we’ve had amazing speaker so exciting and I I mean I’ve learned so much I
and I I mean I’ve learned so much I
and I I mean I’ve learned so much I hope you have to i love this kind of
hope you have to i love this kind of
hope you have to i love this kind of stuff and I feel from beginning to end
stuff and I feel from beginning to end
stuff and I feel from beginning to end we’ve gotten such wonderful perspective
we’ve gotten such wonderful perspective
we’ve gotten such wonderful perspective from everybody it’s just been phenomenal
from everybody it’s just been phenomenal
from everybody it’s just been phenomenal and I think the team at pally for
and I think the team at pally for
and I think the team at pally for putting this on you guys I don’t sleep
putting this on you guys I don’t sleep
putting this on you guys I don’t sleep in the back I see you back there you
in the back I see you back there you
in the back I see you back there you wake up let’s finish this up so this is
wake up let’s finish this up so this is
wake up let’s finish this up so this is this is the album cover of Justin
this is the album cover of Justin
this is the album cover of Justin Bieber’s new cute new album purpose I
Bieber’s new cute new album purpose I
Bieber’s new cute new album purpose I don’t know if ya sister I’m with you now
don’t know if ya sister I’m with you now
don’t know if ya sister I’m with you now I don’t know if you staff stop so I
I don’t know if you staff stop so I
I don’t know if you staff stop so I don’t know if you seen or heard his
don’t know if you seen or heard his
don’t know if you seen or heard his music before I’ve never been a what is
music before I’ve never been a what is
music before I’ve never been a what is it up a beaver a believer what is it
it up a beaver a believer what is it
it up a beaver a believer what is it I’ve never been that and I have this
I’ve never been that and I have this
I’ve never been that and I have this kind of holistic person in my life who
kind of holistic person in my life who
kind of holistic person in my life who said trecia gotta give it a listen it’s
said trecia gotta give it a listen it’s
said trecia gotta give it a listen it’s super inspiring and so I said okay so I
super inspiring and so I said okay so I
super inspiring and so I said okay so I listened to it and please do if you
listened to it and please do if you
listened to it and please do if you haven’t and I listen to his song called
haven’t and I listen to his song called
haven’t and I listen to his song called purpose and i gotta tell you the boys
purpose and i gotta tell you the boys
purpose and i gotta tell you the boys turning a corner I’m always really proud
turning a corner I’m always really proud
turning a corner I’m always really proud of him and then he has this whole thing
of him and then he has this whole thing
of him and then he has this whole thing about like trying to find herself in
about like trying to find herself in
about like trying to find herself in purpose and so that became my job for
purpose and so that became my job for
purpose and so that became my job for today which is really exciting and I
today which is really exciting and I
today which is really exciting and I think all of us and I am 46 years old I
think all of us and I am 46 years old I
think all of us and I am 46 years old I have three children I have a successful
have three children I have a successful
have three children I have a successful company a darling husband I met in high
company a darling husband I met in high
company a darling husband I met in high school mm-hmm it’s real love totally is
school mm-hmm it’s real love totally is
school mm-hmm it’s real love totally is and so um that I never knew sitting
and so um that I never knew sitting
and so um that I never knew sitting where you are that you know he would be
where you are that you know he would be
where you are that you know he would be part of my purpose and our kids here in
part of my purpose and our kids here in
part of my purpose and our kids here in LA would be part of our life and I am
LA would be part of our life and I am
LA would be part of our life and I am where I am because I thinks I’ve done
where I am because I thinks I’ve done
where I am because I thinks I’ve done but here I am and I grew up in the 80s I
but here I am and I grew up in the 80s I
but here I am and I grew up in the 80s I went to high school I had big hair
went to high school I had big hair
went to high school I had big hair gorgeous Madonna was my girl I mean it
gorgeous Madonna was my girl I mean it
gorgeous Madonna was my girl I mean it lived it and loved it you guys have a
lived it and loved it you guys have a
lived it and loved it you guys have a whole different most fabulous life you
whole different most fabulous life you
whole different most fabulous life you have social media you have your own
have social media you have your own
have social media you have your own phone you know my phone I had
phone you know my phone I had
phone you know my phone I had phone it was connected to the bloody
phone it was connected to the bloody
phone it was connected to the bloody wall I had to go into like the other
wall I had to go into like the other
wall I had to go into like the other room hide in a corner so my brothers
room hide in a corner so my brothers
room hide in a corner so my brothers don’t bug me so I could have a private
don’t bug me so I could have a private
don’t bug me so I could have a private conversation with my high school
conversation with my high school
conversation with my high school boyfriend now husband Eric quad and I
