hello believe nation my name is Evan Carmichael my one word is believe and I
Carmichael my one word is believe and I
Carmichael my one word is believe and I believe that entrepreneurs are going to
believe that entrepreneurs are going to
believe that entrepreneurs are going to solve all the major problems of the
solve all the major problems of the
solve all the major problems of the world so to help you on your path in
world so to help you on your path in
world so to help you on your path in today’s video we’re going to talk about
today’s video we’re going to talk about
today’s video we’re going to talk about seven ways to manage negative people at
seven ways to manage negative people at
seven ways to manage negative people at work and as always guys if you’re
work and as always guys if you’re
work and as always guys if you’re listening if you hear something that
listening if you hear something that
listening if you hear something that really resonates with you please leave
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around it to other people can be
around it to other people can be inspired as well and when you write it
inspired as well and when you write it
inspired as well and when you write it down it’s much more likely to stick with
down it’s much more likely to stick with
down it’s much more likely to stick with yourself to enjoy some of the most
yourself to enjoy some of the most
yourself to enjoy some of the most difficult things about being in a work
difficult things about being in a work
difficult things about being in a work environment is being around negative
environment is being around negative
environment is being around negative people I think even just in home and in
people I think even just in home and in
people I think even just in home and in general being around negative people
general being around negative people
general being around negative people sucks and be able to navigate around and
sucks and be able to navigate around and
sucks and be able to navigate around and with those people can sometimes be
with those people can sometimes be
with those people can sometimes be important on your journey and so today
important on your journey and so today
important on your journey and so today I’m going to share with you seven
I’m going to share with you seven
I’m going to share with you seven different ways to do it that I hope will
different ways to do it that I hope will
different ways to do it that I hope will inspire you and help you on your path my
inspire you and help you on your path my
inspire you and help you on your path my number one way to manage negative people
number one way to manage negative people
number one way to manage negative people is don’t don’t be around negative people
is don’t don’t be around negative people
is don’t don’t be around negative people eliminate them from your life this is
eliminate them from your life this is
eliminate them from your life this is what I try to do as much as possible in
what I try to do as much as possible in
what I try to do as much as possible in my own life this may not be the answer
my own life this may not be the answer
my own life this may not be the answer that you’re looking for and there’s more
that you’re looking for and there’s more
that you’re looking for and there’s more than are coming but it’s my best answer
than are coming but it’s my best answer
than are coming but it’s my best answer because if you are surrounded by
because if you are surrounded by
because if you are surrounded by negative people constantly you’re going
negative people constantly you’re going
negative people constantly you’re going to get more negative you’re going to be
to get more negative you’re going to be
to get more negative you’re going to be unhappy you’re not going to reach your
unhappy you’re not going to reach your
unhappy you’re not going to reach your potential and so if I was in a work
potential and so if I was in a work
potential and so if I was in a work environment and this person was really
environment and this person was really
environment and this person was really negative being around me all the time I
negative being around me all the time I
negative being around me all the time I might kind of transfer I might look for
might kind of transfer I might look for
might kind of transfer I might look for other opportunities I might even look at
other opportunities I might even look at
other opportunities I might even look at a different company or maybe even
a different company or maybe even
a different company or maybe even leaving instead of my own business and
leaving instead of my own business and
leaving instead of my own business and being an entrepreneur if you are an
being an entrepreneur if you are an
being an entrepreneur if you are an entrepreneur and you have negative
entrepreneur and you have negative
entrepreneur and you have negative people on your teams and that’s an
people on your teams and that’s an
people on your teams and that’s an easier decision if somebody is really
easier decision if somebody is really
easier decision if somebody is really skilled does a great job but they’re
skilled does a great job but they’re
skilled does a great job but they’re negative they have to go you can
negative they have to go you can
negative they have to go you can obviously run it by negative people
obviously run it by negative people
obviously run it by negative people because they don’t only bring you down
because they don’t only bring you down
because they don’t only bring you down they’ll bring everybody else around you
they’ll bring everybody else around you
they’ll bring everybody else around you dance and so you need to have people who
dance and so you need to have people who
