it was very difficult for me to figure out where my boundaries were because
out where my boundaries were because
out where my boundaries were because I’ve grown up poor and didn’t have
I’ve grown up poor and didn’t have
I’ve grown up poor and didn’t have anything
anything
anything I can’t quit this job because this is
I can’t quit this job because this is
I can’t quit this job because this is what everybody else wants to do
what everybody else wants to do
what everybody else wants to do and if I quit this job what am I going
and if I quit this job what am I going
and if I quit this job what am I going to do what we all want is to be able to
to do what we all want is to be able to
to do what we all want is to be able to live out the truest highest expression
live out the truest highest expression
live out the truest highest expression of ourselves when people show you who
of ourselves when people show you who
of ourselves when people show you who they are believe them the first time
they are believe them the first time
they are believe them the first time hello bleep nation its Evan my one word
hello bleep nation its Evan my one word
hello bleep nation its Evan my one word is believe and I believe in people more
is believe and I believe in people more
is believe and I believe in people more than they believe in themselves and my
than they believe in themselves and my
than they believe in themselves and my sincere hope is that if you see in
sincere hope is that if you see in
sincere hope is that if you see in yourself what I see in you you’ll be
yourself what I see in you you’ll be
yourself what I see in you you’ll be able to change the planet so to help you
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you know cuz when I first started making
you know cuz when I first started making money and it was you know my salary or
money and it was you know my salary or
money and it was you know my salary or my earnings were published all over the
my earnings were published all over the
my earnings were published all over the place I mean the first year I was like
place I mean the first year I was like
place I mean the first year I was like really loving that much money oh my god
really loving that much money oh my god
really loving that much money oh my god it was very difficult for me to figure
it was very difficult for me to figure
it was very difficult for me to figure out where my boundaries were because I
out where my boundaries were because I
out where my boundaries were because I grown up poor and didn’t have anything
grown up poor and didn’t have anything
grown up poor and didn’t have anything so it’s easy when you don’t have
so it’s easy when you don’t have
so it’s easy when you don’t have anything that people ask you for money
anything that people ask you for money
anything that people ask you for money and they say I need five hundred and I
and they say I need five hundred and I
and they say I need five hundred and I don’t have it because I’m just trying to
don’t have it because I’m just trying to
don’t have it because I’m just trying to get my rent paid it’s harder when you’re
get my rent paid it’s harder when you’re
get my rent paid it’s harder when you’re multi billion dollar salary is now in
multi billion dollar salary is now in
multi billion dollar salary is now in the paper and you get a lot of friends
the paper and you get a lot of friends
the paper and you get a lot of friends and cousins you didn’t have before so
and cousins you didn’t have before so
and cousins you didn’t have before so how do you set boundaries for yourself I
how do you set boundaries for yourself I
how do you set boundaries for yourself I was having trouble setting boundaries
was having trouble setting boundaries
was having trouble setting boundaries myself for myself for even strangers
myself for myself for even strangers
myself for myself for even strangers people would just show up at my door in
people would just show up at my door in
people would just show up at my door in Chicago and they over I live mothers and
Chicago and they over I live mothers and
Chicago and they over I live mothers and please help me and I would because she
please help me and I would because she
please help me and I would because she knows I haven’t so don’t try that now
knows I haven’t so don’t try that now
knows I haven’t so don’t try that now though okay don’t try that now I figured
though okay don’t try that now I figured
though okay don’t try that now I figured it out
so what I learned was is that oh the
so what I learned was is that oh the reason why people keep showing up is
reason why people keep showing up is
reason why people keep showing up is because my intention is to make them
because my intention is to make them
because my intention is to make them think that I’m such a nice person that
think that I’m such a nice person that
think that I’m such a nice person that you can ask me for anything you can get
you can ask me for anything you can get
you can ask me for anything you can get me to do anything I’m going to say yes
me to do anything I’m going to say yes
me to do anything I’m going to say yes I’m going to say yes so when Stevie
I’m going to say yes so when Stevie
I’m going to say yes so when Stevie called me this time I thought I try out
called me this time I thought I try out
called me this time I thought I try out my first no on Stevie let’s start big he
my first no on Stevie let’s start big he
my first no on Stevie let’s start big he wanted me to donate some money to a
wanted me to donate some money to a
wanted me to donate some money to a charity and I didn’t want to donate to
charity and I didn’t want to donate to
charity and I didn’t want to donate to the charity because I have my own
the charity because I have my own
the charity because I have my own charities and I care about a lot of
charities and I care about a lot of
charities and I care about a lot of people but the problem is when you you
people but the problem is when you you
people but the problem is when you you have money everybody thinks you just
have money everybody thinks you just
have money everybody thinks you just want to give to everything so every
want to give to everything so every
want to give to everything so every letter I ever get starts with we know
letter I ever get starts with we know
letter I ever get starts with we know you love the children yes I do love the
you love the children yes I do love the
you love the children yes I do love the children but somebody else is going to
children but somebody else is going to
children but somebody else is going to have to help the children
have to help the children
have to help the children so I said to Stevie I said to Stevie no
so I said to Stevie I said to Stevie no
so I said to Stevie I said to Stevie no and as a person who has that disease too
and as a person who has that disease too
and as a person who has that disease too please I was waiting for him then just
please I was waiting for him then just
please I was waiting for him then just to say I will never speak to you again I
to say I will never speak to you again I
to say I will never speak to you again I will never call you I will never sing a
will never call you I will never sing a
will never call you I will never sing a song for you and he didn’t he just said
song for you and he didn’t he just said
song for you and he didn’t he just said okay okay
okay it’s okay he said okay check you
okay it’s okay he said okay check you later and what I learned for that is
later and what I learned for that is
later and what I learned for that is many times you will have angst and worry
many times you will have angst and worry
many times you will have angst and worry about things and put yourself in a state
about things and put yourself in a state
about things and put yourself in a state like someone said this morning cuz their
like someone said this morning cuz their
like someone said this morning cuz their phone went off they were mortified over
phone went off they were mortified over
phone went off they were mortified over a phone I said really you will put
a phone I said really you will put
a phone I said really you will put yourself in a state when the other
yourself in a state when the other
yourself in a state when the other person really isn’t even thinking about
person really isn’t even thinking about
person really isn’t even thinking about you so learning that I could
