brennon you want to be a writer you can’t write you have to actually take an
can’t write you have to actually take an
can’t write you have to actually take an action that moves you forward getting
action that moves you forward getting
action that moves you forward getting very clear on the mission
very clear on the mission
very clear on the mission I think doubt is one of the greatest
I think doubt is one of the greatest
I think doubt is one of the greatest enemies of our lives so if you go to any
enemies of our lives so if you go to any
enemies of our lives so if you go to any meeting sit down and say guys I have 45
meeting sit down and say guys I have 45
meeting sit down and say guys I have 45 minutes today for this meeting the time
minutes today for this meeting the time
minutes today for this meeting the time to have the map is before you enter the
to have the map is before you enter the
to have the map is before you enter the woods get back in the game we have a
woods get back in the game we have a
woods get back in the game we have a community of people who are giving you
community of people who are giving you
community of people who are giving you advanced feedback before you release it
advanced feedback before you release it
advanced feedback before you release it we just start trying to live a life
we just start trying to live a life
we just start trying to live a life that’s not even our own I had nobody
that’s not even our own I had nobody
that’s not even our own I had nobody ever really told me I had any potential
ever really told me I had any potential
ever really told me I had any potential before I have to change myself he’s an
before I have to change myself he’s an
before I have to change myself he’s an American author on motivation high
American author on motivation high
American author on motivation high performance and online marketing he’s
performance and online marketing he’s
performance and online marketing he’s the founder of the experts academy and
the founder of the experts academy and
the founder of the experts academy and high performance Academy he’s the number
high performance Academy he’s the number
high performance Academy he’s the number one New York Times bestselling author of
one New York Times bestselling author of
one New York Times bestselling author of The Millionaire messenger
The Millionaire messenger
The Millionaire messenger he’s Brendon Burchard and here are his
he’s Brendon Burchard and here are his
he’s Brendon Burchard and here are his top ten rules for success no matter
top ten rules for success no matter
top ten rules for success no matter where you are in accomplishing your
where you are in accomplishing your
where you are in accomplishing your dreams or moving towards the things that
dreams or moving towards the things that
dreams or moving towards the things that you really want in life never let your
you really want in life never let your
you really want in life never let your your small beginnings make you small
your small beginnings make you small
your small beginnings make you small minded it’s easy to say well that’s
minded it’s easy to say well that’s
minded it’s easy to say well that’s impossible and I know lots of people are
impossible and I know lots of people are
impossible and I know lots of people are telling you that that’s impossible you
telling you that that’s impossible you
telling you that that’s impossible you know many people told me what I’m doing
know many people told me what I’m doing
know many people told me what I’m doing today is impossible Brendon you want to
today is impossible Brendon you want to
today is impossible Brendon you want to be a writer you can’t write better you
be a writer you can’t write better you
be a writer you can’t write better you you ought to be a trainer you wanna be a
you ought to be a trainer you wanna be a
you ought to be a trainer you wanna be a speaker you want to youtube videos
speaker you want to youtube videos
speaker you want to youtube videos you’re not good on video you’re not this
you’re not good on video you’re not this
you’re not good on video you’re not this you’re not gonna this it’s impossible oh
you’re not gonna this it’s impossible oh
you’re not gonna this it’s impossible oh you don’t understand how hard it is to
you don’t understand how hard it is to
you don’t understand how hard it is to make it Brendon it’s so hard these days
make it Brendon it’s so hard these days
make it Brendon it’s so hard these days the stuff that people tell me and I know
the stuff that people tell me and I know
the stuff that people tell me and I know told you is so nonsensical and based on
told you is so nonsensical and based on
told you is so nonsensical and based on so many of their own fears that have
so many of their own fears that have
so many of their own fears that have been unexplored that it’s sad and it can
been unexplored that it’s sad and it can
been unexplored that it’s sad and it can really cause great people to stop trying
really cause great people to stop trying
really cause great people to stop trying to do great things so I want to
to do great things so I want to
to do great things so I want to encourage you no matter where you are
encourage you no matter where you are
encourage you no matter where you are believe in yourself keep ad keep working
believe in yourself keep ad keep working
believe in yourself keep ad keep working keep going I mean success and
keep going I mean success and
keep going I mean success and fulfillment are going to come from your
fulfillment are going to come from your
fulfillment are going to come from your unflagging ability to believe in what
unflagging ability to believe in what
unflagging ability to believe in what other people call impossible it’s going
other people call impossible it’s going
other people call impossible it’s going to come from your unflagging ability to
to come from your unflagging ability to
to come from your unflagging ability to get up each day and work towards things
get up each day and work towards things
get up each day and work towards things that maybe you don’t know where they’re
that maybe you don’t know where they’re
that maybe you don’t know where they’re going maybe they’re not getting you what
going maybe they’re not getting you what
going maybe they’re not getting you what you want writing it way maybe it’s not
you want writing it way maybe it’s not
you want writing it way maybe it’s not easy maybe it is a struggle but it is
easy maybe it is a struggle but it is
easy maybe it is a struggle but it is through that struggle and that effort
through that struggle and that effort
through that struggle and that effort and that dream and the desire that you
and that dream and the desire that you
and that dream and the desire that you get there
get there
get there you have to actually show up every day
you have to actually show up every day
you have to actually show up every day and inch yourself forward toward these
and inch yourself forward toward these
and inch yourself forward toward these streams and not only show up every day
streams and not only show up every day
streams and not only show up every day and once in a while into yourself I mean
and once in a while into yourself I mean
and once in a while into yourself I mean every day you have to actually take an
every day you have to actually take an
every day you have to actually take an action that moves you forward not just
action that moves you forward not just
action that moves you forward not just research not just thinking look the
research not just thinking look the
research not just thinking look the power of an intention is great but
power of an intention is great but
power of an intention is great but without any initiative it’s dead right a
without any initiative it’s dead right a
without any initiative it’s dead right a dream is great but without any movement
dream is great but without any movement
dream is great but without any movement it’s dead you have to be moving towards
it’s dead you have to be moving towards
it’s dead you have to be moving towards every day you can send an email every
every day you can send an email every
every day you can send an email every day you can make a call every day you
day you can make a call every day you
day you can make a call every day you can write something every day you can
can write something every day you can
can write something every day you can create something every day you can
create something every day you can
create something every day you can contribute something every day but it
contribute something every day but it
contribute something every day but it has to be daily otherwise it will never
has to be daily otherwise it will never
has to be daily otherwise it will never become actualized and the highest
become actualized and the highest
become actualized and the highest performers in the world didn’t get there
performers in the world didn’t get there
performers in the world didn’t get there because they were lucky they worked at
because they were lucky they worked at
because they were lucky they worked at it longer than everyone else they had a
it longer than everyone else they had a
it longer than everyone else they had a better work ethic and it’s not that they
better work ethic and it’s not that they
better work ethic and it’s not that they necessarily always worked harder they
necessarily always worked harder they
necessarily always worked harder they work smarter because they were doing the
work smarter because they were doing the
work smarter because they were doing the research they were taking the time to
research they were taking the time to
research they were taking the time to visualize how they would be distinct
visualize how they would be distinct
visualize how they would be distinct different how they would survive the
different how they would survive the
different how they would survive the tough times they really kept at it keep
tough times they really kept at it keep
tough times they really kept at it keep every single day momentum going and if
every single day momentum going and if
every single day momentum going and if you don’t do that there’s no chance you
you don’t do that there’s no chance you
you don’t do that there’s no chance you must define your mission you need to
must define your mission you need to
must define your mission you need to have a mission for what you’re doing
have a mission for what you’re doing
have a mission for what you’re doing today you need to have an intention for
today you need to have an intention for
today you need to have an intention for what your next task is going to be what
what your next task is going to be what
what your next task is going to be what happens most people just kind of show up
happens most people just kind of show up
happens most people just kind of show up and they go okay well I guess I’ll do
and they go okay well I guess I’ll do
and they go okay well I guess I’ll do some stuff but they have no intention
some stuff but they have no intention
some stuff but they have no intention whatsoever so they end up doing too many
whatsoever so they end up doing too many
whatsoever so they end up doing too many things that mean nothing towards their
things that mean nothing towards their
things that mean nothing towards their mission you should figure out what is it
mission you should figure out what is it
mission you should figure out what is it you desire in life and figure out the
you desire in life and figure out the
you desire in life and figure out the steps to get there and start working a
steps to get there and start working a
steps to get there and start working a plan to get there and minimizing
plan to get there and minimizing
plan to get there and minimizing everything else getting very clear on
everything else getting very clear on
everything else getting very clear on the mission very clear on the mission
the mission very clear on the mission
the mission very clear on the mission and working the plan everything else
and working the plan everything else
and working the plan everything else guess what it gets a no until you reach
guess what it gets a no until you reach
guess what it gets a no until you reach that mission or until you’re
that mission or until you’re
that mission or until you’re significantly on your way that you have
significantly on your way that you have
significantly on your way that you have free resources to be able to focus
free resources to be able to focus
free resources to be able to focus elsewhere and that’s what people do they
elsewhere and that’s what people do they
elsewhere and that’s what people do they take on too many projects because
take on too many projects because
take on too many projects because they’re not clear about their mission
they’re not clear about their mission
