should people make news resolutions people should make new year’s
people should make new year’s
people should make new year’s resolutions if they’re actually watching
resolutions if they’re actually watching
resolutions if they’re actually watching this video on January 1st if they’re
this video on January 1st if they’re
this video on January 1st if they’re watching it on December 23rd
watching it on December 23rd
watching it on December 23rd they should make December 23rd
they should make December 23rd
they should make December 23rd resolutions waiting miraculously to win
resolutions waiting miraculously to win
resolutions waiting miraculously to win the calendar flips to start making your
the calendar flips to start making your
the calendar flips to start making your life better is silly at best and pisses
life better is silly at best and pisses
life better is silly at best and pisses me off at worst and so whenever you’re
me off at worst and so whenever you’re
me off at worst and so whenever you’re watching this because it lives on the
watching this because it lives on the
watching this because it lives on the internet and thus that means you could
internet and thus that means you could
internet and thus that means you could watch this on June 17th make a
watch this on June 17th make a
watch this on June 17th make a resolution every day of your life
resolution every day of your life
resolution every day of your life because you only get one at-bat the
because you only get one at-bat the
because you only get one at-bat the reason people struggle with having a new
reason people struggle with having a new
reason people struggle with having a new year’s resolution and sticking to it is
year’s resolution and sticking to it is
year’s resolution and sticking to it is because it was a tactic to do a new
because it was a tactic to do a new
because it was a tactic to do a new year’s resolution hence why my first
year’s resolution hence why my first
year’s resolution hence why my first answer was right which is when you
answer was right which is when you
answer was right which is when you actually decide to make a change in your
actually decide to make a change in your
actually decide to make a change in your life whether about weight or job or
life whether about weight or job or
life whether about weight or job or going out with somebody or relationships
going out with somebody or relationships
going out with somebody or relationships that’s when you actually pull it off
that’s when you actually pull it off
that’s when you actually pull it off it’s religion not tactics
it’s religion not tactics
it’s religion not tactics [Music]
statistics show that 95% of the people
statistics show that 95% of the people that actually made a new year’s
that actually made a new year’s
that actually made a new year’s resolution have already broken it by
resolution have already broken it by
resolution have already broken it by today and that’s if you even made a
today and that’s if you even made a
today and that’s if you even made a resolution I mean think about it most
resolution I mean think about it most
resolution I mean think about it most people don’t even make a resolution
people don’t even make a resolution
people don’t even make a resolution anymore why because they’ve made them
anymore why because they’ve made them
anymore why because they’ve made them from years and years and years and they
from years and years and years and they
from years and years and years and they know they’re not gonna follow through so
know they’re not gonna follow through so
know they’re not gonna follow through so after a while who wants to disappoint
after a while who wants to disappoint
after a while who wants to disappoint yourself who wants to be upset with
yourself who wants to be upset with
yourself who wants to be upset with yourself why even bother to set a new
yourself why even bother to set a new
yourself why even bother to set a new standard for this year you know it’s
standard for this year you know it’s
standard for this year you know it’s gonna be the same as last year so the
gonna be the same as last year so the
gonna be the same as last year so the question is you know what is it that
question is you know what is it that
question is you know what is it that makes us even want to make a resolution
makes us even want to make a resolution
makes us even want to make a resolution misting question why is it at the
misting question why is it at the
misting question why is it at the beginning of the year we have this
beginning of the year we have this
beginning of the year we have this tradition but it goes beyond tradition
tradition but it goes beyond tradition
tradition but it goes beyond tradition it’s something inside of us that makes
it’s something inside of us that makes
it’s something inside of us that makes us want to make things better and I
us want to make things better and I
us want to make things better and I think part of it is the calendar gives
think part of it is the calendar gives
think part of it is the calendar gives us this idea that we can have a fresh
us this idea that we can have a fresh
us this idea that we can have a fresh start that we can start from fresh and
start that we can start from fresh and
start that we can start from fresh and have this great victory let’s use the
have this great victory let’s use the
have this great victory let’s use the calendar to serve you today let’s just
calendar to serve you today let’s just
calendar to serve you today let’s just see what does it really take to make
see what does it really take to make
see what does it really take to make this thing happen because there’s no
this thing happen because there’s no
this thing happen because there’s no denying that inside of you the only
denying that inside of you the only
denying that inside of you the only thing that’s gonna make you happy and
thing that’s gonna make you happy and
thing that’s gonna make you happy and the your head and the decades ahead it’s
the your head and the decades ahead it’s
the your head and the decades ahead it’s gonna be having you have an experience
gonna be having you have an experience
gonna be having you have an experience where on a regular basis you feel like
where on a regular basis you feel like
where on a regular basis you feel like your life is making progress so the
your life is making progress so the
your life is making progress so the secret to real happiness is progress
secret to real happiness is progress
secret to real happiness is progress progress equals happiness and if we can
progress equals happiness and if we can
progress equals happiness and if we can make progress on a regular basis we feel
make progress on a regular basis we feel
make progress on a regular basis we feel alive and that’s why at the beginning of
alive and that’s why at the beginning of
alive and that’s why at the beginning of the year we get this thing like okay I
the year we get this thing like okay I
the year we get this thing like okay I can have this fresh start I could really
can have this fresh start I could really
can have this fresh start I could really do what my soul desires I could expand I
do what my soul desires I could expand I
do what my soul desires I could expand I could grow I can improve I could change
could grow I can improve I could change
could grow I can improve I could change or maybe better than change I could
or maybe better than change I could
or maybe better than change I could progress so if you want to make real
progress so if you want to make real
progress so if you want to make real progress then you really got to look at
progress then you really got to look at
progress then you really got to look at your life in a different way you gotta
your life in a different way you gotta
your life in a different way you gotta say I gotta take control of this process
say I gotta take control of this process
say I gotta take control of this process and not just hope that’s gonna work out
and not just hope that’s gonna work out
and not just hope that’s gonna work out like people do who make a resolution cuz
like people do who make a resolution cuz
like people do who make a resolution cuz really isn’t that what they’re really
really isn’t that what they’re really
really isn’t that what they’re really doing at the beginning of the year
doing at the beginning of the year
doing at the beginning of the year they’re saying well here’s my
they’re saying well here’s my
they’re saying well here’s my resolutions for the year and they really
resolutions for the year and they really
resolutions for the year and they really basically tell you their wishes it’s
basically tell you their wishes it’s
basically tell you their wishes it’s their wish list it’s what they hope it
their wish list it’s what they hope it
their wish list it’s what they hope it all comes together and then they call it
all comes together and then they call it
all comes together and then they call it a resolution but they don’t know what a
a resolution but they don’t know what a
a resolution but they don’t know what a resolution is
resolution is
resolution is when you resolve something to have a
when you resolve something to have a
when you resolve something to have a resolution is to resolve it when you’ve
resolution is to resolve it when you’ve
resolution is to resolve it when you’ve resolved this is how it’s gonna be
resolved this is how it’s gonna be
resolved this is how it’s gonna be that’s when you cut off any possibility
that’s when you cut off any possibility
that’s when you cut off any possibility except the thing you’ve committed to
except the thing you’ve committed to
except the thing you’ve committed to make a resolution every day of your life
make a resolution every day of your life
make a resolution every day of your life because you only get one app back
because you only get one app back
because you only get one app back [Music]
[Music]
[Music] most people they’re stating what they
most people they’re stating what they
most people they’re stating what they hope will come together and if it
hope will come together and if it
hope will come together and if it doesn’t happen then they’re disappointed
doesn’t happen then they’re disappointed
doesn’t happen then they’re disappointed but they’re not too disappointed cuz
but they’re not too disappointed cuz
but they’re not too disappointed cuz they’re not too vested what does it take
they’re not too vested what does it take
they’re not too vested what does it take to successfully create a lasting change
to successfully create a lasting change
to successfully create a lasting change in your life to not only have a new
in your life to not only have a new
in your life to not only have a new year’s resolution you follow through on
year’s resolution you follow through on
year’s resolution you follow through on but really have a lasting change well
but really have a lasting change well
but really have a lasting change well the first step for lasting change is
the first step for lasting change is
the first step for lasting change is very much like making a new year’s
very much like making a new year’s
very much like making a new year’s resolution fundamentally it’s the same
resolution fundamentally it’s the same
resolution fundamentally it’s the same the first step is you got to have a
the first step is you got to have a
the first step is you got to have a vision a vision for what it is you
vision a vision for what it is you
vision a vision for what it is you really truly want
really truly want
really truly want I mean what are most people’s new year’s
I mean what are most people’s new year’s
I mean what are most people’s new year’s resolutions I’m gonna stop eating sugar
resolutions I’m gonna stop eating sugar
resolutions I’m gonna stop eating sugar you know I’m gonna stop smoking I’m
you know I’m gonna stop smoking I’m
you know I’m gonna stop smoking I’m gonna lose 10 pounds table that is it’s
gonna lose 10 pounds table that is it’s
gonna lose 10 pounds table that is it’s not very inspiring for most people you
not very inspiring for most people you
not very inspiring for most people you know it’s not telling you what you’re
know it’s not telling you what you’re
know it’s not telling you what you’re gonna get it’s only what you’re not
gonna get it’s only what you’re not
gonna get it’s only what you’re not gonna do and it’s kind of hard to have
gonna do and it’s kind of hard to have
gonna do and it’s kind of hard to have you move forward with that a vision is
you move forward with that a vision is
you move forward with that a vision is about what you’re here to create a
about what you’re here to create a
about what you’re here to create a vision that really works is one that
vision that really works is one that
vision that really works is one that excites you if you say well mine you
excites you if you say well mine you
excites you if you say well mine you know my resolution my goal my outcome
know my resolution my goal my outcome
know my resolution my goal my outcome for this month this week this year is to
for this month this week this year is to
for this month this week this year is to lose X number of pounds that’s okay but
lose X number of pounds that’s okay but
lose X number of pounds that’s okay but it’s not very compelling it has to be a
it’s not very compelling it has to be a
it’s not very compelling it has to be a compelling vision it’s gotta have
compelling vision it’s gotta have
compelling vision it’s gotta have something as the power to pull you not
something as the power to pull you not
something as the power to pull you not something you have to push yourself to
something you have to push yourself to
something you have to push yourself to do those are two different kinds of
do those are two different kinds of
do those are two different kinds of motivation push requires willpower and
motivation push requires willpower and
motivation push requires willpower and willpower never last what will last is
willpower never last what will last is
willpower never last what will last is pulled having something so exciting so
pulled having something so exciting so
pulled having something so exciting so attractive so some of you desire so much
attractive so some of you desire so much
attractive so some of you desire so much that you have a hard time going to sleep
that you have a hard time going to sleep
that you have a hard time going to sleep at night and get so up early in the
at night and get so up early in the
at night and get so up early in the morning to rock it and take it to the
morning to rock it and take it to the
morning to rock it and take it to the next level that’s what you’re looking at
next level that’s what you’re looking at
next level that’s what you’re looking at grey and that wasn’t easy to get
and the bottom line of our
and the bottom line of our follow-through comes down to our
follow-through comes down to our
follow-through comes down to our emotional intensity you gotta have
emotional intensity you gotta have
emotional intensity you gotta have strong enough reasons that you’re gonna
strong enough reasons that you’re gonna
strong enough reasons that you’re gonna follow through when the going gets tough
follow through when the going gets tough
follow through when the going gets tough they don’t have strong enough reasons to
they don’t have strong enough reasons to
they don’t have strong enough reasons to push themselves through what’s gonna be
push themselves through what’s gonna be
push themselves through what’s gonna be necessary to get that dream to get that
necessary to get that dream to get that
necessary to get that dream to get that goal when the inevitable challenges come
goal when the inevitable challenges come
goal when the inevitable challenges come up when you’re starving hungry and
up when you’re starving hungry and
up when you’re starving hungry and you’re trying to go on a diet right when
you’re trying to go on a diet right when
you’re trying to go on a diet right when you got no time you’re stressed out you
you got no time you’re stressed out you
