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so what should I start with I am NOT got

so what should I start with I am NOT got my tutees yeah so very frankly you know

my tutees yeah so very frankly you know

my tutees yeah so very frankly you know I really like coming to a place like

I really like coming to a place like

I really like coming to a place like this where sometimes I feel that in the

this where sometimes I feel that in the

this where sometimes I feel that in the profession that I am in there is a

profession that I am in there is a

profession that I am in there is a certain amount of complacency that seeps

certain amount of complacency that seeps

certain amount of complacency that seeps in we also cannot get used to the kind

in we also cannot get used to the kind

in we also cannot get used to the kind of work that we’re doing every day it’s

of work that we’re doing every day it’s

of work that we’re doing every day it’s nice to meet students like y’all who

nice to meet students like y’all who

nice to meet students like y’all who want to start off to something new there

want to start off to something new there

want to start off to something new there are interesting conversations that

are interesting conversations that

are interesting conversations that happen it’s really nice to meet you

happen it’s really nice to meet you

happen it’s really nice to meet you today and yeah so there has been one

today and yeah so there has been one

today and yeah so there has been one argument that me and my team a lot of my

argument that me and my team a lot of my

argument that me and my team a lot of my colleagues have visit us is that most of

colleagues have visit us is that most of

colleagues have visit us is that most of the time when we discuss that how we

the time when we discuss that how we

the time when we discuss that how we have succeeded in achieving what we

have succeeded in achieving what we

have succeeded in achieving what we wanted to achieve whatever I have done

wanted to achieve whatever I have done

wanted to achieve whatever I have done today or whatever I have become or

today or whatever I have become or

today or whatever I have become or managed to achieve is most of the time a

managed to achieve is most of the time a

managed to achieve is most of the time a lot of people only that I don’t have a

lot of people only that I don’t have a

lot of people only that I don’t have a story I do not have a story because I

story I do not have a story because I

story I do not have a story because I come from a Marwari

come from a Marwari

come from a Marwari business family and a fairly decent

business family and a fairly decent

business family and a fairly decent well-to-do family so I am told these are

well-to-do family so I am told these are

well-to-do family so I am told these are my friends who tell me that you okay are

my friends who tell me that you okay are

my friends who tell me that you okay are you used to wear before also you were a

you used to wear before also you were a

you used to wear before also you were a well-to-do person you had a car in your

well-to-do person you had a car in your

well-to-do person you had a car in your house today also you are the same thing

house today also you are the same thing

house today also you are the same thing so what’s the big deal if you know

so what’s the big deal if you know

so what’s the big deal if you know you’re there the stories are of people

you’re there the stories are of people

you’re there the stories are of people who come from backgrounds where they

who come from backgrounds where they

who come from backgrounds where they don’t really have much and and then you

don’t really have much and and then you

don’t really have much and and then you kind of grew so that’s the story but you

kind of grew so that’s the story but you

kind of grew so that’s the story but you don’t really have a story but that’s not

don’t really have a story but that’s not

don’t really have a story but that’s not really true in a way where you know that

really true in a way where you know that

really true in a way where you know that there are a lot of actors that I know

there are a lot of actors that I know

there are a lot of actors that I know who generally have already live the life

who generally have already live the life

who generally have already live the life where they

where they

where they i Mumbai and there was this huge

i Mumbai and there was this huge

i Mumbai and there was this huge struggle and there was we slept on the

struggle and there was we slept on the

struggle and there was we slept on the platform railway platform for a few days

platform railway platform for a few days

platform railway platform for a few days we didn’t have a place you were eight

we didn’t have a place you were eight

we didn’t have a place you were eight people camped in one room a lot of it is

people camped in one room a lot of it is

people camped in one room a lot of it is not true also and I know a lot of actors

not true also and I know a lot of actors

not true also and I know a lot of actors is gonna read these stories which are

is gonna read these stories which are

is gonna read these stories which are not but purely for the sake of having a

not but purely for the sake of having a

not but purely for the sake of having a story they come up with these these

story they come up with these these

story they come up with these these ideas but I genuinely have not really

ideas but I genuinely have not really

ideas but I genuinely have not really slept on a railway platform and not

slept on a railway platform and not

slept on a railway platform and not really struggled the way a lot of other

really struggled the way a lot of other

really struggled the way a lot of other people have struggled probably I had a

people have struggled probably I had a

people have struggled probably I had a little cushion because my father is a

little cushion because my father is a

little cushion because my father is a businessman and I am from Mumbai it

businessman and I am from Mumbai it

businessman and I am from Mumbai it wasn’t that I had to come from another

wasn’t that I had to come from another

wasn’t that I had to come from another city look for a place and start off my

city look for a place and start off my

city look for a place and start off my career in Mumbai so yeah it was all

career in Mumbai so yeah it was all

career in Mumbai so yeah it was all comfortable but the biggest challenge

comfortable but the biggest challenge

comfortable but the biggest challenge for me was that when you come from a

for me was that when you come from a

for me was that when you come from a Marwari business family from a

Marwari business family from a

Marwari business family from a background like that invariably what

background like that invariably what

background like that invariably what happens ah ye curtayne Chaka Fattah ji

happens ah ye curtayne Chaka Fattah ji

happens ah ye curtayne Chaka Fattah ji ki Fateh Singh basically in the Marathi

ki Fateh Singh basically in the Marathi

ki Fateh Singh basically in the Marathi family your father’s business is your

family your father’s business is your

family your father’s business is your business and then it goes on and on and

business and then it goes on and on and

business and then it goes on and on and on and on here when you want to cut your

on and on here when you want to cut your

on and on here when you want to cut your book out there and do something new even

