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Game Changer: How Backgammon Will Bring Peace to the Middle East | Zaki Djemal | TEDxWhiteCity


thousands have tried to bring peace to

thousands have tried to bring peace to the Middle East politicians diplomats

the Middle East politicians diplomats

the Middle East politicians diplomats religious leaders even rock stars

religious leaders even rock stars

religious leaders even rock stars they’ve all tried they’ve all failed but

they’ve all tried they’ve all failed but

they’ve all tried they’ve all failed but I I’ve found the solution in one word in

I I’ve found the solution in one word in

I I’ve found the solution in one word in one word backgammon in two words Shh

one word backgammon in two words Shh

one word backgammon in two words Shh you’re laughing but I’m serious games

you’re laughing but I’m serious games

you’re laughing but I’m serious games can be an incredibly powerful force in

can be an incredibly powerful force in

can be an incredibly powerful force in at least one tragic moment in history a

at least one tragic moment in history a

at least one tragic moment in history a game had even started a war it was a

game had even started a war it was a

game had even started a war it was a summer of 1969 when the football war

summer of 1969 when the football war

summer of 1969 when the football war broke out between Honduras and El

broke out between Honduras and El

broke out between Honduras and El Salvador

Salvador

Salvador during qualifiers for the FIFA World Cup

during qualifiers for the FIFA World Cup

during qualifiers for the FIFA World Cup fans fought violently and took to the

fans fought violently and took to the

fans fought violently and took to the streets and the nations dissolved all

streets and the nations dissolved all

streets and the nations dissolved all diplomatic ties football was just a

diplomatic ties football was just a

diplomatic ties football was just a trigger of course this conflict was

trigger of course this conflict was

trigger of course this conflict was about economic policy and immigration

about economic policy and immigration

about economic policy and immigration but still what started as a game had

but still what started as a game had

but still what started as a game had become a full-blown war if the game

become a full-blown war if the game

become a full-blown war if the game started a war is it so crazy to imagine

started a war is it so crazy to imagine

started a war is it so crazy to imagine a game might end one as well today we’re

a game might end one as well today we’re

a game might end one as well today we’re talking about bringing peace of the

talking about bringing peace of the

talking about bringing peace of the Middle East but our beginning was modest

Middle East but our beginning was modest

Middle East but our beginning was modest it all started about nine months ago I

it all started about nine months ago I

it all started about nine months ago I was sitting together with Jewish and

was sitting together with Jewish and

was sitting together with Jewish and Arab friends at he dives house in

Arab friends at he dives house in

Arab friends at he dives house in Jerusalem we had convened to discuss the

Jerusalem we had convened to discuss the

Jerusalem we had convened to discuss the next steps of the project we’ve been

next steps of the project we’ve been

next steps of the project we’ve been working on to bring Jews and Arabs

working on to bring Jews and Arabs

working on to bring Jews and Arabs together around a shared love for Middle

together around a shared love for Middle

together around a shared love for Middle Eastern music but we couldn’t agree on

Eastern music but we couldn’t agree on

Eastern music but we couldn’t agree on anything

anything

anything and very quickly our conversation

and very quickly our conversation

and very quickly our conversation deteriorated into a heated debate then

deteriorated into a heated debate then

deteriorated into a heated debate then in the middle of all of this my good

in the middle of all of this my good

in the middle of all of this my good friend Dole made a suggestion he said

friend Dole made a suggestion he said

friend Dole made a suggestion he said guys let’s take a break how about we

guys let’s take a break how about we

guys let’s take a break how about we play something maybe some backgammon

play something maybe some backgammon

play something maybe some backgammon shesh Besh to be honest the last thing I

shesh Besh to be honest the last thing I

shesh Besh to be honest the last thing I wanted to do was play some silly game

wanted to do was play some silly game

wanted to do was play some silly game I thought it would be a waste of time

I thought it would be a waste of time

I thought it would be a waste of time and a distraction but Dole insisted it

and a distraction but Dole insisted it

and a distraction but Dole insisted it was about six or seven minutes into the

