hi it’s Tony Robbins Happy New Year listen how’d you knew you’re coming out
listen how’d you knew you’re coming out
listen how’d you knew you’re coming out so far I know it’s early it’s January
so far I know it’s early it’s January
so far I know it’s early it’s January 15th and I thought I’d send you out this
15th and I thought I’d send you out this
15th and I thought I’d send you out this little video message because you know
little video message because you know
little video message because you know what that day means don’t you January
what that day means don’t you January
what that day means don’t you January 15th is the cutoff
15th is the cutoff
15th is the cutoff statistics show that 95% of the people
statistics show that 95% of the people
statistics show that 95% of the people that actually made a new year’s
that actually made a new year’s
that actually made a new year’s resolution have already broken it by
resolution have already broken it by
resolution have already broken it by today and that’s if you even made a
today and that’s if you even made a
today and that’s if you even made a resolution now if you’re the exception
resolution now if you’re the exception
resolution now if you’re the exception to that I’m thrilled for you and I
to that I’m thrilled for you and I
to that I’m thrilled for you and I support you and I say keep rocking it
support you and I say keep rocking it
support you and I say keep rocking it but if you’ve missed maybe I could drop
but if you’ve missed maybe I could drop
but if you’ve missed maybe I could drop you a quick little message or two here
you a quick little message or two here
you a quick little message or two here that can help you not only recover but
that can help you not only recover but
that can help you not only recover but get way beyond just making some new
get way beyond just making some new
get way beyond just making some new year’s resolution and make some real
year’s resolution and make some real
year’s resolution and make some real lasting change in your life I mean think
lasting change in your life I mean think
lasting change in your life I mean think about it most people don’t even make a
about it most people don’t even make a
about it most people don’t even make a resolution anymore why because they’ve
resolution anymore why because they’ve
resolution anymore why because they’ve made them from years and years and years
made them from years and years and years
made them from years and years and years and they know they’re not gonna follow
and they know they’re not gonna follow
and they know they’re not gonna follow through so after a while who wants to
through so after a while who wants to
through so after a while who wants to disappoint yourself who wants to be
disappoint yourself who wants to be
disappoint yourself who wants to be upset with yourself why even bother to
upset with yourself why even bother to
upset with yourself why even bother to set a new standard for this year you
set a new standard for this year you
set a new standard for this year you know it’s gonna be the same as last year
know it’s gonna be the same as last year
know it’s gonna be the same as last year and you’re the kind of person watching
and you’re the kind of person watching
and you’re the kind of person watching this right now and you’ve actually
this right now and you’ve actually
this right now and you’ve actually opened this email and you haven’t shut
opened this email and you haven’t shut
opened this email and you haven’t shut me off already then obviously that’s not
me off already then obviously that’s not
me off already then obviously that’s not you so the question is you know what is
you so the question is you know what is
you so the question is you know what is it that makes us even want to make a
it that makes us even want to make a
it that makes us even want to make a resolution interesting question why is
resolution interesting question why is
resolution interesting question why is it at the beginning of the year we have
it at the beginning of the year we have
it at the beginning of the year we have this tradition but it goes beyond
this tradition but it goes beyond
this tradition but it goes beyond tradition it’s something inside of us
tradition it’s something inside of us
tradition it’s something inside of us that makes us want to make things better
that makes us want to make things better
that makes us want to make things better and I think part of it is the calendar
and I think part of it is the calendar
and I think part of it is the calendar gives us this idea that we can have a
gives us this idea that we can have a
gives us this idea that we can have a fresh start that we can start from fresh
fresh start that we can start from fresh
fresh start that we can start from fresh and have this great victory and it’s
and have this great victory and it’s
and have this great victory and it’s really the calendar itself is quite
really the calendar itself is quite
really the calendar itself is quite arbitrary it’s wonderful to use it but
arbitrary it’s wonderful to use it but
arbitrary it’s wonderful to use it but if you didn’t use it effectively let’s
if you didn’t use it effectively let’s
if you didn’t use it effectively let’s use the calendar to serve you today
use the calendar to serve you today
use the calendar to serve you today let’s just see what does it really take
let’s just see what does it really take
let’s just see what does it really take to make this thing happen because
to make this thing happen because
to make this thing happen because there’s no denying that inside of you
there’s no denying that inside of you
there’s no denying that inside of you the only thing that’s going to make you
the only thing that’s going to make you
the only thing that’s going to make you happy and
happy and
happy and the year ahead and the decades ahead is
the year ahead and the decades ahead is
the year ahead and the decades ahead is gonna be having up an experience where
gonna be having up an experience where
gonna be having up an experience where on a regular basis you feel like your
on a regular basis you feel like your
on a regular basis you feel like your life is making progress there’s one
life is making progress there’s one
life is making progress there’s one thing I teach I want remind you that
thing I teach I want remind you that
thing I teach I want remind you that it’s really simple things getting things
it’s really simple things getting things
it’s really simple things getting things is not gonna make you happy
is not gonna make you happy
is not gonna make you happy that’s good news in a tough economy it’s
that’s good news in a tough economy it’s
that’s good news in a tough economy it’s a good reminder it doesn’t matter what
a good reminder it doesn’t matter what
a good reminder it doesn’t matter what you get doesn’t matter whether it be
you get doesn’t matter whether it be
you get doesn’t matter whether it be money or opportunity all those things
money or opportunity all those things
money or opportunity all those things might excite you for the moment you know
might excite you for the moment you know
might excite you for the moment you know even a relationship as magnificent it
even a relationship as magnificent it
even a relationship as magnificent it may be might be exciting for a while but
may be might be exciting for a while but
may be might be exciting for a while but if you don’t keep growing that
if you don’t keep growing that
if you don’t keep growing that relationship wasn’t gonna stay excited
relationship wasn’t gonna stay excited
relationship wasn’t gonna stay excited so the secret to real happiness is
so the secret to real happiness is
so the secret to real happiness is progress progress equals happiness and I
progress progress equals happiness and I
progress progress equals happiness and I believe to make progress on a regular
believe to make progress on a regular
believe to make progress on a regular basis we feel alive and that’s why at
basis we feel alive and that’s why at
basis we feel alive and that’s why at the beginning of the year we get this
the beginning of the year we get this
the beginning of the year we get this thing like okay I get have this fresh
thing like okay I get have this fresh
thing like okay I get have this fresh start I could really do with my soul
start I could really do with my soul
start I could really do with my soul desires I could expand I can grow
desires I could expand I can grow
desires I could expand I can grow I can improve I can change or maybe
I can improve I can change or maybe
I can improve I can change or maybe better than James I could progress see
better than James I could progress see
better than James I could progress see think about that progress
think about that progress
think about that progress – it doesn’t you don’t the work of
– it doesn’t you don’t the work of
– it doesn’t you don’t the work of changing people say all the time though
changing people say all the time though
changing people say all the time though I’m I’m working on changing don’t worry
I’m I’m working on changing don’t worry
I’m I’m working on changing don’t worry about changing changes automatic your
about changing changes automatic your
about changing changes automatic your body’s gonna change whether you want it
body’s gonna change whether you want it
body’s gonna change whether you want it or not as the years go by you no matter
or not as the years go by you no matter
or not as the years go by you no matter how hard you work there’s gonna be some
how hard you work there’s gonna be some
how hard you work there’s gonna be some changes going on there and the economy
changes going on there and the economy
changes going on there and the economy is gonna change no matter what you want
is gonna change no matter what you want
is gonna change no matter what you want it to do the weather is gonna change
it to do the weather is gonna change
it to do the weather is gonna change relationships are gonna change
relationships are gonna change
relationships are gonna change everything in life is always changing we
everything in life is always changing we
everything in life is always changing we have to work on change change is
have to work on change change is
have to work on change change is automatic but progress is not so if you
automatic but progress is not so if you
automatic but progress is not so if you want to make real progress then you
want to make real progress then you
want to make real progress then you really got to look at your life in a
really got to look at your life in a
really got to look at your life in a different way you gotta say I gotta take
different way you gotta say I gotta take
different way you gotta say I gotta take control of this process and not just
control of this process and not just
control of this process and not just hope that’s gonna work out like people
hope that’s gonna work out like people
hope that’s gonna work out like people do who make a resolution cuz really
do who make a resolution cuz really
do who make a resolution cuz really isn’t that what they’re really doing at
isn’t that what they’re really doing at
isn’t that what they’re really doing at the beginning of the year they’re saying
the beginning of the year they’re saying
the beginning of the year they’re saying well here’s my resolutions for the year
well here’s my resolutions for the year
well here’s my resolutions for the year and they really basically tell you their
and they really basically tell you their
and they really basically tell you their wishes
wishes
wishes it’s their wish list it’s what they hope
it’s their wish list it’s what they hope
it’s their wish list it’s what they hope it all comes together and then they call
it all comes together and then they call
it all comes together and then they call it a resolution but they don’t know what
it a resolution but they don’t know what
it a resolution but they don’t know what a resolution is when you resolve
a resolution is when you resolve
a resolution is when you resolve something to have a resolution is to
something to have a resolution is to
something to have a resolution is to resolve it when you’ve resolved this is
resolve it when you’ve resolved this is
resolve it when you’ve resolved this is how it’s gonna be that’s when you cut
how it’s gonna be that’s when you cut
how it’s gonna be that’s when you cut off any possibility except the thing
off any possibility except the thing
off any possibility except the thing you’ve committed to it’s like the old
you’ve committed to it’s like the old
you’ve committed to it’s like the old adage if you want to take the island and
adage if you want to take the island and
adage if you want to take the island and you burn the boats because when you burn
you burn the boats because when you burn
you burn the boats because when you burn those boats there’s no going back you’re
those boats there’s no going back you’re
those boats there’s no going back you’re gonna find a way to make things work and
gonna find a way to make things work and
gonna find a way to make things work and most people they’re stating what they
most people they’re stating what they
most people they’re stating what they hope will come together and if it
hope will come together and if it
hope will come together and if it doesn’t happen then they’re disappointed
doesn’t happen then they’re disappointed
doesn’t happen then they’re disappointed but they’re not too disappointed cuz
but they’re not too disappointed cuz
but they’re not too disappointed cuz they’re not too vested what does it take
they’re not too vested what does it take
they’re not too vested what does it take to successfully create a lasting change
to successfully create a lasting change
to successfully create a lasting change in your life to not only have a new
in your life to not only have a new
in your life to not only have a new year’s resolution you follow through on
year’s resolution you follow through on
year’s resolution you follow through on don’t really have a lasting change well
don’t really have a lasting change well
don’t really have a lasting change well the first step for lasting change is
the first step for lasting change is
the first step for lasting change is very much like making a new year’s
very much like making a new year’s
very much like making a new year’s resolution fundamentally it’s the same
resolution fundamentally it’s the same
resolution fundamentally it’s the same the first step is you got to have a
the first step is you got to have a
the first step is you got to have a vision a vision for what it is you
vision a vision for what it is you
vision a vision for what it is you really truly want not what you think you
really truly want not what you think you
really truly want not what you think you want or what you should have I mean one
