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How labelling can be a double-edged sword | Alexander Carter | TEDxPearsonCollegeUWC


so I just like to say all of what I know

so I just like to say all of what I know is based on the UK I cannot claim any

is based on the UK I cannot claim any

is based on the UK I cannot claim any knowledge about mental health in Canada

knowledge about mental health in Canada

knowledge about mental health in Canada or in any other country so a lot of what

or in any other country so a lot of what

or in any other country so a lot of what I say will be very relevant so what is

I say will be very relevant so what is

I say will be very relevant so what is autism autism is for those of you who

autism autism is for those of you who

autism autism is for those of you who don’t know a mental condition present in

don’t know a mental condition present in

don’t know a mental condition present in early development it is characterized by

early development it is characterized by

early development it is characterized by great difficulty in language and

great difficulty in language and

great difficulty in language and relating to other people as well as in

relating to other people as well as in

relating to other people as well as in abstract concepts a to someone with

abstract concepts a to someone with

abstract concepts a to someone with atypical autism will have many of the

atypical autism will have many of the

atypical autism will have many of the same symptoms and behavioral problems

same symptoms and behavioral problems

same symptoms and behavioral problems but it would have the symptoms will

but it would have the symptoms will

but it would have the symptoms will develop later on and development my

develop later on and development my

develop later on and development my sister my sister was a normal child up

sister my sister was a normal child up

sister my sister was a normal child up until the age of 20 months but at 20

until the age of 20 months but at 20

until the age of 20 months but at 20 months it changed she developed epilepsy

months it changed she developed epilepsy

months it changed she developed epilepsy suffering generalized seizures which are

suffering generalized seizures which are

suffering generalized seizures which are caused by electrical impulses throughout

caused by electrical impulses throughout

caused by electrical impulses throughout the entire brain she would lose

the entire brain she would lose

the entire brain she would lose consciousness and then stiffen rigidly

consciousness and then stiffen rigidly

consciousness and then stiffen rigidly going into what is known as a tonic

going into what is known as a tonic

going into what is known as a tonic phase this meant she could was no longer

phase this meant she could was no longer

phase this meant she could was no longer able to move to cry or to do anything at

