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Maintaining the HUMAN in a Tech-Rich HUMANity | Adriana Pueskens | TEDxMarcusHighSchool


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[Music] today I sent 298 texts i retweeted 5

today I sent 298 texts i retweeted 5

today I sent 298 texts i retweeted 5 tweets and liked another 18 I took 7

tweets and liked another 18 I took 7

tweets and liked another 18 I took 7 selfies for woodhead filters on them I

selfies for woodhead filters on them I

selfies for woodhead filters on them I liked 76 photos but only bother to read

liked 76 photos but only bother to read

liked 76 photos but only bother to read the captions of 10 today I spent more

the captions of 10 today I spent more

the captions of 10 today I spent more time interacting with people inside of a

time interacting with people inside of a

time interacting with people inside of a screen rather than outside how many of

screen rather than outside how many of

screen rather than outside how many of you can relate to this oh come on hands

you can relate to this oh come on hands

you can relate to this oh come on hands up I’m pretty sure most of you have had

up I’m pretty sure most of you have had

up I’m pretty sure most of you have had this technology is advancing quickly

this technology is advancing quickly

this technology is advancing quickly cars are driving themselves and robots

cars are driving themselves and robots

cars are driving themselves and robots with human-like expressions are being

with human-like expressions are being

with human-like expressions are being created we’re relying more and more on

created we’re relying more and more on

created we’re relying more and more on digital advancements that eliminate the

digital advancements that eliminate the

digital advancements that eliminate the need for human interaction spending more

need for human interaction spending more

need for human interaction spending more time on our devices and actually talking

time on our devices and actually talking

time on our devices and actually talking to our friends I fear will eventually

to our friends I fear will eventually

to our friends I fear will eventually not be able to tell the difference

not be able to tell the difference

not be able to tell the difference between a human with a heart and a

between a human with a heart and a

between a human with a heart and a machine with a software humans need to

machine with a software humans need to

machine with a software humans need to make sure we define ourselves as living

make sure we define ourselves as living

make sure we define ourselves as living and not artificial as we make new

and not artificial as we make new

and not artificial as we make new discoveries and create alternate

discoveries and create alternate

discoveries and create alternate learning and everyday tools we stray

learning and everyday tools we stray

learning and everyday tools we stray farther and farther away from reality to

farther and farther away from reality to

farther and farther away from reality to ensure a future in a world rapidly

ensure a future in a world rapidly

ensure a future in a world rapidly producing products one step ahead of the

producing products one step ahead of the

producing products one step ahead of the next we must take at least these three

next we must take at least these three

next we must take at least these three steps to prevent a downfall number one

steps to prevent a downfall number one

steps to prevent a downfall number one unplug in an article by writer Andrew

unplug in an article by writer Andrew

unplug in an article by writer Andrew Sullivan he describes his struggle to

Sullivan he describes his struggle to

Sullivan he describes his struggle to disconnect from technology after

disconnect from technology after

disconnect from technology after becoming sick four times in 12 months

becoming sick four times in 12 months

becoming sick four times in 12 months with bronchial infections due to his

with bronchial infections due to his

with bronchial infections due to his inability to focus on himself and what’s

inability to focus on himself and what’s

inability to focus on himself and what’s real he decided it was time for a change

real he decided it was time for a change

real he decided it was time for a change Sullivan signed up for a meditation

Sullivan signed up for a meditation

Sullivan signed up for a meditation retreat let go of extreme connectivity

retreat let go of extreme connectivity

retreat let go of extreme connectivity he described struggle to disconnect but

he described struggle to disconnect but

he described struggle to disconnect but also talked about the extreme benefit it

also talked about the extreme benefit it

also talked about the extreme benefit it presented once he learned how to adapt

presented once he learned how to adapt

presented once he learned how to adapt Sullivan later wrote about a smaller

Sullivan later wrote about a smaller

Sullivan later wrote about a smaller precise 2015 study the huffington posted

precise 2015 study the huffington posted

precise 2015 study the huffington posted on 23 young adults participants are

on 23 young adults participants are

on 23 young adults participants are found to be using their phones five

found to be using their phones five

found to be using their phones five hours a day at 85 separate times most of

hours a day at 85 separate times most of

hours a day at 85 separate times most of these interactions were for less than 30

