscle to open doors and the energy to care I was tired most of the

energy to care I was tired most of the

energy to care I was tired most of the time and cold all of the time when I

time and cold all of the time when I

time and cold all of the time when I looked in the mirror I was terrified by

looked in the mirror I was terrified by

looked in the mirror I was terrified by the anorexia that I saw but the thought

the anorexia that I saw but the thought

the anorexia that I saw but the thought of changing to something less controlled

of changing to something less controlled

of changing to something less controlled was even more terrifying my mother kept

was even more terrifying my mother kept

was even more terrifying my mother kept on trying to say something and I kept on

on trying to say something and I kept on

on trying to say something and I kept on shutting her down until one June night

shutting her down until one June night

shutting her down until one June night when I was little more than a skeleton

when I was little more than a skeleton

when I was little more than a skeleton she said with incredible tenderness I’m

she said with incredible tenderness I’m

she said with incredible tenderness I’m afraid you’re killing yourself and you

afraid you’re killing yourself and you

afraid you’re killing yourself and you don’t realize it and her compassion this

don’t realize it and her compassion this

don’t realize it and her compassion this huge and great hearted force shook awake

huge and great hearted force shook awake

huge and great hearted force shook awake in me something that was larger than my

in me something that was larger than my

in me something that was larger than my fear which was this immense desire to

fear which was this immense desire to

fear which was this immense desire to live life not just a creep timidly

live life not just a creep timidly

live life not just a creep timidly through our few minutes on earth but to

through our few minutes on earth but to

through our few minutes on earth but to light those fires and chase down those

light those fires and chase down those

light those fires and chase down those ambitions and just go all in damn those

ambitions and just go all in damn those

ambitions and just go all in damn those torpedoes and that desire have been

torpedoes and that desire have been

torpedoes and that desire have been overshadowed by my fear but it had not

overshadowed by my fear but it had not

overshadowed by my fear but it had not been overpowered by it because as has

been overpowered by it because as has

been overpowered by it because as has been said fear may be great but we are

been said fear may be great but we are

been said fear may be great but we are still greater so that’s you night when

still greater so that’s you night when

still greater so that’s you night when my mother reminded me that I had a

my mother reminded me that I had a

my mother reminded me that I had a larger life in me to live than the small

larger life in me to live than the small

larger life in me to live than the small one I’d been living

one I’d been living

one I’d been living I began my recovery my recovery from

I began my recovery my recovery from

I began my recovery my recovery from anorexia absolutely but also my recovery

anorexia absolutely but also my recovery

anorexia absolutely but also my recovery from fear and recovery slow humbling

from fear and recovery slow humbling

from fear and recovery slow humbling ongoing recovery forced me to look with

ongoing recovery forced me to look with

ongoing recovery forced me to look with ruthless honesty at my own life which

ruthless honesty at my own life which

ruthless honesty at my own life which led me to make one of the best decisions

led me to make one of the best decisions

led me to make one of the best decisions that I’ve made to spend my time as a

that I’ve made to spend my time as a

that I’ve made to spend my time as a reflection of my values and one of my

reflection of my values and one of my

reflection of my values and one of my top values is to choose living over

top values is to choose living over

top values is to choose living over existing contributing over by standing

existing contributing over by standing

existing contributing over by standing taking risks over playing it safe so I

taking risks over playing it safe so I

taking risks over playing it safe so I want to tell you a little about the path

want to tell you a little about the path

want to tell you a little about the path I’ve taken since that June night with my