able to move to cry or to do anything at

able to move to cry or to do anything at all she never suffered the violent

all she never suffered the violent

all she never suffered the violent jerkings but it would take two to three

jerkings but it would take two to three

jerkings but it would take two to three hours to recover from each vet due to

hours to recover from each vet due to

hours to recover from each vet due to the alarming frequency her care was

the alarming frequency her care was

the alarming frequency her care was transferred to st. almond Street

transferred to st. almond Street

transferred to st. almond Street Hospital which is Britain’s most

Hospital which is Britain’s most

Hospital which is Britain’s most specialized hospital there were days

specialized hospital there were days

specialized hospital there were days when she would have barely recovered

when she would have barely recovered

when she would have barely recovered from fit when you’d have another and

from fit when you’d have another and

from fit when you’d have another and then another and another caught in a

then another and another caught in a

then another and another caught in a seemingly endless cycle and she but when

seemingly endless cycle and she but when

seemingly endless cycle and she but when she turned four it stopped as properly

she turned four it stopped as properly

she turned four it stopped as properly as it had started months of intermittent

as it had started months of intermittent

as it had started months of intermittent electrical impulses must have had some

electrical impulses must have had some

electrical impulses must have had some kind of long-term damage to her brain

kind of long-term damage to her brain

kind of long-term damage to her brain this has never been acknowledged what

this has never been acknowledged what

this has never been acknowledged what was noted though were delays to her

was noted though were delays to her

was noted though were delays to her development

development

development her sight and speeds Haring had

her sight and speeds Haring had

her sight and speeds Haring had completely stopped during this period

completely stopped during this period

completely stopped during this period and a hit Sutton and her son and a

and a hit Sutton and her son and a

and a hit Sutton and her son and a speech had completely delayed even

speech had completely delayed even

speech had completely delayed even speech therapists told her that she was

speech therapists told her that she was

speech therapists told her that she was never going to speak luckily she did her

never going to speak luckily she did her

never going to speak luckily she did her processing was completely damaged in

processing was completely damaged in

processing was completely damaged in fact though she had average intelligence

fact though she had average intelligence

fact though she had average intelligence she her reading and writing skills were

she her reading and writing skills were

she her reading and writing skills were never surpassed that of an

never surpassed that of an

never surpassed that of an eight-year-old and what of her emotional

eight-year-old and what of her emotional

eight-year-old and what of her emotional development she developed she developed

development she developed she developed

development she developed she developed complex behavior problems suffering

complex behavior problems suffering

complex behavior problems suffering extreme anxiety one way this manifested

extreme anxiety one way this manifested

extreme anxiety one way this manifested itself was through OCD or obsessive

itself was through OCD or obsessive

itself was through OCD or obsessive compulsive disorder this is repetitive

compulsive disorder this is repetitive

compulsive disorder this is repetitive behavior caused by unwanted thoughts and

behavior caused by unwanted thoughts and

behavior caused by unwanted thoughts and feelings she was extremely terrified of

feelings she was extremely terrified of

feelings she was extremely terrified of dirt to feel clean she’d have to had

dirt to feel clean she’d have to had

dirt to feel clean she’d have to had have Oh hands wet at all times

have Oh hands wet at all times

have Oh hands wet at all times this meant carrying large bottles of

this meant carrying large bottles of

this meant carrying large bottles of water wherever we went her behavior was

water wherever we went her behavior was

water wherever we went her behavior was inappropriate and embarrassing

inappropriate and embarrassing

inappropriate and embarrassing she’d strip naked or wet herself in

she’d strip naked or wet herself in

she’d strip naked or wet herself in large public places or even lash out and

large public places or even lash out and

large public places or even lash out and hit people on the street just to feel

hit people on the street just to feel

hit people on the street just to feel safe at the age of six we moved away

safe at the age of six we moved away

safe at the age of six we moved away from London to a small town at the age

from London to a small town at the age

from London to a small town at the age of seven my parents divorced which was

of seven my parents divorced which was

of seven my parents divorced which was partly due to her situation we moved we

partly due to her situation we moved we

partly due to her situation we moved we were in a Catholic community closely

were in a Catholic community closely

were in a Catholic community closely knit ‘red but due to her behavior which

knit ‘red but due to her behavior which

knit ‘red but due to her behavior which was often antisocial and hysterical

was often antisocial and hysterical

was often antisocial and hysterical we were never we never integrated in we

we were never we never integrated in we

we were never we never integrated in we were judged and shunned my parent my

were judged and shunned my parent my

were judged and shunned my parent my mother was seen as a bad parent unable

mother was seen as a bad parent unable

mother was seen as a bad parent unable to control her my sister was seen as

to control her my sister was seen as

to control her my sister was seen as some kind of freak without a label to

some kind of freak without a label to

some kind of freak without a label to explain or as an excuse for the school

explain or as an excuse for the school

explain or as an excuse for the school and the community they had nothing to

and the community they had nothing to

and the community they had nothing to blame the problems on we looked for help

blame the problems on we looked for help

blame the problems on we looked for help everywhere she was even put on a gluten

everywhere she was even put on a gluten

everywhere she was even put on a gluten and dairy free diet anything to help at

and dairy free diet anything to help at

and dairy free diet anything to help at the age of eight she was referred to

the age of eight she was referred to

the age of eight she was referred to cams with

cams with

cams with is child and adolescent mental health

is child and adolescent mental health

is child and adolescent mental health services they weren’t interested in our

services they weren’t interested in our

services they weren’t interested in our epilepsy but they offered a range of

epilepsy but they offered a range of

epilepsy but they offered a range of therapies including art talking

therapies including art talking

therapies including art talking cognitive behavior and Family Therapy in

cognitive behavior and Family Therapy in

cognitive behavior and Family Therapy in fact they can boast of thousands of

