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The Power of Each Person’s Story | Amy Xu | TEDxYouth@Wilmington


look at the person’s you left and now

look at the person’s you left and now look at the person to your right

look at the person to your right

look at the person to your right do you know their story do they know

do you know their story do they know

do you know their story do they know your story why is it important to know

your story why is it important to know

your story why is it important to know each other story there are many benefits

each other story there are many benefits

each other story there are many benefits of learning each other story which I

of learning each other story which I

of learning each other story which I will share in my talk and now would you

will share in my talk and now would you

will share in my talk and now would you like to learn what a story we all have a

like to learn what a story we all have a

like to learn what a story we all have a special story while the author director

special story while the author director

special story while the author director and actor in our personal story we

and actor in our personal story we

and actor in our personal story we should we the best story of our life

should we the best story of our life

should we the best story of our life I’ve been America for about a mom I

I’ve been America for about a mom I

I’ve been America for about a mom I leave this a host family that didn’t

leave this a host family that didn’t

leave this a host family that didn’t know until arrived here I came here

know until arrived here I came here

know until arrived here I came here alone I am the only child in my family

alone I am the only child in my family

alone I am the only child in my family and you can understand how difficult it

and you can understand how difficult it

and you can understand how difficult it is my parents let me come along to

is my parents let me come along to

is my parents let me come along to America

America

America however they understand I am creating

however they understand I am creating

however they understand I am creating and leading my own story and I want to

and leading my own story and I want to

and leading my own story and I want to create and leave an exciting story to

create and leave an exciting story to

create and leave an exciting story to become a global citizen and that is why

become a global citizen and that is why

become a global citizen and that is why I am overcome my fear of speaking and

I am overcome my fear of speaking and

I am overcome my fear of speaking and I’m very excited to share my story with

I’m very excited to share my story with

I’m very excited to share my story with you and I hope my story

you and I hope my story

you and I hope my story we also encourage other young women like

we also encourage other young women like

we also encourage other young women like me to leave feel as they all story begin