you so learning that I could
you so learning that I could specifically determine for myself what
specifically determine for myself what
specifically determine for myself what the boundaries were for me what I wanted
the boundaries were for me what I wanted
the boundaries were for me what I wanted to do give my money give my time give of
to do give my money give my time give of
to do give my money give my time give of my service to who I wanted to give it to
my service to who I wanted to give it to
my service to who I wanted to give it to when I did that I get to make that
when I did that I get to make that
when I did that I get to make that decision and just because you get a
decision and just because you get a
decision and just because you get a hundred requests a week doesn’t mean you
hundred requests a week doesn’t mean you
hundred requests a week doesn’t mean you have to try to fulfill all of that just
have to try to fulfill all of that just
have to try to fulfill all of that just because you have all
because you have all
because you have all these demands on your time and on you
these demands on your time and on you
these demands on your time and on you doesn’t mean that you have to say yes
doesn’t mean that you have to say yes
doesn’t mean that you have to say yes you get to decide because you’re the
you get to decide because you’re the
you get to decide because you’re the master of your fate the captain of your
master of your fate the captain of your
master of your fate the captain of your soul is William Ernest Henley said in
soul is William Ernest Henley said in
soul is William Ernest Henley said in Invictus an understanding that really
Invictus an understanding that really
Invictus an understanding that really changed the meaning of my life in that I
changed the meaning of my life in that I
changed the meaning of my life in that I was not no longer driven by what other
was not no longer driven by what other
was not no longer driven by what other people wanted me to do but took charge
people wanted me to do but took charge
people wanted me to do but took charge of my own destiny making choices based
of my own destiny making choices based
of my own destiny making choices based upon what do I feel is the next right
upon what do I feel is the next right
upon what do I feel is the next right move for me Quincy Jones had I would not
move for me Quincy Jones had I would not
move for me Quincy Jones had I would not even say an important role I would say V
even say an important role I would say V
even say an important role I would say V role in my acting career Quincy Jones
role in my acting career Quincy Jones
role in my acting career Quincy Jones discovered me and it’s so interesting to
discovered me and it’s so interesting to
discovered me and it’s so interesting to me because when I was working as a
me because when I was working as a
me because when I was working as a television news woman in Baltimore and
television news woman in Baltimore and
television news woman in Baltimore and really all I wanted to do was be in
really all I wanted to do was be in
really all I wanted to do was be in actors but I was doing television and I
actors but I was doing television and I
actors but I was doing television and I felt at the time well I I can’t quit
felt at the time well I I can’t quit
felt at the time well I I can’t quit this job because this is what everybody
this job because this is what everybody
this job because this is what everybody else wants to do
else wants to do
else wants to do and if I quit this job what am I going
and if I quit this job what am I going
and if I quit this job what am I going to do um and I was going to a speech
to do um and I was going to a speech
to do um and I was going to a speech coach at the time that the station had
coach at the time that the station had
coach at the time that the station had sent me to they you know they ever the
sent me to they you know they ever the
sent me to they you know they ever the broadcasting school they sent everybody
broadcasting school they sent everybody
broadcasting school they sent everybody the same woman and I was telling her you
the same woman and I was telling her you
the same woman and I was telling her you know I really don’t want to do this what
know I really don’t want to do this what
know I really don’t want to do this what I really want to do is act and she says
I really want to do is act and she says
I really want to do is act and she says my dear you don’t want to act because if
my dear you don’t want to act because if
my dear you don’t want to act because if you wanted to actually be doing it but
you wanted to actually be doing it but
you wanted to actually be doing it but you want to be my Diaz a star because if
you want to be my Diaz a star because if
you want to be my Diaz a star because if you wanted to actually be waiting tables
you wanted to actually be waiting tables
you wanted to actually be waiting tables in New York you bit my thought now why
in New York you bit my thought now why
in New York you bit my thought now why am I gonna wait tables of are already
am I gonna wait tables of are already
am I gonna wait tables of are already working in TV so I said well when I
working in TV so I said well when I
working in TV so I said well when I think is going to happen is I will be
think is going to happen is I will be
think is going to happen is I will be discovered because I wanted so badly
discovered because I wanted so badly
discovered because I wanted so badly somebody’s going to have to discover me
somebody’s going to have to discover me
somebody’s going to have to discover me and she said you just dream your dream
and she said you just dream your dream
and she said you just dream your dream your dream er so when it happened I
your dream er so when it happened I
your dream er so when it happened I called her up said you will not bow when
called her up said you will not bow when
called her up said you will not bow when poof discovered and it really was a
poof discovered and it really was a
poof discovered and it really was a discovery it’s like one of those who
discovery it’s like one of those who
discovery it’s like one of those who Lana Turner serves only I wasn’t a
Lana Turner serves only I wasn’t a
Lana Turner serves only I wasn’t a drugstore he was uh in his hotel room
drugstore he was uh in his hotel room
drugstore he was uh in his hotel room saw me on TV it was unbelievable the
saw me on TV it was unbelievable the
saw me on TV it was unbelievable the interesting thing about that is that I
believe that thought are the greatest
believe that thought are the greatest vehicle to change power
vehicle to change power
vehicle to change power and success in the world everything
and success in the world everything
and success in the world everything begins with thought I mean the chairs
begins with thought I mean the chairs
begins with thought I mean the chairs that were sitting in the room that were
that were sitting in the room that were
that were sitting in the room that were in all started because somebody thought
in all started because somebody thought
in all started because somebody thought it so I thought up the color purple for
it so I thought up the color purple for
it so I thought up the color purple for myself
myself
myself I know this is going to sound strange to
I know this is going to sound strange to
I know this is going to sound strange to you I read the book I got so many copies
you I read the book I got so many copies
you I read the book I got so many copies of that book
of that book
of that book I passed the book around everybody I
I passed the book around everybody I
I passed the book around everybody I knew if I was on the bus I’d pass it out
knew if I was on the bus I’d pass it out
knew if I was on the bus I’d pass it out to people and when I heard that there
to people and when I heard that there
to people and when I heard that there was going to be a movie I started I
was going to be a movie I started I
was going to be a movie I started I started talking it up for myself I did
started talking it up for myself I did
started talking it up for myself I did know Quincy Jones or Steven Spielberg or
know Quincy Jones or Steven Spielberg or
know Quincy Jones or Steven Spielberg or how on earth I would get in this movie
how on earth I would get in this movie
how on earth I would get in this movie I’ve never acted in my life but I I felt
