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Authenticity: Harnessing the power of your “you-ness” | Chantal Brine | TEDxMSVU


you know my talk when John and I were

you know my talk when John and I were discussing what it is that I’m so

discussing what it is that I’m so

discussing what it is that I’m so passionate about for me it comes down to

passionate about for me it comes down to

passionate about for me it comes down to one word but that one word means

one word but that one word means

one word but that one word means different things to different people so

different things to different people so

different things to different people so first I’m gonna tell you what

first I’m gonna tell you what

first I’m gonna tell you what authenticity means to me to me

authenticity means to me to me

authenticity means to me to me authenticity is about you being you

authenticity is about you being you

authenticity is about you being you every day every minute every second when

every day every minute every second when

every day every minute every second when you wake up from the time you go to bed

you wake up from the time you go to bed

you wake up from the time you go to bed it’s about living your values it’s about

it’s about living your values it’s about

it’s about living your values it’s about living in a way that allows your purpose

living in a way that allows your purpose

living in a way that allows your purpose your passion to be at the forefront of

your passion to be at the forefront of

your passion to be at the forefront of everything that you do it means that you

everything that you do it means that you

everything that you do it means that you get to be who you were meant to be when

get to be who you were meant to be when

get to be who you were meant to be when you are going to work when you’re going

you are going to work when you’re going

you are going to work when you’re going to school when you’re in a relationship

to school when you’re in a relationship

to school when you’re in a relationship with your partner at any stage and to me

with your partner at any stage and to me

with your partner at any stage and to me that’s a beautiful thing but let me tell