dance and so you need to have people who are positive who are excited about the
are positive who are excited about the
are positive who are excited about the project that you’re trying to build
project that you’re trying to build
project that you’re trying to build [Music]
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[Music] my number-two technique for managing
my number-two technique for managing
my number-two technique for managing negative people is to limit your
negative people is to limit your
negative people is to limit your exposure so if you are forced to deal
exposure so if you are forced to deal
exposure so if you are forced to deal with negative people I would try to
with negative people I would try to
with negative people I would try to limit how much exposure I have to them
limit how much exposure I have to them
limit how much exposure I have to them how much time I have to spend with them
how much time I have to spend with them
how much time I have to spend with them would be at the bare minimum just to get
would be at the bare minimum just to get
would be at the bare minimum just to get whatever project I’m trying to do and
whatever project I’m trying to do and
whatever project I’m trying to do and get it done and so the first two points
get it done and so the first two points
get it done and so the first two points are pretty negative right it’s avoid
are pretty negative right it’s avoid
are pretty negative right it’s avoid them have zero exposure the second one
them have zero exposure the second one
them have zero exposure the second one is to limit your exposure and why you
is to limit your exposure and why you
is to limit your exposure and why you know if I’m thinking well I want to be a
know if I’m thinking well I want to be a
know if I’m thinking well I want to be a positive influence I want to help them I
positive influence I want to help them I
positive influence I want to help them I want to build them up yes that’s
want to build them up yes that’s
want to build them up yes that’s definitely a possibility the reason why
definitely a possibility the reason why
definitely a possibility the reason why I start with a negative is because the
I start with a negative is because the
I start with a negative is because the opportunity cost is so great for you to
opportunity cost is so great for you to
opportunity cost is so great for you to spend your time managing somebody who is
spend your time managing somebody who is
spend your time managing somebody who is negative
negative
negative they will eat up so much of your time
they will eat up so much of your time
they will eat up so much of your time and emotional capital and drain you
and emotional capital and drain you
and emotional capital and drain you because they’re so different than you
because they’re so different than you
because they’re so different than you and get it into the place where they can
and get it into the place where they can
and get it into the place where they can be happy is such a big journey that you
be happy is such a big journey that you
be happy is such a big journey that you could spend that time helping 10 other
could spend that time helping 10 other
could spend that time helping 10 other people and so I’ve always experienced
people and so I’ve always experienced
people and so I’ve always experienced the people who are negative take the
the people who are negative take the
the people who are negative take the most work to turn around and usually
most work to turn around and usually
most work to turn around and usually it’s not worth your time compared to the
it’s not worth your time compared to the
it’s not worth your time compared to the other people who you could be helping
other people who you could be helping
other people who you could be helping that’s why my first two are really
that’s why my first two are really
that’s why my first two are really negative around not being around them at
negative around not being around them at
negative around not being around them at all or living in your exposure all right
all or living in your exposure all right
all or living in your exposure all right now let’s jump to the positive side
now let’s jump to the positive side
now let’s jump to the positive side number three is being inspiration so we
number three is being inspiration so we
number three is being inspiration so we have to be around these negative people
have to be around these negative people
have to be around these negative people we have no other option they’re super
we have no other option they’re super
we have no other option they’re super important and we want to be the force
important and we want to be the force
important and we want to be the force for good you can be an inspiration to
for good you can be an inspiration to
for good you can be an inspiration to build people up and so I think of when
build people up and so I think of when
build people up and so I think of when when women first get together in an
when women first get together in an
when women first get together in an office setting eventually their periods
office setting eventually their periods
office setting eventually their periods start to align together that kind of
start to align together that kind of
start to align together that kind of happens with everything if you are
happens with everything if you are
happens with everything if you are around toxic people you’re more likely
around toxic people you’re more likely
around toxic people you’re more likely to be toxic on an ongoing basis if
to be toxic on an ongoing basis if
to be toxic on an ongoing basis if you’re around people who are working out
you’re around people who are working out
you’re around people who are working out all the time you’re more likely to want
