Condition Yourself for SUCCESS ft. @garycoxe

hello everybody welcome to another

hello everybody welcome to another YouTube hangout super excited to be back

YouTube hangout super excited to be back

YouTube hangout super excited to be back on with you guys again I have a very

on with you guys again I have a very

on with you guys again I have a very special new guest introduced you to his

special new guest introduced you to his

special new guest introduced you to his name is Gary Coxe

name is Gary Coxe

name is Gary Coxe he what is he he is a speaker he is an

he what is he he is a speaker he is an

he what is he he is a speaker he is an author he is a success coach he helps

author he is a success coach he helps

author he is a success coach he helps people break through the liberty

people break through the liberty

people break through the liberty personal beliefs and today we’re going

personal beliefs and today we’re going

personal beliefs and today we’re going to talk about staying condition for

to talk about staying condition for

to talk about staying condition for success you may have seen him on the dr.

success you may have seen him on the dr.

success you may have seen him on the dr. Phil show or on the dr. show he’s

Phil show or on the dr. show he’s

Phil show or on the dr. show he’s everywhere and anywhere mr. Gary Coxe

everywhere and anywhere mr. Gary Coxe

everywhere and anywhere mr. Gary Coxe welcome aboard man what’s up buddy good

welcome aboard man what’s up buddy good

welcome aboard man what’s up buddy good to be here Evan she’s awesome this is

to be here Evan she’s awesome this is

to be here Evan she’s awesome this is exciting now looks like you’re in a

exciting now looks like you’re in a

exciting now looks like you’re in a hotel room where are you right now oh I

hotel room where are you right now oh I

hotel room where are you right now oh I live in hotels man I’m in LA we just did

live in hotels man I’m in LA we just did

live in hotels man I’m in LA we just did some filming last week and I’ve got some

some filming last week and I’ve got some

some filming last week and I’ve got some presentations here some we’re kind of

presentations here some we’re kind of

presentations here some we’re kind of humming here in LA for a little while

humming here in LA for a little while

humming here in LA for a little while while we’re doing some of these TV shows

while we’re doing some of these TV shows

while we’re doing some of these TV shows very cool so I’m actually making a video

very cool so I’m actually making a video

very cool so I’m actually making a video coming up about YouTube channels to pay

coming up about YouTube channels to pay

coming up about YouTube channels to pay attention to and included you on that

attention to and included you on that

attention to and included you on that list of one of the up-and-coming

list of one of the up-and-coming

list of one of the up-and-coming youtubers I know you’re not

youtubers I know you’re not

youtubers I know you’re not up-and-coming in your field but just in

up-and-coming in your field but just in

up-and-coming in your field but just in the YouTube space it’s it’s a new

the YouTube space it’s it’s a new

the YouTube space it’s it’s a new channel that I think people should check

channel that I think people should check

channel that I think people should check out um yeah I want to talk about

out um yeah I want to talk about

out um yeah I want to talk about limiting beliefs to kind of kick this

limiting beliefs to kind of kick this

limiting beliefs to kind of kick this off because I know it’s a big thing and

off because I know it’s a big thing and

off because I know it’s a big thing and for people if you haven’t heard about

for people if you haven’t heard about

for people if you haven’t heard about Gary go check out his channel he’s got

Gary go check out his channel he’s got

Gary go check out his channel he’s got some great videos on there there’s a

some great videos on there there’s a

some great videos on there there’s a comedian who was afraid of snakes and

comedian who was afraid of snakes and

comedian who was afraid of snakes and then he talks to Gary and now he’s

then he talks to Gary and now he’s

then he talks to Gary and now he’s wearing the snake on his neck and

wearing the snake on his neck and

wearing the snake on his neck and there’s a woman who wasn’t charging

there’s a woman who wasn’t charging

there’s a woman who wasn’t charging enough and had all these beliefs about

enough and had all these beliefs about

enough and had all these beliefs about money from a rough childhood and like

money from a rough childhood and like

money from a rough childhood and like Gary help kind of turn all that around

Gary help kind of turn all that around

Gary help kind of turn all that around and I think I don’t you know camp if I’m

and I think I don’t you know camp if I’m

and I think I don’t you know camp if I’m wrong Gary but I think what holds a lot

wrong Gary but I think what holds a lot

wrong Gary but I think what holds a lot of people back isn’t the strategies of

of people back isn’t the strategies of

of people back isn’t the strategies of the tactics but these limiting blocks

the tactics but these limiting blocks

the tactics but these limiting blocks that we have in our mindsets and some

that we have in our mindsets and some

that we have in our mindsets and some wondering how do people how do people

wondering how do people how do people

wondering how do people how do people figure out what they are because we kind

figure out what they are because we kind

figure out what they are because we kind of just live our life on autopilot and

of just live our life on autopilot and

of just live our life on autopilot and these things are blocking us and we

these things are blocking us and we

these things are blocking us and we don’t I don’t know until someone like

don’t I don’t know until someone like

don’t I don’t know until someone like you comes along says hey Susie

you comes along says hey Susie

you comes along says hey Susie you know you’re failing yourself here

you know you’re failing yourself here

you know you’re failing yourself here how do we figure out what those are

how do we figure out what those are

how do we figure out what those are right well you know what’s interesting

right well you know what’s interesting

right well you know what’s interesting is when I when I went through a lot of

is when I when I went through a lot of

is when I when I went through a lot of my challenges and not to bore you but I

my challenges and not to bore you but I

my challenges and not to bore you but I mean I’ve been through a lot of stuff

mean I’ve been through a lot of stuff

mean I’ve been through a lot of stuff everything from you know when I was

everything from you know when I was

everything from you know when I was younger my wife

younger my wife

younger my wife we have a baby she tells me it’s not

we have a baby she tells me it’s not

we have a baby she tells me it’s not mine my father’s murdered my grandfather

mine my father’s murdered my grandfather

mine my father’s murdered my grandfather and stepfather died at cancer my uncle’s

and stepfather died at cancer my uncle’s

and stepfather died at cancer my uncle’s killed in a plane crash all by the time

killed in a plane crash all by the time

killed in a plane crash all by the time I was 21 years of age so you can only

I was 21 years of age so you can only

I was 21 years of age so you can only imagine the emotional what I refer to as

imagine the emotional what I refer to as

imagine the emotional what I refer to as my emotional hard drive when our

my emotional hard drive when our

my emotional hard drive when our emotional hard drive is filled up we

emotional hard drive is filled up we

emotional hard drive is filled up we have a hard time moving forward we’ll

have a hard time moving forward we’ll

have a hard time moving forward we’ll feel like we’re pushing a parked car

feel like we’re pushing a parked car

feel like we’re pushing a parked car we might be active but we’re active

we might be active but we’re active

we might be active but we’re active accomplishing nothing or we’re taking

accomplishing nothing or we’re taking

accomplishing nothing or we’re taking one step forward in 10 steps back so

one step forward in 10 steps back so

one step forward in 10 steps back so when I had a lot of people do is when I

when I had a lot of people do is when I

when I had a lot of people do is when I went through my challenge is that would

went through my challenge is that would

went through my challenge is that would say you know you need to change the way

say you know you need to change the way

say you know you need to change the way you think or you need to change your

you think or you need to change your

you think or you need to change your story well my problem was okay I get

story well my problem was okay I get

story well my problem was okay I get that but how how do you do it so most

that but how how do you do it so most

that but how how do you do it so most people don’t know how to change their

people don’t know how to change their

people don’t know how to change their story you don’t know how to change your

story you don’t know how to change your

story you don’t know how to change your limited belief and for every belief we

limited belief and for every belief we

limited belief and for every belief we act on we get a result so one of the

act on we get a result so one of the

act on we get a result so one of the ways to know that we have a limited

ways to know that we have a limited

ways to know that we have a limited belief is often by our results it’s not

belief is often by our results it’s not

belief is often by our results it’s not a hundred percent true because sometimes

a hundred percent true because sometimes

a hundred percent true because sometimes we’re just on the cusp of more success

we’re just on the cusp of more success

we’re just on the cusp of more success but a lot of times we can look at the

but a lot of times we can look at the

but a lot of times we can look at the results that we’re getting in our

results that we’re getting in our

results that we’re getting in our relationships or in our finances and

relationships or in our finances and

relationships or in our finances and again for every belief we act on we get

again for every belief we act on we get

again for every belief we act on we get a result so we’re not happy with the

a result so we’re not happy with the

a result so we’re not happy with the result we need to go in and identify the

result we need to go in and identify the

result we need to go in and identify the belief system it’s not just a belief

belief system it’s not just a belief

belief system it’s not just a belief system to heaven because a lot of people

system to heaven because a lot of people

system to heaven because a lot of people have you know we all have beliefs but

have you know we all have beliefs but

have you know we all have beliefs but you can be a believer and have strong

you can be a believer and have strong

you can be a believer and have strong belief but have no value or level of

belief but have no value or level of

belief but have no value or level of importance on that belief and now we

importance on that belief and now we

importance on that belief and now we were just a person who believes but

were just a person who believes but

were just a person who believes but doesn’t take action so okay so I’m not

doesn’t take action so okay so I’m not

doesn’t take action so okay so I’m not getting results in my relationship or

getting results in my relationship or

getting results in my relationship or I’m not not quite pushing through with

I’m not not quite pushing through with

I’m not not quite pushing through with my business what questions do I ask to

my business what questions do I ask to

my business what questions do I ask to kind of figure out what that block might

kind of figure out what that block might

kind of figure out what that block might be well the questions like for example

be well the questions like for example

be well the questions like for example in a relationships a lot of times when

in a relationships a lot of times when

in a relationships a lot of times when we have an issue in a relationship the

we have an issue in a relationship the

we have an issue in a relationship the problem methylate times is between me

problem methylate times is between me

problem methylate times is between me and me not me and you so if you say

and me not me and you so if you say

and me not me and you so if you say something to me and you’re being kind to

something to me and you’re being kind to

something to me and you’re being kind to me and it’s nothing you know rude you’re

