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I moved back to Penang for a long stay this year
Because of the parental relationship
Then I started to realize that
My mother seems to be deserted in her life circle
Because everyone is using that smart phone
Later I gave her a smart phone.
Teach her how to use WhatsApp
Come and record to her sister
She is very nervous
She pressed the microphone and then:
“Hello! Hello?
Sister?
no sound”
(laughter)
Soon, her sister
Pass this WhatsApp recording to her:
“Yeah, you just say
Anything you can say
Don’t always say “hahahaha” right there?
Just say it directly.”
Later, some friends also passed some WhatsApp recordings to her.
I found something very interesting
For example, her friend said:
“Oh, what did you eat?”
“Your child is back, right?”
Then my mom will immediately answer:
“Yes, you are full.”
“Yes, Jiaxian, he is back.”
She answered while listening
(laughter)
The result is that “Jian Yin is back.”
I listened deeply to my heart
Because of my original name
Not called Ah Yin, nor Jia Xian
My original name bears our parents of the previous generation
A promise to the next generation
Maybe the last generation was too poor
So they very much hope that their children will be prosperous
So my original name was Yang Ronggui.
(laughter)
Yang Ronggui was originally very rational for me.
A life that is very hard to plan
But eventually I lived out the life of Yang Jiaxian.
This one thing must start from 17 years ago
I just graduated from college at that time
Then I became an electronic telecommunications engineer
But when I was in college, I was exposed to the work of broadcasting.
It seems to be in the job
I found a way to make myself very comfortable
Very happy
Staying in the moment
So after I came out to work
Also desperately writing letters to radio stations to apply for broadcasting
But under the illusion
I was admitted to a television station as a journalist
Journalist
However, I did not edit the Department of Journalism
But at that time I actually wanted to try
So I quickly returned to my hometown in Penang
Then ask my family’s opinion
My brother said: “Hey! Your income as a reporter
Less than the engineer’s income.”
Then my mom said: “If you want to resign, then you have to pay a lot of money.”
Because I used to apply for a college loan
Then there is a contract with the company
Six years after graduation
When I only did a year
So you have to pay a lot of money
My father was even more assertive
He said: “Never!
Do not do this kind of work
Not long term
(laughter)
I took these three back to Kuala Lumpur
The next day I returned to the office
The first thing, I opened a computer to resign my letter
(laughter)
I made a letter of resignation
I can’t pay for it
Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday
It’s a pain
Because Friday I will reply to the TV station.
But the people around me said to me:
“You’re crazy! You read engineering for so long.”
and then? You haven’t read any political department or news department now.
TV production has not been repaired
You are not even the Chinese Language Department
Why do you do news reporters with others?
So that is a fear
They think: How can you have a future when you do this as a journalist?
Then the value is not worth it?
Because you were originally in the Department of Electronic and Telecommunications Engineering.
So we always feel very scared for these things
But fortunately this time my phone rang
It’s my mom calling
My mother told me
(applause)
She said: “I have discussed with your father these days.
If you really want to do it, then go ahead and do it!
We will help you find ways to debt.”
(applause)
In this way, I handed over my life’s first letter of resignation.
From 1999 until 2016
17 years today
I did not turn back
I want now
Why do we have the courage to make this decision?
My parents’ income is less than 1500 blocks
If you really want to pay back
We really haven’t come yet
But my mom, because they love me so much.
As long as I am happy
They don’t think too much about anything
Don’t think too much what does it mean?
In fact, it is under a state of unthinking
Your most basic and relaxing
Not thinking too much without thinking about your gains and losses
But your heart wants to do
Do not want to do anything
Maybe just because you think it will be happy
That’s good
Why happiness is so important
Because when you are happy
You can also bring happiness to people around you
(applause)
It’s been 17 years.
I still keep my…
I’m still doing one…
Strictly speaking, I’m still a TV reporter
Although I was talking about food
Many people think of me as a food show host
But actually I’m a reporter
I’m still doing this job
And I love this job
And I’m very, very happy
I even know very well
My happiness is not a kind of happiness and enthusiasm faded in three to five years
Nor is it a pleasure to play a horse ticket today for 35 days
After happy is not happy
I know this kind of happiness very much. It’s a calm happiness.
