I was about to graduate from university and I thought I had my I figured out so
and I thought I had my I figured out so
and I thought I had my I figured out so I had very clear goals get that degree
I had very clear goals get that degree
I had very clear goals get that degree get that high paying corporate job climb
get that high paying corporate job climb
get that high paying corporate job climb the corporate ladder and make a lot of
the corporate ladder and make a lot of
the corporate ladder and make a lot of money and that was success to me and
money and that was success to me and
money and that was success to me and what happened along the line was
what happened along the line was
what happened along the line was something that was completely unexpected
something that was completely unexpected
something that was completely unexpected so as I as the months old on as I kept
so as I as the months old on as I kept
so as I as the months old on as I kept on going through the grind every day
on going through the grind every day
on going through the grind every day while God is working hard I suddenly
while God is working hard I suddenly
while God is working hard I suddenly near that I said I was profoundly and
near that I said I was profoundly and
near that I said I was profoundly and deeply unhappy and as I was sitting
deeply unhappy and as I was sitting
deeply unhappy and as I was sitting outside my place of work one day I was
outside my place of work one day I was
outside my place of work one day I was thinking to myself why is this happening
thinking to myself why is this happening
thinking to myself why is this happening why is this happening to me right and so
why is this happening to me right and so
why is this happening to me right and so why is this happening to me right and
why is this happening to me right and
why is this happening to me right and essentially what I realized was that you
essentially what I realized was that you
essentially what I realized was that you know I started doubting myself I started
know I started doubting myself I started
know I started doubting myself I started doubting myself on a daily basis I was I
doubting myself on a daily basis I was I
doubting myself on a daily basis I was I thought when I was being Titleist right
thought when I was being Titleist right
thought when I was being Titleist right I had that job I had that dream and so
I had that job I had that dream and so
I had that job I had that dream and so what was going on and then I started
what was going on and then I started
what was going on and then I started really thinking about it i sat down I
really thinking about it i sat down I
really thinking about it i sat down I took a number of days and eventually
took a number of days and eventually
took a number of days and eventually what I realized was that this was not
what I realized was that this was not
what I realized was that this was not the career for me this is not what I
the career for me this is not what I
the career for me this is not what I could do for 20 30 40 years and I wanted
could do for 20 30 40 years and I wanted
could do for 20 30 40 years and I wanted something different and after a lot of
something different and after a lot of
something different and after a lot of thinking I realized that my passions and
thinking I realized that my passions and
thinking I realized that my passions and my strengths were pointing me in the
my strengths were pointing me in the
my strengths were pointing me in the direction of entrepreneurship I wanted
direction of entrepreneurship I wanted
direction of entrepreneurship I wanted to build my own business I wanted to
to build my own business I wanted to
to build my own business I wanted to build something that would last beyond
build something that would last beyond
build something that would last beyond my my years in this world I wanted to be
my my years in this world I wanted to be
my my years in this world I wanted to be excited I wanted to be energized by what
excited I wanted to be energized by what
excited I wanted to be energized by what I was doing and this was just not it so
I was doing and this was just not it so
I was doing and this was just not it so once I recognized this the path was here
once I recognized this the path was here
once I recognized this the path was here I had read it my vision
I had read it my vision
I had read it my vision myself that I wanted to have a business
myself that I wanted to have a business
myself that I wanted to have a business of my own I wanted to entrepreneurship I
of my own I wanted to entrepreneurship I
of my own I wanted to entrepreneurship I wanted to work on something that I was
wanted to work on something that I was
wanted to work on something that I was passionate about every day but this is
passionate about every day but this is
passionate about every day but this is where it comes into the story so fear
where it comes into the story so fear
where it comes into the story so fear basically was stopping me from when I
basically was stopping me from when I
basically was stopping me from when I was stuck in a rut doing something that
was stuck in a rut doing something that
was stuck in a rut doing something that I was not particularly passionate about
I was not particularly passionate about
I was not particularly passionate about not being happy not being excited about
not being happy not being excited about
not being happy not being excited about what I was doing every day being in a
what I was doing every day being in a
what I was doing every day being in a place where I was anxious when I was
place where I was anxious when I was
place where I was anxious when I was becoming depressed and when I was
