women have a harder time with failure and yet everybody who has succeeded will
and yet everybody who has succeeded will
and yet everybody who has succeeded will tell you that there is no success
tell you that there is no success
tell you that there is no success without failure along the way I don’t
without failure along the way I don’t
without failure along the way I don’t just race and I don’t just work on cars
just race and I don’t just work on cars
just race and I don’t just work on cars I you know I race and I like to cook and
I you know I race and I like to cook and
I you know I race and I like to cook and I like to travel and I like to look
I like to travel and I like to look
I like to travel and I like to look pretty and I like to get dressed up and
pretty and I like to get dressed up and
pretty and I like to get dressed up and I like hair and makeup and I like all
I like hair and makeup and I like all
I like hair and makeup and I like all those other things and if you’re willing
those other things and if you’re willing
those other things and if you’re willing to make all the trade-offs that you need
to make all the trade-offs that you need
to make all the trade-offs that you need to make you can’t have it all what’s
to make you can’t have it all what’s
to make you can’t have it all what’s that belief nation it’s Evan my one word
that belief nation it’s Evan my one word
that belief nation it’s Evan my one word is believe and I believe in you I
is believe and I believe in you I
is believe and I believe in you I believe you have an amazing gift inside
believe you have an amazing gift inside
believe you have an amazing gift inside you that I want to see exploded onto the
you that I want to see exploded onto the
you that I want to see exploded onto the world this is a new series called
world this is a new series called
world this is a new series called girlboss I’m obviously not a woman but I
girlboss I’m obviously not a woman but I
girlboss I’m obviously not a woman but I do believe that you can support one
do believe that you can support one
do believe that you can support one community without putting another
community without putting another
community without putting another community down so my goal with this
community down so my goal with this
community down so my goal with this series is to shine a light of excellence
series is to shine a light of excellence
series is to shine a light of excellence on women entrepreneurs and hopefully
on women entrepreneurs and hopefully
on women entrepreneurs and hopefully inspire a few more girls to believe in
inspire a few more girls to believe in
inspire a few more girls to believe in themselves as well enjoy so let’s kick
themselves as well enjoy so let’s kick
themselves as well enjoy so let’s kick things off with rule number one plan
things off with rule number one plan
things off with rule number one plan with Mel Robbins do you have any other
with Mel Robbins do you have any other
with Mel Robbins do you have any other advice for women to take charge of their
advice for women to take charge of their
advice for women to take charge of their futures plan it sounds so stupid
futures plan it sounds so stupid
futures plan it sounds so stupid I mean sometimes giving advice is
I mean sometimes giving advice is
I mean sometimes giving advice is embarrassing because it’s so obvious but
embarrassing because it’s so obvious but
embarrassing because it’s so obvious but I could sit here and and literally give
I could sit here and and literally give
I could sit here and and literally give you the details of eleven different
you the details of eleven different
you the details of eleven different famous studies that talk all about the
famous studies that talk all about the
famous studies that talk all about the fact that people that take the time to
fact that people that take the time to
fact that people that take the time to write out a plan and write down two or
write out a plan and write down two or
write out a plan and write down two or three things that they’re going to focus
three things that they’re going to focus
three things that they’re going to focus on that they actually have between 30
on that they actually have between 30
on that they actually have between 30 and depending upon the studies 60%
and depending upon the studies 60%
and depending upon the studies 60% they’re more effective at getting it
they’re more effective at getting it
they’re more effective at getting it done and one of the reasons why this is
done and one of the reasons why this is
done and one of the reasons why this is more important than ever is because you
more important than ever is because you
more important than ever is because you work in such a distracted work
work in such a distracted work
work in such a distracted work environment right so if you’re gonna do
environment right so if you’re gonna do
environment right so if you’re gonna do something so let’s just let’s just give
something so let’s just let’s just give
something so let’s just let’s just give everybody the assignment what are two
everybody the assignment what are two
everybody the assignment what are two things that you’re going to do this year
things that you’re going to do this year
things that you’re going to do this year to raise your leadership game what are
to raise your leadership game what are
to raise your leadership game what are you gonna do to be a contender and it
you gonna do to be a contender and it
you gonna do to be a contender and it could be that you’re going to adopt a
could be that you’re going to adopt a