all the time you’re more likely to want
all the time you’re more likely to want to work out and take care of yourself if
to work out and take care of yourself if
to work out and take care of yourself if you’re around complainers you’re going
you’re around complainers you’re going
you’re around complainers you’re going to start complaining more and so you
to start complaining more and so you
to start complaining more and so you become your environment so if you have
become your environment so if you have
become your environment so if you have that awareness you could be an
that awareness you could be an
that awareness you could be an inspiration for that person by them just
inspiration for that person by them just
inspiration for that person by them just being around you we are going to pull
being around you we are going to pull
being around you we are going to pull them up I used to volunteer at a
them up I used to volunteer at a
them up I used to volunteer at a hospital Sunnybrook Hospital here in
hospital Sunnybrook Hospital here in
hospital Sunnybrook Hospital here in Toronto and one of my shifts was with
Toronto and one of my shifts was with
Toronto and one of my shifts was with this
this
this woman who was in charge of the phones on
woman who was in charge of the phones on
woman who was in charge of the phones on her floor she would always pick up the
her floor she would always pick up the
her floor she would always pick up the phone that kind of very angry ways and
phone that kind of very angry ways and
phone that kind of very angry ways and see – Laura – Laura it’s kind of very
see – Laura – Laura it’s kind of very
see – Laura – Laura it’s kind of very angry and it was kind of against how I
angry and it was kind of against how I
angry and it was kind of against how I would do things just a vibe I wanted to
would do things just a vibe I wanted to
would do things just a vibe I wanted to put out and by spending more and more
put out and by spending more and more
put out and by spending more and more time with her eventually she got more
time with her eventually she got more
time with her eventually she got more positive to see – Laura the CTO this is
positive to see – Laura the CTO this is
positive to see – Laura the CTO this is Laura speaking and it slowly got more
Laura speaking and it slowly got more
Laura speaking and it slowly got more and more and more and more positive now
and more and more and more positive now
and more and more and more positive now as I left Sunnybrook as my volunteer
as I left Sunnybrook as my volunteer
as I left Sunnybrook as my volunteer shift ended I don’t know if that
shift ended I don’t know if that
shift ended I don’t know if that continued or she fell back to her usual
continued or she fell back to her usual
continued or she fell back to her usual path but expect that to happen you know
path but expect that to happen you know
path but expect that to happen you know the more they are around you I want you
the more they are around you I want you
the more they are around you I want you to be a force for good right when you
to be a force for good right when you
to be a force for good right when you find your one word whatever that is that
find your one word whatever that is that
find your one word whatever that is that exudes out of you in every situation
exudes out of you in every situation
exudes out of you in every situation that you go to so if you are around me
that you go to so if you are around me
that you go to so if you are around me for any consistent period of time even
for any consistent period of time even
for any consistent period of time even from watching the videos you’re going to
from watching the videos you’re going to
from watching the videos you’re going to believe harder you’re going to believe
believe harder you’re going to believe
believe harder you’re going to believe stronger in yourself and your ideas and
stronger in yourself and your ideas and
stronger in yourself and your ideas and the people around you because that’s
the people around you because that’s
the people around you because that’s what I’m all about you can’t be in my
what I’m all about you can’t be in my
what I’m all about you can’t be in my circle and not gain a little bit more
circle and not gain a little bit more
circle and not gain a little bit more belief it’s just going to happen so that
belief it’s just going to happen so that
belief it’s just going to happen so that should be you with your one word getting
should be you with your one word getting
should be you with your one word getting out there and being an inspiration for
out there and being an inspiration for
out there and being an inspiration for people the danger is that as I said –
people the danger is that as I said –
people the danger is that as I said – people tend to come together the danger
people tend to come together the danger
people tend to come together the danger that you become more toxic and you
that you become more toxic and you
that you become more toxic and you become more negative so you need to have
become more negative so you need to have
become more negative so you need to have enough other stuff in your environment
enough other stuff in your environment
enough other stuff in your environment that keeps you at a high level that
that keeps you at a high level that
that keeps you at a high level that pulls them to you instead of you going
pulls them to you instead of you going
pulls them to you instead of you going to them tip number four is to come from
to them tip number four is to come from
to them tip number four is to come from a place of understanding I think a lot
a place of understanding I think a lot
a place of understanding I think a lot of people’s negativity is actually