that’s a beautiful thing but let me tell

that’s a beautiful thing but let me tell you why we kind of put the harnessing

you why we kind of put the harnessing

you why we kind of put the harnessing the power of your youness as the

the power of your youness as the

the power of your youness as the descriptor because being authentically

descriptor because being authentically

descriptor because being authentically you is powerful it’s something nobody

you is powerful it’s something nobody

you is powerful it’s something nobody can take away from you regardless of

can take away from you regardless of

can take away from you regardless of what happens in your life there are a

what happens in your life there are a

what happens in your life there are a lot of things that are out of our

lot of things that are out of our

lot of things that are out of our control

control

control that is not nobody can strip that from

that is not nobody can strip that from

that is not nobody can strip that from us some may try you know we’ve heard

us some may try you know we’ve heard

us some may try you know we’ve heard some stories today and we all know

some stories today and we all know

some stories today and we all know people in our lives who have had

people in our lives who have had

people in our lives who have had unspeakable things happen to them you

unspeakable things happen to them you

unspeakable things happen to them you know I look at what’s happening in our

know I look at what’s happening in our

know I look at what’s happening in our world in 2017 we have countries on the

world in 2017 we have countries on the

world in 2017 we have countries on the brink of famine whole countries women

brink of famine whole countries women

brink of famine whole countries women children families those things are

children families those things are

children families those things are outside of our control what’s in our

outside of our control what’s in our

outside of our control what’s in our control is that we can wake up every

control is that we can wake up every

control is that we can wake up every morning and choose to be who we actually

morning and choose to be who we actually

morning and choose to be who we actually are choose to live our values choose to

are choose to live our values choose to

are choose to live our values choose to live with an integrity of our yunus or

live with an integrity of our yunus or

live with an integrity of our yunus or we can pretend we can get up we can put

we can pretend we can get up we can put

we can pretend we can get up we can put on a mask we can go into an office that

on a mask we can go into an office that

on a mask we can go into an office that we don’t want to go into we can wake up

we don’t want to go into we can wake up

we don’t want to go into we can wake up with a sigh begrudging that we have to

with a sigh begrudging that we have to

with a sigh begrudging that we have to go to school or progres during that we

go to school or progres during that we

go to school or progres during that we have to do something else that day I

have to do something else that day I

have to do something else that day I choose the first

choose the first

choose the first and I’m gonna tell you why and I’m gonna

and I’m gonna tell you why and I’m gonna

and I’m gonna tell you why and I’m gonna tell you a little bit more about me

tell you a little bit more about me

tell you a little bit more about me because I think it’s important but first

because I think it’s important but first

because I think it’s important but first I’m gonna start with my number one

I’m gonna start with my number one

I’m gonna start with my number one belief as it relates to this topic I

belief as it relates to this topic I

belief as it relates to this topic I think life’s too short to do something

think life’s too short to do something

think life’s too short to do something you don’t love period we to a large

you don’t love period we to a large

you don’t love period we to a large extent don’t get to choose when we leave

extent don’t get to choose when we leave

extent don’t get to choose when we leave this earth and I don’t mean to take us

this earth and I don’t mean to take us

this earth and I don’t mean to take us down a rabbit hole but I’m sharing this

down a rabbit hole but I’m sharing this

down a rabbit hole but I’m sharing this intentionally because what that means

intentionally because what that means

intentionally because what that means for me is that we’re here for a reason

for me is that we’re here for a reason

for me is that we’re here for a reason and what we choose to do with our time

and what we choose to do with our time

and what we choose to do with our time it’s up to us to a large extent whether

it’s up to us to a large extent whether

it’s up to us to a large extent whether we choose to live authentically and be

we choose to live authentically and be

we choose to live authentically and be who we are or whether we choose not to

who we are or whether we choose not to

who we are or whether we choose not to my second belief it’s hard it is hard

my second belief it’s hard it is hard

my second belief it’s hard it is hard work to answer that question Who am I am

work to answer that question Who am I am

work to answer that question Who am I am I happy and to answer that question

I happy and to answer that question

I happy and to answer that question every day and sometimes the answer’s no

every day and sometimes the answer’s no

every day and sometimes the answer’s no and I think for a lot of us we start out

and I think for a lot of us we start out

and I think for a lot of us we start out with an O and we get stuck there or we

with an O and we get stuck there or we

with an O and we get stuck there or we don’t think we have the right for a life

don’t think we have the right for a life

don’t think we have the right for a life where we can be happy for a life where

where we can be happy for a life where

where we can be happy for a life where we can just be us and get paid and make

we can just be us and get paid and make

we can just be us and get paid and make money and have happy fulfilling lives

money and have happy fulfilling lives

money and have happy fulfilling lives being us

being us

being us I’m here to tell you that I think that

I’m here to tell you that I think that

I’m here to tell you that I think that actually can happen you know when I

actually can happen you know when I

actually can happen you know when I think about my own journey as Sean

think about my own journey as Sean

think about my own journey as Sean mentioned you know I came here to go to

mentioned you know I came here to go to

mentioned you know I came here to go to university nothing more I’m from a tiny

university nothing more I’m from a tiny

university nothing more I’m from a tiny little island in the middle of the

little island in the middle of the

little island in the middle of the Atlantic Ocean called Bermuda as Sean

Atlantic Ocean called Bermuda as Sean

Atlantic Ocean called Bermuda as Sean alluded to we’re 22 miles long about 2.2

alluded to we’re 22 miles long about 2.2

alluded to we’re 22 miles long about 2.2 wide 65,000 266 thousand people not big

wide 65,000 266 thousand people not big

wide 65,000 266 thousand people not big right eye and you know our island is

right eye and you know our island is

right eye and you know our island is beautiful if you haven’t gone I’m gonna

beautiful if you haven’t gone I’m gonna

beautiful if you haven’t gone I’m gonna encourage you to do so but there are no

encourage you to do so but there are no

encourage you to do so but there are no universities there so I knew I had to go

universities there so I knew I had to go

universities there so I knew I had to go away I knew I had to leave home I knew I

