if you’re looking for ways to develop great habits outwork everyone and push
great habits outwork everyone and push
great habits outwork everyone and push through failure then this video is for
through failure then this video is for
through failure then this video is for you I could just out last other people
you I could just out last other people
you I could just out last other people and I enjoyed being an instrument of
and I enjoyed being an instrument of
and I enjoyed being an instrument of competition the people we see on
competition the people we see on
competition the people we see on magazine covers that we might idolize
magazine covers that we might idolize
magazine covers that we might idolize and feel we could never possibly emulate
and feel we could never possibly emulate
and feel we could never possibly emulate because they have it all figured out
because they have it all figured out
because they have it all figured out you have no insecurities they wake up
you have no insecurities they wake up
you have no insecurities they wake up every morning and with a mental karate
every morning and with a mental karate
every morning and with a mental karate chops they just master the day that’s
chops they just master the day that’s
chops they just master the day that’s not how it works over time you will make
not how it works over time you will make
not how it works over time you will make mistakes you will have what people
mistakes you will have what people
mistakes you will have what people perceive as failures but over time you
perceive as failures but over time you
perceive as failures but over time you will win it’s just it’s almost an
will win it’s just it’s almost an
will win it’s just it’s almost an inevitability need motivation watch a
inevitability need motivation watch a
inevitability need motivation watch a top 10 with belief nation what’s up it’s
top 10 with belief nation what’s up it’s
top 10 with belief nation what’s up it’s Evan my one word is believe and I
Evan my one word is believe and I
Evan my one word is believe and I believe in you I believe you have an
believe in you I believe you have an
believe in you I believe you have an amazing gift inside you that I want to
amazing gift inside you that I want to
amazing gift inside you that I want to see explode out into the world so let’s
see explode out into the world so let’s
see explode out into the world so let’s take your motivation to attend and get
take your motivation to attend and get
take your motivation to attend and get you believing in you grab a snack and
you believing in you grab a snack and
you believing in you grab a snack and chew in today’s lessons from a man who
chew in today’s lessons from a man who
chew in today’s lessons from a man who went from working in sales for a data
went from working in sales for a data
went from working in sales for a data storage company to becoming an
storage company to becoming an
storage company to becoming an entrepreneur investor influencer and
entrepreneur investor influencer and
entrepreneur investor influencer and writer of one of my favorite books of
writer of one of my favorite books of
writer of one of my favorite books of all time the 4-hour workweek
all time the 4-hour workweek
all time the 4-hour workweek he’s Tim Ferriss and here’s my take on
he’s Tim Ferriss and here’s my take on
he’s Tim Ferriss and here’s my take on his top 10 rules to success volume 3
his top 10 rules to success volume 3
his top 10 rules to success volume 3 enjoy
alright let’s kick things off with rule
alright let’s kick things off with rule number one
number one
number one outwork everyone I think what I could
outwork everyone I think what I could
outwork everyone I think what I could attribute my success is to is more the
attribute my success is to is more the
attribute my success is to is more the fact that I was confident I could train
fact that I was confident I could train
fact that I was confident I could train myself to absorb or tolerate very high
myself to absorb or tolerate very high
myself to absorb or tolerate very high levels of pain to outwork other people
levels of pain to outwork other people
levels of pain to outwork other people to win in sports like wrestling which is
to win in sports like wrestling which is
to win in sports like wrestling which is all pain right and so I chose arenas in
all pain right and so I chose arenas in
all pain right and so I chose arenas in which I felt like even if I lacked the
which I felt like even if I lacked the
which I felt like even if I lacked the technical gifts even if I lacked certain
technical gifts even if I lacked certain
technical gifts even if I lacked certain coaching advantages that I could still
coaching advantages that I could still
coaching advantages that I could still win because I could just out last other
win because I could just out last other
win because I could just out last other people and I enjoyed being an instrument
people and I enjoyed being an instrument
people and I enjoyed being an instrument of competition how much and I still do I
of competition how much and I still do I
of competition how much and I still do I mean I love competing I just like I’m
mean I love competing I just like I’m
mean I love competing I just like I’m better in competition than I am in
better in competition than I am in
better in competition than I am in rehearsal I understand yeah that’s I
rehearsal I understand yeah that’s I
rehearsal I understand yeah that’s I kind it’s really weird but that’s just
kind it’s really weird but that’s just
kind it’s really weird but that’s just me I’d like I feed off doing what I love
me I’d like I feed off doing what I love
me I’d like I feed off doing what I love love love love love about this is Tim
love love love love about this is Tim
love love love love about this is Tim Ferriss is known as the 4-hour workweek
Ferriss is known as the 4-hour workweek
Ferriss is known as the 4-hour workweek guy and everybody is trying to build
guy and everybody is trying to build
guy and everybody is trying to build this passive income machine where they
this passive income machine where they
this passive income machine where they don’t have to do any work and here he is
don’t have to do any work and here he is
don’t have to do any work and here he is the guy who builds the 4-hour workweek
the guy who builds the 4-hour workweek
the guy who builds the 4-hour workweek saying that he works harder than
saying that he works harder than
saying that he works harder than everybody else and that’s how he wins
everybody else and that’s how he wins
everybody else and that’s how he wins it’s both it’s working hard and working
it’s both it’s working hard and working
it’s both it’s working hard and working smart stop trying to just work off of
smart stop trying to just work off of
smart stop trying to just work off of four hours a week you win by working
four hours a week you win by working
four hours a week you win by working hard I love it let’s go to rule number
hard I love it let’s go to rule number
hard I love it let’s go to rule number two learn before you earn find a
two learn before you earn find a
two learn before you earn find a situation where you can be in the room
situation where you can be in the room
situation where you can be in the room with masters of a craft and that could
with masters of a craft and that could
with masters of a craft and that could just be deal making it could be joining
just be deal making it could be joining
just be deal making it could be joining a small company say a fewer than 50
a small company say a fewer than 50
a small company say a fewer than 50 people where you simply get to observe
people where you simply get to observe
people where you simply get to observe one of the principles negotiating in an
one of the principles negotiating in an
one of the principles negotiating in an industry that you don’t even care
industry that you don’t even care
industry that you don’t even care anything about all right it could be
anything about all right it could be
anything about all right it could be waste management and you want to go into
waste management and you want to go into
waste management and you want to go into high tech but if you sit in a room with
high tech but if you sit in a room with
high tech but if you sit in a room with someone who’s an absolute pro at
someone who’s an absolute pro at
someone who’s an absolute pro at crafting deals negotiating getting past
crafting deals negotiating getting past
crafting deals negotiating getting past no those skills and maybe those
no those skills and maybe those
no those skills and maybe those relationships start to snowball all
relationships start to snowball all
relationships start to snowball all right and this is what scott adams the
right and this is what scott adams the
right and this is what scott adams the creator and Dilbert would call
creator and Dilbert would call
creator and Dilbert would call systems-thinking so instead of being
systems-thinking so instead of being
systems-thinking so instead of being wedded to the outcome of a given job you
wedded to the outcome of a given job you
wedded to the outcome of a given job you are accumulating skills and
are accumulating skills and
are accumulating skills and relationships that transcend that job
relationships that transcend that job
relationships that transcend that job okay and if you choose your environments
okay and if you choose your environments
okay and if you choose your environments well because as I’ve said before and as
well because as I’ve said before and as
well because as I’ve said before and as people like Drew the CEO of Dropbox as a
people like Drew the CEO of Dropbox as a
people like Drew the CEO of Dropbox as a friend have said you’re the average of
friend have said you’re the average of
friend have said you’re the average of the five people you associate with most
the five people you associate with most
the five people you associate with most all right so if you take just a few
all right so if you take just a few
all right so if you take just a few years have the patience a few years to
years have the patience a few years to
years have the patience a few years to really develop core competencies that
really develop core competencies that
really develop core competencies that allow you to craft your own reality and
allow you to craft your own reality and
allow you to craft your own reality and life negotiation deal-making getting
life negotiation deal-making getting
life negotiation deal-making getting past though etc learning how to pitch
past though etc learning how to pitch
