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Surrender for Effective Leadership | Lawrence John Warry | TEDxTârguMureș


I feel privileged to know you and meet

I feel privileged to know you and meet you and you are

you and you are

you and you are audience what a privilege that is so

audience what a privilege that is so

audience what a privilege that is so thank you very much

thank you very much

thank you very much and I care about you by the way so

and I care about you by the way so

and I care about you by the way so here’s some notes I’m going to talk

here’s some notes I’m going to talk

here’s some notes I’m going to talk about the power of surrender and I’ve

about the power of surrender and I’ve

about the power of surrender and I’ve got a bit nervous I wrote some those

surrender we have to surrender if we

surrender we have to surrender if we want to get somewhere so this speech in

want to get somewhere so this speech in

want to get somewhere so this speech in this talk I will explain something about

this talk I will explain something about

this talk I will explain something about my experience as a martial artist and

my experience as a martial artist and

my experience as a martial artist and how it led to me to this wonderful

how it led to me to this wonderful

how it led to me to this wonderful training simulation called the samurai

training simulation called the samurai

training simulation called the samurai game and I have zero experience as a

game and I have zero experience as a

game and I have zero experience as a manager I have no statistics I have no

manager I have no statistics I have no

manager I have no statistics I have no data all I have is my personal

data all I have is my personal

data all I have is my personal experience and a little bit of common

experience and a little bit of common

experience and a little bit of common sense so in this talk I have to make a

sense so in this talk I have to make a

sense so in this talk I have to make a couple of definitions first first of all

couple of definitions first first of all

couple of definitions first first of all we’re talking about surrender and

we’re talking about surrender and

we’re talking about surrender and leadership right so a surrender can be

leadership right so a surrender can be

leadership right so a surrender can be thought of in different ways surrender

thought of in different ways surrender

thought of in different ways surrender to a god for example I don’t want to go

to a god for example I don’t want to go

to a god for example I don’t want to go there and with the total of two endless

there and with the total of two endless

there and with the total of two endless discussions there or waving the white

discussions there or waving the white

discussions there or waving the white flag I can defeat I don’t want to talk

flag I can defeat I don’t want to talk

flag I can defeat I don’t want to talk about what I want to talk about is when

about what I want to talk about is when

about what I want to talk about is when we’re in a team when we’re in a group

we’re in a team when we’re in a group

we’re in a team when we’re in a group how we can surrender to each other and

how we can surrender to each other and

how we can surrender to each other and in that context we have to think of it

in that context we have to think of it

in that context we have to think of it as permissive surrender giving

as permissive surrender giving

as permissive surrender giving permission and the word leader can be

permission and the word leader can be

permission and the word leader can be thought of or the leadership can be

thought of or the leadership can be

thought of or the leadership can be thought of how a person leads but I’d

thought of how a person leads but I’d

thought of how a person leads but I’d like you to consider it about how the

like you to consider it about how the

like you to consider it about how the group momentum leads itself not to

group momentum leads itself not to

group momentum leads itself not to achieve one person’s needs but to

achieve one person’s needs but to

achieve one person’s needs but to achieve a win-win situation so that’s my

achieve a win-win situation so that’s my

achieve a win-win situation so that’s my context so based on this context here’s

context so based on this context here’s

context so based on this context here’s a few words purposes are in them that’s

