good morning believe nation today we’re going to talk about how you can wait
going to talk about how you can wait
going to talk about how you can wait patiently patience is for the impatient
patiently patience is for the impatient
patiently patience is for the impatient that in fact when you’re getting started
that in fact when you’re getting started
that in fact when you’re getting started in your in-laws are making faces at you
in your in-laws are making faces at you
in your in-laws are making faces at you and you’re not sure if you’re gonna be
and you’re not sure if you’re gonna be
and you’re not sure if you’re gonna be able to pay the rent and you don’t know
able to pay the rent and you don’t know
able to pay the rent and you don’t know why you’re living in Brooklyn to begin
why you’re living in Brooklyn to begin
why you’re living in Brooklyn to begin with and you’re gonna have to move back
with and you’re gonna have to move back
with and you’re gonna have to move back to Florida it’s easy to say you know
to Florida it’s easy to say you know
to Florida it’s easy to say you know what I need to go faster to pick up
what I need to go faster to pick up
what I need to go faster to pick up these scraps to pick up these scraps and
these scraps to pick up these scraps and
these scraps to pick up these scraps and sometimes what that does is it gives you
sometimes what that does is it gives you
sometimes what that does is it gives you the foot up to get to the next level but
the foot up to get to the next level but
the foot up to get to the next level but sometimes what that does is it just
sometimes what that does is it just
sometimes what that does is it just makes your scrap collector and that one
makes your scrap collector and that one
makes your scrap collector and that one of the things that we see when we look
of the things that we see when we look
of the things that we see when we look at the work of people who have put
at the work of people who have put
at the work of people who have put really big ideas into the world who have
really big ideas into the world who have
really big ideas into the world who have built online platforms right is that
built online platforms right is that
built online platforms right is that they got there by being patiently
they got there by being patiently
they got there by being patiently impatient or impatiently patient
impatient or impatiently patient
impatient or impatiently patient whichever way you want to just oppose it
whichever way you want to just oppose it
whichever way you want to just oppose it that if you look around at the blog’s
that if you look around at the blog’s
that if you look around at the blog’s you read or that the people you respect
you read or that the people you respect
you read or that the people you respect online or the organizations you want to
online or the organizations you want to
online or the organizations you want to work with the myth of the overnight
work with the myth of the overnight
work with the myth of the overnight success is just that a myth
success is just that a myth
success is just that a myth that you know the much-vaunted twitter
that you know the much-vaunted twitter
that you know the much-vaunted twitter was a failure a complete failure for two
was a failure a complete failure for two
was a failure a complete failure for two years nobody used it and if they took
years nobody used it and if they took
years nobody used it and if they took the mindset of well if it doesn’t work
the mindset of well if it doesn’t work
the mindset of well if it doesn’t work in two weeks we got to go do something
in two weeks we got to go do something
in two weeks we got to go do something else you never would have heard of it
you’re trying to get to that next level
you’re trying to get to that next level and you’re impatient and when I talk
and you’re impatient and when I talk
and you’re impatient and when I talk about impatient you know what I’m
about impatient you know what I’m
about impatient you know what I’m talking about I’m talking about rate
talking about I’m talking about rate
talking about I’m talking about rate road rage you feeling me you look you
road rage you feeling me you look you
road rage you feeling me you look you don’t know what happened you were just
don’t know what happened you were just
don’t know what happened you were just driving you is chilling somebody jumped
driving you is chilling somebody jumped
driving you is chilling somebody jumped in front of you start going slow
in front of you start going slow
in front of you start going slow whatever before you know it you out the
whatever before you know it you out the
whatever before you know it you out the car y’all about to scrap impatient you
car y’all about to scrap impatient you
car y’all about to scrap impatient you you at the bank I’m you getting
you at the bank I’m you getting
you at the bank I’m you getting frustrated because the line is low you
frustrated because the line is low you
frustrated because the line is low you in the grocery store you see the long
in the grocery store you see the long
in the grocery store you see the long lines and you going through it I’m
lines and you going through it I’m
lines and you going through it I’m talking about listen to me baby steps
talking about listen to me baby steps
talking about listen to me baby steps baby steps because to be impatient right
baby steps because to be impatient right
baby steps because to be impatient right to be impatient it’s not something that
to be impatient it’s not something that
to be impatient it’s not something that started off huge it’s a real small thing
started off huge it’s a real small thing
started off huge it’s a real small thing that occurred in your life and now we
that occurred in your life and now we
that occurred in your life and now we want to get a grip on it listen to me
want to get a grip on it listen to me
want to get a grip on it listen to me I’m trying to tell you to hold on why
I’m trying to tell you to hold on why
I’m trying to tell you to hold on why because it’s all coming together just
because it’s all coming together just
because it’s all coming together just because you can’t see remember what I
because you can’t see remember what I
because you can’t see remember what I told you before that mental 42 is
told you before that mental 42 is
told you before that mental 42 is telling you that even though I don’t see
telling you that even though I don’t see
telling you that even though I don’t see any external evidence I still believe it
any external evidence I still believe it
any external evidence I still believe it remember we talked before that site
remember we talked before that site
remember we talked before that site versus vision and you can see it when
versus vision and you can see it when