I’ve never acted in my life but I I felt
I’ve never acted in my life but I I felt it so intensely that I had to be a part
it so intensely that I had to be a part
it so intensely that I had to be a part of that movie I just I really do believe
of that movie I just I really do believe
of that movie I just I really do believe I created it for myself I wanted it more
I created it for myself I wanted it more
I created it for myself I wanted it more than anything in the world and would
than anything in the world and would
than anything in the world and would have done anything to do it anything to
have done anything to do it anything to
have done anything to do it anything to do it
do it
do it turn your wound into wisdom you will be
turn your wound into wisdom you will be
turn your wound into wisdom you will be wounded many times in your life you’ll
wounded many times in your life you’ll
wounded many times in your life you’ll make mistakes some people will call them
make mistakes some people will call them
make mistakes some people will call them failures but I have learned that
failures but I have learned that
failures but I have learned that failures is really God’s Way of saying
failures is really God’s Way of saying
failures is really God’s Way of saying excuse me you’re moving in the wrong
excuse me you’re moving in the wrong
excuse me you’re moving in the wrong direction it’s just an experience
so the experience just an experience I
so the experience just an experience I remember being taken off the air in
remember being taken off the air in
remember being taken off the air in Baltimore being told that I was no
Baltimore being told that I was no
Baltimore being told that I was no longer be being fit for television and
longer be being fit for television and
longer be being fit for television and that I could not anger the news because
that I could not anger the news because
that I could not anger the news because I used to go out on the stories and my
I used to go out on the stories and my
I used to go out on the stories and my own truth was even though I’m not a
own truth was even though I’m not a
own truth was even though I’m not a weeper
weeper
weeper I would cry for the people in the
I would cry for the people in the
I would cry for the people in the stories and which really wasn’t very
stories and which really wasn’t very
stories and which really wasn’t very effective as a news reporter to be
effective as a news reporter to be
effective as a news reporter to be covered afire and crying cuz the people
covered afire and crying cuz the people
covered afire and crying cuz the people lost her house and it wasn’t until they
lost her house and it wasn’t until they
lost her house and it wasn’t until they I was demoted as a on-air anchorwoman
I was demoted as a on-air anchorwoman
I was demoted as a on-air anchorwoman and thrown into the talk-show arena to
and thrown into the talk-show arena to
and thrown into the talk-show arena to get rid of me that I allowed my own
get rid of me that I allowed my own
get rid of me that I allowed my own truth to come through and the first day
truth to come through and the first day
truth to come through and the first day I was on the air doing my first talk
I was on the air doing my first talk
I was on the air doing my first talk show back in 1978 it felt like breathing
show back in 1978 it felt like breathing
show back in 1978 it felt like breathing which is what your true passion should
which is what your true passion should
which is what your true passion should feel like it should be so natural to you
feel like it should be so natural to you
feel like it should be so natural to you and so I took what had been a mistake
and so I took what had been a mistake
and so I took what had been a mistake what had been perceived as a failure
what had been perceived as a failure
what had been perceived as a failure with my career as an anchorwoman in the
with my career as an anchorwoman in the
with my career as an anchorwoman in the news business and turned it into a
news business and turned it into a
news business and turned it into a talk-show career that’s done okay for me
talk-show career that’s done okay for me
talk-show career that’s done okay for me what drives you to keep working so hard
what drives you to keep working so hard
what drives you to keep working so hard you could you know you and I are in the
you could you know you and I are in the
you could you know you and I are in the 60s category and so when you’re in your
60s category and so when you’re in your
60s category and so when you’re in your 60s you know you’ve lived more than
60s you know you’ve lived more than
60s you know you’ve lived more than you’re going to live yeah a listicle e
you’re going to live yeah a listicle e
you’re going to live yeah a listicle e so when you realize you live more than
so when you realize you live more than
so when you realize you live more than you going to live you can say why not
you going to live you can say why not
you going to live you can say why not relax a little bit why not just ease up
relax a little bit why not just ease up
relax a little bit why not just ease up why have you decided to even work harder
why have you decided to even work harder
why have you decided to even work harder than you did before because I think
than you did before because I think
than you did before because I think David that everybody you know the thing
David that everybody you know the thing
David that everybody you know the thing that works for me all these years
that works for me all these years
that works for me all these years whether it was the magazine or which I
whether it was the magazine or which I
whether it was the magazine or which I still have or whether it was the show I
still have or whether it was the show I
still have or whether it was the show I could I understood that there’s a common
could I understood that there’s a common
could I understood that there’s a common denominator in the human experience and
denominator in the human experience and
denominator in the human experience and I want the same thing you want which is
I want the same thing you want which is
I want the same thing you want which is the same thing you want and you want
the same thing you want and you want
the same thing you want and you want what we all want is to be able to live
what we all want is to be able to live
what we all want is to be able to live out the truest highest expression of
out the truest highest expression of
out the truest highest expression of ourselves as a human being that doesn’t
ourselves as a human being that doesn’t
ourselves as a human being that doesn’t end until you take your last breath
end until you take your last breath
end until you take your last breath what is the truest highest vision that
what is the truest highest vision that
what is the truest highest vision that you hold for yourself no matter where
you hold for yourself no matter where
you hold for yourself no matter where you are in your life there’s always the
you are in your life there’s always the
you are in your life there’s always the next level there’s always the next level
next level there’s always the next level
next level there’s always the next level to the last breath so I feel that I
to the last breath so I feel that I
to the last breath so I feel that I always knew
always knew
always knew I would get be done with the show when I
I would get be done with the show when I
I would get be done with the show when I felt like oh I’ve said as much as I
felt like oh I’ve said as much as I
felt like oh I’ve said as much as I could say here on this platform and then
could say here on this platform and then
could say here on this platform and then how will I be used if they were the
how will I be used if they were the
how will I be used if they were the Ferrer theme song to my life
Ferrer theme song to my life
Ferrer theme song to my life Amazing Grace would be one of them and
Amazing Grace would be one of them and
Amazing Grace would be one of them and keep on using me to use me up would be
keep on using me to use me up would be
keep on using me to use me up would be another one you know that bill where
another one you know that bill where
another one you know that bill where their songs are long so I feel that
their songs are long so I feel that
their songs are long so I feel that until you have used your value as a
until you have used your value as a