book out there and do something new even

book out there and do something new even probably forget being in the creative

probably forget being in the creative

probably forget being in the creative line or forget acting even if you want

line or forget acting even if you want

line or forget acting even if you want to kind of go out there do a job that’s

to kind of go out there do a job that’s

to kind of go out there do a job that’s also not like a done thing my dad

also not like a done thing my dad

also not like a done thing my dad himself what’s up its with you respect

himself what’s up its with you respect

himself what’s up its with you respect and I love him but he is used to tell me

and I love him but he is used to tell me

and I love him but he is used to tell me this thing this was his favorite phrase

this thing this was his favorite phrase

this thing this was his favorite phrase he no cleanup EJ cascode country he used

he no cleanup EJ cascode country he used

he no cleanup EJ cascode country he used to tell me it to job you can match a

to tell me it to job you can match a

to tell me it to job you can match a physical to conquer nuts or to do your

physical to conquer nuts or to do your

physical to conquer nuts or to do your own thing do your own business I said I

own thing do your own business I said I

own thing do your own business I said I understand this whole own business thing

understand this whole own business thing

understand this whole own business thing but you don’t and you’re good at what

but you don’t and you’re good at what

but you don’t and you’re good at what you do and you know your job I do not

you do and you know your job I do not

you do and you know your job I do not understand the stuff that you do my

understand the stuff that you do my

understand the stuff that you do my father is from corporate finance

father is from corporate finance

father is from corporate finance he is into funding and you know working

he is into funding and you know working

he is into funding and you know working capital requirements that companies has

capital requirements that companies has

capital requirements that companies has companies have these kind of he

companies have these kind of he

companies have these kind of he organizes the fun

organizes the fun

organizes the fun for them so he is a complete business

for them so he is a complete business

for them so he is a complete business guy with financials with balance sheets

guy with financials with balance sheets

guy with financials with balance sheets and my dad was of this thing as you grew

and my dad was of this thing as you grew

and my dad was of this thing as you grew like Mario 15 or 16 years old he’s

like Mario 15 or 16 years old he’s

like Mario 15 or 16 years old he’s probably on your 10th you have to come

probably on your 10th you have to come

probably on your 10th you have to come to the office so this is where I started

to the office so this is where I started

to the office so this is where I started and this was my little struggle was that

and this was my little struggle was that

and this was my little struggle was that I never understood office I never

I never understood office I never

I never understood office I never understood finance I still don’t

understood finance I still don’t

understood finance I still don’t understand balance sheets they used to

understand balance sheets they used to

understand balance sheets they used to make something once gave me DITA risk of

make something once gave me DITA risk of

make something once gave me DITA risk of uniformity expect me so much many is and

uniformity expect me so much many is and

uniformity expect me so much many is and this all this used to happen around me

this all this used to happen around me

this all this used to happen around me and my dad is dead we can hang out with

and my dad is dead we can hang out with

and my dad is dead we can hang out with the office guys sit with them to this

the office guys sit with them to this

the office guys sit with them to this understand this file is and I said you

understand this file is and I said you

understand this file is and I said you total phony happiness with my dad I need

total phony happiness with my dad I need

total phony happiness with my dad I need to do this and I used to go to the

to do this and I used to go to the

to do this and I used to go to the office at center I used to sit around

office at center I used to sit around

office at center I used to sit around largely I used to handle really stuff

largely I used to handle really stuff

largely I used to handle really stuff man you know manage the stationery

man you know manage the stationery

man you know manage the stationery valleca build and sinew here Nikola and

valleca build and sinew here Nikola and

valleca build and sinew here Nikola and I used to argument small small things

I used to argument small small things

I used to argument small small things and I used to do random stuff basically

and I used to do random stuff basically

and I used to do random stuff basically I was something that you might call this

I was something that you might call this

I was something that you might call this guy’s done employment I was unemployed

guy’s done employment I was unemployed

guy’s done employment I was unemployed and yeah so I was just sitting there and

and yeah so I was just sitting there and

and yeah so I was just sitting there and doing nothing and from the time I was in

doing nothing and from the time I was in

doing nothing and from the time I was in school and college acting was my passion

school and college acting was my passion

school and college acting was my passion this is what I used to like coming on

this is what I used to like coming on

this is what I used to like coming on stage talking acting performing

stage talking acting performing

stage talking acting performing dramatics debates this is what I used to

dramatics debates this is what I used to

dramatics debates this is what I used to enjoy doing but it was very difficult to

