I have so many girls come out to me and tell me that they want to be models
tell me that they want to be models
tell me that they want to be models which is fine it’s not a bad thing I
which is fine it’s not a bad thing I
which is fine it’s not a bad thing I just think there’s so much to do there’s
just think there’s so much to do there’s
just think there’s so much to do there’s always gonna be people that don’t want
always gonna be people that don’t want
always gonna be people that don’t want you to succeed or doubt you but again
you to succeed or doubt you but again
you to succeed or doubt you but again like I didn’t really care my biggest
like I didn’t really care my biggest
like I didn’t really care my biggest fear was failure and it’s ridiculous
fear was failure and it’s ridiculous
fear was failure and it’s ridiculous because again the imperfections of human
because again the imperfections of human
because again the imperfections of human are what makes us so great we need to
are what makes us so great we need to
are what makes us so great we need to celebrate those things the motivation
celebrate those things the motivation
celebrate those things the motivation whattcha top ten of belief nation what’s
whattcha top ten of belief nation what’s
whattcha top ten of belief nation what’s up it’s Evan my one word is believe and
up it’s Evan my one word is believe and
up it’s Evan my one word is believe and I believe in you I believe you have an
I believe in you I believe you have an
I believe in you I believe you have an amazing gift inside you that I want to
amazing gift inside you that I want to
amazing gift inside you that I want to see explode out onto the world so let’s
see explode out onto the world so let’s
see explode out onto the world so let’s get your motivation to attend and get
get your motivation to attend and get
get your motivation to attend and get you believing in you grab a snack and
you believing in you grab a snack and
you believing in you grab a snack and chew in today’s lessons from a woman who
chew in today’s lessons from a woman who
chew in today’s lessons from a woman who grew up with depression and dyspraxia
grew up with depression and dyspraxia
grew up with depression and dyspraxia which is a neurological disorder of that
which is a neurological disorder of that
which is a neurological disorder of that made it really hard for her to excel at
made it really hard for her to excel at
made it really hard for her to excel at school to becoming an award-winning
school to becoming an award-winning
school to becoming an award-winning fashion model and actress she’s Cara
fashion model and actress she’s Cara
fashion model and actress she’s Cara Delevingne and here’s my take on her top
Delevingne and here’s my take on her top
Delevingne and here’s my take on her top ten rules of success enjoy
all right let’s take things off with
all right let’s take things off with rule number one my personal favorite
rule number one my personal favorite
rule number one my personal favorite dream bigger there’s a lot of things I
dream bigger there’s a lot of things I
dream bigger there’s a lot of things I want to do I always wanted to be a
want to do I always wanted to be a
want to do I always wanted to be a director I think as well I have so many
director I think as well I have so many
director I think as well I have so many girls come out to me and tell me that
girls come out to me and tell me that
girls come out to me and tell me that they want to be models which is fine
they want to be models which is fine
they want to be models which is fine it’s not a bad thing I just think
it’s not a bad thing I just think
it’s not a bad thing I just think there’s so much to do I just went to a
there’s so much to do I just went to a
there’s so much to do I just went to a wonderful talk about genetic engineering
wonderful talk about genetic engineering
wonderful talk about genetic engineering and neuroscience and this man who is
and neuroscience and this man who is
and neuroscience and this man who is giving the talk explained this is like
giving the talk explained this is like
giving the talk explained this is like 10,000 kids is from the age of 7 to 13
10,000 kids is from the age of 7 to 13
10,000 kids is from the age of 7 to 13 who are doing neuroscience they do these
who are doing neuroscience they do these
who are doing neuroscience they do these competitions and wonderful things and
competitions and wonderful things and
competitions and wonderful things and they’re doing things in your science
they’re doing things in your science
they’re doing things in your science which haven’t been which weren’t done by
which haven’t been which weren’t done by
which haven’t been which weren’t done by him until he was like 30 like how
him until he was like 30 like how
him until he was like 30 like how quickly things like that are changing
quickly things like that are changing
quickly things like that are changing and but they’re not there is an
and but they’re not there is an