they’re not clear about their mission because I’m guessing if you’re watching
because I’m guessing if you’re watching
because I’m guessing if you’re watching this you know you’re somebody who wants
this you know you’re somebody who wants
this you know you’re somebody who wants to add value and make a difference in
to add value and make a difference in
to add value and make a difference in the world so any time someone to ask you
the world so any time someone to ask you
the world so any time someone to ask you to do something yeah let me help you but
to do something yeah let me help you but
to do something yeah let me help you but that might not have anything to do with
that might not have anything to do with
that might not have anything to do with the quality
the quality
the quality life or the objective or the thing that
life or the objective or the thing that
life or the objective or the thing that you’re trying to achieve or the service
you’re trying to achieve or the service
you’re trying to achieve or the service you’re really intending to offer right
you’re really intending to offer right
you’re really intending to offer right and I know how hard it is because I’m so
and I know how hard it is because I’m so
and I know how hard it is because I’m so pulled myself towards causes and towards
pulled myself towards causes and towards
pulled myself towards causes and towards volunteerism towards helping so many
volunteerism towards helping so many
volunteerism towards helping so many people but guess what if I help
people but guess what if I help
people but guess what if I help everybody in lots of different areas I
everybody in lots of different areas I
everybody in lots of different areas I might not make my ultimate mission of
might not make my ultimate mission of
might not make my ultimate mission of serving the people I want to serve the
serving the people I want to serve the
serving the people I want to serve the most of making my dreams come true so I
most of making my dreams come true so I
most of making my dreams come true so I could support more people of running my
could support more people of running my
could support more people of running my business so I can support more people
business so I can support more people
business so I can support more people meaning it’s easy to take your eye off
meaning it’s easy to take your eye off
meaning it’s easy to take your eye off the ball if you don’t know what the ball
the ball if you don’t know what the ball
the ball if you don’t know what the ball is and people often have never defined
is and people often have never defined
is and people often have never defined their mission and if you don’t have one
their mission and if you don’t have one
their mission and if you don’t have one right now for this day if you didn’t
right now for this day if you didn’t
right now for this day if you didn’t have them drive a mission a written down
have them drive a mission a written down
have them drive a mission a written down statement about what you were going to
statement about what you were going to
statement about what you were going to accomplish today a checklist a goal
accomplish today a checklist a goal
accomplish today a checklist a goal sheet a time management tool that you
sheet a time management tool that you
sheet a time management tool that you filled out today and you’re just showing
filled out today and you’re just showing
filled out today and you’re just showing up today and going well I guess I’ll see
up today and going well I guess I’ll see
up today and going well I guess I’ll see what my inbox tells me to do today and
what my inbox tells me to do today and
what my inbox tells me to do today and you just respond to everybody else’s
you just respond to everybody else’s
you just respond to everybody else’s desires and everyone else’s emails and
desires and everyone else’s emails and
desires and everyone else’s emails and usually always in reaction always
usually always in reaction always
usually always in reaction always responding to everybody no proactivity
responding to everybody no proactivity
responding to everybody no proactivity towards a mission that you defined
towards a mission that you defined
towards a mission that you defined yourself you’ll be lost you’ll find that
yourself you’ll be lost you’ll find that
yourself you’ll be lost you’ll find that because you never focused on that one
because you never focused on that one
because you never focused on that one thing or moving towards those several
thing or moving towards those several
thing or moving towards those several things that were your priority that
things that were your priority that
things that were your priority that you’re just lost because and here’s
you’re just lost because and here’s
you’re just lost because and here’s another thing focus goes out the window
another thing focus goes out the window
another thing focus goes out the window when we don’t have progress right if
when we don’t have progress right if
when we don’t have progress right if we’re not progressing toward something
we’re not progressing toward something
we’re not progressing toward something our focus goes out the window we just we
our focus goes out the window we just we
our focus goes out the window we just we don’t pay attention to anything we don’t
don’t pay attention to anything we don’t
don’t pay attention to anything we don’t feel good about ourselves you want to
feel good about ourselves you want to
feel good about ourselves you want to get more focus in your life get more
get more focus in your life get more
get more focus in your life get more progress as you progress the more you
progress as you progress the more you
progress as you progress the more you start to get excited you start to pay
start to get excited you start to pay
start to get excited you start to pay attention to things that are working
attention to things that are working
attention to things that are working that are moving you forward and you
that are moving you forward and you
that are moving you forward and you start to find more focus in your life
start to find more focus in your life
start to find more focus in your life first anything we all have is doubt you
first anything we all have is doubt you
first anything we all have is doubt you know we doubt whether or not we’re
know we doubt whether or not we’re
know we doubt whether or not we’re capable we doubt whether or not we’re
capable we doubt whether or not we’re
capable we doubt whether or not we’re worthy we doubt whether or not we’ll
worthy we doubt whether or not we’ll
worthy we doubt whether or not we’ll succeed we doubt whether or not we even
succeed we doubt whether or not we even
succeed we doubt whether or not we even deserve it and it’s so unfortunate
deserve it and it’s so unfortunate
deserve it and it’s so unfortunate because I think doubt is one of the
because I think doubt is one of the
because I think doubt is one of the greatest enemies of our lives and it’s
greatest enemies of our lives and it’s
greatest enemies of our lives and it’s so easy to overcome but most people
so easy to overcome but most people
so easy to overcome but most people won’t practice the discipline of
won’t practice the discipline of
won’t practice the discipline of overcoming it which is weird right there
overcoming it which is weird right there
overcoming it which is weird right there say oh I’m so doubtful and they stop and
say oh I’m so doubtful and they stop and
say oh I’m so doubtful and they stop and it’s like if you have any negative
it’s like if you have any negative
it’s like if you have any negative recurring emotion in your
recurring emotion in your
recurring emotion in your life doesn’t maturity require you to
life doesn’t maturity require you to
life doesn’t maturity require you to face it and say hey how do I fix this
face it and say hey how do I fix this
face it and say hey how do I fix this you know if you’re always doubtful you
you know if you’re always doubtful you
you know if you’re always doubtful you can’t just wander around say oh I’m so
can’t just wander around say oh I’m so
can’t just wander around say oh I’m so doubtful like some kind of victim that
doubtful like some kind of victim that
doubtful like some kind of victim that that’s not fair to the humanity you’ve
that’s not fair to the humanity you’ve
that’s not fair to the humanity you’ve been given that that real power of free
been given that that real power of free
been given that that real power of free will that says hey you can direct your
will that says hey you can direct your
will that says hey you can direct your consciousness that’s why you have this
consciousness that’s why you have this
consciousness that’s why you have this big prefrontal cortex other animals
big prefrontal cortex other animals
big prefrontal cortex other animals can’t we can so handle it if you’ve been
can’t we can so handle it if you’ve been
can’t we can so handle it if you’ve been plagued without your whole life then
plagued without your whole life then
plagued without your whole life then face it stop running from it I know that
face it stop running from it I know that
face it stop running from it I know that sounds hard to sane people I was I have
sounds hard to sane people I was I have
sounds hard to sane people I was I have the same story
the same story
the same story I was so doubtful that people won’t care
I was so doubtful that people won’t care
I was so doubtful that people won’t care about what I say
about what I say
about what I say I was so doubtful that people would want
I was so doubtful that people would want
I was so doubtful that people would want to read my books or listen to me at all
to read my books or listen to me at all
to read my books or listen to me at all I was so doubtful I could chase my own
I was so doubtful I could chase my own
I was so doubtful I could chase my own dreams and I realized for what reason am
dreams and I realized for what reason am
dreams and I realized for what reason am i doubtful because of past failures in
i doubtful because of past failures in
i doubtful because of past failures in the space no I’m trying something new
the space no I’m trying something new
the space no I’m trying something new because people told me I might not be
because people told me I might not be
because people told me I might not be able to do it so what makes them an
able to do it so what makes them an
able to do it so what makes them an expert on my capabilities and my
expert on my capabilities and my
expert on my capabilities and my potentialities I thought well why am I
potentialities I thought well why am I
potentialities I thought well why am I so doubtful
so doubtful
so doubtful we’re doubtful because the germ of fear
we’re doubtful because the germ of fear
we’re doubtful because the germ of fear spread in our body because somebody
spread in our body because somebody
spread in our body because somebody planted it there one time or we
planted it there one time or we
planted it there one time or we cultivate it with our own thoughts and
cultivate it with our own thoughts and
cultivate it with our own thoughts and at some point maturity and consciousness
at some point maturity and consciousness
at some point maturity and consciousness says if doubt has been plaguing you
says if doubt has been plaguing you
says if doubt has been plaguing you let’s have a look at it and let’s
let’s have a look at it and let’s
let’s have a look at it and let’s realize well how do you banish it well
realize well how do you banish it well
realize well how do you banish it well every single thing that we know from
every single thing that we know from
every single thing that we know from spirituality from philosophy from the
spirituality from philosophy from the
spirituality from philosophy from the great writers in the great text of human
great writers in the great text of human
great writers in the great text of human culture has all revealed one thing where
culture has all revealed one thing where
culture has all revealed one thing where there is doubt grant me faith that we
there is doubt grant me faith that we
there is doubt grant me faith that we have to have faith and faith does not
have to have faith and faith does not
have to have faith and faith does not mean the absent of doubt matter of fact
mean the absent of doubt matter of fact
mean the absent of doubt matter of fact the very definition of faith realize
the very definition of faith realize
the very definition of faith realize that doubt is still there right you
that doubt is still there right you
that doubt is still there right you can’t have faith unless there’s some
can’t have faith unless there’s some
can’t have faith unless there’s some part of you says well I’m going to go
part of you says well I’m going to go