until you have used your value as a human being you’re not done when I first
human being you’re not done when I first
human being you’re not done when I first started as a broadcaster I was 19 very
started as a broadcaster I was 19 very
started as a broadcaster I was 19 very insecure thrown into television
insecure thrown into television
insecure thrown into television pretending to be Barbara Walters looking
pretending to be Barbara Walters looking
pretending to be Barbara Walters looking nothing like her and still going to
nothing like her and still going to
nothing like her and still going to college so I do all my classes in the
college so I do all my classes in the
college so I do all my classes in the morning from 8:00 to 1:00 and then the
morning from 8:00 to 1:00 and then the
morning from 8:00 to 1:00 and then the afternoon I work from 2:00 to 10:00 and
afternoon I work from 2:00 to 10:00 and
afternoon I work from 2:00 to 10:00 and did the 6 o’clock news and would stay up
did the 6 o’clock news and would stay up
did the 6 o’clock news and would stay up and study and all that stuff that you
and study and all that stuff that you
and study and all that stuff that you know until 1 2 or 3 o’clock in the
know until 1 2 or 3 o’clock in the
know until 1 2 or 3 o’clock in the morning and then just start the routine
morning and then just start the routine
morning and then just start the routine all over again
all over again
all over again and my classmates were so jealous of me
and my classmates were so jealous of me
and my classmates were so jealous of me that I remember like taking my little
that I remember like taking my little
that I remember like taking my little hundred and fifteen dollar paycheck and
hundred and fifteen dollar paycheck and
hundred and fifteen dollar paycheck and at the time I thought was really a lot
at the time I thought was really a lot
at the time I thought was really a lot but taking a hundred fifty dollars and
but taking a hundred fifty dollars and
but taking a hundred fifty dollars and trying to appease them I would like
trying to appease them I would like
trying to appease them I would like alway anytime you money needed money I
alway anytime you money needed money I
alway anytime you money needed money I was always offering all you need ten
was always offering all you need ten
was always offering all you need ten dollars or taking them out for pizza or
dollars or taking them out for pizza or
dollars or taking them out for pizza or in pizza for the class and things like
in pizza for the class and things like
in pizza for the class and things like that trying to that hole disease –
that trying to that hole disease –
that trying to that hole disease – please that’s where it was the worst for
please that’s where it was the worst for
please that’s where it was the worst for me I think because I wanted to be
me I think because I wanted to be
me I think because I wanted to be accepted by them and could not be
accepted by them and could not be
accepted by them and could not be because first of all I didn’t have the
because first of all I didn’t have the
because first of all I didn’t have the time they wanted me to pledge and I
time they wanted me to pledge and I
time they wanted me to pledge and I didn’t have the time to pledge I was I
didn’t have the time to pledge I was I
didn’t have the time to pledge I was I didn’t have the time to be a part of all
didn’t have the time to be a part of all
didn’t have the time to be a part of all the other college activities or a part
the other college activities or a part
the other college activities or a part of that whole lifestyle and it was very
of that whole lifestyle and it was very
of that whole lifestyle and it was very difficult for me socially really one of
difficult for me socially really one of
difficult for me socially really one of the worst times of my life because I was
the worst times of my life because I was
the worst times of my life because I was trying to fit in in school and be a part
trying to fit in in school and be a part
trying to fit in in school and be a part of that culture but also trying to build
of that culture but also trying to build
of that culture but also trying to build a career in television it’s very
a career in television it’s very
a career in television it’s very difficult for me to even see myself as
difficult for me to even see myself as
difficult for me to even see myself as successful because I still see myself as
successful because I still see myself as
successful because I still see myself as in the process of becoming successful to
in the process of becoming successful to
in the process of becoming successful to me successful is getting to the point
me successful is getting to the point
me successful is getting to the point where you are absolutely comfortable
where you are absolutely comfortable
where you are absolutely comfortable with yourself and it does not matter how
with yourself and it does not matter how
with yourself and it does not matter how many things you have acquired the
many things you have acquired the
many things you have acquired the ability to learn to say no and not to
ability to learn to say no and not to
ability to learn to say no and not to feel guilty about it to me is about the
feel guilty about it to me is about the
feel guilty about it to me is about the greater
greater
greater to success I have achieved the fact that
to success I have achieved the fact that
to success I have achieved the fact that I have you know in the public side done
I have you know in the public side done
I have you know in the public side done whatever is fine it’s all a part of a
whatever is fine it’s all a part of a
whatever is fine it’s all a part of a process for growing for me but to me to
process for growing for me but to me to
process for growing for me but to me to have the in the kind of internal
have the in the kind of internal
have the in the kind of internal strength and internal courage it takes
strength and internal courage it takes
strength and internal courage it takes to say no I will not let you treat me
to say no I will not let you treat me
to say no I will not let you treat me this way is what success is all about
this way is what success is all about
this way is what success is all about it’s the same thing that prevents you
it’s the same thing that prevents you
it’s the same thing that prevents you from being abused as a child that
from being abused as a child that
from being abused as a child that prevents you from being abused as an
prevents you from being abused as an
prevents you from being abused as an adult that allows you to build success
adult that allows you to build success
adult that allows you to build success for yourself I will not be treated this
for yourself I will not be treated this
for yourself I will not be treated this way I demand only the best for myself
way I demand only the best for myself
way I demand only the best for myself you are worthy to say no you work that
you are worthy to say no you work that
you are worthy to say no you work that it’s okay if you say no it’s okay if you
it’s okay if you say no it’s okay if you
it’s okay if you say no it’s okay if you say no and then people don’t like you
say no and then people don’t like you
say no and then people don’t like you that’s really okay the important thing
that’s really okay the important thing
that’s really okay the important thing is how you feel about what you’re doing
is how you feel about what you’re doing
is how you feel about what you’re doing how you feel about yourself it’s a long
how you feel about yourself it’s a long
how you feel about yourself it’s a long struggle though it’s a long struggle and
struggle though it’s a long struggle and
struggle though it’s a long struggle and I’m just hoping that you know in the
I’m just hoping that you know in the
I’m just hoping that you know in the work that I do on the show and the
work that I do on the show and the
work that I do on the show and the speaking that I do around the country
speaking that I do around the country
speaking that I do around the country and that young people who are watching
and that young people who are watching
and that young people who are watching this can get the lesson sooner than I
this can get the lesson sooner than I
this can get the lesson sooner than I did because it’s painful because you
did because it’s painful because you