away I knew I had to leave home I knew I

away I knew I had to leave home I knew I had to leave my family my friends the

had to leave my family my friends the

had to leave my family my friends the life that I created that I loved where I

life that I created that I loved where I

life that I created that I loved where I was being me and go someplace new but I

was being me and go someplace new but I

was being me and go someplace new but I didn’t know take on studies that I

didn’t know take on studies that I

didn’t know take on studies that I really wasn’t quite sure with but the

really wasn’t quite sure with but the

really wasn’t quite sure with but the road would be or what the end of those

road would be or what the end of those

road would be or what the end of those studies would be for me so

studies would be for me so

studies would be for me so lack of unknowns right so I came here

lack of unknowns right so I came here

lack of unknowns right so I came here many years ago now

many years ago now

many years ago now and had the fortune of participating in

and had the fortune of participating in

and had the fortune of participating in co-op programs not by design not because

co-op programs not by design not because

co-op programs not by design not because I asked myself is something I actually

I asked myself is something I actually

I asked myself is something I actually want to do but because an advisor said

want to do but because an advisor said

want to do but because an advisor said to me hey Chantelle what do you think

to me hey Chantelle what do you think

to me hey Chantelle what do you think about co-op what okay why not that

about co-op what okay why not that

about co-op what okay why not that decision changed my life I didn’t know

decision changed my life I didn’t know

decision changed my life I didn’t know it then if you would have asked me four

it then if you would have asked me four

it then if you would have asked me four years ago I probably didn’t even know it

years ago I probably didn’t even know it

years ago I probably didn’t even know it then for me co-op was the start of

then for me co-op was the start of

then for me co-op was the start of becoming my own person again and

becoming my own person again and

becoming my own person again and figuring out this whole thing called

figuring out this whole thing called

figuring out this whole thing called adult things right and I was working

adult things right and I was working

adult things right and I was working with a Public Service Commission at the

with a Public Service Commission at the

with a Public Service Commission at the time and finishing up my second co-op

time and finishing up my second co-op

time and finishing up my second co-op term with them when they asked me to

term with them when they asked me to

term with them when they asked me to stay to stay working with them for the

stay to stay working with them for the

stay to stay working with them for the summer and I said okay I remember

summer and I said okay I remember

summer and I said okay I remember sitting in a Halifax public gardens call

sitting in a Halifax public gardens call

sitting in a Halifax public gardens call and mum and dad and saying mom died I’m

and mum and dad and saying mom died I’m

and mum and dad and saying mom died I’m gonna stay and then I nodded not to them

gonna stay and then I nodded not to them

gonna stay and then I nodded not to them which myself right cuz I was making a

which myself right cuz I was making a

which myself right cuz I was making a huge decision but I wasn’t making it on

huge decision but I wasn’t making it on

huge decision but I wasn’t making it on something because I had thought through

something because I had thought through

something because I had thought through is this gonna make me happy do I get to

is this gonna make me happy do I get to

is this gonna make me happy do I get to do what I want to do 18 year old

do what I want to do 18 year old

do what I want to do 18 year old Chantelle wasn’t even thinking of those

Chantelle wasn’t even thinking of those

Chantelle wasn’t even thinking of those things and so I stayed 10 years later

things and so I stayed 10 years later

things and so I stayed 10 years later Here I am with a house in Enfield so

Here I am with a house in Enfield so

Here I am with a house in Enfield so we’re committed okay and I love Nova

we’re committed okay and I love Nova

we’re committed okay and I love Nova Scotia after my coop I had the

Scotia after my coop I had the

Scotia after my coop I had the opportunity to work with a small

opportunity to work with a small

opportunity to work with a small consulting firm where I was doing a

consulting firm where I was doing a

consulting firm where I was doing a variety of work and I really got to work

variety of work and I really got to work

variety of work and I really got to work with a couple different kinds of clients