part of you says well I’m going to go anyway despite the doubt so I’m not
anyway despite the doubt so I’m not
anyway despite the doubt so I’m not saying we have to get rid of doubt
saying we have to get rid of doubt
saying we have to get rid of doubt forever and handle it I’m saying doubt
forever and handle it I’m saying doubt
forever and handle it I’m saying doubt should never prevent you from advancing
should never prevent you from advancing
should never prevent you from advancing when you feel like advancing that in
when you feel like advancing that in
when you feel like advancing that in your own mind you must say ok I must
your own mind you must say ok I must
your own mind you must say ok I must trust in my abilities I must trust that
trust in my abilities I must trust that
trust in my abilities I must trust that I will figure it out I must trust it I
I will figure it out I must trust it I
I will figure it out I must trust it I can build it I must trust that I can get
can build it I must trust that I can get
can build it I must trust that I can get some help
some help
some help and
and
and progress even though the doubt might be
progress even though the doubt might be
progress even though the doubt might be there look the hero is a hero because
there look the hero is a hero because
there look the hero is a hero because the hero does it anyway right even
the hero does it anyway right even
the hero does it anyway right even though the hero’s terrified and risking
though the hero’s terrified and risking
though the hero’s terrified and risking it all goes anyway and we’re all heroes
it all goes anyway and we’re all heroes
it all goes anyway and we’re all heroes in some way we can all be courageous but
in some way we can all be courageous but
in some way we can all be courageous but I also think you know what society
I also think you know what society
I also think you know what society overblow is courage
overblow is courage
overblow is courage society says you know courage has to be
society says you know courage has to be
society says you know courage has to be some big magnificent act but it’s not I
some big magnificent act but it’s not I
some big magnificent act but it’s not I mean courage in this world anymore is
mean courage in this world anymore is
mean courage in this world anymore is just haven’t of the belief in yourself
just haven’t of the belief in yourself
just haven’t of the belief in yourself and having the ability to genuinely
and having the ability to genuinely
and having the ability to genuinely express who you are if you’re doubting
express who you are if you’re doubting
express who you are if you’re doubting yourself the only way through is give
yourself the only way through is give
yourself the only way through is give yourself more faith and take more action
yourself more faith and take more action
yourself more faith and take more action and with more faith and more action
and with more faith and more action
and with more faith and more action comes more competence with more
comes more competence with more
comes more competence with more competence comes more confidence in
competence comes more confidence in
competence comes more confidence in psychology they call it the confidence
psychology they call it the confidence
psychology they call it the confidence confidence loop right the more you learn
confidence loop right the more you learn
confidence loop right the more you learn and try the more you master and develop
and try the more you master and develop
and try the more you master and develop so go out there even with that yes let
so go out there even with that yes let
so go out there even with that yes let the doubt be there but do it anyway to
the doubt be there but do it anyway to
the doubt be there but do it anyway to be more explicit in communicating your
be more explicit in communicating your
be more explicit in communicating your boundaries be more explicit and
boundaries be more explicit and
boundaries be more explicit and communicating your time so if you’re
communicating your time so if you’re
communicating your time so if you’re going to want a meeting sit down and say
going to want a meeting sit down and say
going to want a meeting sit down and say guys I have 45 minutes today for this
guys I have 45 minutes today for this
guys I have 45 minutes today for this meeting can’t go a second over and like
meeting can’t go a second over and like
meeting can’t go a second over and like oh okay and stop going over on your
oh okay and stop going over on your
oh okay and stop going over on your times if you said you were gonna work
times if you said you were gonna work
times if you said you were gonna work out for an hour work out for an hour
out for an hour work out for an hour
out for an hour work out for an hour stop go a lot of the what I call bleed
stop go a lot of the what I call bleed
stop go a lot of the what I call bleed time ends up taking away from our
time ends up taking away from our
time ends up taking away from our balance bleed time is those things where
balance bleed time is those things where
balance bleed time is those things where you’re you go over on things that you
you’re you go over on things that you
you’re you go over on things that you didn’t need to go over on you know that
didn’t need to go over on you know that
didn’t need to go over on you know that that one cocktail with your friend and
that one cocktail with your friend and
that one cocktail with your friend and it’ll be on sixteen you know and you
it’ll be on sixteen you know and you
it’ll be on sixteen you know and you lost the entire night now or that one
lost the entire night now or that one
lost the entire night now or that one you know lunch meeting you’re gonna have
you know lunch meeting you’re gonna have
you know lunch meeting you’re gonna have turned into four hours and now you’ve
turned into four hours and now you’ve
turned into four hours and now you’ve lost the day of work or that one show
lost the day of work or that one show
lost the day of work or that one show you’re gonna watch before getting back
you’re gonna watch before getting back
you’re gonna watch before getting back to work turn into a whole season and
to work turn into a whole season and
to work turn into a whole season and you’re like oh no the day the night is
you’re like oh no the day the night is
you’re like oh no the day the night is gone
gone
gone that’s called bleed time it’s where so
that’s called bleed time it’s where so
that’s called bleed time it’s where so much time just dissipates because you
much time just dissipates because you
much time just dissipates because you didn’t stick to your mark so set your
didn’t stick to your mark so set your
didn’t stick to your mark so set your boundary communicate it clear with
boundary communicate it clear with
boundary communicate it clear with people and don’t go over on things
people and don’t go over on things
people and don’t go over on things anymore a lot of people if they just
anymore a lot of people if they just
anymore a lot of people if they just started with the intention set we’re
started with the intention set we’re
started with the intention set we’re only gonna do this for this much time
only gonna do this for this much time
only gonna do this for this much time and then we got to go if they stuck to
and then we got to go if they stuck to
and then we got to go if they stuck to that they would get better balance if
that they would get better balance if
that they would get better balance if you’re really going to get ahead
you’re really going to get ahead
you’re really going to get ahead you have to study your craft you have to
you have to study your craft you have to
you have to study your craft you have to deeply study you know I I decided what
deeply study you know I I decided what
deeply study you know I I decided what was it now 18 years ago that I wanted to
was it now 18 years ago that I wanted to
was it now 18 years ago that I wanted to help inspire and motivate people and I
help inspire and motivate people and I
help inspire and motivate people and I wanted to coach people one on one on
wanted to coach people one on one on
wanted to coach people one on one on motivation on high performance
motivation on high performance
motivation on high performance I wanted to write books on the topics so
I wanted to write books on the topics so
I wanted to write books on the topics so 18 years ago I started reading a book a
18 years ago I started reading a book a
18 years ago I started reading a book a week on psychology leadership
week on psychology leadership
week on psychology leadership communication marketing and there.good
communication marketing and there.good
communication marketing and there.good on my hand about human behavior and high
on my hand about human behavior and high
on my hand about human behavior and high performance I was studying everything I
performance I was studying everything I
performance I was studying everything I could in psychology every single week
could in psychology every single week
could in psychology every single week now it’s like people like wait you’ve
now it’s like people like wait you’ve
now it’s like people like wait you’ve read a book a week for 17 years I don’t
read a book a week for 17 years I don’t
read a book a week for 17 years I don’t brag about I’m not like oh yeah look at
brag about I’m not like oh yeah look at
brag about I’m not like oh yeah look at me that was for my passion I knew if I
me that was for my passion I knew if I
me that was for my passion I knew if I really wanted to succeed at something I
really wanted to succeed at something I
really wanted to succeed at something I had to study it and I had to study it
had to study it and I had to study it
had to study it and I had to study it deeply and I couldn’t you know spend all
deeply and I couldn’t you know spend all
deeply and I couldn’t you know spend all this time doing a lot of things so I had
this time doing a lot of things so I had
this time doing a lot of things so I had to study my craft the great artists of
to study my craft the great artists of
to study my craft the great artists of our past history that’s what they did
our past history that’s what they did
our past history that’s what they did they did one thing they had a true level
they did one thing they had a true level
they did one thing they had a true level of depth of study in that area now maybe
of depth of study in that area now maybe
of depth of study in that area now maybe they dabbled in some other areas too but
they dabbled in some other areas too but
they dabbled in some other areas too but they became famous because they study in
they became famous because they study in
they became famous because they study in one area and so what’s your area what’s
one area and so what’s your area what’s
one area and so what’s your area what’s the thing you need to study on develop a
the thing you need to study on develop a
the thing you need to study on develop a deep level of competence into how to do
deep level of competence into how to do
deep level of competence into how to do it and how that world works because you
it and how that world works because you
it and how that world works because you know we have a saying in Montana that
know we have a saying in Montana that
know we have a saying in Montana that the time to have the map is before you
the time to have the map is before you
the time to have the map is before you enter the woods but a lot of people have
enter the woods but a lot of people have
enter the woods but a lot of people have a dream and they run out into the woods
a dream and they run out into the woods
a dream and they run out into the woods and they just start trying stuff and
and they just start trying stuff and
and they just start trying stuff and they take this path and this path and
they take this path and this path and
they take this path and this path and this path and this path and because they
this path and this path and because they
this path and this path and because they didn’t study best practices they’ve
didn’t study best practices they’ve
didn’t study best practices they’ve sunday one you know they wake up and
sunday one you know they wake up and
sunday one you know they wake up and they’re lost they’re confused about who
they’re lost they’re confused about who
they’re lost they’re confused about who they are and where they’re at and
they are and where they’re at and
they are and where they’re at and they’re in this dark forest of the
they’re in this dark forest of the
they’re in this dark forest of the unknown with no plan to get out they had
unknown with no plan to get out they had
unknown with no plan to get out they had no idea they just jumped into something
no idea they just jumped into something
