good afternoon everybody sexual abuse and rape remains one of the
sexual abuse and rape remains one of the
sexual abuse and rape remains one of the most socially awkward topics of
most socially awkward topics of
most socially awkward topics of conversation
conversation
conversation it is a sad awful and devastating fact
it is a sad awful and devastating fact
it is a sad awful and devastating fact that impacts on the lives of women of
that impacts on the lives of women of
that impacts on the lives of women of men of girls and of boys and no matter
men of girls and of boys and no matter
men of girls and of boys and no matter how much we wish it didn’t exist sexual
how much we wish it didn’t exist sexual
how much we wish it didn’t exist sexual abuse and rape happens but what if I
abuse and rape happens but what if I
abuse and rape happens but what if I told you that being sexually abused
told you that being sexually abused
told you that being sexually abused whilst almost being the breaking of me
whilst almost being the breaking of me
whilst almost being the breaking of me was in fact the making of me the people
was in fact the making of me the people
was in fact the making of me the people that taught me how to make this change
that taught me how to make this change
that taught me how to make this change are safe line a wonderfully caring and
are safe line a wonderfully caring and
are safe line a wonderfully caring and passionate charity set up 21 years ago
passionate charity set up 21 years ago
passionate charity set up 21 years ago to help any and all survivors of sexual
to help any and all survivors of sexual
to help any and all survivors of sexual abuse or rape no matter who they are
abuse or rape no matter who they are
abuse or rape no matter who they are where they are how old they are or how
where they are how old they are or how
where they are how old they are or how long ago the abuse happened now I could
long ago the abuse happened now I could
long ago the abuse happened now I could stand here and wax lyrical to you all
stand here and wax lyrical to you all
stand here and wax lyrical to you all day about why and how we could all be
day about why and how we could all be
day about why and how we could all be supporting safeline and we should but
supporting safeline and we should but
supporting safeline and we should but today I actually want to use this
today I actually want to use this
today I actually want to use this opportunity to talk to you about the
opportunity to talk to you about the
opportunity to talk to you about the reality of sexual abuse about what
reality of sexual abuse about what
reality of sexual abuse about what happens to how you see yourself when it
happens to how you see yourself when it
happens to how you see yourself when it happens to you about how it truly can be
happens to you about how it truly can be
happens to you about how it truly can be the making and not the breaking of you
the making and not the breaking of you
the making and not the breaking of you and how we all together can open up the
and how we all together can open up the
and how we all together can open up the conversation and help reduce the taboo
conversation and help reduce the taboo
conversation and help reduce the taboo that affects so many people in order to
that affects so many people in order to
that affects so many people in order to do this
do this
do this I’m and open up this conversation I want
I’m and open up this conversation I want
I’m and open up this conversation I want to share with you first of all a few
to share with you first of all a few
to share with you first of all a few myths that are surrounding sexual abuse
myths that are surrounding sexual abuse
myths that are surrounding sexual abuse and rape myth number one is that sexual
and rape myth number one is that sexual
and rape myth number one is that sexual abuse happens to children in lower
abuse happens to children in lower
abuse happens to children in lower socioeconomic classes myth number two is
socioeconomic classes myth number two is
socioeconomic classes myth number two is that sexual abuse is carried out by
that sexual abuse is carried out by
that sexual abuse is carried out by strangers myth number three people who
strangers myth number three people who
strangers myth number three people who don’t say anything at the time must be
don’t say anything at the time must be
don’t say anything at the time must be lying when they make accusations years
lying when they make accusations years
lying when they make accusations years later and myth number four if you were
later and myth number four if you were
later and myth number four if you were sexually abused or raped you will remain
sexually abused or raped you will remain
sexually abused or raped you will remain a victim for the rest of your life and a
a victim for the rest of your life and a
a victim for the rest of your life and a little piece of you will forever be
little piece of you will forever be
little piece of you will forever be broken in order to tell you about these
broken in order to tell you about these
broken in order to tell you about these four myths I’m going to share with you
four myths I’m going to share with you
four myths I’m going to share with you my story I was three years old when I
my story I was three years old when I
my story I was three years old when I was first sexually abused I grew up in a
was first sexually abused I grew up in a
was first sexually abused I grew up in a affluent middle-class area I had and
affluent middle-class area I had and
affluent middle-class area I had and still have loving parents an older
still have loving parents an older
still have loving parents an older brother and friends to play with down