with a couple different kinds of clients

with a couple different kinds of clients from private sector to public sector

from private sector to public sector

from private sector to public sector different parts of government small

different parts of government small

different parts of government small business and and I got to try a few

business and and I got to try a few

business and and I got to try a few different things and that was fun for me

different things and that was fun for me

different things and that was fun for me that led to an opportunity with one of

that led to an opportunity with one of

that led to an opportunity with one of my clients to kind of join them as their

my clients to kind of join them as their

my clients to kind of join them as their first person who was gonna be

first person who was gonna be

first person who was gonna be responsible for people okay and the

responsible for people okay and the

responsible for people okay and the first probably six months that I was

first probably six months that I was

first probably six months that I was with that company we doubled in size so

with that company we doubled in size so

with that company we doubled in size so I was employee number 23 24 we doubled

I was employee number 23 24 we doubled

I was employee number 23 24 we doubled that at the end of year 2 we tripled

that at the end of year 2 we tripled

that at the end of year 2 we tripled that

that

that coming to year 3 we had some hard

coming to year 3 we had some hard

coming to year 3 we had some hard decisions to make as a company we were

decisions to make as a company we were

decisions to make as a company we were changing what we were going to do so

changing what we were going to do so

changing what we were going to do so year 3 I had to have about 50 really

year 3 I had to have about 50 really

year 3 I had to have about 50 really hard conversations with people who we

hard conversations with people who we

hard conversations with people who we had to say goodbye to these are people

had to say goodbye to these are people

had to say goodbye to these are people that I’ve recruited to join this company

that I’ve recruited to join this company

that I’ve recruited to join this company who I’d sold on the vision of what we

who I’d sold on the vision of what we

who I’d sold on the vision of what we were going to do and change in this

were going to do and change in this

were going to do and change in this world these are people with families

world these are people with families

world these are people with families with children with partners with

with children with partners with

with children with partners with expectations so it was something that I

expectations so it was something that I

expectations so it was something that I didn’t take lightly these conversations

didn’t take lightly these conversations

didn’t take lightly these conversations and that year was a hard year for me I’m

and that year was a hard year for me I’m

and that year was a hard year for me I’m a people person at the heart of it

a people person at the heart of it

a people person at the heart of it that’s who I am and you know yes it was

that’s who I am and you know yes it was

that’s who I am and you know yes it was hard because the nature of your having

hard because the nature of your having

hard because the nature of your having those conversations but what I realized

those conversations but what I realized

those conversations but what I realized at the end of that year when I was in a

at the end of that year when I was in a

at the end of that year when I was in a hotel room in Toronto traveling home to

hotel room in Toronto traveling home to

hotel room in Toronto traveling home to Bermuda it was harder than it needed to

Bermuda it was harder than it needed to

Bermuda it was harder than it needed to be because I wasn’t doing work that I

be because I wasn’t doing work that I

be because I wasn’t doing work that I felt mattered I wasn’t doing work that

felt mattered I wasn’t doing work that

felt mattered I wasn’t doing work that was connected to my values to the things

was connected to my values to the things

was connected to my values to the things that I want to see changed in this world

that I want to see changed in this world

that I want to see changed in this world I was also doing work that wasn’t a line