a few words purposes are in them that’s

a few words purposes are in them that’s what I call it

what I call it

what I call it permissive surrender permissive

permissive surrender permissive

permissive surrender permissive surrender is when you surrender as a

surrender is when you surrender as a

surrender is when you surrender as a leader you give permission to your

leader you give permission to your

leader you give permission to your followers to be there in authority which

followers to be there in authority which

followers to be there in authority which gives them the power to surrender their

gives them the power to surrender their

gives them the power to surrender their by giving them giving you permission to

by giving them giving you permission to

by giving them giving you permission to lead that’s a lot of words even for me

lead that’s a lot of words even for me

lead that’s a lot of words even for me so I produced also a diagram which says

so I produced also a diagram which says

so I produced also a diagram which says everything in those words I call it the

everything in those words I call it the

everything in those words I call it the permission wheel the leader becomes the

permission wheel the leader becomes the

permission wheel the leader becomes the follower the follower becomes the leader

follower the follower becomes the leader

follower the follower becomes the leader when you surrender you give permission

when you surrender you give permission

when you surrender you give permission to the follower to lead who can in turn

to the follower to lead who can in turn

to the follower to lead who can in turn surrender and give permission back to

surrender and give permission back to

surrender and give permission back to you to lead sathyas right this is

you to lead sathyas right this is

you to lead sathyas right this is obvious and incredible at the same time

obvious and incredible at the same time

obvious and incredible at the same time it’s obvious because this is the natural

it’s obvious because this is the natural

it’s obvious because this is the natural dynamic of human relationships without

dynamic of human relationships without

dynamic of human relationships without this dynamic relationships can’t work

this dynamic relationships can’t work

this dynamic relationships can’t work and it’s incredible because when human

and it’s incredible because when human

and it’s incredible because when human beings know what is obvious they don’t

beings know what is obvious they don’t

beings know what is obvious they don’t carry it out unless it’s part of their

carry it out unless it’s part of their

carry it out unless it’s part of their daily practice so we need something to

daily practice so we need something to

daily practice so we need something to train us to make it part of our daily

train us to make it part of our daily

train us to make it part of our daily practice I like to think of it in terms

practice I like to think of it in terms

practice I like to think of it in terms of an acronym here’s a funky acronym now

of an acronym here’s a funky acronym now

of an acronym here’s a funky acronym now seek heaven a new expansion shine we can

seek heaven a new expansion shine we can

seek heaven a new expansion shine we can all shine shine to each other when we

all shine shine to each other when we

all shine shine to each other when we shy to each other we can form super

shy to each other we can form super

shy to each other we can form super teams now to be a team we have to be we

teams now to be a team we have to be we

teams now to be a team we have to be we have to recognize each other as

have to recognize each other as

have to recognize each other as collaborators but to be a super team we

collaborators but to be a super team we

collaborators but to be a super team we have to feel like a part of a tribe now

have to feel like a part of a tribe now

have to feel like a part of a tribe now there’s a little experiment there’s

there’s a little experiment there’s

there’s a little experiment there’s somebody near you you don’t really know

somebody near you you don’t really know

somebody near you you don’t really know I’d like you to break the barrier and

I’d like you to break the barrier and

I’d like you to break the barrier and just shake hands with a person maybe you

just shake hands with a person maybe you

just shake hands with a person maybe you did it earlier today and do it again you