me and it’s nothing you know rude you’re

me and it’s nothing you know rude you’re just saying something very kind to me

just saying something very kind to me

just saying something very kind to me and all of a sudden you know I trigger

and all of a sudden you know I trigger

and all of a sudden you know I trigger something from the past

something from the past

something from the past well now the problem really is between

well now the problem really is between

well now the problem really is between me and me not me and you and if I don’t

me and me not me and you and if I don’t

me and me not me and you and if I don’t identify that then now I’m going to

identify that then now I’m going to

identify that then now I’m going to start attacking you you’re going to get

start attacking you you’re going to get

start attacking you you’re going to get irritated you’re going to come back and

irritated you’re going to come back and

irritated you’re going to come back and mean that you have an explosion so we

mean that you have an explosion so we

mean that you have an explosion so we need to identify in ourselves that the

need to identify in ourselves that the

need to identify in ourselves that the biggest thing I tell people to do is

biggest thing I tell people to do is

biggest thing I tell people to do is you’ve got to be really honest with

you’ve got to be really honest with

you’ve got to be really honest with yourself you can’t change what you don’t

yourself you can’t change what you don’t

yourself you can’t change what you don’t acknowledge so what is it about what you

acknowledge so what is it about what you

acknowledge so what is it about what you said it’s not

said it’s not

said it’s not necessarily you but there’s something

necessarily you but there’s something

necessarily you but there’s something that you said that triggered an emotion

that you said that triggered an emotion

that you said that triggered an emotion in me and if I can start taking more

in me and if I can start taking more

in me and if I can start taking more responsibility internally then I can

responsibility internally then I can

responsibility internally then I can start looking for the right reason or

start looking for the right reason or

start looking for the right reason or where that came from or what stuck in my

where that came from or what stuck in my

where that came from or what stuck in my emotional harddrive and for some people

emotional harddrive and for some people

emotional harddrive and for some people where I come in they don’t know what’s

where I come in they don’t know what’s

where I come in they don’t know what’s blocking them you know they know they

blocking them you know they know they

blocking them you know they know they have the right attitude but something is

have the right attitude but something is

have the right attitude but something is not right there they’re moving forward

not right there they’re moving forward

not right there they’re moving forward something happens and they stop for a

something happens and they stop for a

something happens and they stop for a week or two and maybe they try again and

week or two and maybe they try again and

week or two and maybe they try again and that’s where I come and I go ahead and

that’s where I come and I go ahead and

that’s where I come and I go ahead and help them identify some of that and then

help them identify some of that and then

help them identify some of that and then change it quickly can we do it ourselves

change it quickly can we do it ourselves

change it quickly can we do it ourselves and do we need that person to shine the

and do we need that person to shine the

and do we need that person to shine the light and say look this is where you’re

light and say look this is where you’re

light and say look this is where you’re falling down uh you can do it both

falling down uh you can do it both

falling down uh you can do it both alright because many times when we’re in

alright because many times when we’re in

alright because many times when we’re in the pit one when we’re the picture in

the pit one when we’re the picture in

the pit one when we’re the picture in the frame we have a hard time seeing the

the frame we have a hard time seeing the

the frame we have a hard time seeing the blind spots

blind spots

blind spots now there’s other times that we can

now there’s other times that we can

now there’s other times that we can learn to identify some of our blind

learn to identify some of our blind

learn to identify some of our blind spots but that’s not always easy because

spots but that’s not always easy because

spots but that’s not always easy because again we’re the picture in the frame but

again we’re the picture in the frame but

again we’re the picture in the frame but yes we can identify our own beliefs our

yes we can identify our own beliefs our

yes we can identify our own beliefs our own stories and sometimes they get so

own stories and sometimes they get so

own stories and sometimes they get so deep or maybe we’re so blind to it we

deep or maybe we’re so blind to it we

deep or maybe we’re so blind to it we need somebody else to help us out but

need somebody else to help us out but

need somebody else to help us out but absolutely we can do or said in fact I

absolutely we can do or said in fact I

absolutely we can do or said in fact I constantly I’m always questioning where

constantly I’m always questioning where

constantly I’m always questioning where I’m at on my thought process is that a

I’m at on my thought process is that a

I’m at on my thought process is that a limited story that a thought process

limited story that a thought process

limited story that a thought process that’s going to slow me down

that’s going to slow me down

that’s going to slow me down if I duplicated this thought that I’m

if I duplicated this thought that I’m

if I duplicated this thought that I’m having right now what kind of result

having right now what kind of result

having right now what kind of result would it get me that result is not in

would it get me that result is not in

would it get me that result is not in harmony with my goals I need to change

harmony with my goals I need to change

harmony with my goals I need to change the story or the belief hmm there are

the story or the belief hmm there are

the story or the belief hmm there are there habits that you would recommend so

there habits that you would recommend so

there habits that you would recommend so right there you’re asking yourself daily

right there you’re asking yourself daily

right there you’re asking yourself daily constantly you know is this a belief

constantly you know is this a belief

constantly you know is this a belief that’s limiting me or not other habit I

that’s limiting me or not other habit I

that’s limiting me or not other habit I recommend people should do there’s one

recommend people should do there’s one

recommend people should do there’s one of the habits that I do every single day

of the habits that I do every single day

of the habits that I do every single day of it I write down my goals every single

of it I write down my goals every single

of it I write down my goals every single morning religiously if I wake up at 4

morning religiously if I wake up at 4

morning religiously if I wake up at 4 o’clock in the morning to fly out I’m

o’clock in the morning to fly out I’m

o’clock in the morning to fly out I’m going to write my goals before I jump in

going to write my goals before I jump in

going to write my goals before I jump in that airplane but yeah that’s one of the

that airplane but yeah that’s one of the

that airplane but yeah that’s one of the things I do and the reasons I do this

things I do and the reasons I do this

things I do and the reasons I do this for is because number one it keeps me

for is because number one it keeps me

for is because number one it keeps me extremely focused and if I’m extremely

extremely focused and if I’m extremely

extremely focused and if I’m extremely focused then I know where I need to be

focused then I know where I need to be

focused then I know where I need to be in what I need to do today also because

in what I need to do today also because

in what I need to do today also because I have really huge ridiculous goals

I have really huge ridiculous goals

I have really huge ridiculous goals written down there’s some days when I

written down there’s some days when I

written down there’s some days when I write them down it’s like man I can make

write them down it’s like man I can make

write them down it’s like man I can make this happen this is a no-brainer then

this happen this is a no-brainer then

this happen this is a no-brainer then there’s other days or somebody you know

there’s other days or somebody you know

there’s other days or somebody you know got me knocked off my feet or

got me knocked off my feet or

got me knocked off my feet or I write down that goal like I did

I write down that goal like I did

I write down that goal like I did yesterday I do it today and I go holy

yesterday I do it today and I go holy

yesterday I do it today and I go holy moly how in the world am I ever gonna

moly how in the world am I ever gonna

moly how in the world am I ever gonna even attain that so it’s a great

even attain that so it’s a great

even attain that so it’s a great measuring Rhonda to help us analyze to

measuring Rhonda to help us analyze to

measuring Rhonda to help us analyze to where we are I love it so people are

where we are I love it so people are

where we are I love it so people are responding to that in the live chat like

responding to that in the live chat like

responding to that in the live chat like every single day you do this every day I

