Sex Toys 101 – Using with Partners

okay so we’ve talked a lot about the

okay so we’ve talked a lot about the solo aspect of having a sex toy this is

solo aspect of having a sex toy this is

solo aspect of having a sex toy this is a thing to remember when you’re working

a thing to remember when you’re working

a thing to remember when you’re working with dildos and harnesses is how would

with dildos and harnesses is how would

with dildos and harnesses is how would you go about introducing a sex toy into

you go about introducing a sex toy into

you go about introducing a sex toy into your life your partners your partner the

your life your partners your partner the

your life your partners your partner the first thing is a sex toy will never

first thing is a sex toy will never

first thing is a sex toy will never replace a human being it’s not the same

replace a human being it’s not the same

replace a human being it’s not the same thing it will not love you it will not

thing it will not love you it will not

thing it will not love you it will not give you affection it will not wash the

give you affection it will not wash the

give you affection it will not wash the dishes

dishes

dishes it won’t or even itself exactly sex toys

it won’t or even itself exactly sex toys

it won’t or even itself exactly sex toys accentuate and add to what you already

accentuate and add to what you already

accentuate and add to what you already have so if your partner is shy and one

have so if your partner is shy and one

have so if your partner is shy and one thing you could do is start by

thing you could do is start by

thing you could do is start by introducing a smaller toy and one that’s

introducing a smaller toy and one that’s

introducing a smaller toy and one that’s not going to be as intimidating as you

not going to be as intimidating as you

not going to be as intimidating as you know one of the big ones

know one of the big ones

know one of the big ones exactly and using it on the big muscles

exactly and using it on the big muscles

exactly and using it on the big muscles of the body so shoulders back use it as

of the body so shoulders back use it as

of the body so shoulders back use it as a massage tool and then once your

a massage tool and then once your

a massage tool and then once your partner is comfortable with that then

partner is comfortable with that then

partner is comfortable with that then you move on to the butt legs between the

you move on to the butt legs between the

you move on to the butt legs between the legs and then you can go a little bit

legs and then you can go a little bit

legs and then you can go a little bit further but start at a neutral zone so

further but start at a neutral zone so

further but start at a neutral zone so do we want to dispel any myths about sex

do we want to dispel any myths about sex

do we want to dispel any myths about sex toys well some people think that once

toys well some people think that once

toys well some people think that once you use a sex toy you can’t go back and

you use a sex toy you can’t go back and

you use a sex toy you can’t go back and that’s due to the regular do the real

that’s due to the regular do the real

that’s due to the regular do the real thing it’s not true really isn’t I mean

thing it’s not true really isn’t I mean

thing it’s not true really isn’t I mean you know you’ll run out of batteries

you know you’ll run out of batteries

you know you’ll run out of batteries eventually and what are you gonna do no

eventually and what are you gonna do no

eventually and what are you gonna do no but it really isn’t it’s not the same

but it really isn’t it’s not the same

but it really isn’t it’s not the same sensations at all and you’re not gonna

sensations at all and you’re not gonna

sensations at all and you’re not gonna feel love from a Sexton you might love

feel love from a Sexton you might love

feel love from a Sexton you might love your sex toy but you won’t feel love

your sex toy but you won’t feel love

your sex toy but you won’t feel love from your sex toy and it’s not an

from your sex toy and it’s not an

from your sex toy and it’s not an exchange of ideas and communication and

exchange of ideas and communication and

exchange of ideas and communication and affection that you would have with a

affection that you would have with a

affection that you would have with a loving partner so what I tell everybody

loving partner so what I tell everybody

loving partner so what I tell everybody is when you’re reaching that stage of

is when you’re reaching that stage of

is when you’re reaching that stage of your relationship then yes sex toys are

your relationship then yes sex toys are

your relationship then yes sex toys are an amazing addition to what you already

an amazing addition to what you already

an amazing addition to what you already have and a lot of people will discover

have and a lot of people will discover

have and a lot of people will discover that it’s it’s not gonna replace anyone

that it’s it’s not gonna replace anyone

that it’s it’s not gonna replace anyone or anything

or anything

or anything it’s just a little bit extra right