enjoy doing but it was very difficult to

enjoy doing but it was very difficult to explain it to my father which they are

explain it to my father which they are

explain it to my father which they are basically three brothers

basically three brothers

basically three brothers I had a brother younger brother my elder

I had a brother younger brother my elder

I had a brother younger brother my elder brother walls of the same wavelength as

brother walls of the same wavelength as

brother walls of the same wavelength as my dad and used to do all these

my dad and used to do all these

my dad and used to do all these financial things and he understood the

financial things and he understood the

financial things and he understood the business well I did not and for me it

business well I did not and for me it

business well I did not and for me it was like going to the office and

was like going to the office and

was like going to the office and spending the day there was like one one

spending the day there was like one one

spending the day there was like one one it was like yeah it was for sure in the

it was like yeah it was for sure in the

it was like yeah it was for sure in the beginning but then I understood that by

beginning but then I understood that by

beginning but then I understood that by that would be happy if I do this so I

that would be happy if I do this so I

that would be happy if I do this so I continued I tried my level best

continued I tried my level best

continued I tried my level best my dad said getting to my office

my dad said getting to my office

my dad said getting to my office I often say I come to the office and I

I often say I come to the office and I

I often say I come to the office and I will do my children do whatever I can so

will do my children do whatever I can so

will do my children do whatever I can so that’s how it all started I was in

that’s how it all started I was in

that’s how it all started I was in college I entered college I went to a

college I entered college I went to a

college I entered college I went to a college called

college called

college called nm nursing woodsy College of Commerce

nm nursing woodsy College of Commerce

nm nursing woodsy College of Commerce and economics which is in Mumbai in

and economics which is in Mumbai in

and economics which is in Mumbai in Villa Harlem and there also I started

Villa Harlem and there also I started

Villa Harlem and there also I started participating into the college

participating into the college

participating into the college competitions of acting so there are a

competitions of acting so there are a

competitions of acting so there are a lot of good festivals that happen in

lot of good festivals that happen in

lot of good festivals that happen in Mumbai a lot of talent which is fetched

Mumbai a lot of talent which is fetched

Mumbai a lot of talent which is fetched from these these are these festivals

from these these are these festivals

from these these are these festivals because you know invariably a lot of

because you know invariably a lot of

because you know invariably a lot of good directors and actors come and

good directors and actors come and

good directors and actors come and judging these competitions and that is

judging these competitions and that is

judging these competitions and that is where you meet people and you kind of

where you meet people and you kind of

where you meet people and you kind of even they want actors when you who are

even they want actors when you who are

even they want actors when you who are wrong and obviously the bigger actors

wrong and obviously the bigger actors

wrong and obviously the bigger actors become expensive then you have these

become expensive then you have these

become expensive then you have these actors were new and they are not ready

actors were new and they are not ready

actors were new and they are not ready so yeah they come cheap also so these

so yeah they come cheap also so these

so yeah they come cheap also so these guys used to come to the college to

guys used to come to the college to

guys used to come to the college to charge stuff that is where it all

charge stuff that is where it all

charge stuff that is where it all started I had a friend of mine called

started I had a friend of mine called

started I had a friend of mine called instructing shut these other he’s

instructing shut these other he’s

instructing shut these other he’s actually the grandson of mr. davanon

actually the grandson of mr. davanon

actually the grandson of mr. davanon Sagar and it was a very dear friend of

Sagar and it was a very dear friend of

Sagar and it was a very dear friend of mine in college and used to study

mine in college and used to study

mine in college and used to study together and I started my acting career

together and I started my acting career

together and I started my acting career largely because of him but before that I

largely because of him but before that I

largely because of him but before that I used to do a play it was a play for all

used to do a play it was a play for all

used to do a play it was a play for all the best all the best was a play about

the best all the best was a play about

the best all the best was a play about three men one deaf one mu that one blind

three men one deaf one mu that one blind

three men one deaf one mu that one blind and how these three friends come

and how these three friends come

and how these three friends come together they fall in love with the same

together they fall in love with the same

together they fall in love with the same girl and how now it was a funny play was

girl and how now it was a funny play was

girl and how now it was a funny play was a hilarious play and I did shows of that

a hilarious play and I did shows of that

a hilarious play and I did shows of that play all over the world in India I think

