everybody’s gonna make some bad choices and some of them could cost you
and some of them could cost you
and some of them could cost you seemingly everything but it may be worth
seemingly everything but it may be worth
seemingly everything but it may be worth it I believe that every relationship
it I believe that every relationship
it I believe that every relationship every part of life every part of a human
every part of life every part of a human
every part of life every part of a human being needs a compelling future but the
being needs a compelling future but the
being needs a compelling future but the future is not more compelling than today
future is not more compelling than today
future is not more compelling than today today could be tough but if the future
today could be tough but if the future
today could be tough but if the future is compelling we can get them
is compelling we can get them
is compelling we can get them [Music]
[Music]
[Music] I’ve always wanted to know the answer to
I’ve always wanted to know the answer to
I’ve always wanted to know the answer to a question then obsessed by the question
a question then obsessed by the question
a question then obsessed by the question of what makes the difference in people’s
of what makes the difference in people’s
of what makes the difference in people’s life I was not popular in school I loved
life I was not popular in school I loved
life I was not popular in school I loved people so I was passionate about
people so I was passionate about
people so I was passionate about figuring what’s the difference in people
figuring what’s the difference in people
figuring what’s the difference in people why is it that some people are given
why is it that some people are given
why is it that some people are given everything into the type they really do
everything into the type they really do
everything into the type they really do have parents that love them that are
have parents that love them that are
have parents that love them that are there for them they have tremendous
there for them they have tremendous
there for them they have tremendous educational background they have all the
educational background they have all the
educational background they have all the economic resources and they end up
economic resources and they end up
economic resources and they end up spending life going in and out of rehab
you know they have all the resources and
you know they have all the resources and then you need somebody who’s been you
then you need somebody who’s been you
then you need somebody who’s been you know abused or no one’s been there for
know abused or no one’s been there for
know abused or no one’s been there for them or they’ve been physically abused
them or they’ve been physically abused
them or they’ve been physically abused or sexually abused or the worst things
or sexually abused or the worst things
or sexually abused or the worst things you could possibly happen to a human
you could possibly happen to a human
you could possibly happen to a human being and they turn out to be some of
being and they turn out to be some of
being and they turn out to be some of the finest human beings you’d ever need
the finest human beings you’d ever need
the finest human beings you’d ever need in your life we’re out there working to
in your life we’re out there working to
in your life we’re out there working to help other people to make a difference
so we all want to believe that our lives
so we all want to believe that our lives that turned out because of our biography
that turned out because of our biography
that turned out because of our biography and the reality is we can all find
and the reality is we can all find
and the reality is we can all find people with a horrible biographer you
people with a horrible biographer you
people with a horrible biographer you have an extraordinary life and we have
have an extraordinary life and we have
have an extraordinary life and we have people than extraordinary biography who
people than extraordinary biography who
people than extraordinary biography who have a life that none of us for what a
have a life that none of us for what a
have a life that none of us for what a trade book so what’s the real challenge
trade book so what’s the real challenge
trade book so what’s the real challenge I believe that the challenge in
I believe that the challenge in
I believe that the challenge in relationships that life every area is
relationships that life every area is
relationships that life every area is emotional fitness
how did Bill Gates change his economic
how did Bill Gates change his economic world whose software designer that
world whose software designer that
world whose software designer that didn’t say how to wave a better software
didn’t say how to wave a better software
didn’t say how to wave a better software he asked and got everyone else fast how
he asked and got everyone else fast how
he asked and got everyone else fast how do we become the intelligence that
do we become the intelligence that
do we become the intelligence that controls all computers worldwide how do
controls all computers worldwide how do
controls all computers worldwide how do we become the intelligence the controls
we become the intelligence the controls
we become the intelligence the controls all computers worldwide what do you want
all computers worldwide what do you want
all computers worldwide what do you want what’s your outcome what’s the result
what’s your outcome what’s the result
what’s your outcome what’s the result you’re after that changes what you do
twice alone sit-ups it’s not Rocky
twice alone sit-ups it’s not Rocky he said now we were so drunk we had
he said now we were so drunk we had
he said now we were so drunk we had nothing no food or money because the one
nothing no food or money because the one
nothing no food or money because the one thing I love most in the world with my
thing I love most in the world with my
