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Embrace your UNIQUENESS – Nina Dobrev (@ninadobrev) – #Entspresso


good morning believe nation today’s

good morning believe nation today’s message is embrace your uniqueness over

message is embrace your uniqueness over

message is embrace your uniqueness over to you Nina Dobrev honestly I think

to you Nina Dobrev honestly I think

to you Nina Dobrev honestly I think everyone is different and unique and

everyone is different and unique and

everyone is different and unique and that’s a good thing it’s not mad it’s

that’s a good thing it’s not mad it’s

that’s a good thing it’s not mad it’s kind of the best thing in the world you

kind of the best thing in the world you

kind of the best thing in the world you don’t want to be like everyone else

don’t want to be like everyone else

don’t want to be like everyone else growing up in high school and just doing

growing up in high school and just doing

growing up in high school and just doing your hide with your whole life really

your hide with your whole life really

your hide with your whole life really either you have been taught to feel like

either you have been taught to feel like

either you have been taught to feel like or you want to be like everyone else

or you want to be like everyone else

or you want to be like everyone else because conceptually you’ll you’ll be

because conceptually you’ll you’ll be

because conceptually you’ll you’ll be included and you’ll be like the crowd

included and you’ll be like the crowd

included and you’ll be like the crowd but when you think about it when you

but when you think about it when you

but when you think about it when you look at people like Lady gaga

look at people like Lady gaga

look at people like Lady gaga who is so crazy it’s so different and so

who is so crazy it’s so different and so

who is so crazy it’s so different and so unique and her whole message is about

unique and her whole message is about

unique and her whole message is about you know being yourself and being okay

you know being yourself and being okay

you know being yourself and being okay with it and she the reason she is so

with it and she the reason she is so

with it and she the reason she is so successful and so is because she’s

successful and so is because she’s

successful and so is because she’s talented because she’s different if she

talented because she’s different if she

talented because she’s different if she was just like Britney Spears or if she

was just like Britney Spears or if she

was just like Britney Spears or if she was just like Minami nina dobrev then

was just like Minami nina dobrev then

was just like Minami nina dobrev then there would be two of us so there’d be

there would be two of us so there’d be

there would be two of us so there’d be nothing special about that so I think

nothing special about that so I think

nothing special about that so I think what’s what’s special is the fact that

what’s what’s special is the fact that

what’s what’s special is the fact that you’re different and is the fact that

you’re different and is the fact that

you’re different and is the fact that you’re unique and that you can bring

you’re unique and that you can bring

you’re unique and that you can bring something to the table so if anything

something to the table so if anything

something to the table so if anything embrace that that that uniqueness and

embrace that that that uniqueness and

embrace that that that uniqueness and that that thing that you have that no

that that thing that you have that no

that that thing that you have that no one else does and expand upon it make it

one else does and expand upon it make it

one else does and expand upon it make it better and tell everyone about it and be

better and tell everyone about it and be

better and tell everyone about it and be confident in that because if you’re

confident in that because if you’re

confident in that because if you’re confident and happy and smiling you will

confident and happy and smiling you will

confident and happy and smiling you will attract confidence happiness and

attract confidence happiness and

attract confidence happiness and laughter people keep trying to copy the

laughter people keep trying to copy the

laughter people keep trying to copy the successes of other people because they

successes of other people because they

successes of other people because they think it’s what’s going to make them win

think it’s what’s going to make them win

think it’s what’s going to make them win and you can to some extent you can model

and you can to some extent you can model

and you can to some extent you can model success but if all you’re doing is

success but if all you’re doing is

success but if all you’re doing is copying somebody steps after steps at

copying somebody steps after steps at

copying somebody steps after steps at their steps the best you’re going to be

their steps the best you’re going to be

their steps the best you’re going to be is a second or third rate version of

is a second or third rate version of

is a second or third rate version of them instead of the best version of you

them instead of the best version of you

them instead of the best version of you and this is what’s really really

and this is what’s really really

and this is what’s really really important as you begin on your path it’s

important as you begin on your path it’s

important as you begin on your path it’s okay to copy other people you’re looking