every single day you do this every day I

every single day you do this every day I make an exception um I usually don’t do

make an exception um I usually don’t do

make an exception um I usually don’t do it on Sunday Sunday is my chill day but

it on Sunday Sunday is my chill day but

it on Sunday Sunday is my chill day but I read it Sunday because I want to keep

I read it Sunday because I want to keep

I read it Sunday because I want to keep my momentum but yeah so what I do today

my momentum but yeah so what I do today

my momentum but yeah so what I do today I wrote these all down so tomorrow I’ll

I wrote these all down so tomorrow I’ll

I wrote these all down so tomorrow I’ll take this off tomorrow morning I’ll take

take this off tomorrow morning I’ll take

take this off tomorrow morning I’ll take this off and I’ll rewrite the goals all

this off and I’ll rewrite the goals all

this off and I’ll rewrite the goals all over again

over again

over again it takes me five minutes if I can’t

it takes me five minutes if I can’t

it takes me five minutes if I can’t devote five minutes to my success every

devote five minutes to my success every

devote five minutes to my success every day then I’m just – it is hmm and then

day then I’m just – it is hmm and then

day then I’m just – it is hmm and then do you use that as feedback so if you’re

do you use that as feedback so if you’re

do you use that as feedback so if you’re not hitting your goal is that when you

not hitting your goal is that when you

not hitting your goal is that when you start the question hey what’s the reason

start the question hey what’s the reason

start the question hey what’s the reason behind this absolutely I’ll look at

behind this absolutely I’ll look at

behind this absolutely I’ll look at something like this and go wait a minute

something like this and go wait a minute

something like this and go wait a minute you know I’ve been on this goal for X

you know I’ve been on this goal for X

you know I’ve been on this goal for X amount of time what’s the deal here I’m

amount of time what’s the deal here I’m

amount of time what’s the deal here I’m either too distracted um maybe talk is

either too distracted um maybe talk is

either too distracted um maybe talk is cheap maybe my value isn’t you know high

cheap maybe my value isn’t you know high

cheap maybe my value isn’t you know high enough and I need to change that so yeah

enough and I need to change that so yeah

enough and I need to change that so yeah it’s one of the best ways to analyze

it’s one of the best ways to analyze

it’s one of the best ways to analyze where you need to be on your level of

where you need to be on your level of

where you need to be on your level of success and your journey it’s huge hmm

success and your journey it’s huge hmm

success and your journey it’s huge hmm so we’ve got an entrepreneur audience

so we’ve got an entrepreneur audience

so we’ve got an entrepreneur audience people who are in business or want to

people who are in business or want to

people who are in business or want to start a business uh what do you find as

start a business uh what do you find as

start a business uh what do you find as being the biggest blocks that

being the biggest blocks that

being the biggest blocks that entrepreneurs face on their path that

entrepreneurs face on their path that

entrepreneurs face on their path that holds them back I’d say the biggest

holds them back I’d say the biggest

holds them back I’d say the biggest block is they don’t look at things

block is they don’t look at things

block is they don’t look at things they’re big enough um you know you hear

they’re big enough um you know you hear

they’re big enough um you know you hear everybody say you got to think big and

everybody say you got to think big and

everybody say you got to think big and dream big but there’s a problem with

dream big but there’s a problem with

dream big but there’s a problem with that you need to think big but you need

that you need to think big but you need

that you need to think big but you need to believe in the big so the challenge

to believe in the big so the challenge

to believe in the big so the challenge here is when we think about you know

here is when we think about you know

here is when we think about you know dreaming bigger and going big is if we

dreaming bigger and going big is if we

dreaming bigger and going big is if we can’t believe it we got a problem

can’t believe it we got a problem

can’t believe it we got a problem so the problem here is many times let’s

so the problem here is many times let’s

so the problem here is many times let’s say what we know we’re all here wherever

say what we know we’re all here wherever

say what we know we’re all here wherever here is Evan and we want to go here

here is Evan and we want to go here

here is Evan and we want to go here well the the distance between hair and

well the the distance between hair and

well the the distance between hair and hair is usually so huge that we allow

hair is usually so huge that we allow

hair is usually so huge that we allow ourselves to have so much negativity

ourselves to have so much negativity

ourselves to have so much negativity stumbling-blocks

stumbling-blocks

stumbling-blocks limited beliefs whatever it is between

limited beliefs whatever it is between

limited beliefs whatever it is between here and here so what I get people to do

here and here so what I get people to do

here and here so what I get people to do I get them to learn how to do things

I get them to learn how to do things

I get them to learn how to do things daily but get them excited to this level

daily but get them excited to this level

daily but get them excited to this level here for example I’m

here for example I’m

here for example I’m massively passionate about aviation I

massively passionate about aviation I

massively passionate about aviation I love aviation I fly jets and helicopters

love aviation I fly jets and helicopters

love aviation I fly jets and helicopters and I’m an instructor and twin engines

and I’m an instructor and twin engines

and I’m an instructor and twin engines in the whole nine yards

in the whole nine yards

in the whole nine yards well when I first started if I had a

well when I first started if I had a

well when I first started if I had a goal to fly a jet you just don’t you

goal to fly a jet you just don’t you

goal to fly a jet you just don’t you know get down here and say I’m gonna

know get down here and say I’m gonna

know get down here and say I’m gonna have a jet fly a jet and just be right

have a jet fly a jet and just be right

have a jet fly a jet and just be right up here so you can do little things you

up here so you can do little things you

up here so you can do little things you could go to an airport and stand in

could go to an airport and stand in

could go to an airport and stand in front of a jet and take a picture that

front of a jet and take a picture that

front of a jet and take a picture that doesn’t cost much but that gets you

doesn’t cost much but that gets you

doesn’t cost much but that gets you excited you could maybe rent a jet you

excited you could maybe rent a jet you

excited you could maybe rent a jet you could get five friends at five thousand

could get five friends at five thousand

could get five friends at five thousand dollars or a thousand dollars apiece get

dollars or a thousand dollars apiece get

dollars or a thousand dollars apiece get in a jet fly half an hour it doesn’t

in a jet fly half an hour it doesn’t

in a jet fly half an hour it doesn’t matter get it in your system and this is

matter get it in your system and this is

matter get it in your system and this is where I get people to understand that

where I get people to understand that

where I get people to understand that you can learn to live the lifestyle of a

you can learn to live the lifestyle of a

you can learn to live the lifestyle of a millionaire now do the little things now

millionaire now do the little things now

millionaire now do the little things now for example something simple for

for example something simple for

for example something simple for entrepreneurs to keep themselves geared

entrepreneurs to keep themselves geared

entrepreneurs to keep themselves geared and and excited if you can’t afford to

and and excited if you can’t afford to

and and excited if you can’t afford to have your house clean why don’t you have

have your house clean why don’t you have

have your house clean why don’t you have your house clean I don’t care if it’s

your house clean I don’t care if it’s

your house clean I don’t care if it’s once every three months just the fact

once every three months just the fact

once every three months just the fact that you do it this is what successful

that you do it this is what successful

that you do it this is what successful people do I have a very good friend of

people do I have a very good friend of

people do I have a very good friend of mine who’s my billionaire mentor and I

mine who’s my billionaire mentor and I

mine who’s my billionaire mentor and I watch his lifestyle and the thing is

watch his lifestyle and the thing is

watch his lifestyle and the thing is with entrepreneurs we have a tendency of

with entrepreneurs we have a tendency of

with entrepreneurs we have a tendency of wearing too many hats that’s just that’s

