good morning believe nation today we’re going to talk about how to deal with
going to talk about how to deal with
going to talk about how to deal with negative people the second rule is my
negative people the second rule is my
negative people the second rule is my personal favorite and make sure to stick
personal favorite and make sure to stick
personal favorite and make sure to stick around all the way to the end for my
around all the way to the end for my
around all the way to the end for my thoughts and some special bonus clips as
thoughts and some special bonus clips as
thoughts and some special bonus clips as well and as always if somebody says
well and as always if somebody says
well and as always if somebody says something that’s really deeply
something that’s really deeply
something that’s really deeply meaningful to you or really helps you in
meaningful to you or really helps you in
meaningful to you or really helps you in some way please leave in the comments
some way please leave in the comments
some way please leave in the comments below and put quotes around it so others
below and put quotes around it so others
below and put quotes around it so others can be inspired as well enjoy it’s
can be inspired as well enjoy it’s
can be inspired as well enjoy it’s necessary that you detoxify your life
necessary that you detoxify your life
necessary that you detoxify your life that you have to look at your life and
that you have to look at your life and
that you have to look at your life and look at the people in your life and Jim
look at the people in your life and Jim
look at the people in your life and Jim Rohn set ask the question what is this
Rohn set ask the question what is this
Rohn set ask the question what is this relationship doing to me see most people
relationship doing to me see most people
relationship doing to me see most people never live their dreams because they are
never live their dreams because they are
never live their dreams because they are saddled with too many toxic negative
saddled with too many toxic negative
saddled with too many toxic negative energy draining people in their lives
energy draining people in their lives
energy draining people in their lives God look at the people around you and
God look at the people around you and
God look at the people around you and asked is this this relationship is it
asked is this this relationship is it
asked is this this relationship is it helping me to grow mentally emotionally
helping me to grow mentally emotionally
helping me to grow mentally emotionally financially spiritually on a financial
financially spiritually on a financial
financially spiritually on a financial part MIT did a study you earned within
part MIT did a study you earned within
part MIT did a study you earned within two to three thousand dollars of your
two to three thousand dollars of your
two to three thousand dollars of your closest friends it’s necessary if you
closest friends it’s necessary if you
closest friends it’s necessary if you are serious about your dream that you
are serious about your dream that you
are serious about your dream that you detoxify your life
detoxify your life
detoxify your life dr. Dennis Kim rod of Atlanta if you are
dr. Dennis Kim rod of Atlanta if you are
dr. Dennis Kim rod of Atlanta if you are the smartest one in your group you need
the smartest one in your group you need
the smartest one in your group you need to get a new group what I heard that I
to get a new group what I heard that I
to get a new group what I heard that I got all the broke people out my life
got all the broke people out my life
got all the broke people out my life because people rub off on you John H
because people rub off on you John H
because people rub off on you John H Johnson who had a loan of five hundred
Johnson who had a loan of five hundred
Johnson who had a loan of five hundred dollars from his mother and built a four
dollars from his mother and built a four
dollars from his mother and built a four hundred million dollar Empire with ebony
hundred million dollar Empire with ebony
hundred million dollar Empire with ebony magazine and Jet magazine fired his best
magazine and Jet magazine fired his best
magazine and Jet magazine fired his best friend and and the report asked why did
friend and and the report asked why did
friend and and the report asked why did you fire your best friend he said he
you fire your best friend he said he
you fire your best friend he said he told me I couldn’t do it he’s in hell
told me I couldn’t do it he’s in hell
told me I couldn’t do it he’s in hell how do you think I could do it I need
how do you think I could do it I need
how do you think I could do it I need anybody on my payroll to tell me so you
anybody on my payroll to tell me so you
anybody on my payroll to tell me so you have to look at your life and say hey
have to look at your life and say hey
have to look at your life and say hey who’s in my circle who’s in my ear
let me tell you my thoughts about number
let me tell you my thoughts about number one thing you should do when you got to
one thing you should do when you got to
one thing you should do when you got to deal with negative people use it use
deal with negative people use it use
deal with negative people use it use their energy use that energy they put
their energy use that energy they put
their energy use that energy they put out there use that challenge for your
out there use that challenge for your
out there use that challenge for your own character development really see
own character development really see
own character development really see what I’ve some is negative around me I
what I’ve some is negative around me I
what I’ve some is negative around me I don’t sit there and I don’t become a
don’t sit there and I don’t become a
don’t sit there and I don’t become a victim oh gosh they’re such negative I
victim oh gosh they’re such negative I
victim oh gosh they’re such negative I don’t go home and assume their energy
don’t go home and assume their energy
don’t go home and assume their energy and now I’m negative instead I go you
and now I’m negative instead I go you
and now I’m negative instead I go you know what this is a moment to test am I
know what this is a moment to test am I
know what this is a moment to test am I really in command of my emotions and how
really in command of my emotions and how
really in command of my emotions and how I think or are they am i giving my power
I think or are they am i giving my power
I think or are they am i giving my power over to the world so that they can just
over to the world so that they can just
over to the world so that they can just take my energy and turn it to what they
take my energy and turn it to what they
take my energy and turn it to what they want or am I in charge so I use it as a
want or am I in charge so I use it as a
want or am I in charge so I use it as a challenge not as something I don’t have
challenge not as something I don’t have
