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The Power of Human Nature | Jeff Couillard | TEDxCanmore


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[Music] ten years ago on a sunny Sunday in April

ten years ago on a sunny Sunday in April

ten years ago on a sunny Sunday in April I found myself sitting in the light of

I found myself sitting in the light of

I found myself sitting in the light of this window playing a game of Crazy

this window playing a game of Crazy

this window playing a game of Crazy Eights with some teenagers a few months

Eights with some teenagers a few months

Eights with some teenagers a few months prior I started working at this

prior I started working at this

prior I started working at this addictions treatment center out in the

addictions treatment center out in the

addictions treatment center out in the ghost wilderness only about 10

ghost wilderness only about 10

ghost wilderness only about 10 kilometers northeast of here I was just

kilometers northeast of here I was just

kilometers northeast of here I was just starting to find my crew I looked over

starting to find my crew I looked over

starting to find my crew I looked over at one of the young ladies on the couch

at one of the young ladies on the couch

at one of the young ladies on the couch who up until that point have been

who up until that point have been

who up until that point have been quietly reading her book and I noticed

quietly reading her book and I noticed

quietly reading her book and I noticed tears streaming down her face

tears streaming down her face

tears streaming down her face immediately shifting from card-playing

immediately shifting from card-playing

immediately shifting from card-playing youth worker to concern there’s

youth worker to concern there’s

youth worker to concern there’s something wrong youth worker I asked her

something wrong youth worker I asked her

something wrong youth worker I asked her if she was okay with the look in her

if she was okay with the look in her

if she was okay with the look in her eyes that was equal parts pain and

eyes that was equal parts pain and

eyes that was equal parts pain and curiosity she asked me a question I’ll

curiosity she asked me a question I’ll

curiosity she asked me a question I’ll never forget Jeff is this what happiness

never forget Jeff is this what happiness

never forget Jeff is this what happiness feels like now aside from shaking me to

feels like now aside from shaking me to

feels like now aside from shaking me to the core with the realization that

the core with the realization that

the core with the realization that someone could make it to the age of 16

someone could make it to the age of 16

someone could make it to the age of 16 and first experience happiness at an

and first experience happiness at an

and first experience happiness at an addictions treatment program this

addictions treatment program this

addictions treatment program this question sent me on a journey of

question sent me on a journey of

question sent me on a journey of interrogating some of the most basic

interrogating some of the most basic

interrogating some of the most basic truths of addiction and the helping

truths of addiction and the helping

truths of addiction and the helping profession central to this journey was

profession central to this journey was

profession central to this journey was this question what is this thing called

this question what is this thing called

this question what is this thing called addiction here I was spending half my

addiction here I was spending half my

addiction here I was spending half my life out in the wilderness we were

life out in the wilderness we were

life out in the wilderness we were taking kids rock climbing and doing

taking kids rock climbing and doing

taking kids rock climbing and doing group psychotherapy treating their

group psychotherapy treating their

group psychotherapy treating their addiction with casual conversations over

addiction with casual conversations over

addiction with casual conversations over dishes and formal sessions with the

dishes and formal sessions with the

dishes and formal sessions with the psychologist and no one that I talked to

psychologist and no one that I talked to

psychologist and no one that I talked to was able to satisfactorily answer that

was able to satisfactorily answer that

was able to satisfactorily answer that question and the logical questions that

question and the logical questions that

question and the logical questions that start to follow what is addictions