could be that you’re going to adopt a certain kind of mindset it could be that
certain kind of mindset it could be that
certain kind of mindset it could be that they’re going to stop taking notes and
they’re going to stop taking notes and
they’re going to stop taking notes and meetings it could be that you’re gonna
meetings it could be that you’re gonna
meetings it could be that you’re gonna volunteer for certain assignments it
volunteer for certain assignments it
volunteer for certain assignments it could be that you’re going to take a
could be that you’re going to take a
could be that you’re going to take a course that ramps up certain skills that
course that ramps up certain skills that
course that ramps up certain skills that you know are a deficiency
you know are a deficiency
you know are a deficiency you need to post that somewhere in your
you need to post that somewhere in your
you need to post that somewhere in your work environment so that visually you
work environment so that visually you
work environment so that visually you are reminded because you’ll forget and
are reminded because you’ll forget and
are reminded because you’ll forget and if you were to do just that pick two
if you were to do just that pick two
if you were to do just that pick two things that are gonna amp up your
things that are gonna amp up your
things that are gonna amp up your leadership game and post some sort of
leadership game and post some sort of
leadership game and post some sort of visual cue you will be more likely to
visual cue you will be more likely to
visual cue you will be more likely to change and you’ll be more likely to be
change and you’ll be more likely to be
change and you’ll be more likely to be more effective rule number two is don’t
more effective rule number two is don’t
more effective rule number two is don’t fear failure with Arianna Huffington
fear failure with Arianna Huffington
fear failure with Arianna Huffington women have a harder time with failure
women have a harder time with failure
women have a harder time with failure and yet everybody who has succeeded will
and yet everybody who has succeeded will
and yet everybody who has succeeded will tell you that there is no success
tell you that there is no success
tell you that there is no success without failure along the way and I know
without failure along the way and I know
without failure along the way and I know in my own life I’ve had plenty of
in my own life I’ve had plenty of
in my own life I’ve had plenty of failures but once you succeed people
failures but once you succeed people
failures but once you succeed people forget about your failures so I think
forget about your failures so I think
forget about your failures so I think successful people should talk more about
successful people should talk more about
successful people should talk more about their failures especially to women
their failures especially to women
their failures especially to women because women who have a sense of
because women who have a sense of
because women who have a sense of perfectionism and wanting to get
perfectionism and wanting to get
perfectionism and wanting to get everything right often refuse to take
everything right often refuse to take
everything right often refuse to take risks because when you take a risk you
risks because when you take a risk you
risks because when you take a risk you never know if it’s going to succeed or
never know if it’s going to succeed or
never know if it’s going to succeed or fail my mother fortunately brought me up
fail my mother fortunately brought me up
fail my mother fortunately brought me up believing that as she put it failure is
believing that as she put it failure is
believing that as she put it failure is not the opposite of success it’s a
not the opposite of success it’s a
not the opposite of success it’s a stepping stone to success rule number
stepping stone to success rule number
stepping stone to success rule number three be who you are with Danica Patrick
three be who you are with Danica Patrick
three be who you are with Danica Patrick so you said what makes you different
so you said what makes you different
so you said what makes you different makes you great where does that advice
makes you great where does that advice
makes you great where does that advice come from that you when you talk to
come from that you when you talk to
come from that you when you talk to people well I mean I think that the most
people well I mean I think that the most
people well I mean I think that the most obvious one really obviously is being a
obvious one really obviously is being a
obvious one really obviously is being a girl um so when I was younger and like
girl um so when I was younger and like
girl um so when I was younger and like living in England and kind of early teen
living in England and kind of early teen
living in England and kind of early teen years I don’t think I I didn’t care that
years I don’t think I I didn’t care that
years I don’t think I I didn’t care that I was a girl I just didn’t want to make
I was a girl I just didn’t want to make
I was a girl I just didn’t want to make it real obvious I mean I didn’t want it
it real obvious I mean I didn’t want it
it real obvious I mean I didn’t want it to stand out you know I didn’t wear nail
to stand out you know I didn’t wear nail
to stand out you know I didn’t wear nail polish because when I talk about the
polish because when I talk about the
polish because when I talk about the racecar I didn’t want guy I’m looking at
racecar I didn’t want guy I’m looking at
