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what when I spoke to Sean he told me

what when I spoke to Sean he told me that the number one thing that this is

that the number one thing that this is

that the number one thing that this is kind of about and when I took from the

kind of about and when I took from the

kind of about and when I took from the most was people come up and they tell a

most was people come up and they tell a

most was people come up and they tell a story and they tell their story and if

story and they tell their story and if

story and they tell their story and if it resonates with people I think that

it resonates with people I think that

it resonates with people I think that that’s really all you can really aim to

that’s really all you can really aim to

that’s really all you can really aim to do I’ve been I try to keep it very

do I’ve been I try to keep it very

do I’ve been I try to keep it very simple because the words each one teach

simple because the words each one teach

simple because the words each one teach one are actually etched in my brain from

one are actually etched in my brain from

one are actually etched in my brain from eight years of age when I entered the

eight years of age when I entered the

eight years of age when I entered the community YMCA to play basketball and

community YMCA to play basketball and

community YMCA to play basketball and for a period of time when I got into

for a period of time when I got into

for a period of time when I got into education I thought that being an

education I thought that being an

education I thought that being an athlete or former athlete could be a bit

athlete or former athlete could be a bit

athlete or former athlete could be a bit of a hindrance however everything that I

of a hindrance however everything that I

of a hindrance however everything that I actually know about how to be a leader

actually know about how to be a leader

actually know about how to be a leader in a building comes from the fact that I

in a building comes from the fact that I

in a building comes from the fact that I come from a family that had a sports

come from a family that had a sports

come from a family that had a sports background and had an opportunity to

background and had an opportunity to

background and had an opportunity to play sports at a very high level so what

play sports at a very high level so what

play sports at a very high level so what happens when you contribute to another

happens when you contribute to another

happens when you contribute to another person’s life I’ll try to keep it I try

person’s life I’ll try to keep it I try

person’s life I’ll try to keep it I try to keep everything very simple for me

to keep everything very simple for me

to keep everything very simple for me personally I don’t think that we can

personally I don’t think that we can

personally I don’t think that we can make a lot of things in life complicated

make a lot of things in life complicated

make a lot of things in life complicated I’m sure you know you might think

I’m sure you know you might think

I’m sure you know you might think running a high school is complicated it

running a high school is complicated it

running a high school is complicated it is learning in high school under

is learning in high school under

is learning in high school under work-to-rule is complicated it is

work-to-rule is complicated it is

work-to-rule is complicated it is running a high school after being

running a high school after being

running a high school after being legislated back to work by the

legislated back to work by the

legislated back to work by the government it is and so if I choose to

government it is and so if I choose to

government it is and so if I choose to make it that way what I do believe is

make it that way what I do believe is

make it that way what I do believe is that high school is filled with lots of

that high school is filled with lots of

that high school is filled with lots of people in which you build relationships

people in which you build relationships

people in which you build relationships and try to steer ship in the right

and try to steer ship in the right

and try to steer ship in the right direction to affect young positive young

direction to affect young positive young

direction to affect young positive young lives in a very positive way so Who am I