you got no time you’re stressed out you haven’t worked out still that’s what
haven’t worked out still that’s what
haven’t worked out still that’s what you’re supposed to do when the economy
you’re supposed to do when the economy
you’re supposed to do when the economy gets tight and what you thought you’re
gets tight and what you thought you’re
gets tight and what you thought you’re gonna do doesn’t work and so you give up
gonna do doesn’t work and so you give up
gonna do doesn’t work and so you give up on the goal instead of finding another
on the goal instead of finding another
on the goal instead of finding another way to get there you don’t let the fear
way to get there you don’t let the fear
way to get there you don’t let the fear take you over if you’ve got strong
take you over if you’ve got strong
take you over if you’ve got strong enough reasons reasons come first
enough reasons reasons come first
enough reasons reasons come first answers come second if you’ve got a
answers come second if you’ve got a
answers come second if you’ve got a compelling vision and you’ve got strong
compelling vision and you’ve got strong
compelling vision and you’ve got strong enough reasons that will push you
enough reasons that will push you
enough reasons that will push you through the tough times you’re gonna do
through the tough times you’re gonna do
through the tough times you’re gonna do things other people don’t do instead of
things other people don’t do instead of
things other people don’t do instead of collapsing even if you get off target
collapsing even if you get off target
collapsing even if you get off target you won’t go I blew it you’ll get right
you won’t go I blew it you’ll get right
you won’t go I blew it you’ll get right back on target make the change make
back on target make the change make
back on target make the change make things happen if we do our best when our
things happen if we do our best when our
things happen if we do our best when our destinations are beyond the measurement
destinations are beyond the measurement
destinations are beyond the measurement when our reach continually exceeds our
when our reach continually exceeds our
when our reach continually exceeds our grasp and when we have a more Toole
grasp and when we have a more Toole
grasp and when we have a more Toole finish lines now when we do this the
finish lines now when we do this the
finish lines now when we do this the race is never over
race is never over
race is never over journey has no port the adventure never
journey has no port the adventure never
journey has no port the adventure never ends because we are always on the way so
ends because we are always on the way so
ends because we are always on the way so do this do this and let them let
do this do this and let them let
do this do this and let them let somebody else come up and tap you on the
somebody else come up and tap you on the
somebody else come up and tap you on the shoulder and say hey you score it let
shoulder and say hey you score it let
shoulder and say hey you score it let them run up and tap you on the show and
them run up and tap you on the show and
them run up and tap you on the show and say Minnie you want
say Minnie you want
say Minnie you want let them come tell you you go home now
let them come tell you you go home now
let them come tell you you go home now let them say I love you too let them say
let them say I love you too let them say
let them say I love you too let them say thank you take the lid off the man-made
thank you take the lid off the man-made
thank you take the lid off the man-made roofs that we put above ourselves and
roofs that we put above ourselves and
roofs that we put above ourselves and always play like an underdog
always play like an underdog
always play like an underdog [Music]
when you really get clear and it’s
when you really get clear and it’s compelling and you’re reviewing it every
compelling and you’re reviewing it every
compelling and you’re reviewing it every day got strong reasons you’re viewing it
day got strong reasons you’re viewing it
day got strong reasons you’re viewing it every day and you’re feeling it the
every day and you’re feeling it the
every day and you’re feeling it the brain becomes incredibly acute at
brain becomes incredibly acute at
brain becomes incredibly acute at noticing anything to get you to move
noticing anything to get you to move
noticing anything to get you to move forward you know what do people do with
forward you know what do people do with
forward you know what do people do with New Year’s resolution they come up with
New Year’s resolution they come up with
New Year’s resolution they come up with something they kind of want it’s not a
something they kind of want it’s not a
something they kind of want it’s not a compelling vision they don’t really have
compelling vision they don’t really have
compelling vision they don’t really have strong enough reasons and they never
strong enough reasons and they never
strong enough reasons and they never review it again until to notice that
review it again until to notice that
review it again until to notice that they broke what they said they really
they broke what they said they really
they broke what they said they really want to have make happen because they
want to have make happen because they
want to have make happen because they didn’t really resolve if you resolve you
didn’t really resolve if you resolve you
didn’t really resolve if you resolve you got the vision it’s compelling you
got the vision it’s compelling you
got the vision it’s compelling you review it daily and you feel it you
review it daily and you feel it you
review it daily and you feel it you envision it and you experience it simple
envision it and you experience it simple
envision it and you experience it simple as it sounds now ultimately what is this
as it sounds now ultimately what is this
as it sounds now ultimately what is this really about ultimately if you’re gonna
really about ultimately if you’re gonna
really about ultimately if you’re gonna have lasting change in anything you’re
have lasting change in anything you’re
have lasting change in anything you’re really talking about just raising your
really talking about just raising your
really talking about just raising your standards raise your standards what does
standards raise your standards what does
standards raise your standards what does that mean corny as it sounds raise your
that mean corny as it sounds raise your
that mean corny as it sounds raise your standards I’ll thank you for the
standards I’ll thank you for the
standards I’ll thank you for the breakthrough thought Tony lasting change
breakthrough thought Tony lasting change
breakthrough thought Tony lasting change is different than a goal you don’t
is different than a goal you don’t
is different than a goal you don’t always get your goals but you always get
always get your goals but you always get
always get your goals but you always get your standards but when you decide
your standards but when you decide
your standards but when you decide something as a must for you and an
something as a must for you and an
something as a must for you and an absolute must when you cut up any
absolute must when you cut up any
absolute must when you cut up any possible you say I’m gonna find the way
possible you say I’m gonna find the way
possible you say I’m gonna find the way I’m gonna make the way human beings when
I’m gonna make the way human beings when
I’m gonna make the way human beings when they resolve things and they have make a
they resolve things and they have make a
they resolve things and they have make a real resolution inside themselves which
real resolution inside themselves which
real resolution inside themselves which is they raise the standard they make it
is they raise the standard they make it
is they raise the standard they make it a must they find the way
if you say said to me well I’m really
if you say said to me well I’m really gonna work hard to stop smoking but you
gonna work hard to stop smoking but you
gonna work hard to stop smoking but you know I’ve been a smoker my whole life
know I’ve been a smoker my whole life
know I’ve been a smoker my whole life and I’m you know I am a smoker I know
and I’m you know I am a smoker I know
and I’m you know I am a smoker I know your days are numbered you’re gonna be
your days are numbered you’re gonna be
your days are numbered you’re gonna be back smoking cigarettes again because we
back smoking cigarettes again because we
back smoking cigarettes again because we all act consistent with who we believe
all act consistent with who we believe
all act consistent with who we believe we are
we are
we are I tell people the strongest force in the
I tell people the strongest force in the
I tell people the strongest force in the whole human personality is this need to
whole human personality is this need to
whole human personality is this need to stay consistent with how we define
stay consistent with how we define
stay consistent with how we define ourselves
ourselves
ourselves if you define yourself as somebody who
if you define yourself as somebody who
if you define yourself as somebody who is really conservative you’re not gonna
is really conservative you’re not gonna
is really conservative you’re not gonna be crazy and act nuts unless you’re
be crazy and act nuts unless you’re
be crazy and act nuts unless you’re really drunk or something and then you
really drunk or something and then you
really drunk or something and then you can say it’s the alcohol when it really
can say it’s the alcohol when it really
can say it’s the alcohol when it really does you finally getting permission to
does you finally getting permission to
does you finally getting permission to be yourself the alcohol is your excuse
be yourself the alcohol is your excuse
be yourself the alcohol is your excuse if you’re a really crazy person you act
if you’re a really crazy person you act
if you’re a really crazy person you act crazy outrageous playful you don’t have
crazy outrageous playful you don’t have
crazy outrageous playful you don’t have conservative because that’s not who you
conservative because that’s not who you
conservative because that’s not who you are
are
are very often people say well I can’t do
very often people say well I can’t do
very often people say well I can’t do that I’m not that kind of person and I
that I’m not that kind of person and I
that I’m not that kind of person and I always say to people really when did you
always say to people really when did you
always say to people really when did you define yourself I mean very often we
define yourself I mean very often we
define yourself I mean very often we made decisions in our youth or very
made decisions in our youth or very
made decisions in our youth or very young about what to believe about what
young about what to believe about what
young about what to believe about what we were capable of about who we are as a
we were capable of about who we are as a
we were capable of about who we are as a person and that becomes the glass
person and that becomes the glass
person and that becomes the glass ceiling if you will that controls us
ceiling if you will that controls us
ceiling if you will that controls us willpower doesn’t last
willpower doesn’t last
willpower doesn’t last but rituals can last a lifetime I bet
but rituals can last a lifetime I bet
but rituals can last a lifetime I bet you have some rituals in your life right
you have some rituals in your life right
you have some rituals in your life right now you’ve been doing for years even
now you’ve been doing for years even
now you’ve been doing for years even though some of them don’t serve you I’m
though some of them don’t serve you I’m
though some of them don’t serve you I’m just saying wake yourself up make if you
just saying wake yourself up make if you
just saying wake yourself up make if you want a new year and a new life you don’t
want a new year and a new life you don’t
want a new year and a new life you don’t need to start in January first start
need to start in January first start
need to start in January first start today start with this little video
then how’s your new your coming out so
then how’s your new your coming out so far when did you define yourself I mean
far when did you define yourself I mean
far when did you define yourself I mean really how many years ago did you come
really how many years ago did you come
really how many years ago did you come up with what you could and couldn’t do
up with what you could and couldn’t do
up with what you could and couldn’t do in your life how many years ago most
in your life how many years ago most
in your life how many years ago most people if they really look at how
people if they really look at how
people if they really look at how they’re living their life today it’s
they’re living their life today it’s
they’re living their life today it’s based on a set of standards a set of
based on a set of standards a set of
based on a set of standards a set of beliefs that they made choices about 10
beliefs that they made choices about 10
beliefs that they made choices about 10 20 30 or more years ago
20 30 or more years ago
20 30 or more years ago [Music]
this is it
this is it there you’ve been waiting for
I know you’re nervous it’s all mine my
I know you’re nervous it’s all mine my first game too now it’s time to go out
first game too now it’s time to go out
first game too now it’s time to go out there and put it on the scoreboard now
there and put it on the scoreboard now
there and put it on the scoreboard now it’s time to see who has a heart now is
it’s time to see who has a heart now is
it’s time to see who has a heart now is the time to prove to yourselves and
the time to prove to yourselves and
the time to prove to yourselves and prove to everyone out there that even
prove to everyone out there that even
prove to everyone out there that even though you’re locked up with somebody
though you’re locked up with somebody
though you’re locked up with somebody you are worthy of something and you’re
you are worthy of something and you’re
you are worthy of something and you’re able to do something special that no one
able to do something special that no one
able to do something special that no one else in the world can do I need to go
else in the world can do I need to go
else in the world can do I need to go out there and take what’s yours what
out there and take what’s yours what
out there and take what’s yours what you’ve worked hard for but one thing
you’ve worked hard for but one thing
you’ve worked hard for but one thing that a lot of people don’t know that I
that a lot of people don’t know that I
that a lot of people don’t know that I want to share with you guys is when I
want to share with you guys is when I
want to share with you guys is when I was 22 years old I came to this city for
was 22 years old I came to this city for
was 22 years old I came to this city for the first time I was playing in the
the first time I was playing in the
the first time I was playing in the Canadian Football League
Canadian Football League
Canadian Football League playing my first pro football game I was
playing my first pro football game I was
playing my first pro football game I was playing for the Calgary Stampeders we
playing for the Calgary Stampeders we
playing for the Calgary Stampeders we were playing the BC Lions I was so
were playing the BC Lions I was so
were playing the BC Lions I was so excited
excited
excited two days later I got cut dreams
two days later I got cut dreams
two days later I got cut dreams shattered sent home with seven bucks in
shattered sent home with seven bucks in
shattered sent home with seven bucks in my pocket I was like wait no I gotta
my pocket I was like wait no I gotta
my pocket I was like wait no I gotta play in the NFL eventually those are my
play in the NFL eventually those are my
play in the NFL eventually those are my big goals that’s my dream you realize
big goals that’s my dream you realize
big goals that’s my dream you realize that that playing in the NFL was the