did because it’s painful because you keep repeating it over and over and over
keep repeating it over and over and over
keep repeating it over and over and over until you get it right and what I found
until you get it right and what I found
until you get it right and what I found is that every time you have to repeat
is that every time you have to repeat
is that every time you have to repeat the lesson it gets worse because it’s
the lesson it gets worse because it’s
the lesson it gets worse because it’s you know it’s I call it God trying to
you know it’s I call it God trying to
you know it’s I call it God trying to get your attention universe trying to
get your attention universe trying to
get your attention universe trying to get your attention so we didn’t get your
get your attention so we didn’t get your
get your attention so we didn’t get your attention the first time so we’re gonna
attention the first time so we’re gonna
attention the first time so we’re gonna have to hit you a little harder this
have to hit you a little harder this
have to hit you a little harder this time so I’m still doing it I’m still
time so I’m still doing it I’m still
time so I’m still doing it I’m still learning create the highest grandest
learning create the highest grandest
learning create the highest grandest vision possible for your life because
vision possible for your life because
vision possible for your life because you become what you believe when I was a
you become what you believe when I was a
you become what you believe when I was a little girl
little girl
little girl Mississippi growing up on the farm only
Mississippi growing up on the farm only
Mississippi growing up on the farm only buckwheat is a role model watching my
buckwheat is a role model watching my
buckwheat is a role model watching my grandmother boil clothes and a big iron
grandmother boil clothes and a big iron
grandmother boil clothes and a big iron pot through the screen door because we
pot through the screen door because we
pot through the screen door because we didn’t have a washing machine and made
didn’t have a washing machine and made
didn’t have a washing machine and made everything we had I watched her and
everything we had I watched her and
everything we had I watched her and realized somehow inside myself and the
realized somehow inside myself and the
realized somehow inside myself and the spirit of myself that although this was
spirit of myself that although this was
spirit of myself that although this was segregated Mississippi and I was colored
segregated Mississippi and I was colored
segregated Mississippi and I was colored and female that my life could be bigger
and female that my life could be bigger
and female that my life could be bigger greater than what I saw I remember being
greater than what I saw I remember being
greater than what I saw I remember being 4 or 5 years old I certainly couldn’t
4 or 5 years old I certainly couldn’t
4 or 5 years old I certainly couldn’t articulate it but it was a feeling
articulate it but it was a feeling
articulate it but it was a feeling and the feeling that I allowed myself to
and the feeling that I allowed myself to
and the feeling that I allowed myself to follow I allowed myself to follow
follow I allowed myself to follow
follow I allowed myself to follow because if you were to ask me what is
because if you were to ask me what is
because if you were to ask me what is the secret to my success it is because I
the secret to my success it is because I
the secret to my success it is because I understand that there is a Power greater
understand that there is a Power greater
understand that there is a Power greater than myself that rules my life and in
than myself that rules my life and in
than myself that rules my life and in life in life if you can be still long
life in life if you can be still long
life in life if you can be still long enough in all of your endeavors and the
enough in all of your endeavors and the
enough in all of your endeavors and the good times the hard times to connect
good times the hard times to connect
good times the hard times to connect yourself to the source I call it God you
yourself to the source I call it God you
yourself to the source I call it God you can call it whatever you want to the
can call it whatever you want to the
can call it whatever you want to the force nature Allah the power if you can
force nature Allah the power if you can
force nature Allah the power if you can connect yourself to the source and allow
connect yourself to the source and allow
connect yourself to the source and allow the energy that is your personality your
the energy that is your personality your
the energy that is your personality your lifeforce to be connected to the greater
lifeforce to be connected to the greater
lifeforce to be connected to the greater force anything is possible for you I am
force anything is possible for you I am
force anything is possible for you I am proof of that I think that my life the
proof of that I think that my life the
proof of that I think that my life the fact that I was born where I was born
fact that I was born where I was born
fact that I was born where I was born and the time that I was and have been
and the time that I was and have been
and the time that I was and have been able to do what I’ve done
able to do what I’ve done
able to do what I’ve done speaks to the possibility not that I am
speaks to the possibility not that I am
speaks to the possibility not that I am special but that it could be done I
special but that it could be done I
special but that it could be done I remember when I started the school that
remember when I started the school that
remember when I started the school that I said to my beloved friend Maya Angelou
I said to my beloved friend Maya Angelou
I said to my beloved friend Maya Angelou said Maya I’m so I’m so proud that I was
said Maya I’m so I’m so proud that I was
said Maya I’m so I’m so proud that I was able to create the school I said this is
able to create the school I said this is
able to create the school I said this is going to be my greatest legacy and Maya
going to be my greatest legacy and Maya
going to be my greatest legacy and Maya said to me you have no idea you have no
said to me you have no idea you have no
said to me you have no idea you have no idea what your legacy will be she said
idea what your legacy will be she said
idea what your legacy will be she said to me because your legacy is every life
to me because your legacy is every life
to me because your legacy is every life you’ve touched and that shifted the way
you’ve touched and that shifted the way
you’ve touched and that shifted the way I saw legacy or what you leave behind or
I saw legacy or what you leave behind or
I saw legacy or what you leave behind or what you do because Maya was explaining
what you do because Maya was explaining
what you do because Maya was explaining to me that you know over all the years
to me that you know over all the years
to me that you know over all the years of watching your show everybody who
of watching your show everybody who
of watching your show everybody who decided that they were going to go back
decided that they were going to go back
decided that they were going to go back to school or lose weight or no longer
to school or lose weight or no longer
to school or lose weight or no longer hit their children or get out of a bad
hit their children or get out of a bad
hit their children or get out of a bad marriage all of those people who have
marriage all of those people who have
marriage all of those people who have seen and experienced your voice and the
seen and experienced your voice and the
seen and experienced your voice and the same thing with everybody here you have
same thing with everybody here you have
same thing with everybody here you have no idea what your legacy will be your
no idea what your legacy will be your
no idea what your legacy will be your legacy is every life that you’ve touched
legacy is every life that you’ve touched
legacy is every life that you’ve touched and we like to think of it I know you
and we like to think of it I know you
and we like to think of it I know you have done amazing things with your
have done amazing things with your
have done amazing things with your philanthropy we’d like to think that
philanthropy we’d like to think that
philanthropy we’d like to think that these great philanthropic moments are
these great philanthropic moments are