did it earlier today and do it again you

did it earlier today and do it again you can see somebody near you something you

can see somebody near you something you

can see somebody near you something you don’t really know could you shake hands

don’t really know could you shake hands

don’t really know could you shake hands with a person okay congratulations this

with a person okay congratulations this

with a person okay congratulations this is how we used to do it before we met

is how we used to do it before we met

is how we used to do it before we met each other on Facebook now we’ll come

each other on Facebook now we’ll come

each other on Facebook now we’ll come back to this experiment a bit later so

back to this experiment a bit later so

back to this experiment a bit later so in fact speaking of Facebook there are

in fact speaking of Facebook there are

in fact speaking of Facebook there are problems we heard about the modern-day

problems we heard about the modern-day

problems we heard about the modern-day internet and there are problems of

internet and there are problems of

internet and there are problems of course like the internet being a very

course like the internet being a very

course like the internet being a very useful source of information

useful source of information

useful source of information it is nevertheless has opened up a

it is nevertheless has opened up a

it is nevertheless has opened up a Pandora’s box of security and privacy

Pandora’s box of security and privacy

Pandora’s box of security and privacy issues even to the extent where

issues even to the extent where

issues even to the extent where presidential elections have been

presidential elections have been

presidential elections have been affected so what does that do to your

affected so what does that do to your

affected so what does that do to your trust Trust is an important part of

trust Trust is an important part of

trust Trust is an important part of being a tribe we’re in a world of

being a tribe we’re in a world of

being a tribe we’re in a world of diversity how can we cross tribes it’s

diversity how can we cross tribes it’s

diversity how can we cross tribes it’s easy to be a tribe in your own country

easy to be a tribe in your own country

easy to be a tribe in your own country with your own people we’re crossing

with your own people we’re crossing

with your own people we’re crossing tries our future is about crossing

tries our future is about crossing

tries our future is about crossing tribes how can we find the trust when we

tribes how can we find the trust when we

tribes how can we find the trust when we cross the borders we need a training

cross the borders we need a training

cross the borders we need a training tool we need to develop ourselves

tool we need to develop ourselves

tool we need to develop ourselves somebody said once today’s readers are

somebody said once today’s readers are

somebody said once today’s readers are tomorrow’s leaders it’s not completely

tomorrow’s leaders it’s not completely

tomorrow’s leaders it’s not completely true we need to develop other forms of

true we need to develop other forms of

true we need to develop other forms of intelligence than intellectual

intelligence than intellectual

intelligence than intellectual intelligence as one we need to develop

intelligence as one we need to develop

intelligence as one we need to develop abilities to sense each other’s

abilities to sense each other’s

abilities to sense each other’s limitations physically and emotionally

limitations physically and emotionally

limitations physically and emotionally we have to understand compassion and

we have to understand compassion and

we have to understand compassion and empathy we have to understand what is

empathy we have to understand what is

empathy we have to understand what is the clip between each other’s where are

the clip between each other’s where are

the clip between each other’s where are the opportunities when I walk for the

the opportunities when I walk for the

the opportunities when I walk for the door I was looking for like the click I

door I was looking for like the click I

door I was looking for like the click I want to know what I’m connected to we’re

want to know what I’m connected to we’re

want to know what I’m connected to we’re not always connected to our country

not always connected to our country

not always connected to our country there are other aspects that we are

there are other aspects that we are

there are other aspects that we are connected to we have to look for them

connected to we have to look for them

connected to we have to look for them and what’s the collective intelligence

and what’s the collective intelligence

and what’s the collective intelligence in our community what do we contribute

in our community what do we contribute

in our community what do we contribute as individuals to our community and the

as individuals to our community and the

as individuals to our community and the cultural intelligence we have to be able

cultural intelligence we have to be able

cultural intelligence we have to be able to adapt to cultural differences and

to adapt to cultural differences and

to adapt to cultural differences and spiritual intelligence we have to know

spiritual intelligence we have to know

spiritual intelligence we have to know that we’re not the one and only

that we’re not the one and only

that we’re not the one and only authority that we have to sometimes move

authority that we have to sometimes move

authority that we have to sometimes move our ego to the side so these forms of

our ego to the side so these forms of

our ego to the side so these forms of intelligence have to be developed and

intelligence have to be developed and

intelligence have to be developed and there are training tools there are ways

there are training tools there are ways

there are training tools there are ways to develop these forms in our school

to develop these forms in our school

to develop these forms in our school systems they mainly address intellectual

systems they mainly address intellectual

systems they mainly address intellectual intelligence right I remember I was

intelligence right I remember I was

intelligence right I remember I was mainly busy with reading yeah and trying

mainly busy with reading yeah and trying

mainly busy with reading yeah and trying to improve my math and so on

to improve my math and so on

to improve my math and so on intellectual intelligence is addressed

intellectual intelligence is addressed

intellectual intelligence is addressed at schools

at schools

at schools unfortunately it just stops there

unfortunately it just stops there

unfortunately it just stops there so we have to go further we have to if

so we have to go further we have to if

so we have to go further we have to if we don’t go further we’re going to be

we don’t go further we’re going to be

we don’t go further we’re going to be severely handicapped for tomorrow’s

severely handicapped for tomorrow’s

severely handicapped for tomorrow’s challenges to integrate when I was at

challenges to integrate when I was at

challenges to integrate when I was at school at the age of nine I was a geek I

school at the age of nine I was a geek I

school at the age of nine I was a geek I learned about computers and typing

learned about computers and typing

learned about computers and typing quickly to program and the computer

quickly to program and the computer

quickly to program and the computer world somehow in some way became my

world somehow in some way became my

world somehow in some way became my escape from society I had good times and

escape from society I had good times and

escape from society I had good times and bad times and here’s the vulnerable part