me to leave feel as they all story begin

me to leave feel as they all story begin sing our name

sing our name

sing our name I have two names what a means the shoe

I have two names what a means the shoe

I have two names what a means the shoe shoe end well as the jungle singer

shoe end well as the jungle singer

shoe end well as the jungle singer should see so what did you think of me

should see so what did you think of me

should see so what did you think of me right now

right now

right now in America this is how I would say my

in America this is how I would say my

in America this is how I would say my name is Shu and in the States

name is Shu and in the States

name is Shu and in the States I am known as Amy however I didn’t get

I am known as Amy however I didn’t get

I am known as Amy however I didn’t get this name when I’m right here I don’t

this name when I’m right here I don’t

this name when I’m right here I don’t know if you know this but in China there

know if you know this but in China there

know if you know this but in China there are a lot of children are given an

are a lot of children are given an

are a lot of children are given an English name in kindergarten this is

English name in kindergarten this is

English name in kindergarten this is because later in middle high school

because later in middle high school

because later in middle high school we’ll have an English coach for

we’ll have an English coach for

we’ll have an English coach for practicing our English when I first

practicing our English when I first

practicing our English when I first arrived at Kennedy International Airport

arrived at Kennedy International Airport

arrived at Kennedy International Airport after taking a 16 hours long flight I

after taking a 16 hours long flight I

after taking a 16 hours long flight I was exhausted and ready to pick up I

was exhausted and ready to pick up I

was exhausted and ready to pick up I walk to the exits with two suitcases and

walk to the exits with two suitcases and

walk to the exits with two suitcases and go to my driver why did not see him I

try to call him but suddenly realize

try to call him but suddenly realize that but suddenly realize that I didn’t

that but suddenly realize that I didn’t

that but suddenly realize that I didn’t have a cell phone number in the US and

have a cell phone number in the US and

have a cell phone number in the US and somehow I cannot connect the Wi-Fi and I

somehow I cannot connect the Wi-Fi and I

somehow I cannot connect the Wi-Fi and I feel that people who stare at me which

feel that people who stare at me which

feel that people who stare at me which make me nervous so I try to calm myself

make me nervous so I try to calm myself

make me nervous so I try to calm myself down I went to a little corner and that

down I went to a little corner and that

down I went to a little corner and that was the time when a strong young man

was the time when a strong young man

was the time when a strong young man almost six and a half feet tall came to

almost six and a half feet tall came to

almost six and a half feet tall came to me and asked me do you need a ride I

me and asked me do you need a ride I

me and asked me do you need a ride I looked up and said I I have a right

looked up and said I I have a right

looked up and said I I have a right thank you

thank you

thank you I was afraid and I tried to go confident

I was afraid and I tried to go confident

I was afraid and I tried to go confident and I just walked away that was the

and I just walked away that was the

and I just walked away that was the first day I arrived in the US alone and

first day I arrived in the US alone and

first day I arrived in the US alone and eager to overcome my fear to start a new

eager to overcome my fear to start a new

eager to overcome my fear to start a new chapter of my story through my travel

chapter of my story through my travel

chapter of my story through my travel and coming to the u.s. I have

and coming to the u.s. I have

and coming to the u.s. I have experienced different cultures which

experienced different cultures which

experienced different cultures which helps me understand various viewpoints

helps me understand various viewpoints

helps me understand various viewpoints and I realized that how different each

and I realized that how different each

and I realized that how different each person can be often we think that a

person can be often we think that a

person can be often we think that a culture defines a person although I

culture defines a person although I

culture defines a person although I think culture is important I believe we

think culture is important I believe we

think culture is important I believe we can all design our own unique and

can all design our own unique and

can all design our own unique and powerful personal story to learn the

powerful personal story to learn the

powerful personal story to learn the lesson and power of each person story I

lesson and power of each person story I

lesson and power of each person story I think is

think is

think is important to get to know a person and to

important to get to know a person and to

important to get to know a person and to overcome any misunderstandings we should

overcome any misunderstandings we should

overcome any misunderstandings we should not focus on the stereotypes that we

not focus on the stereotypes that we

not focus on the stereotypes that we learn from various sources whether it is

learn from various sources whether it is

learn from various sources whether it is culture a personal predrilled prejudice

culture a personal predrilled prejudice

culture a personal predrilled prejudice it happens to each of us we need to be

it happens to each of us we need to be

it happens to each of us we need to be open-minded more importantly we should

open-minded more importantly we should

open-minded more importantly we should have a greater understanding of why a

have a greater understanding of why a

have a greater understanding of why a person may be a certain way for example

person may be a certain way for example

person may be a certain way for example most people here probably think that I

most people here probably think that I

most people here probably think that I am very quiet but if they got to know me

am very quiet but if they got to know me

am very quiet but if they got to know me more they will understand that I could

more they will understand that I could

more they will understand that I could be also very talk to

[Applause]