I was also doing work that wasn’t a line

I was also doing work that wasn’t a line with what’s so important to me and so

with what’s so important to me and so

with what’s so important to me and so you know what process started it was

you know what process started it was

you know what process started it was like this light bulb went off or

like this light bulb went off or

like this light bulb went off or somebody I’d hit my activate button but

somebody I’d hit my activate button but

somebody I’d hit my activate button but it was slow for me because I didn’t know

it was slow for me because I didn’t know

it was slow for me because I didn’t know where to go I didn’t know how to start

where to go I didn’t know how to start

where to go I didn’t know how to start this awakening luckily enough for me I

this awakening luckily enough for me I

this awakening luckily enough for me I had the opportunity where a mentor came

had the opportunity where a mentor came

had the opportunity where a mentor came into my life at that point in time and

into my life at that point in time and

into my life at that point in time and it allowed me to ask myself the

it allowed me to ask myself the

it allowed me to ask myself the questions I’m going to encourage you

questions I’m going to encourage you

questions I’m going to encourage you today to ask yourself he asked me if I

today to ask yourself he asked me if I

today to ask yourself he asked me if I was happy he asked me if I could be

was happy he asked me if I could be

was happy he asked me if I could be doing something that I would be happier

doing something that I would be happier

doing something that I would be happier that’s a powerful question can you be

that’s a powerful question can you be

that’s a powerful question can you be happier he asked me if I was doing

happier he asked me if I was doing

happier he asked me if I was doing something where I was just being me and

something where I was just being me and

something where I was just being me and because it was somebody else asking me

because it was somebody else asking me

because it was somebody else asking me those questions

those questions

those questions it’s often – the answers you know what

it’s often – the answers you know what

it’s often – the answers you know what the answers are gonna be right there

the answers are gonna be right there

the answers are gonna be right there were no it wasn’t happy I felt like I

were no it wasn’t happy I felt like I

were no it wasn’t happy I felt like I was pretending to be somebody that I

was pretending to be somebody that I

was pretending to be somebody that I wasn’t I felt like I was having to put

wasn’t I felt like I was having to put

wasn’t I felt like I was having to put on a slight mask when I went into work

on a slight mask when I went into work

on a slight mask when I went into work day in and day out I was that person who

day in and day out I was that person who

day in and day out I was that person who longed for Fridays and groaned on

longed for Fridays and groaned on

longed for Fridays and groaned on Mondays when I was 3 years old 5 years

Mondays when I was 3 years old 5 years

Mondays when I was 3 years old 5 years old 7 years old I was not that person I

old 7 years old I was not that person I

old 7 years old I was not that person I was the person who wanted to help people

was the person who wanted to help people

was the person who wanted to help people I was missing nice be nice in my

I was missing nice be nice in my

I was missing nice be nice in my yearbook graduating from high school

yearbook graduating from high school

yearbook graduating from high school right and I didn’t feel like I was doing

right and I didn’t feel like I was doing

right and I didn’t feel like I was doing any of those things and so I set out on

any of those things and so I set out on

any of those things and so I set out on this journey where for the next probably

this journey where for the next probably

this journey where for the next probably a year year and a half I decided that I

a year year and a half I decided that I

a year year and a half I decided that I had the right to be happy I had the

had the right to be happy I had the

had the right to be happy I had the right to be who I said who I’m supposed

right to be who I said who I’m supposed

right to be who I said who I’m supposed to be and who I am and I have the right

to be and who I am and I have the right

to be and who I am and I have the right to be Who I am and make money while

to be Who I am and make money while

to be Who I am and make money while doing it so to be myself in a company to

doing it so to be myself in a company to

doing it so to be myself in a company to be myself doing work and I’m here to

be myself doing work and I’m here to

be myself doing work and I’m here to tell you it was not easy

tell you it was not easy

tell you it was not easy those are hard questions to be that

those are hard questions to be that

those are hard questions to be that introspective to really analyze your own

introspective to really analyze your own

introspective to really analyze your own self and figure out why you made some

self and figure out why you made some

self and figure out why you made some decisions and not critique it’s not get

decisions and not critique it’s not get

decisions and not critique it’s not get down and stay in that place but rather

down and stay in that place but rather

down and stay in that place but rather to use those learnings as an opportunity

to use those learnings as an opportunity

to use those learnings as an opportunity to catapult yourself forward and so you

to catapult yourself forward and so you

to catapult yourself forward and so you know it wasn’t gonna quit my job you

know it wasn’t gonna quit my job you

know it wasn’t gonna quit my job you know I still was loving parts of what I

know I still was loving parts of what I

know I still was loving parts of what I was doing

was doing

was doing I loved the the team that I was working

I loved the the team that I was working

I loved the the team that I was working with the things that we were doing were

with the things that we were doing were

with the things that we were doing were really fun and innovative and I was

really fun and innovative and I was

really fun and innovative and I was still getting to learn and develop new

still getting to learn and develop new

still getting to learn and develop new skills so wasn’t gonna quit right I got

skills so wasn’t gonna quit right I got

skills so wasn’t gonna quit right I got bills to pay so what I started doing was

bills to pay so what I started doing was

bills to pay so what I started doing was coming up with a plan of how could I

coming up with a plan of how could I

coming up with a plan of how could I what could I do to find more me so I

what could I do to find more me so I

what could I do to find more me so I went back to volunteering with an

went back to volunteering with an

went back to volunteering with an organization that is very near and dear

organization that is very near and dear

organization that is very near and dear to my heart that empowers young women to

to my heart that empowers young women to

to my heart that empowers young women to make informed career choices

make informed career choices

make informed career choices specifically to explore careers in

specifically to explore careers in

specifically to explore careers in Sciences trades technology engineering

Sciences trades technology engineering

Sciences trades technology engineering and I went to a board meeting of some

and I went to a board meeting of some

and I went to a board meeting of some kind and I came back to to my day job

kind and I came back to to my day job

kind and I came back to to my day job and I was talking with someone in the

and I was talking with someone in the

and I was talking with someone in the office and he looked at Mannion what did

office and he looked at Mannion what did

office and he looked at Mannion what did you just do what do you mean what did I

you just do what do you mean what did I

you just do what do you mean what did I just do

just do

just do I said you’re glowing okay is that a

I said you’re glowing okay is that a

I said you’re glowing okay is that a good thing

good thing

good thing no like what did you just do so I

no like what did you just do so I

no like what did you just do so I thought about it and there was that

thought about it and there was that

thought about it and there was that little instance or deep down I knew that

little instance or deep down I knew that

little instance or deep down I knew that I’d recovered the thing that I meant to

I’d recovered the thing that I meant to

I’d recovered the thing that I meant to do on this earth that’s what I meant to

do on this earth that’s what I meant to

do on this earth that’s what I meant to do because I believe life is too short

do because I believe life is too short

do because I believe life is too short to do something that you don’t love

to do something that you don’t love

to do something that you don’t love because I believe that it’s worth hard

because I believe that it’s worth hard

because I believe that it’s worth hard road of figuring out what that is and so

road of figuring out what that is and so

road of figuring out what that is and so I volunteered more and more and more and