was about six or seven minutes into the

was about six or seven minutes into the game when it had already become quite

game when it had already become quite

game when it had already become quite clear that Mahmoud was kicking dolls ass

clear that Mahmoud was kicking dolls ass

clear that Mahmoud was kicking dolls ass that it suddenly hit us not only is

that it suddenly hit us not only is

that it suddenly hit us not only is backgammon fun and engaging not only is

backgammon fun and engaging not only is

backgammon fun and engaging not only is it a game that both Jews and Arabs know

it a game that both Jews and Arabs know

it a game that both Jews and Arabs know how to play but also in just six or

how to play but also in just six or

how to play but also in just six or seven minutes of playing together it had

seven minutes of playing together it had

seven minutes of playing together it had completely diffused all tension we were

completely diffused all tension we were

completely diffused all tension we were laughing picking sides making fun of

laughing picking sides making fun of

laughing picking sides making fun of each other’s poor backgammon skills and

each other’s poor backgammon skills and

each other’s poor backgammon skills and the original debate was completely

the original debate was completely

the original debate was completely forgotten that’s how we started the

forgotten that’s how we started the

forgotten that’s how we started the Jerusalem double project a series of

Jerusalem double project a series of

Jerusalem double project a series of backgammon tournaments that take place

backgammon tournaments that take place

backgammon tournaments that take place in Jerusalem in Arab and Jewish

in Jerusalem in Arab and Jewish

in Jerusalem in Arab and Jewish neighborhoods

we wanted to bring Jews and Arabs

we wanted to bring Jews and Arabs together beyond the daily grind we

together beyond the daily grind we

together beyond the daily grind we wanted to create a joint cultural

wanted to create a joint cultural

wanted to create a joint cultural experience in which everyone can share

experience in which everyone can share

experience in which everyone can share and we wanted to create crossover

and we wanted to create crossover

and we wanted to create crossover between neighborhoods that for

between neighborhoods that for

between neighborhoods that for generations have been completely

generations have been completely

generations have been completely segregated so where to start we hosted

segregated so where to start we hosted

segregated so where to start we hosted the first backgammon tournament in Beit

the first backgammon tournament in Beit

the first backgammon tournament in Beit Hanina an Arab neighborhood in East

Hanina an Arab neighborhood in East

Hanina an Arab neighborhood in East Jerusalem it wasn’t easy to convince our

Jerusalem it wasn’t easy to convince our

Jerusalem it wasn’t easy to convince our Jewish friends to cross the divide and

Jewish friends to cross the divide and

Jewish friends to cross the divide and venture into Arab Jerusalem but we

venture into Arab Jerusalem but we

venture into Arab Jerusalem but we didn’t give up this is Ezra Ezra is a

didn’t give up this is Ezra Ezra is a

didn’t give up this is Ezra Ezra is a religious Orthodox Jew from West

religious Orthodox Jew from West

religious Orthodox Jew from West Jerusalem who really didn’t want to have

Jerusalem who really didn’t want to have

Jerusalem who really didn’t want to have any of what we were organizing when we

any of what we were organizing when we

any of what we were organizing when we tried to convince him to come he asked a

tried to convince him to come he asked a

tried to convince him to come he asked a few basic questions why would I go to

few basic questions why would I go to

few basic questions why would I go to bed honey nah isn’t it dangerous

bed honey nah isn’t it dangerous

bed honey nah isn’t it dangerous where will I park will they steal my car

where will I park will they steal my car

where will I park will they steal my car do they have cell phone service in Beit

do they have cell phone service in Beit

do they have cell phone service in Beit Hanina a million and one reasons why not

Hanina a million and one reasons why not

Hanina a million and one reasons why not to come but we didn’t give up maybe it

to come but we didn’t give up maybe it

to come but we didn’t give up maybe it was something about what we were doing

was something about what we were doing

was something about what we were doing or maybe it was how much we insisted

or maybe it was how much we insisted

or maybe it was how much we insisted maybe it was it after all it’s just a

maybe it was it after all it’s just a

maybe it was it after all it’s just a game and backgammon for Ezra and so many

game and backgammon for Ezra and so many

game and backgammon for Ezra and so many others has a comforting familiarity of a