of people’s negativity is actually
of people’s negativity is actually deeply rooted into something else beyond
deeply rooted into something else beyond
deeply rooted into something else beyond on what they’re complaining about so I
on what they’re complaining about so I
on what they’re complaining about so I had a situation with a negative person
had a situation with a negative person
had a situation with a negative person on my team they were constantly putting
on my team they were constantly putting
on my team they were constantly putting others down they were constantly
others down they were constantly
others down they were constantly paranoid about what the company
paranoid about what the company
paranoid about what the company situation is going to be like and they
situation is going to be like and they
situation is going to be like and they were also gossiping a lot and spreading
were also gossiping a lot and spreading
were also gossiping a lot and spreading rumors and every single day he would
rumors and every single day he would
rumors and every single day he would complain I would ask him how he is going
complain I would ask him how he is going
complain I would ask him how he is going and he would say it’s terrible and it
and he would say it’s terrible and it
and he would say it’s terrible and it got to a point that it was actually
got to a point that it was actually
got to a point that it was actually starting to make me feel negative about
starting to make me feel negative about
starting to make me feel negative about my situation at work and then finally I
my situation at work and then finally I
my situation at work and then finally I have a sit-down conversation with him I
have a sit-down conversation with him I
have a sit-down conversation with him I wanted to find out why he was being so
wanted to find out why he was being so
wanted to find out why he was being so negative then he revealed to me that he
negative then he revealed to me that he
negative then he revealed to me that he was paranoid of losing his job she would
was paranoid of losing his job she would
was paranoid of losing his job she would wake up every morning
wake up every morning
wake up every morning with a fear that he won’t be able to
with a fear that he won’t be able to
with a fear that he won’t be able to feed his family he will not be able to
feed his family he will not be able to
feed his family he will not be able to go on that vacation that he promised his
go on that vacation that he promised his
go on that vacation that he promised his wife although I wasn’t able to promise
wife although I wasn’t able to promise
wife although I wasn’t able to promise him the job security that he wanted I
him the job security that he wanted I
him the job security that he wanted I was able to provide him with the
was able to provide him with the
was able to provide him with the security and safety that he had someone
security and safety that he had someone
security and safety that he had someone at work that he could confide and little
at work that he could confide and little
at work that he could confide and little by little I started to see more
by little I started to see more
by little I started to see more positivity come out of him especially
positivity come out of him especially
positivity come out of him especially towards me which made my life at work a
towards me which made my life at work a
towards me which made my life at work a lot easier so the next time you come
lot easier so the next time you come
lot easier so the next time you come across someone negative before you write
across someone negative before you write
across someone negative before you write them off try to come from a place of
them off try to come from a place of
them off try to come from a place of understanding number five is figure out
understanding number five is figure out
understanding number five is figure out their dream I like to say that one of
their dream I like to say that one of
their dream I like to say that one of the most dangerous things you can do is
the most dangerous things you can do is
the most dangerous things you can do is tell me what your dream is if I know
tell me what your dream is if I know
tell me what your dream is if I know what your dream is then I am always
what your dream is then I am always
what your dream is then I am always thinking about how do I help this person
thinking about how do I help this person
thinking about how do I help this person get this thing that they want to do and
get this thing that they want to do and
get this thing that they want to do and pushing you to get past those limiting
pushing you to get past those limiting
pushing you to get past those limiting beliefs and the negative mindsets to
beliefs and the negative mindsets to
beliefs and the negative mindsets to help you go off and accomplish your big
help you go off and accomplish your big
help you go off and accomplish your big thing and so even the most negative
thing and so even the most negative
thing and so even the most negative person has some kind of dream they may
person has some kind of dream they may
person has some kind of dream they may not feel as possible they may feel like
not feel as possible they may feel like
not feel as possible they may feel like the world’s against them and that people
the world’s against them and that people
the world’s against them and that people conspiring to keep them down but
conspiring to keep them down but
conspiring to keep them down but somewhere deep down inside they have a
somewhere deep down inside they have a
somewhere deep down inside they have a dream of something that they want to
dream of something that they want to
dream of something that they want to accomplish and so if you can figure out