racecar I didn’t want guy I’m looking at my hands and seeing pink fingernails you
my hands and seeing pink fingernails you
my hands and seeing pink fingernails you know I didn’t you know wear pink and
know I didn’t you know wear pink and
know I didn’t you know wear pink and purple and make it really flashy and
purple and make it really flashy and
purple and make it really flashy and obvious no hearts and bows and you know
obvious no hearts and bows and you know
obvious no hearts and bows and you know just kind of wanted to blend in and
just kind of wanted to blend in and
just kind of wanted to blend in and having my seven-year-old daughter
having my seven-year-old daughter
having my seven-year-old daughter am I really parts and bows or didn’t
am I really parts and bows or didn’t
am I really parts and bows or didn’t want to wear her she’s now rejecting
want to wear her she’s now rejecting
want to wear her she’s now rejecting them but she was all in them so well you
them but she was all in them so well you
them but she was all in them so well you know you go through these phase
know you go through these phase
know you go through these phase where you feel comfortable and sometimes
where you feel comfortable and sometimes
where you feel comfortable and sometimes you don’t and I didn’t really feel
you don’t and I didn’t really feel
you don’t and I didn’t really feel comfortable making it obvious and so so
comfortable making it obvious and so so
comfortable making it obvious and so so it really was I came back from England
it really was I came back from England
it really was I came back from England when I was 19 and you know I I let
when I was 19 and you know I I let
when I was 19 and you know I I let myself kind of go there to be a girl a
myself kind of go there to be a girl a
myself kind of go there to be a girl a little bit and it really came from a
little bit and it really came from a
little bit and it really came from a kind of racy photo shoot that I did that
kind of racy photo shoot that I did that
kind of racy photo shoot that I did that it was more girly of me and it just all
it was more girly of me and it just all
it was more girly of me and it just all of a sudden it stuff started happening
of a sudden it stuff started happening
of a sudden it stuff started happening and people were contacting me and
and people were contacting me and
and people were contacting me and sponsors and teams and it just but
sponsors and teams and it just but
sponsors and teams and it just but nobody questioned what I could do you
nobody questioned what I could do you
nobody questioned what I could do you know it wasn’t like people didn’t didn’t
know it wasn’t like people didn’t didn’t
know it wasn’t like people didn’t didn’t think I could race or their opinion
think I could race or their opinion
think I could race or their opinion really changed on that maybe they had
really changed on that maybe they had
really changed on that maybe they had opinion on what I did but it didn’t
opinion on what I did but it didn’t
opinion on what I did but it didn’t change the opportunity to be able to do
change the opportunity to be able to do
change the opportunity to be able to do what I wanted to do it just really was
what I wanted to do it just really was
what I wanted to do it just really was opening doors and it was allowing it you
opening doors and it was allowing it you
opening doors and it was allowing it you know it was me being able to tap into
know it was me being able to tap into
know it was me being able to tap into something that was part of my
something that was part of my
something that was part of my personality I mean I think we were not
personality I mean I think we were not
personality I mean I think we were not one-dimensional people we have all kinds
one-dimensional people we have all kinds
one-dimensional people we have all kinds of different sides to us we’re not you
of different sides to us we’re not you
of different sides to us we’re not you know I don’t just race and I don’t just
know I don’t just race and I don’t just
know I don’t just race and I don’t just work on cars I you know I race and I
work on cars I you know I race and I
work on cars I you know I race and I like to cook and I like to travel and I
like to cook and I like to travel and I
like to cook and I like to travel and I like to look pretty and I like to get
like to look pretty and I like to get
like to look pretty and I like to get dressed up and I like hair and makeup
dressed up and I like hair and makeup
dressed up and I like hair and makeup and I like all those other things so it
and I like all those other things so it
and I like all those other things so it was kind of a way for me to it was an
was kind of a way for me to it was an
was kind of a way for me to it was an extension of me and but it was
extension of me and but it was
extension of me and but it was celebrated so it came to you as you
celebrated so it came to you as you
celebrated so it came to you as you embraced who you were exactly so you
embraced who you were exactly so you
embraced who you were exactly so you know sometimes I really feel that
know sometimes I really feel that
know sometimes I really feel that whatever it is it’s the most different
whatever it is it’s the most different
whatever it is it’s the most different about you is probably the most important
about you is probably the most important
about you is probably the most important and the most special and the most useful
and the most special and the most useful
and the most special and the most useful rule number four be willing to make