these interactions were for less than 30

these interactions were for less than 30 seconds but they add up they thought

seconds but they add up they thought

seconds but they add up they thought they use their phones half as much as

they use their phones half as much as

they use their phones half as much as they actually did this shows that we are

they actually did this shows that we are

they actually did this shows that we are model aware of how much time we spend

model aware of how much time we spend

model aware of how much time we spend the living in a screen but whether they

the living in a screen but whether they

the living in a screen but whether they were aware of it or not studies show

were aware of it or not studies show

were aware of it or not studies show that technology had seized around

that technology had seized around

that technology had seized around one-third of these young adults waking

one-third of these young adults waking

one-third of these young adults waking hours in many studies it has been proven

hours in many studies it has been proven

hours in many studies it has been proven that more time connected through phones

that more time connected through phones

that more time connected through phones tablets and television equals higher

tablets and television equals higher

tablets and television equals higher rates of obesity depression and anxiety

rates of obesity depression and anxiety

rates of obesity depression and anxiety we don’t take the time to look out for

we don’t take the time to look out for

we don’t take the time to look out for our health because if you let them where

our health because if you let them where

our health because if you let them where we work out the more we miss out on many

we work out the more we miss out on many

we work out the more we miss out on many young adults and children are spending

young adults and children are spending

young adults and children are spending more time in front of a screen and one

more time in front of a screen and one

more time in front of a screen and one YouTube video leads to the next and we

YouTube video leads to the next and we

YouTube video leads to the next and we end up sitting for hours straight

end up sitting for hours straight

end up sitting for hours straight watching cat videos media such as

watching cat videos media such as

watching cat videos media such as instagrams and Facebook’s can cause

instagrams and Facebook’s can cause

instagrams and Facebook’s can cause depression due to the post that people

depression due to the post that people

depression due to the post that people filter their lives through normally the

filter their lives through normally the

filter their lives through normally the tough times are not seen by a follower

tough times are not seen by a follower

tough times are not seen by a follower only connects to friends through the

only connects to friends through the

only connects to friends through the media those cleese people questioning

media those cleese people questioning

media those cleese people questioning where others lives are so great and

where others lives are so great and

where others lives are so great and doubting why ours isn’t many studies

doubting why ours isn’t many studies

doubting why ours isn’t many studies have proven that belonging to community

have proven that belonging to community

have proven that belonging to community groups in which people interact with

groups in which people interact with

groups in which people interact with peers on a regular basis can help to

peers on a regular basis can help to

peers on a regular basis can help to relieve this warm with depression in a

relieve this warm with depression in a

relieve this warm with depression in a list published with the help of

list published with the help of

list published with the help of psychologists Deborah sareini it

psychologists Deborah sareini it

psychologists Deborah sareini it mentions media as one of the six things

mentions media as one of the six things

mentions media as one of the six things that helped to worsen depression a

that helped to worsen depression a

that helped to worsen depression a recommended fix this was to only reflect

recommended fix this was to only reflect

recommended fix this was to only reflect of posts and articles and read one’s

of posts and articles and read one’s

of posts and articles and read one’s comfortable with how many of you have a

comfortable with how many of you have a

comfortable with how many of you have a smart phone on you okay now show me

awesome now put them away so I know

awesome now put them away so I know you’re listening to me I’m guilty of it

you’re listening to me I’m guilty of it

you’re listening to me I’m guilty of it too being away from these devices causes

too being away from these devices causes

too being away from these devices causes anxiety the separation option makes us

anxiety the separation option makes us

anxiety the separation option makes us feel like we’re missing out on so much I

feel like we’re missing out on so much I

feel like we’re missing out on so much I hope I have my phone by me even for just