these great philanthropic moments are the ones that lead
the ones that lead
the ones that lead the impact or will make the huge
the impact or will make the huge
the impact or will make the huge difference in the world but it’s really
difference in the world but it’s really
difference in the world but it’s really what you do every day it’s how you use
what you do every day it’s how you use
what you do every day it’s how you use your life to be a light to somebody
your life to be a light to somebody
your life to be a light to somebody else’s you know and it’s how you use
else’s you know and it’s how you use
else’s you know and it’s how you use your work as an expression of your own
your work as an expression of your own
your work as an expression of your own art whatever that is my intention in
art whatever that is my intention in
art whatever that is my intention in creating masterclass came from the
creating masterclass came from the
creating masterclass came from the understanding that everybody’s story is
understanding that everybody’s story is
understanding that everybody’s story is the same all stories are connected and
the same all stories are connected and
the same all stories are connected and there is nothing that anyone who’s
there is nothing that anyone who’s
there is nothing that anyone who’s living on earth has ever felt or known
living on earth has ever felt or known
living on earth has ever felt or known or experienced on a soul level that
or experienced on a soul level that
or experienced on a soul level that hasn’t been felt or known or experienced
hasn’t been felt or known or experienced
hasn’t been felt or known or experienced by someone else one of the most
by someone else one of the most
by someone else one of the most difficult things in life is feeling that
difficult things in life is feeling that
difficult things in life is feeling that you are the only one you are the only
you are the only one you are the only
you are the only one you are the only one who’s travelled this path has felt
one who’s travelled this path has felt
one who’s travelled this path has felt this way I had nowhere to go I was
this way I had nowhere to go I was
this way I had nowhere to go I was homeless at the time I lost my family
homeless at the time I lost my family
homeless at the time I lost my family next thing I know I’m in this car for
next thing I know I’m in this car for
next thing I know I’m in this car for three years for him I’m struggling
three years for him I’m struggling
three years for him I’m struggling who’s experienced such devastation or
who’s experienced such devastation or
who’s experienced such devastation or joy or triumph or victory so for me I
joy or triumph or victory so for me I
joy or triumph or victory so for me I define a master as someone who has fully
define a master as someone who has fully
define a master as someone who has fully stepped in and owned the full progress
stepped in and owned the full progress
stepped in and owned the full progress and trajectory of their life persistence
and trajectory of their life persistence
and trajectory of their life persistence pays off that’s lesson one but hearing
pays off that’s lesson one but hearing
pays off that’s lesson one but hearing stories told from the mouths of people
stories told from the mouths of people
stories told from the mouths of people who know how to live how to
who know how to live how to
who know how to live how to course-correct
course-correct
course-correct how to keep going how to never quit how
how to keep going how to never quit how
how to keep going how to never quit how to rejoice in the good times and have
to rejoice in the good times and have
to rejoice in the good times and have faith in the bag
faith in the bag
faith in the bag those people are masters anyone who can
those people are masters anyone who can
those people are masters anyone who can do that is a master and their ability to
do that is a master and their ability to
do that is a master and their ability to share their stories only helps the
share their stories only helps the
share their stories only helps the trajectory of others who listen what I
trajectory of others who listen what I
trajectory of others who listen what I learned going to beauty salon and asking
learned going to beauty salon and asking
learned going to beauty salon and asking them after the news director had told me
them after the news director had told me
them after the news director had told me that my hair was too thick and my eyes
that my hair was too thick and my eyes
that my hair was too thick and my eyes are too far apart and I needed a
are too far apart and I needed a
are too far apart and I needed a makeover and sitting in a beauty salon
makeover and sitting in a beauty salon
makeover and sitting in a beauty salon in a French beauty salon allowing them
in a French beauty salon allowing them
in a French beauty salon allowing them to put a French perm on my black hair
to put a French perm on my black hair
to put a French perm on my black hair and having the term burn through my
and having the term burn through my
and having the term burn through my cerebral cortex and not being the woman
cerebral cortex and not being the woman
cerebral cortex and not being the woman that I am now so not having the courage
that I am now so not having the courage
that I am now so not having the courage to say this is a barn in me and coming
to say this is a barn in me and coming
to say this is a barn in me and coming out a week later bald and having to go
out a week later bald and having to go
out a week later bald and having to go on the air you learn a lot about
on the air you learn a lot about
on the air you learn a lot about yourself when you’re black and a woman
yourself when you’re black and a woman
yourself when you’re black and a woman involved and trying to be an anchorwoman
involved and trying to be an anchorwoman
involved and trying to be an anchorwoman you look you learn you not Diana Ross
you look you learn you not Diana Ross
you look you learn you not Diana Ross and that you’re not Barbara Walter is
and that you’re not Barbara Walter is
and that you’re not Barbara Walter is trying to be I was at the time I had a
trying to be I was at the time I had a
trying to be I was at the time I had a lot of lessons
lot of lessons
lot of lessons I remember going on the air many times
I remember going on the air many times
I remember going on the air many times and not reading my copy ahead of time
and not reading my copy ahead of time
and not reading my copy ahead of time and I was on the air one night and ran
and I was on the air one night and ran
and I was on the air one night and ran across the word VAR ba D OS that maybe
across the word VAR ba D OS that maybe
across the word VAR ba D OS that maybe barbatus to you but it was Barbados to
barbatus to you but it was Barbados to
barbatus to you but it was Barbados to me that night
and telling the story as an egg a woman
and telling the story as an egg a woman about a vote in absentia California I
about a vote in absentia California I
about a vote in absentia California I thought it was located near San
thought it was located near San
thought it was located near San Francisco
and one of the worst one of the worst
and one of the worst one of the worst this is when I broke out of my barber
this is when I broke out of my barber
this is when I broke out of my barber shell because I’m sitting there crossing
shell because I’m sitting there crossing
shell because I’m sitting there crossing my legs trying to talk like Barbara be
my legs trying to talk like Barbara be
my legs trying to talk like Barbara be like Barbara and I was reading a story
like Barbara and I was reading a story
like Barbara and I was reading a story about someone with a blaze attitude
about someone with a blaze attitude
about someone with a blaze attitude which if I had gone to Wellesley I would
which if I had gone to Wellesley I would
which if I had gone to Wellesley I would have known it was blase and I started to
have known it was blase and I started to
have known it was blase and I started to laugh at myself on the air and broke
laugh at myself on the air and broke
laugh at myself on the air and broke through my Barbara shell and had decided
through my Barbara shell and had decided
through my Barbara shell and had decided on that day that laughing was okay even
on that day that laughing was okay even