challenge not as something I don’t have to challenge or change them immediately
to challenge or change them immediately
to challenge or change them immediately I’ll get to that point but I get to the
I’ll get to that point but I get to the
I’ll get to that point but I get to the point where say you know what huh here’s
point where say you know what huh here’s
point where say you know what huh here’s a little challenge of world’s throwing
a little challenge of world’s throwing
a little challenge of world’s throwing me right now can I stay on my game can I
me right now can I stay on my game can I
me right now can I stay on my game can I stay centered
stay centered
stay centered can I stay peaceful can I stay calm can
can I stay peaceful can I stay calm can
can I stay peaceful can I stay calm can I stay present right here right now and
I stay present right here right now and
I stay present right here right now and not have to run away from it not have to
not have to run away from it not have to
not have to run away from it not have to pretend it’s not there but use it and I
pretend it’s not there but use it and I
pretend it’s not there but use it and I encourage you to do that because if it’s
encourage you to do that because if it’s
encourage you to do that because if it’s just something that you immediately
just something that you immediately
just something that you immediately complain about well then in your
complain about well then in your
complain about well then in your complaint you you just let them win
complaint you you just let them win
complaint you you just let them win their negativity has turned you into
their negativity has turned you into
their negativity has turned you into noticing what is negative and you lost
noticing what is negative and you lost
noticing what is negative and you lost you’re not winning even if you can
you’re not winning even if you can
you’re not winning even if you can critically you know throw a barb at it
critically you know throw a barb at it
critically you know throw a barb at it make fun of it you’re still losing
make fun of it you’re still losing
make fun of it you’re still losing you’re being sucked into their pools of
you’re being sucked into their pools of
you’re being sucked into their pools of pessimism you’re drowning
pessimism you’re drowning
pessimism you’re drowning so I say use it recognize it and use it
so I say use it recognize it and use it
so I say use it recognize it and use it know that your own frequency that you’re
know that your own frequency that you’re
know that your own frequency that you’re broadcasting out is the most important
broadcasting out is the most important
broadcasting out is the most important thing to protect in other words if
thing to protect in other words if
thing to protect in other words if someone wants to be negative over there
someone wants to be negative over there
someone wants to be negative over there then yeah and that’s the signal they’re
then yeah and that’s the signal they’re
then yeah and that’s the signal they’re broadcasting very similar to a radio
broadcasting very similar to a radio
broadcasting very similar to a radio station if you’re setting your car right
station if you’re setting your car right
station if you’re setting your car right now you can tune in to a myriad of
now you can tune in to a myriad of
now you can tune in to a myriad of different stations now they’re all
different stations now they’re all
different stations now they’re all playing simultaneously all around you
playing simultaneously all around you
playing simultaneously all around you the question is who do you want to tune
the question is who do you want to tune
the question is who do you want to tune into if you want to tune into people
into if you want to tune into people
into if you want to tune into people that are in your environment that are
that are in your environment that are
that are in your environment that are negative if you start listening to
negative if you start listening to
negative if you start listening to somebody that’s broadcasting at radio
somebody that’s broadcasting at radio
somebody that’s broadcasting at radio we’ll then you’re going to be singing
we’ll then you’re going to be singing
we’ll then you’re going to be singing songs very shortly even if you don’t
songs very shortly even if you don’t
songs very shortly even if you don’t like the music you’re gonna be starting
like the music you’re gonna be starting
like the music you’re gonna be starting to hum or sing those songs or tune in
to hum or sing those songs or tune in
to hum or sing those songs or tune in and get depressed game over if you are
and get depressed game over if you are
and get depressed game over if you are in an environment where somebody is
in an environment where somebody is
in an environment where somebody is broadcasting that you need to start
broadcasting that you need to start
broadcasting that you need to start listening to something a little more now
listening to something a little more now
listening to something a little more now you can broadcast your own songs you can
you can broadcast your own songs you can
you can broadcast your own songs you can see them know that oh yeah I see weather
see them know that oh yeah I see weather
see them know that oh yeah I see weather out that’s their behavior yeah it’s not
out that’s their behavior yeah it’s not
out that’s their behavior yeah it’s not who they are it’s just their habit or
who they are it’s just their habit or
who they are it’s just their habit or whatever it is I’m grateful that isn’t
whatever it is I’m grateful that isn’t
whatever it is I’m grateful that isn’t me send them some love and compassion
me send them some love and compassion
me send them some love and compassion and then move out of that environment
and then move out of that environment
and then move out of that environment if proximity is an issue you work with
if proximity is an issue you work with
if proximity is an issue you work with the person they’re part of your family
the person they’re part of your family
the person they’re part of your family then make sure that you’re at least
then make sure that you’re at least
then make sure that you’re at least taking time for yourself to log in or
taking time for yourself to log in or
taking time for yourself to log in or tune into higher levels of frequency
tune into higher levels of frequency
tune into higher levels of frequency things you can generate you can play
things you can generate you can play
things you can generate you can play your own song and if you play it louder
your own song and if you play it louder
your own song and if you play it louder than the ones that they’re playing in
than the ones that they’re playing in
than the ones that they’re playing in your mind then it’s far less likely that
your mind then it’s far less likely that
your mind then it’s far less likely that you’re gonna be affected
you’re gonna be affected
you’re gonna be affected now one thing you don’t want to do my
now one thing you don’t want to do my