okay to copy other people you’re looking

okay to copy other people you’re looking for guidance you’re looking for

for guidance you’re looking for

for guidance you’re looking for inspiration you have no idea how

inspiration you have no idea how

inspiration you have no idea how anything is done and so instead of

anything is done and so instead of

anything is done and so instead of trying to figure out every single idea

trying to figure out every single idea

trying to figure out every single idea yourself model success learn from people

yourself model success learn from people

yourself model success learn from people who come before you it’s a fantastic

who come before you it’s a fantastic

who come before you it’s a fantastic strategy

strategy

strategy but if you want to win the big game if

but if you want to win the big game if

but if you want to win the big game if you want to really be unique and really

you want to really be unique and really

you want to really be unique and really different and really stand out and

different and really stand out and

different and really stand out and really have massive success it’s going

really have massive success it’s going

really have massive success it’s going to come from you taking these bits of

to come from you taking these bits of

to come from you taking these bits of pieces from other people if you’re going

pieces from other people if you’re going

pieces from other people if you’re going to work to them and then tweaking them

to work to them and then tweaking them

to work to them and then tweaking them to apply to your situation there’s a

to apply to your situation there’s a

to apply to your situation there’s a great example like the reference on the

great example like the reference on the

great example like the reference on the channel talking about 50 cent looking at

channel talking about 50 cent looking at

channel talking about 50 cent looking at new people coming up through the

new people coming up through the

new people coming up through the industry and people sending him demo

industry and people sending him demo

industry and people sending him demo tapes and people that sound like Lil

tapes and people that sound like Lil

tapes and people that sound like Lil Wayne and so you sound just like Lil

Wayne and so you sound just like Lil

Wayne and so you sound just like Lil Wayne I can’t tell the difference

Wayne I can’t tell the difference

Wayne I can’t tell the difference between you a little Wayne it’s amazing

between you a little Wayne it’s amazing

between you a little Wayne it’s amazing your talent to sound like Lil Wayne is

your talent to sound like Lil Wayne is

your talent to sound like Lil Wayne is fantastic but we already have a little

fantastic but we already have a little

fantastic but we already have a little Wayne we don’t need a little Wayne

Wayne we don’t need a little Wayne

Wayne we don’t need a little Wayne copycat so the best you’re going to do

copycat so the best you’re going to do

copycat so the best you’re going to do here is just be a little Wayne cover

here is just be a little Wayne cover

here is just be a little Wayne cover band is that what you want to do where

band is that what you want to do where

band is that what you want to do where you have uniqueness you have talent

you have uniqueness you have talent

you have uniqueness you have talent inside you you can find a way to tweak

inside you you can find a way to tweak

inside you you can find a way to tweak some of the things that works a little

some of the things that works a little

some of the things that works a little Wayne and apply to your situation to be

Wayne and apply to your situation to be

Wayne and apply to your situation to be an amazing artist I found this when I

an amazing artist I found this when I

an amazing artist I found this when I was working on my youtube channel and I

was working on my youtube channel and I

was working on my youtube channel and I was working with my agent I had my agent

was working with my agent I had my agent

was working with my agent I had my agent Steve and I had a media coach Janie who

Steve and I had a media coach Janie who

Steve and I had a media coach Janie who worked at the agency and they were

worked at the agency and they were

worked at the agency and they were giving me feedback on how to make better

giving me feedback on how to make better

giving me feedback on how to make better videos and I would meet with Janie once

videos and I would meet with Janie once

videos and I would meet with Janie once a week for a year and a half and I met

a week for a year and a half and I met

a week for a year and a half and I met with Steve maybe once a month looking at

with Steve maybe once a month looking at

with Steve maybe once a month looking at different videos and you would always

different videos and you would always

different videos and you would always give me feedback and totally different

give me feedback and totally different

give me feedback and totally different style feedback Steve was always rhesus

style feedback Steve was always rhesus

style feedback Steve was always rhesus takes very aggressive Weiser why is it

takes very aggressive Weiser why is it

takes very aggressive Weiser why is it so important what are some of the bail