want or what you should have I mean one
want or what you should have I mean one of most people’s New Year’s resolutions
of most people’s New Year’s resolutions
of most people’s New Year’s resolutions I’m gonna stop eating sugar you know I’m
I’m gonna stop eating sugar you know I’m
I’m gonna stop eating sugar you know I’m gonna stop smoking I’m gonna lose 10
gonna stop smoking I’m gonna lose 10
gonna stop smoking I’m gonna lose 10 pounds problem with that is it’s not
pounds problem with that is it’s not
pounds problem with that is it’s not very inspiring for most people
very inspiring for most people
very inspiring for most people you know it’s not telling you what
you know it’s not telling you what
you know it’s not telling you what you’re gonna get it’s only what you’re
you’re gonna get it’s only what you’re
you’re gonna get it’s only what you’re not gonna do it’s kind of hard to have
not gonna do it’s kind of hard to have
not gonna do it’s kind of hard to have you move forward with them a vision is
you move forward with them a vision is
you move forward with them a vision is about what you’re here to create a
about what you’re here to create a
about what you’re here to create a vision that really works is one that
vision that really works is one that
vision that really works is one that excites you if you say well my you know
excites you if you say well my you know
excites you if you say well my you know my resolution my goal my outcome for
my resolution my goal my outcome for
my resolution my goal my outcome for this month this week this year is to
this month this week this year is to
this month this week this year is to lose X number of pounds that’s okay but
lose X number of pounds that’s okay but
lose X number of pounds that’s okay but it’s not very compelling it has to be a
it’s not very compelling it has to be a
it’s not very compelling it has to be a compelling vision it’s gotta have
compelling vision it’s gotta have
compelling vision it’s gotta have something has the power to pull you not
something has the power to pull you not
something has the power to pull you not something you have to push yourself to
something you have to push yourself to
something you have to push yourself to do well the two different kinds of
do well the two different kinds of
do well the two different kinds of motivation plush requires willpower and
motivation plush requires willpower and
motivation plush requires willpower and willpower never last what will last is
willpower never last what will last is
willpower never last what will last is pull having something so exciting is so
pull having something so exciting is so
pull having something so exciting is so attractive so something you desire so
attractive so something you desire so
attractive so something you desire so much that you have a hard time going to
much that you have a hard time going to
much that you have a hard time going to sleep at night and get salt up early in
sleep at night and get salt up early in
sleep at night and get salt up early in the morning to a rocket and take it to
the morning to a rocket and take it to
the morning to a rocket and take it to the next level that’s what you’re
the next level that’s what you’re
the next level that’s what you’re looking at great that was easy to get
looking at great that was easy to get
looking at great that was easy to get but one of the reasons we do seminars of
but one of the reasons we do seminars of
but one of the reasons we do seminars of events is they know why
events is they know why
events is they know why just read a book for some peace because
just read a book for some peace because
just read a book for some peace because when you give it an environment where
when you give it an environment where
when you give it an environment where you were the people that are being put
you were the people that are being put
you were the people that are being put in a peak State but when you’re going to
in a peak State but when you’re going to
in a peak State but when you’re going to a sporting event if you watch the
a sporting event if you watch the
a sporting event if you watch the sporting event at home it might have a
sporting event at home it might have a
sporting event at home it might have a certain level of excitement but when
certain level of excitement but when
certain level of excitement but when you’re in a stadium with 50,000 people
you’re in a stadium with 50,000 people
you’re in a stadium with 50,000 people suddenly it has a whole different level
suddenly it has a whole different level
suddenly it has a whole different level of intensity when we feel that and the
of intensity when we feel that and the
of intensity when we feel that and the bottom line of our follow-through comes
bottom line of our follow-through comes
bottom line of our follow-through comes down to our emotional intensity in a
down to our emotional intensity in a
down to our emotional intensity in a different state of mind you’re gonna
different state of mind you’re gonna
different state of mind you’re gonna come up with a much better and more
come up with a much better and more
come up with a much better and more exciting vision than if you’re sitting
exciting vision than if you’re sitting
exciting vision than if you’re sitting the couch gun okay what am i new
the couch gun okay what am i new
the couch gun okay what am i new resolutions for this year and you’re
resolutions for this year and you’re
resolutions for this year and you’re doing it the morning after the new year
doing it the morning after the new year
doing it the morning after the new year is started and you’re a little
is started and you’re a little
is started and you’re a little inebriated and the football games on in
inebriated and the football games on in
inebriated and the football games on in the background probably not gonna have
the background probably not gonna have
the background probably not gonna have the power of focus they’re probably not
the power of focus they’re probably not
the power of focus they’re probably not gonna have the power of the energy to
gonna have the power of the energy to
gonna have the power of the energy to create something that’s gonna pull you
create something that’s gonna pull you
create something that’s gonna pull you for this year and you got to do that so
for this year and you got to do that so
for this year and you got to do that so it’s got to be a vision that’s
it’s got to be a vision that’s
it’s got to be a vision that’s compelling something that you know it’s
compelling something that you know it’s
compelling something that you know it’s gonna be a gift to make sure that it
gonna be a gift to make sure that it
gonna be a gift to make sure that it happens and also along with that
happens and also along with that
happens and also along with that compelling vision you gotta have strong
compelling vision you gotta have strong
compelling vision you gotta have strong enough reasons that you’re gonna follow
enough reasons that you’re gonna follow
enough reasons that you’re gonna follow through and the going gets tough that’s
through and the going gets tough that’s
through and the going gets tough that’s one of the biggest things missing for
one of the biggest things missing for
one of the biggest things missing for most people they say this is what I want
most people they say this is what I want
most people they say this is what I want to do it’s not very exciting it’s not
to do it’s not very exciting it’s not
to do it’s not very exciting it’s not very compelling but most importantly
very compelling but most importantly
very compelling but most importantly they don’t have strong enough reasons to
they don’t have strong enough reasons to
they don’t have strong enough reasons to push themselves through what’s gonna be
push themselves through what’s gonna be
push themselves through what’s gonna be necessary to get that dream to get that
necessary to get that dream to get that
necessary to get that dream to get that goal when the inevitable challenges come
goal when the inevitable challenges come
goal when the inevitable challenges come up when you’re starving hungry and
up when you’re starving hungry and
up when you’re starving hungry and you’re trying to go on a diet right when
you’re trying to go on a diet right when
you’re trying to go on a diet right when you got no time and you’re stressed out
you got no time and you’re stressed out
you got no time and you’re stressed out you haven’t worked out still that’s what
you haven’t worked out still that’s what
you haven’t worked out still that’s what you’re supposed to do when the economy
you’re supposed to do when the economy
you’re supposed to do when the economy gets tight and what you thought you’re
gets tight and what you thought you’re
gets tight and what you thought you’re gonna do doesn’t work and so you give up
gonna do doesn’t work and so you give up
gonna do doesn’t work and so you give up on the goal instead of finding another
on the goal instead of finding another
on the goal instead of finding another way to get there you don’t let the fear
way to get there you don’t let the fear
way to get there you don’t let the fear take you over if you’ve got strong
take you over if you’ve got strong
take you over if you’ve got strong enough reasons those reasons can be
enough reasons those reasons can be
enough reasons those reasons can be positive or those reasons can also be
positive or those reasons can also be
positive or those reasons can also be negative they can be if I don’t do this
negative they can be if I don’t do this
negative they can be if I don’t do this it’s gonna cost me and if I do to this
it’s gonna cost me and if I do to this
it’s gonna cost me and if I do to this this is what I’m gonna gain in my life
this is what I’m gonna gain in my life
this is what I’m gonna gain in my life reasons come first answers come second
reasons come first answers come second
reasons come first answers come second if you get a compelling vision and you
if you get a compelling vision and you
if you get a compelling vision and you got strong enough reasons that will push
got strong enough reasons that will push
got strong enough reasons that will push you through the tough times you’re gonna
you through the tough times you’re gonna
you through the tough times you’re gonna do things other people don’t do instead
do things other people don’t do instead
do things other people don’t do instead of collapsing even if you get off target
of collapsing even if you get off target
of collapsing even if you get off target you won’t go I blew it you’ll get right
you won’t go I blew it you’ll get right
you won’t go I blew it you’ll get right back on target and make the change make
back on target and make the change make
back on target and make the change make things happen and I knew you’ve done
things happen and I knew you’ve done
things happen and I knew you’ve done this in many areas your life just think
this in many areas your life just think
this in many areas your life just think about it again I’m not teaching me
about it again I’m not teaching me
about it again I’m not teaching me something really new here today I just
something really new here today I just
something really new here today I just want to remind you of what your soul
want to remind you of what your soul
want to remind you of what your soul knows you got a change you got to
knows you got a change you got to
knows you got a change you got to improve and you’ve got to go through a
improve and you’ve got to go through a
improve and you’ve got to go through a simple process fundamentally to make
simple process fundamentally to make
simple process fundamentally to make that progress first step vision that’s
that progress first step vision that’s
that progress first step vision that’s compelling second step make sure that
compelling second step make sure that
compelling second step make sure that they’re strong enough reason to follow
they’re strong enough reason to follow
they’re strong enough reason to follow through third step you got to review it
through third step you got to review it
through third step you got to review it and feel it every day I mean anything
and feel it every day I mean anything
and feel it every day I mean anything I’ve never had this happen in your life
I’ve never had this happen in your life
I’ve never had this happen in your life has there been anything in your life
has there been anything in your life
has there been anything in your life that you’ve ever wanted so badly you
that you’ve ever wanted so badly you
that you’ve ever wanted so badly you were so desirous of against such a
were so desirous of against such a
were so desirous of against such a hunger for it now you couldn’t stop
hunger for it now you couldn’t stop
hunger for it now you couldn’t stop thinking about it could been a career
thinking about it could been a career
thinking about it could been a career move could have been when you’re a kid a
move could have been when you’re a kid a
move could have been when you’re a kid a car it could have been a relationship
car it could have been a relationship
car it could have been a relationship that could have been anything but you
that could have been anything but you
that could have been anything but you were obsessed you wanted to make this
were obsessed you wanted to make this
were obsessed you wanted to make this happen you wanted to track this to your
happen you wanted to track this to your
happen you wanted to track this to your life you wanna you just want it
life you wanna you just want it
life you wanna you just want it and you don’t even know how to get it
and you don’t even know how to get it
and you don’t even know how to get it but we’re so compelling – you kept
but we’re so compelling – you kept
but we’re so compelling – you kept thinking about it every day and
thinking about it every day and
thinking about it every day and visioning imagining and feeling it and
visioning imagining and feeling it and
visioning imagining and feeling it and then stuff happen and suddenly you start
then stuff happen and suddenly you start
then stuff happen and suddenly you start to attract people or situations to your
to attract people or situations to your
to attract people or situations to your life and it just came together like you
life and it just came together like you
life and it just came together like you don’t even have a total plan was just
don’t even have a total plan was just
don’t even have a total plan was just that it was so a part of your focus with
that it was so a part of your focus with
that it was so a part of your focus with so much intensity and emotions so often
so much intensity and emotions so often
so much intensity and emotions so often that it sensitize you to notice anything
that it sensitize you to notice anything