versus vision and you can see it when it’s not there that’s right we got some
it’s not there that’s right we got some
it’s not there that’s right we got some practical things because it’s coming and
practical things because it’s coming and
practical things because it’s coming and you’re about to mess it up listen to me
you’re about to mess it up listen to me
you’re about to mess it up listen to me about to mess it up for yourself you
about to mess it up for yourself you
about to mess it up for yourself you trying to do the right thing you like
trying to do the right thing you like
trying to do the right thing you like yeah I’m doing the right thing but I’m
yeah I’m doing the right thing but I’m
yeah I’m doing the right thing but I’m not seeing it yeah you don’t you’re not
not seeing it yeah you don’t you’re not
not seeing it yeah you don’t you’re not supposed to see it that’s not what it’s
supposed to see it that’s not what it’s
supposed to see it that’s not what it’s about
about
about you keep going through the process
you keep going through the process
you keep going through the process knowing that the process is perfect and
knowing that the process is perfect and
knowing that the process is perfect and that you’re eventually going to get to
that you’re eventually going to get to
that you’re eventually going to get to the prize alright so the first thing I
the prize alright so the first thing I
the prize alright so the first thing I need you to do is I need you to change
need you to do is I need you to change
need you to do is I need you to change your thinking I told you that’s where
your thinking I told you that’s where
your thinking I told you that’s where everything starts it all starts in the
everything starts it all starts in the
everything starts it all starts in the mind and so mentally if you could tell
mind and so mentally if you could tell
mind and so mentally if you could tell yourself you saw it the ritz-carlton the
yourself you saw it the ritz-carlton the
yourself you saw it the ritz-carlton the Westin Hotel you saw the speaking
Westin Hotel you saw the speaking
Westin Hotel you saw the speaking engagement you saw first quarter you saw
engagement you saw first quarter you saw
engagement you saw first quarter you saw second quarter you see you you are
second quarter you see you you are
second quarter you see you you are witnessing your boy blow up right in
witnessing your boy blow up right in
witnessing your boy blow up right in front of your face from where we started
front of your face from where we started
front of your face from where we started to where we are almost two years ago are
to where we are almost two years ago are
to where we are almost two years ago are you hearing me so so small step mentally
you hearing me so so small step mentally
you hearing me so so small step mentally I need you to do me a huge favor
I need you to do me a huge favor
I need you to do me a huge favor mentally I need you to create listen to
mentally I need you to create listen to
mentally I need you to create listen to me embrace embrace the I don’t mind
me embrace embrace the I don’t mind
me embrace embrace the I don’t mind waiting mentality I don’t mind waiting a
waiting mentality I don’t mind waiting a
waiting mentality I don’t mind waiting a year I don’t mind waiting to it listen
year I don’t mind waiting to it listen
year I don’t mind waiting to it listen to me some of you will never get again
to me some of you will never get again
to me some of you will never get again what you’re supposed to get because if
what you’re supposed to get because if
what you’re supposed to get because if it don’t happen for you in 30 days you
it don’t happen for you in 30 days you
it don’t happen for you in 30 days you giving up you quitting I dare you to
giving up you quitting I dare you to
giving up you quitting I dare you to embrace I don’t mind waiting that’s what
embrace I don’t mind waiting that’s what
embrace I don’t mind waiting that’s what happened to your boy it took almost 18
happened to your boy it took almost 18
happened to your boy it took almost 18 years for me to get to where you see me
years for me to get to where you see me
years for me to get to where you see me at today and I did my weight in the
at today and I did my weight in the
at today and I did my weight in the first year I did
first year I did
first year I did my weight in the second year I didn’t
my weight in the second year I didn’t
my weight in the second year I didn’t mind waiting the third year and so you
mind waiting the third year and so you
mind waiting the third year and so you got to embrace that I don’t mind waiting
got to embrace that I don’t mind waiting
got to embrace that I don’t mind waiting attitude if it takes six months if it
attitude if it takes six months if it
attitude if it takes six months if it takes a year if it takes ten years I am
takes a year if it takes ten years I am
takes a year if it takes ten years I am going to weigh it out all right so I
going to weigh it out all right so I
going to weigh it out all right so I need you to do two things for me the
need you to do two things for me the
need you to do two things for me the first one is when I tell you to wait I
first one is when I tell you to wait I
first one is when I tell you to wait I heard a great theologian tell the story
heard a great theologian tell the story
heard a great theologian tell the story when they use the term weight it’s like
when they use the term weight it’s like
when they use the term weight it’s like serving we’re not talking about just
serving we’re not talking about just
serving we’re not talking about just waiting idly and doing nothing he said
waiting idly and doing nothing he said
waiting idly and doing nothing he said it’s like a servant you’re serving right
it’s like a servant you’re serving right
it’s like a servant you’re serving right like at a restaurant you are serving so
like at a restaurant you are serving so
like at a restaurant you are serving so while you’re waiting listen to me while
while you’re waiting listen to me while
while you’re waiting listen to me while you’re waiting to pass that bar exam
you’re waiting to pass that bar exam
you’re waiting to pass that bar exam study while you’re waiting for your
study while you’re waiting for your
study while you’re waiting for your mirrors to get better don’t just sit and
mirrors to get better don’t just sit and
mirrors to get better don’t just sit and wait watch some dishes serve your wife
wait watch some dishes serve your wife
wait watch some dishes serve your wife flowers serve your husband I don’t know
flowers serve your husband I don’t know
flowers serve your husband I don’t know while you’re waiting for that
while you’re waiting for that
