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Mastering the art of telling our stories | Dalia Akl | TEDxAccraWomen


do you remember that time you were

do you remember that time you were sitting in a business meeting you got so

sitting in a business meeting you got so

sitting in a business meeting you got so bored you ended up daydreaming about

bored you ended up daydreaming about

bored you ended up daydreaming about what her spouse could have cooked for

what her spouse could have cooked for

what her spouse could have cooked for dinner that night do you remember that

dinner that night do you remember that

dinner that night do you remember that time your best friend was sharing her

time your best friend was sharing her

time your best friend was sharing her date stories with you and you ended up

date stories with you and you ended up

date stories with you and you ended up sleeping on her couch instead of

sleeping on her couch instead of

sleeping on her couch instead of listening to the whole story now have

listening to the whole story now have

listening to the whole story now have you ever been in a situation where you

you ever been in a situation where you

you ever been in a situation where you were the one telling a story and you

were the one telling a story and you

were the one telling a story and you realize that no one around he was

realize that no one around he was

realize that no one around he was listening to you yes okay so today in

listening to you yes okay so today in

listening to you yes okay so today in order to avoid such situations I would

order to avoid such situations I would

order to avoid such situations I would like to share with you the art of

like to share with you the art of

like to share with you the art of storytelling

storytelling

storytelling why is storytelling important because

why is storytelling important because

why is storytelling important because stories are one of the most powerful

stories are one of the most powerful

stories are one of the most powerful emotional currencies we humans possess

emotional currencies we humans possess

emotional currencies we humans possess they move people to feel and they move

they move people to feel and they move

they move people to feel and they move people to act what we mean by stories

people to act what we mean by stories

people to act what we mean by stories here is anything literally anything that

here is anything literally anything that

here is anything literally anything that you would communicate in your daily life

you would communicate in your daily life

you would communicate in your daily life so it could be telling your mom about

so it could be telling your mom about

so it could be telling your mom about your day at work introducing yourself to

your day at work introducing yourself to

your day at work introducing yourself to a complete stranger dancing during the

a complete stranger dancing during the

a complete stranger dancing during the flashmob singing at a concert it could

flashmob singing at a concert it could

flashmob singing at a concert it could really literally be anything so there

really literally be anything so there

really literally be anything so there are several different ways to tell

are several different ways to tell

are several different ways to tell stories and depending on each culture

stories and depending on each culture

stories and depending on each culture because each culture has own jars and

because each culture has own jars and

because each culture has own jars and rules I’m going to share with you a few

rules I’m going to share with you a few

rules I’m going to share with you a few countries a few places and how stories

countries a few places and how stories

countries a few places and how stories are told across them and hawai for

are told across them and hawai for

are told across them and hawai for example are some of you familiar with

example are some of you familiar with

example are some of you familiar with the hula dance okay it’s not just any

the hula dance okay it’s not just any

the hula dance okay it’s not just any type of dance the hula dance actually

type of dance the hula dance actually

type of dance the hula dance actually portrays the Polynesian chants and songs

portrays the Polynesian chants and songs

portrays the Polynesian chants and songs of the country in China there’s

of the country in China there’s

of the country in China there’s something called shadow puppetry this is

something called shadow puppetry this is

something called shadow puppetry this is a very ancient form of storytelling and

a very ancient form of storytelling and

a very ancient form of storytelling and entertainment where puppets are are

entertainment where puppets are are

entertainment where puppets are are shown and are used to tell stories in

shown and are used to tell stories in

shown and are used to tell stories in Lebanon where I come from and in the

Lebanon where I come from and in the

Lebanon where I come from and in the Middle East in general there’s something

Middle East in general there’s something

Middle East in general there’s something called Sajal it’s at so far it’s like a

called Sajal it’s at so far it’s like a

called Sajal it’s at so far it’s like a semi song and semi-improvised form of

semi song and semi-improvised form of

semi song and semi-improvised form of poetry and now I’d like to share with

poetry and now I’d like to share with

poetry and now I’d like to share with you a video where there’s a woman

you a video where there’s a woman

you a video where there’s a woman sharing us

sharing us

sharing us her own way

her own way

her own way [Music]

excitability

excitability John Jesus or does it mean

[Music]