that it sensitize you to notice anything that you get you that there’s a part of
that you get you that there’s a part of
that you get you that there’s a part of your brain called the reticular
your brain called the reticular
your brain called the reticular activating system for short we call it
activating system for short we call it
activating system for short we call it the RAS that part of your brain
the RAS that part of your brain
the RAS that part of your brain determines what you notice in the world
determines what you notice in the world
determines what you notice in the world and it’s really important because when
and it’s really important because when
and it’s really important because when you set a goal when you get really clear
you set a goal when you get really clear
you set a goal when you get really clear in a vision they’re strong enough
in a vision they’re strong enough
in a vision they’re strong enough reasons and you review it enough that
reasons and you review it enough that
reasons and you review it enough that becomes a part of you that part of your
becomes a part of you that part of your
becomes a part of you that part of your brain says anything that relates to this
brain says anything that relates to this
brain says anything that relates to this I need to notice it’s like did you ever
I need to notice it’s like did you ever
I need to notice it’s like did you ever buy a certain kind of car or maybe a
buy a certain kind of car or maybe a
buy a certain kind of car or maybe a certain outfit and suddenly you see that
certain outfit and suddenly you see that
certain outfit and suddenly you see that car everywhere are those outfits
car everywhere are those outfits
car everywhere are those outfits everywhere you know the cars were always
everywhere you know the cars were always
everywhere you know the cars were always around but why do you see it now because
around but why do you see it now because
around but why do you see it now because your Ras knows this is important this
your Ras knows this is important this
your Ras knows this is important this was part of my world now similarly when
was part of my world now similarly when
was part of my world now similarly when you really get clear and it’s compelling
you really get clear and it’s compelling
you really get clear and it’s compelling and you’re reviewing it every day got
and you’re reviewing it every day got
and you’re reviewing it every day got strong reasons here you’re viewing it
strong reasons here you’re viewing it
strong reasons here you’re viewing it every day and you’re feeling it the
every day and you’re feeling it the
every day and you’re feeling it the brain becomes incredibly acute at
brain becomes incredibly acute at
brain becomes incredibly acute at noticing anything to get you to move
noticing anything to get you to move
noticing anything to get you to move forward and so that’s the power of this
forward and so that’s the power of this
forward and so that’s the power of this so you know what do people do with New
so you know what do people do with New
so you know what do people do with New Year’s resolution they come up with
Year’s resolution they come up with
Year’s resolution they come up with something they kind of want it’s not a
something they kind of want it’s not a
something they kind of want it’s not a compelling vision they don’t really have
compelling vision they don’t really have
compelling vision they don’t really have strong enough reasons and they never
strong enough reasons and they never
strong enough reasons and they never review it again and tell them notice
review it again and tell them notice
review it again and tell them notice that they broke what they said they
that they broke what they said they
that they broke what they said they really want to have make happen because
really want to have make happen because
really want to have make happen because they didn’t really resolve if you
they didn’t really resolve if you
they didn’t really resolve if you resolve you got the vision it’s
resolve you got the vision it’s
resolve you got the vision it’s compelling you review it daily and you
compelling you review it daily and you
compelling you review it daily and you feel it you envision it and you
feel it you envision it and you
feel it you envision it and you experience it simple as it sounds now
experience it simple as it sounds now
experience it simple as it sounds now ultimately what is this really about
ultimately what is this really about
ultimately what is this really about ultimately if you’re gonna have lasting
ultimately if you’re gonna have lasting
ultimately if you’re gonna have lasting change in anything you’re really talking
change in anything you’re really talking
change in anything you’re really talking about just raising your standards I mean
about just raising your standards I mean
about just raising your standards I mean I always tell people if you want to know
I always tell people if you want to know
I always tell people if you want to know how to change your life they give it to
how to change your life they give it to
how to change your life they give it to you in three words boring as it sounds
you in three words boring as it sounds
you in three words boring as it sounds raise your standards but what does that
raise your standards but what does that
raise your standards but what does that mean corney’s and sounds raise your
mean corney’s and sounds raise your
mean corney’s and sounds raise your standards well thank you for the
standards well thank you for the
standards well thank you for the breakthrough thought Tony are you glad I
breakthrough thought Tony are you glad I
breakthrough thought Tony are you glad I wasted my time watching this little
wasted my time watching this little
wasted my time watching this little email with you but think about it
email with you but think about it
email with you but think about it lasting change is different than a goal
lasting change is different than a goal
lasting change is different than a goal you don’t always get your goals but you
you don’t always get your goals but you
you don’t always get your goals but you always get your standards maybe they’ll
always get your standards maybe they’ll
always get your standards maybe they’ll help you is to think about it this way I
help you is to think about it this way I
help you is to think about it this way I try to explain standards to people with
try to explain standards to people with
try to explain standards to people with a different set of words think of it as
a different set of words think of it as
a different set of words think of it as everybody in life gets there must they
everybody in life gets there must they
everybody in life gets there must they don’t get the shit’s right think about
don’t get the shit’s right think about
don’t get the shit’s right think about it
it
it you must be above a list of shits now if
you must be above a list of shits now if
you must be above a list of shits now if they don’t have a list of the chud’s
they don’t have a list of the chud’s
they don’t have a list of the chud’s things you should do you should follow
things you should do you should follow
things you should do you should follow through on I I should lose some weight I
through on I I should lose some weight I
through on I I should lose some weight I should work out more I should make more
should work out more I should make more
should work out more I should make more calls I should respond more rapidly to
calls I should respond more rapidly to
calls I should respond more rapidly to my email whatever you know I should get
my email whatever you know I should get
my email whatever you know I should get into the office earlier I should be you
into the office earlier I should be you
into the office earlier I should be you know more confident whatever your should
know more confident whatever your should
know more confident whatever your should list is people love that their should
list is people love that their should
list is people love that their should list make the map and it’s kinda like
list make the map and it’s kinda like
list make the map and it’s kinda like New Year’s resolutions if it does it’s
New Year’s resolutions if it does it’s
New Year’s resolutions if it does it’s really exciting but if it doesn’t what
really exciting but if it doesn’t what
really exciting but if it doesn’t what you’re most
you’re most
you’re most a little disappointing that you kind of
a little disappointing that you kind of
a little disappointing that you kind of know it’s not gonna happen but when you
know it’s not gonna happen but when you
know it’s not gonna happen but when you decide something as a must for you and
decide something as a must for you and
decide something as a must for you and absolutely must Luca any possible you
absolutely must Luca any possible you
absolutely must Luca any possible you say I’m gonna find the way I’m gonna
say I’m gonna find the way I’m gonna
say I’m gonna find the way I’m gonna make the leg human beings when they
make the leg human beings when they
make the leg human beings when they resolve things and they have make a real
resolve things and they have make a real
resolve things and they have make a real resolution inside themselves which is
resolution inside themselves which is
resolution inside themselves which is they raise the standard they make it a
they raise the standard they make it a
they raise the standard they make it a must they find the way how would you
must they find the way how would you
must they find the way how would you have some area of your life where you
have some area of your life where you
have some area of your life where you raise your standard your life is never
raise your standard your life is never
raise your standard your life is never been the same maybe at one time you like
been the same maybe at one time you like
been the same maybe at one time you like to use smoke cigarettes or you did
to use smoke cigarettes or you did
to use smoke cigarettes or you did something and you did it for years and
something and you did it for years and
something and you did it for years and you kept trying to change it trying to
you kept trying to change it trying to
you kept trying to change it trying to change it and kept telling yourself I
change it and kept telling yourself I
change it and kept telling yourself I should and then one day something
should and then one day something
should and then one day something happened something just clicked you over
happened something just clicked you over
happened something just clicked you over something took you over that kind of
something took you over that kind of
something took you over that kind of tipping point and inside yourself you
tipping point and inside yourself you
tipping point and inside yourself you said no more there was a very very
said no more there was a very very
said no more there was a very very different experience wasn’t it something
different experience wasn’t it something
different experience wasn’t it something inside you shifted and what was a should
inside you shifted and what was a should
inside you shifted and what was a should became a must and you’ve never gone back
became a must and you’ve never gone back
became a must and you’ve never gone back is there an area like that in your life
is there an area like that in your life
is there an area like that in your life you could think of again I ever smoked
you could think of again I ever smoked
you could think of again I ever smoked cigarettes did you ever eat a certain
cigarettes did you ever eat a certain
cigarettes did you ever eat a certain way drink a certain form of alcohol and
way drink a certain form of alcohol and
way drink a certain form of alcohol and then finally saying no mourn you just
then finally saying no mourn you just
then finally saying no mourn you just don’t go back and notice this it doesn’t
don’t go back and notice this it doesn’t
don’t go back and notice this it doesn’t really take any willpower anymore
really take any willpower anymore
really take any willpower anymore because somewhere when we make this
because somewhere when we make this
because somewhere when we make this click we make something a must we attach
click we make something a must we attach
click we make something a must we attach ourselves to it it becomes part of our
ourselves to it it becomes part of our
ourselves to it it becomes part of our identity the one thing I’ve learned in
identity the one thing I’ve learned in
identity the one thing I’ve learned in the last gosh 33 years are working
the last gosh 33 years are working
the last gosh 33 years are working people from now over 100 countries four
people from now over 100 countries four
people from now over 100 countries four million people is human beings
million people is human beings
million people is human beings absolutely follow through on who they
absolutely follow through on who they
absolutely follow through on who they believe they are if you say said to me
believe they are if you say said to me
believe they are if you say said to me well I’m really gonna work hard to stop
well I’m really gonna work hard to stop
well I’m really gonna work hard to stop smoking but you know I’ve been a smoker
smoking but you know I’ve been a smoker
smoking but you know I’ve been a smoker my whole life and I’m you know I am a
my whole life and I’m you know I am a
my whole life and I’m you know I am a smoker I know your days are numbered
smoker I know your days are numbered
smoker I know your days are numbered you’re gonna be back smoking cigarettes
you’re gonna be back smoking cigarettes
you’re gonna be back smoking cigarettes again because we all act consistent with
again because we all act consistent with
again because we all act consistent with who we believe we are
who we believe we are
who we believe we are I tell people the strongest force in the
I tell people the strongest force in the
I tell people the strongest force in the whole human personality is this
whole human personality is this
whole human personality is this to stay consistent with how we define
to stay consistent with how we define
to stay consistent with how we define ourselves if you define yourself as
ourselves if you define yourself as
ourselves if you define yourself as somebody who is really conservative
somebody who is really conservative
somebody who is really conservative you’re not gonna be crazy and act nuts
you’re not gonna be crazy and act nuts
you’re not gonna be crazy and act nuts unless you’re really drunk or something
unless you’re really drunk or something
unless you’re really drunk or something and then you can say it’s the alcohol
and then you can say it’s the alcohol
and then you can say it’s the alcohol when it really does you finally getting
when it really does you finally getting