thing I love most in the world with my dog he said I love my dog cause he gave
dog he said I love my dog cause he gave
dog he said I love my dog cause he gave me unconditional love unlike my wife and
me unconditional love unlike my wife and
me unconditional love unlike my wife and he said so when Apple was thought we
he said so when Apple was thought we
he said so when Apple was thought we were so broke just to survive I couldn’t
were so broke just to survive I couldn’t
were so broke just to survive I couldn’t even feed my dog so I went to a liquor
even feed my dog so I went to a liquor
even feed my dog so I went to a liquor store he was the lowest day of my life
store he was the lowest day of my life
store he was the lowest day of my life I stood outside a liquor store trying to
I stood outside a liquor store trying to
I stood outside a liquor store trying to sell my dog to strangers that try to
sell my dog to strangers that try to
sell my dog to strangers that try to sell my dogs at 50 bucks can he sit upon
sell my dogs at 50 bucks can he sit upon
sell my dogs at 50 bucks can he sit upon this one guy negotiated was they bought
this one guy negotiated was they bought
this one guy negotiated was they bought my dog I mean my best friend or is the
my dog I mean my best friend or is the
my dog I mean my best friend or is the $25 he said I walked away from there and
$25 he said I walked away from there and
$25 he said I walked away from there and I cried it was the worst thing that ever
I cried it was the worst thing that ever
I cried it was the worst thing that ever happened my life he’s a two weeks later
happened my life he’s a two weeks later
happened my life he’s a two weeks later I’m watching a fight
I’m watching a fight
I’m watching a fight this white guy that’s getting bludgeoned
this white guy that’s getting bludgeoned
this white guy that’s getting bludgeoned but just keeps on coming and he said I
but just keeps on coming and he said I
but just keeps on coming and he said I got an idea he said I soon as the fight
got an idea he said I soon as the fight
got an idea he said I soon as the fight ends I started writing he said I wrote
ends I started writing he said I wrote
ends I started writing he said I wrote for 20 straight hours I did not sleep I
for 20 straight hours I did not sleep I
for 20 straight hours I did not sleep I wrote the entire movie in 20 hours
wrote the entire movie in 20 hours
wrote the entire movie in 20 hours straight right then
straight right then
straight right then saw the fight wrote the movie whole
saw the fight wrote the movie whole
saw the fight wrote the movie whole thing done he said I was shaking at the
thing done he said I was shaking at the
thing done he said I was shaking at the end I was so excited so I really knew
end I was so excited so I really knew
end I was so excited so I really knew man I knew what I wanted I knew why I
man I knew what I wanted I knew why I
man I knew what I wanted I knew why I wanted he to just like it he’s that
wanted he to just like it he’s that
wanted he to just like it he’s that formula he said but I said man I took
formula he said but I said man I took
formula he said but I said man I took the action now it’s time to deliver and
the action now it’s time to deliver and
the action now it’s time to deliver and so he said I went out started trying
so he said I went out started trying
so he said I went out started trying selling agents and they all would read
selling agents and they all would read
selling agents and they all would read it they say you know this is predictable
it they say you know this is predictable
it they say you know this is predictable this is stupid this is sappy he said I
this is stupid this is sappy he said I
this is stupid this is sappy he said I wrote down all the things they said and
wrote down all the things they said and
wrote down all the things they said and I read them the night of the Oscars when
I read them the night of the Oscars when
I read them the night of the Oscars when we won and they only spent a million
we won and they only spent a million
we won and they only spent a million dollars to make Rocky and it grows 200
dollars to make Rocky and it grows 200
dollars to make Rocky and it grows 200 million dollars
the most important thing of all what we
the most important thing of all what we start out with why why is it a must for
start out with why why is it a must for
start out with why why is it a must for you it doesn’t have to be here against
you it doesn’t have to be here against
you it doesn’t have to be here against the wall but it has to be something
the wall but it has to be something
the wall but it has to be something you’re hungry for because the only
you’re hungry for because the only
you’re hungry for because the only difference in people is hungry if you’re
difference in people is hungry if you’re
difference in people is hungry if you’re not hungry
not hungry
not hungry get around people that are hungry and
get around people that are hungry and
get around people that are hungry and something will hit you you watch a
something will hit you you watch a
something will hit you you watch a conversation you get around people are
conversation you get around people are
conversation you get around people are doing better and all of a sudden you
doing better and all of a sudden you
doing better and all of a sudden you start going myself what do these people
start going myself what do these people
start going myself what do these people need to get started why aren’t there
need to get started why aren’t there
need to get started why aren’t there starting we all know the answers fair
starting we all know the answers fair
starting we all know the answers fair but the difference with you guys or me
but the difference with you guys or me
but the difference with you guys or me or anybody’s follow-through is more more
or anybody’s follow-through is more more
or anybody’s follow-through is more more afraid up for what life would be like if