start to follow what is addictions

start to follow what is addictions treatment and why is the wilderness such

treatment and why is the wilderness such

treatment and why is the wilderness such a powerful component I’m just out of

a powerful component I’m just out of

a powerful component I’m just out of curiosity quick show of hands or nod

curiosity quick show of hands or nod

curiosity quick show of hands or nod your heads who here would consider

your heads who here would consider

your heads who here would consider addiction to be a problem in society and

addiction to be a problem in society and

addiction to be a problem in society and maybe you’ve had a close encounter

maybe you’ve had a close encounter

maybe you’ve had a close encounter yourself or a friend or a family maybe

yourself or a friend or a family maybe

yourself or a friend or a family maybe read about fentanyl overdoses every day

read about fentanyl overdoses every day

read about fentanyl overdoses every day for the past couple years it’s perfectly

for the past couple years it’s perfectly

for the past couple years it’s perfectly reasonable for us to look at it

reasonable for us to look at it

reasonable for us to look at it shouldn’t say that’s a problem we should

shouldn’t say that’s a problem we should

shouldn’t say that’s a problem we should do something about it I’m here to

do something about it I’m here to

do something about it I’m here to suggest that today addiction is not a

suggest that today addiction is not a

suggest that today addiction is not a problem

problem

problem addiction is actually a solution and we

addiction is actually a solution and we

addiction is actually a solution and we need to start looking at it like that if

need to start looking at it like that if

need to start looking at it like that if we have any hopes with dealing with it

before we get to addiction being a

before we get to addiction being a solution we need to understand some of

solution we need to understand some of

solution we need to understand some of the different ways that we’ve

the different ways that we’ve

the different ways that we’ve conceptualized addiction in society

conceptualized addiction in society

conceptualized addiction in society first is the addiction as choice model

first is the addiction as choice model

first is the addiction as choice model and that addicts are somehow morally

and that addicts are somehow morally

and that addicts are somehow morally weak lack willpower and if they would

weak lack willpower and if they would

weak lack willpower and if they would just pick up by their bootstraps

just pick up by their bootstraps

just pick up by their bootstraps things would be better this conveniently

things would be better this conveniently

things would be better this conveniently takes the burden and the blame and

takes the burden and the blame and

takes the burden and the blame and places it squarely on the people

places it squarely on the people

places it squarely on the people suffering the most the addicts

suffering the most the addicts

suffering the most the addicts thankfully about 40 years ago

thankfully about 40 years ago

thankfully about 40 years ago psychologists came out with a new

psychologists came out with a new

psychologists came out with a new definition of addiction characterizing

definition of addiction characterizing

definition of addiction characterizing it as a disease like tuberculosis or

it as a disease like tuberculosis or

it as a disease like tuberculosis or Alzheimer’s this was certainly a move in

Alzheimer’s this was certainly a move in

Alzheimer’s this was certainly a move in the right direction it reduced the

the right direction it reduced the

the right direction it reduced the stigma and most more people would be

stigma and most more people would be

stigma and most more people would be inclined to seek treatment

inclined to seek treatment

inclined to seek treatment unfortunately widespread enthusiasm for

unfortunately widespread enthusiasm for

unfortunately widespread enthusiasm for this disease model has caused us to

this disease model has caused us to

this disease model has caused us to overlook the fact that addiction has

overlook the fact that addiction has

overlook the fact that addiction has very little in common with diseases

very little in common with diseases

very little in common with diseases there’s no infectious agent like in

there’s no infectious agent like in

there’s no infectious agent like in tuberculosis there’s no pathological