boyfriend now husband Eric quad and I
boyfriend now husband Eric quad and I tell you it was embarrassing and now you
tell you it was embarrassing and now you
tell you it was embarrassing and now you guys can do anything you know with all
guys can do anything you know with all
guys can do anything you know with all of this in my day the average girl had
of this in my day the average girl had
of this in my day the average girl had two friends on average to good friends
two friends on average to good friends
two friends on average to good friends today the average girl has six point two
today the average girl has six point two
today the average girl has six point two friends and that is because your friends
friends and that is because your friends
friends and that is because your friends might not be in your class at school
might not be in your class at school
might not be in your class at school your friends might not be in the
your friends might not be in the
your friends might not be in the palisades your friends might be in
palisades your friends might be in
palisades your friends might be in Laguna your friends might be in Russia
Laguna your friends might be in Russia
Laguna your friends might be in Russia and you can access them all via
and you can access them all via
and you can access them all via Instagram and your Pinterest and your
Instagram and your Pinterest and your
Instagram and your Pinterest and your Facebook and your snapchat whatever you
Facebook and your snapchat whatever you
Facebook and your snapchat whatever you got so amazing I moved a lot as a kid my
got so amazing I moved a lot as a kid my
got so amazing I moved a lot as a kid my dad was in the military i was born in
dad was in the military i was born in
dad was in the military i was born in north carolina and we moved a lot and i
north carolina and we moved a lot and i
north carolina and we moved a lot and i was like awesome and polite like i’d
was like awesome and polite like i’d
was like awesome and polite like i’d need somebody here to be my friend or
need somebody here to be my friend or
need somebody here to be my friend or write to you and I always did I got
write to you and I always did I got
write to you and I always did I got about eighteen percent of the letters
about eighteen percent of the letters
about eighteen percent of the letters back I was the they just didn’t send it
back I was the they just didn’t send it
back I was the they just didn’t send it back but now you could stay connected
back but now you could stay connected
back but now you could stay connected with people your whole life it’s really
with people your whole life it’s really
with people your whole life it’s really miraculous so I’m guessing that
miraculous so I’m guessing that
miraculous so I’m guessing that everybody has one of these right
everybody has one of these right
everybody has one of these right everyone has would you have one let me
everyone has would you have one let me
everyone has would you have one let me see you have a phone I see you back
see you have a phone I see you back
see you have a phone I see you back there on your phone I see you I see you
there on your phone I see you I see you
there on your phone I see you I see you stop texting yes you have a phone I love
stop texting yes you have a phone I love
stop texting yes you have a phone I love it so here’s the thing i love i love my
it so here’s the thing i love i love my
it so here’s the thing i love i love my phone i can connect to all my friends
phone i can connect to all my friends
phone i can connect to all my friends past present future love it find a local
past present future love it find a local
past present future love it find a local tarjay at a moment’s notice nordstrom
tarjay at a moment’s notice nordstrom
tarjay at a moment’s notice nordstrom rack I’m all over it I can be in the
rack I’m all over it I can be in the
rack I’m all over it I can be in the grocery line make a photo book post in
grocery line make a photo book post in
grocery line make a photo book post in 10 seconds and of course I document how
10 seconds and of course I document how
10 seconds and of course I document how fabulous my life is at all times so I
fabulous my life is at all times so I
fabulous my life is at all times so I mean it’s really a miracle a miracle
mean it’s really a miracle a miracle
mean it’s really a miracle a miracle thing I can navigate I have the worst
thing I can navigate I have the worst
thing I can navigate I have the worst since the direction i mean you tell me
since the direction i mean you tell me
since the direction i mean you tell me right i go left horrible but now the map
right i go left horrible but now the map
right i go left horrible but now the map tells me no blondie take a left Noah
tells me no blondie take a left Noah
tells me no blondie take a left Noah left Noah
left Noah
left Noah I mean it really blows my mind so we can
I mean it really blows my mind so we can
I mean it really blows my mind so we can do everything I mean KU who has their
do everything I mean KU who has their
do everything I mean KU who has their phone on them always I want a hint
phone on them always I want a hint
phone on them always I want a hint always okay my grandmother’s paid 90
always okay my grandmother’s paid 90
always okay my grandmother’s paid 90 raising her hand fake got you babe she
raising her hand fake got you babe she
raising her hand fake got you babe she actually selfie in the caddy the other
actually selfie in the caddy the other
actually selfie in the caddy the other day sent it to me out of control fate