bad times and here’s the vulnerable part

bad times and here’s the vulnerable part of this talk now in the harder times

of this talk now in the harder times

of this talk now in the harder times I was bullied who’s being bullied at

I was bullied who’s being bullied at

I was bullied who’s being bullied at school before but have your hand okay

school before but have your hand okay

school before but have your hand okay those who weren’t bullied were either

those who weren’t bullied were either

those who weren’t bullied were either bullies or you’re a bunch of bloody

bullies or you’re a bunch of bloody

bullies or you’re a bunch of bloody angels here

angels here

angels here in any case I give it up to the ones who

in any case I give it up to the ones who

in any case I give it up to the ones who work believe I even give up to the ones

work believe I even give up to the ones

work believe I even give up to the ones who bullied others because if you were

who bullied others because if you were

who bullied others because if you were bullied or few bullied others

bullied or few bullied others

bullied or few bullied others nevertheless you deserve love that’s

nevertheless you deserve love that’s

nevertheless you deserve love that’s what you should know and the worst thing

what you should know and the worst thing

what you should know and the worst thing about being bullied or bullying is not

about being bullied or bullying is not

about being bullied or bullying is not that moment it’s later on in life and

that moment it’s later on in life and

that moment it’s later on in life and the effects it has on your relationships

the effects it has on your relationships

the effects it has on your relationships I decided to leave school and leave the

I decided to leave school and leave the

I decided to leave school and leave the victim role behind me I decided to

victim role behind me I decided to

victim role behind me I decided to develop myself I worked as a software

develop myself I worked as a software

develop myself I worked as a software engineer but in parallel I became

engineer but in parallel I became

engineer but in parallel I became interested in the martial arts I learned

interested in the martial arts I learned

interested in the martial arts I learned to spar I sparred with some very tough

to spar I sparred with some very tough

to spar I sparred with some very tough guys I got my tooth knocked out I got my

guys I got my tooth knocked out I got my

guys I got my tooth knocked out I got my ribs broken I learned about surrender

ribs broken I learned about surrender

ribs broken I learned about surrender but it wasn’t permissive surrender it

but it wasn’t permissive surrender it

but it wasn’t permissive surrender it was submissive surrender and this is not

was submissive surrender and this is not

was submissive surrender and this is not the kind of surrender I’m talking about

the kind of surrender I’m talking about

the kind of surrender I’m talking about although I developed myself I was

although I developed myself I was

although I developed myself I was reaching somehow these forms of

reaching somehow these forms of

reaching somehow these forms of intelligence but there was a missing

intelligence but there was a missing

intelligence but there was a missing magic ingredient and it took a while

magic ingredient and it took a while

magic ingredient and it took a while until I looked at Japan and the

until I looked at Japan and the

until I looked at Japan and the beautiful martial art of Aikido before I

beautiful martial art of Aikido before I

beautiful martial art of Aikido before I understand what that mysticism magic

understand what that mysticism magic

understand what that mysticism magic ingredient was

ingredient was

ingredient was so this martial art Aikido gave me a new

so this martial art Aikido gave me a new

so this martial art Aikido gave me a new perspective martial arts

perspective martial arts

perspective martial arts it wasn’t about overcoming another

it wasn’t about overcoming another

it wasn’t about overcoming another person it’s about overcoming yourself

person it’s about overcoming yourself

person it’s about overcoming yourself the founder of aikido his name was

the founder of aikido his name was

the founder of aikido his name was morihei ueshiba he said when you bow

morihei ueshiba he said when you bow

morihei ueshiba he said when you bow deeply to the universe it bells back it

deeply to the universe it bells back it

deeply to the universe it bells back it really has a movement of the permission

really has a movement of the permission

really has a movement of the permission where which I showed you leader becomes

where which I showed you leader becomes

where which I showed you leader becomes follower follower becomes leader but

follower follower becomes leader but

follower follower becomes leader but don’t take my word for it it’s again

don’t take my word for it it’s again

don’t take my word for it it’s again magic

magic

magic it’s a gatok magic hundred one one cries

it’s a gatok magic hundred one one cries

it’s a gatok magic hundred one one cries one goal one gold and then of what

one goal one gold and then of what

one goal one gold and then of what should be

should be

should be Oh

Oh

Oh [Music]