while you’re waiting for that relationship between you and your son or
relationship between you and your son or
relationship between you and your son or you and your daughter to get better
you and your daughter to get better
you and your daughter to get better don’t just wait by the phone
don’t just wait by the phone
don’t just wait by the phone do something buy a card write a letter
do something buy a card write a letter
do something buy a card write a letter listen to me take a trip to the town
listen to me take a trip to the town
listen to me take a trip to the town that they live in visit a job take them
that they live in visit a job take them
that they live in visit a job take them to lunch like I don’t have the slightest
to lunch like I don’t have the slightest
to lunch like I don’t have the slightest idea but don’t wait idly right serve you
idea but don’t wait idly right serve you
idea but don’t wait idly right serve you saw us thank God is Monday every week
saw us thank God is Monday every week
saw us thank God is Monday every week you saw us
you saw us
you saw us SoundCloud the app while we were waiting
SoundCloud the app while we were waiting
SoundCloud the app while we were waiting to blow up while we were waiting to make
to blow up while we were waiting to make
to blow up while we were waiting to make our dreams become a reality
our dreams become a reality
our dreams become a reality we weren’t sitting idly all right so I
we weren’t sitting idly all right so I
we weren’t sitting idly all right so I need you to change your mindset I need
need you to change your mindset I need
need you to change your mindset I need you to serve I don’t mind waiting I need
you to serve I don’t mind waiting I need
you to serve I don’t mind waiting I need you to serve alright here’s my final one
you to serve alright here’s my final one
you to serve alright here’s my final one I need you to do some I don’t mind
I need you to do some I don’t mind
I need you to do some I don’t mind waiting exercises when you go to the
waiting exercises when you go to the
waiting exercises when you go to the restaurant and I listen to me been there
restaurant and I listen to me been there
restaurant and I listen to me been there done that right when you’ve been there
done that right when you’ve been there
done that right when you’ve been there done that when you got to wait 30 40
done that when you got to wait 30 40
done that when you got to wait 30 40 minutes to sit down like think of some
minutes to sit down like think of some
minutes to sit down like think of some activity you can do in the process I
activity you can do in the process I
activity you can do in the process I used to go to the grocery store and look
used to go to the grocery store and look
used to go to the grocery store and look for the longest lines I’m not playing
for the longest lines I’m not playing
for the longest lines I’m not playing with you I went to the I sat in the
with you I went to the I sat in the
with you I went to the I sat in the longest lines on purpose I didn’t go
longest lines on purpose I didn’t go
longest lines on purpose I didn’t go through the quick boys why cuz I needed
through the quick boys why cuz I needed
through the quick boys why cuz I needed to work on my patience when I went to
to work on my patience when I went to
to work on my patience when I went to the bank I went to the long line are you
the bank I went to the long line are you
the bank I went to the long line are you hearing me to work on my patience when I
hearing me to work on my patience when I
hearing me to work on my patience when I would drive I’d see the longest line on
would drive I’d see the longest line on
would drive I’d see the longest line on the freeway that traffic jam I would get
the freeway that traffic jam I would get
the freeway that traffic jam I would get in the longest line because I knew if I
in the longest line because I knew if I
in the longest line because I knew if I worked on my patience that my patience
worked on my patience that my patience
worked on my patience that my patience would bring something in my character
would bring something in my character
would bring something in my character that would actually help me to get to
that would actually help me to get to
that would actually help me to get to the next level I really believe that I’m
the next level I really believe that I’m
the next level I really believe that I’m a bridge right I’m pulling equally very
a bridge right I’m pulling equally very
a bridge right I’m pulling equally very aggressively from both sides that I’m a
aggressively from both sides that I’m a
aggressively from both sides that I’m a human contradiction that if you really
human contradiction that if you really
human contradiction that if you really watch the show and throws people off as
watch the show and throws people off as
watch the show and throws people off as they get deeper into my content
they get deeper into my content
they get deeper into my content that often times I’m saying things that
that often times I’m saying things that
that often times I’m saying things that contradict themselves because the truth
contradict themselves because the truth
contradict themselves because the truth is they both live in real life at the
is they both live in real life at the
is they both live in real life at the same time and it’s about finding that
same time and it’s about finding that
same time and it’s about finding that cadence and balance the guide through I
cadence and balance the guide through I
cadence and balance the guide through I am massively at a global level patient
am massively at a global level patient
am massively at a global level patient but on a practical level and an
but on a practical level and an
but on a practical level and an execution level I’m very fast right so
execution level I’m very fast right so
execution level I’m very fast right so it’s it’s really it really is religion
it’s it’s really it really is religion
it’s it’s really it really is religion and church right like at the highest
and church right like at the highest
and church right like at the highest like at the theoretical act at the at
like at the theoretical act at the at
like at the theoretical act at the at the gray levels a patient long game I’m
the gray levels a patient long game I’m
the gray levels a patient long game I’m aware that as long as I’m alive I’m
aware that as long as I’m alive I’m
aware that as long as I’m alive I’m playing the businessman game and and and
playing the businessman game and and and
playing the businessman game and and and it doesn’t end tomorrow and if it ends
it doesn’t end tomorrow and if it ends
it doesn’t end tomorrow and if it ends tomorrow I don’t know the outcome anyway
tomorrow I don’t know the outcome anyway
