when I was in third grade of
primary school and failed the exam
the whole bright idea of sending this
note to the troops to sign and
you could find out about the failure that
had had
I do not know why some houses and
education they have is spectacular idea
to send notes to parents with their
children
obviously from the point of view of a
father is for them to realize and have
better control of performance centuries
but for us as children
that represents drastic consequences
you did not know that they limit our
existence
in my house it was not different so
I to be able to read in order to free the
firm punishment the note in other cultures
it is known as falsify will allow
then 15 sign the note I gave it and
wait for a miracle to happen
will rescue fucking me techniques and hbo
obviously that did not happen the school was
realize
the teachers consider my parents but
in account my friends noticed and
that me a punishment consequences millennium
they were two weeks of non- practice
can play playstation and other punishment
that my parents gave me but time
in front of reflection nothing in my life and
and I had this moment
specifically and I thought that it took me
to me to make a decision that not only
verbal are the parents but I
embarrassed me and made me lose my
trust of the people who were
around me and spinning around
I realized that I was afraid
to show that he had failed
I was afraid not so much the punishment because
almost at the end of the war
anyway then I started to see
what was this failed and I realized the
real academy defines
like a bad succeeded twice but managed
bad of all and I realized also
that failure is bound not something
specific but to all life
then for more and more the failure to
be different and can mean
different things for some can
represent I did not go to college
I wanted the girl that I like
for hello my team because the championship
but the point is that failure is
a border from which
we have two decisions
we learn and move forward
or we show ourselves eternally in that
failure
this perception that it will fail is
bad
It is definitely wrong because there is no
it only limits the learning process
but we subtract capacity
innovate and undertake as well as
it limits us to experience new things and
to live what I want to a path
error and success
malcolm gladwell the sound to the mayos
says that to achieve excellence
we must have a population of 2,000
hours of practice this results in 10
weekly hours of practice for 20
years or 20 hours per week of practice
for ten years as you want to see
the kitchen until you practice a lot for
be excellent but imagine in everything
that point time we can fail and
then we see for example athletes like
Messi or Cristiano Ronaldo who wants it
or are not considered the best
footballers of this time but
I do not win all the matches already
sometimes they lose and others win alone but
still both have awarded the
Golden Ball but both were
Consider how the best
footballers of that time for their
constant dedication and to have when
fails to get up that month
themselves this same principle is
can apply to many other aspects of
life
failures are the most
important things that will happen to us because
are those that rather our character
and it did not help us focus attention
in what we know we have to
improve in my case over time it was
developed as a human being opening me
path as a professional I graduated in
contrabass undertaken the pp tried of
business and the failures became more
fresh stronger more frequent and
with greater consequences than a simple
cisa party and friends
I lost money and even once I remember
have taken to my house and achieve
inconsolably case that
had had
this leads me to realize that
failed it requires a certain mental attitude
we do not see the failure as
something rational we do not analyze it have
to be carried by the emotions then
we hide their failures and we feel sorry
talk about them
these new ones is an action totally
normal is that it is logical that we
with humans to act like that but
it really is the worst way to do it
because professional academic success
and staff does not have what
intelligent motivated atalanta is the
person but of his attitude towards his
mistakes and see how they react
being a person passionate about
entrepreneurial amantaní city and with
a very good perception of what
we as a society can achieve
involve both my company
right after the first hotel in
that city
Initiatives with several friends
that gave me to know a group of
people that we think very different
about failure
then I started to listen and investigate
terms like piratear like swollen and
many other things that I
diego ifrán that makes it clearer is
but my perception about it was very
different and I learned a lot more than
I had learned previously
that is why in 2015 when the
opportunity to start an event in the
city where people have spoken openly
the failure not to be part of it
the initiative is called focos mex ii es
One is an event that started in Mexico
and a group of friends and I
we develop here in san pedro sula
the purpose of the event is imprisoned
four people in a span of seven
minutes with ten images present their
failures that they did wrong
in that they failed that he would do better and
eventually people can treat
with them asking the questions for
know your case better the decision of
involve me in this event because I
worried the perception that my friends
they had about failure and how the
people close to me felt the
just like me at some point in my
life they felt with lives to live their
piece plenitude and experience things
news about the nuggets in san pedro
sula for me has been a success
we have so close to two years of having
started we have only done ten
editions but 40 people have
presented their failures and I do the
task of talking to some of them about
interviewing them to talk and I ‘ve given
tell the simple fact of talking about
failure is simple liberator is
liberator
It also gives me the task of
interview them a little bit more and has
managed to find three common factors
or put them people take what for
do
one of them is that we do not like the
feeling of losing in our mind
we associate that emotional pain with
failure and more mistakes you
we are afraid of suffering
that’s why we often prefer not to
try to stay there in our
comfort zone in seconds that the
people
we think that people do not stop
criticize and we will stop being
important for society
there comes what they will say if he tried
then we are afraid that our
self-esteem his failure and that brings us
negative thoughts such as I do not
I can not serve, I can not achieve it.
limitations are such and which third
the lack of vision and what is done
if we have a very short vision what
we want to achieve any obstacle by
small I started to represent a
huge failure for us
in short, failure is not the problem
that to marry is the lesson we had
what to learn to try again and
this time without achieving what we
we proposed for so much to the extent that
we are able to accept the failure
as part of the game as a previous step and
necessary to achieve more goals
anxiety goals
only at that moment will we be able
to be prepared to accept the
failure as a prelude to success thanks
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