I’m really thankful for Aikido for

I’m really thankful for Aikido for bringing me so many friends and great

bringing me so many friends and great

bringing me so many friends and great teachers from all over the world and

teachers from all over the world and

teachers from all over the world and that gave me also the feeling of being

that gave me also the feeling of being

that gave me also the feeling of being like a global tribe so there we have

like a global tribe so there we have

like a global tribe so there we have people from all over the world my global

people from all over the world my global

people from all over the world my global tribe of Aikido and the missing magic

tribe of Aikido and the missing magic

tribe of Aikido and the missing magic ingredient was that permissive surrender

ingredient was that permissive surrender

ingredient was that permissive surrender that I didn’t find in the overcoming

that I didn’t find in the overcoming

that I didn’t find in the overcoming martial arts but I didn’t understand

martial arts but I didn’t understand

martial arts but I didn’t understand what it meant for a team for a group

what it meant for a team for a group

what it meant for a team for a group until I came to the samurai game samurai

until I came to the samurai game samurai

until I came to the samurai game samurai game came into my life

game came into my life

game came into my life samurai game is it’s a training

samurai game is it’s a training

samurai game is it’s a training simulation invented by Lake George Laird

simulation invented by Lake George Laird

simulation invented by Lake George Laird who was a he was a writer an Aikido

who was a he was a writer an Aikido

who was a he was a writer an Aikido teacher and mother finger and his idea

teacher and mother finger and his idea

teacher and mother finger and his idea was to bring people from their mundane

was to bring people from their mundane

was to bring people from their mundane everyday 99/5 lives and putting into a

everyday 99/5 lives and putting into a

everyday 99/5 lives and putting into a more vivid reality so he did this he did

more vivid reality so he did this he did

more vivid reality so he did this he did this with this simulation he brought

this with this simulation he brought

this with this simulation he brought people into a samurai role we

people into a samurai role we

people into a samurai role we role-played samurai the samurai game is

role-played samurai the samurai game is

role-played samurai the samurai game is simply a battle between two armies

simply a battle between two armies

simply a battle between two armies there’s no physical sparring there’s no

there’s no physical sparring there’s no

there’s no physical sparring there’s no physical contact

physical contact

physical contact the battles are spontaneous

the battles are spontaneous

the battles are spontaneous unpredictable battles but safe between

unpredictable battles but safe between

unpredictable battles but safe between opponents there’s a competition element

opponents there’s a competition element

opponents there’s a competition element the competition is not there for a

the competition is not there for a

the competition is not there for a winner is there for a win-win situation

winner is there for a win-win situation

winner is there for a win-win situation is there for you to observe how you act

is there for you to observe how you act

is there for you to observe how you act in competition now leathered devised

in competition now leathered devised

in competition now leathered devised some concepts of ancient Japanese

some concepts of ancient Japanese

some concepts of ancient Japanese cultural ideas put them into the samurai

cultural ideas put them into the samurai

cultural ideas put them into the samurai game to roleplay for example the virtues

game to roleplay for example the virtues

game to roleplay for example the virtues of Bushido

of Bushido

of Bushido so the virtues of Bushido such as

so the virtues of Bushido such as

so the virtues of Bushido such as courage and honor

courage and honor

courage and honor integrity respect loyalty these virgins

integrity respect loyalty these virgins

integrity respect loyalty these virgins going to the game you role-playing these

going to the game you role-playing these

going to the game you role-playing these virtues and at the same time you try to

virtues and at the same time you try to

virtues and at the same time you try to live in the moment very moment now and

live in the moment very moment now and

live in the moment very moment now and we do it with the concept of Ichigo

we do it with the concept of Ichigo

we do it with the concept of Ichigo Ichie a but it should go a living one

Ichie a but it should go a living one

Ichie a but it should go a living one encounter in one lifetime in other words

encounter in one lifetime in other words

encounter in one lifetime in other words we’ve got one chance to make it hand one

