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masculinity you might not know that but

masculinity you might not know that but it just divided a big fraud into equal

it just divided a big fraud into equal

it just divided a big fraud into equal parts the word masculinity has

parts the word masculinity has

parts the word masculinity has connotations of barbarism and a feral

connotations of barbarism and a feral

connotations of barbarism and a feral nature perhaps new you imagine a man at

nature perhaps new you imagine a man at

nature perhaps new you imagine a man at the peak of his physical fitness a man

the peak of his physical fitness a man

the peak of his physical fitness a man who can possibly would send months in

who can possibly would send months in

who can possibly would send months in the wilderness and bear the elements of

the wilderness and bear the elements of

the wilderness and bear the elements of appease you imagine a man and defend

appease you imagine a man and defend

appease you imagine a man and defend himself from any danger whether it be

himself from any danger whether it be

himself from any danger whether it be animals nature or other men however that

animals nature or other men however that

animals nature or other men however that other have to be of an ocean of

other have to be of an ocean of

other have to be of an ocean of masculinity being the pinnacle of

masculinity being the pinnacle of

masculinity being the pinnacle of gentleman penis you imagine a man who

gentleman penis you imagine a man who

gentleman penis you imagine a man who holds of morals and high pedestal and

holds of morals and high pedestal and

holds of morals and high pedestal and always stand by what he says come on

always stand by what he says come on

always stand by what he says come on open the door for women and his neatly

open the door for women and his neatly

open the door for women and his neatly dressed the groomed whilst you’re not

dressed the groomed whilst you’re not

dressed the groomed whilst you’re not completely mistaken and having these

completely mistaken and having these

completely mistaken and having these connotations the notion of masculinity

connotations the notion of masculinity

connotations the notion of masculinity being about either one with no regard

being about either one with no regard

being about either one with no regard for the other should you happen is not

for the other should you happen is not

for the other should you happen is not only which they can but leighton foolish

only which they can but leighton foolish

only which they can but leighton foolish you see half of you thinking about good

you see half of you thinking about good

you see half of you thinking about good men the other half of you are thinking

men the other half of you are thinking

men the other half of you are thinking about a man who are good and being men

about a man who are good and being men

about a man who are good and being men I’ll begin by explaining the latter as

I’ll begin by explaining the latter as

I’ll begin by explaining the latter as the media has been fascinated with this

the media has been fascinated with this

the media has been fascinated with this ideal it’s been used to create movie

ideal it’s been used to create movie

ideal it’s been used to create movie villains stick of non masculinity and

villains stick of non masculinity and

villains stick of non masculinity and criticize celebrities actions a man

criticize celebrities actions a man

criticize celebrities actions a man who’s good at being a man has the

who’s good at being a man has the

who’s good at being a man has the qualities and characteristics that would

qualities and characteristics that would

qualities and characteristics that would have made him an efficient hunter

have made him an efficient hunter

have made him an efficient hunter fighter and protector several hundreds

fighter and protector several hundreds

fighter and protector several hundreds of years ago these qualities as writer

of years ago these qualities as writer

of years ago these qualities as writer Jack Donovan were put in his books

Jack Donovan were put in his books

Jack Donovan were put in his books articles and teachings or strength

articles and teachings or strength

articles and teachings or strength courage mastery and honor

courage mastery and honor

courage mastery and honor the for tactical virtues he mentions in

the for tactical virtues he mentions in

the for tactical virtues he mentions in his book the way of men a man with no

his book the way of men a man with no

his book the way of men a man with no strength is weak man without courage of

strength is weak man without courage of

strength is weak man without courage of the coward mouth of mastery is

the coward mouth of mastery is

the coward mouth of mastery is incompetent and a man without honor is

incompetent and a man without honor is

incompetent and a man without honor is it joke men are stronger than women

it joke men are stronger than women

it joke men are stronger than women biology and 4 million years of evolution

biology and 4 million years of evolution

biology and 4 million years of evolution could not care less how offended this

could not care less how offended this

could not care less how offended this David makes you biologically men are

David makes you biologically men are

David makes you biologically men are physically stronger than women

physically stronger than women

physically stronger than women in addition men need to be stronger not

in addition men need to be stronger not

in addition men need to be stronger not only to attract the potential mate but

only to attract the potential mate but

only to attract the potential mate but to survive nowadays men have forgotten

to survive nowadays men have forgotten

to survive nowadays men have forgotten the value of strength because they don’t

the value of strength because they don’t

the value of strength because they don’t need it today’s society of comfort ease

need it today’s society of comfort ease

need it today’s society of comfort ease safety and softness nowadays we think of

safety and softness nowadays we think of

safety and softness nowadays we think of strength building as an activity for

strength building as an activity for

strength building as an activity for meatheads

meatheads

meatheads and bros however there’s much more to

and bros however there’s much more to

and bros however there’s much more to this strength building not only

this strength building not only

this strength building not only increases one’s health and well-being

increases one’s health and well-being

increases one’s health and well-being but also in parts of many metaphorical

but also in parts of many metaphorical

but also in parts of many metaphorical life lessons teaches resilience

life lessons teaches resilience

life lessons teaches resilience discipline and toughness courage courage

discipline and toughness courage courage

discipline and toughness courage courage is the will to exert said strength

is the will to exert said strength

is the will to exert said strength despite the odds presented Aristotle

despite the odds presented Aristotle

despite the odds presented Aristotle defined courage as the mean between fear

defined courage as the mean between fear

defined courage as the mean between fear and recklessness a coward stalks suffers

and recklessness a coward stalks suffers

and recklessness a coward stalks suffers from a debilitating fear the things that

from a debilitating fear the things that

from a debilitating fear the things that are mostly harmless a reckless man takes