and but they’re not there is an awareness sport it’s cool stuff like
awareness sport it’s cool stuff like
awareness sport it’s cool stuff like that like that sounds way cooler to me
that like that sounds way cooler to me
that like that sounds way cooler to me than being a model but like no one
than being a model but like no one
than being a model but like no one really knows about it and I just think
really knows about it and I just think
really knows about it and I just think there are just so many things I always
there are just so many things I always
there are just so many things I always say too cause I just dream just dream
say too cause I just dream just dream
say too cause I just dream just dream bigger go for president just keep going
bigger go for president just keep going
bigger go for president just keep going up astronauts I don’t know rule number
up astronauts I don’t know rule number
up astronauts I don’t know rule number two is don’t chase numbers you guys like
two is don’t chase numbers you guys like
two is don’t chase numbers you guys like curious about box office numbers and do
curious about box office numbers and do
curious about box office numbers and do you use that to inform the size and
you use that to inform the size and
you use that to inform the size and scale of the movies that you choose to
scale of the movies that you choose to
scale of the movies that you choose to take the projects that you take going
take the projects that you take going
take the projects that you take going forward to me well you spend or with
forward to me well you spend or with
forward to me well you spend or with valerian especially you spend six months
valerian especially you spend six months
valerian especially you spend six months making the film the afterlife at the
making the film the afterlife at the
making the film the afterlife at the film of course you want people to enjoy
film of course you want people to enjoy
film of course you want people to enjoy it you know you want people to count you
it you know you want people to count you
it you know you want people to count you know but again for us as actors we don’t
know but again for us as actors we don’t
know but again for us as actors we don’t have much control of what happens to the
have much control of what happens to the
have much control of what happens to the film to me the most important bit really
film to me the most important bit really
film to me the most important bit really is the you know the learning what you
is the you know the learning what you
is the you know the learning what you learn how you grow the experience of it
learn how you grow the experience of it
learn how you grow the experience of it what you kind of take away as an actor
what you kind of take away as an actor
what you kind of take away as an actor who cares about box office numbers right
who cares about box office numbers right
who cares about box office numbers right someone does rule number three give your
someone does rule number three give your
someone does rule number three give your all models you’ve wanted to be actors
all models you’ve wanted to be actors
all models you’ve wanted to be actors it’s been a hard transition sometimes
it’s been a hard transition sometimes
it’s been a hard transition sometimes and I mean it’s been said that some
and I mean it’s been said that some
and I mean it’s been said that some people and said I want to see who takes
people and said I want to see who takes
people and said I want to see who takes before
before
before yeah yeah with it did you find that
yeah yeah with it did you find that
yeah yeah with it did you find that snootiness a little bit the procedure I
snootiness a little bit the procedure I
snootiness a little bit the procedure I mean how did you to prevail again yeah
mean how did you to prevail again yeah
mean how did you to prevail again yeah sure
sure
sure like if there’s always gonna be people
like if there’s always gonna be people
like if there’s always gonna be people that don’t want you to succeed or doubt
that don’t want you to succeed or doubt
that don’t want you to succeed or doubt you but again like I didn’t really care
you but again like I didn’t really care
you but again like I didn’t really care cuz I knew how I know how I can work and
cuz I knew how I know how I can work and
cuz I knew how I know how I can work and I know I’d give it my all so as long as
I know I’d give it my all so as long as
I know I’d give it my all so as long as I do good work I know that that’s what
I do good work I know that that’s what
I do good work I know that that’s what matters and like you know charlize
matters and like you know charlize
matters and like you know charlize theron there are so many amazing
theron there are so many amazing
theron there are so many amazing actresses who have been models and like
actresses who have been models and like
actresses who have been models and like you know like hiring that movie monster
you know like hiring that movie monster
you know like hiring that movie monster those are the kind of roles I want to