lives in a very positive way so Who am I

lives in a very positive way so Who am I I am Wade Smith and we all have a story

I am Wade Smith and we all have a story

I am Wade Smith and we all have a story and I’m very fortunate to come from a

and I’m very fortunate to come from a

and I’m very fortunate to come from a family a friend of mine once said to me

family a friend of mine once said to me

family a friend of mine once said to me that you really don’t choose your family

that you really don’t choose your family

that you really don’t choose your family that your parents and your siblings are

that your parents and your siblings are

that your parents and your siblings are luck and that I actually believe that

luck and that I actually believe that

luck and that I actually believe that I’m the youngest of five and I have been

I’m the youngest of five and I have been

I’m the youngest of five and I have been very fortunate to have a number of role

very fortunate to have a number of role

very fortunate to have a number of role role models in my life inside my home

role models in my life inside my home

role models in my life inside my home prior to me ever having to leave so

prior to me ever having to leave so

prior to me ever having to leave so obviously it starts first and foremost

obviously it starts first and foremost

obviously it starts first and foremost with my dad who ironically I guess I

with my dad who ironically I guess I

with my dad who ironically I guess I believe that you know God doesn’t make

believe that you know God doesn’t make

believe that you know God doesn’t make mistakes as they say he was a he was a

mistakes as they say he was a he was a

mistakes as they say he was a he was a postman and everybody knows old saying

postman and everybody knows old saying

postman and everybody knows old saying about postman right I mean they deliver

about postman right I mean they deliver

about postman right I mean they deliver and no matter what the weather is they

and no matter what the weather is they

and no matter what the weather is they get up and they make sure that you get

get up and they make sure that you get

get up and they make sure that you get you

you

you male and throughout my entire life I can

male and throughout my entire life I can

male and throughout my entire life I can remember being young and you know

remember being young and you know

remember being young and you know hearing my dad every morning get up

hearing my dad every morning get up

hearing my dad every morning get up early before I got to school and he

early before I got to school and he

early before I got to school and he would be shovel himself out of the snow

would be shovel himself out of the snow

would be shovel himself out of the snow or it would be rainy or it would be cold

or it would be rainy or it would be cold

or it would be rainy or it would be cold and every morning he got up and found a

and every morning he got up and found a

and every morning he got up and found a way to get to work and you know he led

way to get to work and you know he led

way to get to work and you know he led by example he wasn’t a big talker he was

by example he wasn’t a big talker he was

by example he wasn’t a big talker he was a postman he was a umpire and he was a

a postman he was a umpire and he was a

a postman he was a umpire and he was a bartender and he made sure that we as a

bartender and he made sure that we as a

bartender and he made sure that we as a family had what we needed not always

family had what we needed not always

family had what we needed not always what we wanted but what we needed and

what we wanted but what we needed and

what we wanted but what we needed and his example of showing me that you get

his example of showing me that you get

his example of showing me that you get up and you go to work every day and you

up and you go to work every day and you

up and you go to work every day and you make a difference in somebody’s life is

make a difference in somebody’s life is

make a difference in somebody’s life is is a very simple example that you

is a very simple example that you

is a very simple example that you actually begin to model as you get older

actually begin to model as you get older

actually begin to model as you get older three older brothers and an older sister