on that day that laughing was okay even though Barbara happened at that time
and it was through my series of mistakes
and it was through my series of mistakes that I learned that I could be a better
that I learned that I could be a better
that I learned that I could be a better Oprah than I could be a better Barbara
Oprah than I could be a better Barbara
Oprah than I could be a better Barbara and I allowed Barbara to be the mentor
and I allowed Barbara to be the mentor
and I allowed Barbara to be the mentor for me as she always has been and I
for me as she always has been and I
for me as she always has been and I decided then to try to pursue the idea
decided then to try to pursue the idea
decided then to try to pursue the idea of being myself and I am just thrilled
of being myself and I am just thrilled
of being myself and I am just thrilled that I get paid so much every day for
that I get paid so much every day for
that I get paid so much every day for just just being myself but it was a
just just being myself but it was a
just just being myself but it was a lesson long in coming recognizing that I
lesson long in coming recognizing that I
lesson long in coming recognizing that I had the instinct that the inner voice
had the instinct that the inner voice
had the instinct that the inner voice that told me that you need to try to
that told me that you need to try to
that told me that you need to try to find a way to answer to your own truth
find a way to answer to your own truth
find a way to answer to your own truth was the voice I needed to be still and
was the voice I needed to be still and
was the voice I needed to be still and listen to get this this is just remember
listen to get this this is just remember
listen to get this this is just remember this because this will happen many times
this because this will happen many times
this because this will happen many times your life when the people show you who
your life when the people show you who
your life when the people show you who they are believe them the first time not
they are believe them the first time not
they are believe them the first time not the 29th time that’s particularly good
the 29th time that’s particularly good
the 29th time that’s particularly good when it comes to men situations because
when it comes to men situations because
when it comes to men situations because when he doesn’t call back the first time
when he doesn’t call back the first time
when he doesn’t call back the first time when you’re mistreated the first time
when you’re mistreated the first time
when you’re mistreated the first time when you see someone who shows you a
when you see someone who shows you a
when you see someone who shows you a lack of integrity or dishonesty the
lack of integrity or dishonesty the
lack of integrity or dishonesty the first time know that that will be
first time know that that will be
first time know that that will be followed by many many many other times
followed by many many many other times
followed by many many many other times that will at some point in life come
that will at some point in life come
that will at some point in life come back to haunt or hurt you when people
back to haunt or hurt you when people
back to haunt or hurt you when people show you who they are believe them the
show you who they are believe them the
show you who they are believe them the first time live your life from a point
first time live your life from a point
first time live your life from a point of view of truth and you will live your
of view of truth and you will live your
of view of truth and you will live your life from truth and you will survive
life from truth and you will survive
life from truth and you will survive everything everything I believe even
everything everything I believe even
everything everything I believe even death you will survive everything if you
death you will survive everything if you
death you will survive everything if you can live your life from a point of view
can live your life from a point of view
can live your life from a point of view of truth close your eyes for a moment
of truth close your eyes for a moment
of truth close your eyes for a moment will you please and breathe with me
will you please and breathe with me
will you please and breathe with me just close your eyes and if you will put
just close your eyes and if you will put
just close your eyes and if you will put your thumb to your middle finger and
your thumb to your middle finger and
your thumb to your middle finger and gather your other fingers around and
gather your other fingers around and
gather your other fingers around and let’s feel the vibration and pulse of
let’s feel the vibration and pulse of
let’s feel the vibration and pulse of your personal energy as you take three
your personal energy as you take three
your personal energy as you take three deep breaths with me inhale
and as you exhale just feel the
and as you exhale just feel the vibration energy blood pulsating through
vibration energy blood pulsating through
vibration energy blood pulsating through your body through you and another inhale
and another inhale and keep your eyes
and another inhale and keep your eyes closed and let’s just think about this
closed and let’s just think about this
closed and let’s just think about this day this day that you have been graced
day this day that you have been graced
day this day that you have been graced to breathe in and out thousands of times
this day where many of those breasts
this day where many of those breasts were taken for granted you just expected
were taken for granted you just expected
were taken for granted you just expected the next one to come but the truth is
the next one to come but the truth is
the next one to come but the truth is there’s no guarantee that the next one
there’s no guarantee that the next one
there’s no guarantee that the next one comes this day how you started your day
comes this day how you started your day
comes this day how you started your day what your thoughts were this morning how
what your thoughts were this morning how
what your thoughts were this morning how you’ve carried yourself through this day
how you’ve been allowed to have
how you’ve been allowed to have encounters and experiences some
encounters and experiences some
encounters and experiences some challenging some more life enhancing
that push you forward another day
that push you forward another day of being here on the planet Earth as a
of being here on the planet Earth as a
of being here on the planet Earth as a human being just think about that after
human being just think about that after
human being just think about that after all you’ve been through and this day
all you’ve been through and this day
all you’ve been through and this day alone and the many days and years passed
how you got here to this prestigious
how you got here to this prestigious esteemed University the choices you made
esteemed University the choices you made
esteemed University the choices you made that have brought you to this day open
that have brought you to this day open
that have brought you to this day open your heart and quietly to yourself say
your heart and quietly to yourself say
your heart and quietly to yourself say the only prayer that’s ever needed thank
the only prayer that’s ever needed thank
the only prayer that’s ever needed thank you thank you
thank you you’re still here and you get
thank you you’re still here and you get another chance this day to do better and
another chance this day to do better and
another chance this day to do better and be better another chance to become more
be better another chance to become more
be better another chance to become more of who you were created and what you
of who you were created and what you
of who you were created and what you were created to fulfill thank you
thank you guys so much for watching I
thank you guys so much for watching I made this video because Charlene Benton
made this video because Charlene Benton
made this video because Charlene Benton asked me to if there’s someone you like
asked me to if there’s someone you like
asked me to if there’s someone you like better profile in their future top ten
better profile in their future top ten
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please check out the link down in the
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vote on who we should do next I also