rule number four be willing to make
rule number four be willing to make sacrifices with Indra Nooyi on a
sacrifices with Indra Nooyi on a
sacrifices with Indra Nooyi on a relative basis yes I’ve had it all okay
relative basis yes I’ve had it all okay
relative basis yes I’ve had it all okay on a relative basis I’m very fortunate
on a relative basis I’m very fortunate
on a relative basis I’m very fortunate to have a wonderful husband two great
to have a wonderful husband two great
to have a wonderful husband two great kids a very tight-knit family and
kids a very tight-knit family and
kids a very tight-knit family and awesome job with a great team but you
awesome job with a great team but you
awesome job with a great team but you know to get here and to stay here I mean
know to get here and to stay here I mean
know to get here and to stay here I mean lots of trade-offs lots of sacrifices
lots of trade-offs lots of sacrifices
lots of trade-offs lots of sacrifices you know under the water a lot of
you know under the water a lot of
you know under the water a lot of collateral damage but I think somehow
collateral damage but I think somehow
collateral damage but I think somehow I’ve had the strength to power through
I’ve had the strength to power through
I’ve had the strength to power through all of that can you have it all that’s
all of that can you have it all that’s
all of that can you have it all that’s the big question in this definition I
the big question in this definition I
the big question in this definition I think if you have the right support
think if you have the right support
think if you have the right support system if you have an understanding
system if you have an understanding
system if you have an understanding spouse if you want to be married and if
spouse if you want to be married and if
spouse if you want to be married and if you’re willing to make all the
you’re willing to make all the
you’re willing to make all the trade-offs that you need to make you
trade-offs that you need to make you
trade-offs that you need to make you can’t have it all but while you do all
can’t have it all but while you do all
can’t have it all but while you do all that there will be heartache
that there will be heartache
that there will be heartache there will be pain there would be some
there will be pain there would be some
there will be pain there would be some collateral damage underneath the surface
collateral damage underneath the surface
collateral damage underneath the surface I’ve got to live with it
I’ve got to live with it
I’ve got to live with it rule number five fight with nina dobrev
rule number five fight with nina dobrev
rule number five fight with nina dobrev and there’s a lot been happening lately
and there’s a lot been happening lately
and there’s a lot been happening lately in hollywood right with the whole times
in hollywood right with the whole times
in hollywood right with the whole times up movement with the me – movement which
up movement with the me – movement which
up movement with the me – movement which i think there’s this cleansing that is
i think there’s this cleansing that is
i think there’s this cleansing that is happening so it’s almost perfect timing
happening so it’s almost perfect timing
happening so it’s almost perfect timing with the weather and the purifying of
with the weather and the purifying of
with the weather and the purifying of the air and i know you’re involved in
the air and i know you’re involved in
the air and i know you’re involved in the times up campaign a movement crisis
the times up campaign a movement crisis
the times up campaign a movement crisis why did you get behind this what’s it
why did you get behind this what’s it
why did you get behind this what’s it about and what do you want people to
about and what do you want people to
about and what do you want people to know about it over the top i think 200
know about it over the top i think 200
know about it over the top i think 200 fortune 500 companies there’s no women
fortune 500 companies there’s no women
fortune 500 companies there’s no women on any of their boards or if there is
on any of their boards or if there is
on any of their boards or if there is it’s it’s one woman on each on each
it’s it’s one woman on each on each
it’s it’s one woman on each on each board of every company and so of course
board of every company and so of course
board of every company and so of course if there’s any kind of harassment or
if there’s any kind of harassment or
if there’s any kind of harassment or abuse it’s hard to go up to your bosses
abuse it’s hard to go up to your bosses
abuse it’s hard to go up to your bosses if none of them are women and none of
if none of them are women and none of
if none of them are women and none of them understand your position it’s all
them understand your position it’s all
them understand your position it’s all it’s just not fair so our goal is to get
it’s just not fair so our goal is to get
it’s just not fair so our goal is to get more women on the boards of companies
more women on the boards of companies
more women on the boards of companies that have influence to trickle down into
that have influence to trickle down into
that have influence to trickle down into the other industries because it’s not
the other industries because it’s not
the other industries because it’s not just our industry our industry gets the
just our industry our industry gets the
just our industry our industry gets the most press and the most notoriety and
most press and the most notoriety and