that that playing in the NFL was the
that that playing in the NFL was the best thing that never happened because
best thing that never happened because
best thing that never happened because it got me here so my point is look
it got me here so my point is look
it got me here so my point is look you’re gonna get your ass kicked we’re
you’re gonna get your ass kicked we’re
you’re gonna get your ass kicked we’re gonna get this kicked out of us you got
gonna get this kicked out of us you got
gonna get this kicked out of us you got to get up you got to have faith that the
to get up you got to have faith that the
to get up you got to have faith that the one thing you want it to happen
one thing you want it to happen
one thing you want it to happen oftentimes is the best thing that never
oftentimes is the best thing that never
oftentimes is the best thing that never so have faith just keep that in mind and
so have faith just keep that in mind and
so have faith just keep that in mind and keep plugging away
can’t play football forever I played for
can’t play football forever I played for ten years you can’t be in the ring
ten years you can’t be in the ring
ten years you can’t be in the ring forever you can’t be in the Octagon
forever you can’t be in the Octagon
forever you can’t be in the Octagon forever you can’t be the boxing ring
forever you can’t be the boxing ring
forever you can’t be the boxing ring forever football but you can always
forever football but you can always
forever football but you can always train and get better push yourself
train and get better push yourself
train and get better push yourself just bring it that’s it
just bring it that’s it
just bring it that’s it just bring it I’d say that my everyday
just bring it I’d say that my everyday
just bring it I’d say that my everyday life and in terms of my challenges and
life and in terms of my challenges and
life and in terms of my challenges and things like that
okay in between sets as I’m working out
okay in between sets as I’m working out and as I often do in between sets I
and as I often do in between sets I
and as I often do in between sets I slide into your comments section nice
slide into your comments section nice
slide into your comments section nice ins I read your comments just so we
ins I read your comments just so we
ins I read your comments just so we could stay connected and I always know
could stay connected and I always know
could stay connected and I always know what’s on your mind and I can address it
what’s on your mind and I can address it
what’s on your mind and I can address it so somebody just asked me a cool
so somebody just asked me a cool
so somebody just asked me a cool question said DJ you’re on top where
question said DJ you’re on top where
question said DJ you’re on top where could you possibly go from here and you
could you possibly go from here and you
could you possibly go from here and you always talk about out working your
always talk about out working your
always talk about out working your competition who’s your competition it’s
competition who’s your competition it’s
competition who’s your competition it’s a great question thank you for the
a great question thank you for the
a great question thank you for the compliment by the way I’m fortunate
compliment by the way I’m fortunate
compliment by the way I’m fortunate enough to be on top but anytime you
enough to be on top but anytime you
enough to be on top but anytime you reach the top you always want to make
reach the top you always want to make
reach the top you always want to make sure that you have the desire to raise
sure that you have the desire to raise
sure that you have the desire to raise the bar and take the brass ring to
the bar and take the brass ring to
the bar and take the brass ring to places it’s never been that sticky with
places it’s never been that sticky with
places it’s never been that sticky with being on top just because it’s never
being on top just because it’s never
being on top just because it’s never been done doesn’t mean it can’t be done
been done doesn’t mean it can’t be done
been done doesn’t mean it can’t be done and in terms of competition great
and in terms of competition great
and in terms of competition great question everyone’s my competition but
question everyone’s my competition but
question everyone’s my competition but the fundamental key that I’ve learned
the fundamental key that I’ve learned
the fundamental key that I’ve learned over the years is I’ll share with you my
over the years is I’ll share with you my
over the years is I’ll share with you my number one competition is me it’s always
number one competition is me it’s always
number one competition is me it’s always you versus you you’ve got to be the one
you versus you you’ve got to be the one
you versus you you’ve got to be the one to get up every morning be disciplined
to get up every morning be disciplined
to get up every morning be disciplined put in the consistent daily hard work
put in the consistent daily hard work
put in the consistent daily hard work because that gains success no coach no
because that gains success no coach no
because that gains success no coach no trainer no mentor no boss can do it you
trainer no mentor no boss can do it you
trainer no mentor no boss can do it you versus you
[Music]
[Music] no I wanted to be something and it was
no I wanted to be something and it was
no I wanted to be something and it was important to me to do something of it it
important to me to do something of it it
important to me to do something of it it was important to me that I didn’t fail
was important to me that I didn’t fail
was important to me that I didn’t fail but by the way and if I did fail at
but by the way and if I did fail at
but by the way and if I did fail at least that what was also important was a
least that what was also important was a
least that what was also important was a lesson and I didn’t realize that until I
lesson and I didn’t realize that until I
lesson and I didn’t realize that until I got older because you know when you’re
got older because you know when you’re
got older because you know when you’re in it you’re in the grind you don’t
in it you’re in the grind you don’t
in it you’re in the grind you don’t really recognize those things when
really recognize those things when
really recognize those things when you’re younger but I could recognize him
you’re younger but I could recognize him
you’re younger but I could recognize him now and the importance of them now and
now and the importance of them now and
now and the importance of them now and just in terms of the drive and the
just in terms of the drive and the
just in terms of the drive and the determination a lot of it was experience
determination a lot of it was experience
determination a lot of it was experience to get your ass kicked
to get your ass kicked
to get your ass kicked get back up and you put the gloves back
get back up and you put the gloves back
get back up and you put the gloves back on and you swing away
all right Saturday afternoon empty gym
all right Saturday afternoon empty gym the way we like it tripping over here
the way we like it tripping over here
the way we like it tripping over here it’s late day which means it’s going to
it’s late day which means it’s going to
it’s late day which means it’s going to be sweaty painful and fun
and say that nothing good happens in the
and say that nothing good happens in the four am out well I can guaran-damn-tee
four am out well I can guaran-damn-tee
four am out well I can guaran-damn-tee you this it’s 4:45 a.m. it’s still dark
you this it’s 4:45 a.m. it’s still dark
you this it’s 4:45 a.m. it’s still dark outside look at that the lights just
outside look at that the lights just
outside look at that the lights just went out and I’m getting ready to kill
went out and I’m getting ready to kill
went out and I’m getting ready to kill this AM cardio train twice I’ll get my
this AM cardio train twice I’ll get my
this AM cardio train twice I’ll get my cardio in and breakfast and I’ll go hit
cardio in and breakfast and I’ll go hit
cardio in and breakfast and I’ll go hit the weights clanging and banging we call
the weights clanging and banging we call
the weights clanging and banging we call it
you know the masters make the hardest
you know the masters make the hardest things in the world look easiest and in
things in the world look easiest and in
things in the world look easiest and in the moments where you push yourself when
the moments where you push yourself when
the moments where you push yourself when no one else is around those moments have
no one else is around those moments have
no one else is around those moments have a tendency to lead to success oftentimes
a tendency to lead to success oftentimes
a tendency to lead to success oftentimes when I see kids and they have been
when I see kids and they have been
when I see kids and they have been labeled all their punk kids true
labeled all their punk kids true
labeled all their punk kids true but there’s good in him and we got to
but there’s good in him and we got to
but there’s good in him and we got to see that potential and I enjoy that
see that potential and I enjoy that
see that potential and I enjoy that today seeing potential and kids just
today seeing potential and kids just
today seeing potential and kids just like he did especially kids who are kind
like he did especially kids who are kind
like he did especially kids who are kind of wayward and I’ve been going through
of wayward and I’ve been going through
of wayward and I’ve been going through it I know what it’s like you are most
it I know what it’s like you are most
it I know what it’s like you are most powerful most important is when we just
powerful most important is when we just
powerful most important is when we just embrace who we are is just believing in
embrace who we are is just believing in
embrace who we are is just believing in yourself and embracing who you were born
yourself and embracing who you were born
yourself and embracing who you were born to be
to be
to be whether it’s 3 o’clock in the morning by
whether it’s 3 o’clock in the morning by
whether it’s 3 o’clock in the morning by the way when we were talking in London I
the way when we were talking in London I
the way when we were talking in London I was hitting up at 3:00 because I had to
was hitting up at 3:00 because I had to
was hitting up at 3:00 because I had to be on set by 4:00 so whatever time my
be on set by 4:00 so whatever time my
be on set by 4:00 so whatever time my call time is those in directors and not
call time is those in directors and not
call time is those in directors and not producers whatever time I call some so
producers whatever time I call some so
producers whatever time I call some so my call time is at 7 then you back your
my call time is at 7 then you back your
my call time is at 7 then you back your clock up for hours and then that’s when
clock up for hours and then that’s when
clock up for hours and then that’s when I get up and train twice
I get up and train twice
I get up and train twice just wrap that for a and cardio there’s
just wrap that for a and cardio there’s
just wrap that for a and cardio there’s no substitute for hard work get up super
no substitute for hard work get up super
no substitute for hard work get up super early general I have this thing where I
early general I have this thing where I
early general I have this thing where I like beating the Sun up not just in
like beating the Sun up not just in
like beating the Sun up not just in terms of what Sun comes I have to get up
terms of what Sun comes I have to get up
terms of what Sun comes I have to get up and how do I do it it’s just important
and how do I do it it’s just important
and how do I do it it’s just important to find balance and I try and do things
to find balance and I try and do things
to find balance and I try and do things really that I really enjoyed doing and a
really that I really enjoyed doing and a
really that I really enjoyed doing and a lot of times you know it’s like in life
lot of times you know it’s like in life
lot of times you know it’s like in life right life brings like drama and you got
right life brings like drama and you got
right life brings like drama and you got to deal with this person and if your
to deal with this person and if your
to deal with this person and if your relationship here you know this thing
work 12 hours a day 14 hours a day get
work 12 hours a day 14 hours a day get up at 3 o’clock in the morning
I don’t know if there’s a golden rule I
I don’t know if there’s a golden rule I can tell you this that I believe
can tell you this that I believe
can tell you this that I believe anything is possible
anything is possible
anything is possible right I live in the world a possibility
right I live in the world a possibility
right I live in the world a possibility and I also believe that anything we can
and I also believe that anything we can
and I also believe that anything we can accomplish anything with our two hands
accomplish anything with our two hands
accomplish anything with our two hands and just putting in the work without
and just putting in the work without
and just putting in the work without your hands and also you hear this often
your hands and also you hear this often
your hands and also you hear this often but it’s really really true you got to
but it’s really really true you got to
but it’s really really true you got to find something if you love what you do
find something if you love what you do
find something if you love what you do and find and be passionate about what
and find and be passionate about what
and find and be passionate about what you do and find something that you could
you do and find something that you could
you do and find something that you could be passionate like it really helps you
be passionate like it really helps you
be passionate like it really helps you know it gives you that motivation when
know it gives you that motivation when
know it gives you that motivation when you wake up in the morning
consistently being told that whatever it
consistently being told that whatever it is that you want to do
is that you want to do
is that you want to do you’ve gotta get after you you’ve got a
you’ve gotta get after you you’ve got a
you’ve gotta get after you you’ve got a good after there’s no substitute for
good after there’s no substitute for
good after there’s no substitute for hard work hard work always pays you know
hard work hard work always pays you know
hard work hard work always pays you know those type of mantras over time and
those type of mantras over time and
those type of mantras over time and those are your examples of you know what
those are your examples of you know what
those are your examples of you know what it’s like to get beat down what it’s
it’s like to get beat down what it’s
it’s like to get beat down what it’s like to get just in terms of just in
like to get just in terms of just in
like to get just in terms of just in terms of the struggle what it’s like to
terms of the struggle what it’s like to
terms of the struggle what it’s like to be evicted out of your apartment what
be evicted out of your apartment what
be evicted out of your apartment what it’s like to have your car repossessed
it’s like to have your car repossessed
it’s like to have your car repossessed and watch your parents go through that
and watch your parents go through that
and watch your parents go through that is is I think is defining as as a kid
is is I think is defining as as a kid
is is I think is defining as as a kid [Music]
you know I grew up there was a period of
you know I grew up there was a period of time where I was making a lot of
time where I was making a lot of
time where I was making a lot of mistakes David I was I was getting
mistakes David I was I was getting
mistakes David I was I was getting arrested multiple times by the time I
arrested multiple times by the time I
arrested multiple times by the time I was 16 I was arrested maybe seven or