afraid up for what life would be like if
afraid up for what life would be like if we don’t follow through then the person
we don’t follow through then the person
we don’t follow through then the person is willing to settle for what they got
is willing to settle for what they got
is willing to settle for what they got and kind of hope it’ll change and maybe
and kind of hope it’ll change and maybe
and kind of hope it’ll change and maybe purchase something for the moment and
purchase something for the moment and
purchase something for the moment and then not follow through with it it’s
then not follow through with it it’s
then not follow through with it it’s almost like people overachievers have a
almost like people overachievers have a
almost like people overachievers have a little more fear they’re a little more
little more fear they’re a little more
little more fear they’re a little more afraid of missing out they’re afraid of
afraid of missing out they’re afraid of
afraid of missing out they’re afraid of not being there or they got a strong
not being there or they got a strong
not being there or they got a strong enough reason to follow through
but grace gets magnified the more you
but grace gets magnified the more you appreciate it
appreciate it
appreciate it the more you notice that you’re guided
the more you notice that you’re guided
the more you notice that you’re guided or that things that happen for you don’t
or that things that happen for you don’t
or that things that happen for you don’t even have a date with destiny you’ll
even have a date with destiny you’ll
even have a date with destiny you’ll have a point belief that is life doesn’t
have a point belief that is life doesn’t
have a point belief that is life doesn’t happen to you it happens for you
happen to you it happens for you
happen to you it happens for you the church I have to figure out how it’s
the church I have to figure out how it’s
the church I have to figure out how it’s happening for you if you don’t notice it
happening for you if you don’t notice it
happening for you if you don’t notice it you won’t experience it
you won’t experience it
you won’t experience it [Music]
so think about what’s the Holy Grail
so think about what’s the Holy Grail between somebody taking action or not
between somebody taking action or not
between somebody taking action or not it’s one word certainty
when somebody is absolutely certain date
when somebody is absolutely certain date you know the carbon boarded believed
you know the carbon boarded believed
you know the carbon boarded believed right but you know you can believe in a
right but you know you can believe in a
right but you know you can believe in a general level or you can believe a
general level or you can believe a
general level or you can believe a certain when you’re absolutely certain
certain when you’re absolutely certain
certain when you’re absolutely certain that if I do this it’s going to get that
that if I do this it’s going to get that
that if I do this it’s going to get that result and that results going to change
result and that results going to change
result and that results going to change my life you’ll do it when you think it
my life you’ll do it when you think it
my life you’ll do it when you think it absolutely is not going to work you’re
absolutely is not going to work you’re
absolutely is not going to work you’re never going to do it the middle no-man’s
never going to do it the middle no-man’s
never going to do it the middle no-man’s land of maybe the work maybe it will
land of maybe the work maybe it will
land of maybe the work maybe it will that’s the piece that kills people all
that’s the piece that kills people all
that’s the piece that kills people all right so if it’s a must for you you got
right so if it’s a must for you you got
right so if it’s a must for you you got to make it work
you want to have the emotion
you want to have the emotion psychological strength is that’s going
psychological strength is that’s going
psychological strength is that’s going to carry you through when the mechanics
to carry you through when the mechanics
to carry you through when the mechanics are boring or frustrating or when things
are boring or frustrating or when things
are boring or frustrating or when things aren’t working out your emotion your
aren’t working out your emotion your
aren’t working out your emotion your psychologies will carry you it’ll get
psychologies will carry you it’ll get
psychologies will carry you it’ll get you to keep doing it everyone knows if
you to keep doing it everyone knows if
you to keep doing it everyone knows if you’ve done any studies dr. Seligman
you’ve done any studies dr. Seligman
you’ve done any studies dr. Seligman very famous for doing Studies on
very famous for doing Studies on
very famous for doing Studies on optimism and in those studies you really
optimism and in those studies you really
optimism and in those studies you really found out people that are pessimists are
found out people that are pessimists are
found out people that are pessimists are much more realistic they’re much more
much more realistic they’re much more
much more realistic they’re much more accurate if you give them a test and you
accurate if you give them a test and you
accurate if you give them a test and you ask them to look at something and give
ask them to look at something and give
ask them to look at something and give you a size measurement of it or to
you a size measurement of it or to
you a size measurement of it or to evaluate their own success or failure at
evaluate their own success or failure at
evaluate their own success or failure at a task and every study Seligman’s down
a task and every study Seligman’s down
a task and every study Seligman’s down you to the University I think
you to the University I think
you to the University I think Pennsylvania for member correctly
Pennsylvania for member correctly