day sent it to me out of control fate
day sent it to me out of control fate anyway so so what um how many of you
anyway so so what um how many of you
anyway so so what um how many of you sleep next to your phone oh look at a
sleep next to your phone oh look at a
sleep next to your phone oh look at a proud hand oh you bet I do it’s right
proud hand oh you bet I do it’s right
proud hand oh you bet I do it’s right right there if you could attach it
right there if you could attach it
right there if you could attach it somewhere to your body would you do that
somewhere to your body would you do that
somewhere to your body would you do that oh yes we have a few yeah just put it
oh yes we have a few yeah just put it
oh yes we have a few yeah just put it right there just right there to that
right there just right there to that
right there just right there to that right there yes yes definitely this is
right there yes yes definitely this is
right there yes yes definitely this is awesome that you have this technology
awesome that you have this technology
awesome that you have this technology you have issues but I’m gonna one-up you
you have issues but I’m gonna one-up you
you have issues but I’m gonna one-up you you actually that is the second best
you actually that is the second best
you actually that is the second best tool in your young lives right now
tool in your young lives right now
tool in your young lives right now without a doubt i’ll give that to you no
without a doubt i’ll give that to you no
without a doubt i’ll give that to you no problem but i got one better there’s
problem but i got one better there’s
problem but i got one better there’s something that is it even more valuable
something that is it even more valuable
something that is it even more valuable and that is you that is you guess what
and that is you that is you guess what
and that is you that is you guess what you have a better compass you have a
you have a better compass you have a
you have a better compass you have a better navigation you have a better
better navigation you have a better
better navigation you have a better sense of people and who should be your
sense of people and who should be your
sense of people and who should be your friend right inside and that is your
friend right inside and that is your
friend right inside and that is your purpose and that is what your define now
purpose and that is what your define now
purpose and that is what your define now you’re saying you’re going Yeah right
you’re saying you’re going Yeah right
you’re saying you’re going Yeah right I’m 16 I work a job I’m trying to take
I’m 16 I work a job I’m trying to take
I’m 16 I work a job I’m trying to take the SATs heavy pressure it’s all on me
the SATs heavy pressure it’s all on me
the SATs heavy pressure it’s all on me now you know I don’t know if I purpose
now you know I don’t know if I purpose
now you know I don’t know if I purpose what is my purpose well today I take you
what is my purpose well today I take you
what is my purpose well today I take you through three ideas that might help you
through three ideas that might help you
through three ideas that might help you find your purpose and the first one is
find your purpose and the first one is
find your purpose and the first one is to set a standard this is important
to set a standard this is important
to set a standard this is important interesting with a social media which I
interesting with a social media which I
interesting with a social media which I love this I’m all over it my husband
love this I’m all over it my husband
love this I’m all over it my husband makes them crazy I’m all over that
makes them crazy I’m all over that
makes them crazy I’m all over that social media and people opinion eight
social media and people opinion eight
social media and people opinion eight right people tell you thumbs up thumbs
right people tell you thumbs up thumbs
right people tell you thumbs up thumbs down you’re crazy what are you doing
down you’re crazy what are you doing
down you’re crazy what are you doing guess what they’ll find that on the job
guess what they’ll find that on the job
guess what they’ll find that on the job interview too just to work early word of
interview too just to work early word of
interview too just to work early word of warning you know let’s keep the language
warning you know let’s keep the language
warning you know let’s keep the language not too salty so um you need to set a
not too salty so um you need to set a
not too salty so um you need to set a standard for yourself an inside standard
standard for yourself an inside standard
standard for yourself an inside standard cannot be negotiated ever okay so what
cannot be negotiated ever okay so what
cannot be negotiated ever okay so what is that what’s your standard it could be
is that what’s your standard it could be
is that what’s your standard it could be I’m going to go to college it could be
I’m going to go to college it could be
I’m going to go to college it could be I’m not going to do drugs it can be I’m
I’m not going to do drugs it can be I’m
I’m not going to do drugs it can be I’m going to marry my high school sweetheart
going to marry my high school sweetheart
going to marry my high school sweetheart I did that it worked out but so what’s
I did that it worked out but so what’s
I did that it worked out but so what’s it going to be let’s say it’s going to
it going to be let’s say it’s going to
it going to be let’s say it’s going to be I’m not going to do drugs okay now
be I’m not going to do drugs okay now