others has a comforting familiarity of a

others has a comforting familiarity of a game we’ve all been playing since

game we’ve all been playing since

game we’ve all been playing since childhood whatever it was it was enough

childhood whatever it was it was enough

childhood whatever it was it was enough to pique Ezra’s interest and convinced

to pique Ezra’s interest and convinced

to pique Ezra’s interest and convinced him to do something he had never done

him to do something he had never done

him to do something he had never done before cross a divide between Jewish and

before cross a divide between Jewish and

before cross a divide between Jewish and Arab Jerusalem Ezra was joined that

Arab Jerusalem Ezra was joined that

Arab Jerusalem Ezra was joined that night by a hundred and fifty people of

night by a hundred and fifty people of

night by a hundred and fifty people of whom a third were Jews from West

whom a third were Jews from West

whom a third were Jews from West Jerusalem and in the end of the evening

Jerusalem and in the end of the evening

Jerusalem and in the end of the evening he was pretty glad he showed up because

he was pretty glad he showed up because

he was pretty glad he showed up because ladies and gentlemen I am excited and

ladies and gentlemen I am excited and

ladies and gentlemen I am excited and proud to present the Beit Hanina

proud to present the Beit Hanina

proud to present the Beit Hanina backgammon champion Ezra

would you believe it this guy he

would you believe it this guy he literally needed to drag to the event

literally needed to drag to the event

literally needed to drag to the event ended up winning the competition that

ended up winning the competition that

ended up winning the competition that evening and while he may have won the

evening and while he may have won the

evening and while he may have won the real victory for me was it Ezra attended

real victory for me was it Ezra attended

real victory for me was it Ezra attended every single one of the backgammon

every single one of the backgammon

every single one of the backgammon events we’ve organized since including

events we’ve organized since including

events we’ve organized since including this one which took place just three

this one which took place just three

this one which took place just three months later this time in West Jerusalem

months later this time in West Jerusalem

months later this time in West Jerusalem and Jewish West Jerusalem where five

and Jewish West Jerusalem where five

and Jewish West Jerusalem where five hundred people showed up Jews and Arabs

hundred people showed up Jews and Arabs

hundred people showed up Jews and Arabs men and women young and old religious

men and women young and old religious

men and women young and old religious and secular showed up to see with their

and secular showed up to see with their

and secular showed up to see with their own eyes what backgammon had made

own eyes what backgammon had made

own eyes what backgammon had made possible in our beloved city of

possible in our beloved city of

possible in our beloved city of Jerusalem this is what it looks like

there are at least two reasons this idea

there are at least two reasons this idea has rally the support and captured the

has rally the support and captured the

has rally the support and captured the imagination of thousands first quite

imagination of thousands first quite

imagination of thousands first quite simply it’s a game what we know as kids

simply it’s a game what we know as kids

simply it’s a game what we know as kids but tend to forget as adults is the

but tend to forget as adults is the

but tend to forget as adults is the important role games play in our lives

important role games play in our lives

important role games play in our lives as infants we play as a form of practice

as infants we play as a form of practice

as infants we play as a form of practice that helps us develop skills we need

that helps us develop skills we need

that helps us develop skills we need later in life by the time were kids we

later in life by the time were kids we

later in life by the time were kids we play in a way that mimics or reflects

play in a way that mimics or reflects

play in a way that mimics or reflects the real world as teenagers or

the real world as teenagers or

the real world as teenagers or adolescents we play as if the game and

adolescents we play as if the game and

adolescents we play as if the game and its consequences are in fact the real

its consequences are in fact the real

its consequences are in fact the real world by the time we’re all grown up as

world by the time we’re all grown up as

world by the time we’re all grown up as adults we live and construct our lives

adults we live and construct our lives

adults we live and construct our lives and patterns of play whether courtship

and patterns of play whether courtship

and patterns of play whether courtship relationships even politics were

relationships even politics were

relationships even politics were constantly engaged in the world of games

constantly engaged in the world of games

constantly engaged in the world of games recent studies show that games and play