was 16 I was arrested maybe seven or
was 16 I was arrested maybe seven or eight times
eight times
eight times fighting theft doing a lot of things
fighting theft doing a lot of things
fighting theft doing a lot of things that I shouldn’t have been doing I was
that I shouldn’t have been doing I was
that I shouldn’t have been doing I was really lucky that I had a couple of
really lucky that I had a couple of
really lucky that I had a couple of people who along with my parents who saw
people who along with my parents who saw
people who along with my parents who saw the potential in me even when I didn’t
the potential in me even when I didn’t
the potential in me even when I didn’t see the potential in me and it was until
see the potential in me and it was until
see the potential in me and it was until I got older had a little bit of luck a
I got older had a little bit of luck a
I got older had a little bit of luck a little bit of success that I started to
little bit of success that I started to
little bit of success that I started to understand the value and the power of
understand the value and the power of
understand the value and the power of someone giving back
but some people call you the best pure
but some people call you the best pure athlete in wrestling today let’s start
athlete in wrestling today let’s start
athlete in wrestling today let’s start off with a bit of your history when you
off with a bit of your history when you
off with a bit of your history when you broke in you were packaged as a part of
broke in you were packaged as a part of
broke in you were packaged as a part of a wrestling legacy your father is rocky
a wrestling legacy your father is rocky
a wrestling legacy your father is rocky Johnson or sweet ebony diamond as
Johnson or sweet ebony diamond as
Johnson or sweet ebony diamond as Canadian fans know him Tony Atlas was a
Canadian fans know him Tony Atlas was a
Canadian fans know him Tony Atlas was a family friend all kinds of family roots
family friend all kinds of family roots
family friend all kinds of family roots were you ever concerned that you
were you ever concerned that you
were you ever concerned that you wouldn’t get your chance to prove
wouldn’t get your chance to prove
wouldn’t get your chance to prove yourself on your own terms no no I was
yourself on your own terms no no I was
yourself on your own terms no no I was never ever concerned about that because
never ever concerned about that because
never ever concerned about that because nor was I ever concerned about trying to
nor was I ever concerned about trying to
nor was I ever concerned about trying to fill their shoes because of my dad’s
fill their shoes because of my dad’s
fill their shoes because of my dad’s they were just too big you know my
they were just too big you know my
they were just too big you know my grandfather as well but at the same time
grandfather as well but at the same time
grandfather as well but at the same time I always knew that one time what one day
I always knew that one time what one day
I always knew that one time what one day whenever I got the opportunity I was
whenever I got the opportunity I was
whenever I got the opportunity I was just gonna make it happen
persistence and hard work I knew one day
persistence and hard work I knew one day it was gonna happen when I made up my
it was gonna happen when I made up my
it was gonna happen when I made up my mind to get involved in the business
mind to get involved in the business
mind to get involved in the business that I have a passion for that I grew up
that I have a passion for that I grew up
that I have a passion for that I grew up in I knew and that there’s gonna be
in I knew and that there’s gonna be
in I knew and that there’s gonna be there’s gonna be a time where the
there’s gonna be a time where the
there’s gonna be a time where the success the success will come and that’s
success the success will come and that’s
success the success will come and that’s through hard work and in consistency
through hard work and in consistency
through hard work and in consistency it’s you know the same old story things
it’s you know the same old story things
it’s you know the same old story things like that so it’s it’s surprising to a
like that so it’s it’s surprising to a
like that so it’s it’s surprising to a degree but I was well aware that it was
degree but I was well aware that it was
degree but I was well aware that it was going to happen we live in a world of
going to happen we live in a world of
going to happen we live in a world of illusion
most people never pick up the phone and
most people never pick up the phone and call most people never ask and that’s
call most people never ask and that’s
call most people never ask and that’s what separates sometimes the people that
what separates sometimes the people that
what separates sometimes the people that do things from the people that just
do things from the people that just
do things from the people that just dream about them got it you got to act
dream about them got it you got to act
dream about them got it you got to act and you’ve got to be willing to fail
and you’ve got to be willing to fail
and you’ve got to be willing to fail you’ve got to be willing to crash and
you’ve got to be willing to crash and
you’ve got to be willing to crash and burn you know with people on the phone
burn you know with people on the phone
burn you know with people on the phone with starting a company with whatever if
with starting a company with whatever if
with starting a company with whatever if you’re afraid of failing
you’re afraid of failing
you’re afraid of failing you always better to show something as
you always better to show something as
you always better to show something as opposed to talking about it did did
opposed to talking about it did did
opposed to talking about it did did Leonardo have a guy off to the side that
Leonardo have a guy off to the side that
Leonardo have a guy off to the side that was thinking five years out in the
was thinking five years out in the
was thinking five years out in the future what he would paint or the
future what he would paint or the
future what he would paint or the technology he would use to paint it of
technology he would use to paint it of
technology he would use to paint it of course not Leonardo was the artist but
course not Leonardo was the artist but
course not Leonardo was the artist but he also mixed all his own paints I think
he also mixed all his own paints I think
he also mixed all his own paints I think you should go get a job as a busboy or
you should go get a job as a busboy or
you should go get a job as a busboy or something until you find something
something until you find something
something until you find something you’re really passionate about because
you’re really passionate about because
you’re really passionate about because it’s a lot of work and I’m convinced
it’s a lot of work and I’m convinced
it’s a lot of work and I’m convinced that about half of what separates the
that about half of what separates the
that about half of what separates the successful entrepreneurs from the non
successful entrepreneurs from the non
successful entrepreneurs from the non successful ones is pure perseverance it
successful ones is pure perseverance it
successful ones is pure perseverance it is so hard you pour so much your life
is so hard you pour so much your life
is so hard you pour so much your life into this thing there are such rough
into this thing there are such rough
into this thing there are such rough moments in time that most people give up
we live in a world of illusion where you
we live in a world of illusion where you see things that you think are real
see things that you think are real
see things that you think are real sometimes they are and sometimes they’re
sometimes they are and sometimes they’re
sometimes they are and sometimes they’re not
but what is really real that we’re going
but what is really real that we’re going to talk about now is to imagine your own
to talk about now is to imagine your own
to talk about now is to imagine your own power
the majority of people wait for the
the majority of people wait for the masses to do something when the masses
masses to do something when the masses
masses to do something when the masses do something they join in and they join
do something they join in and they join
do something they join in and they join on board but they forget that the masses
on board but they forget that the masses
on board but they forget that the masses are made up of individuals those
are made up of individuals those
are made up of individuals those individuals each in a zone is extremely
individuals each in a zone is extremely
individuals each in a zone is extremely powerful
it’s all about imagining and doing
it’s all about imagining and doing believing in yourself but know how it
believing in yourself but know how it
believing in yourself but know how it works
works
works know exactly what something costs to the
know exactly what something costs to the
know exactly what something costs to the second so in business a lot of things or
second so in business a lot of things or
second so in business a lot of things or I call it folklore they’re done because
I call it folklore they’re done because
I call it folklore they’re done because they were done yesterday and the day
they were done yesterday and the day
they were done yesterday and the day before a lot of times you know when you
before a lot of times you know when you
before a lot of times you know when you have to walk a thousand miles and you
have to walk a thousand miles and you
have to walk a thousand miles and you take the first step it looks like a long
take the first step it looks like a long
take the first step it looks like a long ways and it really helps if there’s
ways and it really helps if there’s
ways and it really helps if there’s someone there saying well we’re one step
someone there saying well we’re one step
someone there saying well we’re one step closer you know that the goal definitely
closer you know that the goal definitely
closer you know that the goal definitely exists it’s not just a mirage out there
exists it’s not just a mirage out there
exists it’s not just a mirage out there if people if humans can’t imagine doing
if people if humans can’t imagine doing
if people if humans can’t imagine doing what you have to do when nobody is
what you have to do when nobody is
what you have to do when nobody is watching you you’re doing as if someone
watching you you’re doing as if someone
watching you you’re doing as if someone is right there watching you and in your
is right there watching you and in your
is right there watching you and in your free time you’re not trying to elongate
free time you’re not trying to elongate
free time you’re not trying to elongate something you’re doing what you should
something you’re doing what you should
something you’re doing what you should do without people watching you do it
as you look toward the future if you
as you look toward the future if you decided I’m not going to allow my fears
decided I’m not going to allow my fears
decided I’m not going to allow my fears to stop me what would your life be like
to stop me what would your life be like
to stop me what would your life be like what would your future be like if you
what would your future be like if you
what would your future be like if you decided to to want that which you desire
decided to to want that which you desire
decided to to want that which you desire so strongly that it prepares you past
so strongly that it prepares you past
so strongly that it prepares you past your fears that you experience the fear
your fears that you experience the fear
your fears that you experience the fear as the one book says feel the fear and
as the one book says feel the fear and
as the one book says feel the fear and do it anyway
do it anyway
do it anyway what would your life be like and I’m
what would your life be like and I’m
what would your life be like and I’m saying to you that all of us who have
saying to you that all of us who have
saying to you that all of us who have been entombed by fear have a capacity to
been entombed by fear have a capacity to
been entombed by fear have a capacity to resurrect ourselves
I always tell people who are you know
I always tell people who are you know who think they want to be entrepreneurs
who think they want to be entrepreneurs
who think they want to be entrepreneurs it’s you need a combination of stubborn
it’s you need a combination of stubborn
it’s you need a combination of stubborn relentlessness and flexibility and you
relentlessness and flexibility and you
relentlessness and flexibility and you have to know when to be which basically
have to know when to be which basically
have to know when to be which basically you need to be stubborn on your vision
you need to be stubborn on your vision
you need to be stubborn on your vision because otherwise it would be too easy
because otherwise it would be too easy
because otherwise it would be too easy to give up but you need to be very
to give up but you need to be very
to give up but you need to be very flexible on the details because as you
flexible on the details because as you
flexible on the details because as you go along pursuing their vision you’ll
go along pursuing their vision you’ll
go along pursuing their vision you’ll find that some of your preconceptions
find that some of your preconceptions
find that some of your preconceptions were wrong and you’re going to need to
were wrong and you’re going to need to
were wrong and you’re going to need to be able to change those things you
be able to change those things you
be able to change those things you define greatness in yourself you’re not
define greatness in yourself you’re not
define greatness in yourself you’re not going to find it by looking in a book or
going to find it by looking in a book or
going to find it by looking in a book or by even hearing me I may give you the
by even hearing me I may give you the
by even hearing me I may give you the spark but you’ve got to go inside
spark but you’ve got to go inside
spark but you’ve got to go inside yourself to find it and that means you
yourself to find it and that means you
yourself to find it and that means you gotta be quiet
gotta be quiet
gotta be quiet shut the fuck up go on a room stop
shut the fuck up go on a room stop
shut the fuck up go on a room stop talking search your soul insert your
talking search your soul insert your
talking search your soul insert your mind search your abilities and you’ll
mind search your abilities and you’ll
mind search your abilities and you’ll find it but if you’re not looking
find it but if you’re not looking
find it but if you’re not looking forward you won’t find it so you got to
forward you won’t find it so you got to
forward you won’t find it so you got to go start the journey and the journey
go start the journey and the journey
go start the journey and the journey starts to be finding why the hell in my
starts to be finding why the hell in my
starts to be finding why the hell in my field is playing why am I here if you
field is playing why am I here if you
field is playing why am I here if you don’t know that you live the rest your
don’t know that you live the rest your
don’t know that you live the rest your life searching always asking the
life searching always asking the
life searching always asking the question why
when you get up in the morning you do
when you get up in the morning you do what you normally do I would eventually
what you normally do I would eventually
what you normally do I would eventually say a lot of you here probably turn on
say a lot of you here probably turn on
say a lot of you here probably turn on your cell phones your computers and
your cell phones your computers and
your cell phones your computers and what’s the latest email what’s the
what’s the latest email what’s the
what’s the latest email what’s the latest text that comes in you start your
latest text that comes in you start your