past though etc learning how to pitch how to get someone’s attention in 30
how to get someone’s attention in 30
how to get someone’s attention in 30 seconds so that you can then create the
seconds so that you can then create the
seconds so that you can then create the desire and ultimately ask for some type
desire and ultimately ask for some type
desire and ultimately ask for some type of action once you develop those then
of action once you develop those then
of action once you develop those then you can really just create the map for
you can really just create the map for
you can really just create the map for the next decade in the next several
the next decade in the next several
the next decade in the next several decades so that would be it it would be
decades so that would be it it would be
decades so that would be it it would be learned before you earn and it’s never
learned before you earn and it’s never
learned before you earn and it’s never too late to do that so I don’t care if
too late to do that so I don’t care if
too late to do that so I don’t care if you’re coming out of college coming out
you’re coming out of college coming out
you’re coming out of college coming out of high school
of high school
of high school 30 40 whatever it is Systems thinking
30 40 whatever it is Systems thinking
30 40 whatever it is Systems thinking focus on the skills and relationships
focus on the skills and relationships
focus on the skills and relationships first and then you can just create a
first and then you can just create a
first and then you can just create a blank check for how much money you want
blank check for how much money you want
blank check for how much money you want to make if that is your goal I love it I
to make if that is your goal I love it I
to make if that is your goal I love it I agree I often say work for a company
agree I often say work for a company
agree I often say work for a company that has 10 employees or less so you can
that has 10 employees or less so you can
that has 10 employees or less so you can really get in the dirt of doing multiple
really get in the dirt of doing multiple
really get in the dirt of doing multiple jobs and learn as much as you can and
jobs and learn as much as you can and
jobs and learn as much as you can and I’d also say learn from videos learn
I’d also say learn from videos learn
I’d also say learn from videos learn from people who you’ll never have a
from people who you’ll never have a
from people who you’ll never have a chance to go learn form in person
chance to go learn form in person
chance to go learn form in person because they have great content in
because they have great content in
because they have great content in videos in books the top ten rules that
videos in books the top ten rules that
videos in books the top ten rules that meant to me series every time I watch
meant to me series every time I watch
meant to me series every time I watch your video from somebody who I look up
your video from somebody who I look up
your video from somebody who I look up to and respect I learn something and
to and respect I learn something and
to and respect I learn something and makes me a better version of me let’s go
makes me a better version of me let’s go
makes me a better version of me let’s go to rule number three develop habits and
to rule number three develop habits and
to rule number three develop habits and routines
routines
routines whether it’s jaco will link you
whether it’s jaco will link you
whether it’s jaco will link you mentioned retired Navy SEAL commander
mentioned retired Navy SEAL commander
mentioned retired Navy SEAL commander used to be in charge of all West Coast
used to be in charge of all West Coast
used to be in charge of all West Coast training for the SEAL Teams which is
training for the SEAL Teams which is
training for the SEAL Teams which is intense highly highly decorated where
intense highly highly decorated where
intense highly highly decorated where there’s Jocko saying discipline equals
there’s Jocko saying discipline equals
there’s Jocko saying discipline equals freedom or you look at say some of the
freedom or you look at say some of the
freedom or you look at say some of the writers or musicians or
writers or musicians or
writers or musicians or rector’s or others in the book across
rector’s or others in the book across
rector’s or others in the book across pretty much all of them you find that
pretty much all of them you find that
pretty much all of them you find that they find freedom in constraints so what
they find freedom in constraints so what
they find freedom in constraints so what does that mean
does that mean
does that mean sounds kind of weird it also sounds very
sounds kind of weird it also sounds very
sounds kind of weird it also sounds very sounds like an oxymoron lit and what I
sounds like an oxymoron lit and what I
sounds like an oxymoron lit and what I mean by that is all of these people have
mean by that is all of these people have
mean by that is all of these people have routines they have set recipes that they
routines they have set recipes that they
routines they have set recipes that they repeat on a daily and weekly basis so
repeat on a daily and weekly basis so
repeat on a daily and weekly basis so that they are not making a lot of
that they are not making a lot of
that they are not making a lot of extraneous decisions about mundane
extraneous decisions about mundane
extraneous decisions about mundane things and I also recognize that we all
things and I also recognize that we all
things and I also recognize that we all have our less ourselves our impulses I
have our less ourselves our impulses I
have our less ourselves our impulses I love chocolate croissants for work if I
love chocolate croissants for work if I
love chocolate croissants for work if I left my entire schedule to whim I would
left my entire schedule to whim I would
left my entire schedule to whim I would just eat chocolate croissants all day
just eat chocolate croissants all day
just eat chocolate croissants all day long I love them they’re incredible and
long I love them they’re incredible and
long I love them they’re incredible and I still do have them once a week I have
I still do have them once a week I have
I still do have them once a week I have my cheat day and I’m allowed to do what
my cheat day and I’m allowed to do what
my cheat day and I’m allowed to do what I want so I let my monkey mind and my
I want so I let my monkey mind and my
I want so I let my monkey mind and my lesser self just go nuts
lesser self just go nuts
lesser self just go nuts but these people all have typically
but these people all have typically
but these people all have typically these and these are folks we might be
these and these are folks we might be
these and these are folks we might be inclined to think of as superheroes and
inclined to think of as superheroes and
inclined to think of as superheroes and maybe Jacko’s a superhero but the vast
maybe Jacko’s a superhero but the vast
maybe Jacko’s a superhero but the vast majority have one or two strengths they
majority have one or two strengths they
majority have one or two strengths they may not even be the best of the world
may not even be the best of the world
may not even be the best of the world but one or two strengths they combine in
but one or two strengths they combine in
but one or two strengths they combine in a really unique way and they build
a really unique way and they build
a really unique way and they build habits around those strengths and then
habits around those strengths and then
habits around those strengths and then they have a thousand other weaknesses
they have a thousand other weaknesses
they have a thousand other weaknesses but the habits and routines are what
but the habits and routines are what
but the habits and routines are what help them from going off the rails and
help them from going off the rails and
help them from going off the rails and this is really encouraging this should
this is really encouraging this should
this is really encouraging this should be really encouraging because the people
be really encouraging because the people
be really encouraging because the people we see on magazine covers that we might
we see on magazine covers that we might
we see on magazine covers that we might idolize and feel we could never possibly
idolize and feel we could never possibly
idolize and feel we could never possibly emulate because they have it all figured
emulate because they have it all figured
emulate because they have it all figured out there you have no insecurities they
out there you have no insecurities they
out there you have no insecurities they wake up every morning and with a mental
wake up every morning and with a mental
wake up every morning and with a mental karate chops they just master the day
karate chops they just master the day
karate chops they just master the day that’s not how it works I know these
that’s not how it works I know these
that’s not how it works I know these people almost everyone in this book
people almost everyone in this book
people almost everyone in this book certainly on the podcast had become
certainly on the podcast had become
certainly on the podcast had become friends with hundreds of these people
friends with hundreds of these people
friends with hundreds of these people not true they have tons of not everyone
not true they have tons of not everyone
not true they have tons of not everyone I don’t speak for everyone but tons of
I don’t speak for everyone but tons of
I don’t speak for everyone but tons of neuroses tons of terrible self-defeating
neuroses tons of terrible self-defeating
neuroses tons of terrible self-defeating habits and the safety that they create
habits and the safety that they create
habits and the safety that they create is habits and routines that’s why jaakko
is habits and routines that’s why jaakko
is habits and routines that’s why jaakko in part says discipline equals freedom
in part says discipline equals freedom
in part says discipline equals freedom okay so you have trouble waking up in
okay so you have trouble waking up in
okay so you have trouble waking up in the morning no problem you want to stage
the morning no problem you want to stage
the morning no problem you want to stage this is something choco does takes his
this is something choco does takes his
this is something choco does takes his clothing
clothing
clothing prepares gets this sort of coffee ready
prepares gets this sort of coffee ready
prepares gets this sort of coffee ready to brew clothing on the floor for the
to brew clothing on the floor for the
