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How to Die Happy | Grayson Miller | TEDxYouth@FortWorth


mobile question for you all and if you

mobile question for you all and if you got up as early as I did it’s probably

got up as early as I did it’s probably

got up as early as I did it’s probably debatable how many of you are alive

debatable how many of you are alive

debatable how many of you are alive [Music]

[Music]

[Music] that’s good all your raise your hands

now how many of you have lived and i

now how many of you have lived and i don’t mean using the oxygen and exerting

don’t mean using the oxygen and exerting

don’t mean using the oxygen and exerting the carbon dioxide I’m accusing your

the carbon dioxide I’m accusing your

the carbon dioxide I’m accusing your short years on this earth to the best

short years on this earth to the best

short years on this earth to the best that you can please raise your hand if

that you can please raise your hand if

that you can please raise your hand if you mix up there are a few months hands

you mix up there are a few months hands

you mix up there are a few months hands why is that if we’re all alive why are

why is that if we’re all alive why are

why is that if we’re all alive why are we all living what’s standing in the way

we all living what’s standing in the way

we all living what’s standing in the way of you living how you would like to so

of you living how you would like to so

of you living how you would like to so think about what you would do if you do

think about what you would do if you do

think about what you would do if you do absolutely in connect today anything at

absolutely in connect today anything at

absolutely in connect today anything at all I can guarantee you none of you

all I can guarantee you none of you

all I can guarantee you none of you could be here so nothing is not you

could be here so nothing is not you

could be here so nothing is not you should be there today what should you do

should be there today what should you do

should be there today what should you do experiencing what makes you happy

experiencing what makes you happy

experiencing what makes you happy because this experience makes a memory

because this experience makes a memory

because this experience makes a memory and this memory is stored in your brain

and this memory is stored in your brain

and this memory is stored in your brain and the only thing that you can be sure

and the only thing that you can be sure

and the only thing that you can be sure that you will have what you’ve done is

that you will have what you’ve done is

that you will have what you’ve done is yourself in your brain and that’s why

yourself in your brain and that’s why

yourself in your brain and that’s why memories are so important I was out

memories are so important I was out

memories are so important I was out hunting once and it had gotten dark

hunting once and it had gotten dark

hunting once and it had gotten dark since the hub was over I packed my bag

since the hub was over I packed my bag

since the hub was over I packed my bag and got ready to leave now I had a very

and got ready to leave now I had a very

and got ready to leave now I had a very important decision to me it was a miles

important decision to me it was a miles

important decision to me it was a miles walk back to the car if I take the long

walk back to the car if I take the long

walk back to the car if I take the long way but only a half mile if I took the

way but only a half mile if I took the

way but only a half mile if I took the short which way do you think I went out

short which way do you think I went out

short which way do you think I went out the short way so I turned East and

the short way so I turned East and

the short way so I turned East and headed down into the valley instead of

headed down into the valley instead of

headed down into the valley instead of north around it but when I reached the

north around it but when I reached the

north around it but when I reached the other side I realized I have no idea

other side I realized I have no idea

other side I realized I have no idea where I was I turned left and the

where I was I turned left and the

where I was I turned left and the retreat and I kept running and there

retreat and I kept running and there

retreat and I kept running and there were more cheese and they looked exactly

were more cheese and they looked exactly

were more cheese and they looked exactly like the trees

but I close my eyes and I took a deep

but I close my eyes and I took a deep breath and I made a really deep breath

breath and I made a really deep breath

breath and I made a really deep breath and when I opened my eyes again I

and when I opened my eyes again I

and when I opened my eyes again I completely forgot that I was lost I was

completely forgot that I was lost I was

completely forgot that I was lost I was lost in the middle of nowhere but I was

lost in the middle of nowhere but I was

lost in the middle of nowhere but I was only looking at the stars there was no

only looking at the stars there was no

only looking at the stars there was no light and there was the most beautiful

light and there was the most beautiful

light and there was the most beautiful thing that I’d ever seen the crickets

thing that I’d ever seen the crickets

thing that I’d ever seen the crickets were all i could hear and for the first

were all i could hear and for the first

were all i could hear and for the first time in my life it was truly called

there was no cracks or grass or twigs

there was no cracks or grass or twigs under my feet and the whole world

under my feet and the whole world

under my feet and the whole world carried on without by doing anything at

carried on without by doing anything at

carried on without by doing anything at all although I was lost as almost as if

all although I was lost as almost as if

all although I was lost as almost as if I didn’t have to worry about where I was

I didn’t have to worry about where I was

I didn’t have to worry about where I was because I didn’t know anyways suddenly