are mostly harmless a reckless man takes

are mostly harmless a reckless man takes unnecessary risks that puts him and the

unnecessary risks that puts him and the

unnecessary risks that puts him and the ones you care about in danger courageous

ones you care about in danger courageous

ones you care about in danger courageous man knows when to take a risk and when

man knows when to take a risk and when

man knows when to take a risk and when it is unnecessary mastery is how

it is unnecessary mastery is how

it is unnecessary mastery is how developed a man’s craft is if we’re

developed a man’s craft is if we’re

developed a man’s craft is if we’re talking about men who are good at being

talking about men who are good at being

talking about men who are good at being men you might talk about crops such as

men you might talk about crops such as

men you might talk about crops such as fighting hunting or devising strategies

fighting hunting or devising strategies

fighting hunting or devising strategies that’s why it’s paramount for every man

that’s why it’s paramount for every man

that’s why it’s paramount for every man to learn how to fight to learn how to

to learn how to fight to learn how to

to learn how to fight to learn how to take a punch to the face to practice

take a punch to the face to practice

take a punch to the face to practice martial arts and self-defense systems to

martial arts and self-defense systems to

martial arts and self-defense systems to practice and love violence to become a

practice and love violence to become a

practice and love violence to become a human weapon

human weapon

human weapon strong and courageous man without

strong and courageous man without

strong and courageous man without mastery is basically an overgrown child

mastery is basically an overgrown child

mastery is basically an overgrown child who has no idea what he’s doing

who has no idea what he’s doing

who has no idea what he’s doing honor honor – probably the trickiest one

honor honor – probably the trickiest one

honor honor – probably the trickiest one – the scrub bread McKay from The Art of

– the scrub bread McKay from The Art of

– the scrub bread McKay from The Art of Manliness calm says that traditional

Manliness calm says that traditional

Manliness calm says that traditional honor comes in two types

honor comes in two types

honor comes in two types horizontal and vertical horizontal honor

horizontal and vertical horizontal honor

horizontal and vertical horizontal honor is the mutual respect and an exclusive

is the mutual respect and an exclusive

is the mutual respect and an exclusive honor truly an honor who can be anything

honor truly an honor who can be anything

honor truly an honor who can be anything from sports team to a band or a fire

from sports team to a band or a fire

from sports team to a band or a fire brigade you don’t earn this respect or

brigade you don’t earn this respect or

brigade you don’t earn this respect or honor but simply existing as a human

honor but simply existing as a human

honor but simply existing as a human being you’re not entitled to it rather

being you’re not entitled to it rather

being you’re not entitled to it rather something that must be earned and sought

something that must be earned and sought

something that must be earned and sought after it’s also paramount that this

after it’s also paramount that this

after it’s also paramount that this honor can be lost for example think of a

honor can be lost for example think of a

honor can be lost for example think of a rugby team where as long as you show up

rugby team where as long as you show up

rugby team where as long as you show up the trainings put in an effort you can

the trainings put in an effort you can

the trainings put in an effort you can stay on the team now four players

stay on the team now four players

stay on the team now four players started slacking off not showing up to

started slacking off not showing up to

started slacking off not showing up to trainings and not pushing himself this

trainings and not pushing himself this

trainings and not pushing himself this is going to bring the team’s performance

is going to bring the team’s performance

is going to bring the team’s performance level down so if the court doesn’t cut

