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[Music] is there something you always wanted to

is there something you always wanted to

is there something you always wanted to do and you feel like you wouldn’t be

do and you feel like you wouldn’t be

do and you feel like you wouldn’t be able to die peacefully without having

able to die peacefully without having

able to die peacefully without having done it giving a TED talk is that for me

my name is her just like him and her but

my name is her just like him and her but it’s just her although I’m actually him

it’s just her although I’m actually him

it’s just her although I’m actually him if you think that’s weird or interesting

if you think that’s weird or interesting

if you think that’s weird or interesting check this out my sister is called me

check this out my sister is called me

check this out my sister is called me and I have a friend called AI who dated

and I have a friend called AI who dated

and I have a friend called AI who dated a girl called you I’m student from

a girl called you I’m student from

a girl called you I’m student from United World College Maastricht in the

United World College Maastricht in the

United World College Maastricht in the Netherlands and the video that you just

Netherlands and the video that you just

Netherlands and the video that you just saw was about a project that I did back

saw was about a project that I did back

saw was about a project that I did back home in Laos or I’m from Laos by the way

home in Laos or I’m from Laos by the way

home in Laos or I’m from Laos by the way and if you don’t know where Laos is I

and if you don’t know where Laos is I

and if you don’t know where Laos is I have a map here for you

have a map here for you

have a map here for you I brought the map because when I first

I brought the map because when I first

I brought the map because when I first came to Europe so many people asked me

came to Europe so many people asked me

came to Europe so many people asked me who I was from and I said oh those and

who I was from and I said oh those and

who I was from and I said oh those and they were like oh yeah I’ve been there I

they were like oh yeah I’ve been there I

they were like oh yeah I’ve been there I was in China last year or Thailand so

was in China last year or Thailand so

was in China last year or Thailand so the map is to show you that Lao is a

the map is to show you that Lao is a

the map is to show you that Lao is a separate country so there the project is

separate country so there the project is

separate country so there the project is called dreams givers we raised money and

called dreams givers we raised money and

called dreams givers we raised money and sent underprivileged children to school

sent underprivileged children to school

sent underprivileged children to school the reason that we called this project

the reason that we called this project

the reason that we called this project dreams givers is because my team and I

dreams givers is because my team and I

dreams givers is because my team and I believe that as children we have so many

believe that as children we have so many

believe that as children we have so many dreams and talents in life to achieve

dreams and talents in life to achieve

dreams and talents in life to achieve but so many of these dreams die because

but so many of these dreams die because

but so many of these dreams die because of one word poverty by giving the

of one word poverty by giving the

of one word poverty by giving the children the opportunity to go to school

children the opportunity to go to school

children the opportunity to go to school we help to keep those dreams alive

we help to keep those dreams alive

we help to keep those dreams alive that’s why it’s called dreams givers

that’s why it’s called dreams givers

that’s why it’s called dreams givers in order for you to truly understand why

in order for you to truly understand why

in order for you to truly understand why this project means so much to me I would

this project means so much to me I would

this project means so much to me I would like to take you back to where

like to take you back to where

like to take you back to where everything started so I was born in the

everything started so I was born in the

everything started so I was born in the countryside of Laos in a small village

countryside of Laos in a small village

countryside of Laos in a small village of around 50 families and most of them

of around 50 families and most of them

of around 50 families and most of them are illiterate rice farmers with with no

are illiterate rice farmers with with no

are illiterate rice farmers with with no income including my parents because of

income including my parents because of

income including my parents because of this three of my siblings never got the

this three of my siblings never got the

this three of my siblings never got the chance to go to school um

chance to go to school um

chance to go to school um back then my dad over there he was

back then my dad over there he was

back then my dad over there he was addicted to opium and when he didn’t get

addicted to opium and when he didn’t get

addicted to opium and when he didn’t get opium he would hit my mom with a stick

opium he would hit my mom with a stick

opium he would hit my mom with a stick until she bled and if she ran he chased

until she bled and if she ran he chased

until she bled and if she ran he chased after her through the village and

after her through the village and

after her through the village and dragged her back whoever tried to stop

dragged her back whoever tried to stop

dragged her back whoever tried to stop would get hurt too and eventually people

would get hurt too and eventually people

would get hurt too and eventually people are scared to help so they left my mom

are scared to help so they left my mom

are scared to help so they left my mom being tortured by my dad when I was five

being tortured by my dad when I was five

being tortured by my dad when I was five my parents divorced and I moved out with