three older brothers and an older sister

three older brothers and an older sister my brother marques Sean said spoke here

my brother marques Sean said spoke here

my brother marques Sean said spoke here last year at world-class softball picked

last year at world-class softball picked

last year at world-class softball picked pitcher and a huge influence in my life

pitcher and a huge influence in my life

pitcher and a huge influence in my life in terms of expecting hi expecting great

in terms of expecting hi expecting great

in terms of expecting hi expecting great things from myself as an athlete my

things from myself as an athlete my

things from myself as an athlete my brother Craig is a Canadian bound author

brother Craig is a Canadian bound author

brother Craig is a Canadian bound author who’s authored a number of books

who’s authored a number of books

who’s authored a number of books including one coming out very soon

including one coming out very soon

including one coming out very soon called her story the history of I’m

called her story the history of I’m

called her story the history of I’m African Canadian RCMP officers female

African Canadian RCMP officers female

African Canadian RCMP officers female RCMP officers in Canada my brother Thane

RCMP officers in Canada my brother Thane

RCMP officers in Canada my brother Thane is a career athlete and also a person

is a career athlete and also a person

is a career athlete and also a person who works for Canada Post for 30 years

who works for Canada Post for 30 years

who works for Canada Post for 30 years my sister’s been a Canada Post for 20

my sister’s been a Canada Post for 20

my sister’s been a Canada Post for 20 plus years and it goes on and on in the

plus years and it goes on and on in the

plus years and it goes on and on in the middle of all that I have my mom of

middle of all that I have my mom of

middle of all that I have my mom of course who did all the things that a mom

course who did all the things that a mom

course who did all the things that a mom could do to ensure that we were out of

could do to ensure that we were out of

could do to ensure that we were out of trouble that you know we got beans when

trouble that you know we got beans when

trouble that you know we got beans when we needed it because that was love back

we needed it because that was love back

we needed it because that was love back then and not abuse and and I think we

then and not abuse and and I think we

then and not abuse and and I think we all turned out just fine like many

all turned out just fine like many

all turned out just fine like many people I am I am many things and I think

people I am I am many things and I think

people I am I am many things and I think when I try to talk about the story that

when I try to talk about the story that

when I try to talk about the story that I tell is that we are we are all these

I tell is that we are we are all these

I tell is that we are we are all these things

things

things everybody in this room are these things

everybody in this room are these things

everybody in this room are these things you know I’m a son a brother a father a

you know I’m a son a brother a father a

you know I’m a son a brother a father a teacher learner coach a mentor dreamer

teacher learner coach a mentor dreamer

teacher learner coach a mentor dreamer believer all of those things and I’m a

believer all of those things and I’m a

believer all of those things and I’m a solutions finder if you come to my

solutions finder if you come to my

solutions finder if you come to my office’s Citadel when you walk in and

office’s Citadel when you walk in and

office’s Citadel when you walk in and you want to see me it says right on my

you want to see me it says right on my

you want to see me it says right on my door solutions only please I don’t have

door solutions only please I don’t have

door solutions only please I don’t have time for people’s problems like I’m own

time for people’s problems like I’m own

time for people’s problems like I’m own you know I’m Sam

you know I’m Sam

you know I’m Sam volunteer I’m empathetic I’m sympathetic

volunteer I’m empathetic I’m sympathetic

volunteer I’m empathetic I’m sympathetic I’m a lover of life and like to live

I’m a lover of life and like to live

I’m a lover of life and like to live beyond 82 if it’s possible and I don’t

beyond 82 if it’s possible and I don’t

beyond 82 if it’s possible and I don’t want any regrets that’s for sure

want any regrets that’s for sure

want any regrets that’s for sure right so everything I need to know this

right so everything I need to know this

right so everything I need to know this is the first team I’ve ever played for

is the first team I’ve ever played for

is the first team I’ve ever played for at 9 years of age community why

at 9 years of age community why

at 9 years of age community why role models and men that put a number of

role models and men that put a number of

role models and men that put a number of things in my head that helped me to be

things in my head that helped me to be

things in my head that helped me to be successful what I learned at the Y was

successful what I learned at the Y was

successful what I learned at the Y was very simple to be accountable to be a

very simple to be accountable to be a

very simple to be accountable to be a good teammate don’t embarrass yourself

good teammate don’t embarrass yourself

good teammate don’t embarrass yourself your family or your community failure is

your family or your community failure is

your family or your community failure is not an option in anything that you do

not an option in anything that you do

not an option in anything that you do you belong very much my second home from

you belong very much my second home from

you belong very much my second home from from 9 to 17 you are worthy you can do

from 9 to 17 you are worthy you can do

from 9 to 17 you are worthy you can do anything and that the each one teach one

anything and that the each one teach one

anything and that the each one teach one philosophy becomes entrenched in the way

philosophy becomes entrenched in the way

philosophy becomes entrenched in the way that we do think so you know given back

that we do think so you know given back

that we do think so you know given back was never a choice in the in my life

was never a choice in the in my life

was never a choice in the in my life giving back was an obligation to my

giving back was an obligation to my

giving back was an obligation to my community to young kids coming up after

community to young kids coming up after

community to young kids coming up after me and it’s simply the way that I was it

me and it’s simply the way that I was it

me and it’s simply the way that I was it was a grained in me as a young man that

was a grained in me as a young man that

was a grained in me as a young man that that’s what I’m supposed to do nobody

that’s what I’m supposed to do nobody

that’s what I’m supposed to do nobody lots and lots of people told me by

lots and lots of people told me by

lots and lots of people told me by example but nuttin but it wasn’t

example but nuttin but it wasn’t

example but nuttin but it wasn’t something that I had to ever think about

something that I had to ever think about

something that I had to ever think about it was just how I did business so I’ve

it was just how I did business so I’ve

it was just how I did business so I’ve had the opportunity give back to my

had the opportunity give back to my

had the opportunity give back to my community why and coach and coach to the

community why and coach and coach to the

community why and coach and coach to the provincial level coach of the community

provincial level coach of the community

provincial level coach of the community why level take be a mentor to kids in my

why level take be a mentor to kids in my

why level take be a mentor to kids in my community take them on trips and do all

community take them on trips and do all

community take them on trips and do all the things that I believe that I’m

the things that I believe that I’m

the things that I believe that I’m supposed to do and so when I give advice

supposed to do and so when I give advice

supposed to do and so when I give advice to people or specifically young kids

to people or specifically young kids

to people or specifically young kids because I’m in an environment where I’m

because I’m in an environment where I’m

because I’m in an environment where I’m dealing with you know students between

dealing with you know students between

dealing with you know students between the ages of 15 and as high as old as 18

the ages of 15 and as high as old as 18

the ages of 15 and as high as old as 18 sometimes every day is I tell kids that

sometimes every day is I tell kids that

sometimes every day is I tell kids that you got to find a vehicle basketball for

you got to find a vehicle basketball for

you got to find a vehicle basketball for me became my vehicle when I fell in love