fact they can boast of thousands of

fact they can boast of thousands of hours of footage of these therapies but

hours of footage of these therapies but

hours of footage of these therapies but no one could help no one could put a

no one could help no one could put a

no one could help no one could put a label on her the only two widely

label on her the only two widely

label on her the only two widely diagnosed mental health problems in the

diagnosed mental health problems in the

diagnosed mental health problems in the UK are autism which includes Asperger’s

UK are autism which includes Asperger’s

UK are autism which includes Asperger’s and ADHD and both she was neither of

and ADHD and both she was neither of

and ADHD and both she was neither of these and this was clearly stated on her

these and this was clearly stated on her

these and this was clearly stated on her record she started off in mainstream

record she started off in mainstream

record she started off in mainstream education but due to her processing and

education but due to her processing and

education but due to her processing and learning difficulties she needed a lot

learning difficulties she needed a lot

learning difficulties she needed a lot more help her teachers told her she’d

more help her teachers told her she’d

more help her teachers told her she’d never be able to read or write she was

never be able to read or write she was

never be able to read or write she was extremely bullied the her peers thought

extremely bullied the her peers thought

extremely bullied the her peers thought that because there was no label there

that because there was no label there

that because there was no label there was nothing wrong with her and she just

was nothing wrong with her and she just

was nothing wrong with her and she just acted out because she was some sort of

acted out because she was some sort of

acted out because she was some sort of as I said before freak because of this

as I said before freak because of this

as I said before freak because of this despite it being a religious school at

despite it being a religious school at

despite it being a religious school at one point her family at one point her

one point her family at one point her

one point her family at one point her classmates planned to kill her by

classmates planned to kill her by

classmates planned to kill her by burying her alive at this point she was

burying her alive at this point she was

burying her alive at this point she was transferred to a special education

transferred to a special education

transferred to a special education school the battle for funding began the

school the battle for funding began the

school the battle for funding began the council didn’t want to fund her despite

council didn’t want to fund her despite

council didn’t want to fund her despite her obvious need because there was no

her obvious need because there was no

her obvious need because there was no label but months of sending letters

label but months of sending letters

label but months of sending letters visiting the local MP my mother finally

visiting the local MP my mother finally

visiting the local MP my mother finally managed to get support for her but then

managed to get support for her but then

managed to get support for her but then at age 13 when we had to move to the

at age 13 when we had to move to the

at age 13 when we had to move to the next step of Education which we had to

next step of Education which we had to

next step of Education which we had to move counties the schools

move counties the schools

move counties the schools told her she simply had to have a label

told her she simply had to have a label

told her she simply had to have a label so after days of tests and assessments

so after days of tests and assessments

so after days of tests and assessments the leading psychiatric leading

the leading psychiatric leading

the leading psychiatric leading pediatric neurologists said that

pediatric neurologists said that

pediatric neurologists said that diagnosed her with atypical autism this

diagnosed her with atypical autism this

diagnosed her with atypical autism this was loose enough to gather support but

was loose enough to gather support but

was loose enough to gather support but vague enough to leave treatment

vague enough to leave treatment

vague enough to leave treatment undecided

there were so many signs and symptoms

there were so many signs and symptoms that were similar to her but at the same

that were similar to her but at the same

that were similar to her but at the same time there were so many boxes that were

time there were so many boxes that were

time there were so many boxes that were left unopened that this label wasn’t

left unopened that this label wasn’t

left unopened that this label wasn’t quite accurate with the label there came

quite accurate with the label there came

quite accurate with the label there came a stigma

a stigma

a stigma she was lumped into a category she often

she was lumped into a category she often

she was lumped into a category she often couldn’t relate to she hated it

couldn’t relate to she hated it

couldn’t relate to she hated it she was categorized as special at 16 the

she was categorized as special at 16 the

she was categorized as special at 16 the anxieties became too much and she left

anxieties became too much and she left

anxieties became too much and she left college she left school her fears social

college she left school her fears social

college she left school her fears social fears were so great that she believed

fears were so great that she believed

fears were so great that she believed all men including my father were

all men including my father were

all men including my father were pedophiles

pedophiles

pedophiles [Music]

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[Music] she couldn’t be left alone her hands

she couldn’t be left alone her hands

she couldn’t be left alone her hands were often bloody and she was extremely

were often bloody and she was extremely

were often bloody and she was extremely depressed because of this it was decided

depressed because of this it was decided

depressed because of this it was decided that medication was the best treatment

that medication was the best treatment

that medication was the best treatment she was put on a series of

she was put on a series of

she was put on a series of antidepressants and antipsychotics in

antidepressants and antipsychotics in

antidepressants and antipsychotics in fact it took over a year to stabilize

fact it took over a year to stabilize

fact it took over a year to stabilize her completely at this point she was put

her completely at this point she was put

her completely at this point she was put in a specialist autistic school when 95%

in a specialist autistic school when 95%

in a specialist autistic school when 95% of the people were of the students were

of the people were of the students were

of the people were of the students were on medication she had no friends

on medication she had no friends

on medication she had no friends she had never achieved basic maths or

she had never achieved basic maths or

she had never achieved basic maths or English but despite this she took a

English but despite this she took a

English but despite this she took a two-year course in art and design which

two-year course in art and design which

two-year course in art and design which allowed her to go to college she started

allowed her to go to college she started

allowed her to go to college she started at college the art College this year age

