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Mentoring Relationships – How do I get a mentor? – Ask Evan


hi I’m Evan Carmichael walk another

hi I’m Evan Carmichael walk another edition of ask Evan in today to do I’m

edition of ask Evan in today to do I’m

edition of ask Evan in today to do I’m going to answer question from one of my

going to answer question from one of my

going to answer question from one of my readers Trina who was a single mom she

readers Trina who was a single mom she

readers Trina who was a single mom she wants to run the business she’s looking

wants to run the business she’s looking

wants to run the business she’s looking for a mentor to help her her main vision

for a mentor to help her her main vision

for a mentor to help her her main vision behind it is because she wants to build

behind it is because she wants to build

behind it is because she wants to build a better life for herself and for her

a better life for herself and for her

a better life for herself and for her daughter who’s just growing up and I

daughter who’s just growing up and I

daughter who’s just growing up and I think that’s something a lot of people

think that’s something a lot of people

think that’s something a lot of people can relate to they want to build a

can relate to they want to build a

can relate to they want to build a better lives for themselves and for

better lives for themselves and for

better lives for themselves and for their family in terms of finding a

their family in terms of finding a

their family in terms of finding a mentor I think the first thing you need

mentor I think the first thing you need

mentor I think the first thing you need to do is identify what you need help

to do is identify what you need help

to do is identify what you need help with so it wasn’t clearing the email

with so it wasn’t clearing the email

with so it wasn’t clearing the email that you sent exactly what you need help

that you sent exactly what you need help

that you sent exactly what you need help with and when you’re going and looking

with and when you’re going and looking

with and when you’re going and looking for a mentor you want to be really

for a mentor you want to be really

for a mentor you want to be really specific as to where you need help so

specific as to where you need help so

specific as to where you need help so you know people that you talk to are

you know people that you talk to are

you know people that you talk to are going to be able to give you advice or

going to be able to give you advice or

going to be able to give you advice or refer you to people depending on what

refer you to people depending on what

refer you to people depending on what you asked so it’s just saying you

you asked so it’s just saying you

you asked so it’s just saying you looking for mentor doesn’t necessarily

looking for mentor doesn’t necessarily

looking for mentor doesn’t necessarily help but if you say I need somebody to

help but if you say I need somebody to

help but if you say I need somebody to help me with my website idea or

help me with my website idea or

help me with my website idea or marketing or grow my business or raising

marketing or grow my business or raising

marketing or grow my business or raising capital whatever it is then you start

capital whatever it is then you start

capital whatever it is then you start getting people thinking about how they

getting people thinking about how they

getting people thinking about how they can potentially help you either

can potentially help you either

can potentially help you either themselves or pass name on to you to

themselves or pass name on to you to

themselves or pass name on to you to help you out I’ve seen a lot of times a

help you out I’ve seen a lot of times a

help you out I’ve seen a lot of times a lot of entrepreneurs that I meet with

lot of entrepreneurs that I meet with

lot of entrepreneurs that I meet with here in Toronto will come and ask me for

here in Toronto will come and ask me for

here in Toronto will come and ask me for help and I try to help as much as

help and I try to help as much as

help and I try to help as much as possible when somebody has a really

possible when somebody has a really

possible when somebody has a really clear goal of what they want to

clear goal of what they want to

clear goal of what they want to accomplish it’s easier for me to help

accomplish it’s easier for me to help

accomplish it’s easier for me to help them it’s easier for me to mentor them

them it’s easier for me to mentor them

them it’s easier for me to mentor them or to give them connections to people or

or to give them connections to people or

or to give them connections to people or think and help them if they’re I’m very

think and help them if they’re I’m very

think and help them if they’re I’m very vague then it’s harder for me to help

vague then it’s harder for me to help

vague then it’s harder for me to help and I have to kind of drill down and try

and I have to kind of drill down and try

and I have to kind of drill down and try to figure out what it is that they need

to figure out what it is that they need

to figure out what it is that they need help with and so people may spend that

help with and so people may spend that

help with and so people may spend that time with you but a lot of people won’t

time with you but a lot of people won’t

time with you but a lot of people won’t so you want to try to get as clear as

so you want to try to get as clear as

so you want to try to get as clear as possible as to what you need help with

possible as to what you need help with

possible as to what you need help with so that when you are talking to people

so that when you are talking to people

so that when you are talking to people it’s easier for them to give you

it’s easier for them to give you

it’s easier for them to give you contacts and and give you advice to help

contacts and and give you advice to help

contacts and and give you advice to help you out the other part of that is so