my parents divorced and I moved out with

my parents divorced and I moved out with my mom because I was scared of my dad

my mom because I was scared of my dad

my mom because I was scared of my dad and I hated him for everything that he

and I hated him for everything that he

and I hated him for everything that he did to my mom and my family

unfortunately my mom didn’t have any

unfortunately my mom didn’t have any money so we saw or we grew corn and sold

money so we saw or we grew corn and sold

money so we saw or we grew corn and sold it for just enough money for me to go to

it for just enough money for me to go to

it for just enough money for me to go to school she was the only one I had left

school she was the only one I had left

school she was the only one I had left and she was both a mom and a dad to me

one day at the age of nine I walked out

one day at the age of nine I walked out of school to find my mom on a bus and

of school to find my mom on a bus and

of school to find my mom on a bus and she was on her way to the capital city

she was on her way to the capital city

she was on her way to the capital city of Laos

of Laos

of Laos she told me that she was going to the

she told me that she was going to the

she told me that she was going to the capital to get her visa to the US and I

capital to get her visa to the US and I

capital to get her visa to the US and I didn’t know what the US was

didn’t know what the US was

didn’t know what the US was so I thought she was just visiting some

so I thought she was just visiting some

so I thought she was just visiting some relatives somewhere and she would be

relatives somewhere and she would be

relatives somewhere and she would be back in a few days

back in a few days

back in a few days I thought she didn’t take me because I

I thought she didn’t take me because I

I thought she didn’t take me because I had school and she left it wasn’t until

had school and she left it wasn’t until

had school and she left it wasn’t until a few months before I realized that she

a few months before I realized that she

a few months before I realized that she was gone and she wasn’t coming back in

was gone and she wasn’t coming back in

was gone and she wasn’t coming back in school people bullied me for not having

school people bullied me for not having

school people bullied me for not having parents to protect me and I promised

parents to protect me and I promised

parents to protect me and I promised myself that when I grew up I would be a

myself that when I grew up I would be a

myself that when I grew up I would be a good father for my children and I will

good father for my children and I will

good father for my children and I will not let them suffer

not let them suffer

not let them suffer I felt I felt lost and alone without my

I felt I felt lost and alone without my

I felt I felt lost and alone without my mom so at the age of 15 I was determined

mom so at the age of 15 I was determined

mom so at the age of 15 I was determined to study English so that one day I could

to study English so that one day I could

to study English so that one day I could go and study in the US and reunite with

go and study in the US and reunite with

go and study in the US and reunite with my mom so I moved from the countryside

my mom so I moved from the countryside

my mom so I moved from the countryside to a town where my brother lives and I

to a town where my brother lives and I

to a town where my brother lives and I found out that all the English centers

found out that all the English centers

found out that all the English centers there were way beyond my financial reach

there were way beyond my financial reach

there were way beyond my financial reach but I was so determined so I wasn’t

but I was so determined so I wasn’t

but I was so determined so I wasn’t gonna give up so I took to the streets

gonna give up so I took to the streets

gonna give up so I took to the streets and literally asked foreigners to teach

and literally asked foreigners to teach

and literally asked foreigners to teach me English after school I would go back

me English after school I would go back

me English after school I would go back there and talk to people and ask them to

there and talk to people and ask them to

there and talk to people and ask them to teach me English and practice my English

