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Love Should Not Kill | Narges Dorratoltaj | TEDxVirginiaTech


three years ago while sitting at the

three years ago while sitting at the infectious-disease class I realized for

infectious-disease class I realized for

infectious-disease class I realized for the first time HIV is not the only

the first time HIV is not the only

the first time HIV is not the only sexually transmitted disease at that

sexually transmitted disease at that

sexually transmitted disease at that time I was a 27 year old girl who was

time I was a 27 year old girl who was

time I was a 27 year old girl who was migrated from Iran and I was pursuing my

migrated from Iran and I was pursuing my

migrated from Iran and I was pursuing my PhD was I the only person who did not

PhD was I the only person who did not

PhD was I the only person who did not know anything about STDs couple months

know anything about STDs couple months

know anything about STDs couple months later one of my friend who was suffering

later one of my friend who was suffering

later one of my friend who was suffering from a very rare autoimmune disease

from a very rare autoimmune disease

from a very rare autoimmune disease which was misdiagnosed with HIV for some

which was misdiagnosed with HIV for some

which was misdiagnosed with HIV for some years called me and told me that she

years called me and told me that she

years called me and told me that she came up with the idea to raise awareness

came up with the idea to raise awareness

came up with the idea to raise awareness about sexually transmitted diseases in

about sexually transmitted diseases in

about sexually transmitted diseases in the Middle East and North Africa the

the Middle East and North Africa the

the Middle East and North Africa the spark was there and we just followed his

spark was there and we just followed his

spark was there and we just followed his signs to make sure we are not the only

signs to make sure we are not the only

signs to make sure we are not the only people who are suffering who do not know

people who are suffering who do not know

people who are suffering who do not know anything about STDs in our community we

anything about STDs in our community we

anything about STDs in our community we started to search online and we figured

started to search online and we figured

started to search online and we figured out every day 1 million people get

out every day 1 million people get

out every day 1 million people get infected with STDs and specifically in

infected with STDs and specifically in

infected with STDs and specifically in the Middle East and North Africa there

the Middle East and North Africa there

the Middle East and North Africa there are 26 million people who are infected

are 26 million people who are infected

are 26 million people who are infected with the curable STDs and it does not

with the curable STDs and it does not

with the curable STDs and it does not include herpes or HPV the two most

include herpes or HPV the two most

include herpes or HPV the two most prevalent STDs worldwide back then we

prevalent STDs worldwide back then we

prevalent STDs worldwide back then we were five grad students with one aim we

were five grad students with one aim we

were five grad students with one aim we wanted to provide educational

wanted to provide educational

wanted to provide educational information for the people who may not

information for the people who may not

information for the people who may not have access to information about STDs or

have access to information about STDs or

have access to information about STDs or sexual health either because lack

sexual health either because lack

sexual health either because lack because of lack of education or the

because of lack of education or the

because of lack of education or the stigma associated with this topic we

stigma associated with this topic we

stigma associated with this topic we started to translate some information

started to translate some information

started to translate some information from CDC up-to-date and other reliable

from CDC up-to-date and other reliable

from CDC up-to-date and other reliable sources that we

sources that we

sources that we new and modify them to make them

new and modify them to make them

new and modify them to make them culturally appropriate for our target

culturally appropriate for our target

culturally appropriate for our target population which were Farsi speaking

population which were Farsi speaking

population which were Farsi speaking people all around the world if you don’t

people all around the world if you don’t

people all around the world if you don’t know the native language of your on the

know the native language of your on the

know the native language of your on the country that will come from is Persian

country that will come from is Persian

country that will come from is Persian or Farsi and then one year later after

or Farsi and then one year later after

or Farsi and then one year later after that call we launched our website the

that call we launched our website the

that call we launched our website the first educational website about STDs and

first educational website about STDs and

first educational website about STDs and sexual health in Farsi in the control s

sexual health in Farsi in the control s

sexual health in Farsi in the control s website people can educate themselves

website people can educate themselves

website people can educate themselves about the sexual health and STDs also

about the sexual health and STDs also

about the sexual health and STDs also they can ask their question anonymously

they can ask their question anonymously

they can ask their question anonymously from our volunteer group of physicians