no idea they just jumped into something they didn’t study before taking that
they didn’t study before taking that
they didn’t study before taking that leap and I would say you know what study
leap and I would say you know what study
leap and I would say you know what study pay attention learn from the best model
pay attention learn from the best model
pay attention learn from the best model and most intelligent smart successful
and most intelligent smart successful
and most intelligent smart successful people you can in any given area that
people you can in any given area that
people you can in any given area that you want to succeed in in your life
you want to succeed in in your life
you want to succeed in in your life before you get into it
before you get into it
before you get into it then develop competency by doing it over
then develop competency by doing it over
then develop competency by doing it over and over and over and over again don’t
and over and over and over again don’t
and over and over and over again don’t do it once in a while here and there
do it once in a while here and there
do it once in a while here and there over and over and over that’s how you
over and over and over that’s how you
over and over and over that’s how you get competence you need to get in a
get competence you need to get in a
get competence you need to get in a community where you can get feedback you
community where you can get feedback you
community where you can get feedback you need either a coach who can give you
need either a coach who can give you
need either a coach who can give you some direct one-to-one feedback or
some direct one-to-one feedback or
some direct one-to-one feedback or community of friends who just go out
community of friends who just go out
community of friends who just go out with me
with me
with me to lunch to them once a month you share
to lunch to them once a month you share
to lunch to them once a month you share everything you’re doing they give you
everything you’re doing they give you
everything you’re doing they give you some feedback or you shoot a video you
some feedback or you shoot a video you
some feedback or you shoot a video you send that video out to everybody get
send that video out to everybody get
send that video out to everybody get some feedback on it you create a pour it
some feedback on it you create a pour it
some feedback on it you create a pour it by the PowerPoint practice it with five
by the PowerPoint practice it with five
by the PowerPoint practice it with five people before the big meeting like get
people before the big meeting like get
people before the big meeting like get back in the game we have a community of
back in the game we have a community of
back in the game we have a community of people who are giving you advanced
people who are giving you advanced
people who are giving you advanced feedback before you release it feedback
feedback before you release it feedback
feedback before you release it feedback before you do it
before you do it
before you do it so that you get smarter at all this
so that you get smarter at all this
so that you get smarter at all this because you know nothing makes a dream
because you know nothing makes a dream
because you know nothing makes a dream come more into life than when you start
come more into life than when you start
come more into life than when you start getting feedback from other people about
getting feedback from other people about
getting feedback from other people about your movement toward the dreams you know
your movement toward the dreams you know
your movement toward the dreams you know before I shoot a big sales video for one
before I shoot a big sales video for one
before I shoot a big sales video for one of my online courses I’ll send it out to
of my online courses I’ll send it out to
of my online courses I’ll send it out to 1520 people and get feedback and then
1520 people and get feedback and then
1520 people and get feedback and then off and go reshoot it again you know or
off and go reshoot it again you know or
off and go reshoot it again you know or I’ll put it out into my community and
I’ll put it out into my community and
I’ll put it out into my community and I’ll see the clicks the conversions and
I’ll see the clicks the conversions and
I’ll see the clicks the conversions and say it’s not let’s do it again
say it’s not let’s do it again
say it’s not let’s do it again and it’s that willingness to get the
and it’s that willingness to get the
and it’s that willingness to get the feedback that will keep your dream alive
feedback that will keep your dream alive
feedback that will keep your dream alive because look if it’s just in your mind
because look if it’s just in your mind
because look if it’s just in your mind and you just doing it by yourself but
and you just doing it by yourself but
and you just doing it by yourself but you never actually get a positive
you never actually get a positive
you never actually get a positive community giving you constructive
community giving you constructive
community giving you constructive feedback towards it it will never be
feedback towards it it will never be
feedback towards it it will never be that but that it will never be in the
that but that it will never be in the
that but that it will never be in the social realm and when it is in the
social realm and when it is in the
social realm and when it is in the social realm it feels more real you know
social realm it feels more real you know
social realm it feels more real you know when people actually comment I mean it’s
when people actually comment I mean it’s
when people actually comment I mean it’s one thing to be in an artist and in your
one thing to be in an artist and in your
one thing to be in an artist and in your studio painting for yourself all day
studio painting for yourself all day
studio painting for yourself all day that’s great but once you get some
that’s great but once you get some
that’s great but once you get some feedback on it and constructive feedback
feedback on it and constructive feedback
feedback on it and constructive feedback you become you get that self-awareness
you become you get that self-awareness
you become you get that self-awareness and that social awareness to contribute
and that social awareness to contribute
and that social awareness to contribute and create at another level what is it
and create at another level what is it
and create at another level what is it you’re really after and is it after what
you’re really after and is it after what
you’re really after and is it after what you are you after enough for yourself
you are you after enough for yourself
you are you after enough for yourself are you are you limiting yourself based
are you are you limiting yourself based
are you are you limiting yourself based on your current competencies a lot of
on your current competencies a lot of
on your current competencies a lot of people do that they narrow their vision
people do that they narrow their vision
people do that they narrow their vision or their ambition for tomorrow based on
or their ambition for tomorrow based on
or their ambition for tomorrow based on what they can do today or who they are
what they can do today or who they are
what they can do today or who they are today without realizing they can develop
today without realizing they can develop
today without realizing they can develop their mastery their skills their
their mastery their skills their
their mastery their skills their competency their knowledge their
competency their knowledge their
competency their knowledge their experience without realizing they can
experience without realizing they can
experience without realizing they can become a better person they can live
become a better person they can live
become a better person they can live into their highest self they can live
into their highest self they can live
into their highest self they can live into the type of person who could
into the type of person who could
into the type of person who could accomplish those goals
accomplish those goals
accomplish those goals who could have those things so never
who could have those things so never
who could have those things so never limit your ambitions based on your
limit your ambitions based on your
limit your ambitions based on your current competencies never limit
current competencies never limit
current competencies never limit yourself today based on your current
yourself today based on your current
yourself today based on your current inadequacies because those can be
inadequacies because those can be
inadequacies because those can be irrelevant
irrelevant
irrelevant tomorrow the main thing is to have a min
tomorrow the main thing is to have a min
tomorrow the main thing is to have a min life to have your own name to have your
life to have your own name to have your
life to have your own name to have your own ambitions not the ambition somebody
own ambitions not the ambition somebody
own ambitions not the ambition somebody told you you should have or someone told
told you you should have or someone told
told you you should have or someone told you you’re supposed to be after because
you you’re supposed to be after because
you you’re supposed to be after because that’s how we all get on sort of you
that’s how we all get on sort of you
that’s how we all get on sort of you know sometimes a corporate treadmill or
know sometimes a corporate treadmill or
know sometimes a corporate treadmill or we get on those things where we just
we get on those things where we just
we get on those things where we just start trying to live a life that’s not
start trying to live a life that’s not
start trying to live a life that’s not even our own because we’re just going
even our own because we’re just going
even our own because we’re just going with everybody but ambition liberates
with everybody but ambition liberates
with everybody but ambition liberates that your individual ambition who you
that your individual ambition who you
that your individual ambition who you want to become what you want to do what
want to become what you want to do what
want to become what you want to do what you want to contribute and the highest
you want to contribute and the highest
you want to contribute and the highest forms of all ambition usually come down
forms of all ambition usually come down
forms of all ambition usually come down to your creative expression your
to your creative expression your
to your creative expression your contribution and your connection with
contribution and your connection with
contribution and your connection with others that creative expression what is
others that creative expression what is
others that creative expression what is it you want to create in this world and
it you want to create in this world and
it you want to create in this world and I mean get your hands dirty doing you
I mean get your hands dirty doing you
I mean get your hands dirty doing you know not just create some PowerPoint
know not just create some PowerPoint
know not just create some PowerPoint once in a while for some corporate thing
once in a while for some corporate thing
once in a while for some corporate thing but something real and meaningful that
but something real and meaningful that
but something real and meaningful that you consider art for yourself whatever
you consider art for yourself whatever
you consider art for yourself whatever that is even if it is a PowerPoint
that is even if it is a PowerPoint
that is even if it is a PowerPoint presentation right but to do something
presentation right but to do something
presentation right but to do something that you find artistic and meaningful
that you find artistic and meaningful
that you find artistic and meaningful that’s our human drive for creative
that’s our human drive for creative
that’s our human drive for creative expression then what about contribution
expression then what about contribution
expression then what about contribution what’s your ambition to give and to
what’s your ambition to give and to
what’s your ambition to give and to serve greatly for others what do you
serve greatly for others what do you
serve greatly for others what do you really want to give back or give to
really want to give back or give to
really want to give back or give to others what is it and what about
others what is it and what about
others what is it and what about connection you know the ultimate
connection you know the ultimate
connection you know the ultimate ambition and aim to have I think for a
ambition and aim to have I think for a
ambition and aim to have I think for a lot of people is their relationships to
lot of people is their relationships to
lot of people is their relationships to operate and have a love that knows no