latest text that comes in you start your day off like that that’s your mindset
day off like that that’s your mindset
day off like that that’s your mindset try this get up in the morning do
try this get up in the morning do
try this get up in the morning do whatever you have to do don’t turn the
whatever you have to do don’t turn the
whatever you have to do don’t turn the computer on don’t turn the TV on stay
computer on don’t turn the TV on stay
computer on don’t turn the TV on stay together you got to be hungry he said
together you got to be hungry he said
together you got to be hungry he said people that are hungry are willing to do
people that are hungry are willing to do
people that are hungry are willing to do the things a day of us won’t do in order
the things a day of us won’t do in order
the things a day of us won’t do in order to have to think tomorrow others won’t
to have to think tomorrow others won’t
to have to think tomorrow others won’t have
to people that are hungry are relentless
to people that are hungry are relentless people that are hungry unstoppable
people that are hungry unstoppable
people that are hungry unstoppable people that are hungry refused to give
people that are hungry refused to give
people that are hungry refused to give up people that are hungry no excuse is
up people that are hungry no excuse is
up people that are hungry no excuse is acceptable for not making their dream
acceptable for not making their dream
acceptable for not making their dream become a reality is that I’m hungry sir
and that’s when I realized that there’s
and that’s when I realized that there’s two ways to see the world some people
two ways to see the world some people
two ways to see the world some people see the thing that they want and some
see the thing that they want and some
see the thing that they want and some people see the thing that prevents them
people see the thing that prevents them
people see the thing that prevents them from getting the thing that they want
there’s time there’s performance there’s
there’s time there’s performance there’s financial I mean they’re you know
financial I mean they’re you know
financial I mean they’re you know there’s deadlines my pressures are not
there’s deadlines my pressures are not
there’s deadlines my pressures are not unique the situation’s may be different
unique the situation’s may be different
unique the situation’s may be different or you know but but everybody has the
or you know but but everybody has the
or you know but but everybody has the same kinds of pressures but what I found
same kinds of pressures but what I found
same kinds of pressures but what I found or what I find fascinating is the
or what I find fascinating is the
or what I find fascinating is the interpretation of the stimuli
you have to be just as enthusiastic on
you have to be just as enthusiastic on door number 101 as you were on door
door number 101 as you were on door
door number 101 as you were on door number 100
number 100
number 100 just as the yessing so you have to
just as the yessing so you have to
just as the yessing so you have to imagine yourself in this frame of mine
what can we do collectively to create
what can we do collectively to create that change in that imagination
that change in that imagination
that change in that imagination immediately it’s all in the mindset
in order to be successful you got to be
in order to be successful you got to be hungry you’ve got to be willing to do
hungry you’ve got to be willing to do
hungry you’ve got to be willing to do the things today others won’t do are you
the things today others won’t do are you
the things today others won’t do are you willing to do that to be successful
imagine what you could do but imagine
imagine what you could do but imagine that you can do it right now and how do
that you can do it right now and how do
that you can do it right now and how do you do these things right now what are
you do these things right now what are
you do these things right now what are some of the lessons that we go through
some of the lessons that we go through
some of the lessons that we go through to do things right now many times an
to do things right now many times an
to do things right now many times an entrepreneurship people say what are the
entrepreneurship people say what are the
entrepreneurship people say what are the secrets to success whether you’re
secrets to success whether you’re
secrets to success whether you’re working at a job that you just love and
working at a job that you just love and
working at a job that you just love and you don’t want to be the boss or you
you don’t want to be the boss or you
you don’t want to be the boss or you want to start something on you know
want to start something on you know
want to start something on you know where the secrets I share two things
where the secrets I share two things
where the secrets I share two things imagine these because they’re gonna
imagine these because they’re gonna
imagine these because they’re gonna happen one be prepared for a lot of
happen one be prepared for a lot of
happen one be prepared for a lot of rejection whether people close the door
rejection whether people close the door
rejection whether people close the door in your face or tell you it’s never
in your face or tell you it’s never
in your face or tell you it’s never going to happen you can’t do it you’re
going to happen you can’t do it you’re
going to happen you can’t do it you’re too old you don’t have the education you
too old you don’t have the education you
too old you don’t have the education you don’t have what it takes somebody else
don’t have what it takes somebody else
don’t have what it takes somebody else did it don’t listen to them don’t let it
did it don’t listen to them don’t let it
did it don’t listen to them don’t let it affect you if you’re prepared for
affect you if you’re prepared for
affect you if you’re prepared for rejection when it happens it’s not going
rejection when it happens it’s not going
rejection when it happens it’s not going to affect you that much it really won’t
to affect you that much it really won’t
to affect you that much it really won’t because you’re prepared for it of course
because you’re prepared for it of course
because you’re prepared for it of course I was prepared for it
interpretation of what’s happening in
interpretation of what’s happening in their bodies I mean what it what happens
their bodies I mean what it what happens
their bodies I mean what it what happens when you’re nervous right your heart
when you’re nervous right your heart
when you’re nervous right your heart rate starts to go you’re you know you
rate starts to go you’re you know you
rate starts to go you’re you know you sort of get a little tense you get a
sort of get a little tense you get a
sort of get a little tense you get a little sweaty right
little sweaty right
little sweaty right you have expectation of what’s coming
you have expectation of what’s coming
you have expectation of what’s coming and we interpreted that is I’m nervous
and we interpreted that is I’m nervous
and we interpreted that is I’m nervous now what’s the interpretation of excited
now what’s the interpretation of excited
now what’s the interpretation of excited your heart rate starts to go you become
your heart rate starts to go you become
your heart rate starts to go you become you’re anticipating what’s coming right
you’re anticipating what’s coming right
you’re anticipating what’s coming right you get a little sort of like tense it’s
you get a little sort of like tense it’s
you get a little sort of like tense it’s all the same thing it’s the same stimuli
all the same thing it’s the same stimuli
all the same thing it’s the same stimuli except these athletes these these
except these athletes these these
except these athletes these these Olympic quality athletes have learned to
Olympic quality athletes have learned to
Olympic quality athletes have learned to interpret the stimuli that the rest of
interpret the stimuli that the rest of
interpret the stimuli that the rest of us would say is nervous as excited they
us would say is nervous as excited they
us would say is nervous as excited they also the same thing no I’m not nervous
also the same thing no I’m not nervous
also the same thing no I’m not nervous I’m excited and so I’ve actually
I’m excited and so I’ve actually
I’m excited and so I’ve actually practiced it just to tell myself when I
practiced it just to tell myself when I
practiced it just to tell myself when I start to get nervous that this is
start to get nervous that this is
start to get nervous that this is excitement you know and so where when
excitement you know and so where when
excitement you know and so where when you I used to be speaking for the large
you I used to be speaking for the large
you I used to be speaking for the large audience and somebody’d say how do you
audience and somebody’d say how do you
audience and somebody’d say how do you feel it’s a little nervous now when
feel it’s a little nervous now when
feel it’s a little nervous now when somebody says how do you feel like
somebody says how do you feel like
somebody says how do you feel like really excited actually and it it came
really excited actually and it it came
really excited actually and it it came from just sort of telling myself no no
from just sort of telling myself no no
from just sort of telling myself no no this is excitement and it becomes a
this is excitement and it becomes a
this is excitement and it becomes a little bit automatic later on that if
little bit automatic later on that if
little bit automatic later on that if you’re doing what no one has done before
you’re doing what no one has done before
you’re doing what no one has done before stuff goes wrong and in fact it’s
stuff goes wrong and in fact it’s
stuff goes wrong and in fact it’s nothing ever goes wrong in what you’re
nothing ever goes wrong in what you’re
nothing ever goes wrong in what you’re doing if you make no mistakes in your
doing if you make no mistakes in your
doing if you make no mistakes in your job and you’re in whatever task you’ve
job and you’re in whatever task you’ve
job and you’re in whatever task you’ve brought upon yourself then you are not
brought upon yourself then you are not
brought upon yourself then you are not on the frontier simple
you’ve got some goals that you want to
you’ve got some goals that you want to cheat listen things that you want to do
cheat listen things that you want to do
cheat listen things that you want to do and you’ve said to yourself I’m willing
and you’ve said to yourself I’m willing
and you’ve said to yourself I’m willing to face the nose
to face the nose
to face the nose you said yourself I’m willing for people
you said yourself I’m willing for people
you said yourself I’m willing for people laugh at me you said yourself I’m
laugh at me you said yourself I’m
laugh at me you said yourself I’m willing to get this out
willing to get this out
willing to get this out you said yourself I’m willing to make
you said yourself I’m willing to make
you said yourself I’m willing to make this happen you said yourself I’m gonna
this happen you said yourself I’m gonna
this happen you said yourself I’m gonna do whatever it takes to build this
do whatever it takes to build this
do whatever it takes to build this business I can do it if anybody’s ever
business I can do it if anybody’s ever
business I can do it if anybody’s ever done at any point in time in history
done at any point in time in history
done at any point in time in history then what’s possible for run it’s
then what’s possible for run it’s
then what’s possible for run it’s possible for me
[Music]
[Music] and I’m gonna do it
it’s my time it’s possible it’s
it’s my time it’s possible it’s necessary it’s me it’s par it’s worth
[Music]
[Music] when the tough times come and they’re
when the tough times come and they’re
when the tough times come and they’re going to come when you feel like you
going to come when you feel like you
going to come when you feel like you can’t see the light at the end of the
can’t see the light at the end of the
can’t see the light at the end of the tunnel and that’s a part of the process
tunnel and that’s a part of the process
tunnel and that’s a part of the process your reasons will be your rod and staff
your reasons will be your rod and staff
your reasons will be your rod and staff to comfort you to take you through the
to comfort you to take you through the
to comfort you to take you through the storms of life the most important
storms of life the most important
storms of life the most important investment you can make is in yourself
he said you gotta be hungry
he said you gotta be hungry go back again
if you do what is easy your life would
if you do what is easy your life would be hard but if you do what is hard your
be hard but if you do what is hard your
be hard but if you do what is hard your life would be easy people that are
life would be easy people that are
life would be easy people that are hungry believe what Zig said when he
hungry believe what Zig said when he
hungry believe what Zig said when he said you give enough people what they
said you give enough people what they
said you give enough people what they want they will give you what you want
want they will give you what you want
want they will give you what you want people that are hungry believe always
people that are hungry believe always
people that are hungry believe always strive to get on top of life because
strive to get on top of life because
strive to get on top of life because it’s the bottom until the crowded people
it’s the bottom until the crowded people
it’s the bottom until the crowded people that are hungry are uncommon people they
that are hungry are uncommon people they
that are hungry are uncommon people they are saying yes to their dreams there’s a
are saying yes to their dreams there’s a
are saying yes to their dreams there’s a yes to an opportunity where they can
yes to an opportunity where they can
yes to an opportunity where they can develop their entrepreneurial skills
develop their entrepreneurial skills
develop their entrepreneurial skills where they can develop their mind and
where they can develop their mind and
where they can develop their mind and their leadership skills where they can
their leadership skills where they can
their leadership skills where they can become versatile and flexible and create
become versatile and flexible and create
become versatile and flexible and create and build a business they can be proud
and build a business they can be proud
and build a business they can be proud of people that are hungry have a vision
of people that are hungry have a vision
of people that are hungry have a vision of themselves when they leave him
of themselves when they leave him
of themselves when they leave him leaving a legacy and not liabilities
leaving a legacy and not liabilities
leaving a legacy and not liabilities people that are hungry understand that
people that are hungry understand that
people that are hungry understand that most people died aged 25 and don’t get
most people died aged 25 and don’t get
most people died aged 25 and don’t get there till they’re 65 because they’re
there till they’re 65 because they’re
there till they’re 65 because they’re not willing to take a chance on
not willing to take a chance on
not willing to take a chance on themselves people that are hungry a rare
themselves people that are hungry a rare
themselves people that are hungry a rare breed they’re risk takers
seemed like yesterday when I was the new
seemed like yesterday when I was the new kid on the block you want the future to
kid on the block you want the future to
kid on the block you want the future to change for you you’ve got to change if
change for you you’ve got to change if
change for you you’ve got to change if you don’t change the next six years of
you don’t change the next six years of
you don’t change the next six years of your life is gonna be just like the last
your life is gonna be just like the last