play all over the world in India I think

play all over the world in India I think we did about 700 shows it was a hindi

we did about 700 shows it was a hindi

we did about 700 shows it was a hindi play and we get 400 shows of that play

play and we get 400 shows of that play

play and we get 400 shows of that play at that point of time I used to try to

at that point of time I used to try to

at that point of time I used to try to explain to my dad that this is this is

explain to my dad that this is this is

explain to my dad that this is this is like the big thing you know acting and

like the big thing you know acting and

like the big thing you know acting and being in theatre which is actually

being in theatre which is actually

being in theatre which is actually called the actor’s medium theatre is

called the actor’s medium theatre is

called the actor’s medium theatre is where or to back over kind of note

where or to back over kind of note

where or to back over kind of note explore himself completely and my dad is

explore himself completely and my dad is

explore himself completely and my dad is – thinking what do you get beta you go

– thinking what do you get beta you go

– thinking what do you get beta you go to a theater you perform you do so much

to a theater you perform you do so much

to a theater you perform you do so much they used to actually pay her 700 rupees

they used to actually pay her 700 rupees

they used to actually pay her 700 rupees per show but I was like you make seven

per show but I was like you make seven

per show but I was like you make seven hundred rupees you struggling so much

hundred rupees you struggling so much

hundred rupees you struggling so much and you know I get money travelling

and you know I get money travelling

and you know I get money travelling mayonnaise anime algorithm why do you

mayonnaise anime algorithm why do you

mayonnaise anime algorithm why do you want to do this as I have now give me

want to do this as I have now give me

want to do this as I have now give me some time at least let me start off

some time at least let me start off

some time at least let me start off doing this once I at least polish myself

doing this once I at least polish myself

doing this once I at least polish myself through theater that is when I can do

through theater that is when I can do

through theater that is when I can do other stuff my dad wasn’t really very

other stuff my dad wasn’t really very

other stuff my dad wasn’t really very interested but he never kind of stopped

interested but he never kind of stopped

interested but he never kind of stopped me also he said that listen do what you

me also he said that listen do what you

me also he said that listen do what you think is right but office I said he had

think is right but office I said he had

think is right but office I said he had an office office so I used to go to this

an office office so I used to go to this

an office office so I used to go to this office again I used to do my little bit

office again I used to do my little bit

office again I used to do my little bit here and there

here and there

here and there whatever acting bit I could do I used to

whatever acting bit I could do I used to

whatever acting bit I could do I used to do my shows plays this this play call

do my shows plays this this play call

do my shows plays this this play call all the best professionally this was my

all the best professionally this was my

all the best professionally this was my first play and this is we travel to the

first play and this is we travel to the

first play and this is we travel to the play we did a lot of stuff then when I

play we did a lot of stuff then when I

play we did a lot of stuff then when I was in college only a my friend distract

was in college only a my friend distract

was in college only a my friend distract each other he offered me a TV show on

each other he offered me a TV show on

each other he offered me a TV show on Hathi

Hathi

Hathi that was my first TV show at that point

that was my first TV show at that point

that was my first TV show at that point of time I had to convince my dad that I

of time I had to convince my dad that I

of time I had to convince my dad that I will be traveling to a city called

will be traveling to a city called

will be traveling to a city called Baroda because they used to shoot the

Baroda because they used to shoot the

Baroda because they used to shoot the show in Baroda so my dad is library then

show in Baroda so my dad is library then

show in Baroda so my dad is library then office office so I said yes what you do

office office so I said yes what you do

office office so I said yes what you do is that I will go and kind of manage my

is that I will go and kind of manage my

is that I will go and kind of manage my shoot for about 10-15 days there and

shoot for about 10-15 days there and

shoot for about 10-15 days there and rest is all office and probably I give

rest is all office and probably I give

rest is all office and probably I give less time in the office and if I’m there

less time in the office and if I’m there

less time in the office and if I’m there for 15 days or if you for time I will

for 15 days or if you for time I will

for 15 days or if you for time I will sleep more I learn more but let’s

sleep more I learn more but let’s

sleep more I learn more but let’s explore this also and very frankly when

explore this also and very frankly when

explore this also and very frankly when I came from very come from a background

I came from very come from a background

I came from very come from a background where nobody is an actor it’s pretty

where nobody is an actor it’s pretty

where nobody is an actor it’s pretty shocking once my friend also told me

shocking once my friend also told me

shocking once my friend also told me apart from you know being an actor my

apart from you know being an actor my

apart from you know being an actor my friend told me that you come to karate

friend told me that you come to karate

friend told me that you come to karate shoot as a ha this is 9

shoot as a ha this is 9

shoot as a ha this is 9 I said then there is a swimming pool

I said then there is a swimming pool

I said then there is a swimming pool there so after she will go for a swim

there so after she will go for a swim

there so after she will go for a swim oh this is all so cool and so then I

oh this is all so cool and so then I

oh this is all so cool and so then I have music and you do this and I said

have music and you do this and I said

have music and you do this and I said I’m actually going to like literally

I’m actually going to like literally

I’m actually going to like literally actually the friend of mine for 10-15

actually the friend of mine for 10-15

actually the friend of mine for 10-15 days it’s almost like a holiday they’ll

days it’s almost like a holiday they’ll

days it’s almost like a holiday they’ll give me a room which will have a TV you

give me a room which will have a TV you

give me a room which will have a TV you drive an AC and then you will have a

drive an AC and then you will have a

drive an AC and then you will have a swimming pool and you will hang out and

swimming pool and you will hang out and

swimming pool and you will hang out and for 10 days for 10 days like this

for 10 days for 10 days like this

for 10 days for 10 days like this normally I would have paid for a holiday

normally I would have paid for a holiday

normally I would have paid for a holiday like this but the best part is that you

like this but the best part is that you

like this but the best part is that you make me stay and hang out and chill and

make me stay and hang out and chill and

make me stay and hang out and chill and then you take me money also I have those

then you take me money also I have those

then you take me money also I have those amazed as if because I’ve never done

amazed as if because I’ve never done

amazed as if because I’ve never done this you know and we are not from this

this you know and we are not from this

this you know and we are not from this thing for us we’ve always gone on a

thing for us we’ve always gone on a

thing for us we’ve always gone on a holiday and we’ve paid for things not

holiday and we’ve paid for things not

holiday and we’ve paid for things not nobody give me a free room till then

nobody give me a free room till then

nobody give me a free room till then that whole idea of someone offering a

that whole idea of someone offering a

that whole idea of someone offering a free room to me was like oh man this is

free room to me was like oh man this is

free room to me was like oh man this is so cool yeah I have to pay for nothing

so cool yeah I have to pay for nothing

so cool yeah I have to pay for nothing and I am sinking me to change it give me

and I am sinking me to change it give me

and I am sinking me to change it give me time so cool

time so cool

time so cool so I thought that this was an attractive

so I thought that this was an attractive

so I thought that this was an attractive life I think I should do this so I went

life I think I should do this so I went

life I think I should do this so I went off to Peru da more to hang out and you

off to Peru da more to hang out and you

off to Peru da more to hang out and you know chill and then you know bit of

know chill and then you know bit of

know chill and then you know bit of acting also will happen

acting also will happen

acting also will happen I always got that the theatre was the

I always got that the theatre was the

I always got that the theatre was the main thing where you will learn acting

main thing where you will learn acting

main thing where you will learn acting television was like okay it’s fun is fun

television was like okay it’s fun is fun

television was like okay it’s fun is fun let’s start over let’s see what happens

let’s start over let’s see what happens

let’s start over let’s see what happens and 15 days in a month I used to shoot

and 15 days in a month I used to shoot

and 15 days in a month I used to shoot in Baroda and the rest of the 15 days

in Baroda and the rest of the 15 days

in Baroda and the rest of the 15 days Scourge is used to happen on his own

Scourge is used to happen on his own

Scourge is used to happen on his own part office was the main job that 15

part office was the main job that 15

part office was the main job that 15 days I had to be there so my dad kind of

days I had to be there so my dad kind of

days I had to be there so my dad kind of started like over there missing a lot of

