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Fulfill the Dream – How to go from dreamer to doer – Ask Evan


hi I’m Evan Carmichael welcome to

hi I’m Evan Carmichael welcome to another edition of ask Evan in today’s

another edition of ask Evan in today’s

another edition of ask Evan in today’s episode I’m going to answer questions

episode I’m going to answer questions

episode I’m going to answer questions from one of my readers Molly who wrote

from one of my readers Molly who wrote

from one of my readers Molly who wrote to me at 4:00 in the morning she decided

to me at 4:00 in the morning she decided

to me at 4:00 in the morning she decided she wanted to change your life and stop

she wanted to change your life and stop

she wanted to change your life and stop being a dream wisher and actually go out

being a dream wisher and actually go out

being a dream wisher and actually go out and create her own future and one of my

and create her own future and one of my

and create her own future and one of my advice on how to do it she said she

advice on how to do it she said she

advice on how to do it she said she enjoys helping people and wanted to be a

enjoys helping people and wanted to be a

enjoys helping people and wanted to be a speaker on stage delivering a key

speaker on stage delivering a key

speaker on stage delivering a key message that was you know really

message that was you know really

message that was you know really providing value for people but wasn’t

providing value for people but wasn’t

providing value for people but wasn’t quite sure how to go about at one of my

quite sure how to go about at one of my

quite sure how to go about at one of my advice and what to do so Molly Congrats

advice and what to do so Molly Congrats

advice and what to do so Molly Congrats on making that change in your life

on making that change in your life

on making that change in your life hopefully my you know what you can do is

hopefully my you know what you can do is

hopefully my you know what you can do is is something every day to keep that

is something every day to keep that

is something every day to keep that momentum going

momentum going

momentum going often people you know get that energy at

often people you know get that energy at

often people you know get that energy at the beginning to start a business and

the beginning to start a business and

the beginning to start a business and then it quickly fizzles out as you know

then it quickly fizzles out as you know

then it quickly fizzles out as you know you let life get back in the way so keep

you let life get back in the way so keep

you let life get back in the way so keep trying to do something every day to help