from our volunteer group of physicians

from our volunteer group of physicians so considering the fact that there is a

so considering the fact that there is a

so considering the fact that there is a stigma associated with the STDs in our

stigma associated with the STDs in our

stigma associated with the STDs in our community we provided the most important

community we provided the most important

community we provided the most important feature of our website which is letting

feature of our website which is letting

feature of our website which is letting people to ask their questions and our

people to ask their questions and our

people to ask their questions and our volunteer physicians would answer their

volunteer physicians would answer their

volunteer physicians would answer their questions within 24 hours and we used

questions within 24 hours and we used

questions within 24 hours and we used the social media channels of course the

the social media channels of course the

the social media channels of course the popular ones in Iran to promote the

popular ones in Iran to promote the

popular ones in Iran to promote the services that we provide and it’s

services that we provide and it’s

services that we provide and it’s amazing if you know that after two years

amazing if you know that after two years

amazing if you know that after two years since we started this service our

since we started this service our

since we started this service our physicians answered more than 12,000

physicians answered more than 12,000

physicians answered more than 12,000 questions and although we let people to

questions and although we let people to

questions and although we let people to stay anonymous only 19 percent of the

stay anonymous only 19 percent of the

stay anonymous only 19 percent of the people who asked questions from us

people who asked questions from us

people who asked questions from us decided to not release their identity

decided to not release their identity

decided to not release their identity and contact information also for

and contact information also for

and contact information also for providing a better and more focused

providing a better and more focused

providing a better and more focused services to our audience we started to

services to our audience we started to

services to our audience we started to analyze the data that we got and what we

analyze the data that we got and what we

analyze the data that we got and what we observed was a significant difference

observed was a significant difference

observed was a significant difference that we were seeing in the questions

that we were seeing in the questions

that we were seeing in the questions that are coming from females and males

that are coming from females and males

that are coming from females and males females usually ask us questions when

females usually ask us questions when

females usually ask us questions when they are experiencing symptoms or they

they are experiencing symptoms or they

they are experiencing symptoms or they and they don’t feel comfortable to see

and they don’t feel comfortable to see

and they don’t feel comfortable to see the physicians and they were afraid of

the physicians and they were afraid of

the physicians and they were afraid of to do that on the other hand males

to do that on the other hand males

to do that on the other hand males usually

usually

usually protest when they have had sex in risky

protest when they have had sex in risky

protest when they have had sex in risky sexual behavior and they are really

sexual behavior and they are really

sexual behavior and they are really worried about their sexual health and

worried about their sexual health and

worried about their sexual health and they’re wondering if they got infected

they’re wondering if they got infected

they’re wondering if they got infected with any form of STDs we were providing

with any form of STDs we were providing

with any form of STDs we were providing through and comprehensive information

through and comprehensive information

through and comprehensive information about the sexual health and STDs in our

about the sexual health and STDs in our

about the sexual health and STDs in our website but we were missing a very

website but we were missing a very

website but we were missing a very important group of people in Iran who

important group of people in Iran who

important group of people in Iran who did not have access to the Internet so

did not have access to the Internet so

did not have access to the Internet so our team members decided to go back home

our team members decided to go back home

our team members decided to go back home in Iran and then run some in-person

in Iran and then run some in-person

in Iran and then run some in-person workshops to make that goal possible we

workshops to make that goal possible we

workshops to make that goal possible we started to design some visually

started to design some visually

started to design some visually appealing educational material with the

appealing educational material with the

appealing educational material with the content that is appropriate for the

content that is appropriate for the

content that is appropriate for the people with different levels of the

people with different levels of the

people with different levels of the education these workshops are meant to

education these workshops are meant to

education these workshops are meant to be interactive and we talk about the

be interactive and we talk about the

be interactive and we talk about the signs and symptoms of the STDs the

signs and symptoms of the STDs the

signs and symptoms of the STDs the available treatment and most importantly

available treatment and most importantly

available treatment and most importantly prevention methods and at the very end