becoming depressed and when I was
becoming depressed and when I was basically I was finding it world more
basically I was finding it world more
basically I was finding it world more difficult to get out of my bed and go to
difficult to get out of my bed and go to
difficult to get out of my bed and go to work every morning because when you
work every morning because when you
work every morning because when you don’t enjoy a work and you have to do it
don’t enjoy a work and you have to do it
don’t enjoy a work and you have to do it for 10 12 hours again for the rest of
for 10 12 hours again for the rest of
for 10 12 hours again for the rest of your life it can be very difficult so so
your life it can be very difficult so so
your life it can be very difficult so so this was the problem it was stopping me
this was the problem it was stopping me
this was the problem it was stopping me from getting to where I was in a bad
from getting to where I was in a bad
from getting to where I was in a bad place and to the place where I actually
place and to the place where I actually
place and to the place where I actually wanted to be which was my shot at a
wanted to be which was my shot at a
wanted to be which was my shot at a fulfilling career which was to be
fulfilling career which was to be
fulfilling career which was to be excited and energized about what I was
excited and energized about what I was
excited and energized about what I was going we’re supposed to have my own
going we’re supposed to have my own
going we’re supposed to have my own business I knew that that was my only
business I knew that that was my only
business I knew that that was my only shot I knew that that was the path that
shot I knew that that was the path that
shot I knew that that was the path that I had today but for the longest time I
I had today but for the longest time I
I had today but for the longest time I couldn’t fail was putting you know was
couldn’t fail was putting you know was
couldn’t fail was putting you know was was making me go so bad and in that
was making me go so bad and in that
was making me go so bad and in that sphere was was debilitating my action
sphere was was debilitating my action
sphere was was debilitating my action fear was putting doubts in my head I
fear was putting doubts in my head I
fear was putting doubts in my head I mean I was thinking you know what have I
mean I was thinking you know what have I
mean I was thinking you know what have I not already you know being good enough
not already you know being good enough
not already you know being good enough to start a business
to start a business
to start a business I was I was talking my own capabilities
I was I was talking my own capabilities
I was I was talking my own capabilities ever starting my abilities right I was
ever starting my abilities right I was
ever starting my abilities right I was starting behind the ability to actually
starting behind the ability to actually
starting behind the ability to actually go for it and actually achieve something
go for it and actually achieve something
go for it and actually achieve something and that is what and that is why you
and that is what and that is why you
and that is what and that is why you know I couldn’t take action and for the
know I couldn’t take action and for the
know I couldn’t take action and for the longest time I was still stuck in that
longest time I was still stuck in that
longest time I was still stuck in that rut right I still had doubts about what
rut right I still had doubts about what
rut right I still had doubts about what I was going to do I still couldn’t
I was going to do I still couldn’t
I was going to do I still couldn’t believe in myself and then you know like
believe in myself and then you know like
believe in myself and then you know like my final reading so then I went to town
my final reading so then I went to town
my final reading so then I went to town on books right I started reading about
on books right I started reading about
on books right I started reading about psychology and started reading about the
psychology and started reading about the
psychology and started reading about the psychology of fear in her
psychology of fear in her
psychology of fear in her and what I learned about fear was the
and what I learned about fear was the
and what I learned about fear was the phone so the first thing was that it’s
phone so the first thing was that it’s
phone so the first thing was that it’s completely natural everyone goes through
completely natural everyone goes through
completely natural everyone goes through this process everyone goes through field
this process everyone goes through field
this process everyone goes through field every time you turn try to do something
every time you turn try to do something
every time you turn try to do something out of the comfort zone it will try and
out of the comfort zone it will try and
out of the comfort zone it will try and drag you back and why is that it comes
drag you back and why is that it comes
drag you back and why is that it comes from your primal brain right and that
from your primal brain right and that
from your primal brain right and that part of the brain that has really not
part of the brain that has really not
part of the brain that has really not developed over the years since you know
developed over the years since you know
developed over the years since you know the dawn of man now back in the day when
the dawn of man now back in the day when
the dawn of man now back in the day when we have to fend for our daily food when
we have to fend for our daily food when
we have to fend for our daily food when we had to fight wild animals on a daily