so important what are some of the bail

so important what are some of the bail to kill themselves before watching this

to kill themselves before watching this

to kill themselves before watching this video and you had to make that

video and you had to make that

video and you had to make that transition to help them stay alive right

transition to help them stay alive right

transition to help them stay alive right like just make it more important and

like just make it more important and

like just make it more important and Janie is leaning on authenticity

Janie is leaning on authenticity

Janie is leaning on authenticity understand and be genuine and a much

understand and be genuine and a much

understand and be genuine and a much softer side and so every time I met with

softer side and so every time I met with

softer side and so every time I met with both of them they would give me

both of them they would give me

both of them they would give me different feedback and they see it

different feedback and they see it

different feedback and they see it through their lens and I would always

through their lens and I would always

through their lens and I would always take their advice and I would struggle

take their advice and I would struggle

take their advice and I would struggle with it and I would do exactly what they

with it and I would do exactly what they

with it and I would do exactly what they said Steve give me homework I would do

said Steve give me homework I would do

said Steve give me homework I would do exactly what he asked Janie gave me

exactly what he asked Janie gave me

exactly what he asked Janie gave me homework I could do exactly what she had

homework I could do exactly what she had

homework I could do exactly what she had and it always felt uncomfortable which

and it always felt uncomfortable which

and it always felt uncomfortable which was good

was good

was good searching the comfort zone but it was

searching the comfort zone but it was

searching the comfort zone but it was never quite right for me and what I had

never quite right for me and what I had

never quite right for me and what I had to do is take that awesome piece of

to do is take that awesome piece of

to do is take that awesome piece of advice from Janie and add just a little

advice from Janie and add just a little

advice from Janie and add just a little bit to it make it shift so that it

bit to it make it shift so that it

bit to it make it shift so that it worked for me it felt more authentic

worked for me it felt more authentic

worked for me it felt more authentic felt more comfortable felt more Evon and

felt more comfortable felt more Evon and

felt more comfortable felt more Evon and that’s what you need to do look at all

that’s what you need to do look at all

that’s what you need to do look at all the strategies of people that have gone

the strategies of people that have gone

the strategies of people that have gone out what they’ve done before you it’s

out what they’ve done before you it’s

out what they’ve done before you it’s amazing and then see how can I make that

amazing and then see how can I make that

amazing and then see how can I make that thing that work for Steve Jobs work for

thing that work for Steve Jobs work for

thing that work for Steve Jobs work for me what tweak can I make

me what tweak can I make

me what tweak can I make to make it authentic and uniquely me so

to make it authentic and uniquely me so

to make it authentic and uniquely me so that I will have success in this market

that I will have success in this market

that I will have success in this market because if you don’t do that again

because if you don’t do that again

because if you don’t do that again you’re just going to be a copy of

you’re just going to be a copy of

you’re just going to be a copy of somebody else and you’re never going to

somebody else and you’re never going to

somebody else and you’re never going to stand out and have massive success you

stand out and have massive success you

stand out and have massive success you have amazingness inside you and you need

have amazingness inside you and you need

have amazingness inside you and you need to let that out trust that it’s there

to let that out trust that it’s there

to let that out trust that it’s there embrace it and go all-in on it so the

embrace it and go all-in on it so the

embrace it and go all-in on it so the question today is I’m curious what have

question today is I’m curious what have

question today is I’m curious what have you learned from somebody else that

you learned from somebody else that

you learned from somebody else that you’ve modeled and then tweak what was

you’ve modeled and then tweak what was

you’ve modeled and then tweak what was the tweak I’m curious what did you learn

the tweak I’m curious what did you learn

the tweak I’m curious what did you learn and then how did you tweak it to make it

and then how did you tweak it to make it

and then how did you tweak it to make it fit and work for you leave in the

fit and work for you leave in the

fit and work for you leave in the comments below super curious to find out

comments below super curious to find out

comments below super curious to find out I also want to give a quick shout out to