level down so if the court doesn’t cut

level down so if the court doesn’t cut them all his teammates will bully him

them all his teammates will bully him

them all his teammates will bully him and shame him into quitting it’s

and shame him into quitting it’s

and shame him into quitting it’s effective there has to be minimum

effective there has to be minimum

effective there has to be minimum standards for inclusion and whoever

standards for inclusion and whoever

standards for inclusion and whoever fails to meet these standards must be

fails to meet these standards must be

fails to meet these standards must be cut off honor and egalitarianism are

cut off honor and egalitarianism are

cut off honor and egalitarianism are mutually exclusive vertical honor is

mutually exclusive vertical honor is

mutually exclusive vertical honor is given to the member of the other group

given to the member of the other group

given to the member of the other group who excels in meeting these standards

who excels in meeting these standards

who excels in meeting these standards and it’s outstanding from the glue the

and it’s outstanding from the glue the

and it’s outstanding from the glue the Honor group is hierarchical and

Honor group is hierarchical and

Honor group is hierarchical and competitive and this is what drives its

competitive and this is what drives its

competitive and this is what drives its members into bettering themselves and

members into bettering themselves and

members into bettering themselves and excel so vertical honor is giving to

excel so vertical honor is giving to

excel so vertical honor is giving to that member who stands out it brings

that member who stands out it brings

that member who stands out it brings privileges and his team from his peers

privileges and his team from his peers

privileges and his team from his peers now returning to the analogy of a rugby

now returning to the analogy of a rugby

now returning to the analogy of a rugby team the player has a particularly good

team the player has a particularly good

team the player has a particularly good season where he puts in a tremendous

season where he puts in a tremendous

season where he puts in a tremendous amount of effort makes the tackle scores

amount of effort makes the tackle scores

amount of effort makes the tackle scores the trials and up performs as peers

the trials and up performs as peers

the trials and up performs as peers to bring admiration and respect from

to bring admiration and respect from

to bring admiration and respect from others most importantly from his peers

others most importantly from his peers

others most importantly from his peers now that’s a man who’s good at being a

now that’s a man who’s good at being a

now that’s a man who’s good at being a man a man who are the qualities that

man a man who are the qualities that

man a man who are the qualities that would have made him an efficient hunter

would have made him an efficient hunter

would have made him an efficient hunter fighter and protector several hundreds

fighter and protector several hundreds

fighter and protector several hundreds of years ago now contrastingly the

of years ago now contrastingly the

of years ago now contrastingly the definition of a good man is very

definition of a good man is very

definition of a good man is very different to the affirmation and it’s

different to the affirmation and it’s

different to the affirmation and it’s extremely ambiguous as it changes from

extremely ambiguous as it changes from

extremely ambiguous as it changes from religion – religion from culture to

religion – religion from culture to

religion – religion from culture to culture it changes with your arrow

culture it changes with your arrow

culture it changes with your arrow changes if your European changes if your

changes if your European changes if your

changes if your European changes if your australian appears spaniard your

australian appears spaniard your

australian appears spaniard your definition of a good man will be

definition of a good man will be

definition of a good man will be different than if you’re Japanese it he

different than if you’re Japanese it he

different than if you’re Japanese it he been or should I say especially changes

been or should I say especially changes

