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More about they trust themselves.
And I hope that if you believe in what you can do,
As I trust in you
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On 10 skills that are difficult to learn
But will bear fruit forever.
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The number one skill speaks for.
– One of the things you want to be sure to do
Is whether you like it or not,
Getting very convenient, it make take a moment,
With rhetoric for example.
I mean, this is an asset that will last you 50 or 60 years
And it’s the responsibility if you do not like to do
Or are uncomfortable doing that will last you too
50 or 60 years old and it’s a necessary skill.
– Skill number two honest with yourself.
– One of the big things that all startups do is lying
To itself, repeatedly and repeatedly.
Mine is faster and mine is cheaper, mine is better,
This mine is mine.
No it’s not the reason it’s not because
Who is you competing with,
It’s not like they ignored you.
It’s not like, my God,
This guy just started on Shopify in the startup contest
He is doing $ 1 million this year,
Woe to me, and I have also been near the doors.
What are they doing?
I’m going to copy what I’ve done, and now I’ve got to
So anticipate, you know, you’ve got to be
Very careful as a businessman to be brutally honest
With yourself and who are some things
You have to hear from me and his teacher.
To know what you know, know what you do not know,
But you have to know your work better than anyone.
– The number three skill is the existence of trust.
– I do not know if you agree with me in this,
But in many ways, one of the main factors
Legendary success is not your natural ability.
It’s not whether you have our right product,
It’s not whether you’re in the right field,
It’s not whether you’ve had a blessed background.
It’s not whether you have the correct IQ.
I want you to really think about and disassemble
And play with maybe later tonight to win your magazine.
I want you to dismantle this idea of trust
It seems very simple work but just thinking
In your own life.
When you have confidence or even we can shoot,
When you have this fire inside you, that trust,
That the inner courage,
You have almost this power to do whatever it takes
To get your bravery vision done.
You see, in this world, it does not relate, in many ways,
Your strategy and your work or your ability
In your life, but for this thing is called trust
We had all these times in our lives when we were
Full of trust and what other people see as a problem,
We simply do not see a chance.
Other people see it as a stumbling block or wall
We see it as a stone step or solution.
Of trust is simply what you really are
Want to wire in.
Trust is something you really want to develop,
Confidence is exercise, confidence is muscle
Like any muscle, you have to focus more on it
Practice and train it, and strengthen your trust
I will grow and I just have to say again.
When you are in place in your life,
When there is continuous, continuous flow of confidence
Moving through your mental, moving though your heartset,
You do heroic in your business
And you can achieve a wonderful in your life.
– Skill number four listens.
– Nelson Mandela case study especially special
In the world’s leadership it is universally considered
As a great leader.
You can take other characters depending on the nation
Go to it, we have different opinions about the other
The figures but Nelson Mandela, all over the world,
He is universally regarded as a great leader.
He was actually the son of a tribal leader
One day,
How do you learn to be a great leader?
He replied that he would go with his father
To tribal meetings and remember two things
When his father wanted to meet with other elders.
One, they always sit in a circle
Two, his father was always the last to speak.
You will be told your whole life you need
To learn to listen.
I would say that you need to learn to be the last to speak.
I see it in the board rooms every day of the week.
Even people who consider themselves good leaders who have
Be in fact decent leaders will walk in the room and say:
Here’s the problem, here’s what I think,
But I am interested in your opinion,
Let’s go around the room.
it’s too late.
Skill to hold your opinions for yourself up
Everyone may speak no two things.
One, it gives everyone feeling
They have heard.
It gives everyone the ability to feel
They contributed.
Second, you get the benefit of what everyone is hearing
Another has to think before you make your mind.
The skill is really to keep your opinions for yourself.
If you agree with someone, do not nod yes.
If you disagree with someone, do not nod.
Simply sit there and take it all in, and the only thing
You are allowed to do is ask questions so that you can
Understand what you mean and what they have an opinion
That they have, you must understand in terms of
We talk, why do we have an opinion,
Not just what they say
In the end, you will get your turn.
It sounds easy, it’s not.
Practice being the last to speak.
This is what Nelson Mandela did.
– Skill number five runs your time.
– My challenge in our generation is that which gradually
Through entertainment, through television, through the media,
Through every possible means, we live in
Generation of tone reduction of ideas
Because we traded the effectiveness of the comment.
Statistics say, yes a person must clap on it.
We are busier than anything else we’ve seen
In the last three to four hundred years.
We are very busy, and we are busier than an insurgent
Wallpaper hanger, we just busy, you will get it later,
Do not worry about this, it’ll reach you in one minute.
We are just as busy as we can be and believe
Because we are busy, we are effective.
But I want you to challenge your schedule for a minute
And ask yourself, are you being really effective
Or clutter your life with all sorts of things
It requires you to drain and tax you
It depends on you to have a higher and better self
You are replacing anxiety and all this chaos
That goes hand in hand with the comment of being effective?
Let me tell you, a handful of scientists got together,
They begin to do some research and begin to identify
That 80% of the things we do are busy things what we do
In the area that is not effective, that the average person
Only spend 20% of their time doing the thing they do
Really talented, creative in, enthusiastic,
Excited to do and the rest of it all is gloomy,
The stupid stuff that we all have to do in order to survive.
Only the crazy things we do.
I wonder what will happen if we go from doing
80% of the things that are busy but not effective
And 20% of things to be really effective,
If we switch those numbers around and just give
20% of our time for the things we have to do
And 80% of our time for something that we were
Create to do.