accomplish and so if you can figure out
accomplish and so if you can figure out what their dream is and then find ways
what their dream is and then find ways
what their dream is and then find ways to help them accomplish it be their
to help them accomplish it be their
to help them accomplish it be their friend be their accountability partner
friend be their accountability partner
friend be their accountability partner give them some resources give them some
give them some resources give them some
give them some resources give them some motivational boost share things with
motivational boost share things with
motivational boost share things with them to help them lift up and get
them to help them lift up and get
them to help them lift up and get towards that goal then it’s really hard
towards that goal then it’s really hard
towards that goal then it’s really hard to be making progress towards your dream
to be making progress towards your dream
to be making progress towards your dream and being negative I’m happy at the same
and being negative I’m happy at the same
and being negative I’m happy at the same time and so guiding them along that path
time and so guiding them along that path
time and so guiding them along that path and encouraging them will help turn that
and encouraging them will help turn that
and encouraging them will help turn that tide and turn them from being super
tide and turn them from being super
tide and turn them from being super negative to a more positive number six
negative to a more positive number six
negative to a more positive number six has recognized their good behavior this
has recognized their good behavior this
has recognized their good behavior this is basic parenting skills or if you are
is basic parenting skills or if you are
is basic parenting skills or if you are trying to train a dog it’s kind of the
trying to train a dog it’s kind of the
trying to train a dog it’s kind of the same thing you have two options you
same thing you have two options you
same thing you have two options you either punish their bad behavior or you
either punish their bad behavior or you
either punish their bad behavior or you recognize their good behavior and you
recognize their good behavior and you
recognize their good behavior and you may not be in a position to punish them
may not be in a position to punish them
may not be in a position to punish them for their bad behaviors and it may be
for their bad behaviors and it may be
for their bad behaviors and it may be actually what they want because they
actually what they want because they
actually what they want because they seek the attention they love going to a
seek the attention they love going to a
seek the attention they love going to a negative place and so I would deal with
negative place and so I would deal with
negative place and so I would deal with that kind of person I had to deal with
that kind of person I had to deal with
that kind of person I had to deal with them then I’d be looking at the negative
them then I’d be looking at the negative
them then I’d be looking at the negative stuff I’m just going to ignore and
stuff I’m just going to ignore and
stuff I’m just going to ignore and anytime there is
anytime there is
anytime there is something positive that they do for me
something positive that they do for me
something positive that they do for me or the mindset that they have or
or the mindset that they have or
or the mindset that they have or something that they shared that was
something that they shared that was
something that they shared that was happy or funny or positive I would go
happy or funny or positive I would go
happy or funny or positive I would go all in on encouraging that and thank
all in on encouraging that and thank
all in on encouraging that and thank them and appreciate them not in a fake
them and appreciate them not in a fake
them and appreciate them not in a fake way not in the way that they see
way not in the way that they see
way not in the way that they see obviously right through but in a genuine
obviously right through but in a genuine
obviously right through but in a genuine way of you really connecting to that
way of you really connecting to that
way of you really connecting to that thing that they did for you and thanking
thing that they did for you and thanking
thing that they did for you and thanking them maybe buying them you know a little
them maybe buying them you know a little
them maybe buying them you know a little cupcake or something as a show of
cupcake or something as a show of
cupcake or something as a show of appreciation because negative people
appreciation because negative people
appreciation because negative people aren’t surrounded by a lot of positivity
aren’t surrounded by a lot of positivity
aren’t surrounded by a lot of positivity in generals how they become so negative
in generals how they become so negative
in generals how they become so negative and so by you recognizing the good deeds
and so by you recognizing the good deeds
and so by you recognizing the good deeds that they did giving us an appreciation
that they did giving us an appreciation
that they did giving us an appreciation giving them some rewards they’re going
giving them some rewards they’re going
giving them some rewards they’re going to want to do it again and again and
to want to do it again and again and
to want to do it again and again and again and lift out of that negativity
again and lift out of that negativity
again and lift out of that negativity [Music]
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[Music] and my number seven way to deal with
and my number seven way to deal with
and my number seven way to deal with negative people is help them find a