your life is gonna be just like the last six can’t explain why I shine and no one
six can’t explain why I shine and no one
six can’t explain why I shine and no one knows son I think everybody shines and
knows son I think everybody shines and
knows son I think everybody shines and different things you can’t be alone to
different things you can’t be alone to
different things you can’t be alone to really succeed no man really is in
really succeed no man really is in
really succeed no man really is in Ireland see everybody was born for
Ireland see everybody was born for
Ireland see everybody was born for purpose times of stress there are also
purpose times of stress there are also
purpose times of stress there are also times that our signals for growth and if
times that our signals for growth and if
times that our signals for growth and if we use adversity properly we can grow
we use adversity properly we can grow
we use adversity properly we can grow through words that the purpose of my
through words that the purpose of my
through words that the purpose of my life had always been to free people from
life had always been to free people from
life had always been to free people from concern and after that I was fearless I
concern and after that I was fearless I
concern and after that I was fearless I just can’t live my life based upon what
just can’t live my life based upon what
just can’t live my life based upon what other people think about them where I
other people think about them where I
other people think about them where I accept is sickening work out the one
accept is sickening work out the one
accept is sickening work out the one thing they all have in common I think is
thing they all have in common I think is
thing they all have in common I think is the hungry I believe that’s the single
the hungry I believe that’s the single
the hungry I believe that’s the single most important element that separates
most important element that separates
most important element that separates the body be precise what do you desire
the body be precise what do you desire
the body be precise what do you desire what makes you itch what sort of a
what makes you itch what sort of a
what makes you itch what sort of a situation would you like let’s suppose I
situation would you like let’s suppose I
situation would you like let’s suppose I do this often in vocational guidance of
do this often in vocational guidance of
do this often in vocational guidance of students they come to me and say well
students they come to me and say well
students they come to me and say well we’re getting out of college and we have
we’re getting out of college and we have
we’re getting out of college and we have the faintest idea what we want to do so
the faintest idea what we want to do so
the faintest idea what we want to do so I always ask the question what would you
I always ask the question what would you
I always ask the question what would you like to do if money were no object what
like to do if money were no object what
like to do if money were no object what would how would you really enjoy
would how would you really enjoy
would how would you really enjoy spending your life well it’s so amazing
spending your life well it’s so amazing
spending your life well it’s so amazing as a result of our kind of educational
as a result of our kind of educational
as a result of our kind of educational system crowds of students say well we’d
system crowds of students say well we’d
system crowds of students say well we’d like to be painters we’d like to be
like to be painters we’d like to be
like to be painters we’d like to be poets we’d like to be writers but as
poets we’d like to be writers but as
poets we’d like to be writers but as everybody knows we can’t earn any money
everybody knows we can’t earn any money
everybody knows we can’t earn any money that way or another person says well I’d
that way or another person says well I’d
that way or another person says well I’d like to live in out of doors life and
like to live in out of doors life and
like to live in out of doors life and ride horses I said you want to teach in
ride horses I said you want to teach in
ride horses I said you want to teach in a riding school let’s go through with it
a riding school let’s go through with it
a riding school let’s go through with it what do you want to do when we finally
what do you want to do when we finally
what do you want to do when we finally got down to something which the
got down to something which the
got down to something which the individual says he really wants to do I
individual says he really wants to do I
individual says he really wants to do I will say to him you do that and forget
will say to him you do that and forget
will say to him you do that and forget the money because if you say that
the money because if you say that
the money because if you say that getting the money is the most
getting the money is the most
getting the money is the most importantly you will spend your life
importantly you will spend your life
importantly you will spend your life completely wasting your time you’ll be
completely wasting your time you’ll be
completely wasting your time you’ll be doing things you don’t like doing in
doing things you don’t like doing in
doing things you don’t like doing in order to go on living that is to go on
order to go on living that is to go on
order to go on living that is to go on doing things you don’t like doing which
doing things you don’t like doing which
doing things you don’t like doing which is stupid better to have a short life
is stupid better to have a short life
is stupid better to have a short life that is full of what you like doing than
that is full of what you like doing than
that is full of what you like doing than a long life spent in a miserable way
greatness is not this
greatness is not this wonderful esoteric illusive godlike
wonderful esoteric illusive godlike
wonderful esoteric illusive godlike feature that only the special among us
feature that only the special among us
feature that only the special among us will ever taste you know it’s something
will ever taste you know it’s something
will ever taste you know it’s something that truly exists and all of us very
that truly exists and all of us very
that truly exists and all of us very simple this is what I believe and I’m
simple this is what I believe and I’m
simple this is what I believe and I’m willing to die for Pierre it’s not just
willing to die for Pierre it’s not just
willing to die for Pierre it’s not just the ability have hunger but to sustain
the ability have hunger but to sustain
the ability have hunger but to sustain and hunger means that you want more you
and hunger means that you want more you
and hunger means that you want more you want more of yourself you want to make a
want more of yourself you want to make a
want more of yourself you want to make a bigger difference you want to be a
bigger difference you want to be a
bigger difference you want to be a better parent you want to you want to do
better parent you want to you want to do
better parent you want to you want to do something more than there is today and
something more than there is today and
something more than there is today and that you don’t get satisfied most people
that you don’t get satisfied most people
that you don’t get satisfied most people start out with hunger and early stage of
start out with hunger and early stage of
start out with hunger and early stage of life and they lose it but the people
life and they lose it but the people
life and they lose it but the people that come to me are hungry either
that come to me are hungry either
that come to me are hungry either because something’s happen they’ve had a
because something’s happen they’ve had a
because something’s happen they’ve had a birthday with a zero on it they’ve gone
birthday with a zero on it they’ve gone
birthday with a zero on it they’ve gone through a divorce they’re starting a
through a divorce they’re starting a
through a divorce they’re starting a business and they know I’ve got to have
business and they know I’ve got to have
business and they know I’ve got to have a different level or they’re the best in
a different level or they’re the best in
a different level or they’re the best in the world and they’re always looking for
the world and they’re always looking for
the world and they’re always looking for that edge that makes the difference that
that edge that makes the difference that
that edge that makes the difference that is absolutely stupid to spend your time
is absolutely stupid to spend your time
is absolutely stupid to spend your time doing things you don’t like in order to
doing things you don’t like in order to
doing things you don’t like in order to go on spending things you don’t like
go on spending things you don’t like
go on spending things you don’t like doing things you don’t like and to teach
doing things you don’t like and to teach
doing things you don’t like and to teach our children to follow in the same track
our children to follow in the same track
our children to follow in the same track my father could have been a great
my father could have been a great
my father could have been a great comedian but he didn’t believe that that
comedian but he didn’t believe that that
comedian but he didn’t believe that that was possible for him and so he made a
was possible for him and so he made a
was possible for him and so he made a conservative choice instead he got a
conservative choice instead he got a
conservative choice instead he got a safe job as an accountant and when I was
safe job as an accountant and when I was
safe job as an accountant and when I was 12 years old he was let go from that
12 years old he was let go from that
12 years old he was let go from that safe job and our family had to do
safe job and our family had to do
safe job and our family had to do whatever we could to survive
whatever we could to survive
whatever we could to survive I learned many great lessons from my
I learned many great lessons from my
I learned many great lessons from my father not the least of which was that
father not the least of which was that
father not the least of which was that you can fail at what you don’t want so
you can fail at what you don’t want so
you can fail at what you don’t want so you might as well take a chance on doing
you might as well take a chance on doing
you might as well take a chance on doing what you love we didn’t grow up with the
what you love we didn’t grow up with the
what you love we didn’t grow up with the sense that where we were was where we
sense that where we were was where we
sense that where we were was where we were going to be you know we grew up
were going to be you know we grew up
were going to be you know we grew up with the sense that where we were almost
with the sense that where we were almost
with the sense that where we were almost didn’t matter because we were becoming
didn’t matter because we were becoming
didn’t matter because we were becoming something greater the decisions we make
something greater the decisions we make
something greater the decisions we make control us much more than the conditions
control us much more than the conditions
control us much more than the conditions we need it’s not the conditions at your
we need it’s not the conditions at your
we need it’s not the conditions at your decisions decisions what to believe
decisions decisions what to believe
decisions decisions what to believe what to do this isn’t what to give that
what to do this isn’t what to give that
what to do this isn’t what to give that if you would have made a different
if you would have made a different
if you would have made a different decision you have a totally different
decision you have a totally different
decision you have a totally different life today life goes on with or without
life today life goes on with or without
life today life goes on with or without you how do you use your time is really
you how do you use your time is really
you how do you use your time is really important because your life matters it’s
important because your life matters it’s
important because your life matters it’s not for nothing that matters for a lot
not for nothing that matters for a lot
not for nothing that matters for a lot it matters to a lot of people and you
it matters to a lot of people and you
it matters to a lot of people and you know we spend so much time giving
know we spend so much time giving
know we spend so much time giving attention to the silly stupid and
attention to the silly stupid and
attention to the silly stupid and superficial stuff and take for granted
superficial stuff and take for granted
superficial stuff and take for granted so much that everyday we’re just going
so much that everyday we’re just going
so much that everyday we’re just going to wake up and we’re going to go through
to wake up and we’re going to go through
to wake up and we’re going to go through the same routines and get to see the
the same routines and get to see the
the same routines and get to see the same people that are going to be there
same people that are going to be there
same people that are going to be there when we come home at night and every
when we come home at night and every
when we come home at night and every day’s just going to be like the other
day’s just going to be like the other
day’s just going to be like the other but right now even as I’m recording this
but right now even as I’m recording this
but right now even as I’m recording this video there are hundreds if not
video there are hundreds if not
video there are hundreds if not thousands of people all over the world
thousands of people all over the world
thousands of people all over the world who are just now getting noticed that
who are just now getting noticed that
who are just now getting noticed that you know somebody that they care about
you know somebody that they care about
you know somebody that they care about or somebody that they knew because their
or somebody that they knew because their
or somebody that they knew because their life has been taken by surprise
life has been taken by surprise
life has been taken by surprise unexpectedly awesome accent
unexpectedly awesome accent
unexpectedly awesome accent or detect or something like that none of
or detect or something like that none of
or detect or something like that none of us know how long we’re going to be here
us know how long we’re going to be here
us know how long we’re going to be here so it’s a moment to take pause and think
so it’s a moment to take pause and think
so it’s a moment to take pause and think about your life and what you do with
about your life and what you do with
about your life and what you do with your time and to not only make the to
your time and to not only make the to
your time and to not only make the to concentrate on making the best of your
concentrate on making the best of your
concentrate on making the best of your life but to also make your life
life but to also make your life
life but to also make your life meaningful in the most important ways
I think everybody is born with hunger
I think everybody is born with hunger right there’s there’s there’s a desire
right there’s there’s there’s a desire
right there’s there’s there’s a desire to grow to expand to learn and then
to grow to expand to learn and then
to grow to expand to learn and then disappointment sets in early in life for
disappointment sets in early in life for
disappointment sets in early in life for those people and then we look to blame
those people and then we look to blame
those people and then we look to blame something outside of ourselves and there
something outside of ourselves and there
something outside of ourselves and there are many events and the lights that can
are many events and the lights that can
are many events and the lights that can affect us all we’ve all had pain and
affect us all we’ve all had pain and
affect us all we’ve all had pain and challenges but I think if you can find
challenges but I think if you can find