me became my vehicle when I fell in love

me became my vehicle when I fell in love with the game at a young age that’s all

with the game at a young age that’s all

with the game at a young age that’s all I wanted to do my mom and dad always

I wanted to do my mom and dad always

I wanted to do my mom and dad always know where I was I was safe I was with

know where I was I was safe I was with

know where I was I was safe I was with fantastic role models who always said

fantastic role models who always said

fantastic role models who always said school and character first basketball

school and character first basketball

school and character first basketball second everything else takes care of

second everything else takes care of

second everything else takes care of itself

itself

itself I had an opportunity to play for the

I had an opportunity to play for the

I had an opportunity to play for the junior national team for three years

junior national team for three years

junior national team for three years I’ve been fortunate enough to when the

I’ve been fortunate enough to when the

I’ve been fortunate enough to when the candy games gold medal the only time

candy games gold medal the only time

candy games gold medal the only time Nova Scotia has done so in 1987 actually

Nova Scotia has done so in 1987 actually

Nova Scotia has done so in 1987 actually with my head coach who happens to be in

with my head coach who happens to be in

with my head coach who happens to be in the room today mr. Bev Greenlaw thank

the room today mr. Bev Greenlaw thank

the room today mr. Bev Greenlaw thank you

you

you and as things come full circle I am head

and as things come full circle I am head

and as things come full circle I am head coach of the u-17 candy games team for

coach of the u-17 candy games team for

coach of the u-17 candy games team for this summer and we’re going to win a

this summer and we’re going to win a

this summer and we’re going to win a second gold medal so that’s that’s the

second gold medal so that’s that’s the

second gold medal so that’s that’s the goal if you speak those things you know

goal if you speak those things you know

goal if you speak those things you know that they come into existence right what

that they come into existence right what

that they come into existence right what basketball has done for me is it allowed

basketball has done for me is it allowed

basketball has done for me is it allowed me to do a lot of things that I wouldn’t

me to do a lot of things that I wouldn’t

me to do a lot of things that I wouldn’t otherwise do see the province see the

otherwise do see the province see the

otherwise do see the province see the country and see the world at a very

country and see the world at a very

country and see the world at a very young age and so I try to tell people

young age and so I try to tell people

young age and so I try to tell people that or get young people to think about

that or get young people to think about

that or get young people to think about don’t spend so much time on the

don’t spend so much time on the

don’t spend so much time on the destination but enjoy the journey and

destination but enjoy the journey and

destination but enjoy the journey and try to live in the moments that are

try to live in the moments that are

try to live in the moments that are present for me as an athlete it’s game

present for me as an athlete it’s game

present for me as an athlete it’s game by game it’s practice by practice that’s

by game it’s practice by practice that’s

by game it’s practice by practice that’s putting time in to be successful and

putting time in to be successful and

putting time in to be successful and it’s setting goals and reaching goals

it’s setting goals and reaching goals

it’s setting goals and reaching goals and resetting goals and and reaching

and resetting goals and and reaching

and resetting goals and and reaching goals and all of those things as far as

goals and all of those things as far as

goals and all of those things as far as I’m concerned allow whatever else

I’m concerned allow whatever else

I’m concerned allow whatever else happens to take care of itself I didn’t

happens to take care of itself I didn’t

happens to take care of itself I didn’t know those things are going to happen to

know those things are going to happen to

know those things are going to happen to me I just knew that if I did what my

me I just knew that if I did what my

me I just knew that if I did what my coaches told me to do when I worked

coaches told me to do when I worked

coaches told me to do when I worked really hard and I was fortunate enough

really hard and I was fortunate enough

really hard and I was fortunate enough to have an older brother that was paving

to have an older brother that was paving

to have an older brother that was paving the way for softball in in a manner that

the way for softball in in a manner that

the way for softball in in a manner that looking back nobody has ever done in

looking back nobody has ever done in

looking back nobody has ever done in this province certainly no African Nova

this province certainly no African Nova

this province certainly no African Nova Scotian has ever done no African

Scotian has ever done no African

Scotian has ever done no African Canadians ever done he’s done things

Canadians ever done he’s done things

Canadians ever done he’s done things that I marvel at so you have those role

that I marvel at so you have those role

that I marvel at so you have those role models that allow you to think big

models that allow you to think big

models that allow you to think big because you see people doing big and so

because you see people doing big and so

because you see people doing big and so it became easy to be able to work hard

it became easy to be able to work hard

it became easy to be able to work hard and follow the time follow the follow

and follow the time follow the follow

and follow the time follow the follow the the people in front of you my cousin

the the people in front of you my cousin

the the people in front of you my cousin who recently passed away Wayne Smith was