when it really does you finally getting permission to be yourself the alcohol is
permission to be yourself the alcohol is
permission to be yourself the alcohol is your excuse if you’re a really crazy
your excuse if you’re a really crazy
your excuse if you’re a really crazy person you act crazy outrageous playful
person you act crazy outrageous playful
person you act crazy outrageous playful you don’t have conservative because it’s
you don’t have conservative because it’s
you don’t have conservative because it’s nothing you are fern often people say
nothing you are fern often people say
nothing you are fern often people say well I can’t do that I’m not that kind
well I can’t do that I’m not that kind
well I can’t do that I’m not that kind of person and I always say to people
of person and I always say to people
of person and I always say to people really when did you define yourself I
really when did you define yourself I
really when did you define yourself I mean really how many years ago did you
mean really how many years ago did you
mean really how many years ago did you come up with what you could and couldn’t
come up with what you could and couldn’t
come up with what you could and couldn’t do in your life how many years ago most
do in your life how many years ago most
do in your life how many years ago most people if they really look at how
people if they really look at how
people if they really look at how they’re living their life today
they’re living their life today
they’re living their life today it’s based on a set of standards a set
it’s based on a set of standards a set
it’s based on a set of standards a set of beliefs that they made choices about
of beliefs that they made choices about
of beliefs that they made choices about 10 20 30 or more years ago I mean
10 20 30 or more years ago I mean
10 20 30 or more years ago I mean they’re often we made decisions in our
they’re often we made decisions in our
they’re often we made decisions in our youth or very young about what to
youth or very young about what to
youth or very young about what to believe
believe
believe about what we were capable of about who
about what we were capable of about who
about what we were capable of about who we are as a person and that becomes the
we are as a person and that becomes the
we are as a person and that becomes the glass ceiling whew well that controls us
glass ceiling whew well that controls us
glass ceiling whew well that controls us there’s a corny metaphor but it’s true I
there’s a corny metaphor but it’s true I
there’s a corny metaphor but it’s true I remember one time I was you put my
remember one time I was you put my
remember one time I was you put my family in the circus and
family in the circus and
family in the circus and there they have this big giant elephant
there they have this big giant elephant
there they have this big giant elephant you look at his elephant and they take
you look at his elephant and they take
you look at his elephant and they take this little rope put around that
this little rope put around that
this little rope put around that hopefully snack they drive the stake
hopefully snack they drive the stake
hopefully snack they drive the stake into the ground and I mean you look at
into the ground and I mean you look at
into the ground and I mean you look at this you know that elephant could rip
this you know that elephant could rip
this you know that elephant could rip down the entire tent with almost no
down the entire tent with almost no
down the entire tent with almost no effort the elephant doesn’t struggle
effort the elephant doesn’t struggle
effort the elephant doesn’t struggle doesn’t try why does the elephant’s
doesn’t try why does the elephant’s
doesn’t try why does the elephant’s conditioned and they take that elephant
conditioned and they take that elephant
conditioned and they take that elephant conditioned the elephant when it’s a
conditioned the elephant when it’s a
conditioned the elephant when it’s a baby elephant that’s how they train them
baby elephant that’s how they train them
baby elephant that’s how they train them when it’s a little baby elephant it
when it’s a little baby elephant it
when it’s a little baby elephant it doesn’t have the power yet they put a
doesn’t have the power yet they put a
doesn’t have the power yet they put a big rope around it and they drive this
big rope around it and they drive this
big rope around it and they drive this huge stake in the ground the elephant
huge stake in the ground the elephant
huge stake in the ground the elephant fights and fights and fights and one day
fights and fights and fights and one day
fights and fights and fights and one day finally that often decides I’m not
finally that often decides I’m not
finally that often decides I’m not capable alling this out and once that
capable alling this out and once that
capable alling this out and once that becomes the definition of an identity of
becomes the definition of an identity of
becomes the definition of an identity of anyone an elephant in this case they
anyone an elephant in this case they
anyone an elephant in this case they don’t even try anymore it’s just who I
don’t even try anymore it’s just who I
don’t even try anymore it’s just who I am that’s how it is that’s just the way
am that’s how it is that’s just the way
am that’s how it is that’s just the way it is in my life I’d like to ask you to
it is in my life I’d like to ask you to
it is in my life I’d like to ask you to take a look at any place you’ve got a
take a look at any place you’ve got a
take a look at any place you’ve got a limitation ask yourself when did I
limitation ask yourself when did I
limitation ask yourself when did I decide to accept that limitation and you
decide to accept that limitation and you
decide to accept that limitation and you may not even see it as a limitation you
may not even see it as a limitation you
may not even see it as a limitation you might see that just that’s who I am but
might see that just that’s who I am but
might see that just that’s who I am but so often our lives we’ve adapted to be a
so often our lives we’ve adapted to be a
so often our lives we’ve adapted to be a certain way so that we don’t fail or so
certain way so that we don’t fail or so
certain way so that we don’t fail or so that people will like us or respect us
that people will like us or respect us
that people will like us or respect us but it’s not necessarily who we are joy
but it’s not necessarily who we are joy
but it’s not necessarily who we are joy comes when you’re spontaneous
comes when you’re spontaneous
comes when you’re spontaneous it’s really hard to be truly happy when
it’s really hard to be truly happy when
it’s really hard to be truly happy when you’re not being yourself and most of us
you’re not being yourself and most of us
you’re not being yourself and most of us have no clue we are and so a big part of
have no clue we are and so a big part of
have no clue we are and so a big part of my work if you’ve ever been to an event
my work if you’ve ever been to an event
my work if you’ve ever been to an event you know is to get people or do things
you know is to get people or do things
you know is to get people or do things spontaneously without thinking because
spontaneously without thinking because
spontaneously without thinking because that’s when the real you shows up that’s
that’s when the real you shows up that’s
that’s when the real you shows up that’s when the energy comes alive and when you
when the energy comes alive and when you
when the energy comes alive and when you do that when you start to connect to
do that when you start to connect to
do that when you start to connect to your true nature suddenly there’s energy
your true nature suddenly there’s energy
your true nature suddenly there’s energy available for you to set a higher
available for you to set a higher
available for you to set a higher standard for what you want in your life
standard for what you want in your life
standard for what you want in your life that’s what this is really all about
that’s what this is really all about
that’s what this is really all about and when I talk about standards when I
and when I talk about standards when I
and when I talk about standards when I talk about you know shoulds versus must
talk about you know shoulds versus must
talk about you know shoulds versus must think about your own life I know there
think about your own life I know there
think about your own life I know there have been areas in your life where some
have been areas in your life where some
have been areas in your life where some point in time you just shifted and you
point in time you just shifted and you
point in time you just shifted and you raise the standard in your life change
raise the standard in your life change
raise the standard in your life change because whatever people have their
because whatever people have their
because whatever people have their identity attached to they live we live
identity attached to they live we live
identity attached to they live we live who we believe we are that’s just how it
who we believe we are that’s just how it
who we believe we are that’s just how it works it’s just kind of like I give an
works it’s just kind of like I give an
works it’s just kind of like I give an example
example
example look at your physical body your physical
look at your physical body your physical
look at your physical body your physical body today is an absolute reflection of
body today is an absolute reflection of
body today is an absolute reflection of only one thing
only one thing
only one thing not your goals not your desires but your
not your goals not your desires but your
not your goals not your desires but your standards the identity you have for
standards the identity you have for
standards the identity you have for yourself if your standard is you’re an
yourself if your standard is you’re an
yourself if your standard is you’re an athlete then there’s a certain amount of
athlete then there’s a certain amount of
athlete then there’s a certain amount of strength a muscle tone and energy that’s
strength a muscle tone and energy that’s
strength a muscle tone and energy that’s available in your body on a regular
available in your body on a regular
available in your body on a regular basis because that’s who you are and so
basis because that’s who you are and so
basis because that’s who you are and so you do whatever’s necessary to maintain
you do whatever’s necessary to maintain
you do whatever’s necessary to maintain that identity again the strongest force
that identity again the strongest force
that identity again the strongest force and the human personalities this need to
and the human personalities this need to
and the human personalities this need to stay consistent with how we define
stay consistent with how we define
stay consistent with how we define ourselves because if you don’t know who
ourselves because if you don’t know who
ourselves because if you don’t know who you are you would not act once you lock
you are you would not act once you lock
you are you would not act once you lock in on that activity your brain finds a
in on that activity your brain finds a
in on that activity your brain finds a way to keep you there if you say you
way to keep you there if you say you
way to keep you there if you say you know and I’m all the way that I’ve
know and I’m all the way that I’ve
know and I’m all the way that I’ve always been overweight I’m big-boned and
always been overweight I’m big-boned and
always been overweight I’m big-boned and that’s the story you’ve got then you’re
that’s the story you’ve got then you’re
that’s the story you’ve got then you’re gonna always find a way to get back
gonna always find a way to get back
gonna always find a way to get back there that’s your assembling point
there that’s your assembling point
there that’s your assembling point that’s your identity that’s where things
that’s your identity that’s where things
that’s your identity that’s where things lock in if you see somebody who’s a
lock in if you see somebody who’s a
lock in if you see somebody who’s a really great shape you ask them
really great shape you ask them
really great shape you ask them you work out nubian sir yes how often
you work out nubian sir yes how often
you work out nubian sir yes how often the mill today three times four times
the mill today three times four times
the mill today three times four times five times a week whatever in a seminar
five times a week whatever in a seminar
five times a week whatever in a seminar last people who here works out at least
last people who here works out at least
last people who here works out at least five days a week
five days a week
five days a week I’m stand-up and you look around that
I’m stand-up and you look around that
I’m stand-up and you look around that room and you know that they work out
room and you know that they work out
room and you know that they work out five times a week as you can see their
five times a week as you can see their
five times a week as you can see their body you don’t just get a result without
body you don’t just get a result without
body you don’t just get a result without some kind of action without some form of
some kind of action without some form of
some kind of action without some form of ritual ritual meaning actions you do
ritual ritual meaning actions you do
ritual ritual meaning actions you do consistently now if you think you know
consistently now if you think you know
consistently now if you think you know those people that are out there working
those people that are out there working
those people that are out there working out five days a week do they have more
out five days a week do they have more
out five days a week do they have more time than you do
time than you do
time than you do or I have for anybody else of course not
or I have for anybody else of course not
or I have for anybody else of course not is that a wife less busy of course not
is that a wife less busy of course not
is that a wife less busy of course not it’s just a must for them they must work
it’s just a must for them they must work
it’s just a must for them they must work out that way and they’ve made that turn
out that way and they’ve made that turn
out that way and they’ve made that turn their life changed so I’m not saying you
their life changed so I’m not saying you
their life changed so I’m not saying you have to work out five days a week I’m
have to work out five days a week I’m
have to work out five days a week I’m just saying whatever you really want
just saying whatever you really want
just saying whatever you really want once don’t get met consistently
once don’t get met consistently
once don’t get met consistently standards do whatever you identify this