challenges but I think if you can find within yourself the part of you that
within yourself the part of you that
within yourself the part of you that wants to constantly give something more
wants to constantly give something more
wants to constantly give something more than yourself if you can find a mission
than yourself if you can find a mission
than yourself if you can find a mission larger than yourself then you’re more
larger than yourself then you’re more
larger than yourself then you’re more pulled to do something than trying to
pulled to do something than trying to
pulled to do something than trying to push yourself and pull has much more
push yourself and pull has much more
push yourself and pull has much more power than push I always say motive does
power than push I always say motive does
power than push I always say motive does matter that if you if your motive is to
matter that if you if your motive is to
matter that if you if your motive is to serve something greater there’s an
serve something greater there’s an
serve something greater there’s an energy that comes up inside of you the
energy that comes up inside of you the
energy that comes up inside of you the wise man is he who knows his life
wise man is he who knows his life
wise man is he who knows his life purpose Tinh people with the knowledge
purpose Tinh people with the knowledge
purpose Tinh people with the knowledge of the purpose are more powerful than a
of the purpose are more powerful than a
of the purpose are more powerful than a thousand without the purpose of courage
thousand without the purpose of courage
thousand without the purpose of courage courage is the key to life itself
courage is the key to life itself
courage is the key to life itself a lot of people who were born in
a lot of people who were born in
a lot of people who were born in situation of us survived just I’ll never
situation of us survived just I’ll never
situation of us survived just I’ll never get out of this so they won’t I say to
get out of this so they won’t I say to
get out of this so they won’t I say to people say well I would like to have
people say well I would like to have
people say well I would like to have done so and so himself so you could have
done so and so himself so you could have
done so and so himself so you could have done it some but I couldn’t get out of
done it some but I couldn’t get out of
done it some but I couldn’t get out of here man the bus runs every day what the
here man the bus runs every day what the
here man the bus runs every day what the hell is success it’s hitting an
hell is success it’s hitting an
hell is success it’s hitting an expectation can I always tell people man
expectation can I always tell people man
expectation can I always tell people man trade your expectations for appreciation
trade your expectations for appreciation
trade your expectations for appreciation it’s a whole new world instantly if you
it’s a whole new world instantly if you
it’s a whole new world instantly if you can appreciate this moment if you can’t
can appreciate this moment if you can’t
can appreciate this moment if you can’t find ecstasy in this moment in a
find ecstasy in this moment in a
find ecstasy in this moment in a conversation with a friend and looking
conversation with a friend and looking
conversation with a friend and looking in your wife’s eyes being with your
in your wife’s eyes being with your
in your wife’s eyes being with your children going on a run a fuck if you
children going on a run a fuck if you
children going on a run a fuck if you can’t find XA now I’m here to tell you
can’t find XA now I’m here to tell you
can’t find XA now I’m here to tell you more money more people more love more
more money more people more love more
more money more people more love more business more anything is not going to
business more anything is not going to
business more anything is not going to give you more executors if you can’t do
give you more executors if you can’t do
give you more executors if you can’t do it here now you’re not gonna do it there
it here now you’re not gonna do it there
it here now you’re not gonna do it there when you got more so why not do it now
when you got more so why not do it now
when you got more so why not do it now and have a rich life right now
and have a rich life right now
and have a rich life right now money that’s one thing like having
money that’s one thing like having
money that’s one thing like having financial abundance through skills
financial abundance through skills
financial abundance through skills that’s a science but wealth it’s a
that’s a science but wealth it’s a
that’s a science but wealth it’s a decision it’s like you gonna be wealthy
decision it’s like you gonna be wealthy
decision it’s like you gonna be wealthy right now I live in Fiji a good portion
right now I live in Fiji a good portion
right now I live in Fiji a good portion of time there are these villagers there
of time there are these villagers there
of time there are these villagers there they’re the richest people I know
they’re the richest people I know
they’re the richest people I know they’re happy they laugh they love they
they’re happy they laugh they love they
they’re happy they laugh they love they don’t give a damn about the economics
don’t give a damn about the economics
don’t give a damn about the economics other people say they’re poor when I
other people say they’re poor when I
other people say they’re poor when I first went there I was trying to do
first went there I was trying to do
first went there I was trying to do things for them like what are you
things for them like what are you
things for them like what are you talking about I’m so happy
talking about I’m so happy
talking about I’m so happy wealthy people come over from the United
wealthy people come over from the United
wealthy people come over from the United States they travel around and try to
States they travel around and try to
States they travel around and try to figure out what to do and they’re gonna
figure out what to do and they’re gonna
figure out what to do and they’re gonna spend nine million oh here’s to do this
spend nine million oh here’s to do this
spend nine million oh here’s to do this and this and this so they can finally
and this and this so they can finally
and this and this so they can finally sit down and be happy and then the
sit down and be happy and then the
sit down and be happy and then the jean-guy goes why don’t you sit on the
jean-guy goes why don’t you sit on the
jean-guy goes why don’t you sit on the beach right now dude it hurts it why
beach right now dude it hurts it why
beach right now dude it hurts it why spend the nine years what happened now
spend the nine years what happened now
spend the nine years what happened now that’s my invitation see what we’re
that’s my invitation see what we’re
that’s my invitation see what we’re doing is we’re bringing up children and
doing is we’re bringing up children and
doing is we’re bringing up children and educating to live the same sort of lives
educating to live the same sort of lives
educating to live the same sort of lives we underneath in order that they may
we underneath in order that they may
we underneath in order that they may justify themselves and find satisfaction
justify themselves and find satisfaction
justify themselves and find satisfaction in life by bringing up their children to
in life by bringing up their children to
in life by bringing up their children to bring up their children to do the same
bring up their children to do the same
bring up their children to do the same thing so it’s all retching no vomit it
thing so it’s all retching no vomit it
thing so it’s all retching no vomit it never gets there
and so therefore it’s so important to
and so therefore it’s so important to consider this question what do I desire
consider this question what do I desire
consider this question what do I desire well when we answer that question in a
well when we answer that question in a
well when we answer that question in a naive way we figure out that we want a
naive way we figure out that we want a
naive way we figure out that we want a desire or what we want is to control it
desire or what we want is to control it
desire or what we want is to control it with to create girls that don’t grow old
with to create girls that don’t grow old
with to create girls that don’t grow old apples that don’t rot clothes that never
apples that don’t rot clothes that never
apples that don’t rot clothes that never wear out conveyance is that get from one
wear out conveyance is that get from one
wear out conveyance is that get from one place to another instantly so we don’t
place to another instantly so we don’t
place to another instantly so we don’t have to wait power available to do
have to wait power available to do
have to wait power available to do anything that you could conceive and do
anything that you could conceive and do
anything that you could conceive and do it just instantly like that to get this
it just instantly like that to get this
it just instantly like that to get this funny technological omnipotence but if
funny technological omnipotence but if
funny technological omnipotence but if you take time out to think about that
you take time out to think about that
you take time out to think about that and really go into it with your full
and really go into it with your full
and really go into it with your full strength of imagination and find out
strength of imagination and find out
strength of imagination and find out whether that’s where you want to be you
whether that’s where you want to be you
whether that’s where you want to be you will soon see that’s not what you want
because the moment you have a situation
because the moment you have a situation where you are really in control of
where you are really in control of
where you are really in control of things that is to say in which the
things that is to say in which the
things that is to say in which the future is almost completely predictable
future is almost completely predictable
future is almost completely predictable you will see a set last night that a
you will see a set last night that a
you will see a set last night that a completely predictable future is already
completely predictable future is already
completely predictable future is already the past you’ve had it that’s not what
the past you’ve had it that’s not what
the past you’ve had it that’s not what you want you want a surprise
you want you want a surprise
you want you want a surprise [Music]
an insurgent had seen where they were
an insurgent had seen where they were firing had snuck up next to the side of
firing had snuck up next to the side of
firing had snuck up next to the side of that building pulled out a hand grenade
that building pulled out a hand grenade
that building pulled out a hand grenade pull it and threw it up and that thing
pull it and threw it up and that thing
pull it and threw it up and that thing came right up boom and hit Mike on the
came right up boom and hit Mike on the
came right up boom and hit Mike on the chest
chest
chest Mike scream grenade out and jumped on it
Mike scream grenade out and jumped on it
Mike scream grenade out and jumped on it and so
what do they teach us about a life
what do they teach us about a life well-lived I’ve noticed that the highest
well-lived I’ve noticed that the highest
well-lived I’ve noticed that the highest achievers aren’t just driven they’re
achievers aren’t just driven they’re
achievers aren’t just driven they’re doing jobs so aligned with their
doing jobs so aligned with their
doing jobs so aligned with their passions that they have energy and
passions that they have energy and
passions that they have energy and inspiration to burn keep that in mind as
inspiration to burn keep that in mind as
inspiration to burn keep that in mind as you set your courses once you think to
you set your courses once you think to
you set your courses once you think to yourself what would you do
yourself what would you do
yourself what would you do Petty Officer Mike Monsour took the
Petty Officer Mike Monsour took the
Petty Officer Mike Monsour took the entirety of that blast in his face in
entirety of that blast in his face in
entirety of that blast in his face in his chest now because Mike was such a
his chest now because Mike was such a
his chest now because Mike was such a hard individual he lasted for another 35
hard individual he lasted for another 35
hard individual he lasted for another 35 minutes before he passed away on the
minutes before he passed away on the
minutes before he passed away on the medevac we’re out now the kicker to this
medevac we’re out now the kicker to this
medevac we’re out now the kicker to this story ladies and gentlemen okay please
story ladies and gentlemen okay please
story ladies and gentlemen okay please listen the kicker this story is there
listen the kicker this story is there
listen the kicker this story is there was a stairwell right next to mine right
was a stairwell right next to mine right
was a stairwell right next to mine right next to them what we do determine
next to them what we do determine
next to them what we do determine completely is the way we treat the
completely is the way we treat the
completely is the way we treat the people in our lives and in my experience
people in our lives and in my experience
people in our lives and in my experience that also has immeasurably greater
that also has immeasurably greater
that also has immeasurably greater bearing on how we feel at the close of
bearing on how we feel at the close of
bearing on how we feel at the close of each day and at the curtain of each year
each day and at the curtain of each year
each day and at the curtain of each year within most of us there’s a conscience
within most of us there’s a conscience
within most of us there’s a conscience that’s only at peace when we’ve behaved
that’s only at peace when we’ve behaved
that’s only at peace when we’ve behaved honorably and compassionately oh he had
honorably and compassionately oh he had
honorably and compassionately oh he had to do is jump down that stairwell to
to do is jump down that stairwell to
to do is jump down that stairwell to save his own life but he didn’t he
save his own life but he didn’t he
save his own life but he didn’t he turned and jumped on a grenade
turned and jumped on a grenade
turned and jumped on a grenade sacrificing himself so his two brothers
sacrificing himself so his two brothers
sacrificing himself so his two brothers could both go home and hug their wives
could both go home and hug their wives
could both go home and hug their wives kiss their children and fight another
[Music]
[Music] and I ask you does that change your
and I ask you does that change your
and I ask you does that change your death and of commitment look it has to
death and of commitment look it has to
death and of commitment look it has to be right
be right
be right you can’t not hear that story and not
you can’t not hear that story and not
you can’t not hear that story and not start thinking about well maybe I’m not
start thinking about well maybe I’m not
start thinking about well maybe I’m not defining commitment and the way I need
defining commitment and the way I need
defining commitment and the way I need to maybe I’m not applying the right
to maybe I’m not applying the right
to maybe I’m not applying the right energy
energy
energy [Music]
[Music]
[Music] what are your values because a lot of
what are your values because a lot of
what are your values because a lot of people who tell you what they think
people who tell you what they think
people who tell you what they think success is but you have to define that
success is but you have to define that
success is but you have to define that for yourself and once you define that
for yourself and once you define that
for yourself and once you define that for yourself you can then begin your
for yourself you can then begin your
for yourself you can then begin your true vocation your god-given purpose the
true vocation your god-given purpose the