who recently passed away Wayne Smith was

who recently passed away Wayne Smith was a CFL football player for 13 season and

a CFL football player for 13 season and

a CFL football player for 13 season and never played high school football so I

never played high school football so I

never played high school football so I had people around me setting examples

had people around me setting examples

had people around me setting examples that helped me be successful so

that helped me be successful so

that helped me be successful so basketball became my vehicle and I just

basketball became my vehicle and I just

basketball became my vehicle and I just rode the vehicle so that became part of

rode the vehicle so that became part of

rode the vehicle so that became part of the things that I like to do I became a

the things that I like to do I became a

the things that I like to do I became a coach I got into teaching and these are

coach I got into teaching and these are

coach I got into teaching and these are different experiences I taught GED I’ve

different experiences I taught GED I’ve

different experiences I taught GED I’ve taught high school I’ve taught some

taught high school I’ve taught some

taught high school I’ve taught some university stuff I’ve tutored I mentor

university stuff I’ve tutored I mentor

university stuff I’ve tutored I mentor you know multiple kids that come out of

you know multiple kids that come out of

you know multiple kids that come out of my community and lots and lots of kids

my community and lots and lots of kids

my community and lots and lots of kids that are in my school every day in

that are in my school every day in

that are in my school every day in different ways I love to learn I believe

different ways I love to learn I believe

different ways I love to learn I believe in support and I try to attach myself to