be I’m not going to do drugs okay now anybody that comes to you and wants you
anybody that comes to you and wants you
anybody that comes to you and wants you to now basically negate your standard
to now basically negate your standard
to now basically negate your standard it’s a solid no right cuz you already
it’s a solid no right cuz you already
it’s a solid no right cuz you already make that decision so you’re hanging out
make that decision so you’re hanging out
make that decision so you’re hanging out with a friend they say hey so-and-so
with a friend they say hey so-and-so
with a friend they say hey so-and-so said wats cool let’s try some pot
said wats cool let’s try some pot
said wats cool let’s try some pot mmm-hmm no it’s it’s my standard it’s my
mmm-hmm no it’s it’s my standard it’s my
mmm-hmm no it’s it’s my standard it’s my policy it’s my policy I don’t do drugs
policy it’s my policy I don’t do drugs
policy it’s my policy I don’t do drugs so no things and I go to a party at once
so no things and I go to a party at once
so no things and I go to a party at once and drugs with me you know what maybe
and drugs with me you know what maybe
and drugs with me you know what maybe I’ll be hey everybody cool man I gotta
I’ll be hey everybody cool man I gotta
I’ll be hey everybody cool man I gotta go you know there you go you want to go
go you know there you go you want to go
go you know there you go you want to go to college you’re hanging out with
to college you’re hanging out with
to college you’re hanging out with people everyone’s ditching school nobody
people everyone’s ditching school nobody
people everyone’s ditching school nobody wants to school very easy answer I’m not
wants to school very easy answer I’m not
wants to school very easy answer I’m not hanging with these people I’m to go
hanging with these people I’m to go
hanging with these people I’m to go where my policy is respected that’s what
where my policy is respected that’s what
where my policy is respected that’s what you do and then what happened well you
you do and then what happened well you
you do and then what happened well you got this little seat of purpose inside
got this little seat of purpose inside
got this little seat of purpose inside of you and it starts growing and it
of you and it starts growing and it
of you and it starts growing and it grows because your policy and your
grows because your policy and your
grows because your policy and your commitment to yourself is now giving you
commitment to yourself is now giving you
commitment to yourself is now giving you confidence okay so that’s the next thing
confidence okay so that’s the next thing
confidence okay so that’s the next thing confidence building confidence how do we
confidence building confidence how do we
confidence building confidence how do we do that well definitely the strength of
do that well definitely the strength of
do that well definitely the strength of character does that and by you making
character does that and by you making
character does that and by you making that standard and living to that
that standard and living to that
that standard and living to that standard that will that will absolutely
standard that will that will absolutely
standard that will that will absolutely build your confidence but also realizing
build your confidence but also realizing
build your confidence but also realizing that you’re super important you’re
that you’re super important you’re
that you’re super important you’re absolutely important every single one of
absolutely important every single one of
absolutely important every single one of you two day every single person in here
you two day every single person in here
you two day every single person in here is here for a specific purpose and it’s
is here for a specific purpose and it’s
is here for a specific purpose and it’s different everybody is so different and
different everybody is so different and
different everybody is so different and what you doing what you doing what you
what you doing what you doing what you
what you doing what you doing what you do totally different and you have to
do totally different and you have to
do totally different and you have to believe in your heart of hearts that you
believe in your heart of hearts that you
believe in your heart of hearts that you have your standards and now you have a
have your standards and now you have a
have your standards and now you have a purpose unlike anybody else and we are
purpose unlike anybody else and we are
purpose unlike anybody else and we are all relying basically on you to tell us
all relying basically on you to tell us
all relying basically on you to tell us what your purpose is so we can all kind
what your purpose is so we can all kind
what your purpose is so we can all kind of work together and grow that’s what
of work together and grow that’s what
of work together and grow that’s what it’s about that’s really what’s it about
it’s about that’s really what’s it about
it’s about that’s really what’s it about and this comes down to fear in love you
and this comes down to fear in love you
and this comes down to fear in love you know every
know every
know every decision we make think about it think
decision we make think about it think
decision we make think about it think about your last decision you made was
about your last decision you made was
about your last decision you made was based on fear or love think about it
based on fear or love think about it
based on fear or love think about it Cambridge getting up here today talking
Cambridge getting up here today talking