trying to do something every day to help

trying to do something every day to help you grow that business so congrats on

you grow that business so congrats on

you grow that business so congrats on taking that initial first step and

taking that initial first step and

taking that initial first step and writing in as well for advice and terms

writing in as well for advice and terms

writing in as well for advice and terms of being a speaker and being on stage

of being a speaker and being on stage

of being a speaker and being on stage and helping people and delivering your

and helping people and delivering your

and helping people and delivering your message and having people kind of

message and having people kind of

message and having people kind of interact with that the first thing to

interact with that the first thing to

interact with that the first thing to figure out is what is your message so

figure out is what is your message so

figure out is what is your message so you didn’t kind of include that in your

you didn’t kind of include that in your

you didn’t kind of include that in your email and you might still be figuring

email and you might still be figuring

email and you might still be figuring that out and that’s fine

that out and that’s fine

that out and that’s fine figure out what it is that you want to

figure out what it is that you want to

figure out what it is that you want to say so what’s uniquely you where do you

say so what’s uniquely you where do you

say so what’s uniquely you where do you think you can help people and think back

think you can help people and think back

think you can help people and think back to where you you have been able to give

to where you you have been able to give

to where you you have been able to give a lot of help to people and give a lot

a lot of help to people and give a lot

a lot of help to people and give a lot of value and make people think about

of value and make people think about

of value and make people think about what you’re saying and now can you

what you’re saying and now can you

what you’re saying and now can you tailor that to be your message that you

tailor that to be your message that you

tailor that to be your message that you deliver to a bigger audience so step one

deliver to a bigger audience so step one

deliver to a bigger audience so step one is figuring what that message is and

is figuring what that message is and

is figuring what that message is and make sure it’s something that you can

make sure it’s something that you can

make sure it’s something that you can quickly deliver even in one sentence so

quickly deliver even in one sentence so

quickly deliver even in one sentence so that people can quickly grasp what it is

that people can quickly grasp what it is

that people can quickly grasp what it is that you do so oh that’s Molly and she

that you do so oh that’s Molly and she

that you do so oh that’s Molly and she talks about XYZ and she’s fantastic

talks about XYZ and she’s fantastic

talks about XYZ and she’s fantastic so figure out your messages is number

so figure out your messages is number

so figure out your messages is number one from there in terms of being able to

one from there in terms of being able to

one from there in terms of being able to be a speaker and be on stage and get

be a speaker and be on stage and get

be a speaker and be on stage and get paid to do what you’re doing you got to

paid to do what you’re doing you got to

paid to do what you’re doing you got to start at the beginning

start at the beginning

start at the beginning so you start small you start doing you

so you start small you start doing you

so you start small you start doing you know small events it could be at the

know small events it could be at the

know small events it could be at the library or local charities or local

library or local charities or local

library or local charities or local events and you know you might not get

events and you know you might not get

events and you know you might not get paid at the beginning to do it you just

paid at the beginning to do it you just

paid at the beginning to do it you just practicing your craft

practicing your craft

practicing your craft what that will do is is help hone your

what that will do is is help hone your

what that will do is is help hone your message and also make you more

message and also make you more

message and also make you more comfortable out there speaking in front

comfortable out there speaking in front

comfortable out there speaking in front of people and getting used to the types

of people and getting used to the types

of people and getting used to the types of questions that will come at you and

of questions that will come at you and

of questions that will come at you and they’ll make your presentation better

they’ll make your presentation better

they’ll make your presentation better and better and better and better and

and better and better and better and

and better and better and better and better when I first started doing public

better when I first started doing public

better when I first started doing public speaking it wasn’t with a goal to be a

speaking it wasn’t with a goal to be a

speaking it wasn’t with a goal to be a public speaker it was more just to help

public speaker it was more just to help

public speaker it was more just to help entrepreneurs so it sold my business and

entrepreneurs so it sold my business and

entrepreneurs so it sold my business and I stopped you know I want to give back

I stopped you know I want to give back

I stopped you know I want to give back and want to help other entrepreneurs and

and want to help other entrepreneurs and

and want to help other entrepreneurs and I created a series to help entrepreneurs

I created a series to help entrepreneurs

I created a series to help entrepreneurs learn from the lessons that I had gone

learn from the lessons that I had gone

learn from the lessons that I had gone through and I just did it you know

through and I just did it you know

through and I just did it you know through my local YMCA at the beginning

through my local YMCA at the beginning

through my local YMCA at the beginning and I think the first first time I did

and I think the first first time I did

and I think the first first time I did had three or four people in it so really

had three or four people in it so really

had three or four people in it so really tiny and then it you know we just

tiny and then it you know we just

tiny and then it you know we just continue doing it and continue growing

continue doing it and continue growing

continue doing it and continue growing in the built up momentum behind that and

in the built up momentum behind that and

in the built up momentum behind that and eventually partnered up with a bank and

eventually partnered up with a bank and

eventually partnered up with a bank and hosted it their event and then group you

hosted it their event and then group you

hosted it their event and then group you know too big for that so we partnered up

