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El closet es sólo para la ropa | Esteban Marchand | TEDxYouth@Miraflores


hello my name is esteban

I am 24 years old I am a journalist and well my

talk today is called closet is

just for clothes forgiveness

I’m gay but rest assured that here I’m not going

to infect anything and that in fact the

May 17 , 1990 the general assembly

of the world health organization

and everything to homosexuality from your list

of psychiatric diseases

I’m not crazy either, if it were a

excuse

sorry if it was a disease could

use it as an excuse to miss the

job

how many times do you want because you only call

well hello I’m gay can not go to work

and day and did not have to pay the

day that I am missing parts and it

I will assure you that all of you

they would be infected because I can

assure them that they have interacted

time in your life knowing it or not with

someone from the community

the ft iq is gay lesbian bisexual

trans and intersexuals that used to be the

hermaphrodites and the clubs that is a

category a little wider agreement

in baskets I’m going to repeat a lot of these

five letters

I feel like sometimes people think that

we seek that they do not tolerate me

that word particularly I do not like

because he does not tolerate something that does not end

fully convince that you tolerate it

because now we want us to

Respect

we want them not to judge us and at worst

of the cases we want that we do not

mistreat that they do not hit us that we do not

assassinate that they do not kill us

in fact if this society were more

tolerant today my community

I would have 99 more people

99 people who were killed here

in Peru since 2008 to date

just for being those who were lesbians

gay transsexuals and nine lives already

They’re not here

I

I realized that I was gay from very

little kid I’ve always liked

the things that for a lot of the

society are considered as just

girl, I loved getting into the room

my sister play with her barbies and I do not know

can play the office at the little school

and the fact prowling the exterminator

head and a mosque but but I

agreement that I liked to create stories

with them

my parents never had a problem

with how I expressed my own way of

be in school in elementary school

in a very small school we were 16

people per room we know each other from

lifetime

then it was not a matter if I

I wanted to play with the girls some

girl wanted to play soccer with the

Boys

nothing is jana instead in 6th my parents

they decided to change me to a school

state were 45 students per classroom

four sections per year shift tomorrow

late the first months I devoted myself to

study for the abrupt change of

environment and was known as the chubby

chancón of the lounge and a little chubby

before but then I affectionate the

infection of my voice the way that I

I go to my hands finally the way

the one that was me condemned me to move to

be the chubby chankom make the chubby

fagot

it was the first time they insult me

cabree rosquete mexico but rible up

want to cut a pencil to the room because

you knew you were going to walk and lined up

scream fa and everyone is going to laugh

now it makes me laugh but at that moment

I would have loved to have the courage to

face who insulted me the

recess past reading harry potter o

locked in a room because in a

moment where I feel I felt

especially vulnerable because no

there was the guardianship of a bullying teacher

for me it is to feel afraid of your

comrades because they want to attack

simply by whom according to a

unesco report 2003 is called

It was like every day to go to

slaughterhouse a 67 points 7 percent

non-heterosexual students have

suffered bullying in their schools

in fact it was part of that figure I made

for capable students have also been

bullying is that is what many

professors when I tried to report

they said they are things of boys nothing happens

and unfortunately a percentage is

number may end with children being

they kill themselves and they kill themselves because they no longer

can stand the harassment of their schools

that’s why when your instinct

you asked me today were how many days

missing for school said 87

missing 15 days until 10 knew that

I wanted a new start xavi was already

tired of having to hide myself

finally not being able to be me and

express myself freely in the university

it was my time to leave the closet

to come out of the closet and to be able to be

I finally with all my beings

Dear and boring live two lives

aside how lazy to have two facebook e

iu and i took it like that with my family it was not

really nothing difficult to my son already

I knew that a rafa gomáriz friends and with

my dad was the one who took a little more

of time but finally one day

close to life I agree prepared a

super breakfast we were only two

and he sat me in the same room we have to

talk now and I did not live with them I would

I call only and every time someone

I said of my parents we have to talk

it’s because I had broken a rate there

made some mischief in the house threw

to sleep nothing else have done nothing and

we go in everything and he told me I’m proud

of having a gay son and he got

I also started crying and

even though there was jam or a lot

the tears were the most

sweet breakfasted with my friends

It was not difficult either because the truth

that did not lose any and if the worst and in

truth that it warns me because I did not know

that we were friends because it was not so

close to me I liked it now good but

before when I learned to the

television when I was younger what

we saw in a program like laughter and

sauces that homosexuals were only

used to stereotype the was the

typical mariconcito that his day and what

used to mock him for

perpetuate stereotypes and prejudices

Today I’m glad that a child of 5

10 years 15 or to turn on the TV and can

see that there is not only one congressman but

two congressmen in Peru who are

openly homosexuals

I liked that one thinks now that

only homosexuals are

intended to make hairdressers or

stylists spent hours watching tutorials

of makeup and on the internet but it was not

what I wanted to do for de carmen the

life and I think it’s important that they know

that there are many

there are many more options as I said

we are everywhere and in any

profession they want and there is someone who

it’s the ft that performs doing that

I liked it too thanks to internet

that the kids can know in I do not know

what two presenters of the oscar have

been openly homosexuals that

read and patrick harris in these

olympics at least six athletes that are

openly new the bosses have been able or

earn medals and are proud of their

countries

I think it’s important that people

can search and can know that the

differences are not a conviction if they are not

on the contrary

now I am going to tell you a little about my

I am like, and I am a journalist and

two years ago with a partner from

work was a page that is called without

labels that tells stories of

people the ft

we wanted to realize that in the

press are we were only news when

we were killed and titled with

macabre murder

highlighting the goat with another color

obviously or we exterminate in some

television media scandal

we thought there were people who

they did incredible things and that gave the

coincidentally they were gay or lesbian or

trans and those stories are we

counting thanks to a network of

journalists in Latin America we could

form this page and now we count

after two years we have discovered

that there are many things that do not

they also count some months ago

premiere a web documentary series that

call seven and a quarter that is a the

name because it is the time where one

comes home and can finally be one

same

many times in which the goal of

these videos is to show you that we are not

so different that your taxi driver can be

a trans guy and you never gave yourself

mind that it can be the person who is

the show at the marriage of his sister and

you also did not realize that the boss

it can be recorded music on

conservatory acoustic guitar that

they touch between church and you did not give

mind that she was a trans woman

this is a little of what I do and good

finally a little to go closing

I would also like to tell someone

If there is any question here , how is it

life would change if I left the closet

at some point the only thing that

could say is that on this side the

closet

life is more beautiful than a hernia

closet is only for clothes and that

finally we are everywhere and not

they are going to get rid of us in fact

While there have been 20 sex

so it’s up to you

we are reproducing you have created us

and although they are the super cheesy and we are

in the same world you have to learn to

embrace diversities and love us and

respect each other which is what

finally we look for

Thank you

[Applause]

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