tuberculosis there’s no pathological

tuberculosis there’s no pathological biological process like in diabetes and

biological process like in diabetes and

biological process like in diabetes and there’s no degenerative conditions like

there’s no degenerative conditions like

there’s no degenerative conditions like in Alzheimer’s or arthritis in fact the

in Alzheimer’s or arthritis in fact the

in Alzheimer’s or arthritis in fact the only thing that addiction has in common

only thing that addiction has in common

only thing that addiction has in common with diseases that if you don’t do

with diseases that if you don’t do

with diseases that if you don’t do something about it it tends to get worse

something about it it tends to get worse

something about it it tends to get worse here’s the American Society for

here’s the American Society for

here’s the American Society for addiction medicines definition of

addiction medicines definition of

addiction medicines definition of addiction

addiction

addiction don’t try and read it I shrunk it down

don’t try and read it I shrunk it down

don’t try and read it I shrunk it down to six point font it still takes up more

to six point font it still takes up more

to six point font it still takes up more than three slides it’s more than 2,000

than three slides it’s more than 2,000

than three slides it’s more than 2,000 words long which is longer than most the

words long which is longer than most the

words long which is longer than most the essays I wrote in high school and

essays I wrote in high school and

essays I wrote in high school and central to this definition is this term

central to this definition is this term

central to this definition is this term bio psycho social spiritual like what is

bio psycho social spiritual like what is

bio psycho social spiritual like what is that or what isn’t that isn’t that

that or what isn’t that isn’t that

that or what isn’t that isn’t that everything addiction starts to look like

everything addiction starts to look like

everything addiction starts to look like the everything in the kitchen sink

the everything in the kitchen sink

the everything in the kitchen sink disease a convenient way to legitimize

disease a convenient way to legitimize

disease a convenient way to legitimize and organize addictions treatment into

and organize addictions treatment into

and organize addictions treatment into something that’s done by professionals

something that’s done by professionals

something that’s done by professionals with advanced degrees in clinical

with advanced degrees in clinical

with advanced degrees in clinical settings and more and more so with

settings and more and more so with

settings and more and more so with medication and here we were treating

medication and here we were treating

medication and here we were treating this so-called disease by carrying heavy

this so-called disease by carrying heavy

this so-called disease by carrying heavy packs around the forest sitting around a

packs around the forest sitting around a

packs around the forest sitting around a campfire talking about our feelings and

campfire talking about our feelings and

campfire talking about our feelings and learning how to trust each other and

learning how to trust each other and

learning how to trust each other and take the risks on a high ropes course

take the risks on a high ropes course

take the risks on a high ropes course I’m not a doctor and I’m not gonna

I’m not a doctor and I’m not gonna

I’m not a doctor and I’m not gonna pretend to be one here on the Ted stage

pretend to be one here on the Ted stage

pretend to be one here on the Ted stage but this struck me is fairly unusual

but this struck me is fairly unusual

but this struck me is fairly unusual treatment for a disease fast-forward a

treatment for a disease fast-forward a

treatment for a disease fast-forward a couple of years in a mode on Vancouver

couple of years in a mode on Vancouver

couple of years in a mode on Vancouver Island

Island

Island doing a residency in a master’s program

doing a residency in a master’s program

doing a residency in a master’s program and I pop into Monroe’s use book store

and I pop into Monroe’s use book store

and I pop into Monroe’s use book store if you haven’t been it’s wonderful you

if you haven’t been it’s wonderful you

if you haven’t been it’s wonderful you should check it out and I stumble across

should check it out and I stumble across

should check it out and I stumble across this book by dr. Gao Marmont who spent a