we had to fight wild animals on a daily
we had to fight wild animals on a daily basis and our survival bozek’s day this
basis and our survival bozek’s day this
basis and our survival bozek’s day this primal brain stopping you from doing
primal brain stopping you from doing
primal brain stopping you from doing something and putting stress and anxiety
something and putting stress and anxiety
something and putting stress and anxiety and fear into you was not useful it
and fear into you was not useful it
and fear into you was not useful it serves a useful purpose right it kept
serves a useful purpose right it kept
serves a useful purpose right it kept you alive but now in the modern day and
you alive but now in the modern day and
you alive but now in the modern day and age it’s stopping you from doing the
age it’s stopping you from doing the
age it’s stopping you from doing the things that you really need to do to get
things that you really need to do to get
things that you really need to do to get out of your comfort zone and actually
out of your comfort zone and actually
out of your comfort zone and actually achieve something and it is completely
achieve something and it is completely
achieve something and it is completely natural it happens with everyone right
natural it happens with everyone right
natural it happens with everyone right and it fills you with fear it fills you
and it fills you with fear it fills you
and it fills you with fear it fills you with down and extends II was exactly but
with down and extends II was exactly but
with down and extends II was exactly but it’s only useful but it comes to life
it’s only useful but it comes to life
it’s only useful but it comes to life and death threatening situations but
and death threatening situations but
and death threatening situations but nowhere else second thing I realized was
nowhere else second thing I realized was
nowhere else second thing I realized was the fear of failure was holding me back
the fear of failure was holding me back
the fear of failure was holding me back and just like me it will get moodle’s
and just like me it will get moodle’s
and just like me it will get moodle’s back so many people on a daily basis
back so many people on a daily basis
back so many people on a daily basis from actually going out and doing what
from actually going out and doing what
from actually going out and doing what they wanted the fear of failure failure
they wanted the fear of failure failure
they wanted the fear of failure failure is stigmatized personality idiom is seen
is stigmatized personality idiom is seen
is stigmatized personality idiom is seen as something that’s very very negative
as something that’s very very negative
as something that’s very very negative and because of that it caused me to
and because of that it caused me to
and because of that it caused me to doubt myself
doubt myself
doubt myself it caused me to think about that you
it caused me to think about that you
it caused me to think about that you know what happens happen if I actually
know what happens happen if I actually
know what happens happen if I actually said what happens if I won’t make it
said what happens if I won’t make it
said what happens if I won’t make it right
right
right how would that face myself and then the
how would that face myself and then the
how would that face myself and then the third thing was about this what other
third thing was about this what other
third thing was about this what other people will think of me right what
people will think of me right what
people will think of me right what society will think of me what my parents
society will think of me what my parents
society will think of me what my parents would think of who my friends my
would think of who my friends my
would think of who my friends my relatives the people who I why I kind of
relatives the people who I why I kind of
relatives the people who I why I kind of with everyday what would they think of
with everyday what would they think of
with everyday what would they think of me as a failure what if I fail and what
me as a failure what if I fail and what
me as a failure what if I fail and what if I’d
if I’d
if I’d right would they make fun of me when
right would they make fun of me when
right would they make fun of me when they laugh at me what would I think
they laugh at me what would I think
they laugh at me what would I think about myself so these are the three
about myself so these are the three
about myself so these are the three things that I was able to bring it make
things that I was able to bring it make
things that I was able to bring it make it down into I was able to bring down my
it down into I was able to bring down my
it down into I was able to bring down my fear into these feelings now it’s very
fear into these feelings now it’s very
fear into these feelings now it’s very clear that all of us are faced with
clear that all of us are faced with
clear that all of us are faced with these things right and it happens to us
these things right and it happens to us
these things right and it happens to us very regularly and it is one of the key
very regularly and it is one of the key
very regularly and it is one of the key reasons why people actually born
reasons why people actually born
reasons why people actually born go all out and do what they want to do
go all out and do what they want to do
go all out and do what they want to do in life now how do you deal with this
in life now how do you deal with this
in life now how do you deal with this here is what I have learned through
here is what I have learned through
here is what I have learned through lending of trial and error through