now one thing you don’t want to do my friends is don’t try to change anybody
friends is don’t try to change anybody
friends is don’t try to change anybody oh well I just want to make them more
oh well I just want to make them more
oh well I just want to make them more positive or I’m gonna cues them of not
positive or I’m gonna cues them of not
positive or I’m gonna cues them of not being positive that game doesn’t work
being positive that game doesn’t work
being positive that game doesn’t work right and I’m sure you’ve already tried
right and I’m sure you’ve already tried
right and I’m sure you’ve already tried that some of you and know where that
that some of you and know where that
that some of you and know where that path leads no again if we start to judge
path leads no again if we start to judge
path leads no again if we start to judge people try to change them we’re no
people try to change them we’re no
people try to change them we’re no better off yeah we may as well be
better off yeah we may as well be
better off yeah we may as well be broadcasting you’re wrong and nobody
broadcasting you’re wrong and nobody
broadcasting you’re wrong and nobody hears you’re wrong they all hear oh I’m
hears you’re wrong they all hear oh I’m
hears you’re wrong they all hear oh I’m being threatened as my sense of identity
being threatened as my sense of identity
being threatened as my sense of identity which I need to then defend and protect
which I need to then defend and protect
which I need to then defend and protect and then have a go back right that’s it
and then have a go back right that’s it
and then have a go back right that’s it doesn’t matter what the argument is
doesn’t matter what the argument is
doesn’t matter what the argument is doesn’t matter who thinks who’s right
doesn’t matter who thinks who’s right
doesn’t matter who thinks who’s right yeah get off the game of trying to
yeah get off the game of trying to
yeah get off the game of trying to change anybody except that if they’re in
change anybody except that if they’re in
change anybody except that if they’re in a part of their life where they get
a part of their life where they get
a part of their life where they get their needs met by being negative then
their needs met by being negative then
their needs met by being negative then that’s who they are your job is not to
that’s who they are your job is not to
that’s who they are your job is not to fix them change them or convince them
fix them change them or convince them
fix them change them or convince them otherwise your job is to maintain that
otherwise your job is to maintain that
otherwise your job is to maintain that your radio signal that you’re
your radio signal that you’re
your radio signal that you’re broadcasting at is more positive yeah a
broadcasting at is more positive yeah a
broadcasting at is more positive yeah a higher frequency and therefore no matter
higher frequency and therefore no matter
higher frequency and therefore no matter who’s playing a radio Saukville
who’s playing a radio Saukville
who’s playing a radio Saukville that doesn’t affect the song that you’re
that doesn’t affect the song that you’re
that doesn’t affect the song that you’re singing yeah that is yeah by far the
singing yeah that is yeah by far the
singing yeah that is yeah by far the best way to be able to deal with that
best way to be able to deal with that
best way to be able to deal with that and number three is the perspective the
and number three is the perspective the
and number three is the perspective the bigger picture a lot of us we may be
bigger picture a lot of us we may be
bigger picture a lot of us we may be dealing with someone at work it may be a
dealing with someone at work it may be a
dealing with someone at work it may be a friend even the next-door neighbor and
friend even the next-door neighbor and
friend even the next-door neighbor and they
they
they push our buttons we have to first see
push our buttons we have to first see
push our buttons we have to first see that all relationships are mirrors so
that all relationships are mirrors so
that all relationships are mirrors so what can we learn from this experience
what can we learn from this experience
what can we learn from this experience that is fundamental so they are also
that is fundamental so they are also
that is fundamental so they are also showing us things about ourselves so we
showing us things about ourselves so we
showing us things about ourselves so we have to thank them as well and we have
have to thank them as well and we have
have to thank them as well and we have to see the bigger picture to say it’s
to see the bigger picture to say it’s
to see the bigger picture to say it’s not the end of the world there is so
not the end of the world there is so
not the end of the world there is so much going on in the world that why am i
much going on in the world that why am i
much going on in the world that why am i focusing on this person because whatever
focusing on this person because whatever
focusing on this person because whatever you focus on gross you turn into
you focus on gross you turn into
you focus on gross you turn into whatever you’re tuned into so we have to
whatever you’re tuned into so we have to
whatever you’re tuned into so we have to see that once you can see the bigger
see that once you can see the bigger
see that once you can see the bigger picture this so-called person who is
picture this so-called person who is
picture this so-called person who is making you feel unhappy they just
making you feel unhappy they just
making you feel unhappy they just disappear into thin air a few months ago
disappear into thin air a few months ago
disappear into thin air a few months ago I read a book called the happiness
I read a book called the happiness
I read a book called the happiness equation by a guy named Neil Paz Rita
equation by a guy named Neil Paz Rita
equation by a guy named Neil Paz Rita and in this book Neel argues that
and in this book Neel argues that
and in this book Neel argues that happiness is 90% attitude and only 10%
happiness is 90% attitude and only 10%
happiness is 90% attitude and only 10% circumstance and when I look back at my
circumstance and when I look back at my
circumstance and when I look back at my own life I agree with this and look back
own life I agree with this and look back
own life I agree with this and look back six or seven years I was definitely less
six or seven years I was definitely less
six or seven years I was definitely less successful as a freshman in college I
successful as a freshman in college I
successful as a freshman in college I had less money I had a lot more
had less money I had a lot more
had less money I had a lot more uncertainty but I wasn’t unhappy and I
uncertainty but I wasn’t unhappy and I
uncertainty but I wasn’t unhappy and I don’t think that I’m a whole lot happier
don’t think that I’m a whole lot happier
don’t think that I’m a whole lot happier on a day-to-day basis now than I was