started like over there missing a lot of

started like over there missing a lot of things you’re not learning you’re

things you’re not learning you’re

things you’re not learning you’re learning stories your brother

learning stories your brother

learning stories your brother and grown into learning so much more

and grown into learning so much more

and grown into learning so much more because many things on his own now you

because many things on his own now you

because many things on his own now you have not started going for meetings on

have not started going for meetings on

have not started going for meetings on your own like I understand that but you

your own like I understand that but you

your own like I understand that but you know this is another profession say

know this is another profession say

know this is another profession say thank your profession and all is fine

thank your profession and all is fine

thank your profession and all is fine what you understand that nobody can

what you understand that nobody can

what you understand that nobody can obtain our family and it’s not really

obtain our family and it’s not really

obtain our family and it’s not really the most and they used to live never

the most and they used to live never

the most and they used to live never even look at it as like the most of the

even look at it as like the most of the

even look at it as like the most of the cool job on earth they were like eh

cool job on earth they were like eh

cool job on earth they were like eh what if you tell someone in the business

what if you tell someone in the business

what if you tell someone in the business clan that you’re an actor that are

clan that you’re an actor that are

clan that you’re an actor that are chargeable talk a little bit back

chargeable talk a little bit back

chargeable talk a little bit back account chattering never acting

account chattering never acting

account chattering never acting seriously there are actors singers

seriously there are actors singers

seriously there are actors singers dancers ito after they Masada

dancers ito after they Masada

dancers ito after they Masada so anyway I never had an answer for that

so anyway I never had an answer for that

so anyway I never had an answer for that so I I didn’t know how to explain it to

so I I didn’t know how to explain it to

so I I didn’t know how to explain it to them slowly and artha my first show

them slowly and artha my first show

them slowly and artha my first show happen I used to play a character called

happen I used to play a character called

happen I used to play a character called Bobo which are not hears and so yeah so

Bobo which are not hears and so yeah so

Bobo which are not hears and so yeah so how they were happened I think in 2004

how they were happened I think in 2004

how they were happened I think in 2004 or something that is where my dad I

or something that is where my dad I

or something that is where my dad I think for the first time realized that

think for the first time realized that

think for the first time realized that sometimes when we go out for dinner then

sometimes when we go out for dinner then

sometimes when we go out for dinner then there are people looking at me and

there are people looking at me and

there are people looking at me and wanting to meet me and my dad story

wanting to meet me and my dad story

wanting to meet me and my dad story started getting impressed with the idea

started getting impressed with the idea

started getting impressed with the idea you know people to the different

that time he had no clue

that time he had no clue he had no pin and he thought that the

he had no pin and he thought that the

he had no pin and he thought that the big thing is you know you got to do this

big thing is you know you got to do this

big thing is you know you got to do this this this and until you do you buy a

this this and until you do you buy a

this this and until you do you buy a money with a core here to me a

money with a core here to me a

money with a core here to me a philosopher with a four year they call

philosopher with a four year they call

philosopher with a four year they call in Hebrew they go I said he used to

in Hebrew they go I said he used to

in Hebrew they go I said he used to always kind of narrate the big stories

always kind of narrate the big stories

always kind of narrate the big stories to me and you to respect those were

to me and you to respect those were

to me and you to respect those were inspiring stories nevertheless but then

inspiring stories nevertheless but then

inspiring stories nevertheless but then slowly when my dad started realizing

slowly when my dad started realizing

slowly when my dad started realizing this here we go out with for a family

this here we go out with for a family

this here we go out with for a family wedding and there are more people

wedding and there are more people

wedding and there are more people looking at me then his friend who runs a

looking at me then his friend who runs a

looking at me then his friend who runs a 300 crore company

300 crore company

300 crore company a charter company Hitachi said yeah yeah

a charter company Hitachi said yeah yeah

a charter company Hitachi said yeah yeah I guess that is where my dad started

I guess that is where my dad started

I guess that is where my dad started getting a little embraced with the

getting a little embraced with the

getting a little embraced with the profession that I was in he stopped

profession that I was in he stopped

profession that I was in he stopped asking me the question how much money do