at college the art College this year age

at college the art College this year age 20

20

20 but the labeling that was so important

but the labeling that was so important

but the labeling that was so important then now means nothing and the adults

then now means nothing and the adults

then now means nothing and the adults health services are so over stretched

health services are so over stretched

health services are so over stretched that unless you have a very unstable

that unless you have a very unstable

that unless you have a very unstable personality disorder it’s almost

personality disorder it’s almost

personality disorder it’s almost impossible to get funding this coupled

impossible to get funding this coupled

impossible to get funding this coupled with the fact that only 32 percent of

with the fact that only 32 percent of

with the fact that only 32 percent of autistic adults are in any kind of

autistic adults are in any kind of

autistic adults are in any kind of employment means that 68 percent just

employment means that 68 percent just

employment means that 68 percent just under 68% of autistic adults are

under 68% of autistic adults are

under 68% of autistic adults are completely reliant on their families

completely reliant on their families

completely reliant on their families they have no income from jobs or for the

they have no income from jobs or for the

they have no income from jobs or for the gut from the government

so so when I wrote the first draft of

so so when I wrote the first draft of this speech I my sister had despite many

this speech I my sister had despite many

this speech I my sister had despite many bad days been coping at school but in

bad days been coping at school but in

bad days been coping at school but in the past few months she has left school

the past few months she has left school

the past few months she has left school or stopped going to school she has been

or stopped going to school she has been

or stopped going to school she has been told that she may be bipolar and she has

told that she may be bipolar and she has

told that she may be bipolar and she has become increasingly unstable and

become increasingly unstable and

become increasingly unstable and depressed withdrawing from all outside

depressed withdrawing from all outside

depressed withdrawing from all outside contact when I was walking back with her

contact when I was walking back with her

contact when I was walking back with her from the doctors she turned to me and

from the doctors she turned to me and

from the doctors she turned to me and she crying she said I wish I had a label

she crying she said I wish I had a label

she crying she said I wish I had a label instead of not knowing what treatment to

instead of not knowing what treatment to

instead of not knowing what treatment to have instead of constant tests instead

have instead of constant tests instead

have instead of constant tests instead of being lumped into a category she

of being lumped into a category she

of being lumped into a category she didn’t belong but despite this we are

didn’t belong but despite this we are

didn’t belong but despite this we are lucky that even though the label may not

lucky that even though the label may not

lucky that even though the label may not have been accurate we managed to get one

have been accurate we managed to get one

have been accurate we managed to get one which allowed her the funding to go to

which allowed her the funding to go to

which allowed her the funding to go to school not many families are so lucky

fighting to achieve a label to get

fighting to achieve a label to get support should be completely unnecessary

support should be completely unnecessary

support should be completely unnecessary if the symptoms present validate a need

if the symptoms present validate a need

if the symptoms present validate a need for help without constant help my sister

for help without constant help my sister

for help without constant help my sister will never leave who may never live

will never leave who may never live

will never leave who may never live independently would never have realized

independently would never have realized

independently would never have realized her potential and gone to college

her potential and gone to college

her potential and gone to college labeling doesn’t work so many people are

labeling doesn’t work so many people are

labeling doesn’t work so many people are missed out and even when it does help

missed out and even when it does help

missed out and even when it does help get through the necessaries systems and

get through the necessaries systems and

get through the necessaries systems and necessary education a poor diagnosis can

necessary education a poor diagnosis can

necessary education a poor diagnosis can be completely counterproductive for each

be completely counterproductive for each

be completely counterproductive for each family it the story is completely

family it the story is completely

family it the story is completely different a friend of mine who was

different a friend of mine who was

different a friend of mine who was diagnosed with ADHD which is attention

diagnosed with ADHD which is attention

diagnosed with ADHD which is attention deficit hyperactivity disorder and

deficit hyperactivity disorder and

deficit hyperactivity disorder and Asperger’s was fully diagnosed at 10

Asperger’s was fully diagnosed at 10

Asperger’s was fully diagnosed at 10 though his parent one of them was a GP

though his parent one of them was a GP

though his parent one of them was a GP managed to like who knew it beforehand

managed to like who knew it beforehand

managed to like who knew it beforehand he had all the obvious traits and common

he had all the obvious traits and common

he had all the obvious traits and common behaviors but he had very little anxiety