on a day-to-day basis now than I was
on a day-to-day basis now than I was back then because my attitude was
back then because my attitude was
back then because my attitude was similar both now and then and when I’m
similar both now and then and when I’m
similar both now and then and when I’m thinking about these concepts of
thinking about these concepts of
thinking about these concepts of happiness and attitude and looking at
happiness and attitude and looking at
happiness and attitude and looking at them through the lens of dealing with
them through the lens of dealing with
them through the lens of dealing with other people as Hanlan’s razor leads me
other people as Hanlan’s razor leads me
other people as Hanlan’s razor leads me to do I’m reminded of a quote by the
to do I’m reminded of a quote by the
to do I’m reminded of a quote by the Roman Emperor Marcus Aurelius which I
Roman Emperor Marcus Aurelius which I
Roman Emperor Marcus Aurelius which I really want to share with you guys today
really want to share with you guys today
really want to share with you guys today now in Roman history Aurelius is known
now in Roman history Aurelius is known
now in Roman history Aurelius is known as the last of the five good emperors
as the last of the five good emperors
as the last of the five good emperors and while he was definitely a great
and while he was definitely a great
and while he was definitely a great ruler he was also a great philosopher in
ruler he was also a great philosopher in
ruler he was also a great philosopher in the philosophy of stoicism and his
the philosophy of stoicism and his
the philosophy of stoicism and his writings which have been collected in
writings which have been collected in
writings which have been collected in the book of meditations are where this
the book of meditations are where this
the book of meditations are where this quote comes from so in book 2 of
quote comes from so in book 2 of
quote comes from so in book 2 of meditations
meditations
meditations raelia strikes when you wake up in the
raelia strikes when you wake up in the
raelia strikes when you wake up in the morning tell yourself the people I deal
morning tell yourself the people I deal
morning tell yourself the people I deal with today will be meddling ungrateful
with today will be meddling ungrateful
with today will be meddling ungrateful arrogant dishonest jealous and certainly
arrogant dishonest jealous and certainly
arrogant dishonest jealous and certainly they’re like this because they can’t
they’re like this because they can’t
they’re like this because they can’t tell good from evil but I have seen the
tell good from evil but I have seen the
tell good from evil but I have seen the beauty of good
beauty of good
beauty of good and the ugliness and it recognized the
and the ugliness and it recognized the
and the ugliness and it recognized the wrongdoer has a nature related to my own
wrongdoer has a nature related to my own
wrongdoer has a nature related to my own nowt of the same blood or birth out of
nowt of the same blood or birth out of
nowt of the same blood or birth out of the same mind and possessing a share of
the same mind and possessing a share of
the same mind and possessing a share of the divine and so none of them can hurt
the divine and so none of them can hurt
the divine and so none of them can hurt me no one can implicate me in ugliness
me no one can implicate me in ugliness
me no one can implicate me in ugliness nor can I feel angry and my relative or
nor can I feel angry and my relative or
nor can I feel angry and my relative or hate him we were born to work together
hate him we were born to work together
hate him we were born to work together like feet hands and eyes like the two
like feet hands and eyes like the two
like feet hands and eyes like the two rows of teeth upper and lower to
rows of teeth upper and lower to
rows of teeth upper and lower to obstruct each other is unnatural to feel
obstruct each other is unnatural to feel
obstruct each other is unnatural to feel anger of someone to turn your back on
anger of someone to turn your back on
anger of someone to turn your back on him
him
him these are obstructions I think this is a
these are obstructions I think this is a
these are obstructions I think this is a really powerful quote I wanted to give
really powerful quote I wanted to give
really powerful quote I wanted to give you my little interpretation of it here
you my little interpretation of it here
you my little interpretation of it here basically that 2016 Thomas Frank version
basically that 2016 Thomas Frank version
basically that 2016 Thomas Frank version 2,000 years later so when somebody is
2,000 years later so when somebody is
2,000 years later so when somebody is being jealous or being rude or coming at
being jealous or being rude or coming at
being jealous or being rude or coming at you in any sort of negative way you can
you in any sort of negative way you can
you in any sort of negative way you can realize that you are of the same nature
realize that you are of the same nature
realize that you are of the same nature you are both imperfect human beings
you are both imperfect human beings
you are both imperfect human beings going through imperfect circumstances
going through imperfect circumstances
going through imperfect circumstances within this world and what do you
within this world and what do you
within this world and what do you realize that you can route yourself like
realize that you can route yourself like
realize that you can route yourself like a tree and bend not break because you
a tree and bend not break because you
a tree and bend not break because you realize that whatever they’re going
realize that whatever they’re going
realize that whatever they’re going through that is most likely what’s
through that is most likely what’s
through that is most likely what’s causing them to act this way and once
causing them to act this way and once
causing them to act this way and once you do that number one it can set your
you do that number one it can set your
you do that number one it can set your attitude and make you a happier person
attitude and make you a happier person
attitude and make you a happier person overall because you’ve let the
overall because you’ve let the
overall because you’ve let the negativity wash over you instead of fuel
negativity wash over you instead of fuel
negativity wash over you instead of fuel to you and make you react and I get away
to you and make you react and I get away
to you and make you react and I get away yourself but number two it can let you
yourself but number two it can let you
yourself but number two it can let you get to the other part of human nature
get to the other part of human nature
get to the other part of human nature which is to cooperate with your fellow
which is to cooperate with your fellow
which is to cooperate with your fellow human beings and recently a friend said
human beings and recently a friend said
