whether you like to keep this up on a scale of one to ten how much
on a scale of one to ten how much
on a scale of one to ten how much self-confidence
self-confidence
self-confidence do you believe you have now with that
do you believe you have now with that
do you believe you have now with that number in mind try to justified where
number in mind try to justified where
number in mind try to justified where did you give yourself four nine seven or
did you give yourself four nine seven or
did you give yourself four nine seven or eight what about you were in such
eight what about you were in such
eight what about you were in such confidence is it your looks charisma
confidence is it your looks charisma
confidence is it your looks charisma perhaps for athletic ability
perhaps for athletic ability
perhaps for athletic ability I can guarantee you nobody in this room
I can guarantee you nobody in this room
I can guarantee you nobody in this room gave themselves a ten out of ten without
gave themselves a ten out of ten without
gave themselves a ten out of ten without any doubts most of us didn’t because
any doubts most of us didn’t because
any doubts most of us didn’t because that is a possibility
that is a possibility
that is a possibility in the words of the actor philosopher
in the words of the actor philosopher
in the words of the actor philosopher and martial artist Bruce Lee always be
and martial artist Bruce Lee always be
and martial artist Bruce Lee always be yourself express yourself have faith in
yourself express yourself have faith in
yourself express yourself have faith in yourself you know go out look for a
yourself you know go out look for a
yourself you know go out look for a successful personality and try to
successful personality and try to
successful personality and try to duplicate it now self-confidence can be
duplicate it now self-confidence can be
duplicate it now self-confidence can be defined as a feeling of trust in one’s
defined as a feeling of trust in one’s
defined as a feeling of trust in one’s qualities abilities and judgment and I
qualities abilities and judgment and I
qualities abilities and judgment and I believe it is a key to improving
believe it is a key to improving
believe it is a key to improving ourselves through my studies I’ve
ourselves through my studies I’ve
ourselves through my studies I’ve concluded that there are two types of
concluded that there are two types of
concluded that there are two types of confidence external and internal I like
confidence external and internal I like
confidence external and internal I like to be given the external factors so how
to be given the external factors so how
to be given the external factors so how many people here are Manchester United
many people here are Manchester United
many people here are Manchester United fans yeah I’m generally I’m generally
fans yeah I’m generally I’m generally
fans yeah I’m generally I’m generally proud to be a fan of this great club
proud to be a fan of this great club
proud to be a fan of this great club however after our disgraceful defeats
however after our disgraceful defeats
however after our disgraceful defeats for nil against Chelsea last month I was
for nil against Chelsea last month I was
for nil against Chelsea last month I was ashamed I didn’t exactly upper tells me
ashamed I didn’t exactly upper tells me
ashamed I didn’t exactly upper tells me of fine as much as I used to but after
of fine as much as I used to but after
of fine as much as I used to but after we beat City in our next game
we beat City in our next game
we beat City in our next game I became proud again this come you
I became proud again this come you
I became proud again this come you thinking how can an event that happened
thinking how can an event that happened
thinking how can an event that happened thousands of miles away having no
thousands of miles away having no
thousands of miles away having no physical effect judgment confidence the
physical effect judgment confidence the
physical effect judgment confidence the three types of external confidence like
three types of external confidence like
three types of external confidence like to begin in physical this is confidence
to begin in physical this is confidence
to begin in physical this is confidence based on your physical appearance how
based on your physical appearance how
based on your physical appearance how tall or short you are I personally
tall or short you are I personally
tall or short you are I personally believe this is the most insignificant
believe this is the most insignificant
believe this is the most insignificant type of confidence as people don’t treat
type of confidence as people don’t treat
type of confidence as people don’t treat you based on how you look but in who you
you based on how you look but in who you
you based on how you look but in who you are what your personality number two
are what your personality number two
are what your personality number two social confidence I’m sure most of us
social confidence I’m sure most of us
social confidence I’m sure most of us feel fairly confident in our social
feel fairly confident in our social
feel fairly confident in our social skills however the real test comes in S
skills however the real test comes in S
skills however the real test comes in S or any place changes
or any place changes
or any place changes I’m so most of us of meds somebody that
I’m so most of us of meds somebody that
I’m so most of us of meds somebody that seems shy and quiet at first but once
seems shy and quiet at first but once
seems shy and quiet at first but once friendship takes off they become loud
friendship takes off they become loud
friendship takes off they become loud the persona tics are 180 due to lack of
the persona tics are 180 due to lack of
the persona tics are 180 due to lack of social confidence we fear exposing who
social confidence we fear exposing who
social confidence we fear exposing who really are to people we don’t know
really are to people we don’t know
really are to people we don’t know because we fear rejection as an example
because we fear rejection as an example
because we fear rejection as an example you can all relate to
you can all relate to
you can all relate to since it is began how many of you spoken
since it is began how many of you spoken
since it is began how many of you spoken to a person on your right or left if you
to a person on your right or left if you
to a person on your right or left if you have well done if you haven’t asked
have well done if you haven’t asked
have well done if you haven’t asked yourself why the final type of external
yourself why the final type of external
yourself why the final type of external confidence is talent related confidence
confidence is talent related confidence