most press and the most notoriety and and you hear our voice is the most but
and you hear our voice is the most but
and you hear our voice is the most but there’s women in agriculture there’s
there’s women in agriculture there’s
there’s women in agriculture there’s women in finance there’s women
women in finance there’s women
women in finance there’s women housekeepers and all kinds of different
housekeepers and all kinds of different
housekeepers and all kinds of different women that are in that don’t really have
women that are in that don’t really have
women that are in that don’t really have the power or didn’t feel like they had
the power or didn’t feel like they had
the power or didn’t feel like they had the voice but now we’re all kind of
the voice but now we’re all kind of
the voice but now we’re all kind of coming together and speaking up for the
coming together and speaking up for the
coming together and speaking up for the little guys the medium guys the big guys
little guys the medium guys the big guys
little guys the medium guys the big guys it’s just I was incredibly inspired by
it’s just I was incredibly inspired by
it’s just I was incredibly inspired by it and it’s been an awakening and I’m
it and it’s been an awakening and I’m
it and it’s been an awakening and I’m really excited to move forward into this
really excited to move forward into this
really excited to move forward into this new year and see I’ve already seen so
new year and see I’ve already seen so
new year and see I’ve already seen so much change and I have wanted so much
much change and I have wanted so much
much change and I have wanted so much more
more
more what can people do or you know watching
what can people do or you know watching
what can people do or you know watching all these you know actors and actresses
all these you know actors and actresses
all these you know actors and actresses and they’re just women of influence who
and they’re just women of influence who
and they’re just women of influence who are promoting this what can women do is
are promoting this what can women do is
are promoting this what can women do is it just post on a hashtag on now is it
it just post on a hashtag on now is it
it just post on a hashtag on now is it what’s the action steps that I mean
what’s the action steps that I mean
what’s the action steps that I mean colorful you can’t do anything unless
colorful you can’t do anything unless
colorful you can’t do anything unless you know about something
you know about something
you know about something Faye’s has been all about education what
Faye’s has been all about education what
Faye’s has been all about education what our education people that this is
our education people that this is
our education people that this is happening and we need to do something
happening and we need to do something
happening and we need to do something about it now that we know about it now
about it now that we know about it now
about it now that we know about it now that has become become such a big
that has become become such a big
that has become become such a big movement
movement
movement I mean Oprah Winfrey did amazing the
I mean Oprah Winfrey did amazing the
I mean Oprah Winfrey did amazing the most incredible speech how did she kind
most incredible speech how did she kind
most incredible speech how did she kind of winged it I actually wrote that
of winged it I actually wrote that
of winged it I actually wrote that speech in the car is what I heard but
speech in the car is what I heard but
speech in the car is what I heard but there’s no way I would love to that
there’s no way I would love to that
there’s no way I would love to that would be great
would be great
would be great he’s amazing I think she should be the
he’s amazing I think she should be the
he’s amazing I think she should be the next president but now that we have that
next president but now that we have that
next president but now that we have that awareness I mean time’s up isn’t just
awareness I mean time’s up isn’t just
awareness I mean time’s up isn’t just about the awareness like if you go on
about the awareness like if you go on
about the awareness like if you go on the website there’s so many things that
the website there’s so many things that
the website there’s so many things that people can do there’s a fun that we’ve
people can do there’s a fun that we’ve
people can do there’s a fun that we’ve started on a legal side so that we can
started on a legal side so that we can
started on a legal side so that we can have a bunch of lawyers basically look
have a bunch of lawyers basically look
have a bunch of lawyers basically look in-house lawyers that are already paid
in-house lawyers that are already paid
in-house lawyers that are already paid so that women in the agriculture
so that women in the agriculture
so that women in the agriculture industry or in any industry across the
industry or in any industry across the
industry or in any industry across the board have someone they can go to that’s
board have someone they can go to that’s
board have someone they can go to that’s already paid for so it’s not about I
already paid for so it’s not about I
already paid for so it’s not about I think a lot of people can’t afford a
think a lot of people can’t afford a
think a lot of people can’t afford a lawyer so if something happens they if
lawyer so if something happens they if
lawyer so if something happens they if if the company has a lot more money in
if the company has a lot more money in
if the company has a lot more money in power they won’t want to press charges