I also want to give a quick shout out to

I also want to give a quick shout out to Juliette young Juliette thank you so

Juliette young Juliette thank you so

Juliette young Juliette thank you so much for picking up a copy of my book

much for picking up a copy of my book

much for picking up a copy of my book your one word it really really really

your one word it really really really

your one word it really really really means a lot to me and I appreciate the

means a lot to me and I appreciate the

means a lot to me and I appreciate the support I hope you enjoyed the read

support I hope you enjoyed the read

support I hope you enjoyed the read thank you guys again for watching I hope

thank you guys again for watching I hope

thank you guys again for watching I hope you have an amazing day I believe in you

you have an amazing day I believe in you

you have an amazing day I believe in you and hope you continue to believe in

and hope you continue to believe in

and hope you continue to believe in yourself and I’ll see you again tomorrow

yourself and I’ll see you again tomorrow

yourself and I’ll see you again tomorrow morning for another shot

morning for another shot

morning for another shot events better

saying that we have enough artists is

saying that we have enough artists is like saying we have enough scientists we

like saying we have enough scientists we

like saying we have enough scientists we have enough designers we have enough

have enough designers we have enough

have enough designers we have enough politicians we have enough politicians

politicians we have enough politicians

politicians we have enough politicians but you know nobody gets to be you

but you know nobody gets to be you

but you know nobody gets to be you except you nobody has your point of view

except you nobody has your point of view

except you nobody has your point of view except you

except you

except you nobody gets to bring to the world the

nobody gets to bring to the world the

nobody gets to bring to the world the things that you get to bring to the

things that you get to bring to the

things that you get to bring to the world uniquely get to bring to the world

world uniquely get to bring to the world

world uniquely get to bring to the world except you so saying there are enough

except you so saying there are enough

except you so saying there are enough writers out enough directors out there

writers out enough directors out there

writers out enough directors out there enough people with points of view well

enough people with points of view well

enough people with points of view well yeah there are but none of them are you

yeah there are but none of them are you

yeah there are but none of them are you and not only none of those people is

and not only none of those people is

and not only none of those people is going to make the art that you will make

going to make the art that you will make

going to make the art that you will make none of them will change people and

none of them will change people and

none of them will change people and change the world in the way that you

change the world in the way that you

change the world in the way that you could change it so if you believe

could change it so if you believe

could change it so if you believe somebody who says no no we got enough of

somebody who says no no we got enough of

somebody who says no no we got enough of those then all it means is you’re giving