It has always been
No matter what happens no matter what setbacks you meet
It is a kind of sustainable happiness
My happiness does not actually come from
Because I host a food show
Because some friends told me:
“Of course you are happy! You eat, drink and play all day.”
(laughter)
But I want to eat, drink and drink every day
Not necessarily happy
And 17 years ago, even from small to large
I never wanted to be a food show host
In fact, there was one thing that affected me when I was very young.
My grandfather, he is operating a canteen
Not the late night cafeteria, it is the school cafeteria
My mom sells curry noodles in the cafeteria
I remember for a while I often saw her from morning till night
Then may prepare 200 bowls of curry noodles
Sometimes it will sell a lot
Sometimes ten bowls, twenty bowls or even fifty bowls are left
I remember I once asked her:
“Hey, you’re left with a lot of waste like this
And can’t stay until the next day
Why don’t you sell less and you’re ready to go less!
Then there is no loss! ”
We are very concerned about this kind of gains and losses
We do not want to lose ourselves
We want to earn
My mother said to me: “It can’t be Jesus!
Because some students suddenly thought of eating curry noodles today
You are prepared so little
He didn’t have to eat. He was late. What should he do? ”
This sentence impressed me
I always remember this sentence because he reminded me
The original meaning of food is to make people feel full
Give food and clothing
After getting food and clothing
You feel good and happy
So food it to others
It’s kind of good, it’s a kind of love
Food is more than good and delicious
It actually covers a lot
So when I had a chance to make a food show
I watched many food shows around the world
Discovered most of the original food programs
Their perspective is
Cut in from the perspective of a food-eater
I think at that time
In addition to this food eater’s point of view
Say this delicious and delicious food is not delicious, how about the taste
Can we also give the audience another perspective
That is from the perspective of food producers
From the perspective of a diet worker
Because food is actually our life
One of the most important content
Covers a lot of space
Can we let the audience see
Some people are paying for these foods on your desk
What is the relationship between food and people?
What are the memories of food and people?
When you think of this food, who do you think of?
This is an emotional memory
In addition, food also has some links to the ground
For example, some local people have some kind of common emotion.
How must he eat this food?
What material must I use?
What is the link between this material and the earth?
What is the relationship with the local customs?
So it actually covers a lot
So in my program
I rarely say: delicious and delicious
(laughter)
Why are these stories so important?
The reason is simple
These stories are our stories
We do not record, we do not listen
Who will record it?
We cannot rely on official resources
Official resources used to record official history
Official history, sometimes we know
It is a history through filtration, landscaping and bleaching
But the story of civilians, it is a true history
It is a history of how people survived
Is a human record
This kind of record is like our body’s calcium
Its constant loss
After five years, ten years
There may have been a lot of personnel changes
But because you recorded it
Later people can have reference to the possibility of tracing
So this is a pleasure that my job gives me
It has been allowing me to calm down and listen
Quiet to record
Do not make any judgment
Do not say delicious, not delicious
And it’s just the record of the safety score.
Truthful record
In this age of embarrassment
The age of social media
Many people can speak
Many people can publish
Many people can criticize
But not necessarily, some people are willing to listen and follow records
I remember I had interviewed a fried hawker
He frittered for twenty or thirty years
He is an ancestral business
Passed from father’s to father
Then pass on to his children
Business is good
Every minute you want to go there
You may have to wait for an hour to eat his fried dumplings
But his face is stink
(laughter)
It seems like someone owes him millions
I have been waiting hard for him
Want to talk to him
I went for many days
Eating his fried oyster strips and smiling at him all the time.
But he still has a bad face
I finally waited for him one day
I asked him: “What are you upset about?”
He said: “How can my life be happy?
I originally wanted to be a designer
But I’m now frying twenty or thirty years
And it’s also doomed probably for the rest of my life
I’m going to fire it.”
He didn’t want to take over the fry
But everyone around him is jealous of him:
“You’re not dutiful, you didn’t use it.