wearing too many hats that’s just that’s

wearing too many hats that’s just that’s just the way it is when you start off

just the way it is when you start off

just the way it is when you start off you start off with a lot more time than

you start off with a lot more time than

you start off with a lot more time than you do with money right so what happens

you do with money right so what happens

you do with money right so what happens is we end up having to do everything the

is we end up having to do everything the

is we end up having to do everything the goal for an entrepreneur is the moment

goal for an entrepreneur is the moment

goal for an entrepreneur is the moment they get the cash flow and they need to

they get the cash flow and they need to

they get the cash flow and they need to work toward the cash flow their next

work toward the cash flow their next

work toward the cash flow their next goal is to take a hat off and give that

goal is to take a hat off and give that

goal is to take a hat off and give that hat to somebody else hire somebody and

hat to somebody else hire somebody and

hat to somebody else hire somebody and then of course when we think about

then of course when we think about

then of course when we think about hiring somebody we think wow we got to

hiring somebody we think wow we got to

hiring somebody we think wow we got to hire somebody for for 40 hours we know

hire somebody for for 40 hours we know

hire somebody for for 40 hours we know you know about outsourcing so when we do

you know about outsourcing so when we do

you know about outsourcing so when we do little things like that and do it now

little things like that and do it now

little things like that and do it now it’s amazing what we’re capable of doing

it’s amazing what we’re capable of doing

it’s amazing what we’re capable of doing and how excited we get about our future

and how excited we get about our future

and how excited we get about our future success so what I hear tell me if I’m

success so what I hear tell me if I’m

success so what I hear tell me if I’m capturing it right you think

capturing it right you think

capturing it right you think entrepreneurs can think big but they

entrepreneurs can think big but they

entrepreneurs can think big but they don’t necessarily believe in the big

don’t necessarily believe in the big

don’t necessarily believe in the big thing yet and taking little steps even

thing yet and taking little steps even

thing yet and taking little steps even if they can’t necessarily they can’t

if they can’t necessarily they can’t

if they can’t necessarily they can’t afford to have somebody full-time or

afford to have somebody full-time or

afford to have somebody full-time or cleaning the house just have a little

cleaning the house just have a little

cleaning the house just have a little taste of it because that helps improve

taste of it because that helps improve

taste of it because that helps improve the belief that you deserve and can have

the belief that you deserve and can have

the belief that you deserve and can have it that’s the key and then when you

it that’s the key and then when you

it that’s the key and then when you taste it it tastes so good so what do

taste it it tastes so good so what do

taste it it tastes so good so what do you do

you do

you do Wow I want more of this so how do you

Wow I want more of this so how do you

Wow I want more of this so how do you get more but you got to raise your game

get more but you got to raise your game

get more but you got to raise your game you know yeah it’s a bad analogy

you know yeah it’s a bad analogy

you know yeah it’s a bad analogy gee but it’s like somebody you know I’ve

gee but it’s like somebody you know I’ve

gee but it’s like somebody you know I’ve never done drugs but it’s like somebody

never done drugs but it’s like somebody

never done drugs but it’s like somebody who does drugs you know you give them a

who does drugs you know you give them a

who does drugs you know you give them a shot or whatever goes oh my gosh this

shot or whatever goes oh my gosh this

shot or whatever goes oh my gosh this feels good so what’s their next thing

feels good so what’s their next thing

feels good so what’s their next thing after the high goes down their next

after the high goes down their next

after the high goes down their next questions I got to get more how do I get

questions I got to get more how do I get

questions I got to get more how do I get more you do some really stupid things

more you do some really stupid things

more you do some really stupid things you know you break into people’s houses

you know you break into people’s houses

you know you break into people’s houses whatever so the point is if you’re not

whatever so the point is if you’re not

whatever so the point is if you’re not giving yourself a fix

giving yourself a fix

giving yourself a fix you’re too prone to discouragement give

you’re too prone to discouragement give

you’re too prone to discouragement give yourself a fix and then that looks you

yourself a fix and then that looks you

yourself a fix and then that looks you excited to get more and do more and do

excited to get more and do more and do

excited to get more and do more and do more interesting I like it

more interesting I like it

more interesting I like it we’re getting some questions here necie

we’re getting some questions here necie

we’re getting some questions here necie Jordan is asking what else is in your

Jordan is asking what else is in your

Jordan is asking what else is in your daily regimen what else is in my daily

daily regimen what else is in my daily

daily regimen what else is in my daily regimen with regards to my success well

regimen with regards to my success well

regimen with regards to my success well I think people really interested in the

I think people really interested in the

I think people really interested in the gold thing that you get every day so

gold thing that you get every day so

gold thing that you get every day so like what else I would get up what else

like what else I would get up what else

like what else I would get up what else do you do yeah well I have a sales team

do you do yeah well I have a sales team

do you do yeah well I have a sales team and I have a team of people I have about

and I have a team of people I have about

and I have a team of people I have about 10 people that support me so one of the

10 people that support me so one of the

10 people that support me so one of the things that I do is I need I need to

things that I do is I need I need to

things that I do is I need I need to know my numbers all of the time I want

know my numbers all of the time I want

know my numbers all of the time I want to know what my numbers are and numbers

to know what my numbers are and numbers

to know what my numbers are and numbers don’t lie so if you’re even just a lone

don’t lie so if you’re even just a lone

don’t lie so if you’re even just a lone star by yourself and in part of your

star by yourself and in part of your

star by yourself and in part of your career your entrepreneurship involves

career your entrepreneurship involves

career your entrepreneurship involves making phone calls you need to know how

making phone calls you need to know how

making phone calls you need to know how many calls you’re making I don’t care if

many calls you’re making I don’t care if

many calls you’re making I don’t care if it’s ten you need to write it down and

it’s ten you need to write it down and

it’s ten you need to write it down and the other thing is that I recognize in

the other thing is that I recognize in

the other thing is that I recognize in my routine I always know one thing about

my routine I always know one thing about

my routine I always know one thing about success it will always Evan take you

success it will always Evan take you

success it will always Evan take you more money time effort and energy so I

more money time effort and energy so I

more money time effort and energy so I need to make sure that my energy is set

need to make sure that my energy is set

need to make sure that my energy is set where I can do more so part of my

where I can do more so part of my

where I can do more so part of my routine is I’ve got a diet like you know

routine is I’ve got a diet like you know

routine is I’ve got a diet like you know because we get a hotel with an

because we get a hotel with an

because we get a hotel with an efficiency I have an assistant travel

efficiency I have an assistant travel

efficiency I have an assistant travel with me so we have a hotel we have a

with me so we have a hotel we have a

with me so we have a hotel we have a fridge and everything so my morning

fridge and everything so my morning

fridge and everything so my morning starts off with a frozen milkshake it’s

starts off with a frozen milkshake it’s

starts off with a frozen milkshake it’s not me it’s not a good milk I don’t even

not me it’s not a good milk I don’t even

not me it’s not a good milk I don’t even drink milk it’s a frozen shake I’ve got

drink milk it’s a frozen shake I’ve got

drink milk it’s a frozen shake I’ve got frozen tumeric frozen ginger frozen

frozen tumeric frozen ginger frozen

frozen tumeric frozen ginger frozen avocado I’ve got a wheat plant that lead

avocado I’ve got a wheat plant that lead

avocado I’ve got a wheat plant that lead grass in there plant-based protein and

grass in there plant-based protein and

grass in there plant-based protein and then I mix that up every morning that’s

then I mix that up every morning that’s

then I mix that up every morning that’s how I start my morning so my morning is

how I start my morning so my morning is

how I start my morning so my morning is very very strict and very very

very very strict and very very

very very strict and very very regimented to get out of the gate very

regimented to get out of the gate very

regimented to get out of the gate very quickly and I do you know I’ll do like a

quickly and I do you know I’ll do like a

quickly and I do you know I’ll do like a hundred hours a week and think nothing

hundred hours a week and think nothing

hundred hours a week and think nothing up that’s my regular routine for me I’m

up that’s my regular routine for me I’m

up that’s my regular routine for me I’m a nut I love it

a nut I love it

a nut I love it Valentin is asking if I first we see

Valentin is asking if I first we see

Valentin is asking if I first we see good results but then we get stuck

good results but then we get stuck

good results but then we get stuck how do we get out of this stuck zone the

how do we get out of this stuck zone the

how do we get out of this stuck zone the only way I know how to get you out of

only way I know how to get you out of

only way I know how to get you out of the stucked zone is what’s the store

the stucked zone is what’s the store

the stucked zone is what’s the store that’s causing to be stuck and that’s

that’s causing to be stuck and that’s

that’s causing to be stuck and that’s probably one of the stories right there

probably one of the stories right there

probably one of the stories right there you’re telling yourself you’re stuck so

you’re telling yourself you’re stuck so

you’re telling yourself you’re stuck so when you weren’t stuck what was the

when you weren’t stuck what was the

when you weren’t stuck what was the behaviors that you had to show that you

behaviors that you had to show that you

behaviors that you had to show that you weren’t stuck and then you need to mimic

weren’t stuck and then you need to mimic

weren’t stuck and then you need to mimic those behaviors again because you being

those behaviors again because you being

those behaviors again because you being stuck has been associated by this by

stuck has been associated by this by

stuck has been associated by this by something that happened to you

something that happened to you

something that happened to you where you’re staying oh crap I’m stuck

where you’re staying oh crap I’m stuck

where you’re staying oh crap I’m stuck you know it’s like writer’s block I

you know it’s like writer’s block I

you know it’s like writer’s block I don’t believe there’s such a thing as

don’t believe there’s such a thing as

don’t believe there’s such a thing as writer’s block I don’t get stuck in

writer’s block I don’t get stuck in

writer’s block I don’t get stuck in writer’s block if I block myself two

writer’s block if I block myself two

writer’s block if I block myself two hours to write it from two o’clock to

hours to write it from two o’clock to

hours to write it from two o’clock to four o’clock when two o’clock comes I’m

four o’clock when two o’clock comes I’m

four o’clock when two o’clock comes I’m just going to start writing so basically

just going to start writing so basically

just going to start writing so basically figure out what it is that happened that