prevention methods and at the very end

prevention methods and at the very end of the workshops people can ask

of the workshops people can ask

of the workshops people can ask questions from the Midwife or the

questions from the Midwife or the

questions from the Midwife or the physician of our team couple months

physician of our team couple months

physician of our team couple months after we started running these workshops

after we started running these workshops

after we started running these workshops about the STDs in Iran we figured out

about the STDs in Iran we figured out

about the STDs in Iran we figured out that we cannot ignore the overlap

that we cannot ignore the overlap

that we cannot ignore the overlap between the STDs reproductive health and

between the STDs reproductive health and

between the STDs reproductive health and child sexual abuse and we came to that

child sexual abuse and we came to that

child sexual abuse and we came to that conclusion after getting many questions

conclusion after getting many questions

conclusion after getting many questions about basic concepts of the sexual

about basic concepts of the sexual

about basic concepts of the sexual health also we had lots of personal

health also we had lots of personal

health also we had lots of personal stories from the people who experience

stories from the people who experience

stories from the people who experience child sexual abuse in their life so we

child sexual abuse in their life so we

child sexual abuse in their life so we decided to expand our program and added

decided to expand our program and added

decided to expand our program and added two other series of workshop the puberty

two other series of workshop the puberty

two other series of workshop the puberty or sexual health workshops and also the

or sexual health workshops and also the

or sexual health workshops and also the child sexual abuse prevention workshops

child sexual abuse prevention workshops

child sexual abuse prevention workshops in the puberty or reproductive health

in the puberty or reproductive health

in the puberty or reproductive health workshops we run some workshops for the

workshops we run some workshops for the

workshops we run some workshops for the parents and all

parents and all

parents and all so for the kids who may go through the

so for the kids who may go through the

so for the kids who may go through the puberty who are going through the

puberty who are going through the

puberty who are going through the puberty and let them know what are they

puberty and let them know what are they

puberty and let them know what are they should expect from this period of their

should expect from this period of their

should expect from this period of their time and one thing that we were really

time and one thing that we were really

time and one thing that we were really that was really important for us was

that was really important for us was

that was really important for us was that to make that puberty stage of life

that to make that puberty stage of life

that to make that puberty stage of life fun and let the people to enjoy this

fun and let the people to enjoy this

fun and let the people to enjoy this period don’t be afraid don’t be mad and

period don’t be afraid don’t be mad and

period don’t be afraid don’t be mad and just just enjoy the time that they are

just just enjoy the time that they are

just just enjoy the time that they are experiencing enjoy the changes but for

experiencing enjoy the changes but for

experiencing enjoy the changes but for the child sexual abuse workshops we have

the child sexual abuse workshops we have

the child sexual abuse workshops we have different approach we have two series of

different approach we have two series of

different approach we have two series of workshops for the adults and also for

workshops for the adults and also for

workshops for the adults and also for the children during the adult workshops

the children during the adult workshops

the children during the adult workshops we focus on the importance of knowing

we focus on the importance of knowing

we focus on the importance of knowing who are the potential abusers we let

who are the potential abusers we let

who are the potential abusers we let parents know that usually abusers are

parents know that usually abusers are

parents know that usually abusers are the people who their parents trust and

the people who their parents trust and

the people who their parents trust and are very close to the children we talk

are very close to the children we talk

are very close to the children we talk about the common scenarios that abusers

about the common scenarios that abusers

about the common scenarios that abusers used to get close to the children what

used to get close to the children what

used to get close to the children what are the signs and symptoms that a child

are the signs and symptoms that a child

are the signs and symptoms that a child who has experienced child sexual abuse

who has experienced child sexual abuse

who has experienced child sexual abuse may show and if they come across any

may show and if they come across any

may show and if they come across any person who are experiencing these

person who are experiencing these

person who are experiencing these problems what they need to do how to

problems what they need to do how to

problems what they need to do how to manage the situation to minimize the

manage the situation to minimize the

manage the situation to minimize the problem and most importantly we talk

problem and most importantly we talk

problem and most importantly we talk about the prevention methods but for the

about the prevention methods but for the

about the prevention methods but for the children workshops we have the different