know too big for that so we partnered up

know too big for that so we partnered up with our bookstores and whole you know

with our bookstores and whole you know

with our bookstores and whole you know held huge events we had lots of people

held huge events we had lots of people

held huge events we had lots of people coming out to the seminars and it was a

coming out to the seminars and it was a

coming out to the seminars and it was a lot of fun for me be able to give back

lot of fun for me be able to give back

lot of fun for me be able to give back you offer value to entrepreneurs and it

you offer value to entrepreneurs and it

you offer value to entrepreneurs and it also made me better you know my first

also made me better you know my first

also made me better you know my first presentations the content was good but

presentations the content was good but

presentations the content was good but how I delivered it wasn’t great you know

how I delivered it wasn’t great you know

how I delivered it wasn’t great you know he got it gets better every time you

he got it gets better every time you

he got it gets better every time you practice just like doing these videos I

practice just like doing these videos I

practice just like doing these videos I get better and better every time we do

get better and better every time we do

get better and better every time we do the videos if you go back and watch the

the videos if you go back and watch the

the videos if you go back and watch the first videos the content was still

first videos the content was still

first videos the content was still pretty good but maybe the delivery

pretty good but maybe the delivery

pretty good but maybe the delivery wasn’t fantastic so as you do more and

wasn’t fantastic so as you do more and

wasn’t fantastic so as you do more and more you get better so people start to

more you get better so people start to

more you get better so people start to recognize you people start to give you

recognize you people start to give you

recognize you people start to give you referrals people start to say oh you

referrals people start to say oh you

referrals people start to say oh you should be speaking up here or I want you

should be speaking up here or I want you

should be speaking up here or I want you to come speak up my company or whatever

to come speak up my company or whatever

to come speak up my company or whatever it is so you have to be able to practice

it is so you have to be able to practice

it is so you have to be able to practice practice practice and eventually you’ll

practice practice and eventually you’ll

practice practice and eventually you’ll get better and people will recognize you

get better and people will recognize you

get better and people will recognize you the other thing I would do is try to

the other thing I would do is try to

the other thing I would do is try to become a media expert so whatever your

become a media expert so whatever your

become a media expert so whatever your message is there are going to be stores

message is there are going to be stores

message is there are going to be stores written about it in the media and the

written about it in the media and the

written about it in the media and the media are always looking for experts to

media are always looking for experts to

media are always looking for experts to comment on whatever that story is and

comment on whatever that story is and

comment on whatever that story is and why shouldn’t you be that expert so you

why shouldn’t you be that expert so you

why shouldn’t you be that expert so you want to make a list of reporters who

want to make a list of reporters who

want to make a list of reporters who follow your industry or who write about

follow your industry or who write about

follow your industry or who write about interesting stories for you and whenever

interesting stories for you and whenever

interesting stories for you and whenever they do write an article comment on it

they do write an article comment on it

they do write an article comment on it give them feedback and let them know who

give them feedback and let them know who

give them feedback and let them know who you are and give you a perspective it’s

you are and give you a perspective it’s

you are and give you a perspective it’s not just being promotional and saying

not just being promotional and saying

not just being promotional and saying you know I’m Molly and here’s what I do

you know I’m Molly and here’s what I do

you know I’m Molly and here’s what I do you want to give them something extra

you want to give them something extra

you want to give them something extra you want to show that you are really an

you want to show that you are really an

you want to show that you are really an expert so that they’re gonna want to

expert so that they’re gonna want to

expert so that they’re gonna want to contact you if they have another story I

contact you if they have another story I

contact you if they have another story I also use a service called PR leads which

also use a service called PR leads which

also use a service called PR leads which is 100 bucks a month where reporters

is 100 bucks a month where reporters

is 100 bucks a month where reporters will give you stories so they’ll tell

will give you stories so they’ll tell

will give you stories so they’ll tell you the service are working on and

you the service are working on and

you the service are working on and they’re looking for experts so you can

they’re looking for experts so you can

they’re looking for experts so you can just email them and say no here’s a I’m

just email them and say no here’s a I’m

just email them and say no here’s a I’m an expert and here’s why and you give

an expert and here’s why and you give

an expert and here’s why and you give them feedback on it on their story that

them feedback on it on their story that

them feedback on it on their story that they’re working on so I find that

they’re working on so I find that

they’re working on so I find that helpful so start speaking try to be a

helpful so start speaking try to be a

helpful so start speaking try to be a media expert the last thing I would do

media expert the last thing I would do

media expert the last thing I would do is if you’re trying to get a public

is if you’re trying to get a public

is if you’re trying to get a public speaking gig try working on your YouTube

speaking gig try working on your YouTube

speaking gig try working on your YouTube videos as well I don’t know if you’ve

videos as well I don’t know if you’ve

videos as well I don’t know if you’ve done YouTube at all but it’s a great way

done YouTube at all but it’s a great way

done YouTube at all but it’s a great way to get your message out and if you’re a

to get your message out and if you’re a

to get your message out and if you’re a speaker you should try to speak as much

speaker you should try to speak as much

speaker you should try to speak as much as you can now you know when you’re

as you can now you know when you’re

as you can now you know when you’re doing a YouTube video you’re speaking to

doing a YouTube video you’re speaking to

doing a YouTube video you’re speaking to the camera instead of speaking to an

the camera instead of speaking to an

the camera instead of speaking to an audience we just kind of have to pretend

audience we just kind of have to pretend

audience we just kind of have to pretend that there’s a huge audience in front of

that there’s a huge audience in front of

that there’s a huge audience in front of you and not just you in a room speaking

you and not just you in a room speaking

you and not just you in a room speaking but it’s a great way to get your message

but it’s a great way to get your message

but it’s a great way to get your message out for you to also practice your crap

out for you to also practice your crap

out for you to also practice your crap and for people to see how good you are

and for people to see how good you are

and for people to see how good you are so most of my speaking now is from you

so most of my speaking now is from you

so most of my speaking now is from you two questions just like this one the

two questions just like this one the

two questions just like this one the question you ask but I’ll also do others

question you ask but I’ll also do others

question you ask but I’ll also do others from you know profiles of successful

from you know profiles of successful

from you know profiles of successful entrepreneurs in lessons you can learn

entrepreneurs in lessons you can learn

entrepreneurs in lessons you can learn for you you might not have people asking

for you you might not have people asking

for you you might not have people asking you questions yet but you can just go to