figure out what it is that happened that

figure out what it is that happened that you got stuck in your emotional hard

you got stuck in your emotional hard

you got stuck in your emotional hard drive about your business yesterday five

drive about your business yesterday five

drive about your business yesterday five days ago whatever it is that made you

days ago whatever it is that made you

days ago whatever it is that made you feel stuck and that’s a story that’s

feel stuck and that’s a story that’s

feel stuck and that’s a story that’s causing you to stop and put you in the

causing you to stop and put you in the

causing you to stop and put you in the tracks where you right now and you’ve

tracks where you right now and you’ve

tracks where you right now and you’ve got to change that to move forward mmm

got to change that to move forward mmm

got to change that to move forward mmm most people when they’re here they’ll

most people when they’re here they’ll

most people when they’re here they’ll say well I’m stuck because the economy

say well I’m stuck because the economy

say well I’m stuck because the economy is not great or my customers aren’t

is not great or my customers aren’t

is not great or my customers aren’t buying now Lord’s Christmas season or

buying now Lord’s Christmas season or

buying now Lord’s Christmas season or like there’s always something external

like there’s always something external

like there’s always something external right there Ned Ned all crap all crap

right there Ned Ned all crap all crap

right there Ned Ned all crap all crap absolutely you know when I when I hear

absolutely you know when I when I hear

absolutely you know when I when I hear stuff like that it’s like like I tell

stuff like that it’s like like I tell

stuff like that it’s like like I tell people there’s there’s some principles

people there’s there’s some principles

people there’s there’s some principles to financial success one of them you

to financial success one of them you

to financial success one of them you have to save money then you have to

have to save money then you have to

have to save money then you have to invest it so I ask people you know

invest it so I ask people you know

invest it so I ask people you know saving money because over 70% of people

saving money because over 70% of people

saving money because over 70% of people don’t save money they work from paycheck

don’t save money they work from paycheck

don’t save money they work from paycheck to paycheck so is it a money problem or

to paycheck so is it a money problem or

to paycheck so is it a money problem or a mindset problem well you and I know

a mindset problem well you and I know

a mindset problem well you and I know it’s a mindset problem but a person who

it’s a mindset problem but a person who

it’s a mindset problem but a person who doesn’t save and live from paycheck to

doesn’t save and live from paycheck to

doesn’t save and live from paycheck to paycheck

paycheck

paycheck they will validate to themselves every

they will validate to themselves every

they will validate to themselves every week that it’s a money problem because

week that it’s a money problem because

week that it’s a money problem because they don’t have any money left over at

they don’t have any money left over at

they don’t have any money left over at the end of the week well haven’t you

the end of the week well haven’t you

the end of the week well haven’t you seen professional players that you know

seen professional players that you know

seen professional players that you know athletes they get five million dollars

athletes they get five million dollars

athletes they get five million dollars and they spend five million dollars on a

and they spend five million dollars on a

and they spend five million dollars on a penny so they’re out of money – is it a

penny so they’re out of money – is it a

penny so they’re out of money – is it a money problem or am i problem it’s a

money problem or am i problem it’s a

money problem or am i problem it’s a mindset problem so yeah there’s no such

mindset problem so yeah there’s no such

mindset problem so yeah there’s no such thing as there’s not enough money out

thing as there’s not enough money out

thing as there’s not enough money out there or the economy you know you might

there or the economy you know you might

there or the economy you know you might have to work a little harder or you know

have to work a little harder or you know

have to work a little harder or you know look at your strategies and maybe work a

look at your strategies and maybe work a

look at your strategies and maybe work a little smarter but it’s that type of

little smarter but it’s that type of

little smarter but it’s that type of thinking that messes people up three

thinking that messes people up three

thinking that messes people up three things I hate people that live people

things I hate people that live people

things I hate people that live people that are not on time and people who make

that are not on time and people who make

that are not on time and people who make excuses don’t friggin make excuses man

excuses don’t friggin make excuses man

excuses don’t friggin make excuses man you can’t change what you don’t

you can’t change what you don’t

you can’t change what you don’t knowledge if you make excuses you can’t

knowledge if you make excuses you can’t

knowledge if you make excuses you can’t acknowledge it you’re screwed is there a

acknowledge it you’re screwed is there a

acknowledge it you’re screwed is there a favorite question you like to ask people

favorite question you like to ask people

favorite question you like to ask people did you taking through this process

did you taking through this process

did you taking through this process um yeah when I work I have a four step

um yeah when I work I have a four step

um yeah when I work I have a four step process like like like for example um I

process like like like for example um I

process like like like for example um I just did a recent case while I can’t

just did a recent case while I can’t

just did a recent case while I can’t discuss the case because it’s not not

discuss the case because it’s not not

discuss the case because it’s not not going to be aired yet so when I take a

going to be aired yet so when I take a

going to be aired yet so when I take a case and I work with somebody I have

case and I work with somebody I have

case and I work with somebody I have enforce that process Evon that I

enforce that process Evon that I

enforce that process Evon that I developed that I show people how to

developed that I show people how to

developed that I show people how to change their behavior the first thing I

change their behavior the first thing I

change their behavior the first thing I ask them and everybody here is this but

ask them and everybody here is this but

ask them and everybody here is this but I got a twist on this really changes

I got a twist on this really changes

I got a twist on this really changes people thinking is why why do you want

people thinking is why why do you want

people thinking is why why do you want to change this behavior

to change this behavior

to change this behavior now everybody out there you hear you

now everybody out there you hear you

now everybody out there you hear you know you’ll have all heard it you have

know you’ll have all heard it you have

know you’ll have all heard it you have to have your why so my question to that

to have your why so my question to that

to have your why so my question to that is who doesn’t have a why everybody has

is who doesn’t have a why everybody has

is who doesn’t have a why everybody has a lot so if you have a why and everybody

a lot so if you have a why and everybody

a lot so if you have a why and everybody has a why and we’re told you got to have

has a why and we’re told you got to have

has a why and we’re told you got to have your why that’s why people fail because

your why that’s why people fail because

your why that’s why people fail because they don’t have a why everybody has a

they don’t have a why everybody has a

they don’t have a why everybody has a why so what’s the real reason the reason

why so what’s the real reason the reason

why so what’s the real reason the reason is you don’t have a high enough value on

is you don’t have a high enough value on

is you don’t have a high enough value on your Y your Y will always be there but

your Y your Y will always be there but

your Y your Y will always be there but if you get hit in the gut your value

if you get hit in the gut your value

if you get hit in the gut your value your level of importance of that Y will

your level of importance of that Y will

your level of importance of that Y will decrease you still have a wide but it’s

decrease you still have a wide but it’s

decrease you still have a wide but it’s not very high right now you get a great

not very high right now you get a great

not very high right now you get a great sale what happens now your Y it’s still

sale what happens now your Y it’s still

sale what happens now your Y it’s still there but now it increases the higher

there but now it increases the higher

there but now it increases the higher you can keep that increase in value on

you can keep that increase in value on

you can keep that increase in value on that Y and you have a belief with it

that Y and you have a belief with it

that Y and you have a belief with it that’s what causes you to take action so

that’s what causes you to take action so

that’s what causes you to take action so I first find out from somebody what’s

I first find out from somebody what’s

I first find out from somebody what’s your reason to change this behavior

your reason to change this behavior

your reason to change this behavior what’s your reason to keep going and

what’s your reason to keep going and

what’s your reason to keep going and then I tell them I want you to know that

then I tell them I want you to know that

then I tell them I want you to know that what you wrote down to me is going in

what you wrote down to me is going in

what you wrote down to me is going in one Erin out the other because I don’t

one Erin out the other because I don’t

one Erin out the other because I don’t know yet if it’s very important to you

know yet if it’s very important to you

know yet if it’s very important to you just because you say it is doesn’t mean

just because you say it is doesn’t mean

just because you say it is doesn’t mean it is you can take a thousand people who

it is you can take a thousand people who

it is you can take a thousand people who want to quit smoking cigarettes right

want to quit smoking cigarettes right

want to quit smoking cigarettes right and you ask them how many of you in here

and you ask them how many of you in here

and you ask them how many of you in here want to change and quit smoking just

want to change and quit smoking just

want to change and quit smoking just about everybody’s going to put their

about everybody’s going to put their

about everybody’s going to put their hand up why is it that only a small few

hand up why is it that only a small few

hand up why is it that only a small few will change even though they all have a

will change even though they all have a

will change even though they all have a reason why the few the change have a

reason why the few the change have a

reason why the few the change have a higher level of importance on why they

higher level of importance on why they

higher level of importance on why they need to change I loved it there was a

need to change I loved it there was a

need to change I loved it there was a lot that was said just there and I

lot that was said just there and I

lot that was said just there and I encouraged people to play that section

encouraged people to play that section

encouraged people to play that section back on the replay a couple of times to

back on the replay a couple of times to

back on the replay a couple of times to let it actually sink in I loved it

let it actually sink in I loved it

let it actually sink in I loved it um people asking who is your mentor so

um people asking who is your mentor so

um people asking who is your mentor so where have you learned this stuff from

where have you learned this stuff from

where have you learned this stuff from who are you who are your mentors right

who are you who are your mentors right

who are you who are your mentors right now well

now well

now well I don’t have any actual I have a

I don’t have any actual I have a

I don’t have any actual I have a billionaire mentor from the business

billionaire mentor from the business

billionaire mentor from the business standpoint a lot of this stuff that I

standpoint a lot of this stuff that I

standpoint a lot of this stuff that I learned from Bing come becoming my own

learned from Bing come becoming my own

learned from Bing come becoming my own doctor at my own patient Evan when I

doctor at my own patient Evan when I

doctor at my own patient Evan when I went through all these tragedies you

went through all these tragedies you

went through all these tragedies you know before all these tragedies you know

know before all these tragedies you know

know before all these tragedies you know I was doing well I was making $100,000 a