brother and friends to play with down
brother and friends to play with down the street where I grew up all in all
the street where I grew up all in all
the street where I grew up all in all from the outside my life looked pretty
from the outside my life looked pretty
from the outside my life looked pretty idyllic I wasn’t spoiled but I didn’t go
idyllic I wasn’t spoiled but I didn’t go
idyllic I wasn’t spoiled but I didn’t go without I certainly wasn’t neglected
without I certainly wasn’t neglected
without I certainly wasn’t neglected I wasn’t starved I wasn’t in poverty and
I wasn’t starved I wasn’t in poverty and
I wasn’t starved I wasn’t in poverty and I wasn’t dirty but from the age of three
I wasn’t dirty but from the age of three
I wasn’t dirty but from the age of three I had a secret a secret that I didn’t
I had a secret a secret that I didn’t
I had a secret a secret that I didn’t understand it wasn’t a secret that would
understand it wasn’t a secret that would
understand it wasn’t a secret that would make me smile or make me feel happy it
make me smile or make me feel happy it
make me smile or make me feel happy it was a secret that would make me feel sad
was a secret that would make me feel sad
was a secret that would make me feel sad and confused
it was a secret that I couldn’t share
it was a secret that I couldn’t share because we don’t share secrets we keep
because we don’t share secrets we keep
because we don’t share secrets we keep them that’s why they’re secrets
them that’s why they’re secrets
them that’s why they’re secrets as a young lively adventurous little
as a young lively adventurous little
as a young lively adventurous little girl I was being sexually abused this
girl I was being sexually abused this
girl I was being sexually abused this went on for a period of four years so
went on for a period of four years so
went on for a period of four years so between the ages of 3 & 7 I was
between the ages of 3 & 7 I was
between the ages of 3 & 7 I was periodically left with a family friend
periodically left with a family friend
periodically left with a family friend someone that my parents believed was
someone that my parents believed was
someone that my parents believed was trustworthy and loved me in the same way
trustworthy and loved me in the same way
trustworthy and loved me in the same way that they did and when I was left with
that they did and when I was left with
that they did and when I was left with this person we would play and then they
this person we would play and then they
this person we would play and then they would suggest that we go to my secret
would suggest that we go to my secret
would suggest that we go to my secret place and they would abuse me afterwards
place and they would abuse me afterwards
place and they would abuse me afterwards they would take me out to one of the
they would take me out to one of the
they would take me out to one of the local cake shops and buy me a cake and
local cake shops and buy me a cake and
local cake shops and buy me a cake and so I’d feel even more confused about why
so I’d feel even more confused about why
so I’d feel even more confused about why this person treated me so nicely and yet
this person treated me so nicely and yet
this person treated me so nicely and yet did things to me that I just I didn’t
did things to me that I just I didn’t
did things to me that I just I didn’t understand and I didn’t like and somehow
understand and I didn’t like and somehow
understand and I didn’t like and somehow I knew they weren’t right when I was 7
I knew they weren’t right when I was 7
I knew they weren’t right when I was 7 years old
years old
years old I told my mum that I didn’t want to be
I told my mum that I didn’t want to be
I told my mum that I didn’t want to be left with this person anymore
left with this person anymore
left with this person anymore I said I’d rather go out with them and
I said I’d rather go out with them and
I said I’d rather go out with them and go round the shops
go round the shops
go round the shops despite being asked why I never said
despite being asked why I never said
despite being asked why I never said because it was a secret so I didn’t know
because it was a secret so I didn’t know
because it was a secret so I didn’t know what to say at the
what to say at the
what to say at the age of seven I was no longer left with
age of seven I was no longer left with
age of seven I was no longer left with this person and so my abuser lost his
this person and so my abuser lost his
this person and so my abuser lost his opportunity to keep abusing me
opportunity to keep abusing me
opportunity to keep abusing me I felt safe for the first time in my
I felt safe for the first time in my
I felt safe for the first time in my life and so we can all breathe a sigh of
life and so we can all breathe a sigh of
life and so we can all breathe a sigh of relief because the worst bit is over
however what happened to me happens to
however what happened to me happens to many people who have been abused because
many people who have been abused because
many people who have been abused because unfortunately this wasn’t the only time
unfortunately this wasn’t the only time
unfortunately this wasn’t the only time it happened when I was 12 years old I
it happened when I was 12 years old I
it happened when I was 12 years old I went to stay with some very close and
went to stay with some very close and
went to stay with some very close and familiar family friends one night I went
familiar family friends one night I went
familiar family friends one night I went to bed and one of my adult carers came
to bed and one of my adult carers came
to bed and one of my adult carers came up to say goodnight to me as they had