[Applause] for my part I understand maybe some

for my part I understand maybe some

for my part I understand maybe some people may be afraid to talk with me

people may be afraid to talk with me

people may be afraid to talk with me because I’m from other country or

because I’m from other country or

because I’m from other country or because they’re afraid to embarrass or

because they’re afraid to embarrass or

because they’re afraid to embarrass or Bentley I know it’s hard to break the

Bentley I know it’s hard to break the

Bentley I know it’s hard to break the ice and however I try to push myself to

ice and however I try to push myself to

ice and however I try to push myself to communicate with them as best as I can

communicate with them as best as I can

communicate with them as best as I can and to make it easier to connect with

and to make it easier to connect with

and to make it easier to connect with others I have participated in dancing

others I have participated in dancing

others I have participated in dancing Tennessee and I am doing this Telus talk

Tennessee and I am doing this Telus talk

Tennessee and I am doing this Telus talk to share my story and let people get to

to share my story and let people get to

to share my story and let people get to know me a little bit I am reaching out

know me a little bit I am reaching out

know me a little bit I am reaching out and by sharing my story and by sharing

and by sharing my story and by sharing

and by sharing my story and by sharing my story I hope I could also encourage

my story I hope I could also encourage

my story I hope I could also encourage many international students and

many international students and

many international students and immigrants to feel confident to

immigrants to feel confident to

immigrants to feel confident to navigating a new culture and start the

navigating a new culture and start the

navigating a new culture and start the exciting story here’s what I tried to

exciting story here’s what I tried to

exciting story here’s what I tried to practice when I first meet someone from

practice when I first meet someone from

practice when I first meet someone from another country it is okay if you

another country it is okay if you

another country it is okay if you confuse we’re anxious we first miss

confuse we’re anxious we first miss

confuse we’re anxious we first miss someone from another culture but it’s

someone from another culture but it’s

someone from another culture but it’s not okay to judge someone without

not okay to judge someone without

not okay to judge someone without learning their story because everyone

learning their story because everyone

learning their story because everyone has a story to tell and I know sometimes

has a story to tell and I know sometimes

has a story to tell and I know sometimes it is hard to break the ice and

it is hard to break the ice and

it is hard to break the ice and sometimes we get disappointed what other

sometimes we get disappointed what other

sometimes we get disappointed what other people don’t respond I know what it’s

people don’t respond I know what it’s

people don’t respond I know what it’s like to have to do this every day I

like to have to do this every day I

like to have to do this every day I practice putting myself out there to be

practice putting myself out there to be

practice putting myself out there to be able to communicate with others and to

able to communicate with others and to

able to communicate with others and to be able to express myself and it’s

be able to express myself and it’s

be able to express myself and it’s difficult but every time I want to quit

difficult but every time I want to quit

difficult but every time I want to quit our thing of the valuable friendship I

our thing of the valuable friendship I

our thing of the valuable friendship I could gain and the enormous personal

could gain and the enormous personal

could gain and the enormous personal growth from other story when you listen

growth from other story when you listen

growth from other story when you listen to someone’s story from your heart you

to someone’s story from your heart you

to someone’s story from your heart you will feel them just like experience the

will feel them just like experience the

will feel them just like experience the same thing and we can share our story

same thing and we can share our story

same thing and we can share our story and learn from each other

I’ve learned to approach people this way

I’ve learned to approach people this way because of my travels like when I went

because of my travels like when I went

because of my travels like when I went to friends I was in middle school

to friends I was in middle school

to friends I was in middle school so I was standing with my friends

so I was standing with my friends

so I was standing with my friends waiting for a bus

waiting for a bus

waiting for a bus when a stranger approaches speaking

when a stranger approaches speaking

when a stranger approaches speaking broken English he was making gestures

broken English he was making gestures

broken English he was making gestures and was frightening he tried to

and was frightening he tried to

and was frightening he tried to communicate with me but I didn’t

communicate with me but I didn’t

communicate with me but I didn’t understand I was so afraid my teacher

understand I was so afraid my teacher

understand I was so afraid my teacher was able to talk with him and found that

was able to talk with him and found that

was able to talk with him and found that he was passionate about Chinese comfort

he was passionate about Chinese comfort

he was passionate about Chinese comfort and assumed that I will share the same

and assumed that I will share the same

and assumed that I will share the same interest instead of being being upset

interest instead of being being upset

interest instead of being being upset about his stereotype I was pleased that

about his stereotype I was pleased that

about his stereotype I was pleased that he made the attempt to get to know us

he made the attempt to get to know us

he made the attempt to get to know us because we we found a way to connect and

because we we found a way to connect and

because we we found a way to connect and he ended up shaking hands with our

he ended up shaking hands with our

he ended up shaking hands with our principal because we took the time to

principal because we took the time to

principal because we took the time to get to know his passion he is no longer

get to know his passion he is no longer

get to know his passion he is no longer was the weird intruder but he said a

was the weird intruder but he said a

was the weird intruder but he said a warm and friendly passerby by connecting

warm and friendly passerby by connecting

warm and friendly passerby by connecting we can remove misunderstandings and we

we can remove misunderstandings and we

we can remove misunderstandings and we can grow dare times where I have become

can grow dare times where I have become

can grow dare times where I have become misunderstood other people and I would

misunderstood other people and I would

misunderstood other people and I would like to apologize if I have ever

like to apologize if I have ever

like to apologize if I have ever offended anybody by misunderstanding and

offended anybody by misunderstanding and

offended anybody by misunderstanding and we all made this mistakes but once we

we all made this mistakes but once we

we all made this mistakes but once we become open-minded we can connect not

become open-minded we can connect not

become open-minded we can connect not just at the surface of someone but a

just at the surface of someone but a

just at the surface of someone but a story behind this is only part of my

story behind this is only part of my

story behind this is only part of my story

story

story that’s a 17 year old young woman my

that’s a 17 year old young woman my

that’s a 17 year old young woman my story is only beginning and I hope that

story is only beginning and I hope that

story is only beginning and I hope that I said travel my journey I will keep

I said travel my journey I will keep

I said travel my journey I will keep taking up I will keep taking my blinders

taking up I will keep taking my blinders

taking up I will keep taking my blinders off and see the rest of the world with

off and see the rest of the world with

off and see the rest of the world with an open mind and heart having a story is

an open mind and heart having a story is

an open mind and heart having a story is what makes us different and that is why

what makes us different and that is why

what makes us different and that is why I believe it is important to connect

I believe it is important to connect

I believe it is important to connect with each other learn from each other’s

with each other learn from each other’s

with each other learn from each other’s powerful story and now I would like to

powerful story and now I would like to

powerful story and now I would like to ask you are you ready to create your

ask you are you ready to create your

ask you are you ready to create your powerful story thank you

powerful story thank you

powerful story thank you you

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