asking me the question how much money do

asking me the question how much money do you make and you know what is little bit

you make and you know what is little bit

you make and you know what is little bit me you can make more money here which

me you can make more money here which

me you can make more money here which always was the case for the first few

always was the case for the first few

always was the case for the first few years of my career it all that my dad

years of my career it all that my dad

years of my career it all that my dad kept thinking that oh you can make so

kept thinking that oh you can make so

kept thinking that oh you can make so much more money doing my work there in

much more money doing my work there in

much more money doing my work there in the work that you are doing but yeah

the work that you are doing but yeah

the work that you are doing but yeah that recognition part kind of gave him a

that recognition part kind of gave him a

that recognition part kind of gave him a little listening he was getting a little

little listening he was getting a little

little listening he was getting a little convinced but still office existed I

convinced but still office existed I

convinced but still office existed I still had to go to office I said open

still had to go to office I said open

still had to go to office I said open rod in Baroda

rod in Baroda

rod in Baroda and then whatever other acting

and then whatever other acting

and then whatever other acting assignments I bought with small small

assignments I bought with small small

assignments I bought with small small assignment is a beginning it wasn’t

assignment is a beginning it wasn’t

assignment is a beginning it wasn’t great is moving the way it is now but in

great is moving the way it is now but in

great is moving the way it is now but in the beginning it was slow and I can put

the beginning it was slow and I can put

the beginning it was slow and I can put into the office and I can you know

into the office and I can you know

into the office and I can you know hanging out with dad and explaining to

hanging out with dad and explaining to

hanging out with dad and explaining to him and then we have three brothers my

him and then we have three brothers my

him and then we have three brothers my other two brothers were there in the

other two brothers were there in the

other two brothers were there in the business and they were with Papa doing

business and they were with Papa doing

business and they were with Papa doing doing the work that he wanted them to

doing the work that he wanted them to

doing the work that he wanted them to and slowly slowly he started kind of

and slowly slowly he started kind of

and slowly slowly he started kind of giving up on me this guy is managing you

giving up on me this guy is managing you

giving up on me this guy is managing you know chata and then used to get even

know chata and then used to get even

know chata and then used to get even impressed by the idea used to go to the

impressed by the idea used to go to the

impressed by the idea used to go to the temple and till date my dad tells me

temple and till date my dad tells me

temple and till date my dad tells me that we used to go to this Mahalakshmi

that we used to go to this Mahalakshmi

that we used to go to this Mahalakshmi temple which is in my Lakshmi and and my

temple which is in my Lakshmi and and my

temple which is in my Lakshmi and and my dad is like Neil of the language theory

dad is like Neil of the language theory

dad is like Neil of the language theory on the day of Diwali and all when you go

on the day of Diwali and all when you go

on the day of Diwali and all when you go there oh they’re lying the flu is gong

there oh they’re lying the flu is gong

there oh they’re lying the flu is gong and then suddenly little bit of

and then suddenly little bit of

and then suddenly little bit of recognition from the ox and the pop

recognition from the ox and the pop

recognition from the ox and the pop singer a je je je that is where my dad

singer a je je je that is where my dad

singer a je je je that is where my dad fought K Bosley what I you know my son

fought K Bosley what I you know my son

fought K Bosley what I you know my son has arrived great lines people don’t

has arrived great lines people don’t

has arrived great lines people don’t stop him so my dad was more than

stop him so my dad was more than

stop him so my dad was more than impressed with this whole thing and but

impressed with this whole thing and but

impressed with this whole thing and but in any case I I kept doing whatever and

in any case I I kept doing whatever and

in any case I I kept doing whatever and obviously today which time slowly slowly

obviously today which time slowly slowly

obviously today which time slowly slowly slowly today the kind of work that I do

slowly today the kind of work that I do

slowly today the kind of work that I do my father’s extremely extremely proud of

my father’s extremely extremely proud of

my father’s extremely extremely proud of me he now he talks to people he

me he now he talks to people he

me he now he talks to people he obviously most of the people that made

obviously most of the people that made

obviously most of the people that made him some one or the other kind of legs

him some one or the other kind of legs

him some one or the other kind of legs the other person know that mr. Sharma is

the other person know that mr. Sharma is

the other person know that mr. Sharma is you know his his son is this one he does