to brew clothing on the floor for the workout right next to his bed prepared
workout right next to his bed prepared
workout right next to his bed prepared the night before so there are no
the night before so there are no
the night before so there are no decisions there are no opportunities to
decisions there are no opportunities to
decisions there are no opportunities to make mistakes
make mistakes
make mistakes between him openings eyes and Jocko
between him openings eyes and Jocko
between him openings eyes and Jocko working out and you find this across
working out and you find this across
working out and you find this across everybody I love this point and I’m
everybody I love this point and I’m
everybody I love this point and I’m really taking a deep dive into learning
really taking a deep dive into learning
really taking a deep dive into learning about habits and routines I agree I
about habits and routines I agree I
about habits and routines I agree I don’t wake up every day like yes believe
don’t wake up every day like yes believe
don’t wake up every day like yes believe amazing it’s my morning routine it’s
amazing it’s my morning routine it’s
amazing it’s my morning routine it’s it’s this office right it’s the
it’s this office right it’s the
it’s this office right it’s the environments what I do every single day
environments what I do every single day
environments what I do every single day every single morning that gets me set up
every single morning that gets me set up
every single morning that gets me set up to have a great bold amazing day and
to have a great bold amazing day and
to have a great bold amazing day and you’ve all had moments in your life that
you’ve all had moments in your life that
you’ve all had moments in your life that you felt that boldness but it’s just not
you felt that boldness but it’s just not
you felt that boldness but it’s just not consistent and so understanding what the
consistent and so understanding what the
consistent and so understanding what the triggers are for you what led you to
triggers are for you what led you to
triggers are for you what led you to feel bold will let you to feel extremely
feel bold will let you to feel extremely
feel bold will let you to feel extremely passionate and then planning that into
passionate and then planning that into
passionate and then planning that into your morning routine so that you woke up
your morning routine so that you woke up
your morning routine so that you woke up and then fell into that didn’t have to
and then fell into that didn’t have to
and then fell into that didn’t have to think about it it automatically happened
think about it it automatically happened
think about it it automatically happened that you were going off and doing
that you were going off and doing
that you were going off and doing something bold thinking bold do that for
something bold thinking bold do that for
something bold thinking bold do that for a year your life will transform into
a year your life will transform into
a year your life will transform into something unrecognizable from what it is
something unrecognizable from what it is
something unrecognizable from what it is today
today
today let’s go to rule number four learn how
let’s go to rule number four learn how
let’s go to rule number four learn how to make decisions another would be and I
to make decisions another would be and I
to make decisions another would be and I don’t know if you’ve ever had any
don’t know if you’ve ever had any
don’t know if you’ve ever had any interaction with Kyle Maynard Kyle
interaction with Kyle Maynard Kyle
interaction with Kyle Maynard Kyle maynard’s fascinating guy he’s he was
maynard’s fascinating guy he’s he was
maynard’s fascinating guy he’s he was born a congenital quad amputee so he is
born a congenital quad amputee so he is
born a congenital quad amputee so he is his arms and before the elbows and his
his arms and before the elbows and his
his arms and before the elbows and his legs before the knees nonetheless he is
legs before the knees nonetheless he is
legs before the knees nonetheless he is in the National Wrestling Hall of Fame
in the National Wrestling Hall of Fame
in the National Wrestling Hall of Fame like collegiate wrestling and is the
like collegiate wrestling and is the
like collegiate wrestling and is the first person to ever climb Mount
first person to ever climb Mount
first person to ever climb Mount Kilimanjaro without prosthetics so he
Kilimanjaro without prosthetics so he
Kilimanjaro without prosthetics so he military crawled the entire mountain
military crawled the entire mountain
military crawled the entire mountain he’s such a stud and he was taught by a
he’s such a stud and he was taught by a
he’s such a stud and he was taught by a CEO at one point the CEO used this for
CEO at one point the CEO used this for
CEO at one point the CEO used this for hiring but you can use it for anything
hiring but you can use it for anything
hiring but you can use it for anything this particular CEO very successful
this particular CEO very successful
this particular CEO very successful would have his current employees rank
would have his current employees rank
would have his current employees rank prospective employees from one to ten
prospective employees from one to ten
prospective employees from one to ten and that’s not interesting by itself his
and that’s not interesting by itself his
and that’s not interesting by itself his rule was you can’t use seven so I wanted
rule was you can’t use seven so I wanted
rule was you can’t use seven so I wanted a ranking from one to ten you can’t
a ranking from one to ten you can’t
a ranking from one to ten you can’t answer seven and what what ends up being
answer seven and what what ends up being
answer seven and what what ends up being so beautiful about that and leveraged is
so beautiful about that and leveraged is
so beautiful about that and leveraged is that seven is a safe number it’s kind of
that seven is a safe number it’s kind of
that seven is a safe number it’s kind of like the non offensive Switzerland of
like the non offensive Switzerland of
like the non offensive Switzerland of answers it’s not committal it’s not too
answers it’s not committal it’s not too
answers it’s not committal it’s not too bad so you can wiggle out of it whereas
bad so you can wiggle out of it whereas
bad so you can wiggle out of it whereas if you’re choosing a six that’s barely
if you’re choosing a six that’s barely
if you’re choosing a six that’s barely passing that’s not good
passing that’s not good
passing that’s not good if it’s an eight you’re indicating you
if it’s an eight you’re indicating you
if it’s an eight you’re indicating you are pretty stoked like you’re vouching
are pretty stoked like you’re vouching
are pretty stoked like you’re vouching he forced them to make a decision
he forced them to make a decision
he forced them to make a decision exactly so you can love it one to ten no
exactly so you can love it one to ten no
exactly so you can love it one to ten no seven and so I’ve used that and kylus
seven and so I’ve used that and kylus
seven and so I’ve used that and kylus used it for say write anything in
used it for say write anything in
used it for say write anything in patient to conferences invitations to
patient to conferences invitations to
patient to conferences invitations to coffee whatever it might be it’s like
coffee whatever it might be it’s like
coffee whatever it might be it’s like decisions in life decisions in life I
decisions in life decisions in life I
decisions in life decisions in life I really love this clip and I’ve used this
really love this clip and I’ve used this
really love this clip and I’ve used this myself and also help other entrepreneurs
myself and also help other entrepreneurs
myself and also help other entrepreneurs with it the idea of not using a seven
with it the idea of not using a seven
with it the idea of not using a seven you have to eliminate seven and you have
you have to eliminate seven and you have
you have to eliminate seven and you have to pick an eight or six I love it I love
to pick an eight or six I love it I love
to pick an eight or six I love it I love that concept is such a great strategy to
that concept is such a great strategy to
that concept is such a great strategy to use I hope you guys apply to your
use I hope you guys apply to your
use I hope you guys apply to your business because gonna make a huge
business because gonna make a huge
business because gonna make a huge difference Tom’s rule number five
difference Tom’s rule number five
difference Tom’s rule number five overcome your fears what you have been
overcome your fears what you have been
overcome your fears what you have been doing hasn’t been working so you have to
doing hasn’t been working so you have to
doing hasn’t been working so you have to try to say all right well what is
try to say all right well what is
try to say all right well what is something new a new way I can approach
something new a new way I can approach
something new a new way I can approach it there’s a lot of the parties that
it there’s a lot of the parties that
it there’s a lot of the parties that involve alcohol
involve alcohol
involve alcohol what if there’s parties advocated around
what if there’s parties advocated around
what if there’s parties advocated around fitness and health and smoothies and
fitness and health and smoothies and
fitness and health and smoothies and juicing Pat you know and so you’re
juicing Pat you know and so you’re
juicing Pat you know and so you’re excited about it and you’re like you’re
excited about it and you’re like you’re
excited about it and you’re like you’re convincing me I’m like yo I want to get
convincing me I’m like yo I want to get
convincing me I’m like yo I want to get my green smoothie on what happened like
my green smoothie on what happened like
my green smoothie on what happened like oh how do i how do I do that I mean what
oh how do i how do I do that I mean what
oh how do i how do I do that I mean what was the worst thing that could have
was the worst thing that could have
was the worst thing that could have happened if you actually went for it I
happened if you actually went for it I
happened if you actually went for it I guess the worst thing will be just no
guess the worst thing will be just no
guess the worst thing will be just no one shows up as I thought it might be
one shows up as I thought it might be
one shows up as I thought it might be interesting to have it right now try a
interesting to have it right now try a
interesting to have it right now try a coffee challenge a way the coffee
coffee challenge a way the coffee