lending of trial and error through
lending of trial and error through plenty of time spent making mistakes and
plenty of time spent making mistakes and
plenty of time spent making mistakes and learning from my mistakes here is what I
learning from my mistakes here is what I
learning from my mistakes here is what I learned
learned
learned so first things first you need to sit
so first things first you need to sit
so first things first you need to sit down with a piece of pen and paper and
down with a piece of pen and paper and
down with a piece of pen and paper and literally write down what’s the worst
literally write down what’s the worst
literally write down what’s the worst that can happen if you go through with
that can happen if you go through with
that can happen if you go through with something that is this team if you go
something that is this team if you go
something that is this team if you go through with something that is what is
through with something that is what is
through with something that is what is the worst that can happen and what you
the worst that can happen and what you
the worst that can happen and what you realize eventually is that the worst
realize eventually is that the worst
realize eventually is that the worst that can happen the absolute worst case
that can happen the absolute worst case
that can happen the absolute worst case scenario is really not that bad in my
scenario is really not that bad in my
scenario is really not that bad in my case it was business failing so what if
case it was business failing so what if
case it was business failing so what if my business fails we’ll have enough
my business fails we’ll have enough
my business fails we’ll have enough unemployable can I then I don’t go and
unemployable can I then I don’t go and
unemployable can I then I don’t go and try something else another field in
try something else another field in
try something else another field in another business absolutely not the
another business absolutely not the
another business absolutely not the messages that my brain was sending to me
messages that my brain was sending to me
messages that my brain was sending to me were all false they were just meant to
were all false they were just meant to
were all false they were just meant to keep me within my comfort zone that were
keep me within my comfort zone that were
keep me within my comfort zone that were meant was meant to not take that risk
meant was meant to not take that risk
meant was meant to not take that risk and leap of faith that was required
and leap of faith that was required
and leap of faith that was required right which was to leave that
right which was to leave that
right which was to leave that high-paying corporate job and to move on
high-paying corporate job and to move on
high-paying corporate job and to move on to something risky for that risk had the
to something risky for that risk had the
to something risky for that risk had the chance and will put me on the path do
chance and will put me on the path do
chance and will put me on the path do something that would fulfill so that’s
something that would fulfill so that’s
something that would fulfill so that’s that’s the fear of pain now how do you
that’s the fear of pain now how do you
that’s the fear of pain now how do you deal with this you deal with this by
deal with this you deal with this by
deal with this you deal with this by rationalizing you need with this by
rationalizing you need with this by
rationalizing you need with this by telling yourself the worst that can
telling yourself the worst that can
telling yourself the worst that can happen and
happen and
happen and contingency plan according to will right
contingency plan according to will right
contingency plan according to will right you make a plan that okay even if the
you make a plan that okay even if the
you make a plan that okay even if the worst actually happens I can bounce back
worst actually happens I can bounce back
worst actually happens I can bounce back from it and you take down specific steps
from it and you take down specific steps
from it and you take down specific steps in the way you can do so and that
in the way you can do so and that
in the way you can do so and that empowers you that really makes a lot of
empowers you that really makes a lot of
empowers you that really makes a lot of burden of your shoulders right so you
burden of your shoulders right so you
burden of your shoulders right so you need to get out of your comfort zone and
need to get out of your comfort zone and
need to get out of your comfort zone and you need to control your thoughts and
you need to control your thoughts and
you need to control your thoughts and your actions by controlling your final
your actions by controlling your final
your actions by controlling your final rate right
rate right
rate right the next is that you need to really sit
the next is that you need to really sit
the next is that you need to really sit down with those people who using those
down with those people who using those
down with those people who using those opinions matter the most
opinions matter the most
opinions matter the most now I talked about how other people’s
now I talked about how other people’s
now I talked about how other people’s opinions can walk us down and cause fear
opinions can walk us down and cause fear
opinions can walk us down and cause fear and what other people think of us if we
and what other people think of us if we
and what other people think of us if we say well sit down with those people
say well sit down with those people
say well sit down with those people whose opinion rating matters right sit
whose opinion rating matters right sit