you know his his son is this one he does

you know his his son is this one he does TV and my dad is like another the other

TV and my dad is like another the other

TV and my dad is like another the other person gets impressed and my dad dad has

person gets impressed and my dad dad has

person gets impressed and my dad dad has a big grin on his face and every evening

a big grin on his face and every evening

a big grin on his face and every evening or every in a week I think two to three

or every in a week I think two to three

or every in a week I think two to three times but I calls me and tells me that

times but I calls me and tells me that

times but I calls me and tells me that when I am really happy

when I am really happy

when I am really happy with the career that you’ve chosen and

with the career that you’ve chosen and

with the career that you’ve chosen and I’m really happy that you’ve kind of

I’m really happy that you’ve kind of

I’m really happy that you’ve kind of grown and this he watches episodes he

grown and this he watches episodes he

grown and this he watches episodes he gives me a call what is couples episode

gives me a call what is couples episode

gives me a call what is couples episode two gives me a call he tells me that you

two gives me a call he tells me that you

two gives me a call he tells me that you know that it’s such a long journey and

know that it’s such a long journey and

know that it’s such a long journey and you know you think Filmfare Awards he

you know you think Filmfare Awards he

you know you think Filmfare Awards he saw Filmfare Awards lately he gave me a

saw Filmfare Awards lately he gave me a

saw Filmfare Awards lately he gave me a call that I was very impressed because

call that I was very impressed because

call that I was very impressed because with what you did then but having said

with what you did then but having said

with what you did then but having said all that I am really happy that I could

all that I am really happy that I could

all that I am really happy that I could make my father proud but I did if I get

make my father proud but I did if I get

make my father proud but I did if I get time if I’m free I do go to the office I

always tell people that maybe I don’t

always tell people that maybe I don’t have a rags to riches story I don’t have

have a rags to riches story I don’t have

have a rags to riches story I don’t have a story where I kind of grown from

a story where I kind of grown from

a story where I kind of grown from nowhere okay fine I was like a from

nowhere okay fine I was like a from

nowhere okay fine I was like a from available to my wording family but the

available to my wording family but the

available to my wording family but the point being that to move out from a

point being that to move out from a

point being that to move out from a family business who convincingly move

family business who convincingly move

family business who convincingly move into a profession which is completely in

into a profession which is completely in

into a profession which is completely in here to what what my father’s been doing

here to what what my father’s been doing

here to what what my father’s been doing itself is a struggle it’s not easy

itself is a struggle it’s not easy

itself is a struggle it’s not easy and at every point we’re meeting you’re

and at every point we’re meeting you’re

and at every point we’re meeting you’re acting variance or failing or

acting variance or failing or

acting variance or failing or something’s not going right you know

something’s not going right you know

something’s not going right you know that your father’s sitting there and he

that your father’s sitting there and he

that your father’s sitting there and he is waiting this is not working better

is waiting this is not working better

is waiting this is not working better come here sit here so that is the blend

come here sit here so that is the blend

come here sit here so that is the blend that I had to kind of manage and balance

that I had to kind of manage and balance

that I had to kind of manage and balance out which was the struggle in my life

out which was the struggle in my life

out which was the struggle in my life but having said that for everyone here I

but having said that for everyone here I

but having said that for everyone here I was very very passionate about what I

was very very passionate about what I

was very very passionate about what I was doing I could have been and I would

was doing I could have been and I would

was doing I could have been and I would have not been like a complete mother I

have not been like a complete mother I

have not been like a complete mother I would have done alright with my dad also

would have done alright with my dad also

would have done alright with my dad also but you know I would have been just

but you know I would have been just

but you know I would have been just doing whatever kind of taught me to do

doing whatever kind of taught me to do

doing whatever kind of taught me to do nothing on my own but I went with my

nothing on my own but I went with my

nothing on my own but I went with my passion and went with my gut feeling

passion and went with my gut feeling

passion and went with my gut feeling this is what I wanted to do and trust me

this is what I wanted to do and trust me

this is what I wanted to do and trust me today I spend every day of mine being

today I spend every day of mine being

today I spend every day of mine being extremely extremely happy I walk to the

extremely extremely happy I walk to the

extremely extremely happy I walk to the set where I have a bunch of people who

set where I have a bunch of people who

set where I have a bunch of people who are happy people will laugh through the

are happy people will laugh through the

are happy people will laugh through the day because this is

day because this is

day because this is job we crack jokes the world day and

job we crack jokes the world day and

job we crack jokes the world day and this is what we keep doing it like

this is what we keep doing it like

this is what we keep doing it like reactors they’re about five six writers

reactors they’re about five six writers

reactors they’re about five six writers we sit in couples office also and we are

we sit in couples office also and we are

we sit in couples office also and we are basically brainstorming where it is just