recent studies show that games and play

recent studies show that games and play are important not only in the

are important not only in the

are important not only in the development of our social faculties but

development of our social faculties but

development of our social faculties but also in building empathy trust

also in building empathy trust

also in building empathy trust persuading us to take risks and think

persuading us to take risks and think

persuading us to take risks and think creatively one such study at McGill

creatively one such study at McGill

creatively one such study at McGill University shows how just 15 minutes of

University shows how just 15 minutes of

University shows how just 15 minutes of play are enough to transform a complete

play are enough to transform a complete

play are enough to transform a complete stranger into someone we feel the same

stranger into someone we feel the same

stranger into someone we feel the same degree of empathy towards as a friend

degree of empathy towards as a friend

degree of empathy towards as a friend we’ve known for years 15 minutes that’s

we’ve known for years 15 minutes that’s

we’ve known for years 15 minutes that’s all it takes another study on rats shows

all it takes another study on rats shows

all it takes another study on rats shows that rats whose play was suppressed

that rats whose play was suppressed

that rats whose play was suppressed during development will flee and hide

during development will flee and hide

during development will flee and hide away at first sight of danger these rats

away at first sight of danger these rats

away at first sight of danger these rats are so scared

are so scared

are so scared they hide away and they never resurfaced

they hide away and they never resurfaced

they hide away and they never resurfaced they die and hiding on the other hand

they die and hiding on the other hand

they die and hiding on the other hand rats that were allowed to play they also

rats that were allowed to play they also

rats that were allowed to play they also flee I mean who wouldn’t but here’s the

flee I mean who wouldn’t but here’s the

flee I mean who wouldn’t but here’s the amazing part when the danger is no

amazing part when the danger is no

amazing part when the danger is no longer present these rats they resurface

longer present these rats they resurface

longer present these rats they resurface they come back out into the world to

they come back out into the world to

they come back out into the world to give it another chance now these are

give it another chance now these are

give it another chance now these are amazing findings think about how they

amazing findings think about how they

amazing findings think about how they apply to what we’re talking about here

apply to what we’re talking about here

apply to what we’re talking about here today play can create

today play can create

today play can create the fee between strangers even apparent

the fee between strangers even apparent

the fee between strangers even apparent enemies and it can give us the

enemies and it can give us the

enemies and it can give us the confidence we need to trust in each

confidence we need to trust in each

confidence we need to trust in each other and in the world even after we’ve

other and in the world even after we’ve

other and in the world even after we’ve been slighted even after we’ve

been slighted even after we’ve

been slighted even after we’ve experienced pain suffering and fear so

experienced pain suffering and fear so

experienced pain suffering and fear so games can play a role in conflict

games can play a role in conflict

games can play a role in conflict resolution so far that’s clear but why

resolution so far that’s clear but why

resolution so far that’s clear but why backgammon why backgammon in particular

backgammon why backgammon in particular

backgammon why backgammon in particular it’s not nearly as reputable as some of

it’s not nearly as reputable as some of

it’s not nearly as reputable as some of its prestigious and serious counterparts

its prestigious and serious counterparts

its prestigious and serious counterparts like chess or bridge but that’s exactly

like chess or bridge but that’s exactly

like chess or bridge but that’s exactly the point we’re in the Middle East not

the point we’re in the Middle East not

the point we’re in the Middle East not in some exclusive Country Club

in some exclusive Country Club

in some exclusive Country Club backgammon is deeply rooted in these

backgammon is deeply rooted in these

backgammon is deeply rooted in these parts its origin can be traced back

parts its origin can be traced back

parts its origin can be traced back nearly 5,000 years to the Mesopotamian

nearly 5,000 years to the Mesopotamian

nearly 5,000 years to the Mesopotamian Kingdom of all now modern-day Iraq and

Kingdom of all now modern-day Iraq and

Kingdom of all now modern-day Iraq and while the game grew popular and spread

while the game grew popular and spread

while the game grew popular and spread to the West during the time of the

to the West during the time of the

to the West during the time of the Romans it’s never left the Middle East