coffee challenge a way the coffee challenge is where you go up to some
challenge is where you go up to some
challenge is where you go up to some random person the guy in there they
random person the guy in there they
random person the guy in there they don’t know about it and you ask for ten
don’t know about it and you ask for ten
don’t know about it and you ask for ten percent off she’s very timid she can be
percent off she’s very timid she can be
percent off she’s very timid she can be extremely timid and shy why would I ask
extremely timid and shy why would I ask
extremely timid and shy why would I ask for a discount coffee we have to train
for a discount coffee we have to train
for a discount coffee we have to train her to get to the point where she can
her to get to the point where she can
her to get to the point where she can walk through those irrational fears and
walk through those irrational fears and
walk through those irrational fears and you start with silly things via people
you start with silly things via people
you start with silly things via people ask for discounts on your classes
ask for discounts on your classes
ask for discounts on your classes [Music]
[Music]
[Music] if I could do that means she should do
if I could do that means she should do
if I could do that means she should do it yeah it’s all yours I’m kind of
it yeah it’s all yours I’m kind of
it yeah it’s all yours I’m kind of nervous yeah like me nervous
nervous yeah like me nervous
nervous yeah like me nervous yeah knock em dead you’ll do great all
yeah knock em dead you’ll do great all
yeah knock em dead you’ll do great all right
right
right fear is a really interesting animal it’s
fear is a really interesting animal it’s
fear is a really interesting animal it’s something that we all face in different
something that we all face in different
something that we all face in different ways but I get one mate’ the 10% off on
ways but I get one mate’ the 10% off on
ways but I get one mate’ the 10% off on there you have to inoculate yourself
there you have to inoculate yourself
there you have to inoculate yourself against the fear of rejection
against the fear of rejection
against the fear of rejection uncomfortable conversations asking for
uncomfortable conversations asking for
uncomfortable conversations asking for things you think you might not deserve
things you think you might not deserve
things you think you might not deserve but really need so it’s like yeah sure
but really need so it’s like yeah sure
but really need so it’s like yeah sure what’s the special occasion okay
what’s the special occasion okay
what’s the special occasion okay congratulations yeah thank you you can
congratulations yeah thank you you can
congratulations yeah thank you you can really train for the big stuff that
really train for the big stuff that
really train for the big stuff that you’re afraid of by practicing with the
you’re afraid of by practicing with the
you’re afraid of by practicing with the really little things
really little things
really little things man that was another great clip Tim is
man that was another great clip Tim is
man that was another great clip Tim is is bringing it on this one all the great
is bringing it on this one all the great
is bringing it on this one all the great things in your life come on the other
things in your life come on the other
things in your life come on the other side of your fear it’s your fear that
side of your fear it’s your fear that
side of your fear it’s your fear that are holding you back from achieving
are holding you back from achieving
are holding you back from achieving great things I love this clip watch it
great things I love this clip watch it
great things I love this clip watch it again ingrain it in your system it’s
again ingrain it in your system it’s
again ingrain it in your system it’s super important thank you Tim for the
super important thank you Tim for the
super important thank you Tim for the reminder let’s go to number 6 love
reminder let’s go to number 6 love
reminder let’s go to number 6 love yourself I realized I take two years ago
yourself I realized I take two years ago
yourself I realized I take two years ago but especially in the last six months
but especially in the last six months
but especially in the last six months very recent that and this is the part
very recent that and this is the part
very recent that and this is the part that would make my Tim of five years ago
that would make my Tim of five years ago
that would make my Tim of five years ago just crane like vomit a little in his
just crane like vomit a little in his
just crane like vomit a little in his own mouth much of this I’m not gonna
own mouth much of this I’m not gonna
own mouth much of this I’m not gonna mince words I still have trouble sayings
mince words I still have trouble sayings
mince words I still have trouble sayings like self-love is not an indulgence it’s
like self-love is not an indulgence it’s
like self-love is not an indulgence it’s not a nice to have it is a prerequisite
not a nice to have it is a prerequisite
not a nice to have it is a prerequisite even if all you want to do is feel
even if all you want to do is feel
even if all you want to do is feel successful and take care of the people
successful and take care of the people
successful and take care of the people you love the most to really take care of
you love the most to really take care of
you love the most to really take care of them you have to as I’ve heard said put
them you have to as I’ve heard said put
them you have to as I’ve heard said put on your oxygen mask first and if you
on your oxygen mask first and if you
on your oxygen mask first and if you don’t do that
don’t do that
don’t do that like you you are also shortchanging your
like you you are also shortchanging your
like you you are also shortchanging your ability to care for other people
ability to care for other people
ability to care for other people completely and that that’s been a very
very much an hundred and eighty degree
very much an hundred and eighty degree about-face for me
about-face for me
about-face for me right because for a long time I was like
right because for a long time I was like
right because for a long time I was like I don’t need to care for myself mmm like
I don’t need to care for myself mmm like
I don’t need to care for myself mmm like that’s the word keeps going back to me
that’s the word keeps going back to me
that’s the word keeps going back to me which is self-indulgent like this is
which is self-indulgent like this is
which is self-indulgent like this is self-indulgent mink
self-indulgent mink
self-indulgent mink who cares so this is a great clip I
who cares so this is a great clip I
who cares so this is a great clip I think the message itself is fantastic
think the message itself is fantastic
think the message itself is fantastic you hear it over and over and over again
you hear it over and over and over again
you hear it over and over and over again on these top tens you have to love
on these top tens you have to love
on these top tens you have to love yourself but I love especially the one
yourself but I love especially the one
yourself but I love especially the one 84 Tim I love the recognition of his own
84 Tim I love the recognition of his own
84 Tim I love the recognition of his own growth in his own evolution and
growth in his own evolution and
growth in his own evolution and questioning some of his other beliefs
questioning some of his other beliefs
questioning some of his other beliefs that he used to have that he’s outgrown
that he used to have that he’s outgrown
that he used to have that he’s outgrown and don’t serve Him and finding new ones
and don’t serve Him and finding new ones
and don’t serve Him and finding new ones I do I think that’s super important and
I do I think that’s super important and
I do I think that’s super important and in watching these videos if you find
in watching these videos if you find
in watching these videos if you find something that you keep hearing over and
something that you keep hearing over and
something that you keep hearing over and over and over again and you don’t agree
over and over again and you don’t agree
over and over again and you don’t agree with it but you keep hearing it like you
with it but you keep hearing it like you
with it but you keep hearing it like you may want to just question yourself a
may want to just question yourself a
may want to just question yourself a little bit because all these super
little bit because all these super
little bit because all these super successful people are saying the same
successful people are saying the same
successful people are saying the same thing maybe there’s something to it
thing maybe there’s something to it
thing maybe there’s something to it maybe you just need to take a little bit
maybe you just need to take a little bit
maybe you just need to take a little bit of time and reflect on it because it
of time and reflect on it because it
of time and reflect on it because it might actually make your life better I
might actually make your life better I
might actually make your life better I love that part of this clip let’s get to
love that part of this clip let’s get to
love that part of this clip let’s get to rule number seven find the right mentors
rule number seven find the right mentors
rule number seven find the right mentors very frequently we’ll ask someone for
very frequently we’ll ask someone for
very frequently we’ll ask someone for instance what advice would you give to a
instance what advice would you give to a
instance what advice would you give to a 30 year old just getting started here in
30 year old just getting started here in
30 year old just getting started here in your industry what is the best advice
your industry what is the best advice
your industry what is the best advice you would give and just as important I
you would give and just as important I
you would give and just as important I think you should ask what advice should
think you should ask what advice should
think you should ask what advice should that person ignore or what is the worst
that person ignore or what is the worst
that person ignore or what is the worst advice that you hear repeated often in
advice that you hear repeated often in
advice that you hear repeated often in your industry what is the conventional
your industry what is the conventional
your industry what is the conventional wisdom that you disagree with those type
wisdom that you disagree with those type
wisdom that you disagree with those type of questions give you a not to do list