behaviors but he had very little anxiety

behaviors but he had very little anxiety and living in London it meant he’d get

and living in London it meant he’d get

and living in London it meant he’d get to get all the access to support and

to get all the access to support and

to get all the access to support and finances needed his community due to the

finances needed his community due to the

finances needed his community due to the obvious label

obvious label

obvious label were very supportive of him and his

were very supportive of him and his

were very supportive of him and his parents who had picked it up early on

parents who had picked it up early on

parents who had picked it up early on were weren’t upset by the label or the

were weren’t upset by the label or the

were weren’t upset by the label or the stigma that came with it and they worked

stigma that came with it and they worked

stigma that came with it and they worked doubly hard to empower him to cope

doubly hard to empower him to cope

doubly hard to empower him to cope despite this he struggled he struggled

despite this he struggled he struggled

despite this he struggled he struggled that teachers knew him as autistic

that teachers knew him as autistic

that teachers knew him as autistic before they knew his name a label brings

before they knew his name a label brings

before they knew his name a label brings expectations of a certain behavior those

expectations of a certain behavior those

expectations of a certain behavior those expectations can often lead to provoke

expectations can often lead to provoke

expectations can often lead to provoke that same behavior it also effectively

that same behavior it also effectively

that same behavior it also effectively pushes back somebody’s goals it may not

pushes back somebody’s goals it may not

pushes back somebody’s goals it may not have been comparable to the way my

have been comparable to the way my

have been comparable to the way my sister was judged but he too was seen

sister was judged but he too was seen

sister was judged but he too was seen and still is seen to a certain extent as

and still is seen to a certain extent as

and still is seen to a certain extent as a problem he’s seen as the labor way he

a problem he’s seen as the labor way he

a problem he’s seen as the labor way he wears in fact we were best friends for a

wears in fact we were best friends for a

wears in fact we were best friends for a long time I didn’t know he was different

long time I didn’t know he was different

long time I didn’t know he was different they increasingly it has become more and

they increasingly it has become more and

they increasingly it has become more and more apparent he struggled through his

more apparent he struggled through his

more apparent he struggled through his teen years he struggled to fit in

teen years he struggled to fit in

teen years he struggled to fit in struggling to cope socially it was both

struggling to cope socially it was both

struggling to cope socially it was both even he may not have many friends now

even he may not have many friends now

even he may not have many friends now and I

and I

and I I even found it hard to cope or found it

I even found it hard to cope or found it

I even found it hard to cope or found it hard to act around him I didn’t know to

hard to act around him I didn’t know to

hard to act around him I didn’t know to treat him my own age or act like I used

treat him my own age or act like I used

treat him my own age or act like I used to when I was younger it’s possible that

to when I was younger it’s possible that

to when I was younger it’s possible that we have changed but increasingly I have

we have changed but increasingly I have

we have changed but increasingly I have seen the label before I saw seeing the

seen the label before I saw seeing the

seen the label before I saw seeing the friend I want to new labeling has given

friend I want to new labeling has given

friend I want to new labeling has given him a barrier to hide behind a

him a barrier to hide behind a

him a barrier to hide behind a limitation for his goals and an excuse

limitation for his goals and an excuse

limitation for his goals and an excuse for his behavior is that all he expects

for his behavior is that all he expects

for his behavior is that all he expects of himself all that is expected of by

of himself all that is expected of by

of himself all that is expected of by others by others if more was known this

others by others if more was known this

others by others if more was known this could change we could learn to support

could change we could learn to support

could change we could learn to support more children better equipping them to

more children better equipping them to

more children better equipping them to become adults and living the standard of

become adults and living the standard of

become adults and living the standard of life that we have in 2013 the DMS a

life that we have in 2013 the DMS a

life that we have in 2013 the DMS a Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of

Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of

Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Health Bible decided as Burgess

Mental Health Bible decided as Burgess

Mental Health Bible decided as Burgess was no longer considered a that decided

was no longer considered a that decided

was no longer considered a that decided ass purchase was no longer considered a

ass purchase was no longer considered a

ass purchase was no longer considered a disorder instead they widened slightly a

disorder instead they widened slightly a

disorder instead they widened slightly a criteria for autism this caused so many

criteria for autism this caused so many

criteria for autism this caused so many people to go on categorized and they no

people to go on categorized and they no

people to go on categorized and they no longer got the support they needed it

longer got the support they needed it

longer got the support they needed it also caused those people who did now

also caused those people who did now

also caused those people who did now fall under autism to be treated as if

fall under autism to be treated as if

fall under autism to be treated as if they were autistic which meant there was

they were autistic which meant there was

they were autistic which meant there was a stigma surrounding them and it also

a stigma surrounding them and it also

a stigma surrounding them and it also meant that they were getting a

meant that they were getting a

meant that they were getting a completely different sort of treatment

completely different sort of treatment

completely different sort of treatment treatment that in all probability wasn’t

treatment that in all probability wasn’t

treatment that in all probability wasn’t right for them okay so I’ve spoken a lot

