Everything is very clear.
Today is the ninth anniversary of my father’s death
and although everything is very clear;
the last word my father said before he died
but could not say and could have written.
Because he was having second cerebral hemorrhage.
We’re at the hospital, over the first bleeding eight days.
The first seven days were very beautiful, but in the last twenty-four hours we had some problems.
And because of those problems, an hour ago
removed the tomography and downloaded it.
We are in the room, he wants to talk but he can not speak.
Our eyes are full
and I thought that the mind came in some way;
Can you write father?
He shook his head and found a pencil, a pencil.
Here I found one hospital brochure,
he found an empty place and he wrote “I want a banana”.
Now my father loved the banana too.
I immediately turned around and said,
Would you bring a banana? I do not know what.
And then I see that my father is still moving his hand there.
I took it back to the brochure and wrote ” Everything is very clear. ”
Now;
most likely, the second brain hemorrhage is in his brain,
Perhaps it is now a perception center,
there was a pressure, there must be pressure;
something, perceptions, I suppose.
So he also wrote everything very clear.
Therefore, I do not look for a good sense behind it.
But I’m looking for a sense.
And I say maybe the way to slow down your life,
life passes through clarification,
it is through clarifying our point of view which is a myth.
So, as a communicator, you, as a storyteller,
I will tell you in seven steps how I clarify my own life.
First, I’ve done more than two hundred conversations in the last five years somewhere
and that all of these conversations
that is, in a lot of people, I say that I brought gaza.
Many people today
when you go home, you or someone else
they will be motivated and in the evening home life
To change something,
to go motivated to something.
Thak; Until a message from Whatsapp comes up.
My love, why did not you call me today?
and the moment he answers the message he lived today
will cover up all the experience nourished by the experiences of others.
Because over our daily experiences,
our daily experiences are very strong.
So he covers up the experiences we have received from others.
Now I want to tell you a simple story.
In support of this I say.
I’m middle school, middle second grade …
We have a painting instructor.
A woman came with a vase in her hand that day
put it right in the middle of the teacher’s desk.
And he said: from the point of view of where everyone is from
draw this line, black pencil.
I also opened a white sheet, took my elm pencil
And I got a scratch like this.
I just wanted to clarify the vase lines.
Hodja looked at my paper at that time and said,
the nails were such a thing,
He was so thin he took my ear and said,
– Picasso, you said yourself or something.
Of course today someone would tell me this,
derimki;
– What, my brother, when Picasso was seven years old,
Did not you ever draw a vase? Which is drawn by the way.
Did he never draw?
So can not this be my style?
Can not I be a person who draws a vase on a single line? I would say
but I did not say that day.
I had to draw like he wanted.
Now I told you this story.
Some of this story is fun.
There may be a story you can sell to others in the evening.
Some of you, perhaps even a teacher, make a sense to yourself,
he can embed or remain in the meaning of his life
and may go on in his life, but this simple experience,
This simple story changed my life.
It is the day that no one can tell me what to do
and if I do not do it in my own way,
nobody can make me work it.
So I understand from clarifying my life,
simplify your life.
I am telling you about your own experience, but from this experience,
I think that you should feed yourself.
So everything is very clear
and everything is so clear
I have progressed myself seven steps.
I needed these steps in my life because I was in the midst of chaos.
And I realized that chaos did not want to live anymore.
Because life was too short.
Because my father died at the age of 50, the ball.
So I did not come to live in this world in public housing.
I have not come to this world for 10-20 years to know how to pay mortgage.
You enrich others in this world, I am poor,
after that I will live in debt for the rest of my life
then I did not come from my brain hemorrhage.
I love my dad, but I have not come to the world for my dad
nor did I come to be my father.
So I want everything to be very clear
so I want to tell you that.
One;
I have not stopped lying.
I used to lie.
Here we lie to get a job,
I lied to run the customer.
Here are the things I have in my life
I lied to show better,
I was not a liar but I was lying all the time.
And while my lies are somehow tied to those stories
I spent a lot of time.
Somebody entered life.
I made a business partnership for a year;
the world is a beautiful man, the world is a beautiful man
but in a very bad time of your life
we must have met with him
Everyone lied for a whole year.
And the lies were so interconnected that
believing something he said two days ago,
Two days later he said otherwise.
Last time I left, I left.
He lied to me too when I left.
and I said I certainly should not be like that.