human beings and recently a friend said how do you handle distractive and and
how do you handle distractive and and
how do you handle distractive and and negative people and I’m like look the
negative people and I’m like look the
negative people and I’m like look the thing is the thing is not to just be
thing is the thing is not to just be
thing is the thing is not to just be positive
positive
positive not even to offer this no negativity
not even to offer this no negativity
not even to offer this no negativity policy that I talked about the way to
policy that I talked about the way to
policy that I talked about the way to avoid negative and distracting people
avoid negative and distracting people
avoid negative and distracting people managed to vibrate in a rate so fast
managed to vibrate in a rate so fast
managed to vibrate in a rate so fast okay
okay
okay that you’re out in front of them once I
that you’re out in front of them once I
that you’re out in front of them once I got a speeding ticket actually here in
got a speeding ticket actually here in
got a speeding ticket actually here in Miami and the in the police officer says
Miami and the in the police officer says
Miami and the in the police officer says oh why are you speeding why are you in
oh why are you speeding why are you in
oh why are you speeding why are you in such a hurry I’m like dude I’m trying to
such a hurry I’m like dude I’m trying to
such a hurry I’m like dude I’m trying to stay away from the crazies okay if I can
stay away from the crazies okay if I can
stay away from the crazies okay if I can just get ahead of everybody else I’m not
just get ahead of everybody else I’m not
just get ahead of everybody else I’m not distracted by anybody but guys like you
distracted by anybody but guys like you
distracted by anybody but guys like you and your job is to stop me but the truth
and your job is to stop me but the truth
and your job is to stop me but the truth is their job is to stop me distract me
is their job is to stop me distract me
is their job is to stop me distract me and cause me to turn around and and and
and cause me to turn around and and and
and cause me to turn around and and and stop my mission see so I got my ticket
stop my mission see so I got my ticket
stop my mission see so I got my ticket and moved on and went to the head of the
and moved on and went to the head of the
and moved on and went to the head of the pack
pack
pack yeah see this what I’m telling you man
yeah see this what I’m telling you man
yeah see this what I’m telling you man look if you want to not be bogged down
look if you want to not be bogged down
look if you want to not be bogged down by negative distracted people you need
by negative distracted people you need
by negative distracted people you need to take responsibility that you’re
to take responsibility that you’re
to take responsibility that you’re slowing down enough to get caught up by
slowing down enough to get caught up by
slowing down enough to get caught up by this magnetic charge of distractive and
this magnetic charge of distractive and
this magnetic charge of distractive and negative people do you need to vibrate
negative people do you need to vibrate
negative people do you need to vibrate so fast that these people are
so fast that these people are
so fast that these people are distracting other people not you get way
distracting other people not you get way
distracting other people not you get way ahead of the crowd get so busy that
ahead of the crowd get so busy that
ahead of the crowd get so busy that nobody’s gonna jack with you man because
nobody’s gonna jack with you man because
nobody’s gonna jack with you man because you’re filling up your pipeline you’re
you’re filling up your pipeline you’re
you’re filling up your pipeline you’re full you’re busy and you don’t have this
full you’re busy and you don’t have this
full you’re busy and you don’t have this stuff sticking to you look if you got
stuff sticking to you look if you got
stuff sticking to you look if you got negative people around you if you got
negative people around you if you got
negative people around you if you got distracted people and we all do but if
distracted people and we all do but if
distracted people and we all do but if it’s causing you to be distracted and
it’s causing you to be distracted and
it’s causing you to be distracted and negative dude you need to vibrate you
negative dude you need to vibrate you
negative dude you need to vibrate you need to fill up your pipeline you need
need to fill up your pipeline you need
need to fill up your pipeline you need to explode blow up get busy so this
to explode blow up get busy so this
to explode blow up get busy so this didn’t happen in two years you’re partly
didn’t happen in two years you’re partly
didn’t happen in two years you’re partly responsible fill your pipeline so my
responsible fill your pipeline so my
responsible fill your pipeline so my quick thoughts on this are one I think
quick thoughts on this are one I think
quick thoughts on this are one I think most situations you can take yourself
most situations you can take yourself
most situations you can take yourself out of the environment of negative
out of the environment of negative
out of the environment of negative people I think too many times we have
people I think too many times we have
people I think too many times we have negative people in our lives and it just
negative people in our lives and it just
negative people in our lives and it just sucks the life force out of you it’s
sucks the life force out of you it’s
sucks the life force out of you it’s really crappy being around negative
really crappy being around negative
really crappy being around negative people they kill your ideas you tell you
people they kill your ideas you tell you
people they kill your ideas you tell you they can’t do something to tell you that
they can’t do something to tell you that
they can’t do something to tell you that you can’t do something they just
you can’t do something they just
you can’t do something they just complain complain complain complain
complain complain complain complain
complain complain complain complain complain and the world does not belong
complain and the world does not belong
complain and the world does not belong to complainers the world belongs to the
to complainers the world belongs to the
to complainers the world belongs to the people were taking action or doing
people were taking action or doing
people were taking action or doing something we’re frustrated about
something we’re frustrated about
something we’re frustrated about something in our going forward to try to
something in our going forward to try to
something in our going forward to try to fix it where if you just hang around
fix it where if you just hang around
fix it where if you just hang around these negative people who are constantly
these negative people who are constantly
these negative people who are constantly complaining you know you become a
complaining you know you become a