of questions give you a not to do list
of questions give you a not to do list and it is what you don’t do that
and it is what you don’t do that
and it is what you don’t do that provides the space for what you can do
provides the space for what you can do
provides the space for what you can do anyone who says you should do this the
anyone who says you should do this the
anyone who says you should do this the way I did it without any caveats should
way I did it without any caveats should
way I did it without any caveats should be maybe ignored
be maybe ignored
be maybe ignored in many cases but certainly viewed with
in many cases but certainly viewed with
in many cases but certainly viewed with suspicion the the type of mentors who
suspicion the the type of mentors who
suspicion the the type of mentors who tend to be the most helpful or those who
tend to be the most helpful or those who
tend to be the most helpful or those who don’t necessarily give you an answer but
don’t necessarily give you an answer but
don’t necessarily give you an answer but they give you a better way of finding
they give you a better way of finding
they give you a better way of finding that answer I’m leaving my second job I
that answer I’m leaving my second job I
that answer I’m leaving my second job I want to start my own company what should
want to start my own company what should
want to start my own company what should I do and they say well I can’t tell you
I do and they say well I can’t tell you
I do and they say well I can’t tell you what you should do because I don’t have
what you should do because I don’t have
what you should do because I don’t have enough information
enough information
enough information which is a huge credibility point in my
which is a huge credibility point in my
which is a huge credibility point in my mind that they have the awareness to say
mind that they have the awareness to say
mind that they have the awareness to say that and they said but if I were in your
that and they said but if I were in your
that and they said but if I were in your position here’s how I might think
position here’s how I might think
position here’s how I might think through it so look for mentors who don’t
through it so look for mentors who don’t
through it so look for mentors who don’t necessarily give you answers but who
necessarily give you answers but who
necessarily give you answers but who walk you through the process of how they
walk you through the process of how they
walk you through the process of how they might think about making the proper
might think about making the proper
might think about making the proper decision given all of your particulars
decision given all of your particulars
decision given all of your particulars and I think that’s what
and I think that’s what
and I think that’s what in my experience separates a mediocre or
in my experience separates a mediocre or
in my experience separates a mediocre or decent mentor from a great mentor so I
decent mentor from a great mentor so I
decent mentor from a great mentor so I know what name does clip find the right
know what name does clip find the right
know what name does clip find the right mentors but in watching it I really
mentors but in watching it I really
mentors but in watching it I really resonate with the mentor side not the
resonate with the mentor side not the
resonate with the mentor side not the mentee side I try to apply that
mentee side I try to apply that
mentee side I try to apply that philosophy to the people on my team to
philosophy to the people on my team to
philosophy to the people on my team to my son to the people my family who might
my son to the people my family who might
my son to the people my family who might have to mentor and not just saying
have to mentor and not just saying
have to mentor and not just saying here’s how it has to be done because
here’s how it has to be done because
here’s how it has to be done because that’s how I would do it but helping
that’s how I would do it but helping
that’s how I would do it but helping them think through a better answer I
them think through a better answer I
them think through a better answer I think that’s really hard it’s really
think that’s really hard it’s really
think that’s really hard it’s really hard especially when you know that
hard especially when you know that
hard especially when you know that you’ve had it made and you know how to
you’ve had it made and you know how to
you’ve had it made and you know how to do it yourself to not force people to
do it yourself to not force people to
do it yourself to not force people to have to do it the same way you did it
have to do it the same way you did it
have to do it the same way you did it but allow them to uncover themselves and
but allow them to uncover themselves and
but allow them to uncover themselves and find the right path for them I think
find the right path for them I think
find the right path for them I think that’s the toughest part of being a
that’s the toughest part of being a
that’s the toughest part of being a mentor and I’m really glad things write
mentor and I’m really glad things write
mentor and I’m really glad things write it up in this clip alright time for
it up in this clip alright time for
it up in this clip alright time for number eight push through failures I
number eight push through failures I
number eight push through failures I like the idea of showing people both the
like the idea of showing people both the
like the idea of showing people both the successes and the failures so they can
successes and the failures so they can
successes and the failures so they can see net-net that it’s actually low risk
see net-net that it’s actually low risk
see net-net that it’s actually low risk if that makes sense I guess like a mess
if that makes sense I guess like a mess
if that makes sense I guess like a mess like that if you’re if you’re developing
like that if you’re if you’re developing
like that if you’re if you’re developing skills and relationships and that’s how
skills and relationships and that’s how
skills and relationships and that’s how you choose your projects and you’re not
you choose your projects and you’re not
you choose your projects and you’re not trying to appeal to the entire world
trying to appeal to the entire world
trying to appeal to the entire world you’re trying to find your 1,000 true
you’re trying to find your 1,000 true
you’re trying to find your 1,000 true fans who are just as crazy about cricket
fans who are just as crazy about cricket
fans who are just as crazy about cricket protein or whatever it might be as you
protein or whatever it might be as you
protein or whatever it might be as you are over time you will make mistakes you
are over time you will make mistakes you
are over time you will make mistakes you will have what people perceive as
will have what people perceive as
will have what people perceive as failures but over time you will win it’s
failures but over time you will win it’s
failures but over time you will win it’s just it’s almost an inevitability and so
just it’s almost an inevitability and so
just it’s almost an inevitability and so if I can showcase that for people or
if I can showcase that for people or
if I can showcase that for people or they’re like oh I saw Tim Ferriss
they’re like oh I saw Tim Ferriss
they’re like oh I saw Tim Ferriss publicly faceplant when he did I a B and
publicly faceplant when he did I a B and
publicly faceplant when he did I a B and C and television that didn’t work out I
C and television that didn’t work out I
C and television that didn’t work out I saw him tried this new thing with this
saw him tried this new thing with this
saw him tried this new thing with this one book that didn’t work out but still
one book that didn’t work out but still
one book that didn’t work out but still like in between II had this huge success
like in between II had this huge success
like in between II had this huge success and this huge success this is a
and this huge success this is a
and this huge success this is a consistent message again for successful
consistent message again for successful
consistent message again for successful people that you fail and you fail and
people that you fail and you fail and
people that you fail and you fail and you fail and you fail and you fail your
you fail and you fail and you fail your
you fail and you fail and you fail your way to success that’s how you end up
way to success that’s how you end up
way to success that’s how you end up winning what I love specifically about
winning what I love specifically about
winning what I love specifically about this video though is Tim putting the
this video though is Tim putting the
this video though is Tim putting the failures on a pedestal and showing it
failures on a pedestal and showing it
failures on a pedestal and showing it off and say look here’s my failure I’m
off and say look here’s my failure I’m
off and say look here’s my failure I’m out of my failure instead of just trying
out of my failure instead of just trying
out of my failure instead of just trying to hide it to make it easier and to give
to hide it to make it easier and to give
to hide it to make it easier and to give permission to everybody else watching to
permission to everybody else watching to
permission to everybody else watching to say it’s okay if I fail to so I really
say it’s okay if I fail to so I really
say it’s okay if I fail to so I really respect that about Tim and a huge fan of
respect that about Tim and a huge fan of
respect that about Tim and a huge fan of this clip let’s go to rule number nine
this clip let’s go to rule number nine
this clip let’s go to rule number nine define things clearly I did it at my
define things clearly I did it at my
define things clearly I did it at my risk you know this is an important
risk you know this is an important
risk you know this is an important question because I realized that a lot
question because I realized that a lot
question because I realized that a lot of the knots we tie ourselves into and
of the knots we tie ourselves into and
of the knots we tie ourselves into and the a lot of the anxiety that we feel is
the a lot of the anxiety that we feel is
the a lot of the anxiety that we feel is actually due to using words that are not
actually due to using words that are not
actually due to using words that are not defined very well like success I just
defined very well like success I just
defined very well like success I just want to be successful well you better
want to be successful well you better
want to be successful well you better have a very clear definition on what