Cambridge getting up here today talking that was it fearful idea but she ended
that was it fearful idea but she ended
that was it fearful idea but she ended up loving yourself enough to get up here
up loving yourself enough to get up here
up loving yourself enough to get up here and do it what did it do it turn the
and do it what did it do it turn the
and do it what did it do it turn the corner for which was pretty amazing if
corner for which was pretty amazing if
corner for which was pretty amazing if you always make a decision and fear you
you always make a decision and fear you
you always make a decision and fear you will never be happy you will never find
will never be happy you will never find
will never be happy you will never find joy you will never expand ever because
joy you will never expand ever because
joy you will never expand ever because you’ll continually find misery because
you’ll continually find misery because
you’ll continually find misery because you’re making the wrong choice you need
you’re making the wrong choice you need
you’re making the wrong choice you need to meet every choice with love when you
to meet every choice with love when you
to meet every choice with love when you do that you will find your passion is
do that you will find your passion is
do that you will find your passion is this something that drives me is this am
this something that drives me is this am
this something that drives me is this am I doing this for somebody else you’ll
I doing this for somebody else you’ll
I doing this for somebody else you’ll never do it for somebody else if you’re
never do it for somebody else if you’re
never do it for somebody else if you’re doing it out of love ever never ever and
doing it out of love ever never ever and
doing it out of love ever never ever and the interesting thing is which I’ve
the interesting thing is which I’ve
the interesting thing is which I’ve learned through years of learning and
learned through years of learning and
learned through years of learning and growing and succeeding no matter what
growing and succeeding no matter what
growing and succeeding no matter what you do people will always have an
you do people will always have an
you do people will always have an opinion not good not bad but they’ll
opinion not good not bad but they’ll
opinion not good not bad but they’ll always have an opinion about it so you
always have an opinion about it so you
always have an opinion about it so you probably shouldn’t make your decision
probably shouldn’t make your decision
probably shouldn’t make your decision based on what other people are going to
based on what other people are going to
based on what other people are going to think let’s just put that right over
think let’s just put that right over
think let’s just put that right over there right now lastly the last thing
there right now lastly the last thing
there right now lastly the last thing that is so important to you finding your
that is so important to you finding your
that is so important to you finding your purpose is very simple it’s two words
purpose is very simple it’s two words
purpose is very simple it’s two words and it’s going to blow your mind it
and it’s going to blow your mind it
and it’s going to blow your mind it actually blows my mind every single day
actually blows my mind every single day
actually blows my mind every single day because it works every single day serve
because it works every single day serve
because it works every single day serve others I will probably crying this part
others I will probably crying this part
others I will probably crying this part you know it um but serve others means
you know it um but serve others means
you know it um but serve others means that you are going to be a friend to all
that you are going to be a friend to all
that you are going to be a friend to all if you need a friend you’re going to be
if you need a friend you’re going to be
if you need a friend you’re going to be a friend if you need kindness you’re
a friend if you need kindness you’re
a friend if you need kindness you’re going to be kindness if you need money
going to be kindness if you need money
going to be kindness if you need money you’re going to give money if you’re
you’re going to give money if you’re
you’re going to give money if you’re hungry you’re going to share your meal
hungry you’re going to share your meal
hungry you’re going to share your meal if you need a hug you’re going to give
if you need a hug you’re going to give
if you need a hug you’re going to give up if you need to find purpose you’re
up if you need to find purpose you’re
up if you need to find purpose you’re going to help somebody find there’s Jim
going to help somebody find there’s Jim
going to help somebody find there’s Jim very close to commencement speech
very close to commencement speech
very close to commencement speech a few years back genius of a man and
a few years back genius of a man and
a few years back genius of a man and said everyday choose love because love
said everyday choose love because love
said everyday choose love because love will open every door for you and fear
will open every door for you and fear
will open every door for you and fear will close that door always choose love
will close that door always choose love
will close that door always choose love and never let fear close your playful
and never let fear close your playful
and never let fear close your playful heart go out and be you by
heart go out and be you by
heart go out and be you by [Applause]
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