confidence is talent related confidence this one is rather fragile as it depends
this one is rather fragile as it depends
this one is rather fragile as it depends on how people around you interpret it
on how people around you interpret it
on how people around you interpret it for example if I was first person
for example if I was first person
for example if I was first person amazing at everything easily making
amazing at everything easily making
amazing at everything easily making school teams and being a vital member of
school teams and being a vital member of
school teams and being a vital member of the team however a parent’s not really
the team however a parent’s not really
the team however a parent’s not really acknowledged as possibility but they
acknowledged as possibility but they
acknowledged as possibility but they looked at my grades and I was struggling
looked at my grades and I was struggling
looked at my grades and I was struggling there in such a situation
there in such a situation
there in such a situation any confidence from my spots ability
any confidence from my spots ability
any confidence from my spots ability would be next to zero compared to the
would be next to zero compared to the
would be next to zero compared to the pressure I have to prove my grades now a
pressure I have to prove my grades now a
pressure I have to prove my grades now a ton of confidence it only has one factor
ton of confidence it only has one factor
ton of confidence it only has one factor which is self esteem self esteem is a by
which is self esteem self esteem is a by
which is self esteem self esteem is a by a landslide the most important type of
a landslide the most important type of
a landslide the most important type of confidence as it’s what defines you and
confidence as it’s what defines you and
confidence as it’s what defines you and drives you who are you beyond your
drives you who are you beyond your
drives you who are you beyond your grades beyond your physique beyond any
grades beyond your physique beyond any
grades beyond your physique beyond any talents you possess not with all of us
talents you possess not with all of us
talents you possess not with all of us self-confidence isn’t something
self-confidence isn’t something
self-confidence isn’t something embodiment it’s developed over time and
embodiment it’s developed over time and
embodiment it’s developed over time and with these four simple steps you can
with these four simple steps you can
with these four simple steps you can improve it
improve it
improve it number one have goals having an
number one have goals having an
number one have goals having an objective to work towards immediately
objective to work towards immediately
objective to work towards immediately increases your confidence as every time
increases your confidence as every time
increases your confidence as every time you achieve something that sort of
you achieve something that sort of
you achieve something that sort of achievement is converted into confidence
achievement is converted into confidence
achievement is converted into confidence as you take a step closer to your
as you take a step closer to your
as you take a step closer to your vertical gain individuality become
vertical gain individuality become
vertical gain individuality become self-aware can’t keep following the
self-aware can’t keep following the
self-aware can’t keep following the crowd that’s because everybody further
crowd that’s because everybody further
crowd that’s because everybody further tests that does it that doesn’t justify
tests that does it that doesn’t justify
tests that does it that doesn’t justify that D you got you need to look at
that D you got you need to look at
that D you got you need to look at yourself what you need to improve I
yourself what you need to improve I
yourself what you need to improve I don’t try to copy others you’re unique
don’t try to copy others you’re unique
don’t try to copy others you’re unique so come with your solution be optimistic
so come with your solution be optimistic
so come with your solution be optimistic now when we change to improve ourselves
now when we change to improve ourselves
now when we change to improve ourselves it’s not easy
it’s not easy
it’s not easy thus we need an optimistic attitude
thus we need an optimistic attitude
thus we need an optimistic attitude for example I become a levels in early
for example I become a levels in early
for example I become a levels in early September this year and beef ever been
September this year and beef ever been
September this year and beef ever been going well within the first two weeks I
going well within the first two weeks I
going well within the first two weeks I was considering choosing my career
was considering choosing my career
was considering choosing my career choices like I thought a new physics but
choices like I thought a new physics but
choices like I thought a new physics but apparently was clueless but absoluto
apparently was clueless but absoluto
apparently was clueless but absoluto flirting at the press won’t get to me
flirting at the press won’t get to me
flirting at the press won’t get to me say looking at what am I doing wrong
say looking at what am I doing wrong
say looking at what am I doing wrong hardware improvements I put a weight
hardware improvements I put a weight
hardware improvements I put a weight lifted off my shoulders look for physics
lifted off my shoulders look for physics
lifted off my shoulders look for physics classes now I don’t feel like a mood to
classes now I don’t feel like a mood to
classes now I don’t feel like a mood to die heavy entertain for two hours
die heavy entertain for two hours
die heavy entertain for two hours finally don’t be afraid of failure
finally don’t be afraid of failure
finally don’t be afraid of failure success and failure are two sides of the
success and failure are two sides of the
success and failure are two sides of the same coin
same coin
same coin sometimes one flip is only need to get
sometimes one flip is only need to get
sometimes one flip is only need to get it right but most of the time you need
it right but most of the time you need
it right but most of the time you need to keep trying I need to finish over the
to keep trying I need to finish over the
to keep trying I need to finish over the quote by Albert Einstein a person who
quote by Albert Einstein a person who
quote by Albert Einstein a person who never made a mistake how about reading
never made a mistake how about reading
never made a mistake how about reading anything new so don’t be afraid
anything new so don’t be afraid
anything new so don’t be afraid thank you
thank you
thank you [Applause]
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