those then all it means is you’re giving

those then all it means is you’re giving up your chance to change the world in

up your chance to change the world in

up your chance to change the world in the way that only you could change it

the way that only you could change it

the way that only you could change it everybody is the same and I run into

everybody is the same and I run into

everybody is the same and I run into these people I feel like we like I

these people I feel like we like I

these people I feel like we like I nobody is a real real individual like

nobody is a real real individual like

nobody is a real real individual like it’s rare that you stumble across

it’s rare that you stumble across

it’s rare that you stumble across someone who’s a real individual when you

someone who’s a real individual when you

someone who’s a real individual when you do it’s like amazing it I love seeing

do it’s like amazing it I love seeing

do it’s like amazing it I love seeing people who are just truly themselves but

people who are just truly themselves but

people who are just truly themselves but everybody is like whenever they see on

everybody is like whenever they see on

everybody is like whenever they see on TV whatever they see around and they

TV whatever they see around and they

TV whatever they see around and they just want to be then it’s like you don’t

just want to be then it’s like you don’t

just want to be then it’s like you don’t world is huge you don’t have to be that

world is huge you don’t have to be that

world is huge you don’t have to be that you do not have to be with what your

you do not have to be with what your

you do not have to be with what your neighbor is did you have to do what your

neighbor is did you have to do what your

neighbor is did you have to do what your neighbor is doing you can do whatever

neighbor is doing you can do whatever

neighbor is doing you can do whatever the you want so people are just like

the you want so people are just like

the you want so people are just like yeah rappers flight they have to be a

yeah rappers flight they have to be a

yeah rappers flight they have to be a certain way actors like they have to be

certain way actors like they have to be

certain way actors like they have to be a certain way people in certain

a certain way people in certain

a certain way people in certain neighborhoods like that if you’re

neighborhoods like that if you’re

neighborhoods like that if you’re selling Lakers who then around and I

selling Lakers who then around and I

selling Lakers who then around and I know deep down like um like children

know deep down like um like children

know deep down like um like children children are themselves they react off

children are themselves they react off

children are themselves they react off of instinct until they start to

of instinct until they start to

of instinct until they start to understand how the world is and human I

understand how the world is and human I

understand how the world is and human I mean an adults when once they turn into

mean an adults when once they turn into

mean an adults when once they turn into an adult they’re they start to see like

an adult they’re they start to see like

an adult they’re they start to see like oh dang okay I can’t do that I can’t

oh dang okay I can’t do that I can’t

oh dang okay I can’t do that I can’t like that number I can’t I can’t be that

like that number I can’t I can’t be that

like that number I can’t I can’t be that way because that’s that’s not acceptable

way because that’s that’s not acceptable

way because that’s that’s not acceptable because I might keep I might look down

because I might keep I might look down

because I might keep I might look down upon they might laugh at me or think I’m

upon they might laugh at me or think I’m

upon they might laugh at me or think I’m weird and it’s like know that this is

weird and it’s like know that this is

weird and it’s like know that this is what makes you you this is what makes

what makes you you this is what makes

what makes you you this is what makes you you like I I just try and it’s hard

you you like I I just try and it’s hard

you you like I I just try and it’s hard to do don’t get me wrong like I’m I’m

to do don’t get me wrong like I’m I’m

to do don’t get me wrong like I’m I’m still learning about myself I’m trying

still learning about myself I’m trying

still learning about myself I’m trying to just um open myself up to new ways of

to just um open myself up to new ways of

to just um open myself up to new ways of thinking all the time and just truly

thinking all the time and just truly

thinking all the time and just truly being my

being my

being my sometimes I get caught in something next

sometimes I get caught in something next

sometimes I get caught in something next to so many different levels to a matrix

to so many different levels to a matrix

to so many different levels to a matrix you know saying sometimes you like them

you know saying sometimes you like them

you know saying sometimes you like them I thought I was out and I was still in

I thought I was out and I was still in

I thought I was out and I was still in right I guess you just but um that’s

right I guess you just but um that’s

right I guess you just but um that’s rail yeah it’s just everybody just feels

rail yeah it’s just everybody just feels

rail yeah it’s just everybody just feels like they have to be just like everybody

like they have to be just like everybody

like they have to be just like everybody else and when I when I see rappers I’m

else and when I when I see rappers I’m

else and when I when I see rappers I’m like : Dooley get your sit down same

like : Dooley get your sit down same

like : Dooley get your sit down same dance doing the same turn and it’s like

dance doing the same turn and it’s like

dance doing the same turn and it’s like do you got you got a billion tattoos on

do you got you got a billion tattoos on

do you got you got a billion tattoos on your face and body where did you get

your face and body where did you get

your face and body where did you get that from because you I know you didn’t

that from because you I know you didn’t

that from because you I know you didn’t come out of your mom’s vagina going I

come out of your mom’s vagina going I

come out of your mom’s vagina going I want to be tatted you saw somebody do

want to be tatted you saw somebody do

want to be tatted you saw somebody do that and you said I want to do that too

that and you said I want to do that too

that and you said I want to do that too because that’s going to make me look

because that’s going to make me look

because that’s going to make me look like this type of thing and I want to be

like this type of thing and I want to be

like this type of thing and I want to be just like that I’m and everybody’s doing