you out the other part of that is so

you out the other part of that is so that’s great you’re out there you’re

that’s great you’re out there you’re

that’s great you’re out there you’re talking people you really clear and you

talking people you really clear and you

talking people you really clear and you will get people who can help you the

will get people who can help you the

will get people who can help you the second part is you don’t have to get

second part is you don’t have to get

second part is you don’t have to get mentored by people who you actually know

mentored by people who you actually know

mentored by people who you actually know and i found that i’ve got a lot of

and i found that i’ve got a lot of

and i found that i’ve got a lot of advice and I can sit a lot of people to

advice and I can sit a lot of people to

advice and I can sit a lot of people to be my mentors and people I look up to

be my mentors and people I look up to

be my mentors and people I look up to who have never actually met and I

who have never actually met and I

who have never actually met and I learned

learned

learned about them through books I read and

about them through books I read and

about them through books I read and stories online and profiles that we even

stories online and profiles that we even

stories online and profiles that we even do in a my own website and I call it

do in a my own website and I call it

do in a my own website and I call it modern masters where you’re looking at

modern masters where you’re looking at

modern masters where you’re looking at famous entrepreneurs who look up to and

famous entrepreneurs who look up to and

famous entrepreneurs who look up to and you get their advice by listening to how

you get their advice by listening to how

you get their advice by listening to how they started their business and I find a

they started their business and I find a

they started their business and I find a lot of value in that hopefully you know

lot of value in that hopefully you know

lot of value in that hopefully you know you guys do as well and that’s why we do

you guys do as well and that’s why we do

you guys do as well and that’s why we do the regular videos on it but you know

the regular videos on it but you know

the regular videos on it but you know what I’m looking for marketing device

what I’m looking for marketing device

what I’m looking for marketing device there’s people who I know who I can talk

there’s people who I know who I can talk

there’s people who I know who I can talk to about marketing but I also look at

to about marketing but I also look at

to about marketing but I also look at guys like Richard Branson and how did

guys like Richard Branson and how did

guys like Richard Branson and how did they market their business and guys like

they market their business and guys like

they market their business and guys like Donald Trump and how do they promote

Donald Trump and how do they promote

Donald Trump and how do they promote themselves there’s lessons you can learn

themselves there’s lessons you can learn

themselves there’s lessons you can learn success leaves clues I look into these

success leaves clues I look into these

success leaves clues I look into these famous entrepreneurs who look up to and

famous entrepreneurs who look up to and

famous entrepreneurs who look up to and a tent it helps to look at people who

a tent it helps to look at people who

a tent it helps to look at people who are inspiring to you and whose story you

are inspiring to you and whose story you

are inspiring to you and whose story you really appreciate anything you can

really appreciate anything you can

really appreciate anything you can resonate well with and you can have them

resonate well with and you can have them

resonate well with and you can have them as your informal Board of Advisors you

as your informal Board of Advisors you

as your informal Board of Advisors you know how would I market like Richard

know how would I market like Richard

know how would I market like Richard Branson as an example and they can help

Branson as an example and they can help

Branson as an example and they can help you grow your business as well even

you grow your business as well even

you grow your business as well even though you’ve never actually met them so

though you’ve never actually met them so

though you’ve never actually met them so both sides of the corn again it’s still

both sides of the corn again it’s still

both sides of the corn again it’s still going to come down to really being clear

going to come down to really being clear

going to come down to really being clear of their what you need help with asking

of their what you need help with asking

of their what you need help with asking people exactly for that help and then

people exactly for that help and then

people exactly for that help and then also looking to other resources beyond

also looking to other resources beyond

also looking to other resources beyond your network looking up the famous

your network looking up the famous

your network looking up the famous entrepreneur is the same lessons you can

entrepreneur is the same lessons you can

entrepreneur is the same lessons you can learn from their success so hopefully

learn from their success so hopefully

learn from their success so hopefully that helps you start that business and

that helps you start that business and

that helps you start that business and grow it and you can build that better

grow it and you can build that better

grow it and you can build that better life for for you and your daughter good

life for for you and your daughter good

life for for you and your daughter good luck if you have other questions let me

luck if you have other questions let me

luck if you have other questions let me know for those watching if you liked the

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always like seeing those come in so thank you and if you have questions feel

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