hope I have my phone by me even for just

hope I have my phone by me even for just a little bit I can’t resist the

a little bit I can’t resist the

a little bit I can’t resist the temptation to take a look at it in a

temptation to take a look at it in a

temptation to take a look at it in a study done by the non-profit anxiety UK

study done by the non-profit anxiety UK

study done by the non-profit anxiety UK it mentions anxiety as one thing that is

it mentions anxiety as one thing that is

it mentions anxiety as one thing that is causing depression and anxiety

causing depression and anxiety

causing depression and anxiety forty-five percent of people polled so

forty-five percent of people polled so

forty-five percent of people polled so that they felt uncomfortable or worried

that they felt uncomfortable or worried

that they felt uncomfortable or worried when media such as Facebook was not

when media such as Facebook was not

when media such as Facebook was not accessible molla mindset did another

accessible molla mindset did another

accessible molla mindset did another study in which seventy-three percent of

study in which seventy-three percent of

study in which seventy-three percent of people said they would panic if they

people said they would panic if they

people said they would panic if they lost their smartphones I recently went

lost their smartphones I recently went

lost their smartphones I recently went on a church retreat I learned I had to

on a church retreat I learned I had to

on a church retreat I learned I had to give up my phone for the weekend the

give up my phone for the weekend the

give up my phone for the weekend the week leading up to the retreat I became

week leading up to the retreat I became

week leading up to the retreat I became so nervous as letting told my phone

so nervous as letting told my phone

so nervous as letting told my phone because I’m so connected to its inside

because I’m so connected to its inside

because I’m so connected to its inside of it rather than what’s outside I

of it rather than what’s outside I

of it rather than what’s outside I realized I not only need it but I depend

realized I not only need it but I depend

realized I not only need it but I depend on it I view it is necessary to check

on it I view it is necessary to check

on it I view it is necessary to check time take pic

time take pic

time take pic or for light but the retreat allowed me

or for light but the retreat allowed me

or for light but the retreat allowed me to see that they’re healthy alternatives

to see that they’re healthy alternatives

to see that they’re healthy alternatives watches cameras and flashlights for

watches cameras and flashlights for

watches cameras and flashlights for whenever we turn on our phones to just

whenever we turn on our phones to just

whenever we turn on our phones to just check the time we end up on media and

check the time we end up on media and

check the time we end up on media and texting people instead we need to unplug

texting people instead we need to unplug

texting people instead we need to unplug from our forms of technology make room

from our forms of technology make room

from our forms of technology make room for less virtual reality and more

for less virtual reality and more

for less virtual reality and more reality less space times and more

reality less space times and more

reality less space times and more face-to-face the second way to ensure a

face-to-face the second way to ensure a

face-to-face the second way to ensure a healthy future is to meditate unplugging

healthy future is to meditate unplugging

healthy future is to meditate unplugging doesn’t just mean letting go it means

doesn’t just mean letting go it means

doesn’t just mean letting go it means taking the time to let go of what isn’t

taking the time to let go of what isn’t

taking the time to let go of what isn’t real and come back to it is you it goes

real and come back to it is you it goes

real and come back to it is you it goes back to the traditional style of making

back to the traditional style of making

back to the traditional style of making time to relax with the future presenting

time to relax with the future presenting

time to relax with the future presenting new creations we need to study ourselves