tomorrow I don’t know the outcome anyway because I’m dead right and so in but in
because I’m dead right and so in but in
because I’m dead right and so in but in real life I understand it’s a race and
real life I understand it’s a race and
real life I understand it’s a race and the X speed is a variable for success to
the X speed is a variable for success to
the X speed is a variable for success to me in a big way hustle and so the
me in a big way hustle and so the
me in a big way hustle and so the patience and speed are very much rubbing
patience and speed are very much rubbing
patience and speed are very much rubbing against each other but it’s like the
against each other but it’s like the
against each other but it’s like the diamond comes from that right like and
diamond comes from that right like and
diamond comes from that right like and so that’s that’s the thing that I think
so that’s that’s the thing that I think
so that’s that’s the thing that I think about I don’t I I find it very easy to
about I don’t I I find it very easy to
about I don’t I I find it very easy to do vote you understand there’s people
do vote you understand there’s people
do vote you understand there’s people that are both in practical and
that are both in practical and
that are both in practical and philosophical terms and they have
philosophical terms and they have
philosophical terms and they have different outcomes aka
different outcomes aka
different outcomes aka there’s people that philosophically are
there’s people that philosophically are
there’s people that philosophically are not patient they’re impatient and
not patient they’re impatient and
not patient they’re impatient and they’re fast and they look like the bad
they’re fast and they look like the bad
they’re fast and they look like the bad version of what I am right there like
version of what I am right there like
version of what I am right there like hustlers and they’re like like doing
hustlers and they’re like like doing
hustlers and they’re like like doing everything for themselves and they’re
everything for themselves and they’re
everything for themselves and they’re not patient they don’t care about the
not patient they don’t care about the
not patient they don’t care about the long game and they’re just gonna take
long game and they’re just gonna take
long game and they’re just gonna take and they’re just gonna take and take and
and they’re just gonna take and take and
and they’re just gonna take and take and take and gonna take fast and they’re
take and gonna take fast and they’re
take and gonna take fast and they’re gonna gather and and I think that that’s
gonna gather and and I think that that’s
gonna gather and and I think that that’s society the game rewards them and
society the game rewards them and
society the game rewards them and there’s a lot of millionaires and
there’s a lot of millionaires and
there’s a lot of millionaires and billionaires that didn’t do it the right
billionaires that didn’t do it the right
billionaires that didn’t do it the right way and that’s what I think they look
way and that’s what I think they look
way and that’s what I think they look like then there’s a lot of people that
like then there’s a lot of people that
like then there’s a lot of people that are massively patient and slow and those
are massively patient and slow and those
are massively patient and slow and those are the Norma’s amount of people that
are the Norma’s amount of people that
are the Norma’s amount of people that you know in a business context not in
you know in a business context not in
you know in a business context not in life they’re probably some of the
life they’re probably some of the
life they’re probably some of the loveliest human beings that I’ve ever
loveliest human beings that I’ve ever
loveliest human beings that I’ve ever been made because they’re slow and their
been made because they’re slow and their
been made because they’re slow and their patient and everything just lovely and
patient and everything just lovely and
patient and everything just lovely and let’s just like sit on the porch and you
let’s just like sit on the porch and you
let’s just like sit on the porch and you know drink peach tea for the rest of our
know drink peach tea for the rest of our
know drink peach tea for the rest of our lives and like like go slow just go real
lives and like like go slow just go real
lives and like like go slow just go real slow like let’s sit and look at stuff
slow like let’s sit and look at stuff
slow like let’s sit and look at stuff like like let’s sit on the porch and
like like let’s sit on the porch and
like like let’s sit on the porch and look like look at stuff like a car just
look like look at stuff like a car just
look like look at stuff like a car just drove by great like I’m
drove by great like I’m
drove by great like I’m like that you know it’s not interesting
like that you know it’s not interesting
like that you know it’s not interesting to me either and and so that exists so I
to me either and and so that exists so I
to me either and and so that exists so I actually think what what I do exists a
actually think what what I do exists a
actually think what what I do exists a lot I think there I think it’s the
lot I think there I think it’s the
lot I think there I think it’s the likable you know aggressive person and
likable you know aggressive person and
likable you know aggressive person and that’s you know they’re out there and
that’s you know they’re out there and
that’s you know they’re out there and there’s a lot of winners that are good
there’s a lot of winners that are good
there’s a lot of winners that are good people that I really think that and I
people that I really think that and I
people that I really think that and I think if you look at my analogies this
think if you look at my analogies this
think if you look at my analogies this beam part is really valuable right like
beam part is really valuable right like
beam part is really valuable right like like if you’re speedy and selfish and
like if you’re speedy and selfish and
like if you’re speedy and selfish and impatient you know I think the other
impatient you know I think the other
impatient you know I think the other thing about the the lack of patience and
thing about the the lack of patience and
thing about the the lack of patience and fast you don’t have to be a bad person I
fast you don’t have to be a bad person I
fast you don’t have to be a bad person I think it leads to mistakes right
think it leads to mistakes right
think it leads to mistakes right that’s another variable layer here you
that’s another variable layer here you
that’s another variable layer here you know it’s funny that my brain went that
know it’s funny that my brain went that
know it’s funny that my brain went that first narrative here’s a second