[Music] Whistler’s that rickety father’s Umi

Whistler’s that rickety father’s Umi

Whistler’s that rickety father’s Umi games – Marsha – you know them

games – Marsha – you know them

games – Marsha – you know them [Music]

did you realize how long it took these

did you realize how long it took these judges to bus slightly more than a

judges to bus slightly more than a

judges to bus slightly more than a minute 60 seconds actually according to

minute 60 seconds actually according to

minute 60 seconds actually according to research the average human attention

research the average human attention

research the average human attention span the average human attention span

span the average human attention span

span the average human attention span has been decreasing with time in the

has been decreasing with time in the

has been decreasing with time in the year 2000 it was of about 12 seconds

year 2000 it was of about 12 seconds

year 2000 it was of about 12 seconds just three years ago in 2013 it

just three years ago in 2013 it

just three years ago in 2013 it decreased to 8 seconds which is one

decreased to 8 seconds which is one

decreased to 8 seconds which is one second shorter than the average

second shorter than the average

second shorter than the average attention span of a goldfish so we live

attention span of a goldfish so we live

attention span of a goldfish so we live in a very busy world will busy

in a very busy world will busy

in a very busy world will busy multitasking we really want to consume

multitasking we really want to consume

multitasking we really want to consume stories but we just don’t have the time

stories but we just don’t have the time

stories but we just don’t have the time and I want to share with you two

and I want to share with you two

and I want to share with you two companies that actually leverage this

companies that actually leverage this

companies that actually leverage this fact to create successful enterprises is

fact to create successful enterprises is

fact to create successful enterprises is anyone familiar with snapchat or Twitter

anyone familiar with snapchat or Twitter

anyone familiar with snapchat or Twitter for those of you who don’t know snapchat

for those of you who don’t know snapchat

for those of you who don’t know snapchat is a mobile application that helps you

is a mobile application that helps you

is a mobile application that helps you share multimedia messages through

share multimedia messages through

share multimedia messages through pictures or videos but the trick is that

pictures or videos but the trick is that

pictures or videos but the trick is that the length should be a maximum of 10

the length should be a maximum of 10

the length should be a maximum of 10 seconds these messages are called snaps

seconds these messages are called snaps

seconds these messages are called snaps twitter is an online platform that helps

twitter is an online platform that helps

twitter is an online platform that helps you share thoughts ideas in a maximum

you share thoughts ideas in a maximum

you share thoughts ideas in a maximum length of 140 characters today snapchat

length of 140 characters today snapchat

length of 140 characters today snapchat is valued at over 20 billion dollars and

is valued at over 20 billion dollars and

is valued at over 20 billion dollars and there are 400 million snaps shared every

there are 400 million snaps shared every

there are 400 million snaps shared every single day Twitter is valued at around

single day Twitter is valued at around

single day Twitter is valued at around 10 billion dollars and there are more

10 billion dollars and there are more

10 billion dollars and there are more than 5 million tweets shared every

than 5 million tweets shared every

than 5 million tweets shared every single day so what’s the point in common

single day so what’s the point in common

single day so what’s the point in common between these two successful enterprises

between these two successful enterprises

between these two successful enterprises they keep their stories short and this

they keep their stories short and this

they keep their stories short and this is the first secret behind storytelling

is the first secret behind storytelling

is the first secret behind storytelling keeping your stories short now let’s

keeping your stories short now let’s

keeping your stories short now let’s focus on the means this woman is

focus on the means this woman is

focus on the means this woman is choosing to tell a story a painting in a

choosing to tell a story a painting in a

choosing to tell a story a painting in a frame that’s the second secret frame

frame that’s the second secret frame

frame that’s the second secret frame your story we’re all familiar with this

your story we’re all familiar with this

your story we’re all familiar with this blond-haired blue-eyed character

blond-haired blue-eyed character

blond-haired blue-eyed character Cinderella she lives with her wicked

Cinderella she lives with her wicked

Cinderella she lives with her wicked step family but she ends up getting her

step family but she ends up getting her

step family but she ends up getting her revenge by marrying the royal prince

revenge by marrying the royal prince

revenge by marrying the royal prince whom whom her stepsisters wanted to

whom whom her stepsisters wanted to

whom whom her stepsisters wanted to marry as well well in West Africa not

marry as well well in West Africa not

marry as well well in West Africa not very far from here in Nigeria this

very far from here in Nigeria this

very far from here in Nigeria this Cinderella story was reframed in order

Cinderella story was reframed in order

Cinderella story was reframed in order for the Nigerians to real proprietary

for the Nigerians to real proprietary

for the Nigerians to real proprietary the story was called Cheney she also

the story was called Cheney she also

the story was called Cheney she also lived with her stead family and she also

lived with her stead family and she also

lived with her stead family and she also their story is basically the same just a