in support and I try to attach myself to

in support and I try to attach myself to positive things and positive people and

positive things and positive people and

positive things and positive people and my heart’s in it I’m not about to tell

my heart’s in it I’m not about to tell

my heart’s in it I’m not about to tell anybody anything a principal in the

anybody anything a principal in the

anybody anything a principal in the middle of the city Halifax is an easy

middle of the city Halifax is an easy

middle of the city Halifax is an easy job

it’s not it’s not an easy job but my

it’s not it’s not an easy job but my heart’s in it and it’s in my community

heart’s in it and it’s in my community

heart’s in it and it’s in my community and the kids I see believe it or not

and the kids I see believe it or not

and the kids I see believe it or not I’ve taught the kids in my I’ve working

I’ve taught the kids in my I’ve working

I’ve taught the kids in my I’ve working with the kids in my building I’ve taught

with the kids in my building I’ve taught

with the kids in my building I’ve taught some of their parents and so the

some of their parents and so the

some of their parents and so the connections that I help help me make my

connections that I help help me make my

connections that I help help me make my school run smoothly help me throw it any

school run smoothly help me throw it any

school run smoothly help me throw it any drama and if I always say I’m going to

drama and if I always say I’m going to

drama and if I always say I’m going to call someone’s mom they actually know it

call someone’s mom they actually know it

call someone’s mom they actually know it because I know them personally so that

because I know them personally so that

because I know them personally so that helps right and give time I just what do

helps right and give time I just what do

helps right and give time I just what do people want from you in life they want

people want from you in life they want

people want from you in life they want your time I know that because of my two

your time I know that because of my two

your time I know that because of my two sons I know that because of my wife I

sons I know that because of my wife I

sons I know that because of my wife I know that because of my family my mom

know that because of my family my mom

know that because of my family my mom that people appreciate your time and so

that people appreciate your time and so

that people appreciate your time and so I tell students ride the vehicle like

I tell students ride the vehicle like

I tell students ride the vehicle like whatever it is you’re good at don’t be

whatever it is you’re good at don’t be

whatever it is you’re good at don’t be ashamed of what the skills that it’s

ashamed of what the skills that it’s

ashamed of what the skills that it’s taught you when I first got into

taught you when I first got into

taught you when I first got into teaching the number one question that I

teaching the number one question that I

teaching the number one question that I ended up hating more than anything was I

ended up hating more than anything was I

ended up hating more than anything was I was in by this point Tom my career I

was in by this point Tom my career I

was in by this point Tom my career I have been at about 10 different schools

have been at about 10 different schools

have been at about 10 different schools throughout my career and so I’m going to

throughout my career and so I’m going to

throughout my career and so I’m going to retire for Sydow that’s my plan but in

retire for Sydow that’s my plan but in

retire for Sydow that’s my plan but in every school I went to as an educator as

every school I went to as an educator as

every school I went to as an educator as a teacher everybody came out to me and

a teacher everybody came out to me and

a teacher everybody came out to me and said oh so do you teach Jim you teach

said oh so do you teach Jim you teach

said oh so do you teach Jim you teach Jim don’t you do you teach Jim and for

Jim don’t you do you teach Jim and for

Jim don’t you do you teach Jim and for whatever reason that to me as a former

whatever reason that to me as a former

whatever reason that to me as a former athlete you might not find that

athlete you might not find that

athlete you might not find that insulting but I don’t go to people

insulting but I don’t go to people

insulting but I don’t go to people making assumptions about me so when they

making assumptions about me so when they

making assumptions about me so when they said that I would say no I’m English

said that I would say no I’m English

said that I would say no I’m English English social studies oh oh well good

English social studies oh oh well good

English social studies oh oh well good for you right and they’re good for you I

for you right and they’re good for you I

for you right and they’re good for you I just hated that so I had never really

just hated that so I had never really

just hated that so I had never really cared I didn’t want to be known as that

cared I didn’t want to be known as that

cared I didn’t want to be known as that sort of jockey dumb jockey kind of guy

sort of jockey dumb jockey kind of guy

sort of jockey dumb jockey kind of guy because I really prided myself on being

because I really prided myself on being

because I really prided myself on being a solid educator and working hard and

a solid educator and working hard and

a solid educator and working hard and learning and being good for the students

learning and being good for the students

learning and being good for the students and being there for them but as I got

and being there for them but as I got

and being there for them but as I got into my career and I got older I took

into my career and I got older I took

into my career and I got older I took all the information and all the

all the information and all the

all the information and all the experience from sport and I began to see

experience from sport and I began to see

experience from sport and I began to see what the school made up of its pockets

what the school made up of its pockets

what the school made up of its pockets full of teams its departments its

full of teams its departments its

full of teams its departments its department heads and all you’re doing is

department heads and all you’re doing is

department heads and all you’re doing is kind of coaching and supporting and

kind of coaching and supporting and

kind of coaching and supporting and doing the things for me personally that

doing the things for me personally that

doing the things for me personally that come kinda naturally kid kids come in

come kinda naturally kid kids come in

come kinda naturally kid kids come in your office now not a Yeller and a

your office now not a Yeller and a

your office now not a Yeller and a screamer I wasn’t one as a VP and really

screamer I wasn’t one as a VP and really

screamer I wasn’t one as a VP and really not one as a principal but you know lots

not one as a principal but you know lots

not one as a principal but you know lots of foot landed in lots of behinds right

of foot landed in lots of behinds right

of foot landed in lots of behinds right when I close

when I close

when I close door in different ways about love and

door in different ways about love and

door in different ways about love and about support for young people who want

about support for young people who want

about support for young people who want to be successful and there’s been lots

to be successful and there’s been lots

to be successful and there’s been lots of battles and I’ve won some I’ve won

of battles and I’ve won some I’ve won

of battles and I’ve won some I’ve won most right but you lose some of kids

most right but you lose some of kids

most right but you lose some of kids don’t finish school and you lose some

don’t finish school and you lose some

don’t finish school and you lose some because you feel that maybe high school

because you feel that maybe high school

because you feel that maybe high school wasn’t even the venue for them but I

wasn’t even the venue for them but I

wasn’t even the venue for them but I take all those things then I use them

take all those things then I use them

take all those things then I use them every day because my experiences in

every day because my experiences in

every day because my experiences in sport and working with teams and working

sport and working with teams and working

sport and working with teams and working with very very positive role models

with very very positive role models

with very very positive role models helps me believe that what I can

helps me believe that what I can

helps me believe that what I can actually achieve my building can

actually achieve my building can

actually achieve my building can actually occur you have to continue to

actually occur you have to continue to

actually occur you have to continue to be inspired I had an opportunity to meet

be inspired I had an opportunity to meet

be inspired I had an opportunity to meet dr. Raymond Lynn Bush when he was in the

dr. Raymond Lynn Bush when he was in the

dr. Raymond Lynn Bush when he was in the city a number of years ago and he turned

city a number of years ago and he turned

city a number of years ago and he turned me on was book the warrior method that I