standards do whatever you identify this
standards do whatever you identify this is Who I am and so it’s not so much
is Who I am and so it’s not so much
is Who I am and so it’s not so much about changing your identity as this
about changing your identity as this
about changing your identity as this expanding it you know deciding that you
expanding it you know deciding that you
expanding it you know deciding that you know instead of your goals to lose ten
know instead of your goals to lose ten
know instead of your goals to lose ten pounds which is not compelling what if
pounds which is not compelling what if
pounds which is not compelling what if your vision was to get back to my
your vision was to get back to my
your vision was to get back to my fighting weight you know just this year
fighting weight you know just this year
fighting weight you know just this year this month this next 90 days I’m gonna
this month this next 90 days I’m gonna
this month this next 90 days I’m gonna transform my body I’m gonna take on a
transform my body I’m gonna take on a
transform my body I’m gonna take on a new challenge I’m gonna find some
new challenge I’m gonna find some
new challenge I’m gonna find some technique or strategy there’s a million
technique or strategy there’s a million
technique or strategy there’s a million of them that can reframe myself or I’m
of them that can reframe myself or I’m
of them that can reframe myself or I’m gonna feel younger stronger more vibrant
gonna feel younger stronger more vibrant
gonna feel younger stronger more vibrant than ever before
than ever before
than ever before here’s my reasons because I want the
here’s my reasons because I want the
here’s my reasons because I want the energy to really make my life work
energy to really make my life work
energy to really make my life work because it’s tough out there and I want
because it’s tough out there and I want
because it’s tough out there and I want to be stronger than I’ve ever been
to be stronger than I’ve ever been
to be stronger than I’ve ever been before I don’t think going for the
before I don’t think going for the
before I don’t think going for the mirror if I’m naked enough you know want
mirror if I’m naked enough you know want
mirror if I’m naked enough you know want to laugh I will look there and take a
to laugh I will look there and take a
to laugh I will look there and take a good look and go yeah I’m proud of
good look and go yeah I’m proud of
good look and go yeah I’m proud of whatever I see there whatever it takes
whatever I see there whatever it takes
whatever I see there whatever it takes something’s gonna make you laugh smile
something’s gonna make you laugh smile
something’s gonna make you laugh smile something that’s gonna tease yourself
something that’s gonna tease yourself
something that’s gonna tease yourself but something’s gonna move you to
but something’s gonna move you to
but something’s gonna move you to another level if you identify yourself
another level if you identify yourself
another level if you identify yourself in a new way and you own that every day
in a new way and you own that every day
in a new way and you own that every day that becomes the staredown you live
that becomes the staredown you live
that becomes the staredown you live you’ll find the way to make that
you’ll find the way to make that
you’ll find the way to make that standard wheel money’s the same way
standard wheel money’s the same way
standard wheel money’s the same way think about it doesn’t matter what’s
think about it doesn’t matter what’s
think about it doesn’t matter what’s happening quote-unquote in the
happening quote-unquote in the
happening quote-unquote in the marketplace people that make money find
marketplace people that make money find
marketplace people that make money find a way to make money no matter what don’t
a way to make money no matter what don’t
a way to make money no matter what don’t they
they
they I mean most people’s standard is to pay
I mean most people’s standard is to pay
I mean most people’s standard is to pay their bills so that’s what most people
their bills so that’s what most people
their bills so that’s what most people find a way to do even when economic
find a way to do even when economic
find a way to do even when economic times get tough most people that’s their
times get tough most people that’s their
times get tough most people that’s their absolute standard to find one some
absolute standard to find one some
absolute standard to find one some people’s standard is pay their bills and
people’s standard is pay their bills and
people’s standard is pay their bills and most of the time and so most of the time
most of the time and so most of the time
most of the time and so most of the time they do some people standard is not just
they do some people standard is not just
they do some people standard is not just to pay their bills but to take care of
to pay their bills but to take care of
to pay their bills but to take care of your family and maybe even some of their
your family and maybe even some of their
your family and maybe even some of their friends and they find a way in fact
friends and they find a way in fact
friends and they find a way in fact human if some people may be in a family
human if some people may be in a family
human if some people may be in a family where they don’t have enough money they
where they don’t have enough money they
where they don’t have enough money they barely have money pay their bills they
barely have money pay their bills they
barely have money pay their bills they work in guts out and then somebody their
work in guts out and then somebody their
work in guts out and then somebody their mother the father somebody else their
mother the father somebody else their
mother the father somebody else their sister gets ill and there’s not enough
sister gets ill and there’s not enough
sister gets ill and there’s not enough money to take care of it nobody else has
money to take care of it nobody else has
money to take care of it nobody else has money family they don’t either but they
money family they don’t either but they
money family they don’t either but they find a way to get that money to take
find a way to get that money to take
find a way to get that money to take care of their mother father don’t they
care of their mother father don’t they
care of their mother father don’t they and they their belt they never could do
and they their belt they never could do
and they their belt they never could do it before why the situation made them
it before why the situation made them
it before why the situation made them raise their own standard and not
raise their own standard and not
raise their own standard and not everybody does that somebody else in the
everybody does that somebody else in the
everybody does that somebody else in the family might have money and still not
family might have money and still not
family might have money and still not take care of their mother it all comes
take care of their mother it all comes
take care of their mother it all comes down to the inner game my friends
down to the inner game my friends
down to the inner game my friends changing your life is a change in the
changing your life is a change in the
changing your life is a change in the inner game
inner game
inner game the outside world you can’t control but
the outside world you can’t control but
the outside world you can’t control but you have absolute control of us one if
you have absolute control of us one if
you have absolute control of us one if you learn the dynamics of what shapes
you learn the dynamics of what shapes
you learn the dynamics of what shapes you up an identity is one of those
you up an identity is one of those
you up an identity is one of those simple clear fundamental basics that if
simple clear fundamental basics that if
simple clear fundamental basics that if you start to ship it everything else in
you start to ship it everything else in
you start to ship it everything else in your life must be find a way I know that
your life must be find a way I know that
your life must be find a way I know that sounds overly simplistic but it’s true
sounds overly simplistic but it’s true
sounds overly simplistic but it’s true now somebody once said you can take all
now somebody once said you can take all
now somebody once said you can take all the money in the world out of the hands
the money in the world out of the hands
the money in the world out of the hands of everybody out of all the wealthy
of everybody out of all the wealthy
of everybody out of all the wealthy people in the world who are really
people in the world who are really
people in the world who are really successful give it to other people it
successful give it to other people it
successful give it to other people it wouldn’t take too long those people have
wouldn’t take too long those people have
wouldn’t take too long those people have it back in their hands it’s not because
it back in their hands it’s not because
it back in their hands it’s not because their manipulator it’s because they have
their manipulator it’s because they have
their manipulator it’s because they have a standard some are manipular don’t get
a standard some are manipular don’t get
a standard some are manipular don’t get me wrong but they’ve got a standard of
me wrong but they’ve got a standard of
me wrong but they’ve got a standard of what they’re gonna find a way to make
what they’re gonna find a way to make
what they’re gonna find a way to make happen I’m just simply saying to you
happen I’m just simply saying to you
happen I’m just simply saying to you take those three magic words and live
take those three magic words and live
take those three magic words and live them raise your standard if you really
them raise your standard if you really
them raise your standard if you really want to do it then I’ll tell you the
want to do it then I’ll tell you the
want to do it then I’ll tell you the most important secret have you ever done
most important secret have you ever done
most important secret have you ever done this have you ever told yourself you’re
this have you ever told yourself you’re
this have you ever told yourself you’re raising you’re standing okay I’m gonna
raising you’re standing okay I’m gonna
raising you’re standing okay I’m gonna go make this happen I’m gonna go make
go make this happen I’m gonna go make
go make this happen I’m gonna go make this much money I’m gonna transform my
this much money I’m gonna transform my
this much money I’m gonna transform my kids I’m gonna create the ultimate
kids I’m gonna create the ultimate
kids I’m gonna create the ultimate relationship of my life I’m gonna
relationship of my life I’m gonna
relationship of my life I’m gonna transform my body whatever it is and
transform my body whatever it is and
transform my body whatever it is and then you don’t have strong enough
then you don’t have strong enough
then you don’t have strong enough reasons and you know lose use it you
reasons and you know lose use it you
reasons and you know lose use it you don’t follow through it’s because you
don’t follow through it’s because you
don’t follow through it’s because you didn’t back up your standards with what
didn’t back up your standards with what
didn’t back up your standards with what makes those standards real and that’s
makes those standards real and that’s
makes those standards real and that’s rituals
rituals
rituals rituals all of the power is whenever we
rituals all of the power is whenever we
rituals all of the power is whenever we do our Robbins results coaching you know
do our Robbins results coaching you know
do our Robbins results coaching you know is it Robbins equals results
is it Robbins equals results
is it Robbins equals results wait we get results with people it’s the
wait we get results with people it’s the
wait we get results with people it’s the same way if you listen to my ultimate
same way if you listen to my ultimate
same way if you listen to my ultimate edge program are back in the old days
edge program are back in the old days
edge program are back in the old days personal power or if you went to one of
personal power or if you went to one of
personal power or if you went to one of my seminars you know what I do is I take
my seminars you know what I do is I take
my seminars you know what I do is I take these huge challenges you got and we
these huge challenges you got and we
these huge challenges you got and we break them down into little bite-sized
break them down into little bite-sized
break them down into little bite-sized steps little things you do each day that
steps little things you do each day that
steps little things you do each day that after you do them you get so much
after you do them you get so much
after you do them you get so much momentum that it’s easy to succeed
momentum that it’s easy to succeed
momentum that it’s easy to succeed you’re not overwhelmed you have these
you’re not overwhelmed you have these
you’re not overwhelmed you have these victory day after day after day on
victory day after day after day on
victory day after day after day on little things if you’d went to ultimate
little things if you’d went to ultimate
little things if you’d went to ultimate edge I’m sure you learn about the hour
edge I’m sure you learn about the hour
edge I’m sure you learn about the hour of power or the 15 minutes to be able to
of power or the 15 minutes to be able to
of power or the 15 minutes to be able to be fulfilled or 30 minutes to thrive
be fulfilled or 30 minutes to thrive
be fulfilled or 30 minutes to thrive where you literally just condition your
where you literally just condition your
where you literally just condition your body and emotion with a couple little
body and emotion with a couple little
body and emotion with a couple little rituals so it doesn’t matter what’s
rituals so it doesn’t matter what’s
rituals so it doesn’t matter what’s going on in your world you feel that
going on in your world you feel that
going on in your world you feel that strength and it’s not fake it’s not some
strength and it’s not fake it’s not some
strength and it’s not fake it’s not some pump up it’s coming from inside you and
pump up it’s coming from inside you and
pump up it’s coming from inside you and it works
it works
it works rituals define us see all the results in
rituals define us see all the results in
rituals define us see all the results in your life are coming from your rituals
your life are coming from your rituals
your life are coming from your rituals they start with a standard and then have
they start with a standard and then have
they start with a standard and then have rituals that fall in up like for example
rituals that fall in up like for example
rituals that fall in up like for example if you are where you want to be