operate and have a love that knows no
operate and have a love that knows no bounds I mean a love that is
bounds I mean a love that is
bounds I mean a love that is extraordinary that it is amazing you
extraordinary that it is amazing you
extraordinary that it is amazing you can’t improve your relationship with
can’t improve your relationship with
can’t improve your relationship with your family or your spouse or those that
your family or your spouse or those that
your family or your spouse or those that you serve unless you have in some sense
you serve unless you have in some sense
you serve unless you have in some sense about you that desire to love or give or
about you that desire to love or give or
about you that desire to love or give or connect more so today
connect more so today
connect more so today get clear what is it you want and is it
get clear what is it you want and is it
get clear what is it you want and is it big enough for yourself not limiting
big enough for yourself not limiting
big enough for yourself not limiting yourself based off your inadequacies
yourself based off your inadequacies
yourself based off your inadequacies your competencies but based on what you
your competencies but based on what you
your competencies but based on what you truly desire last challenge take
truly desire last challenge take
truly desire last challenge take whatever that is that you come up with
whatever that is that you come up with
whatever that is that you come up with and 10x it take it by 10 times what
and 10x it take it by 10 times what
and 10x it take it by 10 times what would be ten times that admission not
would be ten times that admission not
would be ten times that admission not just because it’s silly I know I know
just because it’s silly I know I know
just because it’s silly I know I know it’s kind of silly but to take that
it’s kind of silly but to take that
it’s kind of silly but to take that ambition that you initially have which
ambition that you initially have which
ambition that you initially have which is usually a
is usually a
is usually a what we usually want is an impulse based
what we usually want is an impulse based
what we usually want is an impulse based on who we are today I just challenge
on who we are today I just challenge
on who we are today I just challenge people don’t think bigger for yourself
people don’t think bigger for yourself
people don’t think bigger for yourself because you are a mints you are
because you are a mints you are
because you are a mints you are magnificent you are powerful beyond your
magnificent you are powerful beyond your
magnificent you are powerful beyond your current understandings so break through
current understandings so break through
current understandings so break through that another level challenge your brain
that another level challenge your brain
that another level challenge your brain to think even bigger for yourself even
to think even bigger for yourself even
to think even bigger for yourself even it’s just Evans activity to break the
it’s just Evans activity to break the
it’s just Evans activity to break the bounds of your current beliefs and
bounds of your current beliefs and
bounds of your current beliefs and behaviors you deserve something
behaviors you deserve something
behaviors you deserve something extraordinary in your life but at first
extraordinary in your life but at first
extraordinary in your life but at first you have to want it what makes a great
you have to want it what makes a great
you have to want it what makes a great person these days what really makes
person these days what really makes
person these days what really makes someone extraordinary what makes
someone extraordinary what makes
someone extraordinary what makes somebody stand out what’s going to make
somebody stand out what’s going to make
somebody stand out what’s going to make you feel like you’re contributing your
you feel like you’re contributing your
you feel like you’re contributing your best like you’re making your difference
best like you’re making your difference
best like you’re making your difference and that you’re always aspiring to be
and that you’re always aspiring to be
and that you’re always aspiring to be better human but you’re also achieving
better human but you’re also achieving
better human but you’re also achieving along the way I would argue that that
along the way I would argue that that
along the way I would argue that that thing that makes us great is generosity
thing that makes us great is generosity
thing that makes us great is generosity you know the ability to be generous to
you know the ability to be generous to
you know the ability to be generous to others with your time your attention
others with your time your attention
others with your time your attention your mentorship your care your love your
your mentorship your care your love your
your mentorship your care your love your patience your forgiveness your
patience your forgiveness your
patience your forgiveness your understanding your spirit your energy
understanding your spirit your energy
understanding your spirit your energy when you are generous with who you are
when you are generous with who you are
when you are generous with who you are people vibrate with that they feel it
people vibrate with that they feel it
people vibrate with that they feel it they sense it and they’re surprised by
they sense it and they’re surprised by
they sense it and they’re surprised by you know in a world today we’re known
you know in a world today we’re known
you know in a world today we’re known we’ll even take time to say hello or to
we’ll even take time to say hello or to
we’ll even take time to say hello or to call somebody or to show knit a measure
call somebody or to show knit a measure
call somebody or to show knit a measure of appreciation when you do that you
of appreciation when you do that you
of appreciation when you do that you stand out but you also light up in your
stand out but you also light up in your
stand out but you also light up in your soul you know it changes everything when
soul you know it changes everything when
soul you know it changes everything when you’re willing to be different when
you’re willing to be different when
you’re willing to be different when you’re willing to be generous with
you’re willing to be generous with
you’re willing to be generous with people because really you know it’s a
people because really you know it’s a
people because really you know it’s a very biblical thing ask and you shall
very biblical thing ask and you shall
very biblical thing ask and you shall receive I also think that in terms of
receive I also think that in terms of
receive I also think that in terms of career and in terms of chasing your
career and in terms of chasing your
career and in terms of chasing your dreams give and you shall receive you
dreams give and you shall receive you
dreams give and you shall receive you know give as much of your heart and your
know give as much of your heart and your
know give as much of your heart and your spirit in your life in your voice to
spirit in your life in your voice to
spirit in your life in your voice to this world this time this day this
this world this time this day this
this world this time this day this person in front of you because we only
person in front of you because we only
person in front of you because we only get one shot at this life and today it
get one shot at this life and today it
get one shot at this life and today it never happens you don’t see it you know
never happens you don’t see it you know
never happens you don’t see it you know I’m blessed to be here and shooting this
I’m blessed to be here and shooting this
I’m blessed to be here and shooting this video at my writers villa where I come
video at my writers villa where I come
video at my writers villa where I come to write and now shoot these episodes
to write and now shoot these episodes
to write and now shoot these episodes and and I can share with you you know
and and I can share with you you know
and and I can share with you you know all this when I got here and then what I
all this when I got here and then what I
all this when I got here and then what I think about this space it
think about this space it
think about this space it it came from a place position of
it came from a place position of
it came from a place position of generosity and came from a position of
generosity and came from a position of
generosity and came from a position of generosity in my life so long ago when I
generosity in my life so long ago when I
generosity in my life so long ago when I had a high school mentor mrs. Ballew who
had a high school mentor mrs. Ballew who
had a high school mentor mrs. Ballew who believed in me
believed in me
believed in me she saw me take some pictures and she
she saw me take some pictures and she
she saw me take some pictures and she said you know those pictures are pretty
said you know those pictures are pretty
said you know those pictures are pretty good even though honestly looking back
good even though honestly looking back
good even though honestly looking back they were kind of crap but she cheered
they were kind of crap but she cheered
they were kind of crap but she cheered me on anyway because I was putting
me on anyway because I was putting
me on anyway because I was putting effort and she could see how it’s kind
effort and she could see how it’s kind
effort and she could see how it’s kind of passionate about it and she said you
of passionate about it and she said you
of passionate about it and she said you know you could probably write and and
know you could probably write and and
know you could probably write and and you could probably shoot these uh you
you could probably shoot these uh you
you could probably shoot these uh you shoot these uh the photographs and I had
shoot these uh the photographs and I had
shoot these uh the photographs and I had nobody ever ever really told me I had
nobody ever ever really told me I had
nobody ever ever really told me I had any potential before and here’s this
any potential before and here’s this
any potential before and here’s this person for no reason saying you could
person for no reason saying you could
person for no reason saying you could probably do this and I started doing it
probably do this and I started doing it
probably do this and I started doing it and she’d cheer me on and cheer me on
and she’d cheer me on and cheer me on
and she’d cheer me on and cheer me on and her generosity of her time or effort
and her generosity of her time or effort
and her generosity of her time or effort or mentorship she wasn’t there was no
or mentorship she wasn’t there was no
or mentorship she wasn’t there was no reason she did it she just believed in
reason she did it she just believed in
reason she did it she just believed in me but you know what she believed in
me but you know what she believed in
me but you know what she believed in everybody around her she was always
everybody around her she was always
everybody around her she was always cheering people on always rewarding
cheering people on always rewarding
cheering people on always rewarding effort always telling people to pursue
effort always telling people to pursue
effort always telling people to pursue their passions and believe in themselves
their passions and believe in themselves
their passions and believe in themselves and I’m here today I get to do this work
and I’m here today I get to do this work
and I’m here today I get to do this work with you and millions of people see
with you and millions of people see
with you and millions of people see these videos and hear me online or watch
these videos and hear me online or watch
these videos and hear me online or watch my posts online or read my emails every
my posts online or read my emails every
my posts online or read my emails every single week because this woman who was a
single week because this woman who was a
single week because this woman who was a teacher at a simple high school in a
teacher at a simple high school in a
teacher at a simple high school in a simple town with a simple beautiful
simple town with a simple beautiful
simple town with a simple beautiful generous spirit said I believe in your
generous spirit said I believe in your
generous spirit said I believe in your kid I remember when I was going to start
kid I remember when I was going to start
kid I remember when I was going to start my business and I really wanted to be
my business and I really wanted to be
my business and I really wanted to be good at it you know I was trying to
good at it you know I was trying to
good at it you know I was trying to become an author and a speaker and do
become an author and a speaker and do