have a very clear definition on what
have a very clear definition on what that is if it’s going to be one of your
that is if it’s going to be one of your
that is if it’s going to be one of your mind and your main obsessions young lady
mind and your main obsessions young lady
mind and your main obsessions young lady or young man yeah
or young man yeah
or young man yeah happiness yeah that’s a slippery one too
happiness yeah that’s a slippery one too
happiness yeah that’s a slippery one too and risk is another one risk to me is
and risk is another one risk to me is
and risk is another one risk to me is the likelihood of an irreversible
the likelihood of an irreversible
the likelihood of an irreversible negative outcome yes that’s it that’s it
negative outcome yes that’s it that’s it
negative outcome yes that’s it that’s it so define that way they’re actually very
so define that way they’re actually very
so define that way they’re actually very few serious risks and I choose to take
few serious risks and I choose to take
few serious risks and I choose to take very few serious risks people might view
very few serious risks people might view
very few serious risks people might view me as a risk taker I don’t think myself
me as a risk taker I don’t think myself
me as a risk taker I don’t think myself that way at all I really love the
that way at all I really love the
that way at all I really love the perspective Tim is bringing really in
perspective Tim is bringing really in
perspective Tim is bringing really in all of these clips I think if I look at
all of these clips I think if I look at
all of these clips I think if I look at this series of top ten rules of success
this series of top ten rules of success
this series of top ten rules of success it’s why I profile so many different
it’s why I profile so many different
it’s why I profile so many different people from so many different walks of
people from so many different walks of
people from so many different walks of life because success – Tim is different
life because success – Tim is different
life because success – Tim is different than success – the Dalai Lama and is
than success – the Dalai Lama and is
than success – the Dalai Lama and is different than success – Elon Musk and
different than success – Elon Musk and
different than success – Elon Musk and somebody else and my goal is to show you
somebody else and my goal is to show you
somebody else and my goal is to show you a bunch of different perspectives not so
a bunch of different perspectives not so
a bunch of different perspectives not so that you can just copy them but so that
that you can just copy them but so that
that you can just copy them but so that you can define what success looks like –
you can define what success looks like –
you can define what success looks like – you take the best parts for you and
you take the best parts for you and
you take the best parts for you and apply it to your life let’s go – rule
apply it to your life let’s go – rule
apply it to your life let’s go – rule number 10 last rule before the bonuses
number 10 last rule before the bonuses
number 10 last rule before the bonuses meditate I get a lot of questions about
meditate I get a lot of questions about
meditate I get a lot of questions about how to start meditating keeping in mind
how to start meditating keeping in mind
how to start meditating keeping in mind that I had a very severe allergy to the
that I had a very severe allergy to the
that I had a very severe allergy to the word and concept of meditation for a
word and concept of meditation for a
word and concept of meditation for a very long time more than a decade and
very long time more than a decade and
very long time more than a decade and I’ve only really consistently started
I’ve only really consistently started
I’ve only really consistently started meditating and implemented meditating
meditating and implemented meditating
meditating and implemented meditating for the last two to three years now this
for the last two to three years now this
for the last two to three years now this is why I think meditation
is why I think meditation
is why I think meditation be viewed in a way as stoic training or
be viewed in a way as stoic training or
be viewed in a way as stoic training or in some ways similar to CBT cognitive
in some ways similar to CBT cognitive
in some ways similar to CBT cognitive behavioral therapy because the objective
behavioral therapy because the objective
behavioral therapy because the objective is to help you to observe your state and
is to help you to observe your state and
is to help you to observe your state and your thoughts so that you are less
your thoughts so that you are less
your thoughts so that you are less controlled by them what does this mean
controlled by them what does this mean
controlled by them what does this mean I’ll use an analogy that I think was
I’ll use an analogy that I think was
I’ll use an analogy that I think was originally shared with me by Andy pretty
originally shared with me by Andy pretty
originally shared with me by Andy pretty comb who is the founder of something
comb who is the founder of something
comb who is the founder of something called headspace which I’ll talk about
called headspace which I’ll talk about
called headspace which I’ll talk about in a second which is the difference in
in a second which is the difference in
in a second which is the difference in effect being say standing out in the
effect being say standing out in the
effect being say standing out in the storm getting pelted with rain and hail
storm getting pelted with rain and hail
storm getting pelted with rain and hail and wind and stinging your eyes and so
and wind and stinging your eyes and so
and wind and stinging your eyes and so on being soaking wet or standing inside
on being soaking wet or standing inside
on being soaking wet or standing inside looking through the glass at the storm
looking through the glass at the storm
looking through the glass at the storm the latter is meditation the way I’ve
the latter is meditation the way I’ve
the latter is meditation the way I’ve put it before which is slightly
put it before which is slightly
put it before which is slightly different it’s the difference between
different it’s the difference between
different it’s the difference between being in the washing machine or standing
being in the washing machine or standing
being in the washing machine or standing outside looking into the washing machine
outside looking into the washing machine
outside looking into the washing machine and when you have that somewhat detached
and when you have that somewhat detached
and when you have that somewhat detached observer perspective you can just be
observer perspective you can just be
observer perspective you can just be much calmer much more appreciative and
much calmer much more appreciative and
much calmer much more appreciative and ultimately effective I do not think that
ultimately effective I do not think that
ultimately effective I do not think that meditation causes you to lose your edge
meditation causes you to lose your edge
meditation causes you to lose your edge this was a concern of mine and I think
this was a concern of mine and I think
this was a concern of mine and I think it’s a concern of a lot of type-a driven
it’s a concern of a lot of type-a driven
it’s a concern of a lot of type-a driven people but even if it did cause you to
people but even if it did cause you to
people but even if it did cause you to lose saying 10% who cares ultimately
lose saying 10% who cares ultimately
lose saying 10% who cares ultimately you’re trying to succeed and make more
you’re trying to succeed and make more
you’re trying to succeed and make more money do all these things build a bigger
money do all these things build a bigger
money do all these things build a bigger business to improve the quality of life
business to improve the quality of life
business to improve the quality of life for yourself or others and you achieve
for yourself or others and you achieve
for yourself or others and you achieve that I think more directly in many cases
that I think more directly in many cases
that I think more directly in many cases by even if you had to take say a 10%
by even if you had to take say a 10%
by even if you had to take say a 10% haircut on your edge by improving your
haircut on your edge by improving your
haircut on your edge by improving your present state awareness and by much much
present state awareness and by much much
present state awareness and by much much more fifty two hundred percent so let’s
more fifty two hundred percent so let’s
more fifty two hundred percent so let’s jump into a couple of options right so
jump into a couple of options right so
jump into a couple of options right so if you’re not a dog because dogs are
if you’re not a dog because dogs are
if you’re not a dog because dogs are always present then you need some human
always present then you need some human
always present then you need some human tools one option and this is the way I
tools one option and this is the way I
tools one option and this is the way I started very early on meditating was
started very early on meditating was
started very early on meditating was listening to one song so find one song
listening to one song so find one song
listening to one song so find one song that puts you into a good mood and in
that puts you into a good mood and in
that puts you into a good mood and in the morning all you’re gonna do is sit
the morning all you’re gonna do is sit
the morning all you’re gonna do is sit comfortably so this could be sitting in
comfortably so this could be sitting in
comfortably so this could be sitting in a chair feet on the floor just like this
a chair feet on the floor just like this
a chair feet on the floor just like this hands in your lap you generally are
hands in your lap you generally are
hands in your lap you generally are gonna want some type of back support you
gonna want some type of back support you
gonna want some type of back support you do not need a dog chewing on a squeaky
do not need a dog chewing on a squeaky
do not need a dog chewing on a squeaky toy so I may intervene
toy so I may intervene
toy so I may intervene Molly come here I’ll grab that freak out
Molly come here I’ll grab that freak out
Molly come here I’ll grab that freak out or you can sit like this which is how I
or you can sit like this which is how I
or you can sit like this which is how I tend to sit when I meditate so this is
tend to sit when I meditate so this is
tend to sit when I meditate so this is not full Lotus this is half Lotus it’s