first narrative here’s a second
first narrative here’s a second narrative you’re going fast you’re not
narrative you’re going fast you’re not
narrative you’re going fast you’re not patient so you rush the outcome and you
patient so you rush the outcome and you
patient so you rush the outcome and you leave money on the table you sold a
leave money on the table you sold a
leave money on the table you sold a company too soon
company too soon
company too soon you uh you weren’t as profitable as you
you uh you weren’t as profitable as you
you uh you weren’t as profitable as you could have been because you missed
could have been because you missed
could have been because you missed things because you didn’t see it because
things because you didn’t see it because
things because you didn’t see it because you weren’t tactful and so you know I
you weren’t tactful and so you know I
you weren’t tactful and so you know I think I think it has essence of strategy
think I think it has essence of strategy
think I think it has essence of strategy you know somebody once said to me about
you know somebody once said to me about
you know somebody once said to me about Boehner Garrett you guys are so
Boehner Garrett you guys are so
Boehner Garrett you guys are so interesting he was trying to zing me a
interesting he was trying to zing me a
interesting he was trying to zing me a little bit about we weren’t strategic
little bit about we weren’t strategic
little bit about we weren’t strategic enough
enough
enough he said you’re so interesting but he’s
he said you’re so interesting but he’s
he said you’re so interesting but he’s like when you get into the house I feel
like when you get into the house I feel
like when you get into the house I feel like a lot of times you guys just run
like a lot of times you guys just run
like a lot of times you guys just run through the glass window instead of
through the glass window instead of
through the glass window instead of opening the door like it was a funny
opening the door like it was a funny
opening the door like it was a funny analogy and then I looked at him and
analogy and then I looked at him and
analogy and then I looked at him and said yeah but we’re gonna own all the
said yeah but we’re gonna own all the
said yeah but we’re gonna own all the homes sometimes an indirect route is the
homes sometimes an indirect route is the
homes sometimes an indirect route is the quickest way to get there
quickest way to get there
quickest way to get there sometimes you gotta take a little long
sometimes you gotta take a little long
sometimes you gotta take a little long to achieve the things you wanna achieve
to achieve the things you wanna achieve
to achieve the things you wanna achieve in life
in life
in life so don’t be in a hurry be patient be
so don’t be in a hurry be patient be
so don’t be in a hurry be patient be patient everybody this instant
patient everybody this instant
patient everybody this instant gratification Instagram is to this be
gratification Instagram is to this be
gratification Instagram is to this be patient that’s not gonna happen as
patient that’s not gonna happen as
patient that’s not gonna happen as quickly as you want it to happen a lot
quickly as you want it to happen a lot
quickly as you want it to happen a lot of things gonna happen that will catch
of things gonna happen that will catch
of things gonna happen that will catch you off-guard and so therefore you’ve
you off-guard and so therefore you’ve
you off-guard and so therefore you’ve got to deal with and handle it as it
got to deal with and handle it as it
got to deal with and handle it as it comes and not only that but that faith
comes and not only that but that faith
comes and not only that but that faith and patience drives you into action you
and patience drives you into action you
and patience drives you into action you got to keep moving
got to keep moving
got to keep moving and keep plugging away and the Far East
and keep plugging away and the Far East
and keep plugging away and the Far East they have something that’s called the
they have something that’s called the
they have something that’s called the Chinese bamboo tree the Chinese bamboo
Chinese bamboo tree the Chinese bamboo
Chinese bamboo tree the Chinese bamboo tree takes five years to grow and when
tree takes five years to grow and when
tree takes five years to grow and when they go through a process of growing it
they go through a process of growing it
they go through a process of growing it they have to water and fertilize the
they have to water and fertilize the
they have to water and fertilize the ground where it is every day and it
ground where it is every day and it
ground where it is every day and it doesn’t break through the ground until
doesn’t break through the ground until
doesn’t break through the ground until the fifth year okay but once it breaks
the fifth year okay but once it breaks
the fifth year okay but once it breaks through the ground within five weeks
through the ground within five weeks
through the ground within five weeks it grows 90 feet tall now the question
it grows 90 feet tall now the question
it grows 90 feet tall now the question is does it grow 90 feet tall in five
is does it grow 90 feet tall in five
is does it grow 90 feet tall in five weeks or five years the answer is
weeks or five years the answer is
weeks or five years the answer is obvious it grows 90 feet tall in five
obvious it grows 90 feet tall in five
obvious it grows 90 feet tall in five years because at any time had that
years because at any time had that
years because at any time had that person stopped watering and nurturing
person stopped watering and nurturing
person stopped watering and nurturing and fertilizing that dream that bamboo
and fertilizing that dream that bamboo
and fertilizing that dream that bamboo tree would have died in the ground
tree would have died in the ground
tree would have died in the ground I can see people coming out talking to a
I can see people coming out talking to a
I can see people coming out talking to a guy out there watering and fertilizing
guy out there watering and fertilizing
guy out there watering and fertilizing the ground that’s not showing anything
the ground that’s not showing anything
the ground that’s not showing anything hey what you doing
keep it out here a long time man
keep it out here a long time man and the conversation in the neighborhood
and the conversation in the neighborhood
and the conversation in the neighborhood is you go on a Chinese bamboo tree that
is you go on a Chinese bamboo tree that
is you go on a Chinese bamboo tree that right yeah that’s right well even Ray
right yeah that’s right well even Ray
right yeah that’s right well even Ray Charles and Stevie Wonder can see ain’t