power they won’t want to press charges
power they won’t want to press charges because they feel small but in this case
because they feel small but in this case
because they feel small but in this case this this fund will pay for these
this this fund will pay for these
this this fund will pay for these lawyers so that everyone has
lawyers so that everyone has
lawyers so that everyone has representation across the board in every
representation across the board in every
representation across the board in every industry that’s great and then there’s
industry that’s great and then there’s
industry that’s great and then there’s are more things that are gonna be
are more things that are gonna be
are more things that are gonna be rolling out in the next couple of months
rolling out in the next couple of months
rolling out in the next couple of months that we’re doing what’s the website for
that we’re doing what’s the website for
that we’re doing what’s the website for it time’s up com go time’s up now com
it time’s up com go time’s up now com
it time’s up com go time’s up now com gonna make it up yeah let’s make sure so
gonna make it up yeah let’s make sure so
gonna make it up yeah let’s make sure so I don’t say the wrong thing we can just
I don’t say the wrong thing we can just
I don’t say the wrong thing we can just Google times up I’m sure you’ll find it
Google times up I’m sure you’ll find it
Google times up I’m sure you’ll find it yeah that’s great and rule number six
yeah that’s great and rule number six
yeah that’s great and rule number six the last time before my bonus rule is
the last time before my bonus rule is
the last time before my bonus rule is focus on you first with Jada Pinkett
focus on you first with Jada Pinkett
focus on you first with Jada Pinkett Smith every day when I wake up in the
Smith every day when I wake up in the
Smith every day when I wake up in the morning I go into meditation and I ask
morning I go into meditation and I ask
morning I go into meditation and I ask for guidance from the powers intangible
for guidance from the powers intangible
for guidance from the powers intangible powers and I get focused I think about
powers and I get focused I think about
powers and I get focused I think about what is will of me today okay let me
what is will of me today okay let me
what is will of me today okay let me check that off make handle that what
check that off make handle that what
check that off make handle that what does Jane Day today
does Jane Day today
does Jane Day today what does daddy need today and okay Jada
what does daddy need today and okay Jada
what does daddy need today and okay Jada before the day is done you better make
before the day is done you better make
before the day is done you better make sure that you take care of your
sure that you take care of your
sure that you take care of your self and that’s a new thing for me when
self and that’s a new thing for me when
self and that’s a new thing for me when you and Jaden would first born I had
you and Jaden would first born I had
you and Jaden would first born I had forgotten how to take care of myself
forgotten how to take care of myself
forgotten how to take care of myself because you guys were my world you guys
because you guys were my world you guys
because you guys were my world you guys were my everything you still are but I
were my everything you still are but I
were my everything you still are but I have forgotten how to do that and at the
have forgotten how to do that and at the
have forgotten how to do that and at the end of the day the one thing that I
end of the day the one thing that I
end of the day the one thing that I always want to tell you well oh and the
always want to tell you well oh and the
always want to tell you well oh and the reason why you always have to be in
reason why you always have to be in
reason why you always have to be in communication especially with me your
communication especially with me your
communication especially with me your family your grandmother your father your
family your grandmother your father your
family your grandmother your father your brothers your friends the people who
brothers your friends the people who
brothers your friends the people who love you you have to understand that
love you you have to understand that
love you you have to understand that life is a journey communication creates
life is a journey communication creates
life is a journey communication creates partnerships hmm okay that we are here
partnerships hmm okay that we are here
partnerships hmm okay that we are here to assist you that we can’t we can’t
to assist you that we can’t we can’t
to assist you that we can’t we can’t make your life for you and we can’t help
make your life for you and we can’t help
make your life for you and we can’t help you with the things that we don’t know
you with the things that we don’t know
you with the things that we don’t know and that you always have to remember to
and that you always have to remember to
and that you always have to remember to take care of you first and foremost
take care of you first and foremost
take care of you first and foremost because when you stop taking care of
because when you stop taking care of
because when you stop taking care of yourself you get out of balance and you
yourself you get out of balance and you
yourself you get out of balance and you really forget how to take care of others
really forget how to take care of others
really forget how to take care of others and I think that we’ve been taught that
and I think that we’ve been taught that