not full Lotus this is half Lotus it’s
not full Lotus this is half Lotus it’s not even half Lotus it’s really just one
not even half Lotus it’s really just one
not even half Lotus it’s really just one foot tucked into the crease of my calf
foot tucked into the crease of my calf
foot tucked into the crease of my calf and thigh and then I’m going to kind of
and thigh and then I’m going to kind of
and thigh and then I’m going to kind of pull the butt cheeks so that I have a
pull the butt cheeks so that I have a
pull the butt cheeks so that I have a nice little seat here back flat and then
nice little seat here back flat and then
nice little seat here back flat and then my hands are how they’re gonna be in my
my hands are how they’re gonna be in my
my hands are how they’re gonna be in my lap like so or I will actually post my
lap like so or I will actually post my
lap like so or I will actually post my hands on my thighs like this which can
hands on my thighs like this which can
hands on my thighs like this which can also help if you have a tendency of
also help if you have a tendency of
also help if you have a tendency of slouching to keep your back straight all
slouching to keep your back straight all
slouching to keep your back straight all right
right
right listen one song for me it was we’re
listen one song for me it was we’re
listen one song for me it was we’re gonna party like it’s 1999 Prince it’s
gonna party like it’s 1999 Prince it’s
gonna party like it’s 1999 Prince it’s hard to be stressed out worrying about
hard to be stressed out worrying about
hard to be stressed out worrying about things if you listen that song trust me
things if you listen that song trust me
things if you listen that song trust me you can pick whatever poison you like
you can pick whatever poison you like
you can pick whatever poison you like but this was shared with me by Kamal
but this was shared with me by Kamal
but this was shared with me by Kamal raava Khan and he suggested listen to
raava Khan and he suggested listen to
raava Khan and he suggested listen to one song doing nothing in particular
one song doing nothing in particular
one song doing nothing in particular other than listening to the song and
other than listening to the song and
other than listening to the song and breathing and that’s three to four
breathing and that’s three to four
breathing and that’s three to four minutes that’s it so you could try that
minutes that’s it so you could try that
minutes that’s it so you could try that in the morning so meditation has been a
in the morning so meditation has been a
in the morning so meditation has been a source of stress for me I believe
source of stress for me I believe
source of stress for me I believe meditation works I’ve never felt the
meditation works I’ve never felt the
meditation works I’ve never felt the benefit of it I think in general I’m not
benefit of it I think in general I’m not
benefit of it I think in general I’m not highly emotional in terms of making
highly emotional in terms of making
highly emotional in terms of making decisions and I don’t get caught up in
decisions and I don’t get caught up in
decisions and I don’t get caught up in the storm that often so maybe that’s not
the storm that often so maybe that’s not
the storm that often so maybe that’s not then maybe that’s why I’m not a huge
then maybe that’s why I’m not a huge
then maybe that’s why I’m not a huge practitioner or maybe it’s just an
practitioner or maybe it’s just an
practitioner or maybe it’s just an excuse so I’m telling myself I don’t
excuse so I’m telling myself I don’t
excuse so I’m telling myself I don’t believe that it takes off your edge and
believe that it takes off your edge and
believe that it takes off your edge and I believe the science where you see you
I believe the science where you see you
I believe the science where you see you know people’s brain activity and I
know people’s brain activity and I
know people’s brain activity and I believe that it can make a big
believe that it can make a big
believe that it can make a big difference and I’ve I’ve tried multiple
difference and I’ve I’ve tried multiple
difference and I’ve I’ve tried multiple versions to try to get it to work and
versions to try to get it to work and
versions to try to get it to work and including headspace and haven’t found
including headspace and haven’t found
including headspace and haven’t found the thing I’m encouraged by the fact
the thing I’m encouraged by the fact
the thing I’m encouraged by the fact that Tim went from absolutely hating it
that Tim went from absolutely hating it
that Tim went from absolutely hating it to being a regular practitioner I am
to being a regular practitioner I am
to being a regular practitioner I am looking for the right resource to help
looking for the right resource to help
looking for the right resource to help me finally be able to feel the benefits
me finally be able to feel the benefits
me finally be able to feel the benefits I’ll look into more what Tim is doing if
I’ll look into more what Tim is doing if
I’ll look into more what Tim is doing if you guys have suggestions I would love
you guys have suggestions I would love
you guys have suggestions I would love to know it because that’s one of those
to know it because that’s one of those
to know it because that’s one of those things that keeps coming up over and
things that keeps coming up over and
things that keeps coming up over and over and over again highly successful
over and over again highly successful
over and over again highly successful people are very often meditating and I
people are very often meditating and I
people are very often meditating and I can’t get it working for
can’t get it working for
can’t get it working for me so I’d love I love some help believe
me so I’d love I love some help believe
me so I’d love I love some help believe nation so that’s my take on Tim Ferriss
nation so that’s my take on Tim Ferriss
nation so that’s my take on Tim Ferriss his top ten rules to success vol 3 my
his top ten rules to success vol 3 my
his top ten rules to success vol 3 my favorite rule that’s a tough one so many
favorite rule that’s a tough one so many
favorite rule that’s a tough one so many great ones on here I would probably go
great ones on here I would probably go
great ones on here I would probably go with number one though rule number one
with number one though rule number one
with number one though rule number one outwork everyone not because it was
outwork everyone not because it was
outwork everyone not because it was super insightful to me more because of
super insightful to me more because of
super insightful to me more because of how many people looked at him and see
how many people looked at him and see
how many people looked at him and see hey I just want to work four hours a
hey I just want to work four hours a
hey I just want to work four hours a week and they miss they missed the fact
week and they miss they missed the fact
week and they miss they missed the fact that the guy is hustling his face off
that the guy is hustling his face off
that the guy is hustling his face off like he is working extremely hard to get
like he is working extremely hard to get
like he is working extremely hard to get his goals accomplished and it’s not just
his goals accomplished and it’s not just
his goals accomplished and it’s not just about living a 4-hour week you can’t you
about living a 4-hour week you can’t you
about living a 4-hour week you can’t you can’t accomplish big things in your life
can’t accomplish big things in your life
can’t accomplish big things in your life and have a huge impact that you can have
and have a huge impact that you can have
and have a huge impact that you can have if you’re only working four hours a week
if you’re only working four hours a week
if you’re only working four hours a week so that’s my favorite rule I’d love to
so that’s my favorite rule I’d love to
so that’s my favorite rule I’d love to know from you guys is rule number one
know from you guys is rule number one
know from you guys is rule number one your favorite or is there one that is
your favorite or is there one that is
your favorite or is there one that is better for you leaving the comments
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now I made this video because Chris
now I made this video because Chris seven eight to zero
seven eight to zero
seven eight to zero asked me to if there’s somebody like me
asked me to if there’s somebody like me
asked me to if there’s somebody like me to profile and a future top ten video
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finally I want to give a quick shout-out
finally I want to give a quick shout-out to joe cosgrove jr. joe thank you so
to joe cosgrove jr. joe thank you so
to joe cosgrove jr. joe thank you so much man for picking up a copy of my new
much man for picking up a copy of my new
much man for picking up a copy of my new book the top ten rose a success and
book the top ten rose a success and
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Thank You Man for the support and I hope you enjoyed the read so thank you guys
you enjoyed the read so thank you guys
you enjoyed the read so thank you guys again for watching I believe in you I
again for watching I believe in you I
again for watching I believe in you I hope you continue to believe in yourself
hope you continue to believe in yourself
hope you continue to believe in yourself and whatever your one where it is let’s
and whatever your one where it is let’s
and whatever your one where it is let’s love I’ll see you soon
I’ve spent a lot of my life really angry
I’ve spent a lot of my life really angry and using rage and anger a lot of it
and using rage and anger a lot of it
and using rage and anger a lot of it directed at myself as a fuel for
directed at myself as a fuel for
directed at myself as a fuel for becoming a competitor because the only
becoming a competitor because the only
becoming a competitor because the only wealth the only way that I felt
wealth the only way that I felt
wealth the only way that I felt validated or valuable was to win period
validated or valuable was to win period
validated or valuable was to win period that’s it I was an instrument for
that’s it I was an instrument for
that’s it I was an instrument for winning and competing and I only felt
winning and competing and I only felt
winning and competing and I only felt good in in relationship to other people
good in in relationship to other people
good in in relationship to other people by somehow being able to tolerate more
by somehow being able to tolerate more