right for them okay so I’ve spoken a lot

right for them okay so I’ve spoken a lot about autism but this isn’t a face an

about autism but this isn’t a face an

about autism but this isn’t a face an issue just facing autism for example

issue just facing autism for example

issue just facing autism for example schizophrenia so diverse other symptoms

schizophrenia so diverse other symptoms

schizophrenia so diverse other symptoms that the validity of the diagnosis is

that the validity of the diagnosis is

that the validity of the diagnosis is widely disputed people tend to associate

widely disputed people tend to associate

widely disputed people tend to associate schizophrenia with violence and in fact

schizophrenia with violence and in fact

schizophrenia with violence and in fact the word is commonly used as an insult a

the word is commonly used as an insult a

the word is commonly used as an insult a schizo like right my grandfather was

schizo like right my grandfather was

schizo like right my grandfather was diagnosed with paranoid schizophrenia

diagnosed with paranoid schizophrenia

diagnosed with paranoid schizophrenia when my mother was in primary school he

when my mother was in primary school he

when my mother was in primary school he used this to justify his growing

used this to justify his growing

used this to justify his growing alcoholism and his absence as a parent

alcoholism and his absence as a parent

alcoholism and his absence as a parent my mother was sent off to boarding

my mother was sent off to boarding

my mother was sent off to boarding school and then sent off in holidays to

school and then sent off in holidays to

school and then sent off in holidays to family so that she never saw him if he

family so that she never saw him if he

family so that she never saw him if he hadn’t of known if he hadn’t have been

hadn’t of known if he hadn’t have been

hadn’t of known if he hadn’t have been diagnosed I mean who knows what would

diagnosed I mean who knows what would

diagnosed I mean who knows what would have happened but would have meant that

have happened but would have meant that

have happened but would have meant that he had no excuse that he would have held

he had no excuse that he would have held

he had no excuse that he would have held himself responsible for his actions

himself responsible for his actions

himself responsible for his actions it was also lucky that he managed to

it was also lucky that he managed to

it was also lucky that he managed to keep the diagnosis a secret so that

keep the diagnosis a secret so that

keep the diagnosis a secret so that there was no stigmatization around him

children should not be given support due

children should not be given support due to their label it should be given due to

to their label it should be given due to

to their label it should be given due to their need and their parents need labels

their need and their parents need labels

their need and their parents need labels should not be so defined it causes

should not be so defined it causes

should not be so defined it causes stigmatization and categorization those

stigmatization and categorization those

stigmatization and categorization those with labels they become defined by that

with labels they become defined by that

with labels they become defined by that for those without they have no excuse

for those without they have no excuse

for those without they have no excuse and are subjected to a lot of criticism

and are subjected to a lot of criticism

and are subjected to a lot of criticism and judgment so what should you go away

and judgment so what should you go away

and judgment so what should you go away remembering I mean is there anything

remembering I mean is there anything

remembering I mean is there anything that you can do

just by knowing about this stuff and

just by knowing about this stuff and being aware of it and spreading the

being aware of it and spreading the

being aware of it and spreading the knowledge you are helping for example

knowledge you are helping for example

knowledge you are helping for example you may be walking down the street and

you may be walking down the street and

you may be walking down the street and see a child acting out yes true it could

see a child acting out yes true it could

see a child acting out yes true it could be a bad parent but at the same time it

be a bad parent but at the same time it

be a bad parent but at the same time it could be some unknown unseen problem so

could be some unknown unseen problem so

could be some unknown unseen problem so instead of looking away in shock and

instead of looking away in shock and

instead of looking away in shock and disgust or looking away in shock and

disgust or looking away in shock and

disgust or looking away in shock and disgust or crossing the street to avoid

disgust or crossing the street to avoid

disgust or crossing the street to avoid smile and show support has an all

smile and show support has an all

smile and show support has an all likelihood they are finding life a lot

likelihood they are finding life a lot

likelihood they are finding life a lot harder than you and lastly if you told

harder than you and lastly if you told

harder than you and lastly if you told someone is autistic don’t automatically

someone is autistic don’t automatically

someone is autistic don’t automatically assume they’re like their TV

assume they’re like their TV

assume they’re like their TV representation or like that kid across

representation or like that kid across

representation or like that kid across the street because in all likelihood

the street because in all likelihood

the street because in all likelihood they’re not Thanks

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