teach me English and practice my English

teach me English and practice my English until 10 p.m. or 11 p.m. I did that

until 10 p.m. or 11 p.m. I did that

until 10 p.m. or 11 p.m. I did that every day

every day

every day and soon I met an American teacher who

and soon I met an American teacher who

and soon I met an American teacher who runs a nonprofit project called the

runs a nonprofit project called the

runs a nonprofit project called the smile project he teaches he teaches

smile project he teaches he teaches

smile project he teaches he teaches impoverished youth in Laos for free he

impoverished youth in Laos for free he

impoverished youth in Laos for free he teaches English and other life skills

teaches English and other life skills

teaches English and other life skills many of my friends and I have lived with

many of my friends and I have lived with

many of my friends and I have lived with him for the past 5 years and he means a

him for the past 5 years and he means a

him for the past 5 years and he means a lot to me

lot to me

lot to me he’s he’s a friend a doctor a teacher

he’s he’s a friend a doctor a teacher

he’s he’s a friend a doctor a teacher and the dead that I always wondered with

and the dead that I always wondered with

and the dead that I always wondered with his hope and the hard work that I put

his hope and the hard work that I put

his hope and the hard work that I put into studying English I was able to get

into studying English I was able to get

into studying English I was able to get a scholarship to come and study in

a scholarship to come and study in

a scholarship to come and study in Europe and make my dream a reality

Europe and make my dream a reality

Europe and make my dream a reality last week I got accepted to a university

last week I got accepted to a university

last week I got accepted to a university in the US with a full scholarship

in the US with a full scholarship

in the US with a full scholarship soon I will be seeing my mom again for

soon I will be seeing my mom again for

soon I will be seeing my mom again for the first time in 10 years today I

the first time in 10 years today I

the first time in 10 years today I experienced so many great things that I

experienced so many great things that I

experienced so many great things that I never imagined before and I deeply

never imagined before and I deeply

never imagined before and I deeply appreciate everything that my American

appreciate everything that my American

appreciate everything that my American teacher and all the foreigners taught me

teacher and all the foreigners taught me

teacher and all the foreigners taught me inspired by him and the fact that three

inspired by him and the fact that three

inspired by him and the fact that three of my siblings were denied education I

of my siblings were denied education I

of my siblings were denied education I was driven to pay forward the gift that

was driven to pay forward the gift that

was driven to pay forward the gift that I received I feel compelled to help

I received I feel compelled to help

I received I feel compelled to help other people who are in the same

other people who are in the same

other people who are in the same position I was many years ago

position I was many years ago

position I was many years ago so with this Drive I started dreams

so with this Drive I started dreams

so with this Drive I started dreams givers in January last year as of

givers in January last year as of

givers in January last year as of September 2016 we were able to send 22

September 2016 we were able to send 22

September 2016 we were able to send 22 children to school we are now currently

children to school we are now currently

children to school we are now currently a team of eight people and we we are we

a team of eight people and we we are we

a team of eight people and we we are we hope to continue sending these children

hope to continue sending these children

hope to continue sending these children into school and also put more put 10

into school and also put more put 10

into school and also put more put 10 more children each year into school so

these are pictures of their children

these are pictures of their children that we sent to school and most of them

that we sent to school and most of them

that we sent to school and most of them are from families of illiterate rice

are from families of illiterate rice

are from families of illiterate rice farmers and single moms my teacher

farmers and single moms my teacher

farmers and single moms my teacher planted a seed in me and I’ve grown so

planted a seed in me and I’ve grown so

planted a seed in me and I’ve grown so much and I hope that my project can

much and I hope that my project can

much and I hope that my project can plant seeds in these children

plant seeds in these children

plant seeds in these children and that they can and that they continue

and that they can and that they continue

and that they can and that they continue paying it forward to their communities

paying it forward to their communities

paying it forward to their communities back home

back home

back home people often forbid the daughters from

people often forbid the daughters from

people often forbid the daughters from spending Tom’s with me

spending Tom’s with me

spending Tom’s with me they said the apple doesn’t fall far

they said the apple doesn’t fall far

they said the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree

from the tree

from the tree they said I would achieve nothing in

they said I would achieve nothing in

they said I would achieve nothing in life and become like my dad

life and become like my dad

life and become like my dad I didn’t let that determine who I was

I didn’t let that determine who I was

I didn’t let that determine who I was instead I used it as a tool to motivate

instead I used it as a tool to motivate

instead I used it as a tool to motivate me to create my own future if I could

me to create my own future if I could

me to create my own future if I could come from nothing and get to where I am

come from nothing and get to where I am

come from nothing and get to where I am today

today

today you I believe you two can go out there

you I believe you two can go out there

you I believe you two can go out there and start nurturing your dreams and

and start nurturing your dreams and

and start nurturing your dreams and passions there are so many people out

passions there are so many people out

passions there are so many people out there that need the skills you have and

there that need the skills you have and

there that need the skills you have and if you have doubts and don’t want to

if you have doubts and don’t want to

if you have doubts and don’t want to believe in you believe in the people who

believe in you believe in the people who

believe in you believe in the people who believe in you thank you

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