if you are where you want to be
if you are where you want to be physically you have very different
physically you have very different
physically you have very different rituals than if you’re not where you
rituals than if you’re not where you
rituals than if you’re not where you want to be physically you’re overweight
want to be physically you’re overweight
want to be physically you’re overweight you and I both know you got a different
you and I both know you got a different
you and I both know you got a different ritual than if you’re physically fit it
ritual than if you’re physically fit it
ritual than if you’re physically fit it would be different you get up in the
would be different you get up in the
would be different you get up in the morning what’s the first thing you do if
morning what’s the first thing you do if
morning what’s the first thing you do if you’re fit your shoes are there you roll
you’re fit your shoes are there you roll
you’re fit your shoes are there you roll over the minute how do you feel you put
over the minute how do you feel you put
over the minute how do you feel you put on the shoes you lace and you start
on the shoes you lace and you start
on the shoes you lace and you start walking or whatever that ritual is if
walking or whatever that ritual is if
walking or whatever that ritual is if you’re overweight you roll over and you
you’re overweight you roll over and you
you’re overweight you roll over and you have a very different ritual you might
have a very different ritual you might
have a very different ritual you might roll up for several times the tourney
roll up for several times the tourney
roll up for several times the tourney line walk off you go in and get your
line walk off you go in and get your
line walk off you go in and get your local smoker whatever you know special
local smoker whatever you know special
local smoker whatever you know special coffee stop by at Starbucks or the case
coffee stop by at Starbucks or the case
coffee stop by at Starbucks or the case maybe have a nice sugar muffin
maybe have a nice sugar muffin
maybe have a nice sugar muffin it’s supposed to be really nice whatever
it’s supposed to be really nice whatever
it’s supposed to be really nice whatever you do it’s a different ritual if you
you do it’s a different ritual if you
you do it’s a different ritual if you have great passionate relationship
have great passionate relationship
have great passionate relationship they’re very different rituals of how
they’re very different rituals of how
they’re very different rituals of how you come home than if you have
you come home than if you have
you come home than if you have we come home the first thing you do is
we come home the first thing you do is
we come home the first thing you do is you’re tweeting somebody or you’re
you’re tweeting somebody or you’re
you’re tweeting somebody or you’re emailing or looking on the news
emailing or looking on the news
emailing or looking on the news come home and what are the rituals
come home and what are the rituals
come home and what are the rituals whenever I study people that are
whenever I study people that are
whenever I study people that are successful while I look for is what’s
successful while I look for is what’s
successful while I look for is what’s the standard they hold himself to and
the standard they hold himself to and
the standard they hold himself to and then what are all those little rituals
then what are all those little rituals
then what are all those little rituals that up because think about it success
that up because think about it success
that up because think about it success and failure are not giant events they
and failure are not giant events they
and failure are not giant events they don’t just show up you don’t just
don’t just show up you don’t just
don’t just show up you don’t just suddenly become successful or suddenly
suddenly become successful or suddenly
suddenly become successful or suddenly have this cataclysmic event that makes
have this cataclysmic event that makes
have this cataclysmic event that makes you fail it may look that way but
you fail it may look that way but
you fail it may look that way but failure comes from all the little things
failure comes from all the little things
failure comes from all the little things its failure to make the call its failure
its failure to make the call its failure
its failure to make the call its failure to check the books its failure to say
to check the books its failure to say
to check the books its failure to say I’m sorry its failure to push yourself
I’m sorry its failure to push yourself
I’m sorry its failure to push yourself to do things physically that you don’t
to do things physically that you don’t
to do things physically that you don’t want to do and all those little failures
want to do and all those little failures
want to do and all those little failures day after day come together until one
day after day come together until one
day after day come together until one day some Cataclysm if it happens you
day some Cataclysm if it happens you
day some Cataclysm if it happens you blame that that event happen because you
blame that that event happen because you
blame that that event happen because you missed all the little stuff get grieve
missed all the little stuff get grieve
missed all the little stuff get grieve me and success by the way is not some
me and success by the way is not some
me and success by the way is not some overnight event it’s all these little
overnight event it’s all these little
overnight event it’s all these little things success is having a vision
things success is having a vision
things success is having a vision success is making it compelling success
success is making it compelling success
success is making it compelling success is really seeing it feeling it every day
is really seeing it feeling it every day
is really seeing it feeling it every day it was strong enough for reasons success
it was strong enough for reasons success
it was strong enough for reasons success is feeling the sense that I’m here to
is feeling the sense that I’m here to
is feeling the sense that I’m here to grow and I’m here to give something to
grow and I’m here to give something to
grow and I’m here to give something to the world more than just myself success
the world more than just myself success
the world more than just myself success is caring about other people success is
is caring about other people success is
is caring about other people success is calling and saying I love you in the
calling and saying I love you in the
calling and saying I love you in the middle of day for no damn reason or
middle of day for no damn reason or
middle of day for no damn reason or sending a note that will change your
sending a note that will change your
sending a note that will change your relationship have a ritual of something
relationship have a ritual of something
relationship have a ritual of something funny playful or a surprise you do how
funny playful or a surprise you do how
funny playful or a surprise you do how many relationships are dead today
many relationships are dead today
many relationships are dead today because they have no surprise rituals
because they have no surprise rituals
because they have no surprise rituals anymore you need to have some rituals
anymore you need to have some rituals
anymore you need to have some rituals some cool things you do that nobody else
some cool things you do that nobody else
some cool things you do that nobody else does that gives you a better life than
does that gives you a better life than
does that gives you a better life than anybody else has all the little stuff
anybody else has all the little stuff
anybody else has all the little stuff that’s where success comes from and in
that’s where success comes from and in
that’s where success comes from and in business it comes to delivering more
business it comes to delivering more
business it comes to delivering more than anybody could imagine all those
than anybody could imagine all those
than anybody could imagine all those little things add up people
little things add up people
little things add up people that’s who I want to do business with
that’s who I want to do business with
that’s who I want to do business with it’s true in any area of your life so if
it’s true in any area of your life so if
it’s true in any area of your life so if you look at somebody’s really successful
you look at somebody’s really successful
you look at somebody’s really successful even Wow I mean there are so amazing
even Wow I mean there are so amazing
even Wow I mean there are so amazing there’s such a genius you got to dig
there’s such a genius you got to dig
there’s such a genius you got to dig underneath you got to remember something
underneath you got to remember something
underneath you got to remember something people are rewarded in public for what
people are rewarded in public for what
people are rewarded in public for what they practice for years in private
they practice for years in private
they practice for years in private myself and my business people say how
myself and my business people say how
myself and my business people say how are you get up and speaking of nono-chan
are you get up and speaking of nono-chan
are you get up and speaking of nono-chan you go for three days and nights and the
you go for three days and nights and the
you go for three days and nights and the room is like it wired it’s incredible
room is like it wired it’s incredible
room is like it wired it’s incredible MicroBot bronzer how do you do that
MicroBot bronzer how do you do that
MicroBot bronzer how do you do that honey at that confidence of home hey you
honey at that confidence of home hey you
honey at that confidence of home hey you know it’s not confidence it’s experience
know it’s not confidence it’s experience
know it’s not confidence it’s experience met but I did so much behind the scenes
met but I did so much behind the scenes
met but I did so much behind the scenes that I still do to make things right
that I still do to make things right
that I still do to make things right I mean how many people would know that
I mean how many people would know that
I mean how many people would know that since the time I was 17 years old before
since the time I was 17 years old before
since the time I was 17 years old before I walk on stage school do to this day
I walk on stage school do to this day
I walk on stage school do to this day wouldn’t need to do it play still do it
wouldn’t need to do it play still do it
wouldn’t need to do it play still do it I never walk out there without being in
I never walk out there without being in
I never walk out there without being in an absolute peak state of mind you know
an absolute peak state of mind you know
an absolute peak state of mind you know there days my back is hurting my throat
there days my back is hurting my throat
there days my back is hurting my throat was hurting or I may have had a
was hurting or I may have had a
was hurting or I may have had a challenger my father passed away and I
challenger my father passed away and I
challenger my father passed away and I still got to deliver to these people cuz
still got to deliver to these people cuz
still got to deliver to these people cuz my standard is give my all every time
my standard is give my all every time
my standard is give my all every time everything has to be better
everything has to be better
everything has to be better he’s been dormant for 5-10 years some of
he’s been dormant for 5-10 years some of
he’s been dormant for 5-10 years some of our trainers
our trainers
our trainers he does it he’s always finds a way to
he does it he’s always finds a way to
he does it he’s always finds a way to make better that’s not an ego thing
make better that’s not an ego thing
make better that’s not an ego thing that’s a scam and my ritual though is I
that’s a scam and my ritual though is I
that’s a scam and my ritual though is I prepare I think I got the new
prepare I think I got the new
prepare I think I got the new information I think I’ll put something
information I think I’ll put something
information I think I’ll put something across better what do people need I
across better what do people need I
across better what do people need I spend time with our customers I see
spend time with our customers I see
spend time with our customers I see what’s going on and before I get on
what’s going on and before I get on
what’s going on and before I get on stage each today is a ritual to put
stage each today is a ritual to put
stage each today is a ritual to put myself in a state of mind and I did it
myself in a state of mind and I did it
myself in a state of mind and I did it starting like 17 years old I started
starting like 17 years old I started
starting like 17 years old I started doing it say I now command my
doing it say I now command my
doing it say I now command my subconscious mind and I say this out
subconscious mind and I say this out
subconscious mind and I say this out loud several times this little phrase
loud several times this little phrase
loud several times this little phrase set of phrases as an incantation to kind
set of phrases as an incantation to kind
set of phrases as an incantation to kind of condition my mind and body and that’s
of condition my mind and body and that’s
of condition my mind and body and that’s an now command my subconscious mind to
an now command my subconscious mind to
an now command my subconscious mind to direct me in helping as many people as
direct me in helping as many people as
direct me in helping as many people as possible today by giving me the strength
possible today by giving me the strength
possible today by giving me the strength and the emotion and the humor and the
and the emotion and the humor and the
and the emotion and the humor and the brevity whatever it takes to show this
brevity whatever it takes to show this
brevity whatever it takes to show this person and help this person change their
person and help this person change their
person and help this person change their life now and I started that with a
life now and I started that with a
life now and I started that with a person when I work with people one on
person when I work with people one on
person when I work with people one on one and I will do that for 45 minutes
one and I will do that for 45 minutes
one and I will do that for 45 minutes driving in my Volkswagen to go serve and
driving in my Volkswagen to go serve and
driving in my Volkswagen to go serve and coach somebody for the first time now I
coach somebody for the first time now I
coach somebody for the first time now I don’t say that person I say these people
don’t say that person I say these people