their story is basically the same just a

their story is basically the same just a few elements added for the Nigerians to

few elements added for the Nigerians to

few elements added for the Nigerians to identify themselves

identify themselves

identify themselves now there’s a there’s a very interesting

now there’s a there’s a very interesting

now there’s a there’s a very interesting story I want to share with you about

story I want to share with you about

story I want to share with you about framing as well there were some

framing as well there were some

framing as well there were some construction workers working on a site

construction workers working on a site

construction workers working on a site the media were asked to go and interview

the media were asked to go and interview

the media were asked to go and interview them in order to feature them in the

them in order to feature them in the

them in order to feature them in the evening news so they went on site and

evening news so they went on site and

evening news so they went on site and they started asking the construction

they started asking the construction

they started asking the construction workers please describe what you’re

workers please describe what you’re

workers please describe what you’re doing a construction worker said we’re

doing a construction worker said we’re

doing a construction worker said we’re building a bridge another one replied

building a bridge another one replied

building a bridge another one replied were connecting two different cities so

were connecting two different cities so

were connecting two different cities so the way you tell your story and the

the way you tell your story and the

the way you tell your story and the perspective in which you show it can can

perspective in which you show it can can

perspective in which you show it can can differently impact your audience now I’m

differently impact your audience now I’m

differently impact your audience now I’m sure most of you are curious to see what

sure most of you are curious to see what

sure most of you are curious to see what has happened with this woman in the

has happened with this woman in the

has happened with this woman in the video as maybe you might know in this

video as maybe you might know in this

video as maybe you might know in this kind of programs when the four judges

kind of programs when the four judges

kind of programs when the four judges buzz she’s supposed to stop whatever the

buzz she’s supposed to stop whatever the

buzz she’s supposed to stop whatever the contestants are supposed to stop

contestants are supposed to stop

contestants are supposed to stop whatever she’s doing but she continued

whatever she’s doing but she continued

whatever she’s doing but she continued and let’s see what happened

and let’s see what happened

and let’s see what happened [Music]

[Music]

[Music] [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] [Music]

[Music]

[Music] [Applause]

so even though all of the judges were

so even though all of the judges were very impatient and most of you would

very impatient and most of you would

very impatient and most of you would argue that she used the wrong means to

argue that she used the wrong means to

argue that she used the wrong means to transmit her story she ended up getting

transmit her story she ended up getting

transmit her story she ended up getting a standing ovation from the judges and

a standing ovation from the judges and

a standing ovation from the judges and from the audience and the lesson here is

from the audience and the lesson here is

from the audience and the lesson here is to end on a strong note because

to end on a strong note because

to end on a strong note because technically that’s the last thing that

technically that’s the last thing that

technically that’s the last thing that her audience is going to hear so you

her audience is going to hear so you

her audience is going to hear so you have to end on a strong note for it to

have to end on a strong note for it to

have to end on a strong note for it to be impactful and easy to remember so to

be impactful and easy to remember so to

be impactful and easy to remember so to sum up we are all born storytellers this

sum up we are all born storytellers this

sum up we are all born storytellers this is a skill that somehow comes along with

is a skill that somehow comes along with

is a skill that somehow comes along with our human DNA however we can all become

our human DNA however we can all become

our human DNA however we can all become better at this skill

better at this skill

better at this skill by keeping our story short framing them

by keeping our story short framing them

by keeping our story short framing them according to our audiences and ending on

according to our audiences and ending on

according to our audiences and ending on a strong note and now if you would allow

a strong note and now if you would allow

a strong note and now if you would allow me I would like to share a short

me I would like to share a short

me I would like to share a short impactful story by snapchatting this

impactful story by snapchatting this

impactful story by snapchatting this moment is not okay with all of you one

moment is not okay with all of you one

moment is not okay with all of you one two three thank you very much

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