because I didn’t know anyways suddenly

because I didn’t know anyways suddenly my father walked through the woods and

my father walked through the woods and

my father walked through the woods and from the sides I was not lost but I was

from the sides I was not lost but I was

from the sides I was not lost but I was almost sad that the bomb ahead ended I

almost sad that the bomb ahead ended I

almost sad that the bomb ahead ended I even missed the feeling of not knowing

even missed the feeling of not knowing

even missed the feeling of not knowing where I was it was almost as if simply

where I was it was almost as if simply

where I was it was almost as if simply not my location was a burden that had

not my location was a burden that had

not my location was a burden that had been lifted off my back I’m telling you

been lifted off my back I’m telling you

been lifted off my back I’m telling you this story because this was the instance

this story because this was the instance

this story because this was the instance I asked myself what if today was all

I asked myself what if today was all

I asked myself what if today was all there was what if there was no tomorrow

there was what if there was no tomorrow

there was what if there was no tomorrow what would I have done differently not

what would I have done differently not

what would I have done differently not in advance if this could have been my

in advance if this could have been my

in advance if this could have been my last day on earth what would you have

last day on earth what would you have

last day on earth what would you have done I was going to Scott and who here

done I was going to Scott and who here

done I was going to Scott and who here would have wanted to do that in their

would have wanted to do that in their

would have wanted to do that in their last day okay maybe skydiving using Fred

last day okay maybe skydiving using Fred

last day okay maybe skydiving using Fred I would be whatever I wanted and I would

I would be whatever I wanted and I would

I would be whatever I wanted and I would have said the things that I should have

have said the things that I should have

have said the things that I should have said but never did I would truly live so

said but never did I would truly live so

said but never did I would truly live so I can’t jump any up any old morning and

I can’t jump any up any old morning and

I can’t jump any up any old morning and say how good sky and I’m not going to

say how good sky and I’m not going to

say how good sky and I’m not going to eat whatever I want all the time but I

eat whatever I want all the time but I

eat whatever I want all the time but I can do a little bit each and every day I

can do a little bit each and every day I

can do a little bit each and every day I can eat an amount of donuts once in a

can eat an amount of donuts once in a

can eat an amount of donuts once in a while and I could say something I would

while and I could say something I would

while and I could say something I would have once been embarrassed to say just

have once been embarrassed to say just

have once been embarrassed to say just to say just as a thrill of not knowing

to say just as a thrill of not knowing

to say just as a thrill of not knowing what the reaction with you I was in the

what the reaction with you I was in the

what the reaction with you I was in the Pacific Northwest is some kids from my

Pacific Northwest is some kids from my

Pacific Northwest is some kids from my school to suffer after 17 a boat had

school to suffer after 17 a boat had

school to suffer after 17 a boat had stopped on San Juan Island for lunch we

stopped on San Juan Island for lunch we

stopped on San Juan Island for lunch we had two hours to do whatever we wanted

had two hours to do whatever we wanted

had two hours to do whatever we wanted before we had to be back on the boat so

before we had to be back on the boat so

before we had to be back on the boat so fern and i found a seafood restaurant to

fern and i found a seafood restaurant to

fern and i found a seafood restaurant to eat at the head up balcony overlooking

eat at the head up balcony overlooking

eat at the head up balcony overlooking the harbor we ordered downstairs and

the harbor we ordered downstairs and

the harbor we ordered downstairs and they thought the table on the balcony it

they thought the table on the balcony it

they thought the table on the balcony it took about 15 minutes for him to get his

took about 15 minutes for him to get his

took about 15 minutes for him to get his food and we waiting but mine to come

food and we waiting but mine to come

food and we waiting but mine to come finally I walk down to the to the

finally I walk down to the to the

finally I walk down to the to the kitchen and asked if there was an order

kitchen and asked if there was an order

kitchen and asked if there was an order for Miller my last name apparently the

for Miller my last name apparently the

for Miller my last name apparently the waiter had placed my order at all so the

waiter had placed my order at all so the

waiter had placed my order at all so the chef pushed it to the front and it would

chef pushed it to the front and it would

chef pushed it to the front and it would be out in 10 minutes I stopped back up

be out in 10 minutes I stopped back up

be out in 10 minutes I stopped back up the stairs and saw back in my chair I

the stairs and saw back in my chair I

the stairs and saw back in my chair I was so mad with the chef the waiter with

was so mad with the chef the waiter with

was so mad with the chef the waiter with everybody I didn’t know why but I’d

everybody I didn’t know why but I’d

everybody I didn’t know why but I’d still difficulty so certainly a song

still difficulty so certainly a song

still difficulty so certainly a song came on the bar and it was somewhere

came on the bar and it was somewhere

came on the bar and it was somewhere over the rainbow by is the big Hawaiian

over the rainbow by is the big Hawaiian

over the rainbow by is the big Hawaiian guy with the ukulele

[Music]

[Music] [Applause]