don’t say that person I say these people and I can go out in the room of 10,000
and I can go out in the room of 10,000
and I can go out in the room of 10,000 people and deliver for 50 hours and I do
people and deliver for 50 hours and I do
people and deliver for 50 hours and I do it every time I come back onstage it’s a
it every time I come back onstage it’s a
it every time I come back onstage it’s a ritual a ritual to go into peak stay
ritual a ritual to go into peak stay
ritual a ritual to go into peak stay Peaks they don’t just show up they’d
Peaks they don’t just show up they’d
Peaks they don’t just show up they’d only interrupt you great ideas don’t
only interrupt you great ideas don’t
only interrupt you great ideas don’t interrupt you got to pursue them I
interrupt you got to pursue them I
interrupt you got to pursue them I talked to Michael Jordan I’ll never
talked to Michael Jordan I’ll never
talked to Michael Jordan I’ll never forget dad the peak of his career and
forget dad the peak of his career and
forget dad the peak of his career and got to watch his final game saw him
got to watch his final game saw him
got to watch his final game saw him backstage and spend some time with him
backstage and spend some time with him
backstage and spend some time with him and there’s pretty exciting time there’s
and there’s pretty exciting time there’s
and there’s pretty exciting time there’s famous basketball player I think that
famous basketball player I think that
famous basketball player I think that ever lived and has ever lived and I
ever lived and has ever lived and I
ever lived and has ever lived and I asked him I said you know what sets you
asked him I said you know what sets you
asked him I said you know what sets you apart Michael you know what is it and is
apart Michael you know what is it and is
apart Michael you know what is it and is it god-given talent the ability skill
it god-given talent the ability skill
it god-given talent the ability skill what is it you tell me you know said I
what is it you tell me you know said I
what is it you tell me you know said I can shoot you straight and you know it’s
can shoot you straight and you know it’s
can shoot you straight and you know it’s not you know I’m you trying to act
not you know I’m you trying to act
not you know I’m you trying to act humble he goes I have a lot of talent
humble he goes I have a lot of talent
humble he goes I have a lot of talent god-given talent lot of skill I’ve
god-given talent lot of skill I’ve
god-given talent lot of skill I’ve worked really hard but he said really
worked really hard but he said really
worked really hard but he said really it’s my standards he said every day I
it’s my standards he said every day I
it’s my standards he said every day I demand more for myself than anybody else
demand more for myself than anybody else
demand more for myself than anybody else could humanly expect I’m not competing
could humanly expect I’m not competing
could humanly expect I’m not competing with somebody else I’m competing with
with somebody else I’m competing with
with somebody else I’m competing with why I’m capable of hmm magic formula
why I’m capable of hmm magic formula
why I’m capable of hmm magic formula because most of us lower our standards
because most of us lower our standards
because most of us lower our standards why because who you spend time with my
why because who you spend time with my
why because who you spend time with my friends is who you become one of the
friends is who you become one of the
friends is who you become one of the biggest reasons I started going to
biggest reasons I started going to
biggest reasons I started going to seminars when I was like 17 is I had
seminars when I was like 17 is I had
seminars when I was like 17 is I had nobody
nobody
nobody he is a great robot I can read about
he is a great robot I can read about
he is a great robot I can read about somebody but being around people being
somebody but being around people being
somebody but being around people being in that environment was very different
in that environment was very different
in that environment was very different finding way to go to work with someone
finding way to go to work with someone
finding way to go to work with someone who lived that standard life was very
who lived that standard life was very
who lived that standard life was very different and get around people at low
different and get around people at low
different and get around people at low standards and you compete with it you
standards and you compete with it you
standards and you compete with it you don’t need to compete with it it’s like
don’t need to compete with it it’s like
don’t need to compete with it it’s like okay I mean remember Jerry Springer
okay I mean remember Jerry Springer
okay I mean remember Jerry Springer he’ll if he’s still in the air but I
he’ll if he’s still in the air but I
he’ll if he’s still in the air but I never used to get people on the show
never used to get people on the show
never used to get people on the show right but where would he find these
right but where would he find these
right but where would he find these people watch these people go my life’s
people watch these people go my life’s
people watch these people go my life’s know pretty darn good can hear that
know pretty darn good can hear that
know pretty darn good can hear that person look at them you don’t have to
person look at them you don’t have to
person look at them you don’t have to change your life all you up to this find
change your life all you up to this find
change your life all you up to this find somebody with a lower standard you feel
somebody with a lower standard you feel
somebody with a lower standard you feel good about yourself but if you feel that
good about yourself but if you feel that
good about yourself but if you feel that good feeling it’s an illusion you only
good feeling it’s an illusion you only
good feeling it’s an illusion you only think it’s gonna make you happen my
think it’s gonna make you happen my
think it’s gonna make you happen my friend and this year or any other is to
friend and this year or any other is to
friend and this year or any other is to step up it’s to raise the standard is to
step up it’s to raise the standard is to
step up it’s to raise the standard is to discover what you’re capable of and feel
discover what you’re capable of and feel
discover what you’re capable of and feel that incredible power pushing through
that incredible power pushing through
that incredible power pushing through whatever is holding you back and get to
whatever is holding you back and get to
whatever is holding you back and get to the other side of more of your true self
the other side of more of your true self
the other side of more of your true self that’s what this game is all about and
that’s what this game is all about and
that’s what this game is all about and look at the best of all believing Tiger
look at the best of all believing Tiger
look at the best of all believing Tiger Woods what
Woods what
Woods what to win golf tournaments no to be the
to win golf tournaments no to be the
to win golf tournaments no to be the best that ever lived that’s his goal
best that ever lived that’s his goal
best that ever lived that’s his goal that’s his vision but here’s what’s
that’s his vision but here’s what’s
that’s his vision but here’s what’s interesting he backs it up with rituals
interesting he backs it up with rituals
interesting he backs it up with rituals if you just have a vision and you know
if you just have a vision and you know
if you just have a vision and you know have the rituals stop lying to yourself
have the rituals stop lying to yourself
have the rituals stop lying to yourself his rituals are he started doing things
his rituals are he started doing things
his rituals are he started doing things nobody did before he went started
nobody did before he went started
nobody did before he went started lifting weights golfers lifting weights
lifting weights golfers lifting weights
lifting weights golfers lifting weights no way he went out and he changed his
no way he went out and he changed his
no way he went out and he changed his sling when he was the best in the world
sling when he was the best in the world
sling when he was the best in the world because he realized already be the best
because he realized already be the best
because he realized already be the best that ever lived he’s gonna have to
that ever lived he’s gonna have to
that ever lived he’s gonna have to change his swing if you don’t thing
change his swing if you don’t thing
change his swing if you don’t thing about golf you don’t change your swing
about golf you don’t change your swing
about golf you don’t change your swing when you’re the best and he went and
when you’re the best and he went and
when you’re the best and he went and retrained himself
retrained himself
retrained himself because he has different rituals than
because he has different rituals than
because he has different rituals than other golfers now many people are
other golfers now many people are
other golfers now many people are modeling as rituals to get better it’s
modeling as rituals to get better it’s
modeling as rituals to get better it’s amazing you know you look at somebody
amazing you know you look at somebody
amazing you know you look at somebody like Michael Phelps the 2008 swimmer won
like Michael Phelps the 2008 swimmer won
like Michael Phelps the 2008 swimmer won seven you know only two people I think
seven you know only two people I think
seven you know only two people I think in history if I remember correctly that
in history if I remember correctly that
in history if I remember correctly that have gotten seven gold medals in one
have gotten seven gold medals in one
have gotten seven gold medals in one session and here’s a guy he’s got number
session and here’s a guy he’s got number
session and here’s a guy he’s got number six centers Dalton he’s exhausted and
six centers Dalton he’s exhausted and
six centers Dalton he’s exhausted and he’s going in for that final swim I’m
he’s going in for that final swim I’m
he’s going in for that final swim I’m sure you remembered and how does the guy
sure you remembered and how does the guy
sure you remembered and how does the guy win by one hundredths of a second do you
win by one hundredths of a second do you
win by one hundredths of a second do you think that was some massive skill that
think that was some massive skill that
think that was some massive skill that got him over the top or was it a
got him over the top or was it a
got him over the top or was it a standard that says this is who I am I am
standard that says this is who I am I am
standard that says this is who I am I am the champion and no one is taking this
the champion and no one is taking this
the champion and no one is taking this from me and somehow in those finals
from me and somehow in those finals
from me and somehow in those finals milliseconds hundredth of a second he
milliseconds hundredth of a second he
milliseconds hundredth of a second he pushed himself just beyond his
pushed himself just beyond his
pushed himself just beyond his competitor but you know how about
competitor but you know how about
competitor but you know how about Michael Phelps would allow them to help
Michael Phelps would allow them to help
Michael Phelps would allow them to help push beyond that moment is his rituals
push beyond that moment is his rituals
push beyond that moment is his rituals go steady the guy most people who swim
go steady the guy most people who swim
go steady the guy most people who swim have these unbelievable workouts he does
have these unbelievable workouts he does
have these unbelievable workouts he does two and three of their workout sessions
two and three of their workout sessions
two and three of their workout sessions a day all the other swimmers the
a day all the other swimmers the
a day all the other swimmers the beginning thought he was insane
beginning thought he was insane
beginning thought he was insane good overtrain you can’t do that it’s
good overtrain you can’t do that it’s
good overtrain you can’t do that it’s not physically possible but he had a
not physically possible but he had a
not physically possible but he had a standard and the rituals to back it up
standard and the rituals to back it up
standard and the rituals to back it up so here’s my final message to you
so here’s my final message to you
so here’s my final message to you because I’ve gotten carried away I
because I’ve gotten carried away I
because I’ve gotten carried away I thought it’s going to send you like a
thought it’s going to send you like a
thought it’s going to send you like a five-minute message but you can see
five-minute message but you can see
five-minute message but you can see there’s no script here just leave a
there’s no script here just leave a
there’s no script here just leave a little crazy with you but I want to
little crazy with you but I want to
little crazy with you but I want to really see you get what you want this
really see you get what you want this
really see you get what you want this year don’t let this year be like last
year don’t let this year be like last
year don’t let this year be like last and if last year was great still gonna
and if last year was great still gonna
and if last year was great still gonna let it be that way raise the standard if
let it be that way raise the standard if
let it be that way raise the standard if your life is perfect and extraordinary
your life is perfect and extraordinary
your life is perfect and extraordinary you darn well know and they’re gonna be
you darn well know and they’re gonna be
you darn well know and they’re gonna be happy unless you keep making it better
happy unless you keep making it better
happy unless you keep making it better that’s what makes us feel like it’s not
that’s what makes us feel like it’s not
that’s what makes us feel like it’s not what we got to make us happy it’s who we
what we got to make us happy it’s who we
what we got to make us happy it’s who we become and what we’re able to give
become and what we’re able to give
become and what we’re able to give because we become more that sense of
because we become more that sense of
because we become more that sense of contribution is what creates the deepest
contribution is what creates the deepest
contribution is what creates the deepest moment so here’s my assignment for if
moment so here’s my assignment for if
moment so here’s my assignment for if you want one if you want to go from
you want one if you want to go from
you want one if you want to go from conversation with some action your
conversation with some action your
conversation with some action your simple thing to do once an air your life
simple thing to do once an air your life