I was doing well I was making $100,000 a

I was doing well I was making $100,000 a year as a teenager I mean that was crazy

year as a teenager I mean that was crazy

year as a teenager I mean that was crazy and then after I had all these tragedies

and then after I had all these tragedies

and then after I had all these tragedies of the wife telling me the baby’s not

of the wife telling me the baby’s not

of the wife telling me the baby’s not mine and all this nonsense

mine and all this nonsense

mine and all this nonsense I lost everything and I learned one

I lost everything and I learned one

I lost everything and I learned one thing that the difference was my

thing that the difference was my

thing that the difference was my experiences I had a lot of negative

experiences I had a lot of negative

experiences I had a lot of negative experiences that I created negative

experiences that I created negative

experiences that I created negative associations that I created negative

associations that I created negative

associations that I created negative behaviors so I became my own doctor in

behaviors so I became my own doctor in

behaviors so I became my own doctor in my own patient I tried to figure out why

my own patient I tried to figure out why

my own patient I tried to figure out why am i behaving the way I’m behaving and I

am i behaving the way I’m behaving and I

am i behaving the way I’m behaving and I could relate to so much of it from the

could relate to so much of it from the

could relate to so much of it from the crap I had been through and then as I

crap I had been through and then as I

crap I had been through and then as I became my own doctor my patient if you

became my own doctor my patient if you

became my own doctor my patient if you will then I started to learn strategies

will then I started to learn strategies

will then I started to learn strategies on how to make change faster and faster

on how to make change faster and faster

on how to make change faster and faster and faster

and faster

and faster I just became obsessed with showing

I just became obsessed with showing

I just became obsessed with showing people how to change their behavior on

people how to change their behavior on

people how to change their behavior on the business side I’m very blessed that

the business side I’m very blessed that

the business side I’m very blessed that I have a billionaire mentor I watch him

I have a billionaire mentor I watch him

I have a billionaire mentor I watch him and study him I learned a lot from him

and study him I learned a lot from him

and study him I learned a lot from him and that’s that’s my mentor to this day

and that’s that’s my mentor to this day

and that’s that’s my mentor to this day your honor so I you but you identify

your honor so I you but you identify

your honor so I you but you identify something that you know is a pattern

something that you know is a pattern

something that you know is a pattern that I need to break a way of thinking

that I need to break a way of thinking

that I need to break a way of thinking my story is broken you challenge me on

my story is broken you challenge me on

my story is broken you challenge me on my why to say like is that actually

my why to say like is that actually

my why to say like is that actually important to you or not and then I you

important to you or not and then I you

important to you or not and then I you know I tell you that it is you know so

know I tell you that it is you know so

know I tell you that it is you know so what what’s my next action step how do

what what’s my next action step how do

what what’s my next action step how do I’d now break through this the next

I’d now break through this the next

I’d now break through this the next action step that this is kind of cool to

action step that this is kind of cool to

action step that this is kind of cool to JSA I actually do a process when people

JSA I actually do a process when people

JSA I actually do a process when people hire me for speaking I actually do a

hire me for speaking I actually do a

hire me for speaking I actually do a process my four step process on stage

process my four step process on stage

process my four step process on stage will then bring somebody from the

will then bring somebody from the

will then bring somebody from the audience who has a huge psychological

audience who has a huge psychological

audience who has a huge psychological limitation and I literally reprogram

limitation and I literally reprogram

limitation and I literally reprogram them onstage without any hypnosis right

them onstage without any hypnosis right

them onstage without any hypnosis right so the next thing I figure out from the

so the next thing I figure out from the

so the next thing I figure out from the person is what’s your limited beliefs if

person is what’s your limited beliefs if

person is what’s your limited beliefs if let’s just use this something tangent

let’s just use this something tangent

let’s just use this something tangent let’s say you’re afraid of a snake and I

let’s say you’re afraid of a snake and I

let’s say you’re afraid of a snake and I do a lot of stuff with you know tangible

do a lot of stuff with you know tangible

do a lot of stuff with you know tangible phobias to describe or show the audience

phobias to describe or show the audience

phobias to describe or show the audience how quick change can debate so if I were

how quick change can debate so if I were

how quick change can debate so if I were to say to you let’s say let’s pretend

to say to you let’s say let’s pretend

to say to you let’s say let’s pretend Evan that you are really phobic of a

Evan that you are really phobic of a

Evan that you are really phobic of a snake I would want to find out what’s

snake I would want to find out what’s

snake I would want to find out what’s the limited belief in your head that

the limited belief in your head that

the limited belief in your head that causes you to be phobic of a state so if

causes you to be phobic of a state so if

causes you to be phobic of a state so if I say to you why are you

I say to you why are you

I say to you why are you of the snake Evan and I would say to you

of the snake Evan and I would say to you

of the snake Evan and I would say to you I don’t care how stupid it sounds just

I don’t care how stupid it sounds just

I don’t care how stupid it sounds just tell me what comes to your mind and

tell me what comes to your mind and

tell me what comes to your mind and you’re gonna say it’s gonna swallow me

you’re gonna say it’s gonna swallow me

you’re gonna say it’s gonna swallow me it’ll attack me it’s slimy

it’ll attack me it’s slimy

it’ll attack me it’s slimy so now if I believe that and I responded

so now if I believe that and I responded

so now if I believe that and I responded to that same belief I would be afraid of

to that same belief I would be afraid of

to that same belief I would be afraid of snakes too so the next thing is that

snakes too so the next thing is that

snakes too so the next thing is that identify what’s in your head that’s

identify what’s in your head that’s

identify what’s in your head that’s limiting that’s slowing you down forever

limiting that’s slowing you down forever

limiting that’s slowing you down forever Limited belief you act on you get a

Limited belief you act on you get a

Limited belief you act on you get a result then the next thing that we have

result then the next thing that we have

result then the next thing that we have to do now is we have to change it to an

to do now is we have to change it to an

to do now is we have to change it to an empowering belief you have to go from a

empowering belief you have to go from a

empowering belief you have to go from a limited belief to an empowering belief

limited belief to an empowering belief

limited belief to an empowering belief so if I said to you the snake is okay

so if I said to you the snake is okay

so if I said to you the snake is okay it’s not going to swallow you

it’s not going to swallow you

it’s not going to swallow you that’s the empowering belief the snake

that’s the empowering belief the snake

that’s the empowering belief the snake is not going to swallow me but to you

is not going to swallow me but to you

is not going to swallow me but to you it’s not empowering yet because you

it’s not empowering yet because you

it’s not empowering yet because you don’t believe it so my big point I like

don’t believe it so my big point I like

don’t believe it so my big point I like to share with people is how do you know

to share with people is how do you know

to share with people is how do you know that you bought a belief most people

that you bought a belief most people

that you bought a belief most people don’t know that you need to know how you

don’t know that you need to know how you

don’t know that you need to know how you know you bought a belief and the reason

know you bought a belief and the reason

know you bought a belief and the reason that’s important because for every

that’s important because for every

that’s important because for every belief you act on you get a result and

belief you act on you get a result and

belief you act on you get a result and if you don’t if you bought a belief then

if you don’t if you bought a belief then

if you don’t if you bought a belief then you’re kind of screwed how you know you

you’re kind of screwed how you know you

you’re kind of screwed how you know you bought a belief is when you say it and

bought a belief is when you say it and

bought a belief is when you say it and you feel it that’s your measuring rod

you feel it that’s your measuring rod

you feel it that’s your measuring rod this is why positive affirmations really

this is why positive affirmations really

this is why positive affirmations really screw people up see before you can go to

screw people up see before you can go to

screw people up see before you can go to an empowering belief you first start off

an empowering belief you first start off

an empowering belief you first start off with your limited belief in between is

with your limited belief in between is

with your limited belief in between is the affirmation now the more you say a

the affirmation now the more you say a

the affirmation now the more you say a positive affirmation the less you

positive affirmation the less you

positive affirmation the less you believe it that’s why you keep saying it

believe it that’s why you keep saying it

believe it that’s why you keep saying it let me repeat that the more you keep

let me repeat that the more you keep

let me repeat that the more you keep saying a positive affirmation the less

saying a positive affirmation the less

saying a positive affirmation the less you believe it that’s why you keep

you believe it that’s why you keep

you believe it that’s why you keep saying when I woke up this morning and

saying when I woke up this morning and

saying when I woke up this morning and shaved I didn’t look at myself in the

shaved I didn’t look at myself in the

shaved I didn’t look at myself in the mirror and say you’re a man you’re a man

mirror and say you’re a man you’re a man

mirror and say you’re a man you’re a man you’re a man I got it

you’re a man I got it

you’re a man I got it right so what I have to learn to do

right so what I have to learn to do

right so what I have to learn to do though is I have to learn to take that

though is I have to learn to take that

though is I have to learn to take that affirmation and convert it to a belief

affirmation and convert it to a belief

affirmation and convert it to a belief so let’s go back to our limited beliefs

so let’s go back to our limited beliefs

so let’s go back to our limited beliefs if you’re limited belief is the snake is

if you’re limited belief is the snake is

if you’re limited belief is the snake is going to swallow you when I ask on a

going to swallow you when I ask on a

going to swallow you when I ask on a scale of 1 to 10 how much of that do you

scale of 1 to 10 how much of that do you

scale of 1 to 10 how much of that do you believe you would write down the number

believe you would write down the number

believe you would write down the number 10 how do you know that because you say

10 how do you know that because you say

10 how do you know that because you say it and you feel it so now it becomes a

it and you feel it so now it becomes a

it and you feel it so now it becomes a belief so the Empowered believe is is

belief so the Empowered believe is is

belief so the Empowered believe is is it’s not going to swallow me well how do

it’s not going to swallow me well how do

it’s not going to swallow me well how do we know you don’t believe that because

we know you don’t believe that because

we know you don’t believe that because when you say it’s not going to swallow

when you say it’s not going to swallow

when you say it’s not going to swallow me do you feel it’s not going to swallow

me do you feel it’s not going to swallow

me do you feel it’s not going to swallow you know I feel it’s going to swallow me