I volunteered more and more and more and

I volunteered more and more and more and more to the point where I was able and

more to the point where I was able and

more to the point where I was able and out and I was having conversations where

out and I was having conversations where

out and I was having conversations where I was just being myself and that led to

I was just being myself and that led to

I was just being myself and that led to what I’m doing right now and my current

what I’m doing right now and my current

what I’m doing right now and my current role with my current business partners I

role with my current business partners I

role with my current business partners I love what I do I feel privileged to wake

love what I do I feel privileged to wake

love what I do I feel privileged to wake up every morning and do work that I am

up every morning and do work that I am

up every morning and do work that I am so darn excited about some of my

so darn excited about some of my

so darn excited about some of my students are in the room today and not

students are in the room today and not

students are in the room today and not really my students anymore they’re young

really my students anymore they’re young

really my students anymore they’re young professionals out starting their own

professionals out starting their own

professionals out starting their own careers and I am so proud of that I’m

careers and I am so proud of that I’m

careers and I am so proud of that I’m proud that I get to work with a firm or

proud that I get to work with a firm or

proud that I get to work with a firm or I get to be me I show up fully day in

I get to be me I show up fully day in

I get to be me I show up fully day in and day out Fridays are just another day

and day out Fridays are just another day

and day out Fridays are just another day at this point right I don’t roam because

at this point right I don’t roam because

at this point right I don’t roam because it’s a Monday I’m excited because I’m

it’s a Monday I’m excited because I’m

it’s a Monday I’m excited because I’m doing something I’m doing the thing that

doing something I’m doing the thing that

doing something I’m doing the thing that I’m meant to do I can’t turn it off if

I’m meant to do I can’t turn it off if

I’m meant to do I can’t turn it off if you meet me and you ask me a question

you meet me and you ask me a question

you meet me and you ask me a question around why I believe in being you and

around why I believe in being you and

around why I believe in being you and why I think it’s powerful or how to get

why I think it’s powerful or how to get

why I think it’s powerful or how to get your best career life going or how to

your best career life going or how to

your best career life going or how to live a deliberate life through career

live a deliberate life through career

live a deliberate life through career good luck shutting me up because I’m not

good luck shutting me up because I’m not

good luck shutting me up because I’m not passionate about it because I believe it