me on was book the warrior method that I

me on was book the warrior method that I actually use I do in my my spare time I

actually use I do in my my spare time I

actually use I do in my my spare time I spend time in the correctional

spend time in the correctional

spend time in the correctional institutions in inter New Brunswick’s

institutions in inter New Brunswick’s

institutions in inter New Brunswick’s over new sand and the Westmoreland and

over new sand and the Westmoreland and

over new sand and the Westmoreland and Dorchester and Spring Hill I go in and

Dorchester and Spring Hill I go in and

Dorchester and Spring Hill I go in and work with African Nova Scotian inmates

work with African Nova Scotian inmates

work with African Nova Scotian inmates and put together what’s called an afro

and put together what’s called an afro

and put together what’s called an afro centric dialogue series which we went in

centric dialogue series which we went in

centric dialogue series which we went in and actually worked with men journals

and actually worked with men journals

and actually worked with men journals and got them to read and talk and share

and got them to read and talk and share

and got them to read and talk and share and do the things that we think are

and do the things that we think are

and do the things that we think are important for rehabilitation thinking

important for rehabilitation thinking

important for rehabilitation thinking about getting back to your community and

about getting back to your community and

about getting back to your community and trying to deal with some of the things

trying to deal with some of the things

trying to deal with some of the things that obviously can be difficult when

that obviously can be difficult when

that obviously can be difficult when your car serrated for long periods of

your car serrated for long periods of

your car serrated for long periods of time and I think to me that’s a small

time and I think to me that’s a small

time and I think to me that’s a small price to pay for people that that like

price to pay for people that that like

price to pay for people that that like me that have my freedom to work with

me that have my freedom to work with

me that have my freedom to work with young people that that don’t and in some

young people that that don’t and in some

young people that that don’t and in some case when I say sometimes in school I

case when I say sometimes in school I

case when I say sometimes in school I win some and I lose some I have gone

win some and I lose some I have gone

win some and I lose some I have gone into institutions where former students

into institutions where former students

into institutions where former students have met me at the door you know with

have met me at the door you know with

have met me at the door you know with the big hug and you go from that space

the big hug and you go from that space

the big hug and you go from that space on there’s no judgment they may have

on there’s no judgment they may have

on there’s no judgment they may have made a mistake in their lives that they

made a mistake in their lives that they

made a mistake in their lives that they are paying for by being incarcerated but

are paying for by being incarcerated but

are paying for by being incarcerated but there’s no judgment and we work from

there’s no judgment and we work from

there’s no judgment and we work from there and I’m always happy when I see

there and I’m always happy when I see

there and I’m always happy when I see that the road and we have great dialogue

that the road and we have great dialogue

that the road and we have great dialogue so the cycle continues in terms of

so the cycle continues in terms of

so the cycle continues in terms of positive energy so what happens when you

positive energy so what happens when you

positive energy so what happens when you contribute to others I think it’s very

contribute to others I think it’s very

contribute to others I think it’s very simple I know everybody in the room when

simple I know everybody in the room when

simple I know everybody in the room when I’m about to show you

I’m about to show you

I’m about to show you everybody in this room unless you’ve

everybody in this room unless you’ve

everybody in this room unless you’ve lived under a rock will know exactly

lived under a rock will know exactly

lived under a rock will know exactly what I’m talking about

well in Whoville they say that the

well in Whoville they say that the Grinch’s small heart grew three sizes

Grinch’s small heart grew three sizes

Grinch’s small heart grew three sizes that day I don’t know if there is an

that day I don’t know if there is an

that day I don’t know if there is an easier way to explain what happens when

easier way to explain what happens when

easier way to explain what happens when you work hard for other people because

you work hard for other people because

you work hard for other people because it’s not my paycheck and it’s not summer

it’s not my paycheck and it’s not summer

it’s not my paycheck and it’s not summer vacation and it’s not Chris it’s not any