and I think that we’ve been taught that taking care of yourself as a problem and
taking care of yourself as a problem and
taking care of yourself as a problem and I’m telling you something about being a
I’m telling you something about being a
I’m telling you something about being a mother and some of the messaging that we
mother and some of the messaging that we
mother and some of the messaging that we get in this country about being a mother
get in this country about being a mother
get in this country about being a mother that you have to completely sacrifice
that you have to completely sacrifice
that you have to completely sacrifice everything mm-hmm you have to completely
everything mm-hmm you have to completely
everything mm-hmm you have to completely sacrifice every single thing and I think
sacrifice every single thing and I think
sacrifice every single thing and I think that what the the ream essage in that we
that what the the ream essage in that we
that what the the ream essage in that we as mothers need to have and gravitate to
as mothers need to have and gravitate to
as mothers need to have and gravitate to is that you have to take care of
is that you have to take care of
is that you have to take care of yourself in order to have the alignment
yourself in order to have the alignment
yourself in order to have the alignment and the power to take care of others at
and the power to take care of others at
and the power to take care of others at the capacity that we do because it fills
the capacity that we do because it fills
the capacity that we do because it fills the well what what I believe that I do
the well what what I believe that I do
the well what what I believe that I do takes so much energy so much work from
takes so much energy so much work from
takes so much energy so much work from heart spirit and creativity that I had
heart spirit and creativity that I had
heart spirit and creativity that I had to be responsible enough to take care of
to be responsible enough to take care of
to be responsible enough to take care of me because you know what happens
me because you know what happens
me because you know what happens imbalance comes you know what happens I
imbalance comes you know what happens I
imbalance comes you know what happens I look to you will and I say willow you’ve
look to you will and I say willow you’ve
look to you will and I say willow you’ve got to do this because if you don’t you
got to do this because if you don’t you
got to do this because if you don’t you you become I start looking towards you I
you become I start looking towards you I
you become I start looking towards you I start making you responsible for my
start making you responsible for my
start making you responsible for my happiness and a lot of times you know we
happiness and a lot of times you know we
happiness and a lot of times you know we do we look to our men we look to our
do we look to our men we look to our
do we look to our men we look to our husbands and our boyfriends and we go
husbands and our boyfriends and we go
husbands and our boyfriends and we go you I’ve given all this up for you and
you I’ve given all this up for you and
you I’ve given all this up for you and you’ve got to make this right by me and
you’ve got to make this right by me and
you’ve got to make this right by me and you’re supposed to make me happy because
you’re supposed to make me happy because
you’re supposed to make me happy because we’ve lost our way on how to make
we’ve lost our way on how to make
we’ve lost our way on how to make ourselves happy we lost our way so what
ourselves happy we lost our way so what
ourselves happy we lost our way so what I had to do and what I had to learn was
I had to do and what I had to learn was
I had to do and what I had to learn was how to get more balance in over the
how to get more balance in over the
how to get more balance in over the years each year each day I get more and
years each year each day I get more and
years each year each day I get more and more and more and more imbalance more
more and more and more imbalance more
more and more and more imbalance more and more and more alignment and you know
and more and more alignment and you know
and more and more alignment and you know what I get more and more happy and the
what I get more and more happy and the
what I get more and more happy and the very thing that I thought would make you
very thing that I thought would make you
very thing that I thought would make you unhappy or make Jaden and happier make
unhappy or make Jaden and happier make
unhappy or make Jaden and happier make daddy unhappy actually is fulfilling for
daddy unhappy actually is fulfilling for
daddy unhappy actually is fulfilling for you guys as well even though you might
you guys as well even though you might
you guys as well even though you might it might not be a tangible reason but
it might not be a tangible reason but
it might not be a tangible reason but the more happy I am in the more
the more happy I am in the more
the more happy I am in the more fulfilled I am it works for the family
fulfilled I am it works for the family
fulfilled I am it works for the family and when I’m not it doesn’t it’s really
and when I’m not it doesn’t it’s really
and when I’m not it doesn’t it’s really that simple
now I’ve got a very special bonus clip
now I’ve got a very special bonus clip with Warren Buffett and his views on
with Warren Buffett and his views on
with Warren Buffett and his views on women in the workplace but before that I
women in the workplace but before that I
