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How to Get Over the FEAR of Not Being Successful? – Evan & @SKellyCEO


um Luke okay Luke has been asking this

um Luke okay Luke has been asking this question at least 10 times in the chat

question at least 10 times in the chat

question at least 10 times in the chat Luke I’m hearing you there’s a ton of

Luke I’m hearing you there’s a ton of

Luke I’m hearing you there’s a ton of questions we’re gonna we’re gonna get it

questions we’re gonna we’re gonna get it

questions we’re gonna we’re gonna get it this is her you Luke okay Luke says I’m

this is her you Luke okay Luke says I’m

this is her you Luke okay Luke says I’m a young entrepreneur and people keep

a young entrepreneur and people keep

a young entrepreneur and people keep telling me or giving me the feeling that

telling me or giving me the feeling that

telling me or giving me the feeling that I won’t be successful what advice do you

I won’t be successful what advice do you

I won’t be successful what advice do you have Wow Luke etch it safe summit one

have Wow Luke etch it safe summit one

have Wow Luke etch it safe summit one thinks the blew me away I went on the

thinks the blew me away I went on the

thinks the blew me away I went on the floor and we did loads of mentoring I

floor and we did loads of mentoring I

floor and we did loads of mentoring I met a fourteen-year-old entrepreneur on

met a fourteen-year-old entrepreneur on

met a fourteen-year-old entrepreneur on a second business idea I loved it it

a second business idea I loved it it

a second business idea I loved it it blew me away God so Luke I don’t know

blew me away God so Luke I don’t know

blew me away God so Luke I don’t know what age you are but um there’s so many

what age you are but um there’s so many

what age you are but um there’s so many people and maybe maybe this is maybe

people and maybe maybe this is maybe

people and maybe maybe this is maybe it’s a little bit ageist but um

it’s a little bit ageist but um

it’s a little bit ageist but um particularly some older people who

particularly some older people who

particularly some older people who probably will tell you the reasons why

probably will tell you the reasons why

probably will tell you the reasons why it’s not such a good idea but if you

it’s not such a good idea but if you

it’s not such a good idea but if you believe in it and then you know do

believe in it and then you know do

believe in it and then you know do everything we’ve talked about previous

everything we’ve talked about previous

everything we’ve talked about previous programs good test your idea test drive

programs good test your idea test drive

programs good test your idea test drive it ro test it you can road test it with

it ro test it you can road test it with

it ro test it you can road test it with your friends you can road test it on

your friends you can road test it on

your friends you can road test it on social and you can create following and

social and you can create following and

social and you can create following and that will give you the energy and

that will give you the energy and

that will give you the energy and positivity to know that your ideas get a

positivity to know that your ideas get a

positivity to know that your ideas get a land but I how do you know if an idea is