I’ve taken since that June night with my

I’ve taken since that June night with my mother

mother

mother I stayed in DC I worked my way up to

I stayed in DC I worked my way up to

I stayed in DC I worked my way up to being a senior foreign policy

being a senior foreign policy

being a senior foreign policy in Congress and this was a great job

in Congress and this was a great job

in Congress and this was a great job with great people and after a few years

with great people and after a few years

with great people and after a few years I realized I wanted to contribute to the

I realized I wanted to contribute to the

I realized I wanted to contribute to the world in another way but when I looked

world in another way but when I looked

world in another way but when I looked across the horizon I didn’t see an

across the horizon I didn’t see an

across the horizon I didn’t see an organization that was doing what I

organization that was doing what I

organization that was doing what I wanted to do so I left Congress to build

wanted to do so I left Congress to build

wanted to do so I left Congress to build the business that I wanted to give to

the business that I wanted to give to

the business that I wanted to give to the world and the purpose of this

the world and the purpose of this

the world and the purpose of this business is to use writings and

business is to use writings and

business is to use writings and workshops to enable as many people as

workshops to enable as many people as

workshops to enable as many people as possible to narrow the divide between

possible to narrow the divide between

possible to narrow the divide between where they are and where they want to be

where they are and where they want to be

where they are and where they want to be now this is not a certain or stable life

now this is not a certain or stable life

now this is not a certain or stable life that I’m building for myself but it is a

that I’m building for myself but it is a

that I’m building for myself but it is a life where I’m contributing in the way

life where I’m contributing in the way

life where I’m contributing in the way that I want to and that for me is worth

that I want to and that for me is worth

that I want to and that for me is worth all the instability all the uncertainty

all the instability all the uncertainty

all the instability all the uncertainty all those leaps in the dark so I’ve

all those leaps in the dark so I’ve

all those leaps in the dark so I’ve learned a little bit about risks and how

learned a little bit about risks and how

learned a little bit about risks and how we can get better at taking them and

we can get better at taking them and

we can get better at taking them and that is just what I want to talk about

that is just what I want to talk about

that is just what I want to talk about right now so first things first when I

right now so first things first when I

right now so first things first when I talk about a risk I am NOT talking about

talk about a risk I am NOT talking about

talk about a risk I am NOT talking about something that would cause us or anyone

something that would cause us or anyone

something that would cause us or anyone else physical emotional or any kind of

else physical emotional or any kind of

else physical emotional or any kind of harm

harm

harm those aren’t risks those are risky

those aren’t risks those are risky

those aren’t risks those are risky behavior that’s not what we’re talking

behavior that’s not what we’re talking

behavior that’s not what we’re talking about today so here’s what I think a

about today so here’s what I think a

about today so here’s what I think a risk is and it’s pretty simple it’s just

risk is and it’s pretty simple it’s just

risk is and it’s pretty simple it’s just a step outside of our comfort zone now

a step outside of our comfort zone now

a step outside of our comfort zone now it could be a little step it could be a

it could be a little step it could be a

it could be a little step it could be a large step but we’ve each got different

large step but we’ve each got different

large step but we’ve each got different comfort zones right so what constitutes

comfort zones right so what constitutes

comfort zones right so what constitutes a risk is a real individual thing so

a risk is a real individual thing so

a risk is a real individual thing so maybe for me saying yes to karaoke is no

maybe for me saying yes to karaoke is no

maybe for me saying yes to karaoke is no big whoop but for you that could be a

big whoop but for you that could be a

big whoop but for you that could be a gigantic risk but maybe for you asking

gigantic risk but maybe for you asking

gigantic risk but maybe for you asking for help is no big whoop but for me

for help is no big whoop but for me

for help is no big whoop but for me that’s a gigantic risk so if we’ve each

that’s a gigantic risk so if we’ve each

that’s a gigantic risk so if we’ve each got different comfort zones we’ve each

got different comfort zones we’ve each

got different comfort zones we’ve each got different things that constitute

got different things that constitute

got different things that constitute steps outside of them so comparing my

steps outside of them so comparing my

steps outside of them so comparing my risks to your risks is like comparing

risks to your risks is like comparing

risks to your risks is like comparing apples to seahorses there’s nothing

apples to seahorses there’s nothing

apples to seahorses there’s nothing gained plus comparison misses the point

gained plus comparison misses the point

gained plus comparison misses the point the point isn’t me taking the risks that

the point isn’t me taking the risks that

the point isn’t me taking the risks that would impress you and you taking the

would impress you and you taking the

would impress you and you taking the risks that would impress me the point is

risks that would impress me the point is

risks that would impress me the point is each one of us taking those unique risks