up to say goodnight to me as they had
up to say goodnight to me as they had done many other times only on this
done many other times only on this
done many other times only on this occasion they got onto the bed with me
occasion they got onto the bed with me
occasion they got onto the bed with me and we talked them and then they said
and we talked them and then they said
and we talked them and then they said let’s go to your secret place I froze my
let’s go to your secret place I froze my
let’s go to your secret place I froze my brain was flooded with thoughts of
brain was flooded with thoughts of
brain was flooded with thoughts of knowing what was about to happen even
knowing what was about to happen even
knowing what was about to happen even though this was a completely different
though this was a completely different
though this was a completely different person I knew what was about to happen
person I knew what was about to happen
person I knew what was about to happen the next day I completely avoided my
the next day I completely avoided my
the next day I completely avoided my abuser I stayed glued to the other carer
abuser I stayed glued to the other carer
abuser I stayed glued to the other carer who was looking after me and when my
who was looking after me and when my
who was looking after me and when my parents came to pick me up
parents came to pick me up
parents came to pick me up I said nothing because it was a secret
I said nothing because it was a secret
I said nothing because it was a secret and we don’t share secrets I
then just sort of carried on with life
then just sort of carried on with life unable to deal with and understand what
unable to deal with and understand what
unable to deal with and understand what had happened to me I just tried to forge
had happened to me I just tried to forge
had happened to me I just tried to forge on through life at the age of 16 one of
on through life at the age of 16 one of
on through life at the age of 16 one of the abusers died and I started to have
the abusers died and I started to have
the abusers died and I started to have flashbacks I was absolutely horrified by
flashbacks I was absolutely horrified by
flashbacks I was absolutely horrified by the thoughts I was having and disgusted
the thoughts I was having and disgusted
the thoughts I was having and disgusted with myself of thinking about somebody
with myself of thinking about somebody
with myself of thinking about somebody who had just died in this way so I said
who had just died in this way so I said
who had just died in this way so I said nothing and I tried to just forget
nothing and I tried to just forget
nothing and I tried to just forget everything that I’d remembered and so
everything that I’d remembered and so
everything that I’d remembered and so the slow subtle depression began when I
the slow subtle depression began when I
the slow subtle depression began when I was 22 the second abuser died very
was 22 the second abuser died very
was 22 the second abuser died very suddenly and very unexpectedly he was
suddenly and very unexpectedly he was
suddenly and very unexpectedly he was still a very much beloved member of the
still a very much beloved member of the
still a very much beloved member of the family somebody that I had continued to
family somebody that I had continued to
family somebody that I had continued to have very regular contact with because
have very regular contact with because
have very regular contact with because nobody knew what had happened I was
nobody knew what had happened I was
nobody knew what had happened I was thrown alongside my family into a state
thrown alongside my family into a state
thrown alongside my family into a state of mourning and so again the depression
of mourning and so again the depression
of mourning and so again the depression continued by my late 20s I had a very
continued by my late 20s I had a very
continued by my late 20s I had a very successful corporate career but the
successful corporate career but the
successful corporate career but the years of denial the years of trying to
years of denial the years of trying to
years of denial the years of trying to shut out everything that had happened to
shut out everything that had happened to
shut out everything that had happened to me the years of carrying these secrets
me the years of carrying these secrets
me the years of carrying these secrets with me were beginning to take their
with me were beginning to take their
with me were beginning to take their toll and the cracks began to show I was
toll and the cracks began to show I was
toll and the cracks began to show I was in a promising relationship at home and
in a promising relationship at home and
in a promising relationship at home and I had this great career and I couldn’t
I had this great career and I couldn’t
I had this great career and I couldn’t hold it together the slightest thing
hold it together the slightest thing
hold it together the slightest thing going wrong at work caused a
going wrong at work caused a
going wrong at work caused a disproportionate emotional response in
disproportionate emotional response in
disproportionate emotional response in me and so I finally came to a place
me and so I finally came to a place
me and so I finally came to a place where I realized this is it
where I realized this is it
where I realized this is it you either seek professional help
you either seek professional help
you either seek professional help oh you’re going to go under it was make
oh you’re going to go under it was make
oh you’re going to go under it was make or break now I consider myself lucky
or break now I consider myself lucky
or break now I consider myself lucky because I found safeline and I chose the