vacation and it’s not Chris it’s not any

vacation and it’s not Chris it’s not any things that you think they’re typical

things that you think they’re typical

things that you think they’re typical both teachers administrators because

both teachers administrators because

both teachers administrators because none of that would be true because

none of that would be true because

none of that would be true because people work very very hard for a living

people work very very hard for a living

people work very very hard for a living and the pay that they get does not

and the pay that they get does not

and the pay that they get does not compare to what we actually do in a

compare to what we actually do in a

compare to what we actually do in a building every day so for those of you

building every day so for those of you

building every day so for those of you that go forth today and when people are

that go forth today and when people are

that go forth today and when people are bashing educators tell them you don’t

bashing educators tell them you don’t

bashing educators tell them you don’t know what you’re talking about

know what you’re talking about

know what you’re talking about because I vote for my school what I do

because I vote for my school what I do

because I vote for my school what I do know is I try to tell young people that

know is I try to tell young people that

know is I try to tell young people that you can make yourself extraordinary by

you can make yourself extraordinary by

you can make yourself extraordinary by doing the ordinary because if you’re

doing the ordinary because if you’re

doing the ordinary because if you’re extraordinary to someone that’s enough

extraordinary to someone that’s enough

extraordinary to someone that’s enough famous people were once ordinary they

famous people were once ordinary they

famous people were once ordinary they just believed in something so figure it

just believed in something so figure it

just believed in something so figure it out for young people I say figure out

out for young people I say figure out

out for young people I say figure out what you believe in and then when you

what you believe in and then when you

what you believe in and then when you were done you can do something so I

were done you can do something so I

were done you can do something so I wrote something very small to write it

wrote something very small to write it

wrote something very small to write it finish off at the end because I know

finish off at the end because I know

finish off at the end because I know wrap it up and I’d like to leave you

wrap it up and I’d like to leave you

wrap it up and I’d like to leave you with this poem now after listening to

with this poem now after listening to

with this poem now after listening to ohm talk I don’t really know if I just

ohm talk I don’t really know if I just

ohm talk I don’t really know if I just read this poem because he was heavy

read this poem because he was heavy

read this poem because he was heavy this morning I wake and rise from my bed

this morning I wake and rise from my bed

this morning I wake and rise from my bed I walked to the mayor and I scratched my

I walked to the mayor and I scratched my

I walked to the mayor and I scratched my head I squared my eyes and what do I see

head I squared my eyes and what do I see

head I squared my eyes and what do I see a tired black man staring back at me a

a tired black man staring back at me a

a tired black man staring back at me a black man a principal a father a friend

black man a principal a father a friend

black man a principal a father a friend a husband and uncle a teammate and then

a husband and uncle a teammate and then

a husband and uncle a teammate and then I’m one of those things and I am all of

I’m one of those things and I am all of

I’m one of those things and I am all of them a convict a criminal a thief and a

them a convict a criminal a thief and a

them a convict a criminal a thief and a crook

crook

crook I’m also those things in other people’s

I’m also those things in other people’s

I’m also those things in other people’s books but what I really am you can’t

books but what I really am you can’t

books but what I really am you can’t actually see because who I truly am is

actually see because who I truly am is

actually see because who I truly am is deep inside of me I’m a reader a writer

deep inside of me I’m a reader a writer

deep inside of me I’m a reader a writer a coach and a poet I’m a doer and a

a coach and a poet I’m a doer and a

a coach and a poet I’m a doer and a giver to many they know it I’m a mentor

giver to many they know it I’m a mentor

giver to many they know it I’m a mentor a pusher and I can be glue and I’ll give

a pusher and I can be glue and I’ll give

a pusher and I can be glue and I’ll give what I can to get the most out of you a

what I can to get the most out of you a

what I can to get the most out of you a mentor to me is the most valuable thing

mentor to me is the most valuable thing

mentor to me is the most valuable thing for they can make you believe the most

for they can make you believe the most

for they can make you believe the most unbelievable things

unbelievable things

unbelievable things they can take you places you never

they can take you places you never

they can take you places you never thought you’d go and make you believe

thought you’d go and make you believe

thought you’d go and make you believe that you run your own show for when you

that you run your own show for when you

that you run your own show for when you give you get 110 fold and it’s something

give you get 110 fold and it’s something

give you get 110 fold and it’s something you carry until you are old when caring

you carry until you are old when caring

you carry until you are old when caring and coaching is birth in your blood your

and coaching is birth in your blood your

and coaching is birth in your blood your goodness and caring comes out like a

goodness and caring comes out like a

goodness and caring comes out like a flood but the one thing I know from my

flood but the one thing I know from my

flood but the one thing I know from my wife and two sons is that all anybody

wife and two sons is that all anybody

wife and two sons is that all anybody wants is your time and your love and

wants is your time and your love and

wants is your time and your love and when you give freely without care or

when you give freely without care or

when you give freely without care or strife you’ll see how much mentoring can

strife you’ll see how much mentoring can

strife you’ll see how much mentoring can change your life thank you very much

change your life thank you very much

change your life thank you very much [Applause]

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