you know I feel it’s going to swallow me

you know I feel it’s going to swallow me so we know we have a measuring rod to

so we know we have a measuring rod to

so we know we have a measuring rod to let you know if you believe it or not

let you know if you believe it or not

let you know if you believe it or not when we get you to say the empowering

when we get you to say the empowering

when we get you to say the empowering belief and you say it and feel it boom

belief and you say it and feel it boom

belief and you say it and feel it boom that’s when you bought a believe and

that’s when you bought a believe and

that’s when you bought a believe and that’s immediately wind change will be

that’s immediately wind change will be

that’s immediately wind change will be made interesting in fact I just I’ll

made interesting in fact I just I’ll

made interesting in fact I just I’ll have to let you guys know I just did a

have to let you guys know I just did a

have to let you guys know I just did a shot um with dr. feel like I got to be

shot um with dr. feel like I got to be

shot um with dr. feel like I got to be very vague about it because it hasn’t

very vague about it because it hasn’t

very vague about it because it hasn’t been released this is a lady who was

been released this is a lady who was

been released this is a lady who was attacked she was so attacked that

attacked she was so attacked that

attacked she was so attacked that whatever it was that attacked her and I

whatever it was that attacked her and I

whatever it was that attacked her and I got to keep that big she could hear her

got to keep that big she could hear her

got to keep that big she could hear her bones crush she was put in a coma for

bones crush she was put in a coma for

bones crush she was put in a coma for months right

months right

months right she was so bad the worst case I’ve ever

she was so bad the worst case I’ve ever

she was so bad the worst case I’ve ever had happen that when I started my

had happen that when I started my

had happen that when I started my session with her within 60 minutes

session with her within 60 minutes

session with her within 60 minutes I’m sorry within 60 seconds she was

I’m sorry within 60 seconds she was

I’m sorry within 60 seconds she was almost in like a state of convulsion

almost in like a state of convulsion

almost in like a state of convulsion right she was just shaking like I’ve

right she was just shaking like I’ve

right she was just shaking like I’ve never seen anything like before in one

never seen anything like before in one

never seen anything like before in one session we totally had her reversed

session we totally had her reversed

session we totally had her reversed without him to hypnosis and all we did

without him to hypnosis and all we did

without him to hypnosis and all we did was that with her on that was to check

was that with her on that was to check

was that with her on that was to check get her to change her association you

get her to change her association you

get her to change her association you can’t change what happened to you in the

can’t change what happened to you in the

can’t change what happened to you in the past but you can change the way you look

past but you can change the way you look

past but you can change the way you look at it and if we learn to look at things

at it and if we learn to look at things

at it and if we learn to look at things differently on a consistent basis then

differently on a consistent basis then

differently on a consistent basis then we can really accelerate our success so

we can really accelerate our success so

we can really accelerate our success so let me ask you this to make it a little

let me ask you this to make it a little

let me ask you this to make it a little more personal I don’t like roller

more personal I don’t like roller

more personal I don’t like roller coasters okay I don’t like not being in

coasters okay I don’t like not being in

coasters okay I don’t like not being in control of my body and so I fight it you

control of my body and so I fight it you

control of my body and so I fight it you know I could give that a real question

know I could give that a real question

know I could give that a real question doing no I don’t want to put my hands up

doing no I don’t want to put my hands up

doing no I don’t want to put my hands up in the air I want to fight that thing

in the air I want to fight that thing

in the air I want to fight that thing and as a result of integrally kosis so

and as a result of integrally kosis so

and as a result of integrally kosis so my reaction has been okay I’m not gonna

my reaction has been okay I’m not gonna

my reaction has been okay I’m not gonna go on rollercoasters and it’s fine this

go on rollercoasters and it’s fine this

go on rollercoasters and it’s fine this is that something that maybe holds me

is that something that maybe holds me

is that something that maybe holds me back in other areas that I’m not aware

back in other areas that I’m not aware

back in other areas that I’m not aware of is that something that then you dive

of is that something that then you dive

of is that something that then you dive into and try to figure out you know

into and try to figure out you know

into and try to figure out you know respectfully I’ll tell you yes and I’m

respectfully I’ll tell you yes and I’m

respectfully I’ll tell you yes and I’m going to give you a different look at it

going to give you a different look at it

going to give you a different look at it and maybe a light will go on yeah

and maybe a light will go on yeah

and maybe a light will go on yeah for me when I would be if I were to be

for me when I would be if I were to be

for me when I would be if I were to be in your situation the way I look at it

in your situation the way I look at it

in your situation the way I look at it is I am allowing external stimuli like a

is I am allowing external stimuli like a

is I am allowing external stimuli like a roller coaster and a piece of metal and

roller coaster and a piece of metal and

roller coaster and a piece of metal and experience to control my emotions mm-hmm

experience to control my emotions mm-hmm

experience to control my emotions mm-hmm so what I don’t want and I don’t like I

so what I don’t want and I don’t like I

so what I don’t want and I don’t like I don’t like other things controlling my

don’t like other things controlling my

don’t like other things controlling my mind and emotions now as a pilot when I

mind and emotions now as a pilot when I

mind and emotions now as a pilot when I go onto on a commercial airliner I let

go onto on a commercial airliner I let

go onto on a commercial airliner I let go I don’t want to be controlled by oh

go I don’t want to be controlled by oh

go I don’t want to be controlled by oh my gosh is he going to be safe what am I

my gosh is he going to be safe what am I

my gosh is he going to be safe what am I going to do I don’t like that I like to

going to do I don’t like that I like to

going to do I don’t like that I like to have emotional freedom and when we allow

have emotional freedom and when we allow

have emotional freedom and when we allow things like that to

things like that to

things like that to control or emotions we lose that

control or emotions we lose that

control or emotions we lose that emotional freedom when you have that

emotional freedom when you have that

emotional freedom when you have that emotional freedom you also control your

emotional freedom you also control your

emotional freedom you also control your stress factor so what that tells me

stress factor so what that tells me

stress factor so what that tells me possibly when you’re having a really

possibly when you’re having a really

possibly when you’re having a really really bad day you probably react in

really bad day you probably react in

really bad day you probably react in simpler ways not in the exact way of

simpler ways not in the exact way of

simpler ways not in the exact way of sitting in a roller coaster but if you

sitting in a roller coaster but if you

sitting in a roller coaster but if you are more consciously aware of how to

are more consciously aware of how to

are more consciously aware of how to control that you’ll be able to control

control that you’ll be able to control

control that you’ll be able to control your stress factor to a whole different

your stress factor to a whole different

your stress factor to a whole different level than the average person so yeah it

level than the average person so yeah it

level than the average person so yeah it has a lot to do with it in fact that’s

has a lot to do with it in fact that’s

has a lot to do with it in fact that’s one of the whys I get people add more

one of the whys I get people add more

one of the whys I get people add more value in why do you want to change this

value in why do you want to change this

value in why do you want to change this behavior one of the reasons for us to

behavior one of the reasons for us to

behavior one of the reasons for us to change our behavior should be to have

change our behavior should be to have

change our behavior should be to have more control of our mind and emotions

more control of our mind and emotions

more control of our mind and emotions and when you learn to control your mind

and when you learn to control your mind

and when you learn to control your mind and emotions that to me evan is the

and emotions that to me evan is the

and emotions that to me evan is the umbrella of learning how to master

umbrella of learning how to master

umbrella of learning how to master everything else underneath that very

everything else underneath that very

everything else underneath that very cool why I have some thinking to do on

cool why I have some thinking to do on

cool why I have some thinking to do on general is little toasters to go check

general is little toasters to go check

general is little toasters to go check down oh man thank America because it’s

down oh man thank America because it’s

down oh man thank America because it’s so funny you said that I was I was just

so funny you said that I was I was just

so funny you said that I was I was just about but I don’t know maybe a month and

about but I don’t know maybe a month and

about but I don’t know maybe a month and a half ago I went on some rollercoasters

a half ago I went on some rollercoasters

a half ago I went on some rollercoasters and there’s this one it’s not like a

and there’s this one it’s not like a

and there’s this one it’s not like a roller coaster it’s a long huge thing of

roller coaster it’s a long huge thing of

roller coaster it’s a long huge thing of like 30 people they strap you in and it

like 30 people they strap you in and it

like 30 people they strap you in and it spins around like crazy man so I wanted

spins around like crazy man so I wanted

spins around like crazy man so I wanted to apply what I just shared with you I

to apply what I just shared with you I

to apply what I just shared with you I wanted to have so much control that I

wanted to have so much control that I

wanted to have so much control that I could actually hold my phone and video

could actually hold my phone and video

could actually hold my phone and video it and you can see me just turning

it and you can see me just turning

it and you can see me just turning around but I had to have enough control

around but I had to have enough control

around but I had to have enough control where I wouldn’t freak out and let go my

where I wouldn’t freak out and let go my

where I wouldn’t freak out and let go my friggin phone that you know these stupid