children workshops we have the different

children workshops we have the different approach we do not have any lecture

approach we do not have any lecture

approach we do not have any lecture style workshop but what we do we start

style workshop but what we do we start

style workshop but what we do we start with reading some books about how to say

with reading some books about how to say

with reading some books about how to say no how to protect their private part

no how to protect their private part

no how to protect their private part what is the difference between the good

what is the difference between the good

what is the difference between the good touch and bad touch and then to

touch and bad touch and then to

touch and bad touch and then to emphasize the concepts that we talked

emphasize the concepts that we talked

emphasize the concepts that we talked about we do some interactive games we

about we do some interactive games we

about we do some interactive games we ask kids to identify the private parts

ask kids to identify the private parts

ask kids to identify the private parts and also we focus on the importance of

and also we focus on the importance of

and also we focus on the importance of protecting it

protecting it

protecting it and one of another game that we have in

and one of another game that we have in

and one of another game that we have in the workshop is that input the

the workshop is that input the

the workshop is that input the importance of the personal space let

importance of the personal space let

importance of the personal space let them know that you have the right to

them know that you have the right to

them know that you have the right to protect yourself by having the personal

protect yourself by having the personal

protect yourself by having the personal space and at the very end of the

space and at the very end of the

space and at the very end of the workshops encourage children to draw a

workshops encourage children to draw a

workshops encourage children to draw a picture to have the take home message

picture to have the take home message

picture to have the take home message with them forever

with them forever

with them forever two years ago when we started this

two years ago when we started this

two years ago when we started this program we were five graduate students

program we were five graduate students

program we were five graduate students with no funding or support and our aim

with no funding or support and our aim

with no funding or support and our aim was empowering the next generation we

was empowering the next generation we

was empowering the next generation we heard so many notes and it took a lot of

heard so many notes and it took a lot of

heard so many notes and it took a lot of effort to convince people to believe in

effort to convince people to believe in

effort to convince people to believe in our vision but today after three years

our vision but today after three years

our vision but today after three years we are not alone anymore

we are not alone anymore

we are not alone anymore we are expanding every day and a really

we are expanding every day and a really

we are expanding every day and a really good group of young educated people are

good group of young educated people are

good group of young educated people are joining us and put the heart in the work

joining us and put the heart in the work

joining us and put the heart in the work that we are doing I believe there are

that we are doing I believe there are

that we are doing I believe there are not many people in this audience that

not many people in this audience that

not many people in this audience that can read Farsi or Persian but this is a

can read Farsi or Persian but this is a

can read Farsi or Persian but this is a sample of the message that we receive

sample of the message that we receive

sample of the message that we receive every day from different people a person

every day from different people a person

every day from different people a person got HPV vaccine another one gets tested

got HPV vaccine another one gets tested

got HPV vaccine another one gets tested for the STDs other person got treatment

for the STDs other person got treatment

for the STDs other person got treatment a girl do learned about our program let

a girl do learned about our program let

a girl do learned about our program let her partner know about it and they

her partner know about it and they

her partner know about it and they decided to educate themselves through

decided to educate themselves through

decided to educate themselves through our website and these are the things

our website and these are the things

our website and these are the things that are motivating us and then cause

that are motivating us and then cause

that are motivating us and then cause that we stay here and don’t give up and

that we stay here and don’t give up and

that we stay here and don’t give up and before leaving the stage I want to ask

before leaving the stage I want to ask

before leaving the stage I want to ask every one of you to join us with your

every one of you to join us with your

every one of you to join us with your spark and let’s have the revolution for

spark and let’s have the revolution for

spark and let’s have the revolution for the sexual health education

the sexual health education

the sexual health education no one should left behind because of

no one should left behind because of

no one should left behind because of lack of education in her life thank you

lack of education in her life thank you

lack of education in her life thank you [Applause]

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