passionate about it because I believe it

passionate about it because I believe it can change the world and you know I I

can change the world and you know I I

can change the world and you know I I referenced earlier some of the things

referenced earlier some of the things

referenced earlier some of the things that we have happening at a macro level

that we have happening at a macro level

that we have happening at a macro level in our world today I’d be remiss if I

in our world today I’d be remiss if I

in our world today I’d be remiss if I didn’t mention that because it’s just

didn’t mention that because it’s just

didn’t mention that because it’s just part of where we are I’m not gonna be

part of where we are I’m not gonna be

part of where we are I’m not gonna be the person that cures cancer

the person that cures cancer

the person that cures cancer I’m not gonna be like ohm and come up

I’m not gonna be like ohm and come up

I’m not gonna be like ohm and come up with a new product and a software that

with a new product and a software that

with a new product and a software that could be potentially life-saving for

could be potentially life-saving for

could be potentially life-saving for people that’s not my role that’s not my

people that’s not my role that’s not my

people that’s not my role that’s not my thing my thing is helping people figure

thing my thing is helping people figure

thing my thing is helping people figure out what their thing is I’m absolutely

out what their thing is I’m absolutely

out what their thing is I’m absolutely doing the right work I’m convinced of it

doing the right work I’m convinced of it

doing the right work I’m convinced of it day in and day out my thing is meeting

day in and day out my thing is meeting

day in and day out my thing is meeting the unprofessional was in my office and

the unprofessional was in my office and

the unprofessional was in my office and asking him or her what do you want to do

asking him or her what do you want to do

asking him or her what do you want to do when are you your most you what did you

when are you your most you what did you

when are you your most you what did you want to do when you were five what did

want to do when you were five what did

want to do when you were five what did you want to change in this world when

you want to change in this world when

you want to change in this world when you were five years old when you were

you were five years old when you were

you were five years old when you were seven years old forget that it got beat

seven years old forget that it got beat

seven years old forget that it got beat out of you at some point by the peoples

out of you at some point by the peoples

out of you at some point by the peoples words actions or whatever the cases dig

words actions or whatever the cases dig

words actions or whatever the cases dig deep to find that answer to create a

deep to find that answer to create a

deep to find that answer to create a safe place to encourage people to think

safe place to encourage people to think

safe place to encourage people to think that way to empower them to take the

that way to empower them to take the

that way to empower them to take the chance to think that they can be happy

chance to think that they can be happy

chance to think that they can be happy being them I love my job working with my

being them I love my job working with my

being them I love my job working with my firm and the over 700 students we’ve

firm and the over 700 students we’ve

firm and the over 700 students we’ve been able to help primarily in Nova

been able to help primarily in Nova

been able to help primarily in Nova Scotia in Canada at this point I have no

Scotia in Canada at this point I have no

Scotia in Canada at this point I have no regrets at this point in my life not the

regrets at this point in my life not the

regrets at this point in my life not the time when I was doing something those

time when I was doing something those

time when I was doing something those really hard years in my previous company

really hard years in my previous company

really hard years in my previous company now that’s me looking back now right

now that’s me looking back now right

now that’s me looking back now right because I recognize what that allowed me

because I recognize what that allowed me

because I recognize what that allowed me to do I recognize that that allowed me

to do I recognize that that allowed me

to do I recognize that that allowed me to have that Awakening and go back to my

to have that Awakening and go back to my

to have that Awakening and go back to my roots

roots

roots I’ve always been this person who wants

I’ve always been this person who wants

I’ve always been this person who wants to help other people

to help other people

to help other people I’ve always been this person who

I’ve always been this person who

I’ve always been this person who believes in equality and who believes

believes in equality and who believes

believes in equality and who believes that any person has the right to do what

that any person has the right to do what

that any person has the right to do what it is that they want to do in this earth

it is that they want to do in this earth

it is that they want to do in this earth I’ve always believed that we control

I’ve always believed that we control

I’ve always believed that we control their own lives to a great extent and

their own lives to a great extent and

their own lives to a great extent and that what is without our control we just

that what is without our control we just

that what is without our control we just let it be but what’s in what’s in our

let it be but what’s in what’s in our

let it be but what’s in what’s in our control we take control of and we use

control we take control of and we use

control we take control of and we use and we use that power of who we are you

and we use that power of who we are you

and we use that power of who we are you know when I was

know when I was

know when I was I don’t practice for these things right

I don’t practice for these things right

I don’t practice for these things right because for me given my topic but also I

because for me given my topic but also I

because for me given my topic but also I choose to speak from the heart

choose to speak from the heart

choose to speak from the heart because I can’t not I believe life is

because I can’t not I believe life is

because I can’t not I believe life is too short to do something you don’t love

too short to do something you don’t love

too short to do something you don’t love I believe that by each and every single

I believe that by each and every single

I believe that by each and every single one of us in this room on this campus in

one of us in this room on this campus in

one of us in this room on this campus in this province in this country going the

this province in this country going the

this province in this country going the hard road asking those hard questions to

hard road asking those hard questions to

hard road asking those hard questions to figure it out can be a life changing I

figure it out can be a life changing I

figure it out can be a life changing I hope that I’ve shared a little bit

hope that I’ve shared a little bit

hope that I’ve shared a little bit enough of my story that you’re able to

enough of my story that you’re able to

enough of my story that you’re able to feel and blazoned empowered whatever the

feel and blazoned empowered whatever the

feel and blazoned empowered whatever the whatever the emotion is it’s gonna work

whatever the emotion is it’s gonna work

whatever the emotion is it’s gonna work for you to ask yourself am I happy

for you to ask yourself am I happy

for you to ask yourself am I happy could I be happier am I being my most

could I be happier am I being my most

could I be happier am I being my most authentic self and I encourage you to

authentic self and I encourage you to

authentic self and I encourage you to not only ask yourself those questions

not only ask yourself those questions

not only ask yourself those questions but to seek to answer them because

but to seek to answer them because

but to seek to answer them because there’s immense power in that it’s the

there’s immense power in that it’s the

there’s immense power in that it’s the power to change your life your family’s

power to change your life your family’s

power to change your life your family’s lives your business life your community

lives your business life your community

lives your business life your community but it starts with you and whether or

but it starts with you and whether or

but it starts with you and whether or not you choose to be you thank you for

not you choose to be you thank you for

not you choose to be you thank you for your time

your time

your time [Applause]

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