this book by dr. Gao Marmont who spent a

this book by dr. Gao Marmont who spent a lot of his career on the Downtown

lot of his career on the Downtown

lot of his career on the Downtown Eastside and Cooper working with the

Eastside and Cooper working with the

Eastside and Cooper working with the chronically homeless and addicted people

chronically homeless and addicted people

chronically homeless and addicted people that that find their way there finally

that that find their way there finally

that that find their way there finally something that started to explain

something that started to explain

something that started to explain addiction not as choice or as disease

addiction not as choice or as disease

addiction not as choice or as disease but as a completely irrational response

but as a completely irrational response

but as a completely irrational response to someone’s context that they find

to someone’s context that they find

to someone’s context that they find themselves in to the experiences that

themselves in to the experiences that

themselves in to the experiences that they’ve had in their life that have led

they’ve had in their life that have led

they’ve had in their life that have led them there in fact it’s a way to look at

them there in fact it’s a way to look at

them there in fact it’s a way to look at addiction not as pathological but as a

addiction not as pathological but as a

addiction not as pathological but as a completely logical response to the

completely logical response to the

completely logical response to the distress and the pain that we find

distress and the pain that we find

distress and the pain that we find ourselves in fact dr. Mattei says that

ourselves in fact dr. Mattei says that

ourselves in fact dr. Mattei says that the question we should be asking

the question we should be asking

the question we should be asking ourselves is not why the addiction but

ourselves is not why the addiction but

ourselves is not why the addiction but why the pain turns out that most drugs

why the pain turns out that most drugs

why the pain turns out that most drugs of abuse are actually painkillers from

of abuse are actually painkillers from

of abuse are actually painkillers from fentanyl to heroin to alcohol and most

fentanyl to heroin to alcohol and most

fentanyl to heroin to alcohol and most of the behaviors and habits that we

of the behaviors and habits that we

of the behaviors and habits that we develop from workaholism to shopping to

develop from workaholism to shopping to

develop from workaholism to shopping to compulsively checking our smartphones as

compulsively checking our smartphones as

compulsively checking our smartphones as earnest would point out our attempts to

earnest would point out our attempts to

earnest would point out our attempts to relieve distress relieve pain I started

relieve distress relieve pain I started

relieve distress relieve pain I started to understand addiction and substance

to understand addiction and substance

to understand addiction and substance use on a continuum not as black and

use on a continuum not as black and

use on a continuum not as black and white as we thought not choice or

white as we thought not choice or

white as we thought not choice or disease as existing in the in the gray

disease as existing in the in the gray

disease as existing in the in the gray with addiction and substance use

with addiction and substance use

with addiction and substance use disorders certainly on one end but

disorders certainly on one end but

disorders certainly on one end but ceremonial uses recreational medicinal

ceremonial uses recreational medicinal

ceremonial uses recreational medicinal should probably make the list lots of

should probably make the list lots of

should probably make the list lots of different ways that we can understand

different ways that we can understand

different ways that we can understand substance use and habits in society so

substance use and habits in society so

substance use and habits in society so it’s at this point that I’ve developed a

it’s at this point that I’ve developed a

it’s at this point that I’ve developed a fairly solid theoretical understanding

fairly solid theoretical understanding

fairly solid theoretical understanding of addiction and what I thought was

of addiction and what I thought was

of addiction and what I thought was addiction unbeknownst to me I was a few

addiction unbeknownst to me I was a few

addiction unbeknownst to me I was a few short years away from taking this theory

short years away from taking this theory

short years away from taking this theory and testing it in the real world

and testing it in the real world

and testing it in the real world in early 2011 I found myself getting the

in early 2011 I found myself getting the

in early 2011 I found myself getting the night to pee a lot thirsty all the time

night to pee a lot thirsty all the time

night to pee a lot thirsty all the time rapidly losing weight and irritable yeah

rapidly losing weight and irritable yeah

rapidly losing weight and irritable yeah you guessed it diabetes 28 years old

you guessed it diabetes 28 years old

you guessed it diabetes 28 years old relatively fit and a pancreas that had

relatively fit and a pancreas that had

relatively fit and a pancreas that had suddenly stopped producing the insulin

suddenly stopped producing the insulin

suddenly stopped producing the insulin like it should now I could probably do

like it should now I could probably do

like it should now I could probably do an entire TED talk on how to scare the

an entire TED talk on how to scare the

an entire TED talk on how to scare the crap out of your healthcare professional

crap out of your healthcare professional

crap out of your healthcare professional by ignoring their advice and eating lots