become an author and a speaker and do these types of videos and do some online
these types of videos and do some online
these types of videos and do some online training for people on the topics of
training for people on the topics of
training for people on the topics of motivation and marketing and you know
motivation and marketing and you know
motivation and marketing and you know some all these people are saying well
some all these people are saying well
some all these people are saying well Brendan you know you may or may not be
Brendan you know you may or may not be
Brendan you know you may or may not be successful that you’re you know blah and
successful that you’re you know blah and
successful that you’re you know blah and I thought weird thing it’s not like
I thought weird thing it’s not like
I thought weird thing it’s not like there’s a trait of successful people you
there’s a trait of successful people you
there’s a trait of successful people you look across history and successful
look across history and successful
look across history and successful people it’s not they’re not from a given
people it’s not they’re not from a given
people it’s not they’re not from a given background they don’t come from a
background they don’t come from a
background they don’t come from a specific economic stature they’re not in
specific economic stature they’re not in
specific economic stature they’re not in a position where you know they’re their
a position where you know they’re their
a position where you know they’re their one demographic or another Democrats all
one demographic or another Democrats all
one demographic or another Democrats all over I mean we’ve got thousands of
over I mean we’ve got thousands of
over I mean we’ve got thousands of collective years of history people
collective years of history people
collective years of history people succeed some people do some people don’t
succeed some people do some people don’t
succeed some people do some people don’t and I think it more comes down to how do
and I think it more comes down to how do
and I think it more comes down to how do we manage our mind and how do we manage
we manage our mind and how do we manage
we manage our mind and how do we manage our days and I think that there’s a
our days and I think that there’s a
our days and I think that there’s a difference between successful people and
difference between successful people and
difference between successful people and unsuccessful people in the way they
unsuccessful people in the way they
unsuccessful people in the way they particularly think about approaching
particularly think about approaching
particularly think about approaching something new
something new
something new you know I think unsuccessful people
you know I think unsuccessful people
you know I think unsuccessful people when they have a big dream and they
when they have a big dream and they
when they have a big dream and they start thinking about what’s going to be
start thinking about what’s going to be
start thinking about what’s going to be required to accomplish that dream they
required to accomplish that dream they
required to accomplish that dream they get very limiting in their beliefs about
get very limiting in their beliefs about
get very limiting in their beliefs about themselves and what’s possible and
themselves and what’s possible and
themselves and what’s possible and specifically they say three types of
specifically they say three types of
specifically they say three types of things you know the first thing they
things you know the first thing they
things you know the first thing they often say is well you know I don’t know
often say is well you know I don’t know
often say is well you know I don’t know how to do that
how to do that
how to do that so they stop they say you know I I don’t
so they stop they say you know I I don’t
so they stop they say you know I I don’t have those things so they stop or they
have those things so they stop or they
have those things so they stop or they say I don’t know you know I’m not like
say I don’t know you know I’m not like
say I don’t know you know I’m not like those people I’m not like that
those people I’m not like that
those people I’m not like that and so they stop but successful people
and so they stop but successful people
and so they stop but successful people have a different way they have the same
have a different way they have the same
have a different way they have the same thing everybody dreams you dream I dream
thing everybody dreams you dream I dream
thing everybody dreams you dream I dream successful people dream people just
successful people dream people just
successful people dream people just starting out everybody dreams everyone
starting out everybody dreams everyone
starting out everybody dreams everyone has a vision everyone if they can just
has a vision everyone if they can just
has a vision everyone if they can just take five minutes today and think about
take five minutes today and think about
take five minutes today and think about their lives we could all come up with
their lives we could all come up with
their lives we could all come up with ways to improve our lives and reach
ways to improve our lives and reach
ways to improve our lives and reach another level of success joy happiness
another level of success joy happiness
another level of success joy happiness achievement contribution fulfillment
achievement contribution fulfillment
achievement contribution fulfillment soul you know we can all elevate but the
soul you know we can all elevate but the
soul you know we can all elevate but the challenge is that them successful people
challenge is that them successful people
challenge is that them successful people they keep stopping when they think of
they keep stopping when they think of
they keep stopping when they think of what they currently know have or are but
what they currently know have or are but
what they currently know have or are but successful people say well I want to do
successful people say well I want to do
successful people say well I want to do that but I don’t know how to do that but
that but I don’t know how to do that but
that but I don’t know how to do that but instead of stopping they say well then
instead of stopping they say well then
instead of stopping they say well then my job is to go learn that they take
my job is to go learn that they take
my job is to go learn that they take their current limitation and they put it
their current limitation and they put it
their current limitation and they put it on their agenda as a job to do as a
on their agenda as a job to do as a
on their agenda as a job to do as a thing to figure out a thing to make
thing to figure out a thing to make
thing to figure out a thing to make happen
happen
happen instead of saying well I don’t have that
instead of saying well I don’t have that
instead of saying well I don’t have that they say well then my job is to go build
they say well then my job is to go build
they say well then my job is to go build that or I’m not like that then they say
that or I’m not like that then they say
that or I’m not like that then they say well then my job is to go become more of
well then my job is to go become more of
well then my job is to go become more of that become that person who could
that become that person who could
that become that person who could accomplish those things
accomplish those things
accomplish those things you know when I was starting to do
you know when I was starting to do
you know when I was starting to do online marketing for the first time and
online marketing for the first time and
online marketing for the first time and and I don’t know if you know how much of
and I don’t know if you know how much of
and I don’t know if you know how much of my story you know but when I started
my story you know but when I started
my story you know but when I started doing online marketing I was literally
doing online marketing I was literally
doing online marketing I was literally bankrupt and I went from a place of
bankrupt and I went from a place of
bankrupt and I went from a place of bankruptcy to the point where I really
bankruptcy to the point where I really
bankruptcy to the point where I really committed to becoming successful at it
committed to becoming successful at it
committed to becoming successful at it and in 18 months I made four point eight
and in 18 months I made four point eight
and in 18 months I made four point eight million dollars four point six collected
million dollars four point six collected
million dollars four point six collected I mean
I mean
I mean a huge leap right in in indifference
a huge leap right in in indifference
a huge leap right in in indifference from bankrupt to multi-millionaire in a
from bankrupt to multi-millionaire in a
from bankrupt to multi-millionaire in a span of 18 months but what made that
span of 18 months but what made that
span of 18 months but what made that breakthrough wasn’t that I had new
breakthrough wasn’t that I had new
breakthrough wasn’t that I had new opportunities it wasn’t that I had new
opportunities it wasn’t that I had new
opportunities it wasn’t that I had new technologies it was like wow there’s the
technologies it was like wow there’s the
technologies it was like wow there’s the Internet now those things were already
Internet now those things were already
Internet now those things were already there it went I went from this level of
there it went I went from this level of
there it went I went from this level of thinking to this level of thinking I
thinking to this level of thinking I
thinking to this level of thinking I used to say well I I don’t know how to
used to say well I I don’t know how to
used to say well I I don’t know how to build a webpage so I said agenda figure
build a webpage so I said agenda figure
build a webpage so I said agenda figure out how to build a webpage and I spent
out how to build a webpage and I spent
out how to build a webpage and I spent hours and hours and hours at nights on
hours and hours and hours at nights on
hours and hours and hours at nights on weekends for my job figuring out how to
weekends for my job figuring out how to
weekends for my job figuring out how to do that and I said well I don’t have one
do that and I said well I don’t have one
do that and I said well I don’t have one of those lists you know I don’t have any
of those lists you know I don’t have any
of those lists you know I don’t have any subscribers nobody knows who I am
subscribers nobody knows who I am
subscribers nobody knows who I am so I said job go build a list
so I said job go build a list
so I said job go build a list go get subscribers go add value and
go get subscribers go add value and
go get subscribers go add value and content out the marketplace and they’ll
content out the marketplace and they’ll
content out the marketplace and they’ll come I mean just keep putting stuff out
come I mean just keep putting stuff out
come I mean just keep putting stuff out there and I also didn’t say oh my gosh
there and I also didn’t say oh my gosh
there and I also didn’t say oh my gosh well I have that dream I can’t have that
well I have that dream I can’t have that
well I have that dream I can’t have that because I’m not like that because I
because I’m not like that because I
because I’m not like that because I wasn’t a public speaker I didn’t know
wasn’t a public speaker I didn’t know
wasn’t a public speaker I didn’t know how to do video I wasn’t like well I’m
how to do video I wasn’t like well I’m
how to do video I wasn’t like well I’m not one of those video people well I’m
not one of those video people well I’m
not one of those video people well I’m not a public speaker so I said you know
not a public speaker so I said you know
not a public speaker so I said you know what I have to go learn that art I have
what I have to go learn that art I have
what I have to go learn that art I have to go become a better speaker a better
to go become a better speaker a better
to go become a better speaker a better communicator I have to go become more
communicator I have to go become more
communicator I have to go become more confident I have to go become a person
confident I have to go become a person
confident I have to go become a person capable of doing these things I have to
capable of doing these things I have to
capable of doing these things I have to change myself to get there I can’t wait
change myself to get there I can’t wait
change myself to get there I can’t wait for circumstances to change so I can
for circumstances to change so I can
for circumstances to change so I can have my dream then our dreams would
have my dream then our dreams would
have my dream then our dreams would never happen we have to get to the point
never happen we have to get to the point