land but I how do you know if an idea is

land but I how do you know if an idea is not going to land if you don’t try it

not going to land if you don’t try it

not going to land if you don’t try it and back to that example if you don’t

and back to that example if you don’t

and back to that example if you don’t try it you know failure is that she not

try it you know failure is that she not

try it you know failure is that she not trying at the fear of failure actually

trying at the fear of failure actually

trying at the fear of failure actually creates almost like a cancer if you fail

creates almost like a cancer if you fail

creates almost like a cancer if you fail to try it then you know you’ve you’ve

to try it then you know you’ve you’ve

to try it then you know you’ve you’ve let us all down because you could have

let us all down because you could have

let us all down because you could have done I’d tell you Evan alter Leah today

done I’d tell you Evan alter Leah today

done I’d tell you Evan alter Leah today if you have an idea you know if you back

if you have an idea you know if you back

if you have an idea you know if you back yourself you’re halfway there and and

yourself you’re halfway there and and

yourself you’re halfway there and and what what is brilliant on what I love

what what is brilliant on what I love

what what is brilliant on what I love doing more than anything is defying the

doing more than anything is defying the

doing more than anything is defying the cynics loads of people could be cynical

cynics loads of people could be cynical

cynics loads of people could be cynical or jealous people might be jealousy

or jealous people might be jealousy

or jealous people might be jealousy you’ve had the idea and you’re gonna

you’ve had the idea and you’re gonna

you’ve had the idea and you’re gonna make your idea come to reality and

make your idea come to reality and

make your idea come to reality and you’re gonna make your dreams come true

you’re gonna make your dreams come true

you’re gonna make your dreams come true um but I you know I’d back yourself and

um but I you know I’d back yourself and

um but I you know I’d back yourself and I do you idea whatever happens you know

I do you idea whatever happens you know

I do you idea whatever happens you know and it’s amazing it you

and it’s amazing it you

and it’s amazing it you never know what twists and turns lights

never know what twists and turns lights

never know what twists and turns lights go in front of you so I’ll give you

go in front of you so I’ll give you

go in front of you so I’ll give you example when I left graduate school aha

example when I left graduate school aha

example when I left graduate school aha and it was before the internet so I

and it was before the internet so I

and it was before the internet so I wrote one of my buddies they give you an

wrote one of my buddies they give you an

wrote one of my buddies they give you an example a real good buddy called paul

example a real good buddy called paul

example a real good buddy called paul smith great guy he wrote 240 companies

smith great guy he wrote 240 companies

smith great guy he wrote 240 companies 240 companies and he only got a handful

240 companies and he only got a handful

240 companies and he only got a handful of replies all of those turned him down

of replies all of those turned him down

of replies all of those turned him down he didn’t even get an interview but he

he didn’t even get an interview but he

he didn’t even get an interview but he kept on going and just you know could

kept on going and just you know could

kept on going and just you know could you much now demoralized that I got

you much now demoralized that I got

you much now demoralized that I got turned down by so many comforters for

turned down by so many comforters for

turned down by so many comforters for graduate school I even got turned down

graduate school I even got turned down

graduate school I even got turned down this you know I applied to all these

this you know I applied to all these

this you know I applied to all these great companies at the time called

great companies at the time called

great companies at the time called Unilever and all these great PNG um and

Unilever and all these great PNG um and

Unilever and all these great PNG um and they turn me down so what are they funny

they turn me down so what are they funny

they turn me down so what are they funny thing this ever you know you in those

thing this ever you know you in those

thing this ever you know you in those days you kind of did these placements I

days you kind of did these placements I

days you kind of did these placements I did a four year course and I did kind of

did a four year course and I did kind of

did a four year course and I did kind of two they call it a sandwich course a

two they call it a sandwich course a

two they call it a sandwich course a placement of the company and the company

placement of the company and the company

placement of the company and the company that I did a place from that BP I

that I did a place from that BP I

that I did a place from that BP I thought I was a shoo-in for the job I

thought I was a shoo-in for the job I

thought I was a shoo-in for the job I went to the job and I’ve got turned down

went to the job and I’ve got turned down

went to the job and I’ve got turned down so I get over how does that work so um

so I get over how does that work so um

so I get over how does that work so um but you just got to pick yourself up and

but you just got to pick yourself up and

but you just got to pick yourself up and and what I would I would say there’s a

and what I would I would say there’s a

and what I would I would say there’s a few things in that sort of scenario one

few things in that sort of scenario one

few things in that sort of scenario one of the things I asked for which is so

of the things I asked for which is so

of the things I asked for which is so powerful that I don’t think very few

powerful that I don’t think very few

powerful that I don’t think very few people asked for is a magic word called

people asked for is a magic word called

people asked for is a magic word called feedback and if people turn you down you

feedback and if people turn you down you

feedback and if people turn you down you know whether it’s for an audition if you