whose opinion rating matters right sit down with those people with those four
down with those people with those four
down with those people with those four or five few people who you think railing
or five few people who you think railing
or five few people who you think railing you to know why you need to do something
you to know why you need to do something
you to know why you need to do something right and you sit down and have an open
right and you sit down and have an open
right and you sit down and have an open and frank conversation with them and
and frank conversation with them and
and frank conversation with them and that why you’re doing this tell them
that why you’re doing this tell them
that why you’re doing this tell them that why it’s so important to you to go
that why it’s so important to you to go
that why it’s so important to you to go through with this particular decision
through with this particular decision
through with this particular decision that you’re so quick to take and why
that you’re so quick to take and why
that you’re so quick to take and why they may not like it right and trust me
they may not like it right and trust me
they may not like it right and trust me if they care about you they will come
if they care about you they will come
if they care about you they will come along and they will then be happy with
along and they will then be happy with
along and they will then be happy with your decision and even if they’re not
your decision and even if they’re not
your decision and even if they’re not initially happy once they see you once
initially happy once they see you once
initially happy once they see you once they see you progress towards something
they see you progress towards something
they see you progress towards something that you team up do it they will come
that you team up do it they will come
that you team up do it they will come around because they care about you right
around because they care about you right
around because they care about you right when I was about to make my decision and
when I was about to make my decision and
when I was about to make my decision and while that I actually did make my
while that I actually did make my
while that I actually did make my decision I heard stuff like you’re
decision I heard stuff like you’re
decision I heard stuff like you’re committing financial suicide who you
committing financial suicide who you
committing financial suicide who you know leaves this this company and this
know leaves this this company and this
know leaves this this company and this big stable period who doesn’t why would
big stable period who doesn’t why would
big stable period who doesn’t why would you take such a big risk you won’t get
you take such a big risk you won’t get
you take such a big risk you won’t get married
married
married no one want to buy it right these are
no one want to buy it right these are
no one want to buy it right these are the kind of things I’ve heard these are
the kind of things I’ve heard these are
the kind of things I’ve heard these are the kind I was going to I was being
the kind I was going to I was being
the kind I was going to I was being tactless and I was it I was being you
tactless and I was it I was being you
tactless and I was it I was being you know not thankful for the gifts I’ve
know not thankful for the gifts I’ve
know not thankful for the gifts I’ve already given and trusting where it’s
already given and trusting where it’s
already given and trusting where it’s coming from people who you really care
coming from people who you really care
coming from people who you really care about and when it’s people who are
about and when it’s people who are
about and when it’s people who are railing those – it hurts right it
railing those – it hurts right it
railing those – it hurts right it doesn’t store enough it’s not a good
doesn’t store enough it’s not a good
doesn’t store enough it’s not a good feeling it’s rough right and but
feeling it’s rough right and but
feeling it’s rough right and but eventually what you really need to
eventually what you really need to
eventually what you really need to realize is that would you need to be
realize is that would you need to be
realize is that would you need to be perfect right good
perfect right good
perfect right good to face every day and that’s yourself so
to face every day and that’s yourself so
to face every day and that’s yourself so the opinion that matters the most is
the opinion that matters the most is
the opinion that matters the most is your own opinion and what do you think
your own opinion and what do you think
your own opinion and what do you think about yourself and trust me I’ve been
about yourself and trust me I’ve been
about yourself and trust me I’ve been through this unless you don’t do what
through this unless you don’t do what
through this unless you don’t do what you really want to do unless you don’t
you really want to do unless you don’t
you really want to do unless you don’t take those mr. Ness you and you don’t
take those mr. Ness you and you don’t
take those mr. Ness you and you don’t break through those barriers you will
break through those barriers you will
break through those barriers you will never do any respect yourself and you
never do any respect yourself and you
never do any respect yourself and you will never truly forgive yourself if you
will never truly forgive yourself if you
will never truly forgive yourself if you look at it later
look at it later
look at it later so when you realize that all of those
so when you realize that all of those
so when you realize that all of those opinions that don’t matter right are
opinions that don’t matter right are