vote on who we should do next I also want to give a quick shout out to Megan
want to give a quick shout out to Megan
want to give a quick shout out to Megan Lofton Megan thank you so much for
Lofton Megan thank you so much for
Lofton Megan thank you so much for picking up a copy of my book your one
picking up a copy of my book your one
picking up a copy of my book your one word and doing the review and post it on
word and doing the review and post it on
word and doing the review and post it on your YouTube channel as well I really
your YouTube channel as well I really
your YouTube channel as well I really really really appreciate so I really
really really appreciate so I really
really really appreciate so I really really really appreciate the support and
really really appreciate the support and
really really appreciate the support and I’m so glad you enjoyed the book thank
I’m so glad you enjoyed the book thank
I’m so glad you enjoyed the book thank you guys again for watching I believe in
you guys again for watching I believe in
you guys again for watching I believe in you I hope you continue to believe in
you I hope you continue to believe in
you I hope you continue to believe in yourself and whatever your one word is
yourself and whatever your one word is
yourself and whatever your one word is much love I’ll see you soon
I have paid attention to my life because
I have paid attention to my life because I understand that my life just like your
I understand that my life just like your
I understand that my life just like your life is always speaking to you where you
life is always speaking to you where you
life is always speaking to you where you are in the language with the people with
are in the language with the people with
are in the language with the people with the circumstances and experiences that
the circumstances and experiences that
the circumstances and experiences that you can understand and interpret if you
you can understand and interpret if you
you can understand and interpret if you are willing to see that always life God
are willing to see that always life God
are willing to see that always life God is speaking to you now it took me a
is speaking to you now it took me a
is speaking to you now it took me a while to actually really get this and to
while to actually really get this and to
while to actually really get this and to understand it but once I did I started
understand it but once I did I started
understand it but once I did I started paying attention to everything and one
paying attention to everything and one
paying attention to everything and one of the reasons why I can now accept the
of the reasons why I can now accept the
of the reasons why I can now accept the fact that I can offer my gatherings of
fact that I can offer my gatherings of
fact that I can offer my gatherings of information and wisdom and call myself a
information and wisdom and call myself a
information and wisdom and call myself a spiritual teacher is that every single
spiritual teacher is that every single
spiritual teacher is that every single person who ever came on my show and I
person who ever came on my show and I
person who ever came on my show and I hear there’s like 37,000 guests I’ve
hear there’s like 37,000 guests I’ve
hear there’s like 37,000 guests I’ve talked to a lot of them came from
talked to a lot of them came from
talked to a lot of them came from dysfunction and a lot of them wouldn’t
dysfunction and a lot of them wouldn’t
dysfunction and a lot of them wouldn’t appear to be teachers but every one of
appear to be teachers but every one of
appear to be teachers but every one of them had something to say that was
them had something to say that was
them had something to say that was meaningful and valuable and that I could
meaningful and valuable and that I could
meaningful and valuable and that I could use to grow myself into the best of
use to grow myself into the best of
use to grow myself into the best of myself which is what all of our jobs are
myself which is what all of our jobs are
myself which is what all of our jobs are your number one job is to become more of
your number one job is to become more of
your number one job is to become more of yourself and to grow yourself into the
yourself and to grow yourself into the
yourself and to grow yourself into the best of yourself
best of yourself
best of yourself how do you stay fresh and how do you
how do you stay fresh and how do you
how do you stay fresh and how do you like what can you attribute staying in
like what can you attribute staying in
like what can you attribute staying in the bees for so long
the bees for so long
the bees for so long I think every year you’re trying to
I think every year you’re trying to
I think every year you’re trying to reinvent yourself and you stay in touch
reinvent yourself and you stay in touch
reinvent yourself and you stay in touch with what other people are doing
with what other people are doing
with what other people are doing thinking feeling I have always felt that
thinking feeling I have always felt that
thinking feeling I have always felt that my instinct and ability to connect with
my instinct and ability to connect with
my instinct and ability to connect with the audience was what carried us every
the audience was what carried us every
the audience was what carried us every day after the show now I do something
day after the show now I do something
day after the show now I do something called after the show which airs on
called after the show which airs on
called after the show which airs on oxygen
oxygen
oxygen I have spent for the past 16 years a
I have spent for the past 16 years a
I have spent for the past 16 years a half an hour an hour just talking to
half an hour an hour just talking to
half an hour an hour just talking to people so my audience comes from a
people so my audience comes from a
people so my audience comes from a cross-section around the country so I
cross-section around the country so I
cross-section around the country so I get I stay connected to what the real
get I stay connected to what the real
get I stay connected to what the real people are thinking and doing and want
people are thinking and doing and want
people are thinking and doing and want so anyway as I’ve grown
so anyway as I’ve grown
so anyway as I’ve grown folder I’ve learned to appreciate living
folder I’ve learned to appreciate living
folder I’ve learned to appreciate living in the moment and I ask that you do –
in the moment and I ask that you do –
in the moment and I ask that you do – I’ve asked I’m asking this graduating
I’ve asked I’m asking this graduating
I’ve asked I’m asking this graduating class those of you here I’ve asked all
class those of you here I’ve asked all
class those of you here I’ve asked all of my viewers in America and across the
of my viewers in America and across the
of my viewers in America and across the world to do this one thing keep a
world to do this one thing keep a
world to do this one thing keep a grateful Journal every night list five
grateful Journal every night list five
grateful Journal every night list five things that happened this day in days to
things that happened this day in days to
things that happened this day in days to come that you are grateful for what it
come that you are grateful for what it
come that you are grateful for what it will begin to do is to change your
will begin to do is to change your
will begin to do is to change your perspective of your day and your life I
perspective of your day and your life I
perspective of your day and your life I believe that if you can learn to focus
believe that if you can learn to focus
believe that if you can learn to focus on what you have you will always see
on what you have you will always see
on what you have you will always see that the universe is abundant and you
that the universe is abundant and you
that the universe is abundant and you will have more if you concentrate and
will have more if you concentrate and
will have more if you concentrate and focus in your life on what you don’t
focus in your life on what you don’t
focus in your life on what you don’t have you will never have enough be
have you will never have enough be
have you will never have enough be grateful keep a journal you all are all
grateful keep a journal you all are all
grateful keep a journal you all are all over my journal tonight
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