each one of us taking those unique risks

each one of us taking those unique risks that stand between where we are and

that stand between where we are and

that stand between where we are and where we want to be my aim today is to

where we want to be my aim today is to

where we want to be my aim today is to share with us some tools to help us

share with us some tools to help us

share with us some tools to help us start taking those risks

start taking those risks

start taking those risks and living that life that we aspire to

and living that life that we aspire to

and living that life that we aspire to but first I want to tell you about a job

but first I want to tell you about a job

but first I want to tell you about a job that I really wanted that I really had

that I really wanted that I really had

that I really wanted that I really had no qualifications for so in the job

no qualifications for so in the job

no qualifications for so in the job description it said they were looking

description it said they were looking

description it said they were looking for someone who had a real familiarity

for someone who had a real familiarity

for someone who had a real familiarity with Central and South American issues

with Central and South American issues

with Central and South American issues which I did not have I’ve heard that

which I did not have I’ve heard that

which I did not have I’ve heard that they were hoping to find someone who had

they were hoping to find someone who had

they were hoping to find someone who had served in the Peace Corps which I had

served in the Peace Corps which I had

served in the Peace Corps which I had not done and then there was a line in

not done and then there was a line in

not done and then there was a line in the Job Description which was in Spanish

the Job Description which was in Spanish

the Job Description which was in Spanish which I did not speak read or write so

which I did not speak read or write so

which I did not speak read or write so afforded to my best friend who is fluent

afforded to my best friend who is fluent

afforded to my best friend who is fluent I asked her what does this say and she

I asked her what does this say and she

I asked her what does this say and she said it says please only apply if you

said it says please only apply if you

said it says please only apply if you can read and write in Spanish so I had

can read and write in Spanish so I had

can read and write in Spanish so I had very little going for me

very little going for me

very little going for me now what does conventional wisdoms say

now what does conventional wisdoms say

now what does conventional wisdoms say here don’t apply it’s a crazy waste of

here don’t apply it’s a crazy waste of

here don’t apply it’s a crazy waste of time but here’s the thing and I know a

time but here’s the thing and I know a

time but here’s the thing and I know a lot of you know this but it bears

lot of you know this but it bears

lot of you know this but it bears repeating every time we don’t throw our

repeating every time we don’t throw our

repeating every time we don’t throw our hat in the ring for something that we

hat in the ring for something that we

hat in the ring for something that we want we disqualify ourselves before the

want we disqualify ourselves before the

want we disqualify ourselves before the race has even started now we might not

race has even started now we might not

race has even started now we might not get what we want if we throw that hat in

get what we want if we throw that hat in

get what we want if we throw that hat in the ring but we will definitely not get

the ring but we will definitely not get

the ring but we will definitely not get what you want if we don’t risk going for

what you want if we don’t risk going for

what you want if we don’t risk going for it so I want us to get better acquainted