opinions that don’t matter right are just noise you just block them out
just noise you just block them out
just noise you just block them out ignore them
ignore them
ignore them it’s liberating it’ll set you free and
it’s liberating it’ll set you free and
it’s liberating it’ll set you free and it will be able and you’ll be able to do
it will be able and you’ll be able to do
it will be able and you’ll be able to do so much more with your name this block
so much more with your name this block
so much more with your name this block of those opinions block out the noise
of those opinions block out the noise
of those opinions block out the noise doesn’t that doesn’t matter right then I
doesn’t that doesn’t matter right then I
doesn’t that doesn’t matter right then I thought was failure right and the way we
thought was failure right and the way we
thought was failure right and the way we perceive it now we need to reframe
perceive it now we need to reframe
perceive it now we need to reframe failure tell me this and really think
failure tell me this and really think
failure tell me this and really think about it has anything ever been achieved
about it has anything ever been achieved
about it has anything ever been achieved without someone taking a risk without
without someone taking a risk without
without someone taking a risk without someone maybe failing for the first time
someone maybe failing for the first time
someone maybe failing for the first time learning from it and that knocks me back
learning from it and that knocks me back
learning from it and that knocks me back again no I don’t think so
again no I don’t think so
again no I don’t think so don’t up every success story and you
don’t up every success story and you
don’t up every success story and you will see the same thing the same pattern
will see the same thing the same pattern
will see the same thing the same pattern everywhere someone took a chance
everywhere someone took a chance
everywhere someone took a chance somebody if something will speak they
somebody if something will speak they
somebody if something will speak they might have failed but they learn and
might have failed but they learn and
might have failed but they learn and they kept going right our society sees
they kept going right our society sees
they kept going right our society sees failure as fail our strategies failure
failure as fail our strategies failure
failure as fail our strategies failure as something very very negative some
as something very very negative some
as something very very negative some things that’s the worst that can happen
things that’s the worst that can happen
things that’s the worst that can happen to you but I had two different and many
to you but I had two different and many
to you but I had two different and many successful people beg to differ failure
successful people beg to differ failure
successful people beg to differ failure actually teaches you the most failure is
actually teaches you the most failure is
actually teaches you the most failure is it teach you so many things for me the
it teach you so many things for me the
it teach you so many things for me the way I will fail failure for myself was
way I will fail failure for myself was
way I will fail failure for myself was that even if I fail I will learn from it
that even if I fail I will learn from it
that even if I fail I will learn from it and I will go on I will start my second
and I will go on I will start my second
and I will go on I will start my second venture
venture
venture – much better because of the lessons
– much better because of the lessons
– much better because of the lessons that I had that he had taught me and
that I had that he had taught me and
that I had that he had taught me and even if I’d want it work for someone
even if I’d want it work for someone
even if I’d want it work for someone else I’ll be able to add much more value
else I’ll be able to add much more value
else I’ll be able to add much more value because of the fact that I’d trade and I
because of the fact that I’d trade and I
because of the fact that I’d trade and I had learned a lot failure means that you
had learned a lot failure means that you
had learned a lot failure means that you took a chance they do things there – no
took a chance they do things there – no
took a chance they do things there – no action that you’ve got off the doubts
action that you’ve got off the doubts
action that you’ve got off the doubts and you actually hit something rather
and you actually hit something rather
and you actually hit something rather than feeling sorry for yourself right I
than feeling sorry for yourself right I
than feeling sorry for yourself right I had the option of just you know being
had the option of just you know being
had the option of just you know being where I was and feeling sorry for myself
where I was and feeling sorry for myself
where I was and feeling sorry for myself and this thinking about that this is the
and this thinking about that this is the
and this thinking about that this is the way it’s supposed to be this is the way
way it’s supposed to be this is the way
way it’s supposed to be this is the way life is right this is the way the rest
life is right this is the way the rest
life is right this is the way the rest until your heart you’re not supposed to
until your heart you’re not supposed to
until your heart you’re not supposed to enjoy them you’re just supposed to work
enjoy them you’re just supposed to work
enjoy them you’re just supposed to work and earn money but I didn’t believe them
and earn money but I didn’t believe them
and earn money but I didn’t believe them and I chose action over sale right and
and I chose action over sale right and