we’ve got one chance to make it hand one

we’ve got one chance to make it hand one chance in our lives in our families at

chance in our lives in our families at

chance in our lives in our families at work in our relationships in this very

work in our relationships in this very

work in our relationships in this very moment now we have one chance

moment now we have one chance

moment now we have one chance are we seizing the opportunity or are we

are we seizing the opportunity or are we

are we seizing the opportunity or are we living in slip by two helps the seize

living in slip by two helps the seize

living in slip by two helps the seize this opportunity George Leonard

this opportunity George Leonard

this opportunity George Leonard developed an exercise called grace so

developed an exercise called grace so

developed an exercise called grace so when we get stressed we lose those

when we get stressed we lose those

when we get stressed we lose those opportunities so grace puts us into the

opportunities so grace puts us into the

opportunities so grace puts us into the ground again it’s grounding relaxation

ground again it’s grounding relaxation

ground again it’s grounding relaxation awareness centering and energizing this

awareness centering and energizing this

awareness centering and energizing this will practice grace let’s all stand up

will practice grace let’s all stand up

will practice grace let’s all stand up we’re all going to practice grace so

we’re all going to practice grace so

we’re all going to practice grace so let’s go into the ground the first thing

let’s go into the ground the first thing

let’s go into the ground the first thing notice the center of gravity and just

notice the center of gravity and just

notice the center of gravity and just drive your bare body weight into the

drive your bare body weight into the

drive your bare body weight into the ground and feel it into your feet feel

ground and feel it into your feet feel

ground and feel it into your feet feel the ground grounding relaxation easiest

the ground grounding relaxation easiest

the ground grounding relaxation easiest way to relax is just lift the shoulders

way to relax is just lift the shoulders

way to relax is just lift the shoulders the Leben go relax the shoulders right

the Leben go relax the shoulders right

the Leben go relax the shoulders right so the muscles in your face your neck

so the muscles in your face your neck

so the muscles in your face your neck relaxation maybe just swing the body a

relaxation maybe just swing the body a

relaxation maybe just swing the body a little bit left and right to find the

little bit left and right to find the

little bit left and right to find the relaxation there we want to half closed

relaxation there we want to half closed

relaxation there we want to half closed the eyes awareness notice how your spine

the eyes awareness notice how your spine

the eyes awareness notice how your spine is in space into one side or the other

is in space into one side or the other

is in space into one side or the other it’s one shoulder higher than the other

it’s one shoulder higher than the other

it’s one shoulder higher than the other where is it wait so really be aware of

where is it wait so really be aware of

where is it wait so really be aware of your body in space and the senses of

your body in space and the senses of

your body in space and the senses of your body trying to be receptive

your body trying to be receptive

your body trying to be receptive centering where’s your Center

centering where’s your Center

centering where’s your Center somebody said is here your heart center

somebody said is here your heart center

somebody said is here your heart center is it your Center is 2 centimeters

is it your Center is 2 centimeters

is it your Center is 2 centimeters underneath your navel you feel that

underneath your navel you feel that

underneath your navel you feel that Boyette see that’s the center of gravity

Boyette see that’s the center of gravity

Boyette see that’s the center of gravity you’re going to be aware of that you’ve

you’re going to be aware of that you’ve

you’re going to be aware of that you’ve got to use that got a respond with your

got to use that got a respond with your

got to use that got a respond with your Center and not with your emotions when

Center and not with your emotions when

Center and not with your emotions when you want to seize the opportunities feel

you want to seize the opportunities feel

you want to seize the opportunities feel your Center engage it and body it and

your Center engage it and body it and

your Center engage it and body it and energize we’re going to energize now

energize we’re going to energize now

energize we’re going to energize now breathe in

breathe in

breathe in energizes with oxygen it gives vitality

energizes with oxygen it gives vitality

energizes with oxygen it gives vitality to your body rebound

to your body rebound

to your body rebound feel your Center going more down into

feel your Center going more down into