those are the kind of roles I want to
those are the kind of roles I want to play like I want to be a real and roar
play like I want to be a real and roar
play like I want to be a real and roar and just like ugly but not in a way it
and just like ugly but not in a way it
and just like ugly but not in a way it just like everything rule number four is
just like everything rule number four is
just like everything rule number four is learn to say no I had no concept of
learn to say no I had no concept of
learn to say no I had no concept of saying no to anyone ever and this is one
saying no to anyone ever and this is one
saying no to anyone ever and this is one of the most important show business
of the most important show business
of the most important show business lessons actually learning how to say no
lessons actually learning how to say no
lessons actually learning how to say no have you learned yet yes I think life
have you learned yet yes I think life
have you learned yet yes I think life you should always experience things but
you should always experience things but
you should always experience things but you should not you should say no I mean
you should not you should say no I mean
you should not you should say no I mean it’s more about being control and not
it’s more about being control and not
it’s more about being control and not being a puppet is what the most
being a puppet is what the most
being a puppet is what the most important thing is and not doing
important thing is and not doing
important thing is and not doing anything out and not doing anything for
anything out and not doing anything for
anything out and not doing anything for anyone else apart from yourself rule
anyone else apart from yourself rule
anyone else apart from yourself rule number five don’t take yourself
number five don’t take yourself
number five don’t take yourself seriously my question was about modeling
seriously my question was about modeling
seriously my question was about modeling do you feel like you can take it
do you feel like you can take it
do you feel like you can take it seriously
seriously
seriously that’s like saying can you take yes I I
that’s like saying can you take yes I I
that’s like saying can you take yes I I mean no I find out I mean in in modeling
mean no I find out I mean in in modeling
mean no I find out I mean in in modeling I find it hard sometimes to take it’s
I find it hard sometimes to take it’s
I find it hard sometimes to take it’s here take myself seriously because it is
here take myself seriously because it is
here take myself seriously because it is that thing of like and after about ten
that thing of like and after about ten
that thing of like and after about ten times of doing that I have to go like an
times of doing that I have to go like an
times of doing that I have to go like an we’re to like do it is that I like a
we’re to like do it is that I like a
we’re to like do it is that I like a little bit of a nose to not see
little bit of a nose to not see
little bit of a nose to not see ourselves because yeah obviously today
ourselves because yeah obviously today
ourselves because yeah obviously today there’s a lot of going on we better
there’s a lot of going on we better
there’s a lot of going on we better start laughing medicine of the world
start laughing medicine of the world
start laughing medicine of the world rule number six is find your voice I
rule number six is find your voice I
rule number six is find your voice I just want to inspire people young people
just want to inspire people young people
just want to inspire people young people especially to follow their dreams and to
especially to follow their dreams and to
especially to follow their dreams and to be
be
be you they are into work hard and that
you they are into work hard and that
you they are into work hard and that they can do anything they put their
they can do anything they put their
they can do anything they put their minds to I’m glad that I had it that’s a
minds to I’m glad that I had it that’s a
minds to I’m glad that I had it that’s a part in models being seen differently
part in models being seen differently
part in models being seen differently but it’s that choice of how they want to
but it’s that choice of how they want to
but it’s that choice of how they want to be seen I wanted to have voice and I
be seen I wanted to have voice and I
be seen I wanted to have voice and I wanted to be able to make statements and
wanted to be able to make statements and
wanted to be able to make statements and stick up the things I believe in and I
stick up the things I believe in and I
stick up the things I believe in and I never wanted to just be a model anyway
never wanted to just be a model anyway
never wanted to just be a model anyway so
so
so that’s you know that’s how I kind of
that’s you know that’s how I kind of
that’s you know that’s how I kind of live my life as the rules are kind of
live my life as the rules are kind of