basically brainstorming where it is just

basically brainstorming where it is just cracking jokes and laughing in your

cracking jokes and laughing in your

cracking jokes and laughing in your tracking jokes and you’re laughing so I

tracking jokes and you’re laughing so I

tracking jokes and you’re laughing so I have a great day and every single day is

have a great day and every single day is

have a great day and every single day is a day like this so I do not sing I mean

a day like this so I do not sing I mean

a day like this so I do not sing I mean I don’t know what a happier life is much

I don’t know what a happier life is much

I don’t know what a happier life is much more than this this is the best thing

more than this this is the best thing

more than this this is the best thing that could have happened to me and I am

that could have happened to me and I am

that could have happened to me and I am grateful to God that I got the

grateful to God that I got the

grateful to God that I got the opportunity to do this having said that

opportunity to do this having said that

opportunity to do this having said that what I’m saying is that everyone here

what I’m saying is that everyone here

what I’m saying is that everyone here also I am sure you come from families

also I am sure you come from families

also I am sure you come from families where there is certain thing expected

where there is certain thing expected

where there is certain thing expected out of you but what you are passionate

out of you but what you are passionate

out of you but what you are passionate about is something that we need to

about is something that we need to

about is something that we need to continue with my younger brother he now

continue with my younger brother he now

continue with my younger brother he now is not working with my dad he works for

is not working with my dad he works for

is not working with my dad he works for a headhunting company or I don’t know he

a headhunting company or I don’t know he

a headhunting company or I don’t know he calls it a high-end search companies the

calls it a high-end search companies the

calls it a high-end search companies the company called positive moves he is a

company called positive moves he is a

company called positive moves he is a partner in that company for the last ten

partner in that company for the last ten

partner in that company for the last ten years and he is doing pretty well for

years and he is doing pretty well for

years and he is doing pretty well for himself and he boosts who work with a

himself and he boosts who work with a

himself and he boosts who work with a ties included every day but sometimes

ties included every day but sometimes

ties included every day but sometimes you know there is a perception where

you know there is a perception where

you know there is a perception where people who are going to their jobs

people who are going to their jobs

people who are going to their jobs wearing a tie that life when when people

wearing a tie that life when when people

wearing a tie that life when when people meet me also I tell me HMDA of now you

meet me also I tell me HMDA of now you

meet me also I tell me HMDA of now you know we have such a miserable day and

know we have such a miserable day and

know we have such a miserable day and then maybe what’s your show me feel so

then maybe what’s your show me feel so

then maybe what’s your show me feel so happy

happy

happy my first question goes because the bike

my first question goes because the bike

my first question goes because the bike is your day miserable why is every day

is your day miserable why is every day

is your day miserable why is every day of yours visible why is that most people

of yours visible why is that most people

of yours visible why is that most people kind of speak this language when you do

kind of speak this language when you do

kind of speak this language when you do a Monday to Friday job

a Monday to Friday job

a Monday to Friday job I hope somewhere you enjoying yourself

I hope somewhere you enjoying yourself

I hope somewhere you enjoying yourself and if you are not then look for some

and if you are not then look for some

and if you are not then look for some kind of a place or some space where you

kind of a place or some space where you

kind of a place or some space where you can really enjoy the day-to-day work

can really enjoy the day-to-day work

can really enjoy the day-to-day work because I understand that your Saturday

because I understand that your Saturday

because I understand that your Saturday night will will be really cool you will

night will will be really cool you will

night will will be really cool you will watch our show also and you feel happy

watch our show also and you feel happy

watch our show also and you feel happy about it but why is that wanting to

about it but why is that wanting to

about it but why is that wanting to Friday and I heard Dave not a good day

Friday and I heard Dave not a good day

Friday and I heard Dave not a good day for you it’s very important that those

for you it’s very important that those

for you it’s very important that those days become good days and happy days

days become good days and happy days

days become good days and happy days that is the only way you can lead a

that is the only way you can lead a

that is the only way you can lead a happier life otherwise looking for these

happier life otherwise looking for these

happier life otherwise looking for these corners to kind of get enjoyment if

corners to kind of get enjoyment if

corners to kind of get enjoyment if someone is passionate about I feel very

someone is passionate about I feel very

someone is passionate about I feel very nice when you need a couple my husband

nice when you need a couple my husband

nice when you need a couple my husband for working they have a good day at work

for working they have a good day at work

for working they have a good day at work and then they have their whole plan set

and then they have their whole plan set

and then they have their whole plan set a Friday night is this Saturday like

a Friday night is this Saturday like

a Friday night is this Saturday like this they go out enjoy yourself

this they go out enjoy yourself

this they go out enjoy yourself spend money on things that we enjoy

spend money on things that we enjoy

spend money on things that we enjoy doing there are people who go

doing there are people who go

doing there are people who go you know rafting or like adventure

you know rafting or like adventure

you know rafting or like adventure sports and you take time out in the end

sports and you take time out in the end

sports and you take time out in the end I am perfect eight three to four days

I am perfect eight three to four days

I am perfect eight three to four days also you travel you do your thing that’s

also you travel you do your thing that’s

also you travel you do your thing that’s extremely important because running

extremely important because running

extremely important because running after a successful career is one thing

after a successful career is one thing

after a successful career is one thing but having a good enjoyable life is

but having a good enjoyable life is

but having a good enjoyable life is another thing and I really hope and

another thing and I really hope and

another thing and I really hope and expect and I want you all to have a

expect and I want you all to have a

expect and I want you all to have a great enjoyable life more than a

great enjoyable life more than a

great enjoyable life more than a successful

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