by somehow being able to tolerate more pain work harder to be number one and it
pain work harder to be number one and it
pain work harder to be number one and it was more a relief of not feeling
was more a relief of not feeling
was more a relief of not feeling terrible about myself for a fraction of
terrible about myself for a fraction of
terrible about myself for a fraction of a day then it was the joy of winning if
a day then it was the joy of winning if
a day then it was the joy of winning if that makes sense it totally and so for
that makes sense it totally and so for
that makes sense it totally and so for my whole life I’ve been so completely
my whole life I’ve been so completely
my whole life I’ve been so completely brutal to myself and I’ve realized
brutal to myself and I’ve realized
brutal to myself and I’ve realized through a number of different means you
through a number of different means you
through a number of different means you know one of which anybody can pick up
know one of which anybody can pick up
know one of which anybody can pick up which is actually a book called radical
which is actually a book called radical
which is actually a book called radical acceptance by Tara brach which terrible
acceptance by Tara brach which terrible
acceptance by Tara brach which terrible terrible title love Tara brach but very
terrible title love Tara brach but very
terrible title love Tara brach but very very helpful introduction to thinking
very helpful introduction to thinking
very helpful introduction to thinking about the potential idea that if you
about the potential idea that if you
about the potential idea that if you want to really help people or you want
want to really help people or you want
want to really help people or you want to really love people you can’t do it if
to really love people you can’t do it if
to really love people you can’t do it if you have if you hate yourself you just
you have if you hate yourself you just
you have if you hate yourself you just cannot fully do it you cannot I don’t
cannot fully do it you cannot I don’t
cannot fully do it you cannot I don’t think it’s possible so the last few
think it’s possible so the last few
think it’s possible so the last few years have been and especially the last
years have been and especially the last
years have been and especially the last one or two years a process of asking
one or two years a process of asking
one or two years a process of asking different questions and one of the
different questions and one of the
different questions and one of the questions there are many different
questions there are many different
questions there are many different questions but one of the most important
questions but one of the most important
questions but one of the most important which which is right up front in this
which which is right up front in this
which which is right up front in this book and the reason the book kind of
book and the reason the book kind of
book and the reason the book kind of exists in a way is what what might this
exists in a way is what what might this
exists in a way is what what might this look like if it were easy things are
look like if it were easy things are
look like if it were easy things are hard enough or they can be and there’s
hard enough or they can be and there’s
hard enough or they can be and there’s so much uncertainty in the world that
so much uncertainty in the world that
so much uncertainty in the world that for type-a personalities or people
for type-a personalities or people
for type-a personalities or people who’ve been wounded and have become very
who’ve been wounded and have become very
who’ve been wounded and have become very highly competitive as a result are
highly competitive as a result are
highly competitive as a result are highly driven I’m hardly driven yeah
highly driven I’m hardly driven yeah
highly driven I’m hardly driven yeah right and
right and
right and Riven we usually use as a very
Riven we usually use as a very
Riven we usually use as a very complementary descriptor but you know
complementary descriptor but you know
complementary descriptor but you know horse that’s being whipped to run faster
horse that’s being whipped to run faster
horse that’s being whipped to run faster until it dies on the track is also being
until it dies on the track is also being
until it dies on the track is also being driven yes and that’s not always a good
driven yes and that’s not always a good
driven yes and that’s not always a good thing and very often a bad thing
thing and very often a bad thing
thing and very often a bad thing that question what might this look like
that question what might this look like
that question what might this look like if it were easy is a really deceptively
if it were easy is a really deceptively
if it were easy is a really deceptively leveraged question because you start to
leveraged question because you start to
leveraged question because you start to look for elegance and ease instead of
look for elegance and ease instead of
look for elegance and ease instead of the path of complexity that allows you
the path of complexity that allows you
the path of complexity that allows you to absorb and tolerate the most pain
to absorb and tolerate the most pain
to absorb and tolerate the most pain which some people myself included for a
which some people myself included for a
which some people myself included for a long time
long time
long time viewed as an indicator of doing the
viewed as an indicator of doing the
viewed as an indicator of doing the right thing or and sometimes for me of
right thing or and sometimes for me of
right thing or and sometimes for me of strength yeah yeah it’s like oh yeah no
strength yeah yeah it’s like oh yeah no
strength yeah yeah it’s like oh yeah no I can read line for longer than all of
I can read line for longer than all of
I can read line for longer than all of you
you
you yep it’s like wait a second yeah wait
yep it’s like wait a second yeah wait
yep it’s like wait a second yeah wait what do we talk yes
what do we talk yes
what do we talk yes and this is good yeah this thing like
and this is good yeah this thing like
and this is good yeah this thing like and there don’t get me wrong there there
and there don’t get me wrong there there
and there don’t get me wrong there there is strength and there are advantages to
is strength and there are advantages to
is strength and there are advantages to having endurance but only when you’re
having endurance but only when you’re
having endurance but only when you’re enduring things that are worth enduring
enduring things that are worth enduring
enduring things that are worth enduring mm-hmm as opposed to just making your
mm-hmm as opposed to just making your
mm-hmm as opposed to just making your life painful so long answer long
life painful so long answer long
life painful so long answer long monologue but I do think it’s very
monologue but I do think it’s very
monologue but I do think it’s very important to talk about the darkness and
important to talk about the darkness and
important to talk about the darkness and the failures and the hard times and when
the failures and the hard times and when
the failures and the hard times and when I interview people I always try to bring
I interview people I always try to bring
I interview people I always try to bring that out because it’s so easy like you
that out because it’s so easy like you
that out because it’s so easy like you said to listen to an interview or to see
said to listen to an interview or to see
said to listen to an interview or to see someone on the cover of a magazine and
someone on the cover of a magazine and
someone on the cover of a magazine and think to yourself wow I really wish I
think to yourself wow I really wish I
think to yourself wow I really wish I could do something like that but I’m me
could do something like that but I’m me
could do something like that but I’m me and they’re them and they’ve got to
and they’re them and they’ve got to
and they’re them and they’ve got to figure it out
figure it out
figure it out yeah and they always wake up at 6:00 in
yeah and they always wake up at 6:00 in
yeah and they always wake up at 6:00 in the morning with like a mental karate
the morning with like a mental karate
the morning with like a mental karate chop to conquer the day with no
chop to conquer the day with no
chop to conquer the day with no insecurities and that’s just
insecurities and that’s just
insecurities and that’s just it’s not true and I can tell you with
it’s not true and I can tell you with
it’s not true and I can tell you with first-hand knowledge knowing some of the
first-hand knowledge knowing some of the
first-hand knowledge knowing some of the most impressive people I’ve ever come
most impressive people I’ve ever come
most impressive people I’ve ever come across in the world who’ve become my
across in the world who’ve become my
across in the world who’ve become my friends we all have our demons so I want
friends we all have our demons so I want
friends we all have our demons so I want I make a real conscious effort to talk
I make a real conscious effort to talk
I make a real conscious effort to talk about those so that people can try to
about those so that people can try to
about those so that people can try to create a safety net against
create a safety net against
create a safety net against self-destruction and certainly at least
self-destruction and certainly at least
self-destruction and certainly at least self-flagellation
self-flagellation
self-flagellation and berating raise your standard Apple
and berating raise your standard Apple
and berating raise your standard Apple at the core its core value is that
at the core its core value is that
at the core its core value is that people passion and not one drop of most
people passion and not one drop of most
people passion and not one drop of most self-worth depends on Europe it’s
self-worth depends on Europe it’s
self-worth depends on Europe it’s supposed to mean I don’t ever give up
supposed to mean I don’t ever give up
supposed to mean I don’t ever give up I’d have to be dead or completely
I’d have to be dead or completely
I’d have to be dead or completely incapacitated hey believe nation if you
incapacitated hey believe nation if you
incapacitated hey believe nation if you want to see my all-time favorite top ten
want to see my all-time favorite top ten
want to see my all-time favorite top ten most a success I have a very special
most a success I have a very special
most a success I have a very special secret video for you these are the
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