live my life as the rules are kind of stuck by rule number seven is run on
stuck by rule number seven is run on
stuck by rule number seven is run on instinct is Margo or someone that you
instinct is Margo or someone that you
instinct is Margo or someone that you can relate to in a nutshell
can relate to in a nutshell
can relate to in a nutshell and that’s why I got the part because a
and that’s why I got the part because a
and that’s why I got the part because a lot of the stories that she went through
lot of the stories that she went through
lot of the stories that she went through in the book and all those kind of things
in the book and all those kind of things
in the book and all those kind of things I’ve been food before and a lot of the
I’ve been food before and a lot of the
I’ve been food before and a lot of the lines they’ve actually written in the
lines they’ve actually written in the
lines they’ve actually written in the script I’ve said before she runs on the
script I’ve said before she runs on the
script I’ve said before she runs on the instinct she just um she does what she
instinct she just um she does what she
instinct she just um she does what she feels in the moment doesn’t really think
feels in the moment doesn’t really think
feels in the moment doesn’t really think about the consequences then you’re like
about the consequences then you’re like
about the consequences then you’re like that – yeah rule number eight don’t fear
that – yeah rule number eight don’t fear
that – yeah rule number eight don’t fear failure I feel like my example and the
failure I feel like my example and the
failure I feel like my example and the thing that I try and inspires to being
thing that I try and inspires to being
thing that I try and inspires to being yourself is again with the thing with
yourself is again with the thing with
yourself is again with the thing with Instagram and social media it does
Instagram and social media it does
Instagram and social media it does become very contrived and controlled and
become very contrived and controlled and
become very contrived and controlled and I think the most important thing is
I think the most important thing is
I think the most important thing is can’t oppose that thing of be falling
can’t oppose that thing of be falling
can’t oppose that thing of be falling over flat on my face because we all do
over flat on my face because we all do
over flat on my face because we all do it it’s you know it’s okay to make
it it’s you know it’s okay to make
it it’s you know it’s okay to make mistakes it’s okay to fail my whole
mistakes it’s okay to fail my whole
mistakes it’s okay to fail my whole thing my biggest fear was failure and
thing my biggest fear was failure and
thing my biggest fear was failure and it’s ridiculous because again the
it’s ridiculous because again the
it’s ridiculous because again the imperfections of human or what makes us
imperfections of human or what makes us
imperfections of human or what makes us so great we need to celebrate those
so great we need to celebrate those
so great we need to celebrate those things what were you worried about
things what were you worried about
things what were you worried about failing right now they’ve been good
failing right now they’ve been good
failing right now they’ve been good enough out you know trying to pleat of a
enough out you know trying to pleat of a
enough out you know trying to pleat of a major people pleaser really bother
major people pleaser really bother
major people pleaser really bother people yeah
people yeah
people yeah rule number nine surround yourself with
rule number nine surround yourself with
rule number nine surround yourself with great people
great people
great people I found yoga which was a huge thing for
I found yoga which was a huge thing for
I found yoga which was a huge thing for me I didn’t cry a lot
me I didn’t cry a lot
me I didn’t cry a lot I thought emotion as a kid was a
I thought emotion as a kid was a
I thought emotion as a kid was a weakness I thought that if you are
weakness I thought that if you are
weakness I thought that if you are emotional that like you know that’s like
emotional that like you know that’s like
emotional that like you know that’s like a parent like just a silly thing to feel
a parent like just a silly thing to feel
a parent like just a silly thing to feel and when I went to yoga I went I started
and when I went to yoga I went I started
and when I went to yoga I went I started yoga as a superficial thing because like
yoga as a superficial thing because like
yoga as a superficial thing because like I want to be flexible and fit you know
I want to be flexible and fit you know
I want to be flexible and fit you know like cool yoga people are and I went in
like cool yoga people are and I went in
like cool yoga people are and I went in to my yoga meet my guru yoga person and
to my yoga meet my guru yoga person and
to my yoga meet my guru yoga person and and he was like why are you doing this
and he was like why are you doing this