friggin phone that you know these stupid

friggin phone that you know these stupid smart phones cost but there’s so many

smart phones cost but there’s so many

smart phones cost but there’s so many different areas in life that you can use

different areas in life that you can use

different areas in life that you can use that for to have more control very

that for to have more control very

that for to have more control very important because see when we lose

important because see when we lose

important because see when we lose control emotionally we disengage so what

control emotionally we disengage so what

control emotionally we disengage so what happens for entrepreneurs we you know we

happens for entrepreneurs we you know we

happens for entrepreneurs we you know we all know being an entrepreneur it could

all know being an entrepreneur it could

all know being an entrepreneur it could be a roller coaster but if we lose some

be a roller coaster but if we lose some

be a roller coaster but if we lose some of that emotional role that emotional

of that emotional role that emotional

of that emotional role that emotional control

control

control we are constantly engaging and

we are constantly engaging and

we are constantly engaging and disengaging and engaging and disengaging

disengaging and engaging and disengaging

disengaging and engaging and disengaging and that costs us emotionally so if we

and that costs us emotionally so if we

and that costs us emotionally so if we can learn to keep that emotional

can learn to keep that emotional

can learn to keep that emotional roller-coaster a lot smaller we have the

roller-coaster a lot smaller we have the

roller-coaster a lot smaller we have the ability to take action and do more steps

ability to take action and do more steps

ability to take action and do more steps and work toward our success a lot faster

and work toward our success a lot faster

and work toward our success a lot faster than a person who’s less like this all

than a person who’s less like this all

than a person who’s less like this all the time especially in in business and

the time especially in in business and

the time especially in in business and being an entrepreneur very cool well I’m

being an entrepreneur very cool well I’m

being an entrepreneur very cool well I’m going to sleep on that I have some

going to sleep on that I have some

going to sleep on that I have some digging to do there I appreciate that I

digging to do there I appreciate that I

digging to do there I appreciate that I you want something check this one out

you want something check this one out

you want something check this one out and I’m not doing this to plug in

and I’m not doing this to plug in

and I’m not doing this to plug in anything I’ve got

anything I’ve got

anything I’ve got look evidence called and I don’t like

look evidence called and I don’t like

look evidence called and I don’t like seeing the pluck it or anything so much

seeing the pluck it or anything so much

seeing the pluck it or anything so much but it’s kind of show you could with an

but it’s kind of show you could with an

but it’s kind of show you could with an item for sure what is it we want in here

item for sure what is it we want in here

item for sure what is it we want in here it’s how to make your thoughts disappear

it’s how to make your thoughts disappear

it’s how to make your thoughts disappear all right look at that

all right look at that

all right look at that let me show you something let me show

let me show you something let me show

let me show you something let me show you something that’s powerful you have a

you something that’s powerful you have a

you something that’s powerful you have a bigger felt pen my black felt pen may be

bigger felt pen my black felt pen may be

bigger felt pen my black felt pen may be out perfect thank you sir all right

out perfect thank you sir all right

out perfect thank you sir all right can I go but can I give you a couple

can I go but can I give you a couple

can I go but can I give you a couple minutes on this yeah yeah

minutes on this yeah yeah

minutes on this yeah yeah all right so think of the words here

all right so think of the words here

all right so think of the words here when probably most of us heard this one

when probably most of us heard this one

when probably most of us heard this one before

before

before thoughts I think you can see that T R T

thoughts I think you can see that T R T

thoughts I think you can see that T R T de AR have enough thoughts create

de AR have enough thoughts create

de AR have enough thoughts create emotions emotions create actions actions

emotions emotions create actions actions

emotions emotions create actions actions great results so if we have a negative

great results so if we have a negative

great results so if we have a negative thought we create a negative emotion now

thought we create a negative emotion now

thought we create a negative emotion now imagine if we can make our thoughts

imagine if we can make our thoughts

imagine if we can make our thoughts disappear we don’t have a negative

disappear we don’t have a negative

disappear we don’t have a negative emotion we don’t have a negative action

emotion we don’t have a negative action

emotion we don’t have a negative action so we won’t have a negative result so

so we won’t have a negative result so

so we won’t have a negative result so that’s one of the things that I teach

that’s one of the things that I teach

that’s one of the things that I teach people to do our thoughts are so

people to do our thoughts are so

people to do our thoughts are so powerful man think about it as

powerful man think about it as

powerful man think about it as somebody’s phobic of that roller coaster

somebody’s phobic of that roller coaster

somebody’s phobic of that roller coaster or a situation just the thought of it

or a situation just the thought of it

or a situation just the thought of it can make their heartbeat increase can

can make their heartbeat increase can

can make their heartbeat increase can make their palms sweat imagine if we can

make their palms sweat imagine if we can

make their palms sweat imagine if we can tap into the power of being able to do

tap into the power of being able to do

tap into the power of being able to do the opposite of that how much control we

the opposite of that how much control we

the opposite of that how much control we can have so the other thing I show

can have so the other thing I show

can have so the other thing I show people how to do is what if you have a

people how to do is what if you have a

people how to do is what if you have a negative thought

negative thought

negative thought the area of success and expertise and

the area of success and expertise and

the area of success and expertise and focus needs to be right here because we

focus needs to be right here because we

focus needs to be right here because we all have negative thoughts from time to

all have negative thoughts from time to

all have negative thoughts from time to time that’s just part of being human but

time that’s just part of being human but

time that’s just part of being human but if we could learn to take that negative

if we could learn to take that negative

if we could learn to take that negative thought and change it where we now go

thought and change it where we now go

thought and change it where we now go ahead and create a different emotion not

ahead and create a different emotion not

ahead and create a different emotion not a negative one then we get a different

a negative one then we get a different

a negative one then we get a different action then we get a different result

action then we get a different result

action then we get a different result and this is kind of a way of

and this is kind of a way of

and this is kind of a way of illustrating how powerful our thoughts

illustrating how powerful our thoughts

illustrating how powerful our thoughts are very cool and that’s in the book how

are very cool and that’s in the book how

are very cool and that’s in the book how to make your thoughts in here that’s in

to make your thoughts in here that’s in

to make your thoughts in here that’s in this book yeah that’s in this book it’s

this book yeah that’s in this book it’s

this book yeah that’s in this book it’s on my website they get on my website

on my website they get on my website

on my website they get on my website cool check it out well Gary man it’s

cool check it out well Gary man it’s

cool check it out well Gary man it’s crazy how quickly happens an hour goes I

crazy how quickly happens an hour goes I

crazy how quickly happens an hour goes I know you do go chin and take people you

know you do go chin and take people you

know you do go chin and take people you know you fly them to islands from

know you fly them to islands from

know you fly them to islands from Florida and you do intensive programs

Florida and you do intensive programs

Florida and you do intensive programs you’ve got your book your YouTube

you’ve got your book your YouTube

you’ve got your book your YouTube channel your website what’s the best

channel your website what’s the best

channel your website what’s the best place for people to kind of learn about

place for people to kind of learn about

place for people to kind of learn about you connect take it to the next level

you connect take it to the next level

you connect take it to the next level they like what they hear they want to

they like what they hear they want to

they like what they hear they want to learn more I appreciate that Evan they

learn more I appreciate that Evan they

learn more I appreciate that Evan they can go to my website

can go to my website

can go to my website Gary Coxe calm you just don’t forget the

Gary Coxe calm you just don’t forget the

Gary Coxe calm you just don’t forget the EEG a hour

EEG a hour

EEG a hour i co XE calm if you want to join with me

i co XE calm if you want to join with me

i co XE calm if you want to join with me with me on the Bahamas for my mastermind

with me on the Bahamas for my mastermind

with me on the Bahamas for my mastermind event you go to that website or go to

event you go to that website or go to

event you go to that website or go to beyond first class with Gary calm beyond

beyond first class with Gary calm beyond

beyond first class with Gary calm beyond first class with Gary calm there’s a

first class with Gary calm there’s a

first class with Gary calm there’s a some information there they can fill out

some information there they can fill out

some information there they can fill out and before you know it I’ll be picking

and before you know it I’ll be picking

and before you know it I’ll be picking you up in the airplane we’ll be going on

you up in the airplane we’ll be going on

you up in the airplane we’ll be going on an exotic island for five days and just

an exotic island for five days and just

an exotic island for five days and just disengaging from the regular world good

disengaging from the regular world good

disengaging from the regular world good stuff

stuff

stuff allowable Gary thank you so much for

allowable Gary thank you so much for

allowable Gary thank you so much for spending time with us good luck in all

spending time with us good luck in all

spending time with us good luck in all your travels around the world changing

your travels around the world changing

your travels around the world changing lives continue to believe everybody and

lives continue to believe everybody and

lives continue to believe everybody and we’ll see you soon likewise thank you

we’ll see you soon likewise thank you

we’ll see you soon likewise thank you Evan