feel your Center going more down into the ground let’s do that two more times

the ground let’s do that two more times

the ground let’s do that two more times breathe in breathe out one more time we

breathe in breathe out one more time we

breathe in breathe out one more time we haven’t got half an hour to do this

haven’t got half an hour to do this

haven’t got half an hour to do this unfortunately but you get the idea let

unfortunately but you get the idea let

unfortunately but you get the idea let me just shake hands with the person you

me just shake hands with the person you

me just shake hands with the person you just shook hands with but before maybe

just shook hands with but before maybe

just shook hands with but before maybe the same person Thank You Ming can sit

the same person Thank You Ming can sit

the same person Thank You Ming can sit down now compare this is partly

down now compare this is partly

down now compare this is partly experiment compare the time you just

experiment compare the time you just

experiment compare the time you just shake hands now with the time you shook

shake hands now with the time you shook

shake hands now with the time you shook hands in the beginning did you feel a

hands in the beginning did you feel a

hands in the beginning did you feel a difference in the grip maybe if more

difference in the grip maybe if more

difference in the grip maybe if more closely it’s more engagement the point

closely it’s more engagement the point

closely it’s more engagement the point being I propose that grace puts us in a

being I propose that grace puts us in a

being I propose that grace puts us in a state where we can break down barriers

state where we can break down barriers

state where we can break down barriers we can cross borders we can enter that

we can cross borders we can enter that

we can cross borders we can enter that diversity in teams and make super teams

diversity in teams and make super teams

diversity in teams and make super teams we can become great leaders this isn’t

we can become great leaders this isn’t

we can become great leaders this isn’t this is a great magic ingredient applied

this is a great magic ingredient applied

this is a great magic ingredient applied to teams so what I heard from people

to teams so what I heard from people

to teams so what I heard from people were some amazing things about the

were some amazing things about the

were some amazing things about the samurai game this is some of the things

samurai game this is some of the things

samurai game this is some of the things that they said I felt cared for in care

that they said I felt cared for in care

that they said I felt cared for in care towards others I felt appreciated for my

towards others I felt appreciated for my

towards others I felt appreciated for my strengths and not rejected for my

strengths and not rejected for my

strengths and not rejected for my weaknesses I felt honored

weaknesses I felt honored

weaknesses I felt honored I thought energized and motivated

I thought energized and motivated

I thought energized and motivated I felt enriched by seeing so many

I felt enriched by seeing so many

I felt enriched by seeing so many different perspectives I am more clear

different perspectives I am more clear

different perspectives I am more clear about decisions I made in my life now

about decisions I made in my life now

about decisions I made in my life now wouldn’t that be great if all teams

wouldn’t that be great if all teams

wouldn’t that be great if all teams could have those qualities this is what

could have those qualities this is what

could have those qualities this is what we try to reach this is our challenge

we try to reach this is our challenge

we try to reach this is our challenge for tomorrow a good friend of mine his

for tomorrow a good friend of mine his

for tomorrow a good friend of mine his name is John King he’s going to smile

name is John King he’s going to smile

name is John King he’s going to smile when he hears this

when he hears this

when he hears this he’s a great leadership trainer by the

he’s a great leadership trainer by the

he’s a great leadership trainer by the way we’re doing a retreat in Bali this

way we’re doing a retreat in Bali this

way we’re doing a retreat in Bali this September if you’re interested I’m not

September if you’re interested I’m not

September if you’re interested I’m not selling that right now I’m giving this

selling that right now I’m giving this

selling that right now I’m giving this power Cerreta talk we sat down in the

power Cerreta talk we sat down in the

power Cerreta talk we sat down in the seaside town of Varna Bulgaria wiling

seaside town of Varna Bulgaria wiling

seaside town of Varna Bulgaria wiling away talking about life and a subtle he

away talking about life and a subtle he

away talking about life and a subtle he said Lawrence there are so many cultural

said Lawrence there are so many cultural

said Lawrence there are so many cultural heroes out there but they know people at