know whether it’s for an audition if you

know whether it’s for an audition if you want to be an actor whether it’s a

want to be an actor whether it’s a

want to be an actor whether it’s a business person you did a pitch or if

business person you did a pitch or if

business person you did a pitch or if you’re gonna you know a later stage

you’re gonna you know a later stage

you’re gonna you know a later stage company if you’re going to raise money

company if you’re going to raise money

company if you’re going to raise money and you do a pitch to your family you

and you do a pitch to your family you

and you do a pitch to your family you know why are they back your why they

know why are they back your why they

know why are they back your why they turn you down if you ask them feedback

turn you down if you ask them feedback

turn you down if you ask them feedback it is mind-blowing how you can improve

it is mind-blowing how you can improve

it is mind-blowing how you can improve your business your product your whole

your business your product your whole

your business your product your whole sales pitch your website your social

sales pitch your website your social

sales pitch your website your social experience so I think you know bottom

experience so I think you know bottom

experience so I think you know bottom line link is you know back yourself defy

line link is you know back yourself defy

line link is you know back yourself defy the cynics try your idea and constantly

the cynics try your idea and constantly

the cynics try your idea and constantly have those social aunt and I on to say

have those social aunt and I on to say

have those social aunt and I on to say you know how can I constantly improve

you know how can I constantly improve

you know how can I constantly improve and course-correct my product and my

and course-correct my product and my

and course-correct my product and my idea to make it land and make it big

idea to make it land and make it big

idea to make it land and make it big I love it and Luke is loving that that

I love it and Luke is loving that that

I love it and Luke is loving that that we picked his question so he’s he’s

we picked his question so he’s he’s

we picked his question so he’s he’s happening the chat Luke I would say I

happening the chat Luke I would say I

happening the chat Luke I would say I would say one back to our initial

would say one back to our initial

would say one back to our initial comment at the top about the environment

comment at the top about the environment

comment at the top about the environment the environment matters I would start

the environment matters I would start

the environment matters I would start surrounding myself with with young

surrounding myself with with young

surrounding myself with with young entrepreneurs who are off trying to do

entrepreneurs who are off trying to do

entrepreneurs who are off trying to do something and if you don’t have any

something and if you don’t have any

something and if you don’t have any young entrepreneurs that you know go to

young entrepreneurs that you know go to

young entrepreneurs that you know go to meet ups go to events try to try to

meet ups go to events try to try to

meet ups go to events try to try to connect with them and if you still can’t

connect with them and if you still can’t

connect with them and if you still can’t find them then you know read articles

find them then you know read articles

find them then you know read articles watch videos like learn from people who

watch videos like learn from people who

watch videos like learn from people who are already doing it so that you know if

are already doing it so that you know if

are already doing it so that you know if it’s possible I think Mark Zuckerberg

it’s possible I think Mark Zuckerberg

it’s possible I think Mark Zuckerberg big success made it possible for a lot

big success made it possible for a lot

big success made it possible for a lot of young entrepreneurs realize hey if he

of young entrepreneurs realize hey if he

of young entrepreneurs realize hey if he can do it I can do it too i mean i’m

can do it I can do it too i mean i’m

can do it I can do it too i mean i’m going to bet on myself and then the

going to bet on myself and then the

going to bet on myself and then the second thing i would think about is the

second thing i would think about is the

second thing i would think about is the people who are giving you the advice and

people who are giving you the advice and

people who are giving you the advice and maybe because they’re jealous and maybe

maybe because they’re jealous and maybe

maybe because they’re jealous and maybe because they love you like maybe mom and

because they love you like maybe mom and

because they love you like maybe mom and dad love you and they just don’t want to

dad love you and they just don’t want to

dad love you and they just don’t want to see you fail they’re not trying to hurt

see you fail they’re not trying to hurt

see you fail they’re not trying to hurt you they think they’re trying to help

you they think they’re trying to help

you they think they’re trying to help you I would look at how the people who

you I would look at how the people who

you I would look at how the people who are giving you this advice done it

are giving you this advice done it

are giving you this advice done it before have they done it themselves and

before have they done it themselves and

before have they done it themselves and if they haven’t then they may not be in

if they haven’t then they may not be in

if they haven’t then they may not be in the best position like the people were

the best position like the people were

the best position like the people were hating on you if they haven’t done it

hating on you if they haven’t done it

hating on you if they haven’t done it themselves they haven’t taken a change

themselves they haven’t taken a change

themselves they haven’t taken a change themselves maybe they’re not the best

themselves maybe they’re not the best

themselves maybe they’re not the best people to kind of be given you that

people to kind of be given you that

people to kind of be given you that advice i wouldn’t pay attention to them

advice i wouldn’t pay attention to them

advice i wouldn’t pay attention to them right and find out seek out the mentors

right and find out seek out the mentors

right and find out seek out the mentors who you can learn from

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