Charles and Stevie Wonder can see ain’t
Charles and Stevie Wonder can see ain’t none show
you know how people gonna do you so how
you know how people gonna do you so how long you been working on this how long
long you been working on this how long
long you been working on this how long have you been working on your dream it’s
have you been working on your dream it’s
have you been working on your dream it’s good and you have nothing to show this
good and you have nothing to show this
good and you have nothing to show this is all you’ve got to show people don’t
is all you’ve got to show people don’t
is all you’ve got to show people don’t do that to you
do that to you
do that to you and some people ladies and gentlemen
and some people ladies and gentlemen
and some people ladies and gentlemen they stop because they don’t see instant
they stop because they don’t see instant
they stop because they don’t see instant results it doesn’t happen quickly they
results it doesn’t happen quickly they
results it doesn’t happen quickly they stop oh no no no you got to keep on
stop oh no no no you got to keep on
stop oh no no no you got to keep on watering your dream and when it began to
watering your dream and when it began to
watering your dream and when it began to happen they stopped laughing they said
happen they stopped laughing they said
happen they stopped laughing they said look whoa look at it
patience is really about trust
patience is really about trust I see trust as like planting a seed when
I see trust as like planting a seed when
I see trust as like planting a seed when you plant a seed in the garden there is
you plant a seed in the garden there is
you plant a seed in the garden there is droughts that come there are insects
droughts that come there are insects
droughts that come there are insects that come so you have to tend the seed
that come so you have to tend the seed
that come so you have to tend the seed but if you tend it it wants to grow and
but if you tend it it wants to grow and
but if you tend it it wants to grow and it will produce amazing things so you
it will produce amazing things so you
it will produce amazing things so you choose your intention you plant a
choose your intention you plant a
choose your intention you plant a beautiful seed you direct yourself to a
beautiful seed you direct yourself to a
beautiful seed you direct yourself to a creative project to a visionary way of
creative project to a visionary way of
creative project to a visionary way of living to a community of family a part
living to a community of family a part
living to a community of family a part of the earth to something that is a gift
of the earth to something that is a gift
of the earth to something that is a gift that’s given to you that you can give
that’s given to you that you can give
that’s given to you that you can give back and then you see what happens and
back and then you see what happens and
back and then you see what happens and to understand that is an enormous gift
to understand that is an enormous gift
to understand that is an enormous gift patience sometimes can be misunderstood
patience sometimes can be misunderstood
patience sometimes can be misunderstood as inactivity if I’m patient it means
as inactivity if I’m patient it means
as inactivity if I’m patient it means I’m holding back and I’m not going to
I’m holding back and I’m not going to
I’m holding back and I’m not going to give myself fully to something but it’s
give myself fully to something but it’s
give myself fully to something but it’s not that at all patience or trust is
not that at all patience or trust is
not that at all patience or trust is really waiting for the right season
really waiting for the right season
really waiting for the right season again like surfing you don’t just get on
again like surfing you don’t just get on
again like surfing you don’t just get on your board and paddle you wait for the
your board and paddle you wait for the
your board and paddle you wait for the right moment in the wave patience allows
right moment in the wave patience allows
right moment in the wave patience allows a kind of deep inner trust that we have
a kind of deep inner trust that we have
a kind of deep inner trust that we have the capacity to be with the matrix of
the capacity to be with the matrix of
the capacity to be with the matrix of life and when you quiet your mind and
life and when you quiet your mind and
life and when you quiet your mind and open your heart and look to the mystery
open your heart and look to the mystery
open your heart and look to the mystery then it’s not even a question of
then it’s not even a question of
then it’s not even a question of patience it’s a question of being home
patience it’s a question of being home
patience it’s a question of being home and your home exactly where you are
and your home exactly where you are
and your home exactly where you are which is where you always are in the
which is where you always are in the
which is where you always are in the reality of the present it doesn’t mean
reality of the present it doesn’t mean
reality of the present it doesn’t mean that we don’t weep it doesn’t mean that
that we don’t weep it doesn’t mean that
that we don’t weep it doesn’t mean that we don’t care deeply about the losses in
we don’t care deeply about the losses in
we don’t care deeply about the losses in the world in some way as we become
the world in some way as we become
the world in some way as we become trusting patient or grateful even
trusting patient or grateful even
trusting patient or grateful even grateful for the difficulties we also
grateful for the difficulties we also
grateful for the difficulties we also allow ourself to be touched more fully
allow ourself to be touched more fully
allow ourself to be touched more fully by life I think as entrepreneurs we are
by life I think as entrepreneurs we are
by life I think as entrepreneurs we are not great waiters in general I think
not great waiters in general I think
not great waiters in general I think that’s part of what also makes us
that’s part of what also makes us
that’s part of what also makes us successful is that we want things to
successful is that we want things to
successful is that we want things to happen and we want things to happen now
happen and we want things to happen now
happen and we want things to happen now I think what happens though quite often
I think what happens though quite often
I think what happens though quite often is you wait for something to happen and
is you wait for something to happen and
is you wait for something to happen and in the meantime you’re not doing
in the meantime you’re not doing
in the meantime you’re not doing anything you just keep putting all your
anything you just keep putting all your