it so I want us to get better acquainted

it so I want us to get better acquainted with taking risk in fact I want to get

with taking risk in fact I want to get

with taking risk in fact I want to get downright good at taking risk and it’s

downright good at taking risk and it’s

downright good at taking risk and it’s actually not so hard and it comes down

actually not so hard and it comes down

actually not so hard and it comes down to this wake up every day and commit to

to this wake up every day and commit to

to this wake up every day and commit to taking one risk that day it doesn’t have

taking one risk that day it doesn’t have

taking one risk that day it doesn’t have to be big but it does have to be done

to be big but it does have to be done

to be big but it does have to be done because risk-taking is an ability that

because risk-taking is an ability that

because risk-taking is an ability that we all have we just need to practice at

we all have we just need to practice at

we all have we just need to practice at it now how can we become victorious at

it now how can we become victorious at

it now how can we become victorious at developing this ability well I think

developing this ability well I think

developing this ability well I think it’s a little bit like learning an

it’s a little bit like learning an

it’s a little bit like learning an instrument if I decide that I want to

instrument if I decide that I want to

instrument if I decide that I want to start playing the piano today is the

start playing the piano today is the

start playing the piano today is the first piece that I try going to be

first piece that I try going to be

first piece that I try going to be Beethoven’s moonlight sonata no I’m

Beethoven’s moonlight sonata no I’m

Beethoven’s moonlight sonata no I’m going to start with something a little

going to start with something a little

going to start with something a little smaller a little more accessible a

smaller a little more accessible a

smaller a little more accessible a little bit gentler right so maybe

little bit gentler right so maybe

little bit gentler right so maybe chopsticks or heart and soul to begin so

chopsticks or heart and soul to begin so

chopsticks or heart and soul to begin so I think risk works a very similar way we