I said that it is not right to lose my conviction and my credibility in this way.
I forgot to lie that day.
Now a customer is coming, he says;
– Fatih why did not this business grow up?
I’m not lying, I’m telling the truth.
The customer forgives you for being right.
Very simple, very clear and I left it to clarify my life.
Latter; I learned to say no.
I used to be.
Yes, brother, okay, brother,
(Cheers)
Yes brother, ok brother, we’re in trouble brother, I’m coming brother is all this.
And yes it is a very difficult life to live your life.
You are being dragged into a constant chaos,
because you never break anyone, you never say no to anyone
You are continuing directly.
Then I learned to say no
but I do not say no to people directly.
Here, Fatih, can you do the job?
No, he would not give me a job again.
For example, a customer is coming;
– Fatih says we have a project like this,
we want to do this work for you,
we want to have your agency.
Now, no, he will not do any more work.
What do I say?
– Abi, these are really very busy, so a job
I wanted to be comfortable to do it properly.
I think if you do this work to someone else,
I’m sure you’ll get a better job
because we can not do that right now.
Now look no I actually said no.
At the same time it brings a good reputation,
why?
Because this guy is just doing quality work
comes again, gives another job.
So it clarifies my business life.
Before I mention the third item to you, I will ask you something:
Can everybody lift his right hand?
I do not see it.
Now lift up a little more,
lift up a little more,
now remove as much as you can.
Okay.
Why did not anybody get up?
(Laughter)
I changed my thinking system.
Now I think that we must break our own memorization of life
and when they did this test to me
between you and 30-40 in your mind,
I had gone through my mind;
I have to get up.
But unfortunately, we learned all over our lives
they give a helplessness.
For example, our parents give it,
The school gives it, the media gives it.
The political arena is fueling it.
Economic conditions trigger this, I do not know what, I do not know what …
For example, it has happened to all of you;
my mother to my daughter state, my son to finish the university,
I do not count my child successful without making money.
Here’s what I do not know if I give you girls to do military service.
Now I am looking at my own life.
I’m not a college graduate.
I got thrown out of absence.
I learned English myself, and a first class English,
I have English as my mother tongue.
I married at thirty.
After that I started work from scratch.
They told me that; I can not make money, I win.
They say you can not sell it, I sell it.
Dad, you can not sell your rival in life, I sold it to rivalry.
And not to have created a turnover close to ten million liras in six years,
although it did not create a current; what still have their own home,
what’s still got my own car.
I am still living in a rented house.
I’m still driving a rental car.
If none of these get me in some way
I have not given permission.
Do you know how I did this?
I made it by trying to distort my own memorization.
That day they did that test to me,
I wanted to get up I wanted to be a black sheep but I could not.
Then how valuable is my life
and I saw how short my time was.
And I chose to be a black sheep.
I chose to write my own destiny myself.
So it came out.
Four;
I learned disciplined life.
I will not go to work this morning.
If you are a business owner, and you think you deserve respect,
I do not go to work at ten o’clock.
While we were doing the seven-June election campaign,
I was waking up at six in the morning.
I was standing in the office.
I was planning between seven and eight.
I was planning that day.
I was planning to send that plan between eighth and nineteenth to my team.
I was driving my administration.
And at nine I was starting to faint
and kept everything under control.
Because I was doing a job like that.
Now this discipline is now all that I need more than ever,
why?
Because I work from home now.
I do not have an office anymore.
Everyone works from home, people I work with.
And while working from home, the bottom layer is one,
I made an office in our house downstairs, myself.
I wake up at 8:00 in the morning.
Just as it has gone to the mosque,
If I’m going to the mosque,
I wear them and I sit at the top of my computer.
I am working on my work until 5 o’clock in the evening.
I can practice this discipline everywhere in my life
And to be clear that everything is.
Five;
I started to do economics.
Now I may be working in a disciplined way.
So we actually need or
We can buy everything we want, thank goodness.
But; here in my wife, say herself
I am a technology maniac.
I like to buy a lot of technological devices.
I do not take these two technological devices anymore.
If I need it, I do it by the way.
If I can do the work I do in three hours in one hour, I will take that device.
Or what I do with four cigarettes,
If I can do one, I will take that device.
I do not take anything but him.
Besides, it was shoes, I wore what I do not know
I do not take any of them.
If you think the campaign is now an area, the second is free,
fifty percent discount.