heroes out there but they know people at

heroes out there but they know people at the top of a hierarchy the everyday

the top of a hierarchy the everyday

the top of a hierarchy the everyday people like me and you who touched the

people like me and you who touched the

people like me and you who touched the lives of others with extraordinary acts

lives of others with extraordinary acts

lives of others with extraordinary acts and listen we can all we can all be

and listen we can all we can all be

and listen we can all we can all be extraordinary we’re all special

extraordinary we’re all special

extraordinary we’re all special we’re all special but we can be

we’re all special but we can be

we’re all special but we can be extraordinary what does it take us to

extraordinary what does it take us to

extraordinary what does it take us to the extraordinary I leave that question

the extraordinary I leave that question

the extraordinary I leave that question to you you have to decide what does it

to you you have to decide what does it

to you you have to decide what does it take you to touch the hearts of others

take you to touch the hearts of others

take you to touch the hearts of others in addition to this time I traveled to

in addition to this time I traveled to

in addition to this time I traveled to Israel I traveled and I met Israelis and

Israel I traveled and I met Israelis and

Israel I traveled and I met Israelis and I met Palestinians and my heart was

I met Palestinians and my heart was

I met Palestinians and my heart was touched by so many cultural heroes small

touched by so many cultural heroes small

touched by so many cultural heroes small cultural heroes big cultural heroes

cultural heroes big cultural heroes

cultural heroes big cultural heroes Israelis and Palestinians we trained for

Israelis and Palestinians we trained for

Israelis and Palestinians we trained for peace we enter the events for beautiful

peace we enter the events for beautiful

peace we enter the events for beautiful peace I kid out Without Borders by Mouse

peace I kid out Without Borders by Mouse

peace I kid out Without Borders by Mouse Gessler these were great events for

Gessler these were great events for

Gessler these were great events for bringing Israelis and Palestinians

bringing Israelis and Palestinians

bringing Israelis and Palestinians together I make so many friends on both

together I make so many friends on both

together I make so many friends on both sides and they are the cultural heroes

sides and they are the cultural heroes

sides and they are the cultural heroes I’m talking about what I observed

I’m talking about what I observed

I’m talking about what I observed without any experience as a manager as a

without any experience as a manager as a

without any experience as a manager as a corporate leader with zero Statistics

corporate leader with zero Statistics

corporate leader with zero Statistics zero data I can say from the bottom of

zero data I can say from the bottom of

zero data I can say from the bottom of my heart these this is real leadership

my heart these this is real leadership

my heart these this is real leadership this is great leadership and it’s based

this is great leadership and it’s based

this is great leadership and it’s based on the power surrender now to conclude

on the power surrender now to conclude

on the power surrender now to conclude what I’m suggesting is we need to make

what I’m suggesting is we need to make

what I’m suggesting is we need to make the power surrender our daily practice

the power surrender our daily practice

the power surrender our daily practice it’s obvious but it has to be in our

it’s obvious but it has to be in our

it’s obvious but it has to be in our daily practice otherwise we’re just

daily practice otherwise we’re just

daily practice otherwise we’re just going to look at it like we’re looking

going to look at it like we’re looking

going to look at it like we’re looking at the TV I’m from a different place

at the TV I’m from a different place

at the TV I’m from a different place than you are you know from somewhere I’m

than you are you know from somewhere I’m

than you are you know from somewhere I’m from some

from some

from some but we have many things in common and

but we have many things in common and

but we have many things in common and what are those things within common that

what are those things within common that

what are those things within common that we have is that we share the same

we have is that we share the same

we have is that we share the same tomorrow and probably we also have the

tomorrow and probably we also have the

tomorrow and probably we also have the same challenges thank you

same challenges thank you

same challenges thank you [Applause]

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