I think risk works a very similar way we

I think risk works a very similar way we don’t start off with the moonlight

don’t start off with the moonlight

don’t start off with the moonlight sonata of risks we’re going to start off

sonata of risks we’re going to start off

sonata of risks we’re going to start off with those smaller simpler heart and

with those smaller simpler heart and

with those smaller simpler heart and soul kind of risks so

soul kind of risks so

soul kind of risks so maybe it’s raising our hand during a QA

maybe it’s raising our hand during a QA

maybe it’s raising our hand during a QA 1-day correcting someone if they

1-day correcting someone if they

1-day correcting someone if they misspelled or mispronounced our name

misspelled or mispronounced our name

misspelled or mispronounced our name about another day saying I don’t know

about another day saying I don’t know

about another day saying I don’t know even when we think we really should know

even when we think we really should know

even when we think we really should know the next day then after we’ve grounded

the next day then after we’ve grounded

the next day then after we’ve grounded ourselves in this add an occasional

ourselves in this add an occasional

ourselves in this add an occasional medium-sized risk so submit an op-ed you

medium-sized risk so submit an op-ed you

medium-sized risk so submit an op-ed you wrote to a publication you really care

wrote to a publication you really care

wrote to a publication you really care about risk speaking your truth even

about risk speaking your truth even

about risk speaking your truth even though you know it might not be popular

though you know it might not be popular

though you know it might not be popular say yes to a long weekend away or no to

say yes to a long weekend away or no to

say yes to a long weekend away or no to someone you really want to help and just

someone you really want to help and just

someone you really want to help and just can’t then a little later on

can’t then a little later on

can’t then a little later on add in some bigger risks apply for that

add in some bigger risks apply for that

add in some bigger risks apply for that job you really want even if you don’t

job you really want even if you don’t

job you really want even if you don’t have a hundred percent of the

have a hundred percent of the

have a hundred percent of the qualifications accept someone’s offer

qualifications accept someone’s offer

qualifications accept someone’s offer for help

for help

for help risk kindness in the face of unkindness

risk kindness in the face of unkindness

risk kindness in the face of unkindness and day by day risk by risk that ability

and day by day risk by risk that ability

and day by day risk by risk that ability establishes itself in our way of being

establishes itself in our way of being

establishes itself in our way of being now that all sounds good right but I

now that all sounds good right but I

now that all sounds good right but I want to talk a little bit about

want to talk a little bit about

want to talk a little bit about accountability because it’s all too easy

accountability because it’s all too easy

accountability because it’s all too easy to let that muscle atrophy that ability

to let that muscle atrophy that ability

to let that muscle atrophy that ability to atrophy if we don’t have an

to atrophy if we don’t have an

to atrophy if we don’t have an accountability mechanism in place so

accountability mechanism in place so

accountability mechanism in place so here is mine every night my alarm goes

here is mine every night my alarm goes

here is mine every night my alarm goes off at 9:41 p.m. and that is my prompt

off at 9:41 p.m. and that is my prompt

off at 9:41 p.m. and that is my prompt to stop what I am doing and write down

to stop what I am doing and write down

to stop what I am doing and write down the risk that I took that day and I can

the risk that I took that day and I can

the risk that I took that day and I can tell you this little act it is like

tell you this little act it is like

tell you this little act it is like ringing the victory bell and I get to

ringing the victory bell and I get to

ringing the victory bell and I get to ring it even if I didn’t get the outcome

ring it even if I didn’t get the outcome

ring it even if I didn’t get the outcome that I wanted because the beauty the

that I wanted because the beauty the

that I wanted because the beauty the glory the victory isn’t taking the risk

glory the victory isn’t taking the risk

glory the victory isn’t taking the risk and every time we take that risk that

and every time we take that risk that

and every time we take that risk that ability gets a little bit stronger and

ability gets a little bit stronger and

ability gets a little bit stronger and risk-taking gets a little bit easier now

risk-taking gets a little bit easier now

risk-taking gets a little bit easier now our accountability mechanisms it doesn’t

our accountability mechanisms it doesn’t

our accountability mechanisms it doesn’t have to be an alarm in our phone it

have to be an alarm in our phone it

have to be an alarm in our phone it could be a note on our bathroom mirror

could be a note on our bathroom mirror

could be a note on our bathroom mirror and alert on our scheduler but whatever

and alert on our scheduler but whatever

and alert on our scheduler but whatever it is commit to it

it is commit to it

it is commit to it respect it totally it will always be

respect it totally it will always be

respect it totally it will always be easier to destroy a good habit than

easier to destroy a good habit than

easier to destroy a good habit than create one but from where I stand it is

create one but from where I stand it is

create one but from where I stand it is the creator’s among us who will move the

the creator’s among us who will move the

the creator’s among us who will move the world forward and here’s the thing the

world forward and here’s the thing the

world forward and here’s the thing the change that we want to make and the life

change that we want to make and the life

change that we want to make and the life that we want to live is not going to

that we want to live is not going to

that we want to live is not going to show up one day in the

show up one day in the

show up one day in the mail we have to go out and make it shape

mail we have to go out and make it shape

mail we have to go out and make it shape it build it and create it and fear of

it build it and create it and fear of

it build it and create it and fear of risk should not get in the way because

risk should not get in the way because

risk should not get in the way because we have so much life to live and such

we have so much life to live and such

we have so much life to live and such finite time to live it in now remember

finite time to live it in now remember

finite time to live it in now remember that job I told you about that I know

that job I told you about that I know

that job I told you about that I know qualifications for no Peace Corps no

qualifications for no Peace Corps no

qualifications for no Peace Corps no Latin American or Spanish well I really

Latin American or Spanish well I really

Latin American or Spanish well I really wanted it so I applied in my resume it

wanted it so I applied in my resume it

wanted it so I applied in my resume it was crystal clear

was crystal clear

was crystal clear I had nothing they were looking for but

I had nothing they were looking for but

I had nothing they were looking for but in my cover letter I said I’m ready and

in my cover letter I said I’m ready and

in my cover letter I said I’m ready and I’m willing and I’m able to learn and

I’m willing and I’m able to learn and

I’m willing and I’m able to learn and they hired me and they paid for me to

they hired me and they paid for me to

they hired me and they paid for me to take Spanish lessons well that

take Spanish lessons well that

take Spanish lessons well that definitely always happen no but it

definitely always happen no but it

definitely always happen no but it definitely won’t happen if we don’t risk

definitely won’t happen if we don’t risk

definitely won’t happen if we don’t risk going for it now it is no secret there

going for it now it is no secret there

going for it now it is no secret there is plenty of stuff that can get in the

is plenty of stuff that can get in the

is plenty of stuff that can get in the way of us taking risks I don’t know

way of us taking risks I don’t know

way of us taking risks I don’t know about for you but for me I’ll have a lot

about for you but for me I’ll have a lot

about for you but for me I’ll have a lot of untaken risks in me but I think for

of untaken risks in me but I think for

of untaken risks in me but I think for some of us if we ask ourselves what’s

some of us if we ask ourselves what’s

some of us if we ask ourselves what’s stopping us from taking those risks the

stopping us from taking those risks the

stopping us from taking those risks the answer boils down to just one short word

answer boils down to just one short word

answer boils down to just one short word fear and is absolutely my top answer and