negative people is help them find a
negative people is help them find a happier place quite often negative
happier place quite often negative
happier place quite often negative people are so bummed out by their
people are so bummed out by their
people are so bummed out by their position by their work they’re not
position by their work they’re not
position by their work they’re not passionate about it anymore they don’t
passionate about it anymore they don’t
passionate about it anymore they don’t you know have that desire to be there
you know have that desire to be there
you know have that desire to be there anymore and everybody would be happier
anymore and everybody would be happier
anymore and everybody would be happier if they moved on it kind of cries a
if they moved on it kind of cries a
if they moved on it kind of cries a little bit into understanding what their
little bit into understanding what their
little bit into understanding what their dream is because often if they have a
dream is because often if they have a
dream is because often if they have a dream and they’re doing something
dream and they’re doing something
dream and they’re doing something totally different then they’re going to
totally different then they’re going to
totally different then they’re going to be negative and unhappy they’re going to
be negative and unhappy they’re going to
be negative and unhappy they’re going to see other people who are off
see other people who are off
see other people who are off accomplishing these great things in the
accomplishing these great things in the
accomplishing these great things in the field that they want to be in and
field that they want to be in and
field that they want to be in and they’re stuck in this job that they hate
they’re stuck in this job that they hate
they’re stuck in this job that they hate and so helping push them to follow that
and so helping push them to follow that
and so helping push them to follow that dream find a happier place go pursue
dream find a happier place go pursue
dream find a happier place go pursue that passion is great for them because
that passion is great for them because
that passion is great for them because they’re happier they’re off doing the
they’re happier they’re off doing the
they’re happier they’re off doing the thing that they need and sometimes then
thing that they need and sometimes then
thing that they need and sometimes then you just need a little bit of a push and
you just need a little bit of a push and
you just need a little bit of a push and it’s great for you because now you don’t
it’s great for you because now you don’t
it’s great for you because now you don’t have to deal with this negative person
have to deal with this negative person
have to deal with this negative person in your work environment anymore so
in your work environment anymore so
in your work environment anymore so those are my top seven ways and how to
those are my top seven ways and how to
those are my top seven ways and how to manage negative people at work I’d love
manage negative people at work I’d love
manage negative people at work I’d love to know what did you guys think what was
to know what did you guys think what was
to know what did you guys think what was your favorite one which one really hit
your favorite one which one really hit
your favorite one which one really hit home what can you apply to your business
home what can you apply to your business
home what can you apply to your business or maybe your life immediately leave it
or maybe your life immediately leave it
or maybe your life immediately leave it down the comments below did I miss an
down the comments below did I miss an
down the comments below did I miss an eight nine ten that you guys want to add
eight nine ten that you guys want to add
eight nine ten that you guys want to add to the list I’m really curious to find
to the list I’m really curious to find
to the list I’m really curious to find out I made this video because Louise
out I made this video because Louise
out I made this video because Louise Torelli asked me to so the topic you’d
Torelli asked me to so the topic you’d
Torelli asked me to so the topic you’d like me to cover in a future 7 way
like me to cover in a future 7 way
like me to cover in a future 7 way series check out the link in the
series check out the link in the
series check out the link in the description and go and cast your vote I
description and go and cast your vote I
description and go and cast your vote I also want to give a quick shout out to
also want to give a quick shout out to
also want to give a quick shout out to Frodo from the actualised youtube
Frodo from the actualised youtube
Frodo from the actualised youtube channel thank you so much rain for
channel thank you so much rain for
channel thank you so much rain for picking up a copy of my book your one
picking up a copy of my book your one
picking up a copy of my book your one word and doing the review on your
word and doing the review on your
word and doing the review on your channel
channel
channel I really really appreciate the support
I really really appreciate the support
I really really appreciate the support and I’m still
and I’m still
and I’m still glad that you love the book so thank you
glad that you love the book so thank you
glad that you love the book so thank you guys for watching I believe in you I
guys for watching I believe in you I
guys for watching I believe in you I hope you continue to believe in yourself
hope you continue to believe in yourself
hope you continue to believe in yourself and whatever your one word is much love
and whatever your one word is much love
and whatever your one word is much love I’ll see you soon
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