anything you just keep putting all your energy trying to make this one thing
energy trying to make this one thing
energy trying to make this one thing happen and the reality is a lot of times
happen and the reality is a lot of times
happen and the reality is a lot of times you have to wait for some things because
you have to wait for some things because
you have to wait for some things because you are dealing with other people and
you are dealing with other people and
you are dealing with other people and other people’s timelines and schedules
other people’s timelines and schedules
other people’s timelines and schedules as well and so the key for me is you
as well and so the key for me is you
as well and so the key for me is you hustle while you wait you’re grinding
hustle while you wait you’re grinding
hustle while you wait you’re grinding you’re working you’re making a
you’re working you’re making a
you’re working you’re making a connection you’re waiting to hear back
connection you’re waiting to hear back
connection you’re waiting to hear back instead of just waiting to hear back you
instead of just waiting to hear back you
instead of just waiting to hear back you are grinding and hustling more maybe on
are grinding and hustling more maybe on
are grinding and hustling more maybe on the same path and maybe in different
the same path and maybe in different
the same path and maybe in different directions so as an example I’m working
directions so as an example I’m working
directions so as an example I’m working on getting an interview lined up with
on getting an interview lined up with
on getting an interview lined up with Tony Robbins I’m in touch with his
Tony Robbins I’m in touch with his
Tony Robbins I’m in touch with his assistant and we’re trying to figure out
assistant and we’re trying to figure out
assistant and we’re trying to figure out a date a place everything that can work
a date a place everything that can work
a date a place everything that can work great you know I need to hear back I
great you know I need to hear back I
great you know I need to hear back I need to figure out when that dates gonna
need to figure out when that dates gonna
need to figure out when that dates gonna work for both of our schedules in the
work for both of our schedules in the
work for both of our schedules in the meantime I’m winding up other interviews
meantime I’m winding up other interviews
meantime I’m winding up other interviews right I did one with Gary Vaynerchuk I
right I did one with Gary Vaynerchuk I
right I did one with Gary Vaynerchuk I did one with Chris Gila boy did one with
did one with Chris Gila boy did one with
did one with Chris Gila boy did one with Ryan holiday I’m doing with Lois house
Ryan holiday I’m doing with Lois house
Ryan holiday I’m doing with Lois house I’m doing one with James Ulta Chur
I’m doing one with James Ulta Chur
I’m doing one with James Ulta Chur lining up a whole bunch of different
lining up a whole bunch of different
lining up a whole bunch of different interviews I’m also hustling on my
interviews I’m also hustling on my
interviews I’m also hustling on my YouTube channel I’m making these videos
YouTube channel I’m making these videos
YouTube channel I’m making these videos I’m grinding out in the comments I’m
I’m grinding out in the comments I’m
I’m grinding out in the comments I’m researching new clips to add to the
researching new clips to add to the
researching new clips to add to the channel right I’m spending a lot of time
channel right I’m spending a lot of time
channel right I’m spending a lot of time I’m hustling while I’m waiting and so I
I’m hustling while I’m waiting and so I
I’m hustling while I’m waiting and so I think for me at least that’s the key
think for me at least that’s the key
think for me at least that’s the key there will be times in your life that
there will be times in your life that
there will be times in your life that you are waiting on somebody else and
you are waiting on somebody else and
you are waiting on somebody else and it’s insanely frustrating and you’re
it’s insanely frustrating and you’re
it’s insanely frustrating and you’re doing everything that you can to move
doing everything that you can to move
doing everything that you can to move that forward but as long as you’ve done
that forward but as long as you’ve done
that forward but as long as you’ve done your best like I can’t move this forward
your best like I can’t move this forward
your best like I can’t move this forward anymore until you hear back from
anymore until you hear back from
anymore until you hear back from somebody else they’ve made a decision
somebody else they’ve made a decision
somebody else they’ve made a decision don’t just give up and wait for that to
don’t just give up and wait for that to
don’t just give up and wait for that to happen you’re hustling in the background
happen you’re hustling in the background
happen you’re hustling in the background and other things and all the other
and other things and all the other
and other things and all the other things that I’m working on all the other
things that I’m working on all the other
things that I’m working on all the other YouTube videos and all the other
YouTube videos and all the other
YouTube videos and all the other interviews that I’m doing
interviews that I’m doing
interviews that I’m doing only help me when I make the next
only help me when I make the next
only help me when I make the next contact with Tony Robbins people because
contact with Tony Robbins people because
contact with Tony Robbins people because now I’m bigger than it was before
now I’m bigger than it was before
now I’m bigger than it was before because I’ve done more work and open up
because I’ve done more work and open up
because I’ve done more work and open up other opportunities and haven’t even
other opportunities and haven’t even
other opportunities and haven’t even thought of yet
thought of yet
thought of yet so hustle while you wait I love to know
so hustle while you wait I love to know
so hustle while you wait I love to know from you guys how frustrating waiting is
from you guys how frustrating waiting is
from you guys how frustrating waiting is for you and how do you handle it what
for you and how do you handle it what
for you and how do you handle it what have you learned from some of the clips
have you learned from some of the clips
have you learned from some of the clips here today that might also help you in
here today that might also help you in
here today that might also help you in handling the weight I’m really curious
handling the weight I’m really curious
handling the weight I’m really curious to find out leave it in the comments
to find out leave it in the comments
to find out leave it in the comments below and I will join a discussion
I made this episode of believe life