by ignoring their advice and eating lots

by ignoring their advice and eating lots of bacon and butter to manage diabetes

of bacon and butter to manage diabetes

of bacon and butter to manage diabetes but this is a talk on human nature not

but this is a talk on human nature not

but this is a talk on human nature not nutrition

being diagnosed with an actual disease

being diagnosed with an actual disease forced me to look this other disease

forced me to look this other disease

forced me to look this other disease this idea of addiction squarely in the

this idea of addiction squarely in the

this idea of addiction squarely in the face I realized that my tendency to open

face I realized that my tendency to open

face I realized that my tendency to open up the freezer and reach for the ice

up the freezer and reach for the ice

up the freezer and reach for the ice cream when I was stressed out about my

cream when I was stressed out about my

cream when I was stressed out about my thesis was the exact same biological

thesis was the exact same biological

thesis was the exact same biological mechanism that drags the alcoholic to

mechanism that drags the alcoholic to

mechanism that drags the alcoholic to reach for the bottle the junkie to reach

reach for the bottle the junkie to reach

reach for the bottle the junkie to reach for the needle and earnest to reach for

for the needle and earnest to reach for

for the needle and earnest to reach for a smartphone addiction starts to look

a smartphone addiction starts to look

a smartphone addiction starts to look like actually just a glitch in the human

like actually just a glitch in the human

like actually just a glitch in the human operating system as a biological

operating system as a biological

operating system as a biological mechanism left over from our

mechanism left over from our

mechanism left over from our evolutionary past that at one point

evolutionary past that at one point

evolutionary past that at one point served a really useful purpose and it

served a really useful purpose and it

served a really useful purpose and it was now killing us

was now killing us

was now killing us you see there’s essentially two things

you see there’s essentially two things

you see there’s essentially two things that we do as humans unless lots of big

that we do as humans unless lots of big

that we do as humans unless lots of big speakers have alluded to some of this

speakers have alluded to some of this

speakers have alluded to some of this but we ease distress and we chase

but we ease distress and we chase

but we ease distress and we chase eustress distress are those cortisol and

eustress distress are those cortisol and

eustress distress are those cortisol and adrenaline those the fight flight

adrenaline those the fight flight

adrenaline those the fight flight responses that distressing circumstances

responses that distressing circumstances

responses that distressing circumstances bring bring about eustress is the other

bring bring about eustress is the other

bring bring about eustress is the other side of that coin it’s the dope and the

side of that coin it’s the dope and the

side of that coin it’s the dope and the oxytocin and the serotonin that Ernest

oxytocin and the serotonin that Ernest

oxytocin and the serotonin that Ernest was talking about so these are the two

was talking about so these are the two

was talking about so these are the two things that were constantly doing about

things that were constantly doing about

things that were constantly doing about lots of different mechanisms for this

lots of different mechanisms for this

lots of different mechanisms for this from taking a yoga class to a glass of

from taking a yoga class to a glass of

from taking a yoga class to a glass of red wine both of those ease distress

red wine both of those ease distress

red wine both of those ease distress going out climbing paddling skiing all

going out climbing paddling skiing all

going out climbing paddling skiing all these things induce eustress so it is

these things induce eustress so it is

these things induce eustress so it is eating a healthy meal and having sex and

eating a healthy meal and having sex and

eating a healthy meal and having sex and doing lines of cocaine and just as

doing lines of cocaine and just as

doing lines of cocaine and just as footsteps on a forest floor will

footsteps on a forest floor will

footsteps on a forest floor will eventually wear down a path so to to our

eventually wear down a path so to to our

eventually wear down a path so to to our habitual coping mechanisms create

habitual coping mechanisms create

habitual coping mechanisms create pathways in the architecture and the

pathways in the architecture and the

pathways in the architecture and the wiring of our brain when we find

wiring of our brain when we find

wiring of our brain when we find something that works chances are high

something that works chances are high

something that works chances are high we’re gonna do that again and again and

we’re gonna do that again and again and

we’re gonna do that again and again and again and again it’s called learning

again and again it’s called learning

again and again it’s called learning something that we’re particularly good

something that we’re particularly good

something that we’re particularly good at it turns out there are two different

at it turns out there are two different

at it turns out there are two different ways to ease distress and to chase

ways to ease distress and to chase

ways to ease distress and to chase eustress functional and dysfunctional

eustress functional and dysfunctional

eustress functional and dysfunctional glass of red wine on a Friday night to

glass of red wine on a Friday night to

glass of red wine on a Friday night to deal with the stress of their week is a

deal with the stress of their week is a

deal with the stress of their week is a pretty functional way to unwind it’s

pretty functional way to unwind it’s

pretty functional way to unwind it’s when that glass turns into a bottle or

when that glass turns into a bottle or

when that glass turns into a bottle or two and every Friday night becomes every

two and every Friday night becomes every

two and every Friday night becomes every night we call it alcoholism and it’s not

night we call it alcoholism and it’s not

night we call it alcoholism and it’s not actually alcoholism until you’ve got

actually alcoholism until you’ve got

actually alcoholism until you’ve got hangovers and liver failure and broken

hangovers and liver failure and broken

hangovers and liver failure and broken families

families

families actually the substance is the problem

actually the substance is the problem

actually the substance is the problem the substance alleviates distress it’s a

the substance alleviates distress it’s a

the substance alleviates distress it’s a solution a temporary solution for the

solution a temporary solution for the

solution a temporary solution for the distress that we’re under same thing

distress that we’re under same thing

distress that we’re under same thing happens on the eustress side of the coin

happens on the eustress side of the coin

happens on the eustress side of the coin in fact you can take something as

in fact you can take something as

in fact you can take something as beautiful and abundant and natural as

beautiful and abundant and natural as

beautiful and abundant and natural as sunshine and take it to the extreme and

sunshine and take it to the extreme and

sunshine and take it to the extreme and it becomes tanorexia the addiction to

it becomes tanorexia the addiction to

it becomes tanorexia the addiction to tanning beds all the things on that list

tanning beds all the things on that list

tanning beds all the things on that list can be functional and they can become

can be functional and they can become

can be functional and they can become dysfunctional we call these things below

dysfunctional we call these things below

dysfunctional we call these things below addiction because of the consequences of