because I found safeline and I chose the
because I found safeline and I chose the former it was at this point as I entered
former it was at this point as I entered
former it was at this point as I entered my 30s that my long and complicated
my 30s that my long and complicated
my 30s that my long and complicated journey into survivor hood began and I
journey into survivor hood began and I
journey into survivor hood began and I honestly stand here today and say it
honestly stand here today and say it
honestly stand here today and say it only began because of the support I
only began because of the support I
only began because of the support I received from safeline but what is
received from safeline but what is
received from safeline but what is survivor hood and what is it that
survivor hood and what is it that
survivor hood and what is it that happens to you when you’ve been sexually
happens to you when you’ve been sexually
happens to you when you’ve been sexually abused or raped the first thing that
abused or raped the first thing that
abused or raped the first thing that happens to you is fear and isolation
happens to you is fear and isolation
happens to you is fear and isolation fear that you are going to have to carry
fear that you are going to have to carry
fear that you are going to have to carry this secret with you for the rest of
this secret with you for the rest of
this secret with you for the rest of your life and it’s going to kill you
your life and it’s going to kill you
your life and it’s going to kill you fear that if you ever speak out no one’s
fear that if you ever speak out no one’s
fear that if you ever speak out no one’s going to believe you and isolation
going to believe you and isolation
going to believe you and isolation because you are so alone you feel broken
because you are so alone you feel broken
because you are so alone you feel broken and you feel used and quite commonly
and you feel used and quite commonly
and you feel used and quite commonly people feel that they are somehow to
people feel that they are somehow to
people feel that they are somehow to blame so you walk around carrying a
blame so you walk around carrying a
blame so you walk around carrying a burden of shame and guilt about
burden of shame and guilt about
burden of shame and guilt about something that you actually had no
something that you actually had no
something that you actually had no choice in whatsoever if we move then to
choice in whatsoever if we move then to
choice in whatsoever if we move then to how does this become survivor hood
how does this become survivor hood
how does this become survivor hood survivor hood only happens because you
survivor hood only happens because you
survivor hood only happens because you choose it I had to want to be a survivor
choose it I had to want to be a survivor
choose it I had to want to be a survivor I had to make that choice
I had to make that choice
I had to make that choice I had to have the courage to say for the
I had to have the courage to say for the
I had to have the courage to say for the first time ever this is what happened to
first time ever this is what happened to
first time ever this is what happened to me and I promise you the first time I
me and I promise you the first time I
me and I promise you the first time I said that the first time I sat in a room
said that the first time I sat in a room
said that the first time I sat in a room with another individual and said I think
with another individual and said I think
with another individual and said I think I was sexually abused I honestly thought
I was sexually abused I honestly thought
I was sexually abused I honestly thought those words would overwhelm me but they
those words would overwhelm me but they
those words would overwhelm me but they didn’t so I said it again and I said it
didn’t so I said it again and I said it
didn’t so I said it again and I said it again and I said it again and in doing
again and I said it again and in doing
again and I said it again and in doing that what happens is you begin to take
that what happens is you begin to take
that what happens is you begin to take back control because you’re not hanging
back control because you’re not hanging
back control because you’re not hanging on to the secret anymore because the
on to the secret anymore because the
on to the secret anymore because the minute you tell somebody else is not a
minute you tell somebody else is not a
minute you tell somebody else is not a secret so you break the spell I had to
secret so you break the spell I had to
secret so you break the spell I had to learn that it was okay to speak up and
learn that it was okay to speak up and
learn that it was okay to speak up and speak out it’s not easy in fact it’s the
speak out it’s not easy in fact it’s the
speak out it’s not easy in fact it’s the hardest thing that I ever had to do in
hardest thing that I ever had to do in
hardest thing that I ever had to do in my life but in doing it I learned to
my life but in doing it I learned to
my life but in doing it I learned to embrace my vulnerability I learned that
embrace my vulnerability I learned that
embrace my vulnerability I learned that actually what I thought was my weakest
actually what I thought was my weakest
actually what I thought was my weakest spot is actually my source of all my
spot is actually my source of all my
spot is actually my source of all my power and strength the whole process of
power and strength the whole process of
power and strength the whole process of survivor hood is about learning to take
survivor hood is about learning to take
survivor hood is about learning to take back the power that was taken from you
back the power that was taken from you