I made this episode of believe life because Karen Singh asked us to so if
because Karen Singh asked us to so if
because Karen Singh asked us to so if there’s another topic you’d like me to
there’s another topic you’d like me to
there’s another topic you’d like me to cover in the next edition to believe
cover in the next edition to believe
cover in the next edition to believe life leave it down in the comments as
life leave it down in the comments as
life leave it down in the comments as well and you’ll see we can do thank you
well and you’ll see we can do thank you
well and you’ll see we can do thank you so much for watching have an amazing day
so much for watching have an amazing day
so much for watching have an amazing day continue to believe and we’ll see you
continue to believe and we’ll see you
continue to believe and we’ll see you soon
if you’re really frustrated and you’re
if you’re really frustrated and you’re just hating it right now the easiest way
just hating it right now the easiest way
just hating it right now the easiest way for hope to go out the door is to get in
for hope to go out the door is to get in
for hope to go out the door is to get in a hurry yeah see if you get in a big
a hurry yeah see if you get in a big
a hurry yeah see if you get in a big hurry you’re pushing you’re pushing
hurry you’re pushing you’re pushing
hurry you’re pushing you’re pushing pushing you’re in a big hurry
pushing you’re in a big hurry
pushing you’re in a big hurry now you don’t sense the wind anymore you
now you don’t sense the wind anymore you
now you don’t sense the wind anymore you don’t sense the momentum the progress
don’t sense the momentum the progress
don’t sense the momentum the progress anymore you’re just more more more more
anymore you’re just more more more more
anymore you’re just more more more more more MORE
more MORE
more MORE you’re in such a big hurry to have more
you’re in such a big hurry to have more
you’re in such a big hurry to have more things that sometimes it feels like you
things that sometimes it feels like you
things that sometimes it feels like you have nothing and the reality you do but
have nothing and the reality you do but
have nothing and the reality you do but a part of achieving anything is having
a part of achieving anything is having
a part of achieving anything is having the patience to work towards it having
the patience to work towards it having
the patience to work towards it having the patience with other people sometimes
the patience with other people sometimes
the patience with other people sometimes we lose hope and other people not really
we lose hope and other people not really
we lose hope and other people not really that we lost hope we just spot for got
that we lost hope we just spot for got
that we lost hope we just spot for got to be patient with them you know you
to be patient with them you know you
to be patient with them you know you need to give a lot of patience to the
need to give a lot of patience to the
need to give a lot of patience to the people in your life if you’re going to
people in your life if you’re going to
people in your life if you’re going to sustain hope for them and for your
sustain hope for them and for your
sustain hope for them and for your relationships with them patience is a
relationships with them patience is a
relationships with them patience is a critical element it’s not discussed a
critical element it’s not discussed a
critical element it’s not discussed a lot but you know what it’s so
lot but you know what it’s so
lot but you know what it’s so fundamental to having hope to be patient
fundamental to having hope to be patient
fundamental to having hope to be patient with it being patient is very important
with it being patient is very important
with it being patient is very important for a successful CEO it took 18 months
for a successful CEO it took 18 months
for a successful CEO it took 18 months for us to get our first customer but
for us to get our first customer but
for us to get our first customer but that patience is what the next 18 months
that patience is what the next 18 months
that patience is what the next 18 months we got thousands of customers millions
we got thousands of customers millions
we got thousands of customers millions of users and hundreds of thousands of
of users and hundreds of thousands of
of users and hundreds of thousands of jobs into the system if you have to put
jobs into the system if you have to put
jobs into the system if you have to put the patients as part of the goal in
the patients as part of the goal in
the patients as part of the goal in terms of business it takes time to build
terms of business it takes time to build
terms of business it takes time to build a foundation things that matter take
a foundation things that matter take
a foundation things that matter take time so if you have a lot of patience if
time so if you have a lot of patience if
time so if you have a lot of patience if you put as much patience into building
you put as much patience into building
you put as much patience into building your business as God puts in to us I’m
your business as God puts in to us I’m
your business as God puts in to us I’m just think about how much patience and
just think about how much patience and
just think about how much patience and forgiveness he has and it helps us
forgiveness he has and it helps us
forgiveness he has and it helps us become the individual that has a greater
become the individual that has a greater
become the individual that has a greater relationship with him our businesses are
relationship with him our businesses are
relationship with him our businesses are the same way it takes time it takes time
the same way it takes time it takes time
the same way it takes time it takes time to build the relationship submit’ takes
to build the relationship submit’ takes
to build the relationship submit’ takes time to have your investments come to
time to have your investments come to
time to have your investments come to fruition it takes time to understand the
fruition it takes time to understand the
fruition it takes time to understand the mechanics so believe in yourself and
mechanics so believe in yourself and
mechanics so believe in yourself and believe in your patients when you have a
believe in your patients when you have a
believe in your patients when you have a lot of patience and passion and you
lot of patience and passion and you
lot of patience and passion and you combine those two things you can create
combine those two things you can create
combine those two things you can create a tremendous amount of abundance in your
a tremendous amount of abundance in your
a tremendous amount of abundance in your life
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