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solemn day is a village in Togo West

solemn day is a village in Togo West Africa its residents members of the Kota

Africa its residents members of the Kota

Africa its residents members of the Kota coolie tribe practice Islam here a

coolie tribe practice Islam here a

coolie tribe practice Islam here a woman’s main role is to serve her

woman’s main role is to serve her

woman’s main role is to serve her husband and Islam’s tolerance of

husband and Islam’s tolerance of

husband and Islam’s tolerance of polygamy the practice of taking more

polygamy the practice of taking more

polygamy the practice of taking more than one spouse at the same time is in

than one spouse at the same time is in

than one spouse at the same time is in line with many African traditions chugga

line with many African traditions chugga

line with many African traditions chugga DOMA poom Tony is about to wet his third

DOMA poom Tony is about to wet his third

DOMA poom Tony is about to wet his third wife the elaborate ceremony will last

wife the elaborate ceremony will last

wife the elaborate ceremony will last three days many African cultures let a

three days many African cultures let a

three days many African cultures let a man wet as many women as he can afford

man wet as many women as he can afford

man wet as many women as he can afford but the Quran limits Muslim husbands to

but the Quran limits Muslim husbands to

but the Quran limits Muslim husbands to four wives hoon who knees first two

four wives hoon who knees first two

four wives hoon who knees first two wives Raina and Kara seem are preparing

wives Raina and Kara seem are preparing

wives Raina and Kara seem are preparing wedding food they say it makes sense to

wedding food they say it makes sense to

wedding food they say it makes sense to bring a new woman into the family

bring a new woman into the family

bring a new woman into the family another wife means another set of hands

another wife means another set of hands

another wife means another set of hands to do the work before taking the third

to do the work before taking the third

to do the work before taking the third wife he informed me he wanted to take

wife he informed me he wanted to take

wife he informed me he wanted to take the new wife and I told him that I agree

the new wife and I told him that I agree

the new wife and I told him that I agree that is a good idea because I travel a

that is a good idea because I travel a

that is a good idea because I travel a lot for example and when I am away who

lot for example and when I am away who

lot for example and when I am away who is going to prepare his food

at nightfall the new bride hua Silla is

at nightfall the new bride hua Silla is brought to the center of the village the

brought to the center of the village the

brought to the center of the village the veil will cover her face until the

veil will cover her face until the

veil will cover her face until the ceremonies are over other young women

ceremonies are over other young women

ceremonies are over other young women playfully chide her for trading the joys

playfully chide her for trading the joys

playfully chide her for trading the joys of youth for the married life you’re

of youth for the married life you’re

of youth for the married life you’re leaving us you’re abandoning us you are

leaving us you’re abandoning us you are

leaving us you’re abandoning us you are losing your freedom meanwhile the

losing your freedom meanwhile the

losing your freedom meanwhile the village authorities meet with the brides

village authorities meet with the brides

village authorities meet with the brides and grooms families to give their formal

and grooms families to give their formal

and grooms families to give their formal endorsement of the marriage

we are sent by mr. Ellie who wants your

we are sent by mr. Ellie who wants your daughter to marry his son I see a lot do

daughter to marry his son I see a lot do

daughter to marry his son I see a lot do you agree I do you believe a Mylar green

you agree I do you believe a Mylar green

you agree I do you believe a Mylar green male how did he give you my daughter

male how did he give you my daughter

male how did he give you my daughter from today to the end the bride’s family

from today to the end the bride’s family

from today to the end the bride’s family paid a dowry months ago this is a final

paid a dowry months ago this is a final

paid a dowry months ago this is a final symbolic exchange that formalizes the

symbolic exchange that formalizes the

symbolic exchange that formalizes the agreement as the officials leave the

agreement as the officials leave the

agreement as the officials leave the formal part of the wedding is over now

formal part of the wedding is over now

formal part of the wedding is over now the celebrations can begin as pomp unni

the celebrations can begin as pomp unni

the celebrations can begin as pomp unni leads his wives

leads his wives

leads his wives the entire village gathers for the

the entire village gathers for the

the entire village gathers for the wedding entertainment it starts with

wedding entertainment it starts with

wedding entertainment it starts with traditional Takei dancing

finally whom pune and his wives receive

finally whom pune and his wives receive gifts of coins and they danced together

gifts of coins and they danced together

gifts of coins and they danced together sealing the new marriage

first in second wives Raina and kerosene

first in second wives Raina and kerosene lead the bride to her house

while women sing and welcome and warn

while women sing and welcome and warn her to beware of jealousy the new bride

her to beware of jealousy the new bride

her to beware of jealousy the new bride isn’t worried

I don’t care about jealousy I care about

I don’t care about jealousy I care about fun and clothes if I have money and my

fun and clothes if I have money and my

fun and clothes if I have money and my husband gives me what I need I don’t

husband gives me what I need I don’t

husband gives me what I need I don’t care about jealousy with three days of

care about jealousy with three days of

care about jealousy with three days of ceremony at an end the family can begin

ceremony at an end the family can begin

ceremony at an end the family can begin to establish its new domestic balance at

to establish its new domestic balance at

to establish its new domestic balance at least until company selects his next

least until company selects his next

least until company selects his next wife

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