The fried dumplings that your parents and your father-in-law gave you
Their hard work, you don’t want to pass on! ”
As a result, he was married for many years
Later when he decided to take over the business
He started to be smashed again:
“Oh, it was delicious in his father’s time.
The child is not good now.”
(laughter)
As a result, he was paralyzed for decades.
How can such a person be happy?
If you ask me to host a food show for about 10 years
I learned the biggest from this job
And what is the best thing that can help me in my life?
I think I learned how to accept the difference
We are on the table sometimes
We put our own taste buds values
Live has become a powerful
As if I know how to eat, where do you know how to eat?
I learned to eat, I know which one is delicious
Where is that delicious?
You give me food, I do not want to eat!
Eat to dogs, do not eat dogs!
But you turn around and look back
The whole family shop is eating in the locals
Are those people not people?
(laughter)
We sometimes have our own personal preferences, personal preferences
Right or wrong, as if living a world truth
It seems that you think that it should be the truth of the world
As if you think bad, it should
Damn, you should give me something
You should hurt me
It seems like we are right or wrong.
Allow us to hurt a person
The same is true for people
We are often in our daily life
Because this is good or bad
We don’t know how many people hurt
We see a person
I don’t like his attitude
Hey, I hate him.
It seems that his attitude is not in keeping with your values
You have the power to hurt him
But this is obviously just a difference in values
Under the sun, each of us is unique
Everyone has a difference
Even twins will have different
I also like not to eat
Because we are all born out of different parents
We grew up in different places
Our different origins, different localities
Westerners and Orientals are not the same
Difference is the most reasonable thing in the world
The most natural thing
But we often because of this difference
We look down on others
Think for yourself:
“Oh, it’s hard to eat half dead
I have a high taste
The taste of superiors puts others down
But we don’t know
How much harm have we done to the lives of others?
Some people have his life
Not necessarily like Yang Jiaxian
He can choose
And he was allowed to be his happy life
However, he is not allowed to fire hawkers.
Maybe he’s frying
Smelly face
It is already inside his life resources
Life resources inside
Show the best
We hate someone
I think he’s bad enough to do something bad and half dead
But this may also be inside his life resources
The best he can present
Because everyone…
I believe no one wants to show him the worst
Everyone wants to present his best look
I am 43 years old this year
This is not a time when there is no emotion
And then maybe I think there are still many
There may be times when the emotions
There may be times when you are not happy or happy.
But I often tell myself at this moment
You want to calm down
Then think about it
What are you used to doing these days?
Then I wrote it down
I am used to complaining
Complain about this, complain about that
Complain about this, everything can complain
Bad lighting
Can complain about anything
It seems that only you are the victim all over the world
Others are injurers
I often used to compare
Compare this good, this bad
This pair, this wrong
Like my values, I’m the judge
But in fact, we are not judges of others
Everyone’s life
Everyone is only the owner of his own life
We do not have the right to judge the lives of others
Then I also used to calculate
Calculate profit and loss, I am the most powerful
It is not worthwhile to calculate this matter
Is there any harm for me?
I am used to calculating
In fact, I do not understand these habits
In the end, I was just talking to the emotions I just said.
Or is it happy or unhappy?
What are some of the direct relationships
But since I have these habits
This period of time
I’m not happy, I’m not happy
Is that going to look back?
If I escape these habits
If I allow myself
Habits do not have these habits
This is a happy and unhappy condition
Is there a chance to change?
You see, I’m still accustomed to falling into this kind of
Rational analysis of the head
But fortunately this time
the phone is ringing
My mom’s phone
Her friends pass this WhatsApp
Record a message to her
She is still as always
Very happy, answer while listening to a message
And it’s an instant answer
Very enjoyable
I didn’t stop her again
Because just like 17 years ago
She allowed me to be my happiest self
I also hope that if this life
You have to choose one and do something very useful
I hope I can continue learning
How to allow others to be happy
Allow others to be happy
Perhaps it is the greatest compassion for the lives of others
(applause)
4 minutes timeout
(laughter)
I wish you all a Happy Diwali
(Laughter) (Applause)
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