been or should I say especially changes from social class of social class being

from social class of social class being

from social class of social class being a good man has more to do with your

a good man has more to do with your

a good man has more to do with your morals and virtues one could be a

morals and virtues one could be a

morals and virtues one could be a basement-dwelling troglodytic with only

basement-dwelling troglodytic with only

basement-dwelling troglodytic with only movements consist of food collection and

movements consist of food collection and

movements consist of food collection and bowel movements but they’re respectful

bowel movements but they’re respectful

bowel movements but they’re respectful third trustworthy if still technically

third trustworthy if still technically

third trustworthy if still technically be considered a good man this virtuous

be considered a good man this virtuous

be considered a good man this virtuous nature is often referred to by today’s

nature is often referred to by today’s

nature is often referred to by today’s society as being in touch with your

society as being in touch with your

society as being in touch with your feminine side

feminine side

feminine side however I profoundly disagree with this

however I profoundly disagree with this

however I profoundly disagree with this as these virtues and morals have been a

as these virtues and morals have been a

as these virtues and morals have been a key component of a rich balanced

key component of a rich balanced

key component of a rich balanced masculinity and have been this way for

masculinity and have been this way for

masculinity and have been this way for hundreds of years now to reach the

hundreds of years now to reach the

hundreds of years now to reach the pinnacle of modern masculinity one must

pinnacle of modern masculinity one must

pinnacle of modern masculinity one must have a perfect balance between these two

have a perfect balance between these two

have a perfect balance between these two one could be ‘extra mentally physically

one could be ‘extra mentally physically

one could be ‘extra mentally physically fit that fit athlete or very skilled

fit that fit athlete or very skilled

fit that fit athlete or very skilled hunter or proficient in every single

hunter or proficient in every single

hunter or proficient in every single martial arts I belong to man or all

martial arts I belong to man or all

martial arts I belong to man or all three combined like Bruce Wayne however

three combined like Bruce Wayne however

three combined like Bruce Wayne however you’re not a good man

you’re not a good man

you’re not a good man you’re not a loving husband if you’re

you’re not a loving husband if you’re

you’re not a loving husband if you’re not a good father you’re not tough

not a good father you’re not tough

not a good father you’re not tough you’re not resilient if you’re not

you’re not resilient if you’re not

you’re not resilient if you’re not trustworthy you’re far from the

trustworthy you’re far from the

trustworthy you’re far from the archetypal ideal of what a man is

archetypal ideal of what a man is

archetypal ideal of what a man is likewise if you have all the unfermented

likewise if you have all the unfermented

likewise if you have all the unfermented virtues and qualities but you don’t have

virtues and qualities but you don’t have

virtues and qualities but you don’t have a sense of physical sense of adventure

a sense of physical sense of adventure

a sense of physical sense of adventure the desire and strive to have strength

the desire and strive to have strength

the desire and strive to have strength courage mastery and honor

courage mastery and honor

courage mastery and honor you’re also far from the archetypal idea

you’re also far from the archetypal idea

you’re also far from the archetypal idea of of where man is I believe that a

of of where man is I believe that a

of of where man is I believe that a balance between these two is paramount

balance between these two is paramount

balance between these two is paramount for any man who aspires to be the better

for any man who aspires to be the better

for any man who aspires to be the better man

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