addiction because of the consequences of

addiction because of the consequences of that repetitive behavior for maxing out

that repetitive behavior for maxing out

that repetitive behavior for maxing out our credit cards from compulsive

our credit cards from compulsive

our credit cards from compulsive shopping to checking our smartphone 100

shopping to checking our smartphone 100

shopping to checking our smartphone 100 times a day or touching it to 2600 times

times a day or touching it to 2600 times

times a day or touching it to 2600 times a day to our more traditional ideas of

a day to our more traditional ideas of

a day to our more traditional ideas of drug and alcohol abuse with this new

drug and alcohol abuse with this new

drug and alcohol abuse with this new paradigm distress eustress we start to

paradigm distress eustress we start to

paradigm distress eustress we start to see addiction everywhere and not as

see addiction everywhere and not as

see addiction everywhere and not as choice or disease but as a logical

choice or disease but as a logical

choice or disease but as a logical response to the context we find

response to the context we find

response to the context we find ourselves in the context that we’ve

ourselves in the context that we’ve

ourselves in the context that we’ve built around ourselves that is actually

built around ourselves that is actually

built around ourselves that is actually just filled with distress we used to go

just filled with distress we used to go

just filled with distress we used to go days in the wilderness without running

days in the wilderness without running

days in the wilderness without running into big stressors and when we did they

into big stressors and when we did they

into big stressors and when we did they were acute they were a bear or a

were acute they were a bear or a

were acute they were a bear or a saber-toothed tiger or a storm something

saber-toothed tiger or a storm something

saber-toothed tiger or a storm something we could fight or flee from now we’ve

we could fight or flee from now we’ve

we could fight or flee from now we’ve built an environment around ourselves

built an environment around ourselves

built an environment around ourselves that’s filled with chronic stress

that’s filled with chronic stress

that’s filled with chronic stress traffic mortgage payments social media

traffic mortgage payments social media

traffic mortgage payments social media in fact I often find myself looking out

in fact I often find myself looking out

in fact I often find myself looking out into the crowd looking for the non

into the crowd looking for the non

into the crowd looking for the non addicts and having trouble finding them

addicts and having trouble finding them

addicts and having trouble finding them outside of very young children

outside of very young children

outside of very young children mr. Howard yourself with enough distress

mr. Howard yourself with enough distress

mr. Howard yourself with enough distress and the development of habitual coping

and the development of habitual coping

and the development of habitual coping mechanism seems to become inevitable in

mechanism seems to become inevitable in

mechanism seems to become inevitable in his book chasing The Scream author

his book chasing The Scream author

his book chasing The Scream author Johann Harry spent two years going

Johann Harry spent two years going

Johann Harry spent two years going around the world looking at addiction

around the world looking at addiction

around the world looking at addiction and he writes about some of the early

and he writes about some of the early

and he writes about some of the early research on addiction that involved

research on addiction that involved

research on addiction that involved taking rats and putting them into cages

taking rats and putting them into cages

taking rats and putting them into cages by themselves offering them water and

by themselves offering them water and

by themselves offering them water and water laced with cocaine not

water laced with cocaine not

water laced with cocaine not surprisingly the rats preferred the

surprisingly the rats preferred the

surprisingly the rats preferred the cocaine

cocaine

cocaine and wasn’t until a few years later that

and wasn’t until a few years later that

and wasn’t until a few years later that a Canadian researcher dr. Bruce

a Canadian researcher dr. Bruce

a Canadian researcher dr. Bruce Alexander replicated those studies with

Alexander replicated those studies with

Alexander replicated those studies with an important twist that we began to see

an important twist that we began to see

an important twist that we began to see the true nature of addiction he created

the true nature of addiction he created

the true nature of addiction he created this place called rat Park where rats

this place called rat Park where rats

this place called rat Park where rats were free to socialize and engage with

were free to socialize and engage with

were free to socialize and engage with each other being true to their nature

each other being true to their nature

each other being true to their nature and in that environment

and in that environment

and in that environment none of the rats used the cocaine none

none of the rats used the cocaine none

none of the rats used the cocaine none of them became addicted and none of them

of them became addicted and none of them

of them became addicted and none of them died of overdoses turns out that

died of overdoses turns out that

died of overdoses turns out that addiction has nothing to do with the

addiction has nothing to do with the

addiction has nothing to do with the cocaine and everything to do with a cage