complaining you know you become a product of your environment as you need
product of your environment as you need
product of your environment as you need to be really conscious about that and so
to be really conscious about that and so
to be really conscious about that and so I’d be looking to think of how can i how
I’d be looking to think of how can i how
I’d be looking to think of how can i how can I escape this if I’m around negative
can I escape this if I’m around negative
can I escape this if I’m around negative people my number one go-to solution is
people my number one go-to solution is
people my number one go-to solution is don’t be around negative people try to
don’t be around negative people try to
don’t be around negative people try to avoid it create a new environment for
avoid it create a new environment for
avoid it create a new environment for yourself where you don’t have to be
yourself where you don’t have to be
yourself where you don’t have to be around these people that’s a lot easier
around these people that’s a lot easier
around these people that’s a lot easier for someone who’s an entrepreneur
for someone who’s an entrepreneur
for someone who’s an entrepreneur because we get to decide what customers
because we get to decide what customers
because we get to decide what customers we work with what suppliers we work with
we work with what suppliers we work with
we work with what suppliers we work with what team we hire on board and I think a
what team we hire on board and I think a
what team we hire on board and I think a lot of people become an entrepreneur
lot of people become an entrepreneur
lot of people become an entrepreneur because they’re trying to avoid the
because they’re trying to avoid the
because they’re trying to avoid the negative people that they have in the
negative people that they have in the
negative people that they have in the other parts of their life where they
other parts of their life where they
other parts of their life where they have a job before the second air is
have a job before the second air is
have a job before the second air is where you don’t have control you have to
where you don’t have control you have to
where you don’t have control you have to be in that situation where you know you
be in that situation where you know you
be in that situation where you know you have that job and you could actually
have that job and you could actually
have that job and you could actually leave that job and go somewhere else but
leave that job and go somewhere else but
leave that job and go somewhere else but you know think about my son who has a
you know think about my son who has a
you know think about my son who has a bully in his class understand that you
bully in his class understand that you
bully in his class understand that you know for him
know for him
know for him yeah we could sure step in and say hey
yeah we could sure step in and say hey
yeah we could sure step in and say hey discipline that bully years or we could
discipline that bully years or we could
discipline that bully years or we could take him to another school but the fact
take him to another school but the fact
take him to another school but the fact is there’s bullies in every school and
is there’s bullies in every school and
is there’s bullies in every school and if you’re gonna stay in school and you
if you’re gonna stay in school and you
if you’re gonna stay in school and you don’t want to do homeschooling that’s
don’t want to do homeschooling that’s
don’t want to do homeschooling that’s part of the process is dealing with
part of the process is dealing with
part of the process is dealing with learning how to deal with these people
learning how to deal with these people
learning how to deal with these people understand that negative people want
understand that negative people want
understand that negative people want somebody to be an outlet with negative
somebody to be an outlet with negative
somebody to be an outlet with negative people need to release it because they
people need to release it because they
people need to release it because they don’t want to just complain and be it by
don’t want to just complain and be it by
don’t want to just complain and be it by themselves
themselves
themselves they need the validation from somebody
they need the validation from somebody
they need the validation from somebody else so if you are listening to them
else so if you are listening to them
else so if you are listening to them whether you agree with them or not just
whether you agree with them or not just
whether you agree with them or not just the fact that you’re listening to them
the fact that you’re listening to them
the fact that you’re listening to them and given them time given them air space
and given them time given them air space
and given them time given them air space that’s validation for them and they’re
that’s validation for them and they’re
that’s validation for them and they’re gonna keep coming back to you where
gonna keep coming back to you where
gonna keep coming back to you where really you want to just ignore them not
really you want to just ignore them not
really you want to just ignore them not spend any time with them not acknowledge
spend any time with them not acknowledge
spend any time with them not acknowledge them and then they’ll move on to
them and then they’ll move on to
them and then they’ll move on to somebody else and so you know is the
somebody else and so you know is the
somebody else and so you know is the advice that I gave my son in dealing
advice that I gave my son in dealing
advice that I gave my son in dealing with the bully in his class is don’t
with the bully in his class is don’t
with the bully in his class is don’t don’t just don’t pay attention to him
don’t just don’t pay attention to him
don’t just don’t pay attention to him he’ll then find somebody else to bully
he’ll then find somebody else to bully
he’ll then find somebody else to bully somebody else to pick on somebody else
somebody else to pick on somebody else
somebody else to pick on somebody else to be negative around you can go off and
to be negative around you can go off and
to be negative around you can go off and do other things this is also true in
do other things this is also true in
do other things this is also true in like in family situations if you have a
like in family situations if you have a
like in family situations if you have a really negative mom or dad or uncle Joe
really negative mom or dad or uncle Joe
really negative mom or dad or uncle Joe or whoever it is I don’t want to say
or whoever it is I don’t want to say
or whoever it is I don’t want to say walk away from your family although
walk away from your family although
walk away from your family although sometimes that’s the right call but
sometimes that’s the right call but
sometimes that’s the right call but limiting your exposure and then try to
limiting your exposure and then try to
limiting your exposure and then try to do something in the rest of your life