Pennsylvania for member correctly originally what he found was that
originally what he found was that
originally what he found was that optimists always see themselves as doing
optimists always see themselves as doing
optimists always see themselves as doing better than they really did they
better than they really did they
better than they really did they basically be asked himself what happens
basically be asked himself what happens
basically be asked himself what happens to pessimists there are 10 times more
to pessimists there are 10 times more
to pessimists there are 10 times more accurate but here’s what he found out
accurate but here’s what he found out
accurate but here’s what he found out what he found out is because the people
what he found out is because the people
what he found out is because the people who are accurate never push themselves
who are accurate never push themselves
who are accurate never push themselves because they know it’s never going to
because they know it’s never going to
because they know it’s never going to work anyway whereas the optimist sees it
work anyway whereas the optimist sees it
work anyway whereas the optimist sees it better than it is so they keep doing it
better than it is so they keep doing it
better than it is so they keep doing it because they have the illusion they did
because they have the illusion they did
because they have the illusion they did well we’ll all do even better next time
well we’ll all do even better next time
well we’ll all do even better next time and because that optimism they did it
and because that optimism they did it
and because that optimism they did it more often and so optimists succeed at a
more often and so optimists succeed at a
more often and so optimists succeed at a four to five fold depending on the task
four to five fold depending on the task
four to five fold depending on the task result ultimately beyond anything that a
result ultimately beyond anything that a
result ultimately beyond anything that a pessimist will do and they’re not as
pessimist will do and they’re not as
pessimist will do and they’re not as accurate
cultivate that sense of wealth that
cultivate that sense of wealth that sense of abundance in here the more you
sense of abundance in here the more you
sense of abundance in here the more you can feel that sense of joy the more easy
can feel that sense of joy the more easy
can feel that sense of joy the more easy it’s going to be for you to do
it’s going to be for you to do
it’s going to be for you to do financially because you’re not going to
financially because you’re not going to
financially because you’re not going to be in this scarce fearful mode now
be in this scarce fearful mode now
be in this scarce fearful mode now that’s not enough by itself you have
that’s not enough by itself you have
that’s not enough by itself you have this great sense of abundance and do the
this great sense of abundance and do the
this great sense of abundance and do the wrong mechanics and be a disaster
wealth is a product of the mind again no
wealth is a product of the mind again no amount of money you ever achieve will
amount of money you ever achieve will
amount of money you ever achieve will make you wealthy gratitude will and
make you wealthy gratitude will and
make you wealthy gratitude will and living a life where you know you’re
living a life where you know you’re
living a life where you know you’re contributing adding value will that’s
contributing adding value will that’s
contributing adding value will that’s what’s going to make you feel wealthy
what’s going to make you feel wealthy
what’s going to make you feel wealthy where you’re a giver not a taker
where you’re a giver not a taker
where you’re a giver not a taker does mean you can’t receive but someone
does mean you can’t receive but someone
does mean you can’t receive but someone is always looking at what am I getting
is always looking at what am I getting
is always looking at what am I getting out of every single thing they do is
out of every single thing they do is
out of every single thing they do is always poor
[Music]
[Music] but the basis of all that I do comes
but the basis of all that I do comes
but the basis of all that I do comes down to knowing the difference in your
down to knowing the difference in your
down to knowing the difference in your life your relationship your physical
life your relationship your physical
life your relationship your physical life your emotional eyes any aspect of
life your emotional eyes any aspect of
life your emotional eyes any aspect of your life comes down to this sense of
your life comes down to this sense of
your life comes down to this sense of psychological strength and emotional
psychological strength and emotional
psychological strength and emotional fitness what I mean by that is this
fitness what I mean by that is this
fitness what I mean by that is this discipline never works long time never
discipline never works long time never
discipline never works long time never what works is when you become addicted
what works is when you become addicted
what works is when you become addicted to something positively new you trade
to something positively new you trade
to something positively new you trade one addiction for another you shift from
one addiction for another you shift from
one addiction for another you shift from having to doing something to wanting to
having to doing something to wanting to
having to doing something to wanting to do something so our focus is how to make
do something so our focus is how to make
do something so our focus is how to make that happen
everybody’s going to make some bad
everybody’s going to make some bad choices and some of them could cost you
choices and some of them could cost you
choices and some of them could cost you seemingly everything but it may be worth
seemingly everything but it may be worth
seemingly everything but it may be worth it
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