women in the workplace but before that I want you to make a commitment of the day
want you to make a commitment of the day
want you to make a commitment of the day what did you learn from this video that
what did you learn from this video that
what did you learn from this video that you were going to practically apply
you were going to practically apply
you were going to practically apply somehow in your life or in your business
somehow in your life or in your business
somehow in your life or in your business leave it down in the comments below I’m
leave it down in the comments below I’m
leave it down in the comments below I’m really curious to find out thank you
really curious to find out thank you
really curious to find out thank you guys so much for watching I believe in
guys so much for watching I believe in
guys so much for watching I believe in you I hope you continue to believe in
you I hope you continue to believe in
you I hope you continue to believe in yourself and whatever you’re one where
yourself and whatever you’re one where
yourself and whatever you’re one where it is
it is
it is much love I’ll see you soon and enjoy
much love I’ll see you soon and enjoy
much love I’ll see you soon and enjoy the bonus clip
men should realize that you know this
men should realize that you know this isn’t well if they had if they had male
isn’t well if they had if they had male
isn’t well if they had if they had male workers and those workers could
workers and those workers could
workers and those workers could accomplish more if they had more
accomplish more if they had more
accomplish more if they had more education or whatever it might be they
education or whatever it might be they
education or whatever it might be they jump on that in a second and to take
jump on that in a second and to take
jump on that in a second and to take half the people and and and and and not
half the people and and and and and not
half the people and and and and and not recognize that they have just as much
recognize that they have just as much
recognize that they have just as much potential as the others and and use them
potential as the others and and use them
potential as the others and and use them is a big mistake but it’s for both it’s
is a big mistake but it’s for both it’s
is a big mistake but it’s for both it’s for women to throw away the funhouse
for women to throw away the funhouse
for women to throw away the funhouse mirror and start seeing themselves in a
mirror and start seeing themselves in a
mirror and start seeing themselves in a real mirror and I think many a great
real mirror and I think many a great
real mirror and I think many a great many do that that has changed a good bit
many do that that has changed a good bit
many do that that has changed a good bit over the years but I don’t there’s room
over the years but I don’t there’s room
over the years but I don’t there’s room to go if you look at the fortune 500
to go if you look at the fortune 500
to go if you look at the fortune 500 companies less than 20 have female CEOs
companies less than 20 have female CEOs
companies less than 20 have female CEOs less than 20 it is corporate America
less than 20 it is corporate America
less than 20 it is corporate America losing out big time well it’s a mistake
losing out big time well it’s a mistake
losing out big time well it’s a mistake not to use all the talent we have one
not to use all the talent we have one
not to use all the talent we have one woman at Berkshire Hathaway that is now
woman at Berkshire Hathaway that is now
woman at Berkshire Hathaway that is now chairman of foreign companies and but
chairman of foreign companies and but
chairman of foreign companies and but that’s all new and and she’s doing a
that’s all new and and she’s doing a
that’s all new and and she’s doing a terrific job and it comes slowly and
terrific job and it comes slowly and
terrific job and it comes slowly and partly that’s just there’s just a
partly that’s just there’s just a
partly that’s just there’s just a mindset that’s different at Berkshire we
mindset that’s different at Berkshire we
mindset that’s different at Berkshire we have 13 directors the six over 80 are
have 13 directors the six over 80 are
have 13 directors the six over 80 are all men the six under 60 or half women
all men the six under 60 or half women
all men the six under 60 or half women and a Half Men I mean that they’re the
and a Half Men I mean that they’re the
and a Half Men I mean that they’re the future the most important work ever if
future the most important work ever if
future the most important work ever if you have to think of one word that’s
you have to think of one word that’s
you have to think of one word that’s most important to you or that sums you
most important to you or that sums you
most important to you or that sums you Apple that would be to like a little
Apple that would be to like a little
Apple that would be to like a little beacon they believe nation if you want
beacon they believe nation if you want
beacon they believe nation if you want to know what the most important one word
to know what the most important one word
to know what the most important one word is for Tony Robbins Gary Vaynerchuk
is for Tony Robbins Gary Vaynerchuk
is for Tony Robbins Gary Vaynerchuk Oprah Winfrey will.i.am and Howard
Oprah Winfrey will.i.am and Howard
Oprah Winfrey will.i.am and Howard Schultz I have a very special secret
Schultz I have a very special secret
Schultz I have a very special secret video for you check the description for
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