do something in the rest of your life
do something in the rest of your life where you’re surrounded by people who
where you’re surrounded by people who
where you’re surrounded by people who build you up where you create an
build you up where you create an
build you up where you create an environment of greatness where you have
environment of greatness where you have
environment of greatness where you have you know things on your wall and videos
you know things on your wall and videos
you know things on your wall and videos that you watch to now try to take that
that you watch to now try to take that
that you watch to now try to take that equation instead of being all negative
equation instead of being all negative
equation instead of being all negative to having a tiny bit negative in like
to having a tiny bit negative in like
to having a tiny bit negative in like 95% positive so even if you don’t have
95% positive so even if you don’t have
95% positive so even if you don’t have complete control over the situation that
complete control over the situation that
complete control over the situation that you’re in one hour challenged you to
you’re in one hour challenged you to
you’re in one hour challenged you to think do you actually have some kind of
think do you actually have some kind of
think do you actually have some kind of control but let’s see me have no control
control but let’s see me have no control
control but let’s see me have no control of the situation then look at all the
of the situation then look at all the
of the situation then look at all the other things that you can control in
other things that you can control in
other things that you can control in your environment your habits your
your environment your habits your
your environment your habits your routine your daily practice to overload
routine your daily practice to overload
routine your daily practice to overload it with positivity to help you have the
it with positivity to help you have the
it with positivity to help you have the confidence and courage to go up to that
confidence and courage to go up to that
confidence and courage to go up to that thing that you want and be the best
thing that you want and be the best
thing that you want and be the best version of yourself
so thank you guys so much for watching I
so thank you guys so much for watching I hope you enjoyed I made this video
hope you enjoyed I made this video
hope you enjoyed I made this video because Daniel Rocha or Roca asked me to
because Daniel Rocha or Roca asked me to
because Daniel Rocha or Roca asked me to hope I got that okay if there’s a topic
hope I got that okay if there’s a topic
hope I got that okay if there’s a topic you’d like me to cover in the next
you’d like me to cover in the next
you’d like me to cover in the next addition to believe life please leave it
addition to believe life please leave it
addition to believe life please leave it down in the comments and I’ll see what I
down in the comments and I’ll see what I
down in the comments and I’ll see what I can do
can do
can do I’d also love to know which of the rules
I’d also love to know which of the rules
I’d also love to know which of the rules or what did people say today that had
or what did people say today that had
or what did people say today that had the biggest impact on you how are you
the biggest impact on you how are you
the biggest impact on you how are you now gonna go out and deal with negative
now gonna go out and deal with negative
now gonna go out and deal with negative people and the negative things in your
people and the negative things in your
people and the negative things in your life a little bit better please share
life a little bit better please share
life a little bit better please share down the comments below I think it could
down the comments below I think it could
down the comments below I think it could help cement the activity for you as well
help cement the activity for you as well
help cement the activity for you as well as inspire other people to maybe make
as inspire other people to maybe make
as inspire other people to maybe make some changes in their lives so thank you
some changes in their lives so thank you
some changes in their lives so thank you guys again for watching I hope you have
guys again for watching I hope you have
guys again for watching I hope you have an amazing day I believe in you I hope
an amazing day I believe in you I hope
an amazing day I believe in you I hope you continue to believe in yourself and
you continue to believe in yourself and
you continue to believe in yourself and whatever your one word is let’s love
whatever your one word is let’s love
whatever your one word is let’s love I’ll see you soon
empathize you know a lot of people who
empathize you know a lot of people who are being in a negative mood or negative
are being in a negative mood or negative
are being in a negative mood or negative energy you don’t know why you know
energy you don’t know why you know
energy you don’t know why you know you’ve had a bad day too you’ve been
you’ve had a bad day too you’ve been
you’ve had a bad day too you’ve been rude yes I know you’re amazing and you
rude yes I know you’re amazing and you
rude yes I know you’re amazing and you watch this show and you’re really into
watch this show and you’re really into
watch this show and you’re really into personal development at the end of the
personal development at the end of the
personal development at the end of the day you’ve been rude to people too
day you’ve been rude to people too
day you’ve been rude to people too you’ve had a bad day you snap you’ve
you’ve had a bad day you snap you’ve
you’ve had a bad day you snap you’ve been impatient you’ve hollered you’ve
been impatient you’ve hollered you’ve
been impatient you’ve hollered you’ve been a jerk when you shouldn’t have been
been a jerk when you shouldn’t have been
been a jerk when you shouldn’t have been you know it well other people do too so
you know it well other people do too so
you know it well other people do too so when somebody is negative always wonder
when somebody is negative always wonder
when somebody is negative always wonder I wonder what happened today that led to
I wonder what happened today that led to
I wonder what happened today that led to that you know maybe the kids got out of
that you know maybe the kids got out of
that you know maybe the kids got out of the wrong side of bed and they were just
the wrong side of bed and they were just
the wrong side of bed and they were just horrible that morning and they that
horrible that morning and they that
horrible that morning and they that person didn’t sleep last night maybe
person didn’t sleep last night maybe
person didn’t sleep last night maybe something happened with their family
something happened with their family
something happened with their family maybe on the way to the work they just
maybe on the way to the work they just
maybe on the way to the work they just thought of something very depressing in