just like that I’m and everybody’s doing

just like that I’m and everybody’s doing it I know that works so I’m going to do

it I know that works so I’m going to do

it I know that works so I’m going to do it and now it makes you look like one of

it and now it makes you look like one of

it and now it makes you look like one of them and now you’re now you’re not

them and now you’re now you’re not

them and now you’re now you’re not original and then your rap career

original and then your rap career

original and then your rap career doesn’t go for you like well what

doesn’t go for you like well what

doesn’t go for you like well what happened then it’s just in it but it’s

happened then it’s just in it but it’s

happened then it’s just in it but it’s not just rapping it’s just all areas of

not just rapping it’s just all areas of

not just rapping it’s just all areas of life what samsara means hard work saying

life what samsara means hard work saying

life what samsara means hard work saying power means every day you get up and you

power means every day you get up and you

power means every day you get up and you try to how to stay away stay ahead of

try to how to stay away stay ahead of

try to how to stay away stay ahead of the pack I’ve sort of marched to the

the pack I’ve sort of marched to the

the pack I’ve sort of marched to the beat of your own drummer

beat of your own drummer

beat of your own drummer this notion that music becomes

this notion that music becomes

this notion that music becomes modernized in other words there are lots

modernized in other words there are lots

modernized in other words there are lots of successful rappers that have short

of successful rappers that have short

of successful rappers that have short careers because if you can replace one

careers because if you can replace one

careers because if you can replace one rapper for another you’re done but more

rapper for another you’re done but more

rapper for another you’re done but more unique you are and what you do to better

unique you are and what you do to better

unique you are and what you do to better your chances of continuing on so when

your chances of continuing on so when

your chances of continuing on so when you take a look at that sometimes it’s

you take a look at that sometimes it’s

you take a look at that sometimes it’s musical take a look at a band like ac/dc

musical take a look at a band like ac/dc

musical take a look at a band like ac/dc you hear it you immediately know what it

you hear it you immediately know what it

you hear it you immediately know what it is that’s what they serve up you want

is that’s what they serve up you want

is that’s what they serve up you want balance go to another band they serve up

balance go to another band they serve up

balance go to another band they serve up straighter that’s what you do kiss

straighter that’s what you do kiss

straighter that’s what you do kiss serves up spectacle we will not sit

serves up spectacle we will not sit

serves up spectacle we will not sit around on stage on a Persian carpet

around on stage on a Persian carpet

around on stage on a Persian carpet light the candles and sing about oh the

light the candles and sing about oh the

light the candles and sing about oh the flaxen-haired lass and leaving this

flaxen-haired lass and leaving this

flaxen-haired lass and leaving this countryside kill me now we don’t do that

countryside kill me now we don’t do that

countryside kill me now we don’t do that you know you want nice quiet stay at

you know you want nice quiet stay at

you know you want nice quiet stay at home with Grandma pour another glass of

home with Grandma pour another glass of

home with Grandma pour another glass of water and put our false teeth in it let

water and put our false teeth in it let

water and put our false teeth in it let the spinach rise to the top I think what

the spinach rise to the top I think what

the spinach rise to the top I think what we do we blow stuff up with a drummer

we do we blow stuff up with a drummer

we do we blow stuff up with a drummer and a backbeat and don’t sing about the

and a backbeat and don’t sing about the

and a backbeat and don’t sing about the secret of life because there is none

secret of life because there is none

secret of life because there is none here’s the secret of life you’re alive

here’s the secret of life you’re alive

here’s the secret of life you’re alive and then you’re not that’s it that’s the

and then you’re not that’s it that’s the

and then you’re not that’s it that’s the secret be glad you’re alive while you’re

secret be glad you’re alive while you’re

secret be glad you’re alive while you’re alive you’re a lot too

alive you’re a lot too

alive you’re a lot too shake the world up a little bit and

shake the world up a little bit and

shake the world up a little bit and that’s what you do

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