never happen we have to get to the point of maturity in our lives where we say
of maturity in our lives where we say
of maturity in our lives where we say okay two things going to change my life
okay two things going to change my life
okay two things going to change my life something new is going to come into my
something new is going to come into my
something new is going to come into my life and make me lucky and blessed and
life and make me lucky and blessed and
life and make me lucky and blessed and maybe I can’t count on that forever and
maybe I can’t count on that forever and
maybe I can’t count on that forever and maybe now instead I have to consciously
maybe now instead I have to consciously
maybe now instead I have to consciously design my life and say okay now if I
design my life and say okay now if I
design my life and say okay now if I want to change if I want my dream
want to change if I want my dream
want to change if I want my dream something new has to come from me I’m
something new has to come from me I’m
something new has to come from me I’m going to become a better person I’m
going to become a better person I’m
going to become a better person I’m going to become a person who is more
going to become a person who is more
going to become a person who is more optimistic who is more confident who is
optimistic who is more confident who is
optimistic who is more confident who is more driven not because I am that now
more driven not because I am that now
more driven not because I am that now but because we can grow that you can
but because we can grow that you can
but because we can grow that you can become the type of person who needs to
become the type of person who needs to
become the type of person who needs to who you need to be to achieve your ideal
who you need to be to achieve your ideal
who you need to be to achieve your ideal life you can start today living from
life you can start today living from
life you can start today living from your highest ideals your highest sense
your highest ideals your highest sense
your highest ideals your highest sense of self your strongest sense of self you
of self your strongest sense of self you
of self your strongest sense of self you don’t need permission you don’t need a
don’t need permission you don’t need a
don’t need permission you don’t need a guy like me to look at the video camera
guy like me to look at the video camera
guy like me to look at the video camera and say you have now permission but if
and say you have now permission but if
and say you have now permission but if been waiting for it you have from
been waiting for it you have from
been waiting for it you have from it’s like at some point in your life you
it’s like at some point in your life you
it’s like at some point in your life you just say okay I have permission to
just say okay I have permission to
just say okay I have permission to become my best self and by becoming your
become my best self and by becoming your
become my best self and by becoming your best self you start to achieve your best
best self you start to achieve your best
best self you start to achieve your best things you start to contribute better
things you start to contribute better
things you start to contribute better things you start to become a better
things you start to become a better
things you start to become a better human being you can do that now today so
human being you can do that now today so
human being you can do that now today so next time you’re thinking about a big
next time you’re thinking about a big
next time you’re thinking about a big dream don’t think about the things that
dream don’t think about the things that
dream don’t think about the things that well I don’t know how to do that and
well I don’t know how to do that and
well I don’t know how to do that and stop think I don’t know how so set it up
stop think I don’t know how so set it up
stop think I don’t know how so set it up on your calendar to go learn those
on your calendar to go learn those
on your calendar to go learn those things I don’t have that then set it up
things I don’t have that then set it up
things I don’t have that then set it up step by step to go build that I’m not
step by step to go build that I’m not
step by step to go build that I’m not like that then set it up step by step to
like that then set it up step by step to
like that then set it up step by step to go develop those skill sets and those
go develop those skill sets and those
go develop those skill sets and those competencies so you can become that and
competencies so you can become that and
competencies so you can become that and ultimately you can achieve that dream
ultimately you can achieve that dream
ultimately you can achieve that dream it’s there it’s waiting for you don’t
it’s there it’s waiting for you don’t
it’s there it’s waiting for you don’t stop thank you so much for watching I
stop thank you so much for watching I
stop thank you so much for watching I made this video because Priscilla asked
made this video because Priscilla asked
made this video because Priscilla asked me to so there’s a thing with
me to so there’s a thing with
me to so there’s a thing with entrepreneur that you want me to profile
entrepreneur that you want me to profile
entrepreneur that you want me to profile next leave it in the comments below and
next leave it in the comments below and
next leave it in the comments below and I’ll see what I can do I’d also love to
I’ll see what I can do I’d also love to
I’ll see what I can do I’d also love to know which of Brendon bouchard’s top 10
know which of Brendon bouchard’s top 10
know which of Brendon bouchard’s top 10 rules meant the most to you had the
rules meant the most to you had the
rules meant the most to you had the biggest impact leave it in the comments
biggest impact leave it in the comments
biggest impact leave it in the comments and I’ll join in the discussion thank
and I’ll join in the discussion thank
and I’ll join in the discussion thank you so much for watching continue to
you so much for watching continue to
you so much for watching continue to believe and I’ll see you soon
the first thing you have to do in order
the first thing you have to do in order to improve your mind is take total
to improve your mind is take total
to improve your mind is take total control of your attention and notice
control of your attention and notice
control of your attention and notice where are your thoughts right now at a
where are your thoughts right now at a
where are your thoughts right now at a very continual basis you have to think
very continual basis you have to think
very continual basis you have to think where are my thoughts right now are they
where are my thoughts right now are they
where are my thoughts right now are they supporting me or are they automatically
supporting me or are they automatically
supporting me or are they automatically coming up- and self-protective in ways
coming up- and self-protective in ways
coming up- and self-protective in ways that are not advancing my life just to
that are not advancing my life just to
that are not advancing my life just to be aware to be conscious of what’s going
be aware to be conscious of what’s going
be aware to be conscious of what’s going on in your body in your sense of feeling
on in your body in your sense of feeling
on in your body in your sense of feeling and emotion and the sense of the
and emotion and the sense of the
and emotion and the sense of the thoughts you’re actually having just
thoughts you’re actually having just
thoughts you’re actually having just start paying attention you know for a
start paying attention you know for a
start paying attention you know for a lot of people because they’ve never done
lot of people because they’ve never done
lot of people because they’ve never done this before and it’s hard to remind them
this before and it’s hard to remind them
this before and it’s hard to remind them to do it it’s like simple here’s what I
to do it it’s like simple here’s what I
to do it it’s like simple here’s what I want you to do just start paying
want you to do just start paying
want you to do just start paying attention to your thoughts anytime
attention to your thoughts anytime
attention to your thoughts anytime you’re in line any time you’re in line
you’re in line any time you’re in line
you’re in line any time you’re in line from now on if you’re in line at
from now on if you’re in line at
from now on if you’re in line at Starbucks just say I’m in line at
Starbucks just say I’m in line at
Starbucks just say I’m in line at Starbucks spread and said think about my
Starbucks spread and said think about my
Starbucks spread and said think about my thoughts what are my thoughts saying
thoughts what are my thoughts saying
thoughts what are my thoughts saying right now just checking it you’re in
right now just checking it you’re in
right now just checking it you’re in line in traffic waiting for the next car
line in traffic waiting for the next car
line in traffic waiting for the next car just sitting like what are my thoughts
just sitting like what are my thoughts
just sitting like what are my thoughts right now and just notice what you’ve
right now and just notice what you’ve
right now and just notice what you’ve been thinking about the more did we
been thinking about the more did we
been thinking about the more did we notice what we’ve been thinking about
notice what we’ve been thinking about
notice what we’ve been thinking about the more we can interrupt what we’ve
the more we can interrupt what we’ve
the more we can interrupt what we’ve been thinking about see if we just allow
been thinking about see if we just allow
been thinking about see if we just allow that feeling to keep coming up and you
that feeling to keep coming up and you
that feeling to keep coming up and you don’t pay attention to it our life can
don’t pay attention to it our life can
don’t pay attention to it our life can be very frazzled and very highly anxious
be very frazzled and very highly anxious
be very frazzled and very highly anxious but once we say what’s my mind on right
but once we say what’s my mind on right
but once we say what’s my mind on right now and we redirect it that is where
now and we redirect it that is where
now and we redirect it that is where personal power comes from first
personal power comes from first
personal power comes from first awareness right and understanding and
awareness right and understanding and
awareness right and understanding and the consciousness to what’s going on but
the consciousness to what’s going on but
the consciousness to what’s going on but then the ability now to be self
then the ability now to be self
then the ability now to be self directive to choose what we want to
directive to choose what we want to
directive to choose what we want to focus on so first we’re attentive to it
focus on so first we’re attentive to it
focus on so first we’re attentive to it and then redirect it if it’s negative
and then redirect it if it’s negative
and then redirect it if it’s negative it’s not supporting you redirected how
it’s not supporting you redirected how
it’s not supporting you redirected how do you redirect it first and foremost
do you redirect it first and foremost
do you redirect it first and foremost you just say what would be the opposite
you just say what would be the opposite
you just say what would be the opposite of this negative thing that you think
of this negative thing that you think
of this negative thing that you think about the positive thing and you focus
about the positive thing and you focus
about the positive thing and you focus on that and you repeat it to yourself
on that and you repeat it to yourself
on that and you repeat it to yourself for many people that might include
for many people that might include
for many people that might include closing their eyes just visualizing a
closing their eyes just visualizing a
closing their eyes just visualizing a more positive outcome thinking about the
more positive outcome thinking about the
more positive outcome thinking about the more positive outcome thinking about
more positive outcome thinking about
more positive outcome thinking about more positive outcome thinking about the
more positive outcome thinking about the
more positive outcome thinking about the more positive outcome focusing on with
more positive outcome focusing on with
more positive outcome focusing on with their eyes closed and that visualization
their eyes closed and that visualization
their eyes closed and that visualization of a more positive outcome of how things
of a more positive outcome of how things
of a more positive outcome of how things could turn out well or how would the
could turn out well or how would the
could turn out well or how would the situation could be better or even just