thought of something very depressing in
thought of something very depressing in their past maybe the truth is right now
their past maybe the truth is right now
their past maybe the truth is right now they’re so unclear about who they are
they’re so unclear about who they are
they’re so unclear about who they are and what they want in life that they’re
and what they want in life that they’re
and what they want in life that they’re taking out on other people
taking out on other people
taking out on other people maybe their own failures their own
maybe their own failures their own
maybe their own failures their own struggles their own disappointments have
struggles their own disappointments have
struggles their own disappointments have ravaged them and led them to you know
ravaged them and led them to you know
ravaged them and led them to you know depression led them to mental disorder
depression led them to mental disorder
depression led them to mental disorder the reality is we never know someone’s
the reality is we never know someone’s
the reality is we never know someone’s story and once you can teach yourself
story and once you can teach yourself
story and once you can teach yourself that I really believe you become a
that I really believe you become a
that I really believe you become a better human you become more
better human you become more
better human you become more compassionate
compassionate
compassionate you’re better at listening you’re better
you’re better at listening you’re better
you’re better at listening you’re better able to understand because you have the
able to understand because you have the
able to understand because you have the intention to sympathize and say oh that
intention to sympathize and say oh that
intention to sympathize and say oh that person’s really in a bad place right now
person’s really in a bad place right now
person’s really in a bad place right now you don’t take ownership of that say
you don’t take ownership of that say
you don’t take ownership of that say well I didn’t cause it you just say
well I didn’t cause it you just say
well I didn’t cause it you just say simply ah they’re in a bad place I hope
simply ah they’re in a bad place I hope
simply ah they’re in a bad place I hope they’re okay you know I think it’s a
they’re okay you know I think it’s a
they’re okay you know I think it’s a real true personal power be able to walk
real true personal power be able to walk
real true personal power be able to walk by negative people and still say I wish
by negative people and still say I wish
by negative people and still say I wish you nothing but joy and health and
you nothing but joy and health and
you nothing but joy and health and strength and love in your life to have
strength and love in your life to have
strength and love in your life to have that hope for people even when they’re
that hope for people even when they’re
that hope for people even when they’re in a bad place that’s humanity a great
in a bad place that’s humanity a great
in a bad place that’s humanity a great way to deal with negative people is
way to deal with negative people is
way to deal with negative people is always to keep it moving and to keep it
always to keep it moving and to keep it
always to keep it moving and to keep it moving you have to see that how is this
moving you have to see that how is this
moving you have to see that how is this serving you because we have to let go
serving you because we have to let go
serving you because we have to let go of whatever no longer serves us but more
of whatever no longer serves us but more
of whatever no longer serves us but more so we have to see that we’ve got work to
so we have to see that we’ve got work to
so we have to see that we’ve got work to do
do
do we have to ask ourselves how is this
we have to ask ourselves how is this
we have to ask ourselves how is this helping us become the greatest version
helping us become the greatest version
helping us become the greatest version of ourselves because once you argue with
of ourselves because once you argue with
of ourselves because once you argue with a fool from a distance nobody can tell
a fool from a distance nobody can tell
a fool from a distance nobody can tell the difference so a lot of the times we
the difference so a lot of the times we
the difference so a lot of the times we just have to see that keep it moving
just have to see that keep it moving
just have to see that keep it moving don’t let negative people take over your
don’t let negative people take over your
don’t let negative people take over your life some negative people where we’re
life some negative people where we’re
life some negative people where we’re always gonna have them maybe they help
always gonna have them maybe they help
always gonna have them maybe they help but positive people keep their feet on
but positive people keep their feet on
but positive people keep their feet on the ground I don’t know but be careful
the ground I don’t know but be careful
the ground I don’t know but be careful of just laughing at them ignore their
of just laughing at them ignore their
of just laughing at them ignore their behavior at your peril behind that
behavior at your peril behind that
behavior at your peril behind that negativity could be a cry for help maybe
negativity could be a cry for help maybe
negativity could be a cry for help maybe they are miserable by Nature maybe they
they are miserable by Nature maybe they
they are miserable by Nature maybe they just lack confidence or maybe they feel
just lack confidence or maybe they feel
just lack confidence or maybe they feel a sense of injustice
a sense of injustice
a sense of injustice I’d love to provide you with a magic
I’d love to provide you with a magic
I’d love to provide you with a magic wand on how to deal with negative people
wand on how to deal with negative people
wand on how to deal with negative people I can’t but think of it like this in
I can’t but think of it like this in
I can’t but think of it like this in many respects people’s behaviors a bit
many respects people’s behaviors a bit
many respects people’s behaviors a bit like an iceberg and above the surface
like an iceberg and above the surface
like an iceberg and above the surface you’re seeing the negative behavior but
you’re seeing the negative behavior but
you’re seeing the negative behavior but if we can understand a bit more of the
if we can understand a bit more of the
if we can understand a bit more of the reasons that are causing that in the
reasons that are causing that in the
reasons that are causing that in the first place what’s going on below the
first place what’s going on below the
first place what’s going on below the surface then I think we will have a lot
surface then I think we will have a lot
surface then I think we will have a lot more success in dealing with negative
more success in dealing with negative
more success in dealing with negative people
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