new creations we need to study ourselves

new creations we need to study ourselves for them if too much is thrown at us to

for them if too much is thrown at us to

for them if too much is thrown at us to quickly we will become overwhelmed with

quickly we will become overwhelmed with

quickly we will become overwhelmed with the prospect of how to use them and how

the prospect of how to use them and how

the prospect of how to use them and how they will affect our everyday lives to

they will affect our everyday lives to

they will affect our everyday lives to mentally prepare we should take at least

mentally prepare we should take at least

mentally prepare we should take at least 15 minutes each day to be in silence

15 minutes each day to be in silence

15 minutes each day to be in silence reflect over a day and think about where

reflect over a day and think about where

reflect over a day and think about where we’re going I’d like you all to close

we’re going I’d like you all to close

we’re going I’d like you all to close your eyes just for 15 seconds and try to

your eyes just for 15 seconds and try to

your eyes just for 15 seconds and try to disconnect don’t think about anything

disconnect don’t think about anything

disconnect don’t think about anything other than yourself and I will let you

other than yourself and I will let you

other than yourself and I will let you know when the time is up

you may open your eyes how many of you

you may open your eyes how many of you had trouble disconnecting even for just

had trouble disconnecting even for just

had trouble disconnecting even for just a short period of time whew okay it can

a short period of time whew okay it can

a short period of time whew okay it can be hard but it is essential to keeping

be hard but it is essential to keeping

be hard but it is essential to keeping true to our human spirit and a quickly

true to our human spirit and a quickly

true to our human spirit and a quickly changing society this will allow us to

changing society this will allow us to

changing society this will allow us to analyze ourselves and better understand

analyze ourselves and better understand

analyze ourselves and better understand others and disconnect from the quickly

others and disconnect from the quickly

others and disconnect from the quickly moving world online there’s a quote by

moving world online there’s a quote by

moving world online there’s a quote by David Lynch that says the thing about

David Lynch that says the thing about

David Lynch that says the thing about meditation is you become more and more

meditation is you become more and more

meditation is you become more and more you and that’s the exact purpose of it

you and that’s the exact purpose of it

you and that’s the exact purpose of it we become so involved in everyone else

we become so involved in everyone else

we become so involved in everyone else through the connectivity we have that we

through the connectivity we have that we

through the connectivity we have that we lose sight of who we are last but not

lose sight of who we are last but not

lose sight of who we are last but not least the third point is spending

least the third point is spending

least the third point is spending quality time with family and friends two

quality time with family and friends two

quality time with family and friends two bracelets for innovation I know it

bracelets for innovation I know it

bracelets for innovation I know it sounds sappy but it’s time to go old

sounds sappy but it’s time to go old

sounds sappy but it’s time to go old school remember those days as a little

school remember those days as a little

school remember those days as a little kid where you sit around your family

kid where you sit around your family

kid where you sit around your family dinner table and ask each other about

dinner table and ask each other about

dinner table and ask each other about their days I do those days are few and

their days I do those days are few and

their days I do those days are few and far now due to busy schedules and time

far now due to busy schedules and time

far now due to busy schedules and time with technology many families are

with technology many families are

with technology many families are spending increasingly more time in front

spending increasingly more time in front

spending increasingly more time in front of a screen rather than actually talking