simple thing to do once an air your life right now that you really want to please
right now that you really want to please
right now that you really want to please what’s an area that’s important to
what’s an area that’s important to
what’s an area that’s important to improve your body’s great
improve your body’s great
improve your body’s great how much curve careers great how about
how much curve careers great how about
how much curve careers great how about your relationship empty open special or
your relationship empty open special or
your relationship empty open special or your kids or your relationship will
your kids or your relationship will
your kids or your relationship will create spiritual side of your life or is
create spiritual side of your life or is
create spiritual side of your life or is it your finances the gray area really
it your finances the gray area really
it your finances the gray area really matters decide on that number one write
matters decide on that number one write
matters decide on that number one write down what your
down what your
down what your in that area right now specifically as
in that area right now specifically as
in that area right now specifically as possible you might say well I’m thirteen
possible you might say well I’m thirteen
possible you might say well I’m thirteen point five pounds overweight
point five pounds overweight
point five pounds overweight whatever the way there’s weather the
whatever the way there’s weather the
whatever the way there’s weather the situation is or my body fats like this I
situation is or my body fats like this I
situation is or my body fats like this I wake up exhausted in the morning and you
wake up exhausted in the morning and you
wake up exhausted in the morning and you write the truth of where you are right
write the truth of where you are right
write the truth of where you are right now
now
now so you’re real quick or
so you’re real quick or
so you’re real quick or in relationship I say I want a
in relationship I say I want a
in relationship I say I want a relationship but I I’m not in one I
relationship but I I’m not in one I
relationship but I I’m not in one I don’t seem to find them all the good
don’t seem to find them all the good
don’t seem to find them all the good ones seem to be gone is my belief you
ones seem to be gone is my belief you
ones seem to be gone is my belief you know and I really do want one but I
know and I really do want one but I
know and I really do want one but I don’t have it whatever your definition
don’t have it whatever your definition
don’t have it whatever your definition well I’m in a relationship and god I
well I’m in a relationship and god I
well I’m in a relationship and god I wish I wasn’t in a relationship I’m
wish I wasn’t in a relationship I’m
wish I wasn’t in a relationship I’m planning my escape wherever you are or I
planning my escape wherever you are or I
planning my escape wherever you are or I have a wonderful relationship we’d love
have a wonderful relationship we’d love
have a wonderful relationship we’d love each other but there just isn’t enough
each other but there just isn’t enough
each other but there just isn’t enough passion just right the truth of where
passion just right the truth of where
passion just right the truth of where you are the area you want to change what
you are the area you want to change what
you are the area you want to change what right how it is and then the second step
right how it is and then the second step
right how it is and then the second step is that’s where you gotta be really
is that’s where you gotta be really
is that’s where you gotta be really honest with yourself what are the
honest with yourself what are the
honest with yourself what are the rituals that have put me there because
rituals that have put me there because
rituals that have put me there because whatever results you’re getting even if
whatever results you’re getting even if
whatever results you’re getting even if you don’t like the results there’s some
you don’t like the results there’s some
you don’t like the results there’s some rituals that are keeping you in that
rituals that are keeping you in that
rituals that are keeping you in that place there’s some rituals of what you
place there’s some rituals of what you
place there’s some rituals of what you eat or don’t eat how you move or don’t
eat or don’t eat how you move or don’t
eat or don’t eat how you move or don’t move how you sleep or don’t sleep
move how you sleep or don’t sleep
move how you sleep or don’t sleep there’s some rituals and the lack of
there’s some rituals and the lack of
there’s some rituals and the lack of variety or spice or energy or focus in
variety or spice or energy or focus in
variety or spice or energy or focus in an area there’s something you’re doing
an area there’s something you’re doing
an area there’s something you’re doing and it’s usually not one thing it’s a
and it’s usually not one thing it’s a
and it’s usually not one thing it’s a bunch of little things they kind of do
bunch of little things they kind of do
bunch of little things they kind of do consistently whatever you think about
consistently whatever you think about
consistently whatever you think about getting in a relationship whatever you
getting in a relationship whatever you
getting in a relationship whatever you think about working out whenever you
think about working out whenever you
think about working out whenever you think about money and get yourself in a
think about money and get yourself in a
think about money and get yourself in a state of overwhelm you start thinking
state of overwhelm you start thinking
state of overwhelm you start thinking about all the things you can’t control
about all the things you can’t control
about all the things you can’t control just write down all the rituals you have
just write down all the rituals you have
just write down all the rituals you have and then here’s the third step what do
and then here’s the third step what do
and then here’s the third step what do you want what’s your vision and be
you want what’s your vision and be
you want what’s your vision and be really specific I’m gonna be my fighting
really specific I’m gonna be my fighting
really specific I’m gonna be my fighting way I want to be the strongest I’ve ever
way I want to be the strongest I’ve ever
way I want to be the strongest I’ve ever felt I want to be I’m gonna turn my act
felt I want to be I’m gonna turn my act
felt I want to be I’m gonna turn my act whatever it is be specific and then last
whatever it is be specific and then last
whatever it is be specific and then last step number four what are the rituals
step number four what are the rituals
step number four what are the rituals that’ll get you there what would you do
that’ll get you there what would you do
that’ll get you there what would you do differently each morning if you’re going
differently each morning if you’re going
differently each morning if you’re going to be that kind of energy that kind of
to be that kind of energy that kind of
to be that kind of energy that kind of strength how would you have to often
strength how would you have to often
strength how would you have to often would you work out what days would you
would you work out what days would you
would you work out what days would you work out what time a ritual something
work out what time a ritual something
work out what time a ritual something you do consistently usually at a
you do consistently usually at a
you do consistently usually at a specific time so becomes by tomorrow let
specific time so becomes by tomorrow let
specific time so becomes by tomorrow let me tell you something willpower doesn’t
me tell you something willpower doesn’t
me tell you something willpower doesn’t last
last
last but rituals can last a lifetime I bet
but rituals can last a lifetime I bet
but rituals can last a lifetime I bet you have some rituals in your life right
you have some rituals in your life right
you have some rituals in your life right now you’ve been doing for years even
now you’ve been doing for years even
now you’ve been doing for years even though some of them don’t serve you
though some of them don’t serve you
though some of them don’t serve you I’m just saying wake yourself up
I’m just saying wake yourself up
I’m just saying wake yourself up make you want a new year and a new life
make you want a new year and a new life
make you want a new year and a new life you don’t they need to start in January
you don’t they need to start in January
you don’t they need to start in January first start today start with this little
first start today start with this little
first start today start with this little video and just begin to see what happens
video and just begin to see what happens
video and just begin to see what happens and see how easy it is to just do a few
and see how easy it is to just do a few
and see how easy it is to just do a few little rituals don’t do them all just do
little rituals don’t do them all just do
little rituals don’t do them all just do two or three new things you know what
two or three new things you know what
two or three new things you know what happens you’ll get momentum cuz once you
happens you’ll get momentum cuz once you
happens you’ll get momentum cuz once you discipline yourself in one area life you
discipline yourself in one area life you
discipline yourself in one area life you feel yourself doing it I berries as well
feel yourself doing it I berries as well
feel yourself doing it I berries as well I always say something my original
I always say something my original
I always say something my original teacher taught me always remind people
teacher taught me always remind people
teacher taught me always remind people there’s always two pains in life is it
there’s always two pains in life is it
there’s always two pains in life is it the pain of discipline or is the pain of
the pain of discipline or is the pain of
the pain of discipline or is the pain of regret discipline weighs ounces is my
regret discipline weighs ounces is my
regret discipline weighs ounces is my friend Jim Rohn taught me for black
friend Jim Rohn taught me for black
friend Jim Rohn taught me for black waste tons
waste tons
waste tons they don’t have regret so right now what
they don’t have regret so right now what
they don’t have regret so right now what do you want to change what’s it really
do you want to change what’s it really
do you want to change what’s it really like when the rituals that got you there
like when the rituals that got you there
like when the rituals that got you there that’ll take a little homework if you’re
that’ll take a little homework if you’re
that’ll take a little homework if you’re not sure half the people around you
not sure half the people around you
not sure half the people around you they’ll tell you what your rituals are
they’ll tell you what your rituals are
they’ll tell you what your rituals are what do I really
what do I really
what do I really in depth where the rituals that would
in depth where the rituals that would
in depth where the rituals that would get me there and then get yourself to
get me there and then get yourself to
get me there and then get yourself to start a few those actions and lock them
start a few those actions and lock them
start a few those actions and lock them in place but I can’t help you anyway
in place but I can’t help you anyway
in place but I can’t help you anyway we’re here as a company to support you
we’re here as a company to support you
we’re here as a company to support you to come you have an event with us come
to come you have an event with us come
to come you have an event with us come to unleash the power within or master
to unleash the power within or master
to unleash the power within or master university or get a coach you can get a
university or get a coach you can get a
university or get a coach you can get a free cup of tea to actually be call our
free cup of tea to actually be call our
free cup of tea to actually be call our company and click on something on this
company and click on something on this
company and click on something on this we’ll probably have something on it or
we’ll probably have something on it or
we’ll probably have something on it or get a product or don’t do anything with
get a product or don’t do anything with
get a product or don’t do anything with us but do something with somebody
us but do something with somebody
us but do something with somebody starting with you
starting with you
starting with you if you make the change in yourself
if you make the change in yourself
if you make the change in yourself you’re gonna be proud this year and no
you’re gonna be proud this year and no
you’re gonna be proud this year and no amount of money or accolades other
amount of money or accolades other
amount of money or accolades other people can mirror the feeling I’d be
people can mirror the feeling I’d be
people can mirror the feeling I’d be proud of knowing you taken back control
proud of knowing you taken back control
proud of knowing you taken back control of your life or you’ve taken a great
of your life or you’ve taken a great
of your life or you’ve taken a great life to another level as once you do
life to another level as once you do
life to another level as once you do that you have something you can give
that you have something you can give
that you have something you can give other people with it be your kids or
other people with it be your kids or
other people with it be your kids or your friends or your family and
your friends or your family and
your friends or your family and ultimately that’s why it’s about so
ultimately that’s why it’s about so
ultimately that’s why it’s about so thanks for listening I know how long I
thanks for listening I know how long I
thanks for listening I know how long I went to here but I hope this has been
went to here but I hope this has been
went to here but I hope this has been helpful for you I just thought it’s a
helpful for you I just thought it’s a
helpful for you I just thought it’s a new year and I want people to be able to
new year and I want people to be able to
new year and I want people to be able to truly create a new life and till I see
truly create a new life and till I see
truly create a new life and till I see again hopefully something soon or it
again hopefully something soon or it
again hopefully something soon or it gets a chance to meet you live strong
gets a chance to meet you live strong
gets a chance to meet you live strong and they live with passion and of course
and they live with passion and of course
and they live with passion and of course god bless you happy new
god bless you happy new
god bless you happy new [Music]
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