so whenever I invite you into a

so whenever I invite you into a challenge over the next couple of days

challenge over the next couple of days

challenge over the next couple of days not today because your brains are gonna

not today because your brains are gonna

not today because your brains are gonna be full but over the next couple of days

be full but over the next couple of days

be full but over the next couple of days reflect on some of the habits behaviors

reflect on some of the habits behaviors

reflect on some of the habits behaviors or substance use in your own life and

or substance use in your own life and

or substance use in your own life and ask yourself how does this make sense in

ask yourself how does this make sense in

ask yourself how does this make sense in the context that I and myself in how

the context that I and myself in how

the context that I and myself in how does this make sense as a response to

does this make sense as a response to

does this make sense as a response to distress chances are high that you’ve

distress chances are high that you’ve

distress chances are high that you’ve been spending more time at your desk

been spending more time at your desk

been spending more time at your desk doing this and sitting around the

doing this and sitting around the

doing this and sitting around the campfire more time mindlessly going from

campfire more time mindlessly going from

campfire more time mindlessly going from work to dance class to soccer practice

work to dance class to soccer practice

work to dance class to soccer practice than purposefully going nowhere more

than purposefully going nowhere more

than purposefully going nowhere more time feeling lost in this chaotic and

time feeling lost in this chaotic and

time feeling lost in this chaotic and uncertain world instead of actually

uncertain world instead of actually

uncertain world instead of actually being lost they pull me in your thoughts

being lost they pull me in your thoughts

being lost they pull me in your thoughts and if only for a moment it’s only

and if only for a moment it’s only

and if only for a moment it’s only recently that I begin to feel myself

recently that I begin to feel myself

recently that I begin to feel myself getting closer to the answer for that

getting closer to the answer for that

getting closer to the answer for that elusive question what is this thing

elusive question what is this thing

elusive question what is this thing called addiction suddenly that

called addiction suddenly that

called addiction suddenly that experience that I had on the couch ten

experience that I had on the couch ten

experience that I had on the couch ten years ago with that young lady crying at

years ago with that young lady crying at

years ago with that young lady crying at the discovery of happiness makes so much

the discovery of happiness makes so much

the discovery of happiness makes so much sense she had opened the door to her

sense she had opened the door to her

sense she had opened the door to her cage turns out that the opposite of

cage turns out that the opposite of

cage turns out that the opposite of addiction is not sobriety the opposite

addiction is not sobriety the opposite

addiction is not sobriety the opposite of addiction is connection connection to

of addiction is connection connection to

of addiction is connection connection to ourselves connection to each other

ourselves connection to each other

ourselves connection to each other connection to the world around us

connection to the world around us

connection to the world around us connection to the true power of our

connection to the true power of our

connection to the true power of our human nature the power to create habits

human nature the power to create habits

human nature the power to create habits that will ultimately destroy us habits

that will ultimately destroy us habits

that will ultimately destroy us habits that will call addiction are the power

that will call addiction are the power

that will call addiction are the power to create habits that get us a little

to create habits that get us a little

to create habits that get us a little bit closer to eustress a little more

bit closer to eustress a little more

bit closer to eustress a little more often and with fewer side-effects

suddenly the answer to that question

suddenly the answer to that question what is addictions treatment becomes

what is addictions treatment becomes

what is addictions treatment becomes much more clear and it doesn’t surprise

much more clear and it doesn’t surprise

much more clear and it doesn’t surprise me they’re taking kids out of their

me they’re taking kids out of their

me they’re taking kids out of their cages and out into the wilderness

cages and out into the wilderness

cages and out into the wilderness reconnecting them with nature and with

reconnecting them with nature and with

reconnecting them with nature and with themselves and with other people would

themselves and with other people would

themselves and with other people would have such tremendous effects doesn’t

have such tremendous effects doesn’t

have such tremendous effects doesn’t surprise me that trading our cages for a

surprise me that trading our cages for a

surprise me that trading our cages for a taste of the open air be such a powerful

taste of the open air be such a powerful

taste of the open air be such a powerful way to heal what surprises me is that

way to heal what surprises me is that

way to heal what surprises me is that most of us don’t do the same thank you

most of us don’t do the same thank you

most of us don’t do the same thank you very much

very much

very much [Applause]

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