and I chose action over sale right and we feel in that period is very very
we feel in that period is very very
we feel in that period is very very important we need to get comfortable
important we need to get comfortable
important we need to get comfortable with failure right and that is something
with failure right and that is something
with failure right and that is something that again will help you tremendously
that again will help you tremendously
that again will help you tremendously right and then what are the what are the
right and then what are the what are the
right and then what are the what are the most important things is eventually
most important things is eventually
most important things is eventually taking action right so using that once
taking action right so using that once
taking action right so using that once you take action once you take that leap
you take action once you take that leap
you take action once you take that leap of faith is the fear over is it never
of faith is the fear over is it never
of faith is the fear over is it never gonna come back
gonna come back
gonna come back no it’s just the start and tell you what
no it’s just the start and tell you what
no it’s just the start and tell you what so when I handed in my resignation when
so when I handed in my resignation when
so when I handed in my resignation when I finally took action after so many such
I finally took action after so many such
I finally took action after so many such a long time I had like crazy panic
a long time I had like crazy panic
a long time I had like crazy panic attacks right I would go home and for
attacks right I would go home and for
attacks right I would go home and for the first three days I had to literally
the first three days I had to literally
the first three days I had to literally climb as obviously that’s how scared I
climb as obviously that’s how scared I
climb as obviously that’s how scared I was right who throws away that you could
was right who throws away that you could
was right who throws away that you could get your purse up for something so risky
get your purse up for something so risky
get your purse up for something so risky right especially when your parents your
right especially when your parents your
right especially when your parents your family everyone that you know expects
family everyone that you know expects
family everyone that you know expects you to go a particular path that when
you to go a particular path that when
you to go a particular path that when you do something different it’s guilt
you do something different it’s guilt
you do something different it’s guilt and fear did not let me go then right
and fear did not let me go then right
and fear did not let me go then right you doesn’t have to go even now every
you doesn’t have to go even now every
you doesn’t have to go even now every day when I’m trying to build my business
day when I’m trying to build my business
day when I’m trying to build my business happy
happy
happy every day when I’m setting you up like
every day when I’m setting you up like
every day when I’m setting you up like the fear does come back but how do you
the fear does come back but how do you
the fear does come back but how do you need for that you deal with that by
need for that you deal with that by
need for that you deal with that by taking action again and again and again
taking action again and again and again
taking action again and again and again right the more comfortable you become
right the more comfortable you become
right the more comfortable you become with something that that scares you with
with something that that scares you with
with something that that scares you with something that is unfamiliar the more
something that is unfamiliar the more
something that is unfamiliar the more you will be able to take control of your
you will be able to take control of your
you will be able to take control of your thoughts and actions and the more the
thoughts and actions and the more the
thoughts and actions and the more the noise of fear subsides in your head and
noise of fear subsides in your head and
noise of fear subsides in your head and the more it the less it actually people
the more it the less it actually people
the more it the less it actually people the more you take action so what we need
the more you take action so what we need
the more you take action so what we need to do is we need to look at what’s
to do is we need to look at what’s
to do is we need to look at what’s ladies earrings need to look at that
ladies earrings need to look at that
ladies earrings need to look at that decision that’s so important but it’s
decision that’s so important but it’s
decision that’s so important but it’s scaring us and we need to go ahead on it
scaring us and we need to go ahead on it
scaring us and we need to go ahead on it would because the more you do it the
would because the more you do it the
would because the more you do it the more you do it the less and less control
more you do it the less and less control
more you do it the less and less control over your thoughts and your actions
over your thoughts and your actions
over your thoughts and your actions right so we need to go head-on and we
right so we need to go head-on and we
right so we need to go head-on and we need to take action again and again
need to take action again and again
need to take action again and again every day until that time where you are
every day until that time where you are
every day until that time where you are completely comfortable with the other
completely comfortable with the other
completely comfortable with the other one and one that is out of your comfort