and he was like why are you doing this and I told him why and he sat me down
and I told him why and he sat me down
and I told him why and he sat me down and we just started chanting and I like
and we just started chanting and I like
and we just started chanting and I like I me not meant to be doing like whatever
I me not meant to be doing like whatever
I me not meant to be doing like whatever so I was chanting also our angry with
so I was chanting also our angry with
so I was chanting also our angry with myself no God and I broke through
myself no God and I broke through
myself no God and I broke through something and I burst into tears which I
something and I burst into tears which I
something and I burst into tears which I hadn’t done in years and I looked at him
hadn’t done in years and I looked at him
hadn’t done in years and I looked at him and I was like what there’s wrong with
and I was like what there’s wrong with
and I was like what there’s wrong with you how dare you you’re a monster why
you how dare you you’re a monster why
you how dare you you’re a monster why would you do this and he was just
would you do this and he was just
would you do this and he was just laughing at me that’s like you’re the
laughing at me that’s like you’re the
laughing at me that’s like you’re the crazy man what is wrong with you and he
crazy man what is wrong with you and he
crazy man what is wrong with you and he said if you hadn’t of cried I would have
said if you hadn’t of cried I would have
said if you hadn’t of cried I would have been very worried
been very worried
been very worried okay he was like and also you realized
okay he was like and also you realized
okay he was like and also you realized that this is the first time you’ve
that this is the first time you’ve
that this is the first time you’ve actually looked at me in the eye and the
actually looked at me in the eye and the
actually looked at me in the eye and the reason why is because I knew when I
reason why is because I knew when I
reason why is because I knew when I looked in his eyes that he saw through
looked in his eyes that he saw through
looked in his eyes that he saw through me and he knew me and it freaked me out
me and he knew me and it freaked me out
me and he knew me and it freaked me out but till this day I’ve been seeing him a
but till this day I’ve been seeing him a
but till this day I’ve been seeing him a lot it’s like finding finding people
lot it’s like finding finding people
lot it’s like finding finding people around you who have your best interest
around you who have your best interest
around you who have your best interest at heart I had a lot of people around me
at heart I had a lot of people around me
at heart I had a lot of people around me who were just after what I gave them not
who were just after what I gave them not
who were just after what I gave them not like you know after like looking after
like you know after like looking after
like you know after like looking after you and stuff so it’s about finding
you and stuff so it’s about finding
you and stuff so it’s about finding people who care about you and support
people who care about you and support
people who care about you and support and again I’ve now become them being
and again I’ve now become them being
and again I’ve now become them being able to be a support for other people as
able to be a support for other people as
able to be a support for other people as well so in turn that kind of goes around
well so in turn that kind of goes around
well so in turn that kind of goes around and rule number ten the last one
that a special bonus clip for you from
that a special bonus clip for you from Cara but before getting to that my
Cara but before getting to that my
Cara but before getting to that my question that they today is around for
question that they today is around for
question that they today is around for rule number one dream bigger do you
rule number one dream bigger do you
rule number one dream bigger do you dream big enough do you have a big dream
dream big enough do you have a big dream
dream big enough do you have a big dream and is it is it inspiring you on a daily
and is it is it inspiring you on a daily
and is it is it inspiring you on a daily basis are you thinking a little bit too
basis are you thinking a little bit too
basis are you thinking a little bit too small let me know leave in the comments
small let me know leave in the comments
small let me know leave in the comments below thank you guys so much for
below thank you guys so much for
below thank you guys so much for watching I believe in you I hope you
watching I believe in you I hope you
watching I believe in you I hope you continue to believe in yourself and
continue to believe in yourself and
continue to believe in yourself and whatever your one where it is much love
whatever your one where it is much love
whatever your one where it is much love I’ll see you soon and enjoy the bonus
I’ll see you soon and enjoy the bonus
I’ll see you soon and enjoy the bonus clip through growing up what I’ve