fear and is absolutely my top answer and

fear and is absolutely my top answer and some of the best direction I’ve gotten

some of the best direction I’ve gotten

some of the best direction I’ve gotten on fear comes from a tremendous woman

on fear comes from a tremendous woman

on fear comes from a tremendous woman named sister simone campbell

named sister simone campbell

named sister simone campbell i wanted an interview with her and I

i wanted an interview with her and I

i wanted an interview with her and I asked her how do you handle the things

asked her how do you handle the things

asked her how do you handle the things that scared you that scare you and I

that scared you that scare you and I

that scared you that scare you and I loved the first part of her answer it

loved the first part of her answer it

loved the first part of her answer it was just three words long walk towards

was just three words long walk towards

was just three words long walk towards them because when we walk towards our

them because when we walk towards our

them because when we walk towards our fear I found from following her advice

fear I found from following her advice

fear I found from following her advice it gets a little bit smaller and smaller

it gets a little bit smaller and smaller

it gets a little bit smaller and smaller still the more that we walk towards it

still the more that we walk towards it

still the more that we walk towards it now I want to be clear here this does

now I want to be clear here this does

now I want to be clear here this does not mean that we walk towards a grizzly

not mean that we walk towards a grizzly

not mean that we walk towards a grizzly bear right or towards a dark alley on a

bear right or towards a dark alley on a

bear right or towards a dark alley on a dark night or as we discussed before

dark night or as we discussed before

dark night or as we discussed before towards anything that’s going to cause

towards anything that’s going to cause

towards anything that’s going to cause us or anyone else physical emotional or

us or anyone else physical emotional or

us or anyone else physical emotional or any kind of harm but it does mean that

any kind of harm but it does mean that

any kind of harm but it does mean that we walk towards the things that we’re

we walk towards the things that we’re

we walk towards the things that we’re hiding from those things that we have it

hiding from those things that we have it

hiding from those things that we have it in us to do but our courage has fallen

in us to do but our courage has fallen

in us to do but our courage has fallen short and when we walk towards them what

short and when we walk towards them what

short and when we walk towards them what we’re doing is making

we’re doing is making

we’re doing is making decision we are deciding to lean out of

decision we are deciding to lean out of

decision we are deciding to lean out of our fear and in to our courage and that

our fear and in to our courage and that

our fear and in to our courage and that is one of the most powerful decisions we

is one of the most powerful decisions we

is one of the most powerful decisions we human beings can make around fear now I

human beings can make around fear now I

human beings can make around fear now I want to be really clear here it is

want to be really clear here it is

want to be really clear here it is totally normal to have fear it’s part of

totally normal to have fear it’s part of

totally normal to have fear it’s part of the deal when we sign up to be human

the deal when we sign up to be human

the deal when we sign up to be human beings have the fear just don’t let the

beings have the fear just don’t let the

beings have the fear just don’t let the fear have you because our world is moved

fear have you because our world is moved

fear have you because our world is moved forward by people who take the risks and

forward by people who take the risks and

forward by people who take the risks and who decide again and again that they

who decide again and again that they

who decide again and again that they will not be defined by their fears so we

will not be defined by their fears so we

will not be defined by their fears so we have this life that we aspire to and my

have this life that we aspire to and my

have this life that we aspire to and my invitation to each one of us today is to

invitation to each one of us today is to

invitation to each one of us today is to start moving towards it risk by risk

start moving towards it risk by risk

start moving towards it risk by risk making that ability stronger and

making that ability stronger and

making that ability stronger and stronger until the life that we are

stronger until the life that we are

stronger until the life that we are living is the big whole radiant life

living is the big whole radiant life

living is the big whole radiant life that we aspire to if you do that you

that we aspire to if you do that you

that we aspire to if you do that you will make history and I will look

will make history and I will look

will make history and I will look forward to reading about you thank you

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