Romans it’s never left the Middle East

Romans it’s never left the Middle East empires have come and gone but

empires have come and gone but

empires have come and gone but backgammon has always been here to stay

we even have evidence that during the

we even have evidence that during the time of the Ottomans Jews and Arabs

time of the Ottomans Jews and Arabs

time of the Ottomans Jews and Arabs would sit together in the coffee houses

would sit together in the coffee houses

would sit together in the coffee houses in Jerusalem smoke hookah or Nagila and

in Jerusalem smoke hookah or Nagila and

in Jerusalem smoke hookah or Nagila and play backgammon together and in our

play backgammon together and in our

play backgammon together and in our times in modern times look at these

times in modern times look at these

times in modern times look at these photos people playing backgammon in the

photos people playing backgammon in the

photos people playing backgammon in the laki shook in Jerusalem in a coffee shop

laki shook in Jerusalem in a coffee shop

laki shook in Jerusalem in a coffee shop in Damascus in Ramallah in Marrakech in

in Damascus in Ramallah in Marrakech in

in Damascus in Ramallah in Marrakech in Istanbul in Cairo notice how similar we

Istanbul in Cairo notice how similar we

Istanbul in Cairo notice how similar we all look and here is my grandfather and

all look and here is my grandfather and

all look and here is my grandfather and namesake a proud Syrian Jew who played

namesake a proud Syrian Jew who played

namesake a proud Syrian Jew who played backgammon in Thailand where he lived

backgammon in Thailand where he lived

backgammon in Thailand where he lived with the Egyptian and Iranian ambassador

with the Egyptian and Iranian ambassador

with the Egyptian and Iranian ambassador in the 1960s

that gammon works in the Middle East

that gammon works in the Middle East because it’s accessible and inclusive

because it’s accessible and inclusive

because it’s accessible and inclusive the rules are simple

the rules are simple

the rules are simple anyone can play anyone can win it erases

anyone can play anyone can win it erases

anyone can play anyone can win it erases hierarchy and allows people of all

hierarchy and allows people of all

hierarchy and allows people of all backgrounds to have a seat at the table

backgrounds to have a seat at the table

backgrounds to have a seat at the table politicians university professors taxi

politicians university professors taxi

politicians university professors taxi drivers car mechanics they’ve all

drivers car mechanics they’ve all

drivers car mechanics they’ve all participated in our events and while in

participated in our events and while in

participated in our events and while in the real world they may command more or

the real world they may command more or

the real world they may command more or less respect on more or less property

less respect on more or less property

less respect on more or less property make more or less money in backgammon

make more or less money in backgammon

make more or less money in backgammon neither black nor white checkers have an

neither black nor white checkers have an

neither black nor white checkers have an inherited Vantage in backgammon we’re

inherited Vantage in backgammon we’re

inherited Vantage in backgammon we’re all equal but above all that gammon is

all equal but above all that gammon is

all equal but above all that gammon is about two people sitting across one from

about two people sitting across one from

about two people sitting across one from the other staring each other in the eye

the other staring each other in the eye

the other staring each other in the eye and playing a game together go home play

and playing a game together go home play

and playing a game together go home play with your friends play with your

with your friends play with your

with your friends play with your co-workers even the ones you don’t get

co-workers even the ones you don’t get

co-workers even the ones you don’t get along with play with your kids teach

along with play with your kids teach

along with play with your kids teach them about their roots teach them about

them about their roots teach them about

them about their roots teach them about the history and culture we share with

the history and culture we share with

the history and culture we share with our neighbors if we all do our part

our neighbors if we all do our part

our neighbors if we all do our part what’s possible in a game has the

what’s possible in a game has the

what’s possible in a game has the potential to transcend the board into

potential to transcend the board into

potential to transcend the board into the real world and become a true

the real world and become a true

the real world and become a true catalyst for change and maybe just maybe

catalyst for change and maybe just maybe

catalyst for change and maybe just maybe if we all do our part together we can

if we all do our part together we can

if we all do our part together we can bring peace to the Middle East play with

bring peace to the Middle East play with

bring peace to the Middle East play with us

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