one and one that is out of your comfort
one and one that is out of your comfort zone pushing yourself and prove it
zone pushing yourself and prove it
zone pushing yourself and prove it because without getting out of your
because without getting out of your
because without getting out of your comfort zone then is going to be no good
comfort zone then is going to be no good
comfort zone then is going to be no good there is going to be non movement and
there is going to be non movement and
there is going to be non movement and there is going to be no achievement
there is going to be no achievement
there is going to be no achievement right so that is very important and then
right so that is very important and then
right so that is very important and then finally just to close this this entire
finally just to close this this entire
finally just to close this this entire thing off there is one thing that we
thing off there is one thing that we
thing off there is one thing that we really should fear you guys and that
really should fear you guys and that
really should fear you guys and that thing is regret
thing is regret
thing is regret now imagine waking up 20 30 40 years
now imagine waking up 20 30 40 years
now imagine waking up 20 30 40 years from now and you look back at your life
from now and you look back at your life
from now and you look back at your life and you’re filled with regret your
and you’re filled with regret your
and you’re filled with regret your friend would read about that you know
friend would read about that you know
friend would read about that you know you put and then happy
you put and then happy
you put and then happy you could have quite a few you could
you could have quite a few you could
you could have quite a few you could have done something different that would
have done something different that would
have done something different that would have changed the trajectory of your life
have changed the trajectory of your life
have changed the trajectory of your life but you did it why because you were
but you did it why because you were
but you did it why because you were afraid of what other people would think
afraid of what other people would think
afraid of what other people would think right you’re afraid of whatever thing
right you’re afraid of whatever thing
right you’re afraid of whatever thing but your family would think your friends
but your family would think your friends
but your family would think your friends the people we were afraid to fail in
the people we were afraid to fail in
the people we were afraid to fail in front of you were too afraid to come
front of you were too afraid to come
front of you were too afraid to come over that part of your brain that stops
over that part of your brain that stops
over that part of your brain that stops you but when you see things and you are
you but when you see things and you are
you but when you see things and you are afraid of it you didn’t do it that is
afraid of it you didn’t do it that is
afraid of it you didn’t do it that is something that we really need to feel
something that we really need to feel
something that we really need to feel that again because that is something you
that again because that is something you
that again because that is something you cannot change and that is something that
cannot change and that is something that
cannot change and that is something that can kill me right now the party buses
can kill me right now the party buses
can kill me right now the party buses are about to come in Ringo crosses that
are about to come in Ringo crosses that
are about to come in Ringo crosses that we only have one life this is it isn’t
we only have one life this is it isn’t
we only have one life this is it isn’t going to be a dress rehearsal there is
going to be a dress rehearsal there is
going to be a dress rehearsal there is signal rewind button on this we just
signal rewind button on this we just
signal rewind button on this we just have one shot at our time is limited so
have one shot at our time is limited so
have one shot at our time is limited so what I suggest is that you go up and you
what I suggest is that you go up and you
what I suggest is that you go up and you find the thing that you want to do that
find the thing that you want to do that
find the thing that you want to do that makes you come alive on a daily basis
makes you come alive on a daily basis
makes you come alive on a daily basis right fit the norm and really think
right fit the norm and really think
right fit the norm and really think about it experiment go out work on day
about it experiment go out work on day
about it experiment go out work on day and night and figure out exactly what it
and night and figure out exactly what it
and night and figure out exactly what it is that you need to do that makes you
is that you need to do that makes you
is that you need to do that makes you happy that makes you come alive that
happy that makes you come alive that
happy that makes you come alive that makes you want to get up and work hard
makes you want to get up and work hard
makes you want to get up and work hard every right then you do it you offer if
every right then you do it you offer if
every right then you do it you offer if this the one you want to feel right
this the one you want to feel right
this the one you want to feel right because you are in control of your
because you are in control of your
because you are in control of your thoughts and your actions and trust me
thoughts and your actions and trust me
thoughts and your actions and trust me that is more than it so
that is more than it so
that is more than it so [Applause]
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