back the power that was taken from you because who you are meant to be before
because who you are meant to be before
because who you are meant to be before you were sexually abused or raped is the
you were sexually abused or raped is the
you were sexually abused or raped is the person you’re fighting to get back to
person you’re fighting to get back to
person you’re fighting to get back to and for me it was that gorgeous little
and for me it was that gorgeous little
and for me it was that gorgeous little girl in those fantastic sunglasses
if somebody discloses to you if somebody
if somebody discloses to you if somebody wants to share their story with you the
wants to share their story with you the
wants to share their story with you the one thing I would ask you to do for them
one thing I would ask you to do for them
one thing I would ask you to do for them is listen you don’t need to say anything
is listen you don’t need to say anything
is listen you don’t need to say anything this is not about finding the right
this is not about finding the right
this is not about finding the right words or making it better for them
words or making it better for them
words or making it better for them understand that the greatest gift you
understand that the greatest gift you
understand that the greatest gift you can give them is to listen because what
can give them is to listen because what
can give them is to listen because what they want to do and what they need is to
they want to do and what they need is to
they want to do and what they need is to hear themselves say the words of what
hear themselves say the words of what
hear themselves say the words of what happened to them so please don’t be
happened to them so please don’t be
happened to them so please don’t be afraid of the topic of conversation of
afraid of the topic of conversation of
afraid of the topic of conversation of sexual abuse and rape listening is the
sexual abuse and rape listening is the
sexual abuse and rape listening is the greatest gift all we want as survivors
greatest gift all we want as survivors
greatest gift all we want as survivors is to be listened to and be believed so
is to be listened to and be believed so
is to be listened to and be believed so that brings me back to our myths myth
that brings me back to our myths myth
that brings me back to our myths myth number one sexual abuse happens to
number one sexual abuse happens to
number one sexual abuse happens to children in lower socioeconomic classes
children in lower socioeconomic classes
children in lower socioeconomic classes not true abusers do not care about your
not true abusers do not care about your
not true abusers do not care about your social standing wealth is no deterrent
social standing wealth is no deterrent
social standing wealth is no deterrent to this impacting anywhere so much so
to this impacting anywhere so much so
to this impacting anywhere so much so that it happens to one in four women and
that it happens to one in four women and
that it happens to one in four women and one in six men that’s eight million
one in six men that’s eight million
one in six men that’s eight million women and five million men in the UK
women and five million men in the UK
women and five million men in the UK alone and these are the reported numbers
alone and these are the reported numbers
alone and these are the reported numbers so you can imagine that these are
so you can imagine that these are
so you can imagine that these are probably quite a low
probably quite a low
probably quite a low resh hold myth number two sexual abuse
resh hold myth number two sexual abuse
resh hold myth number two sexual abuse is carried out by strangers
is carried out by strangers
is carried out by strangers not true sexual abuse is generally
not true sexual abuse is generally
not true sexual abuse is generally carried out by people who are well known
carried out by people who are well known
carried out by people who are well known to the victims they are people in a role
to the victims they are people in a role
to the victims they are people in a role of authority and people that are well
of authority and people that are well
of authority and people that are well known to the children and if they are
known to the children and if they are
known to the children and if they are not in that position at the moment they
not in that position at the moment they
not in that position at the moment they will get themselves into that position
myth number three people who don’t say
myth number three people who don’t say anything at the time must be lying when
anything at the time must be lying when
anything at the time must be lying when they make accusations years later not
they make accusations years later not
they make accusations years later not true your brain is designed to protect
true your brain is designed to protect
true your brain is designed to protect you if it will do you harm to remember
you if it will do you harm to remember
you if it will do you harm to remember something before you are ready to and
something before you are ready to and
something before you are ready to and before you are able to cope with it your
before you are able to cope with it your
before you are able to cope with it your brain will keep it from you
in addition to that there are also two
in addition to that there are also two other reasons that people don’t speak up
other reasons that people don’t speak up
other reasons that people don’t speak up one is that they still have family
one is that they still have family
one is that they still have family friends or other connections back to the
friends or other connections back to the
friends or other connections back to the abuser or two more commonly there are
abuser or two more commonly there are