(Applause)
I wonder what will happen in your life.
Now think about this moment, there are a lot of things
You could take me and I could not achieve it.
You could take my suit and I got another one.
You could take my car, I could get another one.
You could take my house, I could get another house.
But when you take my time, I took something out of me
Which is absolutely indispensable.
We take all kinds of questions from money management.
We know how to manage our money, we know how to fix
Our homes, we work on our site on hair and our bodies
And all that kind of stuff.
We do everything except the most important thing
Is the value of our time.
It takes time to be creative.
Which was supposed to be creative.
Is created in the likeness and image
From the Creator and in that resemblance and in that image,
You have creativity.
If you have time, you will be creative
But in the absence of time and preoccupation
Gang ring gang, ring phone,
Whistling, whistling, beep.
You all got music playing on the phone and all sorts of things.
No matter what kind of song you put on,
After a moment you hate to hear it because every time
You hear this voice for you I know it’s someone else
He wants something else from you that is what takes you away
From what you are talented and created to do.
– The number six skill is to stop whining.
– So I have this thing that I’ve been promoting called
No Wednesday whining.
Wednesday You can not whine, complain or criticize.
People like, well what is whining?
Whatever you think it is, do not do it.
Every time you do it,
You have to put a quarter in the pot.
If you whine about anything, I can not, I’m tired,
Why me, why not?
Each of them will cost you a quarter.
Or complaint, why not you, why always,
How it happens to you, I always, and never.
Webb, it costs you a quarter.
Then last week, people were sending me photos of them
Jars from the sides.
Gosh. (Laugh)
What they also told me was, this was fantastic
Because I’ve never, ever learned how much whining
Complain and criticize I do.
I’ve got mothers doing with their kids.
So Wednesday is no whining Wednesday.
We need to practice it.
We need to stop whining about what is not happening,
Unless we have, what we can not do,
What someone did not do.
We got to get it clean in 2014.
Do not whine, do not complain, do not criticize.
– Seven figure skill is to stay present at the moment.
Skill number eight, being consistent.
– Success is not a destination.
People always think that my God, that person
Very successful because they had a successful film
Or exhibition is successful but success is a journey.
You have to always, always be successful.
So when you’re really successful because otherwise
You have to remember for the latter
I have had a few but I just make up for it
Fshly by just getting and running.
The more time you take to kind of mourn it,
You are wasting a lot more time in being successful.
So you have to decorate up, choose yourself,
Dust yourself and stop telling what can I do?
There is always a solution.
Can not expect, people always get that wrong
Just because this year was what he was,
It was because I worked constantly hard
For about 10 years.
And yet, I know practical enough to be able to
To be appreciated.
But if you have not had 10 years past,
I would not have been this year or the year before.
So success is not a destination where you are,
Or power is not like okay today I was strong.
You’ll always be strong
And always be successful and this is a journey.
– The number nine skill is getting enough sleep.
– Well, first of all, give priority sleep.
That means saying no to the things you want to do.
It is not easy.
– [Researcher] No, it is difficult, I think the hardest thing.
– Last night, you know, Cheryl Sandberg interviewed me
In the San Fran Symphony Hall then I had to sign the books
I love to go and have dinner with her
But I went to bed.
You know, because I had to go for dinner
I did not get at least seven hours of sleep that I needed
Was getting up early to do TV,
I will not enjoy being here with you now
I really enjoy it and I’m 100% present
I am not tired and I hate that more tired than
I hate anything.
– The No. 10 skill is the presence of empathy.
– I’ve thought a lot about the power of empathy.
In my work, it’s the current that connects me
And my actual pulse for a fake figure
The story is made up, because it allows me to feel pretending feelings
The sorrows and pains imagine.
In my nervous system is wired sympathetically
The current is conducted for you
Sit in the theater and cinema
And the woman sits next to you
And to her friend so that we all feel it happens
Us at the same time.
It is very mysterious and a valuable resource
Of the human race
And women, I think, get to it without bothering.
We scream in sad films, and we do not feel that we are losing face
Or position or position do so.
We see news that angers us as we write letters
Through tears, our hearts pounded.
I often used to wonder why these humans developed
Embarrassing and embarrassing responses,
This excitation, suffocation, and wet obstruction.
You know, the thing doctors and soldiers are
Traders in the stock market, journalists and fashion models
Politicians and news commentators
And the owners of capital everything must be suppressed in order
To work more efficiently.
(Audience laughs)
I thought what possible value, function can be
In the Darwinist scheme you know,
Survival of the fittest and strongest
The most severe.
(Audience laughs)
Not seriously, I thought why and how we did not develop
With such a weak and useless passion in tact
At the core of the deep heart to.
And answer as you put it to myself
But empathy is the engine
That the powers are all good in us.
This is what we owe.
Which binds us.
– Thank you guys so much to watch.
I hope you enjoyed.
I like to know what I’ve done in this video?
What you take from him is that you’re going to apply
Instantly one way or another your life or your business?
What is your favorite of 10
And how do you go to apply?
Leave it in the comments below,
I’m really curious to find out.
Also if you think there are 11, 12, 13 that you want
Add to the list, and leave it on the comments.
I’m curious to see what super you have to say.
Thank you guys again to watch, you think in.
I hope we still believe in yourself
No matter what word you have.
So much love, I will see you soon. Translation (Rafaa Tai)
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