of a screen rather than actually talking

of a screen rather than actually talking to each other we’re all engaged so much

to each other we’re all engaged so much

to each other we’re all engaged so much in the media does a little time we do

in the media does a little time we do

in the media does a little time we do have together we spend texting people or

have together we spend texting people or

have together we spend texting people or scrolling through Twitter feeds family

scrolling through Twitter feeds family

scrolling through Twitter feeds family game nights new be brought back and so

game nights new be brought back and so

game nights new be brought back and so to talks at the dinner table creating

to talks at the dinner table creating

to talks at the dinner table creating real bonds with people are more

real bonds with people are more

real bonds with people are more important than some snapchat story ever

important than some snapchat story ever

important than some snapchat story ever will be a family time is important but

will be a family time is important but

will be a family time is important but it can even come to disconnecting with

it can even come to disconnecting with

it can even come to disconnecting with people who aren’t virtually edited and

people who aren’t virtually edited and

people who aren’t virtually edited and filtered can you name six of your

filtered can you name six of your

filtered can you name six of your neighbors you actually talk to them I

neighbors you actually talk to them I

neighbors you actually talk to them I find myself talking more to people five

find myself talking more to people five

find myself talking more to people five to five hundred miles away then those a

to five hundred miles away then those a

to five hundred miles away then those a few steps from my front door it seems

few steps from my front door it seems

few steps from my front door it seems easier to send a text to your friend in

easier to send a text to your friend in

easier to send a text to your friend in New York then have a continuous

New York then have a continuous

New York then have a continuous conversation with your next-door

conversation with your next-door

conversation with your next-door neighbor in the past children will be

neighbor in the past children will be

neighbor in the past children will be found playing outside with neighbors as

found playing outside with neighbors as

found playing outside with neighbors as time went by and technology progressed

time went by and technology progressed

time went by and technology progressed more kids are found playing inside on

more kids are found playing inside on

more kids are found playing inside on video games even between ten years much

video games even between ten years much

video games even between ten years much has changed as I used to see kids

has changed as I used to see kids

has changed as I used to see kids playing outside all the time when I was

playing outside all the time when I was

playing outside all the time when I was five but at 15 I rarely see anyone

five but at 15 I rarely see anyone

five but at 15 I rarely see anyone outside a study done by dr. jim taylor

outside a study done by dr. jim taylor

outside a study done by dr. jim taylor proves that narcissism is fueled by

proves that narcissism is fueled by

proves that narcissism is fueled by technology our generation is more

technology our generation is more

technology our generation is more narcissistic than ever before all the

narcissistic than ever before all the

narcissistic than ever before all the time spent absorbing screens has

time spent absorbing screens has

time spent absorbing screens has that the amount of actual human

that the amount of actual human

that the amount of actual human interaction that children have best

interaction that children have best

interaction that children have best limiting them a vital life experience is

limiting them a vital life experience is

limiting them a vital life experience is needed to develop social skills such as

needed to develop social skills such as

needed to develop social skills such as empathy compassion and consideration for

empathy compassion and consideration for

empathy compassion and consideration for others our generation will be exposed to

others our generation will be exposed to

others our generation will be exposed to more technology that can destroy us if

more technology that can destroy us if

more technology that can destroy us if we do not deepen our core values in the

we do not deepen our core values in the

we do not deepen our core values in the article it mentions that social media

article it mentions that social media

article it mentions that social media does not necessarily create narcissists

does not necessarily create narcissists

does not necessarily create narcissists but may provide new venues to reinforce

but may provide new venues to reinforce

but may provide new venues to reinforce narcissistic tendencies mobile

narcissistic tendencies mobile

narcissistic tendencies mobile technology may be transforming us all

technology may be transforming us all

technology may be transforming us all into raving narcissists as of right now

into raving narcissists as of right now

into raving narcissists as of right now a lot of society operates like robots

a lot of society operates like robots

a lot of society operates like robots not humans and that needs to be fixed we

not humans and that needs to be fixed we

not humans and that needs to be fixed we need to be aware of how whatever we

need to be aware of how whatever we

need to be aware of how whatever we create will affect us and we need to put

create will affect us and we need to put

create will affect us and we need to put humans as I priority over any technology

humans as I priority over any technology

humans as I priority over any technology we to control the technology not the

we to control the technology not the

we to control the technology not the vice versa in conclusion we are not on

vice versa in conclusion we are not on

vice versa in conclusion we are not on the road to success as the most seem to

the road to success as the most seem to

the road to success as the most seem to think society is on a path to only lead

think society is on a path to only lead

think society is on a path to only lead to destruction if we do not take the

to destruction if we do not take the

to destruction if we do not take the time and effort to fix it currently we

time and effort to fix it currently we

time and effort to fix it currently we are headed towards obesity depression

are headed towards obesity depression

are headed towards obesity depression anxiety and pure chaos we’re trying to

anxiety and pure chaos we’re trying to

anxiety and pure chaos we’re trying to balance everything multitasking virtual

balance everything multitasking virtual

balance everything multitasking virtual with reality but as new innovations are

with reality but as new innovations are

with reality but as new innovations are created we will soon find that plan to

created we will soon find that plan to

created we will soon find that plan to fail to prepare for the future we as a

fail to prepare for the future we as a

fail to prepare for the future we as a collective whole need to make time to

collective whole need to make time to

collective whole need to make time to meditate unplug and spend time with

meditate unplug and spend time with

meditate unplug and spend time with family and friends for me what’s next is

family and friends for me what’s next is

family and friends for me what’s next is strengthening my core values and

strengthening my core values and

strengthening my core values and connecting with what I know is real I’ve

connecting with what I know is real I’ve

connecting with what I know is real I’ve begun to turn off my phone while doing

begun to turn off my phone while doing

begun to turn off my phone while doing homework by doing this it brings me

homework by doing this it brings me

homework by doing this it brings me relief and peace I’m spending more time

relief and peace I’m spending more time

relief and peace I’m spending more time with my family and have making more time

with my family and have making more time

with my family and have making more time for myself I’m quickly learning if I can

for myself I’m quickly learning if I can

for myself I’m quickly learning if I can do things right today I’m making way for

do things right today I’m making way for

do things right today I’m making way for a great tomorrow what small changes can

a great tomorrow what small changes can

a great tomorrow what small changes can you make today that will have a lasting

you make today that will have a lasting

you make today that will have a lasting impact on your future

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