abuser or two more commonly there are enormous misplaced feelings of guilt and
enormous misplaced feelings of guilt and
enormous misplaced feelings of guilt and blame that somehow they played a role in
blame that somehow they played a role in
blame that somehow they played a role in this happening a myth number four if you
this happening a myth number four if you
this happening a myth number four if you were sexually abused or raped you will
were sexually abused or raped you will
were sexually abused or raped you will remain a victim for the rest of your
remain a victim for the rest of your
remain a victim for the rest of your life and a little piece of you will
life and a little piece of you will
life and a little piece of you will forever be broken not true as I stand
forever be broken not true as I stand
forever be broken not true as I stand before you today I hope that you see
before you today I hope that you see
before you today I hope that you see that I walk my talk sexual abuse and
that I walk my talk sexual abuse and
that I walk my talk sexual abuse and rape
rape
rape is not your identity it is not the
is not your identity it is not the
is not your identity it is not the definition of you you have a choice as
definition of you you have a choice as
definition of you you have a choice as an adult I made that choice to change my
an adult I made that choice to change my
an adult I made that choice to change my future and stop living in a past that
future and stop living in a past that
future and stop living in a past that made me feel broken inside it has not
made me feel broken inside it has not
made me feel broken inside it has not been an easy journey I have cried I have
been an easy journey I have cried I have
been an easy journey I have cried I have raged and I have broken my heart
raged and I have broken my heart
raged and I have broken my heart multiple times with all different sorts
multiple times with all different sorts
multiple times with all different sorts of grief as I have tried to heal myself
of grief as I have tried to heal myself
of grief as I have tried to heal myself and recapture what got taken from me so
and recapture what got taken from me so
and recapture what got taken from me so it’s a grueling journey but it is worth
it’s a grueling journey but it is worth
it’s a grueling journey but it is worth every single step because as I stand
every single step because as I stand
every single step because as I stand before you today I am stronger and more
before you today I am stronger and more
before you today I am stronger and more powerful than my abusers this really is
powerful than my abusers this really is
powerful than my abusers this really is an opportunity for us all sexual abuse
an opportunity for us all sexual abuse
an opportunity for us all sexual abuse and rape can be the making not the
and rape can be the making not the
and rape can be the making not the breaking of you and what I ask everyone
breaking of you and what I ask everyone
breaking of you and what I ask everyone in this room to do is no longer feel
in this room to do is no longer feel
in this room to do is no longer feel afraid of this topic of conversation we
afraid of this topic of conversation we
afraid of this topic of conversation we have nothing to hide
have nothing to hide
have nothing to hide and we have everything to gain we can
and we have everything to gain we can
and we have everything to gain we can talk about it we can hear about it and
talk about it we can hear about it and
talk about it we can hear about it and we can listen to what other people have
we can listen to what other people have
we can listen to what other people have experienced and if you do nothing else
experienced and if you do nothing else
experienced and if you do nothing else today then I ask you to help me continue
today then I ask you to help me continue
today then I ask you to help me continue to support the great work that safeline
to support the great work that safeline
to support the great work that safeline do so that we can help more people and
do so that we can help more people and
do so that we can help more people and do the work for you even if you don’t
do the work for you even if you don’t
do the work for you even if you don’t feel ready to do it yet yourself and to
feel ready to do it yet yourself and to
feel ready to do it yet yourself and to anybody who has been affected please
anybody who has been affected please
anybody who has been affected please know that safeline are there to help you
know that safeline are there to help you
know that safeline are there to help you as and when you need them they are the
as and when you need them they are the
as and when you need them they are the charity that caught me when I thought I
charity that caught me when I thought I
charity that caught me when I thought I was about to fall and so today I want to
was about to fall and so today I want to
was about to fall and so today I want to repay that to them and get their message
repay that to them and get their message
repay that to them and get their message out to all of you so please help me open
out to all of you so please help me open
out to all of you so please help me open up this conversation and break down the
up this conversation and break down the
up this conversation and break down the taboo that surrounds sexual abuse and
taboo that surrounds sexual abuse and
taboo that surrounds sexual abuse and rape and in this way together we can all
rape and in this way together we can all
rape and in this way together we can all be a part of the solution thank you
be a part of the solution thank you
be a part of the solution thank you [Applause]
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