clip through growing up what I’ve
clip through growing up what I’ve discovered is that this world is a very
discovered is that this world is a very
discovered is that this world is a very vast a very wonderful beautiful one and
vast a very wonderful beautiful one and
vast a very wonderful beautiful one and there are so many things to discover
there are so many things to discover
there are so many things to discover but the most important journey I think
but the most important journey I think
but the most important journey I think all of us will go through is the journey
all of us will go through is the journey
all of us will go through is the journey in ourselves to find our truth to find
in ourselves to find our truth to find
in ourselves to find our truth to find who we are and what makes us happy and
who we are and what makes us happy and
who we are and what makes us happy and in our culture we are told that if we’re
in our culture we are told that if we’re
in our culture we are told that if we’re beautiful if we’re skinny if we’re
beautiful if we’re skinny if we’re
beautiful if we’re skinny if we’re successful famous if we fit in if
successful famous if we fit in if
successful famous if we fit in if everyone loves us that we’ll be happy
everyone loves us that we’ll be happy
everyone loves us that we’ll be happy but that’s not entirely true I’m gonna
but that’s not entirely true I’m gonna
but that’s not entirely true I’m gonna start with a poem that I wrote when I
start with a poem that I wrote when I
start with a poem that I wrote when I wasn’t very happy I actually wrote this
wasn’t very happy I actually wrote this
wasn’t very happy I actually wrote this a year ago but again as if you know
a year ago but again as if you know
a year ago but again as if you know depression it comes back it’s a
depression it comes back it’s a
depression it comes back it’s a reoccurring thing that you can’t really
reoccurring thing that you can’t really
reoccurring thing that you can’t really sort away anyway Who am I Who am I
sort away anyway Who am I Who am I
sort away anyway Who am I Who am I trying to be not myself anyone but
trying to be not myself anyone but
trying to be not myself anyone but myself living in a fantasy to bury the
myself living in a fantasy to bury the
myself living in a fantasy to bury the reality making myself the mystery a
reality making myself the mystery a
reality making myself the mystery a strong facade disguising the misery
strong facade disguising the misery
strong facade disguising the misery empty bubbly on the point of emptiness
empty bubbly on the point of emptiness
empty bubbly on the point of emptiness full to the brim of fake confidence a
full to the brim of fake confidence a
full to the brim of fake confidence a God that will never be broken because I
God that will never be broken because I
God that will never be broken because I broke a long time ago I’m hurting but
broke a long time ago I’m hurting but
broke a long time ago I’m hurting but don’t tell anyone
don’t tell anyone
don’t tell anyone no one needs to know don’t show all
no one needs to know don’t show all
no one needs to know don’t show all you’ve failed always okay always fine
you’ve failed always okay always fine
you’ve failed always okay always fine always on show the show must go on it
always on show the show must go on it
always on show the show must go on it will never stop
will never stop
will never stop the show must not go on but I know it
the show must not go on but I know it
the show must not go on but I know it well I give up I give up giving up I am
well I give up I give up giving up I am
well I give up I give up giving up I am lost I don’t need to be saved I need to
lost I don’t need to be saved I need to
lost I don’t need to be saved I need to be found basically it’s kind of just
be found basically it’s kind of just
be found basically it’s kind of just the same rate of caring thing of yeah
the same rate of caring thing of yeah
the same rate of caring thing of yeah not knowing who you are the most
not knowing who you are the most
not knowing who you are the most important work ever if you had to think
important work ever if you had to think
important work ever if you had to think of one word that’s most important to you
of one word that’s most important to you
of one word that’s most important to you or that sums you Apple that would be to
or that sums you Apple that would be to
or that sums you Apple that would be to like a little beacon pay believe nation
like a little beacon pay believe nation
like a little beacon pay believe nation if you want to know what the most
if you want to know what the most
if you want to know what the most important one word is for Tony Robbins
important one word is for Tony Robbins
important one word is for Tony Robbins Gary Vaynerchuk Oprah Winfrey will.i.am
Gary Vaynerchuk Oprah Winfrey will.i.am
Gary Vaynerchuk Oprah Winfrey will.i.am and Howard Schultz I have a very special
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