I do not need sports shoes, just because the price is cheap,
Do you ever wear sneakers, brother? I ask myself.
And that’s the only shoe I’ve had in the last two years.
I do not buy anything else besides him.
I’m doing economics.
By the way,
(Laughter)
I look, I look, I look …
I look at young people,
they earn three cents.
Unfortunately, this situation and I feel sorry
but such unbelievably stingy gregarious weddings,
they spend tremendous money on those weddings, not in their homes.
There is an LED in our house five years ago.
There’s a lot of stuff in 3D, I do not know.
What do I need now?
I do not think the television in the house is enough?
But they do not exist in their house like this and in their lives,
marriage life, must be the happiest
they are in debt only for the first five years.
Will it ever be clear in debt?
Life, I mean, do I ever live with debt.
I do not think such a chaos is troubling.
So we also have to go inside that chaos,
away from the city.
Six;
City life, we think that creative people,
killing your imagination.
I think city life is lazing hard working people,
I think it’s distributing consistent people.
City life is constantly attracting us.
Every day we feed on unhappy people.
Every day, with the people we communicate with,
we communicate in traffic or something
and these are on our side,
We feed, we know what we do not know.
I say what do I do?
We found the opportunity to move to Bodrum with the help of my wife.
We really said that enough is enough for us.
Then we looked at the fact that it supports the other
there is a situation in the middle.
My parents recently visited my brother’s house in Istanbul,
he told me he had gone to the kitchen to make the cost of the kitchen;
Fruit veggies we bought for 80 lira in Bodrum
He says I bought it in Istanbul for 220 liras.
I am also saying that I am
I say that I am not rich enough to live in Istanbul.
Because I am rich;
Here I sat in our garden in the evening,
I had one tangerine soaked, I ate.
There is no more than that.
If I do not get the shoe I do not need,
So if I like mandarin I have to eat mandarin, right?
Is there another golden tangerine?
I have a golden wrist, but I do not know if there is a golden tangerine.
So I moved away from the city.
And seven; which i think is important to all
I started reading books.
(Cheers)
Thank you so much.
I started reading books
and i have my own
the most important thing;
away from city life, now it has come.
But I also needed to read a book.
I told you about my father.
My dad was reading a lot of books
and there are ornamental items in the windows of others’ homes
I studied learning to be three and a half years old.
From the age of seven to twenty-five,
I read an hour a book before going to bed every night.
I met this 25-year-old social media thing.
There is Twitter, Facebook, what I know, a lot of content flows.
Here are the news, trends, agenda, what I do not know
I realize that I am reading this and 1.5-2 hours every day.
And this is actually an illusion.
Reading books does not replace reading internet.
It’s a garbage.
I read a book because it adds an experience,
adding something adds something.
Even if you turn the page of the book,
because it appeals to a second sense of humankind, increasing the persistence.
What are we doing on the internet?
We pull it down.
So it is more than 2-3 years ago to read books,
I realized that I wanted to spend as much time as my old one.
However, living in Istanbul and driving,
then it is not possible to try to read books.
So I did not have the courage to move to Bodrum,
The second main reason was to spend more time reading the book.
And I realized that, too,
and after we go to Bodrum we are doing it now,
Every day we spend 1-1.5 hours reading at home with my husband.
So I wanna watch Survivor on TV?
We are reading book.
So, I go to Istanbul a week or two every week for 1.5 hours on the plane,
1 hour in the waiting room, I do not know what I’m reading on the subway.
Every one going to Istanbul is a book of conversions.
A book totaling two books a week,
It’s 100 books a year.
I can spend time with these 100 people
and I realized that; if i can spare time
people can also devote time to it.
So I established something called a book club.
Such an example is also missing in the world.
Looks like that.
People read a book together with us, we formed a club.
Now I told you about my father.
My father is alive throughout life;
half of his life, his adult life,
half bookshop.
My biggest success in the media,
here is what I am doing right now.
So at the beginning I told you,
I said I was looking for a subtle meaning
If my father’s last word is everything, everything is very clear
and I got my father at the age of 34.
And in fact, I followed the steps of my father and acted on the other hand.
So perhaps it is under this statement:
Under “Everything is so clear”
I realized that I need to look for a nuanced sense.
I hope you and your life will be clear.
You are all wonderful.
Thank you very much for listening.
(Cheers)
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