this song was not anything fancy or not

this song was not anything fancy or not some new hit single but it showed me

some new hit single but it showed me

some new hit single but it showed me that I too was somewhere over the

that I too was somewhere over the

that I too was somewhere over the rainbow this song somehow pushed aside

rainbow this song somehow pushed aside

rainbow this song somehow pushed aside the waiters mistake something I couldn’t

the waiters mistake something I couldn’t

the waiters mistake something I couldn’t even control and showed me the beauty

even control and showed me the beauty

even control and showed me the beauty that had been there all the time and the

that had been there all the time and the

that had been there all the time and the only thing that had changed was my

only thing that had changed was my

only thing that had changed was my perspective there were vast sticking out

perspective there were vast sticking out

perspective there were vast sticking out from the boats on my left and the huge

from the boats on my left and the huge

from the boats on my left and the huge ocean is behind with dotted with reed

ocean is behind with dotted with reed

ocean is behind with dotted with reed islands I’m taking myself now for not

islands I’m taking myself now for not

islands I’m taking myself now for not snapping a photo to show you today

snapping a photo to show you today

snapping a photo to show you today because it would serve as a concert or

because it would serve as a concert or

because it would serve as a concert or Michael to stay in the moment look at it

Michael to stay in the moment look at it

Michael to stay in the moment look at it and simply enjoy back on this beautiful

and simply enjoy back on this beautiful

and simply enjoy back on this beautiful this song told me to stop because this

this song told me to stop because this

this song told me to stop because this is the world that I may never return key

is the world that I may never return key

is the world that I may never return key so I had better enjoy it right now this

so I had better enjoy it right now this

so I had better enjoy it right now this song told me to stop and it allowed me

song told me to stop and it allowed me

song told me to stop and it allowed me to push away the stress from home

to push away the stress from home

to push away the stress from home because I was in place those problems

because I was in place those problems

because I was in place those problems could not reach you and I realized that

could not reach you and I realized that

could not reach you and I realized that I could escape those same problems at

I could escape those same problems at

I could escape those same problems at home too all I had to do was let go all

home too all I had to do was let go all

home too all I had to do was let go all I had to do is let go of the problems

I had to do is let go of the problems

I had to do is let go of the problems that I had no control over and every day

that I had no control over and every day

that I had no control over and every day I would be somewhere over the rainbow so

I would be somewhere over the rainbow so

I would be somewhere over the rainbow so a lot of high five moments like this

a lot of high five moments like this

a lot of high five moments like this every day it’s because each of

every day it’s because each of

every day it’s because each of falling into around each of us has a

falling into around each of us has a

falling into around each of us has a system that we follow I wake up eat

system that we follow I wake up eat

system that we follow I wake up eat breakfast go to school learn something

breakfast go to school learn something

breakfast go to school learn something come back come on eat dinner go to bed

come back come on eat dinner go to bed

come back come on eat dinner go to bed wake up and do it all over the next day

wake up and do it all over the next day

wake up and do it all over the next day I do not want to set up my death bed and

I do not want to set up my death bed and

I do not want to set up my death bed and think to myself what have I done and

think to myself what have I done and

think to myself what have I done and come to the conclusion that I haven’t

come to the conclusion that I haven’t

come to the conclusion that I haven’t done anything at all this cannot happen

done anything at all this cannot happen

done anything at all this cannot happen to me and it should not happen to any of

to me and it should not happen to any of

to me and it should not happen to any of us I’m going to be doing something

us I’m going to be doing something

us I’m going to be doing something amazing when I kick the bucket because

amazing when I kick the bucket because

amazing when I kick the bucket because I’m going to be doing something amazing

I’m going to be doing something amazing

I’m going to be doing something amazing every day I’m going to get to do

every day I’m going to get to do

every day I’m going to get to do something it gets my heart pumping my

something it gets my heart pumping my

something it gets my heart pumping my internal being every day however if you

internal being every day however if you

internal being every day however if you are confined to a bit for a medical

are confined to a bit for a medical

are confined to a bit for a medical reason jump out of bed up here go

reason jump out of bed up here go

reason jump out of bed up here go skydiving up here because how you feel

skydiving up here because how you feel

skydiving up here because how you feel appears what batteries it’s where all

appears what batteries it’s where all

appears what batteries it’s where all those memories elite uq and it’s where

those memories elite uq and it’s where

those memories elite uq and it’s where you kept every memory until now find

you kept every memory until now find

you kept every memory until now find your happiest the long as he felt so hot

your happiest the long as he felt so hot

your happiest the long as he felt so hot you could never fall your wedding day

you could never fall your wedding day

you could never fall your wedding day the day we first drove a car the day

the day we first drove a car the day

the day we first drove a car the day simply SAT watch the Sun go down and

simply SAT watch the Sun go down and

simply SAT watch the Sun go down and live in those muffins forever if you

live in those muffins forever if you

live in those muffins forever if you actually believe that you live life the

actually believe that you live life the

actually believe that you live life the best you could you cannot have spent a

best you could you cannot have spent a

best you could you cannot have spent a moment of it better you will not be

moment of it better you will not be

moment of it better you will not be scared of death because death will be

scared of death because death will be

scared of death because death will be the only journey that you have not yet

the only journey that you have not yet

the only journey that you have not yet explored to start all you have to do is

explored to start all you have to do is

explored to start all you have to do is jump out of your hands you’re going to

jump out of your hands you’re going to

jump out of your hands you’re going to start all you have to do is get lost so

start all you have to do is get lost so

start all you have to do is get lost so thank you ladies and gentlemen but it

thank you ladies and gentlemen but it

thank you ladies and gentlemen but it still one last message for you and this

still one last message for you and this

still one last message for you and this what matters the most find what makes

what matters the most find what makes

what matters the most find what makes your world light up and do it every

your world light up and do it every

your world light up and do it every single day so

single day so

single day so you

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