you questions yet but you can just go to

you questions yet but you can just go to forums that are related to your topic

forums that are related to your topic

forums that are related to your topic and see what people are writing about

and see what people are writing about

and see what people are writing about and say that you’re gonna create a video

and say that you’re gonna create a video

and say that you’re gonna create a video reply and when you you know create your

reply and when you you know create your

reply and when you you know create your video say I’m creating this video in

video say I’m creating this video in

video say I’m creating this video in response to whoever who asks a question

response to whoever who asks a question

response to whoever who asks a question about XYZ that relates to your topic so

about XYZ that relates to your topic so

about XYZ that relates to your topic so I try to get consistent on you know

I try to get consistent on you know

I try to get consistent on you know creating these videos building up a

creating these videos building up a

creating these videos building up a following getting people to see you and

following getting people to see you and

following getting people to see you and it makes you better homes your message

it makes you better homes your message

it makes you better homes your message even more and you’ll get gigs so you

even more and you’ll get gigs so you

even more and you’ll get gigs so you know from what I was doing just just

know from what I was doing just just

know from what I was doing just just from those public speaking things that

from those public speaking things that

from those public speaking things that I’d set up here in my city I then got

I’d set up here in my city I then got

I’d set up here in my city I then got invited eventually to go speak at

invited eventually to go speak at

invited eventually to go speak at various events around the world or

various events around the world or

various events around the world or flying to – as far away as Brunei Taiwan

flying to – as far away as Brunei Taiwan

flying to – as far away as Brunei Taiwan to speak at different events and it

to speak at different events and it

to speak at different events and it comes from starting at that you know

comes from starting at that you know

comes from starting at that you know small scale – beginning now I never had

small scale – beginning now I never had

small scale – beginning now I never had that vision – wanna go on be a speaker

that vision – wanna go on be a speaker

that vision – wanna go on be a speaker just kind of happened but for you if you

just kind of happened but for you if you

just kind of happened but for you if you have a clear plan

have a clear plan

have a clear plan you know you got to practice as much as

you know you got to practice as much as

you know you got to practice as much as you can get as many games as you can

you can get as many games as you can

you can get as many games as you can free just to get your message home and

free just to get your message home and

free just to get your message home and to get people to know you and continue

to get people to know you and continue

to get people to know you and continue building on that don’t try to be a media

building on that don’t try to be a media

building on that don’t try to be a media expert and try to create some YouTube

expert and try to create some YouTube

expert and try to create some YouTube videos again to practice your craft and

videos again to practice your craft and

videos again to practice your craft and be seen as the expert and you’re on your

be seen as the expert and you’re on your

be seen as the expert and you’re on your way to be able to be a speaker to

way to be able to be a speaker to

way to be able to be a speaker to hopefully get paid and have a really

hopefully get paid and have a really

hopefully get paid and have a really fulfilling career so while I hope that

fulfilling career so while I hope that

fulfilling career so while I hope that helps for those watching if you guys

helps for those watching if you guys

helps for those watching if you guys have something else to add please leave

have something else to add please leave

have something else to add please leave a comment below I’d love to hear how

a comment below I’d love to hear how

a comment below I’d love to hear how you’ve gotten some speaking gigs or if

you’ve gotten some speaking gigs or if

you’ve gotten some speaking gigs or if you have another question or any

you have another question or any

you have another question or any suggestions from Molly please leave a

suggestions from Molly please leave a

suggestions from Molly please leave a comment and if you liked the video

comment and if you liked the video

comment and if you liked the video please give it a thumbs up I love making

please give it a thumbs up I love making

please give it a thumbs up I love making these videos to help you guys out and

these videos to help you guys out and

these videos to help you guys out and always appreciate those thumbs ups

always appreciate those thumbs ups

always appreciate those thumbs ups coming in makes me know that you guys

coming in makes me know that you guys

coming in makes me know that you guys like the videos and keep making more so

like the videos and keep making more so

like the videos and keep making more so thank you for your support and we’ll see

thank you for your support and we’ll see

thank you for your support and we’ll see you on the next episode

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