situation could be better or even just
situation could be better or even just what are the next steps I should take
what are the next steps I should take
what are the next steps I should take visualizing that and assigning a high
visualizing that and assigning a high
visualizing that and assigning a high amount of important
amount of important
amount of important thunderation to it meaning making that
thunderation to it meaning making that
thunderation to it meaning making that thing important to us by making it how
thing important to us by making it how
thing important to us by making it how do you make something important you give
do you make something important you give
do you make something important you give it a sensation you feel that thing you
it a sensation you feel that thing you
it a sensation you feel that thing you sense it you sense what your next step
sense it you sense what your next step
sense it you sense what your next step would be you sense how and feel that the
would be you sense how and feel that the
would be you sense how and feel that the outcome would be better how it feel
outcome would be better how it feel
outcome would be better how it feel emotionally psychologically spiritually
emotionally psychologically spiritually
emotionally psychologically spiritually for that thing to allow it to have a lot
for that thing to allow it to have a lot
for that thing to allow it to have a lot of emotion to it pay attention to your
of emotion to it pay attention to your
of emotion to it pay attention to your eyes close you see that thing you feel
eyes close you see that thing you feel
eyes close you see that thing you feel it you sense a different step you know
it you sense a different step you know
it you sense a different step you know what you’re going to do you pay
what you’re going to do you pay
what you’re going to do you pay attention to it and you keep focusing on
attention to it and you keep focusing on
attention to it and you keep focusing on that so we’re pure demerits keep
that so we’re pure demerits keep
that so we’re pure demerits keep focusing in keep focusing focusing when
focusing in keep focusing focusing when
focusing in keep focusing focusing when your mind automatically wants to go back
your mind automatically wants to go back
your mind automatically wants to go back to the easy which might be negative
to the easy which might be negative
to the easy which might be negative you’re you go no no no I don’t want to I
you’re you go no no no I don’t want to I
you’re you go no no no I don’t want to I don’t want
don’t want
don’t want I’m not into easy right now I’m into
I’m not into easy right now I’m into
I’m not into easy right now I’m into conditioning my mind focus focus focus
conditioning my mind focus focus focus
conditioning my mind focus focus focus focus give attention duration and
focus give attention duration and
focus give attention duration and sensation to attention duration
sensation to attention duration
sensation to attention duration sensation attention to raishin sensation
sensation attention to raishin sensation
sensation attention to raishin sensation visualization visual data visualization
visualization visual data visualization
visualization visual data visualization it’s repetition of that positive
it’s repetition of that positive
it’s repetition of that positive alternative to a negative and pulse that
alternative to a negative and pulse that
alternative to a negative and pulse that comes up that gives us personal power
comes up that gives us personal power
comes up that gives us personal power you know so many people say to me well
you know so many people say to me well
you know so many people say to me well Brendan I’m wiped out I’m tired I wish I
Brendan I’m wiped out I’m tired I wish I
Brendan I’m wiped out I’m tired I wish I had your energy or whatever one I know a
had your energy or whatever one I know a
had your energy or whatever one I know a lot of people don’t want to have my
lot of people don’t want to have my
lot of people don’t want to have my energy is too annoying I get it but what
energy is too annoying I get it but what
energy is too annoying I get it but what if we had you tap back into your life
if we had you tap back into your life
if we had you tap back into your life decision you know what if you just chose
decision you know what if you just chose
decision you know what if you just chose not for any reason not for what emotions
not for any reason not for what emotions
not for any reason not for what emotions come up in your human body because
come up in your human body because
come up in your human body because emotions just come up right your nervous
emotions just come up right your nervous
emotions just come up right your nervous system sometimes you don’t even know why
system sometimes you don’t even know why
system sometimes you don’t even know why you feel what you feel like something
you feel what you feel like something
you feel what you feel like something can be trigger you a sound a movement
can be trigger you a sound a movement
can be trigger you a sound a movement something someone says or just your
something someone says or just your
something someone says or just your physical body of what you ate a couple
physical body of what you ate a couple
physical body of what you ate a couple hours ago or how much you slept three
hours ago or how much you slept three
hours ago or how much you slept three days ago can catch up to you and your
days ago can catch up to you and your
days ago can catch up to you and your body and your motions can kind of go
body and your motions can kind of go
body and your motions can kind of go choo but we have to sing the power plant
choo but we have to sing the power plant
choo but we have to sing the power plant doesn’t have energy it generates energy
doesn’t have energy it generates energy
doesn’t have energy it generates energy what if your dominant frame said you
what if your dominant frame said you
what if your dominant frame said you know I’m going to focus on my aliveness
know I’m going to focus on my aliveness
know I’m going to focus on my aliveness and you started cultivating an aliveness
and you started cultivating an aliveness
and you started cultivating an aliveness in your body and in your mind for no
in your body and in your mind for no
in your body and in your mind for no other reason then I said so no other
other reason then I said so no other
other reason then I said so no other reason that you decided to you said you
reason that you decided to you said you
reason that you decided to you said you know what today I’m going to focus on
know what today I’m going to focus on
know what today I’m going to focus on what’s great about me but I’m also going
what’s great about me but I’m also going
what’s great about me but I’m also going to focus on being fully alive and
to focus on being fully alive and
to focus on being fully alive and engaged and president how do you do that
engaged and president how do you do that
engaged and president how do you do that just what if you just felt more grateful
just what if you just felt more grateful
just what if you just felt more grateful for the life that you had you know look
for the life that you had you know look
for the life that you had you know look you’re breathing you’re you’re you’re
you’re breathing you’re you’re you’re
you’re breathing you’re you’re you’re alive you we have this incredible gift
alive you we have this incredible gift
alive you we have this incredible gift that we’re all
that we’re all
that we’re all you’re right now you know it’s like I’m
you’re right now you know it’s like I’m
you’re right now you know it’s like I’m here you’re here what if we took that
here you’re here what if we took that
here you’re here what if we took that seriously and we started realizing what
seriously and we started realizing what
seriously and we started realizing what a gift it is to be alive we allowed
a gift it is to be alive we allowed
a gift it is to be alive we allowed ourselves to feel alive not for any
ourselves to feel alive not for any
ourselves to feel alive not for any reason no one made us happy no one did
reason no one made us happy no one did
reason no one made us happy no one did anything for us we just felt alive again
anything for us we just felt alive again
anything for us we just felt alive again and we started asking ourselves on a
and we started asking ourselves on a
and we started asking ourselves on a daily basis what level of aliveness do I
daily basis what level of aliveness do I
daily basis what level of aliveness do I feel in my body right now do I feel at a
feel in my body right now do I feel at a
feel in my body right now do I feel at a level zero like dead or do I feel like a
level zero like dead or do I feel like a
level zero like dead or do I feel like a level ten I’m fully alive fully engaged
level ten I’m fully alive fully engaged
level ten I’m fully alive fully engaged fully present and we willed ourself into
fully present and we willed ourself into
fully present and we willed ourself into feeling more alive every day it’s a
feeling more alive every day it’s a
feeling more alive every day it’s a number one question I get from all of my
number one question I get from all of my
number one question I get from all of my works like wow you have a lot of energy
works like wow you have a lot of energy
works like wow you have a lot of energy on what you do how do you get it I don’t
on what you do how do you get it I don’t
on what you do how do you get it I don’t get it I don’t find it I generated the
get it I don’t find it I generated the
get it I don’t find it I generated the power plant doesn’t have energy it
power plant doesn’t have energy it
power plant doesn’t have energy it generates it if you want to feel better
generates it if you want to feel better
generates it if you want to feel better about your life generate more aliveness
about your life generate more aliveness
about your life generate more aliveness for no other reason than you choose to
for no other reason than you choose to
for no other reason than you choose to life should be incredibly valuable to
life should be incredibly valuable to
life should be incredibly valuable to you if you really value your days like
you if you really value your days like
you if you really value your days like that day becomes valuable so because
that day becomes valuable so because
that day becomes valuable so because your day is valuable you get stuff done
your day is valuable you get stuff done
your day is valuable you get stuff done you know why a lot of people end up
you know why a lot of people end up
you know why a lot of people end up feeling really broke is because they’re
feeling really broke is because they’re
feeling really broke is because they’re not valuing their day they’re broke
not valuing their day they’re broke
not valuing their day they’re broke because they added no value to their day
because they added no value to their day
because they added no value to their day they were reaching celebrity gossip
they were reaching celebrity gossip
they were reaching celebrity gossip magazines they were screwing around
magazines they were screwing around
magazines they were screwing around online they were doing nothing that
online they were doing nothing that
online they were doing nothing that actually moved the needle in terms of
actually moved the needle in terms of
actually moved the needle in terms of their personal progress and their
their personal progress and their
their personal progress and their professional progress so value this day
professional progress so value this day
professional progress so value this day you want to make more money get serious
you want to make more money get serious
you want to make more money get serious about tomorrow value that day ask how
about tomorrow value that day ask how
about tomorrow value that day ask how you can add more value into the day
you can add more value into the day
you can add more value into the day really work the day and as you do that
really work the day and as you do that
really work the day and as you do that over and over and over again you ask how
over and over and over again you ask how
over and over and over again you ask how can I serve how can I contribute how can
can I serve how can I contribute how can
can I serve how can I contribute how can I take at the next level you do that
I take at the next level you do that
I take at the next level you do that long enough
long enough
long enough the breakthrough happens the magic
the breakthrough happens the magic
the breakthrough happens the magic happens and the money
happens and the money
happens and the money excape itself
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