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Positive Communication | Saoussen CHEBAIKI | TEDxOuargla


Translator: Nada Hamdy Checker: Anwar Dafa-Alla

Hi

I am very happy to be with you today

Thanks for inviting me

how are you? Fine?

Audience: Yes.

Can you please stand up?

Thank

If they tell me

Is it possible to complete the word in this way?

I mean without chairs

Audience: Yes.

Yes, we can

This may not be comfortable, but it is not, is not it?

Well, great, you can sit and enjoy your seats

Now can I get out of here?

I mean to complete the lecture without standing on the podium

Is this possible?

Audience: Yes.

This is possible

What about the loudspeaker?

If you remove it, try to speak louder.

Audience: Yes.

Yes we can complete the word this way.

Now, is it possible to complete this word

Without the audience and the speaker?

No, this is a shop

Why?

Because humans are the main factor in this event

They are the pillar of this event

Not only this event, but all events

In each position, in each project

Everything depends on humans.

When we talk about peace, everything depends on humans

When we talk about war, everything depends on humans

When we talk about the future, everything depends on them too

Humans are the key to tomorrow

For a better or worse tomorrow

Now how to do that property

The property of making humans the key to a better tomorrow?

How to do it?

Prepare, yes

Building Tomorrow’s Youth

How to build them? .. And how to prepare them?

When do we start?

Because it is a long journey, it is a journey of life in fact

So, when do you think we should start that journey?

In childhood? Maybe before this

Before childhood, what do we have before childhood?

Pregnancy? Maybe a little earlier.

marriage? Not before this

Do you know when you start?

When you start looking for a life partner.

You start preparing tomorrow’s youth.

Because your future husband, your future wife

They will be parents of your future children.

They will help you to educate them, and teach them correctly.

So at this moment, the entire journey will begin.

So let’s start the journey together

Now you are married, you have children, congratulations to you.

Now what do you expect from them?

Rather than compliment them

Support them, and encourage them

In every small achievement they achieve

What if you continue with their fads: loser, donkey

You do not understand anything, you donkey.

Rather than teaching them

Good values

You taught them how to cheat!

I want you to get higher grades than your cousin

I do not care how you do this, even if I have to cheat, just do this

It’s important that you get good grades, better than your cousin.

What do you expect of them if you teach them how to cheat well?

Go tell him that my mother is not here.

What do you expect from them?

what are you expecting

To be healthy children

Physically healthy and especially psychologically

To make tomorrow a better place?

What do you expect from them ?!

What do you expect from them

To be ready?

what are you expecting?!

What if instead of being a good example

You are a bad example of your children

What if you do not respect their mother, hit her in front of them

Do bad things in front of them

Cheat in front of them.

Lie before them.

You see porn movies in front of them.

What do you expect from them?

To be able to build a better tomorrow?

Your children will grow up and become teenagers

Adolescents have a severe identity crisis

Do you remember Britney Spice?

who knows her?

One of her nicest songs “I’m not a girl, I’m not a woman yet, all I need is time”

And things like that.

I talked about the women because they were not children anymore

But they are not yet adults.

There is great suffering in this case with identity

In that period, they are ready to do anything

Just to say, “I’m here, I’m there, I’m an adult”

If those things were too silly or even dangerous.

So instead of stopping them, they contained, helped them.

You avoid them, ignore them

Treat them as bad people

Like bad people, scum, and everything wrong

What do you expect from them after this?

Another question, who is responsible for preparing tomorrow’s youth?

Only parents?

I know, parents are chief, but they are only?

Teachers? .. Yes teachers.

The whole community

Neighbors, family, parents, mother in particular.

Brothers and sisters, uncles and uncles.

Cousins, friends, neighbors, media

Even the owner of the supermarket.

They help you, bring your children to be the youth of the future.

Especially when they become teenagers

The influence of parents becomes

Less than the influence of friends,

School influence, media impact.

Let me talk about the media

What to expect from our children, if we publish nonsense

Just fun, for fun

Without any sublime message?

What do we expect from them?

Or if we continue to publish

Things help them to be deeper

Relationship with a close friend, or close friend, for example

Without any visions of the future, any message, without anything

What do we expect from them?

To be ready and healthy, to make tomorrow a better place?

What do we expect from them?

Will they be ready?

Talk about Facebook and these nice things

Do these things help children to be mature?

Do you know?

That’s exactly what we’re talking about today

Happy Farm, and Candy Crash

Do you help teenagers mature

And make tomorrow a better place?

Do you know? Does Facebook Help General?

This depends on the person, yes

Sometimes benefit the order

And in others not, why do you think it does not work at times?

Because adolescents need guidance

They need someone to say to them, “This is a very interesting aspect

This app is really good

This application is a waste of time

Overtake him, do not give him pain “

They need to direct, through their parents, their children

Their future children

Through family, friends

As I told you beforehand, through the supermarket seller

Why do you think everyone is responsible?

Because life is a mirror, what you give it will come back to you

Given positive? .. you will get positive

Give bad things .. you will get them too

You help others to make their children young tomorrow

You will get millions of people who will help you raise your children

To be ready to make tomorrow a better place.

Now if we go back to everything that has been said

When you hear TEDxOuargla

They say:

“Tomorrow starts today”

Is that correct? Is tomorrow really today?

Of course we said that the key to a better tomorrow is humans

We said that the task of preparing tomorrow’s youth

Start very early

We said that life is a mirror

We are all involved in helping children, from all over the world

To be healthy physically and psychologically

To make tomorrow a better place

So after all that I said

Do you think tomorrow will begin today?

Tomorrow begins today?

Yup?

Yesterday, well a little earlier

In fact, tomorrow is no longer a day

Do not start today

Tomorrow is now.

Here and now.

Thank you so much.

(clap)

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