true vocation your god-given purpose the tightest knots in my stomach come from
tightest knots in my stomach come from
tightest knots in my stomach come from the realization that I’ve been unkind
the realization that I’ve been unkind
the realization that I’ve been unkind and the highest swells of my spirit come
and the highest swells of my spirit come
and the highest swells of my spirit come from the conviction that I’ve been
from the conviction that I’ve been
from the conviction that I’ve been tender and true
for the past 20 years I have been
for the past 20 years I have been exploring the human condition around the
exploring the human condition around the
exploring the human condition around the world so but in that time I spent 15
world so but in that time I spent 15
world so but in that time I spent 15 months bridges waters of the Pacific
months bridges waters of the Pacific
months bridges waters of the Pacific Ocean to the mountains of Afghanistan on
Ocean to the mountains of Afghanistan on
Ocean to the mountains of Afghanistan on seven different occasions and to the
seven different occasions and to the
seven different occasions and to the shores of Haiti doing missionary work
shores of Haiti doing missionary work
shores of Haiti doing missionary work with my church and what I’ve learned in
with my church and what I’ve learned in
with my church and what I’ve learned in this incredible journey are a few
this incredible journey are a few
this incredible journey are a few undeniable truths about what enables us
undeniable truths about what enables us
undeniable truths about what enables us to succeed
to succeed
to succeed now truth number one is you got fear in
now truth number one is you got fear in
now truth number one is you got fear in your heart always and you can’t defeat
your heart always and you can’t defeat
your heart always and you can’t defeat it the problem is ladies and gentlemen
it the problem is ladies and gentlemen
it the problem is ladies and gentlemen is you’re wired for fear right
is you’re wired for fear right
is you’re wired for fear right you’ve got fear that’s built into your
you’ve got fear that’s built into your
you’ve got fear that’s built into your little gray matter right up there like
little gray matter right up there like
little gray matter right up there like that okay in your gray matter you’ve got
that okay in your gray matter you’ve got
that okay in your gray matter you’ve got this thing called the amygdala and this
this thing called the amygdala and this
this thing called the amygdala and this amygdala is your flight or flight so if
amygdala is your flight or flight so if
amygdala is your flight or flight so if you unless you remove that you’re gonna
you unless you remove that you’re gonna
you unless you remove that you’re gonna have fear in your life period
have fear in your life period
have fear in your life period and we need it for survival it’s a good
and we need it for survival it’s a good
and we need it for survival it’s a good thing the other challenges you’ve been
thing the other challenges you’ve been
thing the other challenges you’ve been taught for your whole life as well – we
taught for your whole life as well – we
taught for your whole life as well – we have that it’s part of our lives we have
have that it’s part of our lives we have
have that it’s part of our lives we have it in what we do for a living right
it in what we do for a living right
it in what we do for a living right you guys get on your conference huddle
you guys get on your conference huddle
you guys get on your conference huddle cause and you talk about fear and
cause and you talk about fear and
cause and you talk about fear and dealing with clients you talk about fear
dealing with clients you talk about fear
dealing with clients you talk about fear and meeting numbers you talk about fear
and meeting numbers you talk about fear
and meeting numbers you talk about fear in your lives and your personalized with
in your lives and your personalized with
in your lives and your personalized with your family folks we’ve got fear period
your family folks we’ve got fear period
your family folks we’ve got fear period so what you have to learn to do is
so what you have to learn to do is
so what you have to learn to do is embrace it truth one the second one is
embrace it truth one the second one is
embrace it truth one the second one is self-confidence is really important
self-confidence is really important
self-confidence is really important self-confidence is huge it’s important
self-confidence is huge it’s important
self-confidence is huge it’s important and you gotta Forge it every single day
and you gotta Forge it every single day
and you gotta Forge it every single day the third one is you got to live with
the third one is you got to live with
the third one is you got to live with purpose if you don’t have purpose in
purpose if you don’t have purpose in
purpose if you don’t have purpose in your life you don’t have momentum you
your life you don’t have momentum you
your life you don’t have momentum you don’t have anything driving you forward
don’t have anything driving you forward
don’t have anything driving you forward anything pulling you out of bed every
anything pulling you out of bed every
anything pulling you out of bed every single day you got to understand Who am
single day you got to understand Who am
single day you got to understand Who am I why am I here and what is my reasons
I why am I here and what is my reasons
I why am I here and what is my reasons for living
my mom my dad with the biggest influence
my mom my dad with the biggest influence in my life no one supported my athletic
in my life no one supported my athletic
in my life no one supported my athletic career more than he did I got drafted to
career more than he did I got drafted to
career more than he did I got drafted to play baseball on June 8th 2010 and the
play baseball on June 8th 2010 and the
play baseball on June 8th 2010 and the next night my dad passed away before I
next night my dad passed away before I
next night my dad passed away before I walk through the door I can see the EKG
walk through the door I can see the EKG
walk through the door I can see the EKG moving just fine I take one step into
moving just fine I take one step into
moving just fine I take one step into the door and I say dad I’m here line
the door and I say dad I’m here line
the door and I say dad I’m here line goes flat
[Music]
[Music] I miss my dad every single day people
I miss my dad every single day people
I miss my dad every single day people have asked me if I had five more minutes
have asked me if I had five more minutes
have asked me if I had five more minutes with them or what I say to him but I
with them or what I say to him but I
with them or what I say to him but I wouldn’t say anything at all
wouldn’t say anything at all
wouldn’t say anything at all I just hug them that’s what I do because
I just hug them that’s what I do because
I just hug them that’s what I do because that’s the kind of relationship my dad
that’s the kind of relationship my dad
that’s the kind of relationship my dad and I had he gave me so much and maybe
and I had he gave me so much and maybe
and I had he gave me so much and maybe maybe most of all he gave me the gift of
maybe most of all he gave me the gift of
maybe most of all he gave me the gift of perspective losing him was hard but but
perspective losing him was hard but but
perspective losing him was hard but but thinking about him now I don’t feel sad
thinking about him now I don’t feel sad
thinking about him now I don’t feel sad I feel blessed I feel blessed for all
I feel blessed I feel blessed for all
I feel blessed I feel blessed for all the days we got together I feel blessed
the days we got together I feel blessed
the days we got together I feel blessed because I know he’s in a better place
because I know he’s in a better place
because I know he’s in a better place and I feel blessed knowing that if he
and I feel blessed knowing that if he
and I feel blessed knowing that if he were here today the thing that he must
were here today the thing that he must
were here today the thing that he must be proud of isn’t a Super Bowl ring or
be proud of isn’t a Super Bowl ring or
be proud of isn’t a Super Bowl ring or new contract or a big speech at Camp
new contract or a big speech at Camp
new contract or a big speech at Camp Randall he’d be proud of my family what
Randall he’d be proud of my family what
Randall he’d be proud of my family what a strong woman my mom is but my brother
a strong woman my mom is but my brother
a strong woman my mom is but my brother how well he’s doing about the amazing
how well he’s doing about the amazing
how well he’s doing about the amazing amazing young young woman my sister has
amazing young young woman my sister has
amazing young young woman my sister has become that’s what he’d be proud of
become that’s what he’d be proud of
become that’s what he’d be proud of that’s my third charge to the graduates
that’s my third charge to the graduates
that’s my third charge to the graduates and maybe maybe
and maybe maybe
and maybe maybe it’s the hardest one of them all when
it’s the hardest one of them all when
it’s the hardest one of them all when life tells you no find a way to keep
life tells you no find a way to keep
life tells you no find a way to keep things in perspective that doesn’t make
things in perspective that doesn’t make
things in perspective that doesn’t make the painful moments any less painful but
the painful moments any less painful but
the painful moments any less painful but it does mean you don’t have to live
it does mean you don’t have to live
it does mean you don’t have to live forever in the pain you don’t have to
forever in the pain you don’t have to
forever in the pain you don’t have to live forever in that no because if you
live forever in that no because if you
live forever in that no because if you know what you’re capable of if you’re
know what you’re capable of if you’re
know what you’re capable of if you’re always prepared and you keep things in
always prepared and you keep things in
always prepared and you keep things in perspective the life has a way of
perspective the life has a way of
perspective the life has a way of turning a no into yes we all bleed red
turning a no into yes we all bleed red
turning a no into yes we all bleed red what I care about is there something
what I care about is there something
what I care about is there something that gets you out of bed every morning
that gets you out of bed every morning
that gets you out of bed every morning there’s something that you have faith in
there’s something that you have faith in
there’s something that you have faith in that’s bigger than yourself there’s
that’s bigger than yourself there’s
that’s bigger than yourself there’s something that you’re willing to
something that you’re willing to
something that you’re willing to sacrifice for another human being that’s
sacrifice for another human being that’s
sacrifice for another human being that’s powerful are you working on are you
powerful are you working on are you
powerful are you working on are you working on it right now
working on it right now
working on it right now don’t you work on it today are you gonna
don’t you work on it today are you gonna
don’t you work on it today are you gonna go work on it tonight the question isn’t
go work on it tonight the question isn’t
go work on it tonight the question isn’t whether you have something to offer to
whether you have something to offer to
whether you have something to offer to the world you definitely have something
the world you definitely have something
the world you definitely have something to offer to the world the question is
to offer to the world the question is
to offer to the world the question is how and whether you’ll do it
how and whether you’ll do it
how and whether you’ll do it when life tells you no stay ready always
when life tells you no stay ready always
when life tells you no stay ready always be ready
the fact is we’ve been quitting for a
the fact is we’ve been quitting for a long time folks the problem is I hope
long time folks the problem is I hope
long time folks the problem is I hope nobody has these grand quits in their
nobody has these grand quits in their
nobody has these grand quits in their life that they regret but the reality is
life that they regret but the reality is
life that they regret but the reality is we all quit every bit a little bit every
we all quit every bit a little bit every
we all quit every bit a little bit every day what you have to start doing is
day what you have to start doing is
day what you have to start doing is pulling those back a little bit trimming
pulling those back a little bit trimming
pulling those back a little bit trimming them away and get rid of them whether
them away and get rid of them whether
them away and get rid of them whether you want a teammate need your help or
you want a teammate need your help or
you want a teammate need your help or you’re gonna be more positive when you
you’re gonna be more positive when you
you’re gonna be more positive when you interact with them or they’re looking
interact with them or they’re looking
interact with them or they’re looking for help and you don’t tell them well I
for help and you don’t tell them well I
for help and you don’t tell them well I I’m just too busy I’ll get back to you
I’m just too busy I’ll get back to you
I’m just too busy I’ll get back to you tomorrow
tomorrow
tomorrow those are forms of quitting and that’s
those are forms of quitting and that’s
those are forms of quitting and that’s not commitment to your team when you
not commitment to your team when you
not commitment to your team when you think about what’s actually important in
think about what’s actually important in
think about what’s actually important in the world when you’re going out to
the world when you’re going out to
the world when you’re going out to pursue your vocation
pursue your vocation
pursue your vocation it’s who are you
it’s who are you
it’s who are you who do you want to be and who can you
who do you want to be and who can you
who do you want to be and who can you help along the way
asking yourself these questions will
asking yourself these questions will only help you to understand what you
only help you to understand what you
only help you to understand what you want to do
now if my dad were here with us this is
now if my dad were here with us this is the point where he’d remind us that
the point where he’d remind us that
the point where he’d remind us that potential just means we haven’t done it
potential just means we haven’t done it
potential just means we haven’t done it yet you know he’d be right
but if we need but if we do what we need
but if we need but if we do what we need to when life tells us now if we know
to when life tells us now if we know
to when life tells us now if we know what we’re capable of if we stay
what we’re capable of if we stay
what we’re capable of if we stay prepared no matter what if we keep our
prepared no matter what if we keep our
prepared no matter what if we keep our sense of perspective even when times are
sense of perspective even when times are
sense of perspective even when times are tough
tough
tough then I know that together we’re going to
then I know that together we’re going to
then I know that together we’re going to do amazing things with our potential and
do amazing things with our potential and
do amazing things with our potential and achieve our greatest gene dreams I would
achieve our greatest gene dreams I would
achieve our greatest gene dreams I would say good luck but I don’t believe in
say good luck but I don’t believe in
say good luck but I don’t believe in good luck go make it happen this is my
good luck go make it happen this is my
good luck go make it happen this is my story now it’s time to write your own
story now it’s time to write your own
story now it’s time to write your own [Music]
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